How to Be Alone

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024

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  • @AnthonyHirsch
    @AnthonyHirsch 4 года назад +3823

    Dude you need to stop predicting the future 😂😂

    • @miriamsalazar3136
      @miriamsalazar3136 4 года назад +11

      So you just gonna call out my childhood with your thumbnail like that?

    • @ellapyongyang5648
      @ellapyongyang5648 4 года назад +36

      He needs to make GOOD predictions, then they will hopefully happen 😂😂

    • @tinkerbelle6936
      @tinkerbelle6936 4 года назад +6

      @@ellapyongyang5648 That was the point of everyone learning how to be alone

    • @gertrud8274
      @gertrud8274 4 года назад

      Endgame

    • @diariodecaru
      @diariodecaru 4 года назад

      Yes wtf nat

  • @lindseystogner7586
    @lindseystogner7586 4 года назад +1608

    “It’s hard to be present when the present sucks” I felt that on a deep level

    • @LeLeonTanis
      @LeLeonTanis 4 года назад +24

      i suppose the present on a global scale sucks, but right now right here, you're probably fine, healthy and sitting in a room inside your house. thats good enough!
      i think we shouldnt want to be present in the whole world at once, be present in like the room you're in and you might feel less anxiety from stressful situations

    • @judith5783
      @judith5783 4 года назад +2

      The fact that I read this comment right as he said it.

    • @kyonas6047
      @kyonas6047 4 года назад +2

      I feel like some times i be so happy that everyone in my life gave me the things that i wanted

    • @anayotothe
      @anayotothe 4 года назад

      That part hit me!

  • @samanthat575
    @samanthat575 4 года назад +495

    My plan was to socialise more this year because I have previously spent too much time alone but the world had a different plan I guess.

    • @LemonSte
      @LemonSte 4 года назад +4

      SAME

    • @Boristien405
      @Boristien405 4 года назад +9

      Don't wait until an opportunity passes you by! This has been a wake up call for lots of us. Hopefully in a way we can all be better people following this

    • @uglyafrodite
      @uglyafrodite 4 года назад +1

      make some internet friends dude!!

    • @Beautifullyaberrant
      @Beautifullyaberrant 4 года назад +1

      You can still reach your goal!

    • @DIGITALGH05T
      @DIGITALGH05T 4 года назад

      i was looking forward to spring break cuz i live in sf but i got a friend who goes to davis and she was gonna come back for spring break and i was hoping to chill
      the most bittersweet part is she made it to sf but like a day later, self-qurantined....she lives in practically the same neighborhood as me and we cant hang...but least shes stuck at home vs her dorm, or well i imagine thats better

  • @YazzysHomeVideos
    @YazzysHomeVideos 4 года назад +172

    Wow Nathan, didn't realize this was all your fault. That's wild bro.

  • @sanaa_
    @sanaa_ 4 года назад +43

    "it be hard to be"- Nathan Zed, 2020

  • @nope_118
    @nope_118 4 года назад +3

    What I like to do is the opposite of meditating. Just writing everything down that comes to my mind. No matter how little sense it make. Just allowing yourself to have this storm of thoughts and getting them out on paper.
    Like Shrek said, better out than in

  • @beyondviolet
    @beyondviolet 4 года назад +23

    As an introvert that is still too young to move out, the only hard part about being at home is hearing how much everyone else is freaking out

  • @ZoeViola5353
    @ZoeViola5353 4 года назад +7

    "It is very easy for you to lie to you"
    I felt that. But I probably didn't. I'm lying to myself.

  • @unavailable2705
    @unavailable2705 4 года назад

    I liked hearing you talk just to talk. It was actually really nice and relatable in a way I haven’t seen before.

  • @tinydancer1232
    @tinydancer1232 3 года назад +1

    “But It’s hard to be present when the present sucks.”

  • @marmiteghost
    @marmiteghost 4 года назад +1

    "It be hard to be. What can I say?"
    that's a senior quote right there

  • @Magnetopear
    @Magnetopear 4 года назад

    Great video, Nathan! I definitely agree. Even though this is a horrible, difficult and uncertain time for everyone I like how it's forced everyone to finally slow down. It's helped me focus on what really matters in my life and to have time to reflect and take care of myself. Hope you're well, man! Stay safe.

  • @imanispencer2425
    @imanispencer2425 2 года назад

    My brother just showed me your channel. Definitely binged for hours. Top tier content (and comedic editing).🎯💎

  • @jevonbernard681
    @jevonbernard681 4 года назад +1

    bro you have been my favorite youtuber for 4-5 years don't stop you're magical.

  • @Infinite_Repeat
    @Infinite_Repeat 2 года назад

    Bro I relate to you on so many levels man mostly because we share the same first name but honestly you’re videos just hit different you’re funny and you always make videos I need to hear please keep it up.

  • @TheDaphne56
    @TheDaphne56 4 года назад

    I’ve been rewatching your old videos so thank you for this new content king 🙏🏾

  • @m.donez8
    @m.donez8 3 года назад +2

    And now we’re almost 11 months into quarantine😭

  • @dollarama5604
    @dollarama5604 4 года назад +4

    Nathan: Some of y'all have unlimited social battery
    Me, who has actually fallen asleep, completely sober, on the couch at a party: 👀

  • @VENIKA
    @VENIKA 4 года назад

    Love your perspective on all of this, one thing I was doing before this was just writing down 2 or 3 sentences about what happened in my day and how it made me feel. I definitely fell off but am going to pick it back up. Really important to focus on the present and the things that are actually real.

  • @TulipsToKiss
    @TulipsToKiss 4 года назад

    as somebody under the ace/aro umbrella, YOU GET ME NATHAN. you get me.

  • @klea220
    @klea220 4 года назад +22

    Well apparently i already know how to do that since the lockdown hasn’t affected me at all lmao

  • @alicep.n.508
    @alicep.n.508 4 года назад

    loved the video . I really got u when u said u always have to keep your mind busy , but the thing is that u can't scape yourself , so its better just to take sometime to listen . Thanks for the advice

  • @saab1399
    @saab1399 4 года назад

    ily Nathan I literally check yesterday to see if youve been alive and here we are

  • @Zeynepchen
    @Zeynepchen 4 года назад

    I really needed this. Thank you.

  • @katelindonnelly3202
    @katelindonnelly3202 4 года назад +1

    today I thought to myself, "I really need a new Nathan Zed video" and here we are

  • @KatrinaIshabel
    @KatrinaIshabel 4 года назад

    Why are more people not watching this guy?? The best videos. Thoroughly entertained.

  • @theangrycheeto
    @theangrycheeto 4 года назад +1

    Contrapoints said you're such a mood

  • @tonitalks
    @tonitalks 4 года назад

    How do you keep predicting the future??!??!?!?!? but for real you really articulated exactly how I've been feeling lately - its a madness

  • @trapezoidmon
    @trapezoidmon 4 года назад +1

    Nathan, you should read a book called “How to do Nothing.” I just finished it, and it provides a very compelling way to think through and contextualize a lot of the issues you bring up in this video. It’s a really really good book

  • @Adamvs100
    @Adamvs100 4 года назад +1

    *Reads title* Oh don’t worry, I’m already an expert

  • @jjordan95
    @jjordan95 3 года назад

    I needed this video. I’m so glad I clicked.

  • @rehimawoldegiorgis3481
    @rehimawoldegiorgis3481 4 года назад +1

    6:04 “the anxxiIiIiieEeEtTyY”

  • @mzl8643
    @mzl8643 4 года назад +1

    man said he was playing spiderman game to just walk around and shake hands lool

  • @robertofontiglia4148
    @robertofontiglia4148 4 года назад

    6:30 that sweet old school los santos sound. You gotta love this stuff.

  • @denisesanders6027
    @denisesanders6027 4 года назад

    Well I found someone to listen to ,besides myself ,it's alright to be alone ,but it's not good when you start talking to yourself and then you start answering yourself. I watched all my movies ,over 100 times, because I don't like streaming, I watch my movies on my DVD/ Blu-ray. It's ok being alone ,you can do whatever you want ,you can look like whatever you want to look like , you can say whatever you want ,and no one can judge you.

  • @_naumi
    @_naumi 4 года назад +1

    Huuuge agree on the whole people pressuring others to be productive during the quarantine! Some people are really gung-ho on developing a new skill or hobby during this time and that's great! But trying to pressure others into it like "if you're not a master at something new after this then you wasted ur time!" like EXCUSE ME? LET ME TRY AND SURVIVE HELLO????

  • @mariahgunn7101
    @mariahgunn7101 4 года назад

    Loved this video can definitely relate to what you are talking about.

  • @dolo3654
    @dolo3654 4 года назад

    Glad to hear you're doing well!

  • @TheSuperWeird1
    @TheSuperWeird1 4 года назад

    This has been my favorite channel for almost five years. Nathan and I are the same age. BUT I HAVE NEVER RELATED TO A VIDEO MORE.

  • @pxnktxrtlelistens1528
    @pxnktxrtlelistens1528 4 года назад +4

    This like to dislike is godly. Instant sub cause I respect

  • @Caro.vroomvroom
    @Caro.vroomvroom 4 года назад

    I still think about this video😪

  • @amalberhan9890
    @amalberhan9890 4 года назад

    HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY KING

  • @kawaiikace
    @kawaiikace 4 года назад

    the present is where all your potential lies 🙏🏼✨

  • @SoulSugarJoint
    @SoulSugarJoint 4 года назад

    Sir, I am CACKLING

  • @JiixBooks
    @JiixBooks 4 года назад

    The introvert energy in this is peaking

  • @ReneeBrownVids
    @ReneeBrownVids 4 года назад

    The Spider-Man video game thing was sooooo hilarious what the heck

  • @nissirey7733
    @nissirey7733 4 года назад

    nathan zed manifested quarantine

  • @hjetnhgklhg
    @hjetnhgklhg 4 года назад

    Contrapoints brought me here. Thank you, Natalie!

  • @TheLifeOfRei
    @TheLifeOfRei 4 года назад

    man, you are amazing. keep doing you.

  • @soberakin9415
    @soberakin9415 4 года назад +2

    Sooo nathan is an accidental psychic

  • @bigtimerusher5446
    @bigtimerusher5446 4 года назад

    So happy you uploaded 💕

  • @shieldon530
    @shieldon530 4 года назад +1

    i love your videos nathan i always try to be sure to click on the ads idk if it helps but i hope so 😂

  • @elisiamangiacotti7001
    @elisiamangiacotti7001 4 года назад

    way to go nathan youve ruined my summer

  • @anmolgill3921
    @anmolgill3921 3 года назад

    1:15 that was damn accurate

  • @daisydottie9252
    @daisydottie9252 4 года назад +1

    A appreciate that sponge bob reference

  • @SenorEscaso
    @SenorEscaso 4 года назад +1

    5:52
    "Ok yeah, well I graduated a year ago, but I-"
    Sounds like you were about to say that your job search went about as well as mine. :/

  • @asmaabdv
    @asmaabdv 4 года назад

    the power of the tongue wow

  • @darag.3584
    @darag.3584 4 года назад

    HE DID IT AGAIN

  • @kat6613
    @kat6613 4 года назад

    can't believe nathan invented meditation

  • @MS-dh9gh
    @MS-dh9gh 4 года назад

    I’d hug you with a hazmat suit on

  • @cerie3964
    @cerie3964 4 года назад +1

    the social battery part really hit different 😭 not long lasting at ALL

  • @Mcartemis3000
    @Mcartemis3000 4 года назад

    Ngl I needed this

  • @musicbydeborah
    @musicbydeborah 4 года назад

    I love the thumbnail❤

  • @teddyburberry
    @teddyburberry 4 года назад

    if it wasn't for nash grier, i would not be watching you

  • @parkerstewart8841
    @parkerstewart8841 4 года назад +1

    How to be alone:
    Me: it’s simple be me

  • @AmberLynn1199
    @AmberLynn1199 4 года назад

    Hit em with that 1 Corinthians 7 stuff. It’s good not to have to worry about pleasing other people! Lol
    I can totally relate to what you’re saying in this vid. Thanks for always keeping it real, and for always finding a way to fit your Obama impression into videos that have no context for it 🙌😂

  • @coreyisaiah
    @coreyisaiah 4 года назад

    Zed pulled these clips from the archives of my memory banks 😂

  • @samariasylvester402
    @samariasylvester402 3 года назад

    "It be hard to be" hahahah

  • @musicfreakruchika
    @musicfreakruchika 4 года назад

    That indian TV serial music in the beginning really caught me off guard.

  • @kikea.3929
    @kikea.3929 4 года назад

    The spongebob reference. A classic

  • @Kebar40
    @Kebar40 4 года назад

    Wowww Nathan you really brought this to 2020 🤣🤣🙄

  • @bluejeanbabey
    @bluejeanbabey 4 года назад +2370

    thats three times now that nathan has prophesized the following year's disaster and im done saying coincidence. dude is straight up oracle at this point.

    • @deeppurplecutie
      @deeppurplecutie 4 года назад +44

      What were the other times? (I'm relatively new to his channel, excuse my ignorance)

    • @comraderain4684
      @comraderain4684 4 года назад +25

      Oracle or cause? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

    • @maddie77933
      @maddie77933 4 года назад +121

      Chellie Bee celebrity deaths, Donald trump presidency, and natural disasters you need to watch the old ones they’re so good

    • @Jocelyn12700
      @Jocelyn12700 4 года назад +42

      Chellie Bee watch his bring it/leave it videos in chronological order. hilariously accurate each year

    • @deeppurplecutie
      @deeppurplecutie 4 года назад +3

      Oh okay, thanks y'all!! 😊

  • @TheThirdPew
    @TheThirdPew  4 года назад +2579

    not gonna lie yall bring it // leave it might have to be cancelled

    • @ishotbytim
      @ishotbytim 4 года назад +141

      If the Simpsons was a person

    • @Bru.Na.
      @Bru.Na. 4 года назад +14

      You think?

    • @sashabell2390
      @sashabell2390 4 года назад +26

      Thank you this is actually scary

    • @blupeppers6437
      @blupeppers6437 4 года назад +70

      Next time use your unlimited powers of manifestation for good, for example I'd like 10 million dollars please

    • @nunotorres6314
      @nunotorres6314 4 года назад +7

      When are going to reveal that you have reality altering superpowers, like this year is going swel for you! Like how? You most change reality subconciosly, teach me!!!

  • @heylauren5484
    @heylauren5484 4 года назад +1755

    Where are all my “I like being alone but not feeling alone” people at ✋🏽

    • @thc4825
      @thc4825 4 года назад +45

      Wheres my "I've been alone and don't feel no difference" people at

    • @DLeuther14
      @DLeuther14 4 года назад +4

      The Hate Comment that’s me

    • @ahmedhayek4585
      @ahmedhayek4585 4 года назад +10

      who tf likes feeling alone lmao

    • @xoxdid
      @xoxdid 4 года назад +3

      @@ahmedhayek4585 Where are all my "I've been alone and this is the cherry on top of the turd cake" people at

    • @thamonster
      @thamonster 3 года назад +2

      YOOOO

  • @yuh5124
    @yuh5124 4 года назад +831

    As a shareholder of the Single Black Woman Association of America, I can confirm that being alone is the moveeee

    • @RaetheSaint
      @RaetheSaint 4 года назад +23

      Hope M how do I become an official member?

    • @yuh5124
      @yuh5124 4 года назад +68

      Rachelle Saint-Louis girl simple, love ya own company n don’t give af😌

    • @chinnyegbuna1618
      @chinnyegbuna1618 4 года назад +10

      so wise ✊🏾

    • @greencupid1232
      @greencupid1232 4 года назад +2

      it's lit :D

  • @kelseybee123
    @kelseybee123 4 года назад +377

    "Why would I want to talk to five people at the same time? Period."
    --Nathan Zed, The King of Introverts/Antisocials

    • @sevildogan1807
      @sevildogan1807 4 года назад +2

      pretty sure hes an extrovert

    • @kelseybee123
      @kelseybee123 4 года назад +8

      @@sevildogan1807 I think so too, but that's such an introverted quote.

    • @not-identified
      @not-identified 4 года назад +5

      Wouldn't it be 'asocial'?

    • @kelseybee123
      @kelseybee123 4 года назад +2

      @@not-identified You're right! I've actually never heard that word before, but I just looked it up. I think either term works.

  • @one_smol_duck
    @one_smol_duck 4 года назад +330

    "I don't have an obligation to talk to anyone"
    This is what I live for lmao

  • @vee7398
    @vee7398 4 года назад +470

    this really did put a smile on my face though, depression's been eating ya girl UP

    • @lou8391
      @lou8391 4 года назад +10

      I like this
      I feel like I've found my people
      This is less lonely
      Take care of yourselves ♥️

    • @vee7398
      @vee7398 4 года назад +5

      @@lou8391 aw 🥺 (high school musical tone) WE'RE ALL IN THIS TOGEEETHER, lol. take care love 💕

    • @vee7398
      @vee7398 4 года назад +1

      @@Trinlove & THAT'S ON THE PERIODIC TABLE, LUV!! 💁🏾‍♀️

    • @vee7398
      @vee7398 4 года назад +1

      @@Trinlove love you, hun!! i know how difficult it can be but I'm so SO proud that you were able to shift your mindset! I'm so glad that you have these goals for yourself :'). also, remember that the bad days are completely normal! it's all a part of the journey 😉. here if you ever need someone to talk to 😊💓

    • @vee7398
      @vee7398 4 года назад

      @@Trinlove no problem 🤗💞

  • @BVpinkninja
    @BVpinkninja 4 года назад +326

    When I needed him the most the king showed up 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @carlypena5751
    @carlypena5751 4 года назад +251

    girl, u have done it again, constantly raising the bar for us all and doing it flawlessly. I’d say I’m surprised but I know who you are.
    Welcome back, Nathan :))

  • @ManeYousuf447
    @ManeYousuf447 4 года назад +104

    I ain’t shaking no bodies hand after this wisdom

  • @ishotbytim
    @ishotbytim 4 года назад +321

    Day 76 of quarantine: When did you become an expert on astro nuclear physics?
    *"Last night."*

    • @akaJXG
      @akaJXG 4 года назад +18

      iShotbyTim I understood that reference

    • @cammyoungblood
      @cammyoungblood 4 года назад +17

      @@akaJXG I understood the reference about you understanding that reference

    • @samaribrahim6157
      @samaribrahim6157 4 года назад +1

      RIP tony

  • @gabrielletrentacosta515
    @gabrielletrentacosta515 4 года назад +67

    “I don’t understand how some of y’all have an unlimited social battery” i’ve never related to a quote so hard

    • @BHanif1996
      @BHanif1996 4 года назад

      Gabrielle Trentacosta yes my “friend” is constantly trying to talk to me. And I always just tell her, “I’m playing the game.” Because I usually am.

  • @chinnyegbuna1618
    @chinnyegbuna1618 4 года назад +93

    you predict the future every year bruh you gotta be more careful. I haven’t seen sunlight in two months AND my hairline’s messed up

  • @polkadotgum
    @polkadotgum 4 года назад +82

    the fact that i’m honestly quite comfortable in quarantine is kinda sad sometimes bc it reminds me that before this all happened i never really left my house to hang out or anything anyways lmao. but all this has given me time to focus on anything creative i’ve been wanting to do, and it seems to be the same for many other people so that’s p cool

    • @RomanZolanski123
      @RomanZolanski123 4 года назад +3

      Dude same boat..l I had been technically “self isolating” since New Years... I knew March was going to be busy with a lot of birthdays and parties so I basically took of seeing people for Jan and Feb to prepare... and then it never happened. Now weekends I can stay home and relax and not have to feel guilty about it because everyone else is in the same situation. It’s a really weird positive for me.

    • @belliwatching
      @belliwatching 4 года назад +5

      i'm so happy reading this, i've felt like such a bitch telling people i feel awesome when they ask how i am!! if anything i'm nostalgic just thinking of when this will all end... i've just been studying for my online exams and doing the reflecting i didn't have enough time to do because of classes, but otherwise this is just classic spring break for me. all i know is that i need to prepare for how bad my anxiety will be when the world reopens, but for now i try to focus on the progress i've made on the mental health front and read a lot more books than usual. hopefully we can all keep a little bit of quarantine xp with us after the world reopens!

    • @SIKKOMANDRAKE
      @SIKKOMANDRAKE 4 года назад +2

      Same. I’m home schooled any way, so I’ve had more than enough time to be patient with myself and reflect on things that public school restricted me from. And now, I have four plant children growing so that’s a plus :)

  • @kikea.3929
    @kikea.3929 4 года назад +125

    “NATHAN I NEED YOUR HELP BEING SINGLE”😭

  • @tomclements1801
    @tomclements1801 4 года назад +140

    Zed sounds like red which is a colour

  • @anjali7037
    @anjali7037 4 года назад +101

    He reminds me of old youtube
    And I like it

    • @bubeudeh
      @bubeudeh 3 года назад +3

      literally why i love him so much

  • @doddleoddle
    @doddleoddle 4 года назад +78

    just bc you think it doesn’t mean it’s FRIKKIN REaliTY correct

  • @Brigister
    @Brigister 4 года назад +37

    bro i can't believe it finally somebody talking about the joys of not having to talk to or text anyone. the lack of stress that comes from not being in a relationship. this reminded me why i've been a fan for 5+ years for real my dude u make a video once every solar eclipse but it's always worth the wait

  • @sukayna4899
    @sukayna4899 4 года назад +152

    new girl is the BEST SHOW and NO ONE EVER TALKS ABOUT IT

    • @Brigister
      @Brigister 4 года назад +3

      preach

    • @zaras9486
      @zaras9486 4 года назад +3

      it's SO GOOD YES

    • @elliinspace
      @elliinspace 4 года назад +9

      New Girl is so fucking underrated, it make cry laugh even after watching it 25 times

    • @miche8868
      @miche8868 4 года назад +8

      the crack / aquarium rocks episode had me in tears

    • @sukayna4899
      @sukayna4899 4 года назад +2

      Michelle F LMFAOAO that’s a good one

  • @Darb2005
    @Darb2005 4 года назад +54

    0:56 as a homeschooler I approve this message. I’m doing a lot better than my public school friends 😂. But honestly it is still a big change

  • @ddebjayy
    @ddebjayy 4 года назад +78

    how’d this man predict a pandemic💀🤣

  • @ashleyokp
    @ashleyokp 4 года назад +51

    this is the perfect time to watch avatar the last airbender but I'm in high school with online classes so

  • @chuyvp
    @chuyvp 4 года назад +64

    Mfs really don’t know how to be alone

  • @zehra1012
    @zehra1012 4 года назад +50

    I think you should read "How to Do Nothing: Resisting the Attention Economy"-- super interesting and relevant for anyone who's on social media and especially for these crazy times!!

  • @SantanaMoss15
    @SantanaMoss15 4 года назад +156

    “Yesterday is history,
    tomorrow is a mystery,
    but today is a gift...
    that's why it is called the ‘present’”
    ― Master Oogway

    • @TheGabygael
      @TheGabygael 4 года назад +4

      I'm pretty sure "gift" means poison in german

    • @TheGabygael
      @TheGabygael 4 года назад

      So all gift is not necessarily appreciated

    • @galek75
      @galek75 4 года назад +2

      @@TheGabygael Appreciation means nothing. It's still a gift.

  • @Jocelyn12700
    @Jocelyn12700 4 года назад +91

    *nathan:* i like being alone, i binge-watched new girl, my social battery runs out
    *me, an INFP who 100% relates:* DROP THE MYERS-BRIGGS MY GUY

    • @Jocelyn12700
      @Jocelyn12700 4 года назад

      Journey with Trinity HELL YEAH!

    • @Jane-mb8jj
      @Jane-mb8jj 4 года назад

      YES! Happy to see other infps here

    • @nocando89
      @nocando89 2 года назад

      I think he's an ENTP but who knows.

  • @ojdidit4586
    @ojdidit4586 4 года назад +45

    So great seeing your face man. And honestly I couldn’t imagine being in a relationship right now I know there’s tons of positives to it. But I would lose my mind if somebody was under me or FaceTiming me 24/7 during this quarantine. 💀. Side note: I’m turning 25 in June and my cruise just got canceled for that month. I’m sad as hell about it but then again I’m getting my money back 😭🔥

  • @cheyennemarie7075
    @cheyennemarie7075 4 года назад +21

    7:07 - You have to look within yourself to save yourself from your other self. Only then will your true self, reveal itself

    • @cheyennemarie7075
      @cheyennemarie7075 4 года назад

      Avanthi Chen indeed it was! Early season 3 Zuko is a mood