I’m not planning on having kids any time soon if ever, I don’t even really like babies or kids, but I am 100% invested in your journey to becoming parents 🤣 I always click your videos so fast! Xx
@@evelyngomez2723 I don't think all of them end up with kids as I have many aunts that don't have kids ;) but I'm not even saying never who knows, that's not my dream anyway but maybe I will want at some point . :)
Heyyy Carys! More of a suggestion for busybee maybe but stilllll: Been watching a load of your old busybee videos and I was wondering whether you could maybe do a reaction video to one of your old fitness vlogs as I believe you have said before how you used to be super anxious about food and macros and your weight whereas now you are so much more free. I think it would be so interesting to see you look back at your old videos and see how your attitude to fitness has changed into a more loving and healthy relationship with your body and food!
If recommended a nursing chair with a higher back or a head rest for when you’re tired and you can relax. The one you’re looking at doesn’t look the most comfortable and that’s the key! Xxx
Guys! Don't apologise for all the baby content! This is your journey and we're here to enjoy it with you :D Enjoy every moment and the classic white furniture set is gorgeous! Practical too with the larger chest of drawers option. I recently bought the Flip Xt3 bundle and I cannot wait to push my baby around in it :D
As someone who used to work at Mothercare, for mattresses I would always recommend getting the best one you can afford! A baby’s back is developing so much so they need the best mattresses they can have 😊 even more important than adult mattresses! X
Yes to this, unless you are watching your baby like a hawk they aren’t recommended. They can increase the risk of SIDS due to the extra cushioning dulling their wake up response and movements xx
@@heatherjane4760 I agree with this but many aren’t aware that they are unsafe. Even when watching your baby sleep the increased risk of SIDS is still there. It’s just down to each individual what risks they choose to take, but informed risks are safer than not being made aware in the first place. It’s the same with the rockers really, some love them and some wouldn’t touch them with a 10 foot pole 🤷🏻♀️x
Highly recommend the Sleepyhead. We have both sizes too. My little one slept a dream in it. We did have him in it overnight, although people may disagree with that. The point I think, is that a SIDS happens with or without a Sleepyhead. It’s a sad but 100% true fact. Our little one slept through the night from 5 weeks and that was down to the Sleepyhead - definitely one of our best buys. We went for the Bugaboo buggy and also love that. Our furniture is Mamas and Papas, still in perfect condition, three years later. You have to get a chair/bouncer/rocker. It’s very practical. The best one in my opinion is the Mamaroo. It moves just like “a mama would” rather than vibrating or swinging. My little one suffered with bad colic and reflux and it help an absolute treat. Plus it was handy whilst you’re eating dinner or trying to get ready. Xxx
100% need the rocker, was my life saver!!! But also it is good for baby self soothing and so they don't rely on you putting them to sleep will help you in the long run
Sleepyhead was an absolute life saver and the ‘newborns live in baby grows’ totally depends on the parents, literally I loved dressing my baby girl up (while she let me!) congratulations to you both xxx
The automatic rocket is so helpful. The ones that have the ability to have toys hanging are the best option in my opinion. The rocker just gives you the option to place the baby down and give you time to clean or eat or whatever you need while still comforting them while rocking or just allowing them to reach up and play with the toys. I know a play mat can do that too but in the rocker you won’t need to worry about the dog or anything laying too close or accidentally stepping on the baby or playing too close if you need to look away for a moment.
Gives me nightmares even if used how recommended it's still risky, and I'm not sure why anyone would risk it (I used to work in research in this area too). I'm sure Carys and James will do the right research, fingers crossed anyway! X
Just googling it! I think that they’re saying it’s unsafe for sleeping in unaccompanied by an adult? We NEVER intended to let the baby sleep in a sleepyhead but only as an extra place to put the baby during the day when we’re chilling with it and watching it all the time ☺️
@@JamesandCarys I think that's a perfect idea and what we have always recommended if anyone uses them. We often say even if accompanied by an adult they shouldn't be life to sleep in them overnight (as if you are co-sleeping in the same bed) because if the parents are a sleep they cannot be classified as 'supervising'. I think day times to keep little one from rolling anywhere and out of reach from Mila would work well for you guys! But also there are some great cheaper alternatives too which the same recommendations and safety ratings X
Also car seat shouldn’t be used on the chassis. It’s incredibly dangerous should only be used for the car. Why they make adaptors for it to attach is beyond me
A Boba wrap is a life saver and is excellent for longer walks bc babies get tired of strollers but love being snuggled up to you. Also excellent for getting stuff done around the house when baby wants held.
Closer to your due date i would recommend you to buy yourself only a couple tiny baby(keep tags on) to put into your baby bag, along side new born just in case you need tiny baby, my second was 6lb6oz (they estimated she would have been 8/9lbs) and didn’t fit in any of her new born stuff. Xx
I used the nuna leaf grow for my daughter it wasn’t electric but the weight of the baby keeps it swinging for a while before u need to give it a nudge again. Plus it adapts as baby grows to ‘normal’ seat - my daughter still loves sitting in it at 20 months 😁
My baby loved his. Just be cautious but I’m sure every product has horror stories you have to go with you’re own instinct whilst keeping other experiences in mind
So exciting! I have 2 children and have a mama and papas pram for my youngest i love it! Little bit of advice, for a play mat, although not your cup of tea try get the brightest most interactive one you can find, babies don't enjoy neutral to play with 🥰 that nursing chair is gorgeous but one with a higher back where you can rest your head is essential for night feeds! Rocker is 100% a must have!! And finally, please don't get a sleepy head even for just chilling on the sofa it only takes a minute to get distracted by the TV and baby to roll and suffocate they're so dangerous, we had a next to me upstairs and bought a cheap moses basket for downstairs for baby to sleep and it was fab! Good luck with everything, yous will be amazing! xxx
Electric rockers are the most amazing thing! Especially ones that are at an incline because most babies tend to have a little reflux when they’re younger! Up until 2-3 months it won’t cause any negative sleep associations and by 3 weeks my daughter was sleeping in the crib every night and during her naps (she refused to sleep in any bassinets we got her so a camera monitor was a MUST). It gives mama a break to nap while baby does. One last note, if you’re a worried parent, swings are great because they’re strapped in and secure and me and my fiancé didn’t feel the need to obsessively check on her to make sure she was ok because she was right next to us being soothed.
Our baby is almost 2 weeks old and already we think that the rocker/swing has been our best purchase. We got the Joie Serina 2-in-1. She loves motion and hates being put down so when we are having dinner etc. The swing is perfect 😊
I’m a mum who works for mamas and papas! All the clothing is suitable for newborns, you’ll need a pramsuit (the fluffy all in one) it’ll keep her snuggly warm in the carrycot! Don’t get a electric rocker!! I’m anti rocking unless you really need to, babies like adults are creatures of habit, you’ll be rocking that little lady till she’s 3!! I have the ocarro (bought before working for them) it’s the best thing I’ve ever bought and it’s doing my second baby now, and the cloud Z car seat with it is the BEST!! Plus you can keep the isofix base for the next stage car seat which swivels! It’s the only infant carrier on the market with a swivel base!🙌🏼 You’ll get sick of baby being in babygrows for 3 months! Buy the outfits!!! Baby grows are PJ’s to me 🤷🏼♀️ x
Get the automatic rocker. Sometimes you need just a minute to Go to the bathroom or get something from the stove where you want to be able to put them down for a moment while you just don’t want to/it’s not safe to hold them and if they are rocked they might relax while you do what had to be done.
Totally agree- I am a health visitor and we cannot recommend their use. Go get info from the lullaby trust website. Put baby on a safe flat surface with an appropriate mattress. 👍
I am also a health visitor and completely agree. Sleepyheads are definitely not safe for baby. Lullaby trust is such an informative website so please do go check it out
Buy 0-3 clothes. Limited newborn. They grow so quick! I recommend a colourful play mat for sensory purposes, the plain colours are literally just for the aesthetics of today. Get bright colours/black and white. You’ll enjoy dressing baby for the day she won’t always be in babygrows what I do is keep them just for bedtime. Next clothes are the ones that last the shortest amount of time, they come up small/tight especially the babygrows!! The best ones I found are Asda and Primark they have lasted the longest, wash the best too. My baby girl is just coming upto 3 months and these are things I’ve found xx
Which is annoying from next considering they’re more of the pricey side. Cheaper has been better in my opinion and especially considering how fast they grow and the money that essentially is wasted for a one time outfit haha! Also once washing and drying the grows, stretch the feet. I found the feet shrivel up for some reason?!
Also for newborn sleepers/baby grows see if you can find the one with the fold over mittens piece instead of buying newborn mittens because they fall off and get lost so easily. So handy and baby prefers them way more, and less face scratches ☺️
I think it's only respectful to be not the type of person who just walks in and starts vlogging tbh it's a good thing so don't worry and absolutely creasing at Cary's saying after the baby's gone 😂 aw love you both and can tell how excited you are about it 💖
I had a little 'rocker' that I used whenever I was cooking, cleaning, using the potty, etc. I would put it near the door so I could see baby when I was dealing with necessities. I would recommend one. It's a place to put baby at those times things need to get done and you want to have them within reach.
The sleepy heads aren't recommended, plus stuff like that aren't needed, my daughter was happy with a V pillow and a blanket on the floor 😂 same with rockers, I had a battery one for my daughter and she hated it 🙄😂 you also want to get 0-3 months rather than too many newborn as they really don't fit in them for long, my daughter was out of newborn before she left the hospital😂 xx
I did a Mamas and Papas shopper experience and I cried the whole way through. So shocked you contained yourselves from tears!!! When I had my little girl, about 70% of her toddler outfits were mamas and papas and the rest were morrisons and tesco. Morrisons and tesco bub clothes are AMAZING! Considering they’re supermarket as well!
We got the snuzpod and the sleepyhead.... both were great! I know a lot of HV are not keen on the sleepyhead but it was great for short naps whilst you did bits around the house.... also when you go to peoples houses who don’t have ‘baby friendly’ furniture/rooms etc... plus it saves your tired arms too! Snuzpod we always brought downstairs in the day.... it’s really light! Although hubs helped out the first few weeks lifting it (post baby - ouch).... can’t wait to see more of your finished nursery! Our second lil girl is due 7th April..... 😀
My baby girl is 13 weeks and the electronic rocker was a life saver!! Even to just have somewhere to set her so you’re able to grab something to eat or have a shower or something I definitely recommend them!
Hey, sleep is important ! Lollll I need a lot of sleep too, can’t imagine when you’re growing a lil bub! I’m always just a better person and have a better life when I get enough sleep like 10 hours
The Next to me is a great bedside cot, the side comes down too and compared to the snooze it’s really portable. Really good if you need to stay anywhere within the first 6-9 months (quite a small baby).
We used a battery powered swing for both our girls. God send!! Second one we brought a new one. But we got one that started as a swing with music etc and then as they got older it was a chair for them. Ideal to get things that grow with the baby. Loving the vlogs. Good luck. Xx
You absolutely want the rocker! It was a lifesaver when our little was smaller. We used ours constantly. Also, don't feel like you have to put your baby is nothing but body suits. I made sure our little guy was always completely dressed from the day he came to us (we began fostering him at 2 months) and now that he is 2 years old I never have to fight with him about wearing clothing. Also, look into an under mattress foam wedge for the crib. It's helps a lot to keep the baby's head slightly elevated while sleeping. Especially if you have a baby who is prone to spitting up after eating.
Those next baby grows are adorable. Just in my experience, depending on the size of your baby they really aren’t in newborn/first size very long so I would recommend stocking up on lots of 0-3. Also the electric swing is a god send. My little boy wasn’t keen as a newborn, he just wanted to be held all the time but from about 3 months he loved it. He’s 5 month now and has a little nap in there midday while I do dishes etc. Definitely recommend xxx
Ngl this makes me extremely broody, but I’m just so anxious to have a baby not so much being pregnant just the labour really...so excited for you guys tho!💗
Rockers are fine for new borns and depending on your baby she may love or hate them. Mine loved them. Both of mine had heartburn/gerd bad so the rocker and swing was a lifesaver for them and me. You could tell laying in them even without swinging was much more comfortable for them.
I don’t know if this has been mentioned yet or not but I just watched this vlog - for a play mat you may want to consider something bright and multiple patterns as the colors and patterns will help stimulate baby’s brain early on.
Sleepy heads are fab but check the safe sleeping guidelines before you purchase - and look out for Mila when you’re not in the room, our dog struggles to work out the difference between the sleepy head and his bed 😂😂. In terms of rocker, all the advice we were given was to wait until baby arrives and then try them out in them because some babies love them and some hate them and they are super pricy!
Personally I'd wait until she is here to get a rocker. I spent hundreds on one for my girl and she didn't like going in it 🤦♀️ or just keep receipt lol play pens are good too. If you needed to leave room for a moment or 2. I got the travel play pen filled with toys to grab etc....
Definitely a plug in swing is the way to go. The battery ones die to fast. You can't be there to manually rock the baby at all times. Sometimes they are the only way you can get anything done. Love you guys!
This makes me want a baby but i won’t cos i am 14! I am so excited for you! Also i am a second child so if you have a second you will find out that you don’t buy nearly as much for them xx
It’s good to buy 0-3 months as she will grow quickly. My niece was in 0-3 after 3 weeks as was born 8 pounds.. a rocker is also a really good idea to because it does help settle the baby when ur eating etc and just nice for them to have a nap in too and keep them in the rocker ( when they abit older ) for comfort x
My sister had that next to me cot, she had twins last year and it was used constantly, it was the downstairs cot at first and then they had a non rocking one for the bedroom (well two when they got bigger and couldn't fit in one anymore!) honestly get as many baby grows and clothes as possible, you'd be surprised how many you go through!
You two are getting so excited!! Brought me back 24 years when your brought out the babygrows they are so sweet, with you on the frills and beads, take care stay safe xx
We have the entire ‘hello world’ range from Mamas & Papas 🙈 elephants are adorable! We also have the Chicco Next 2 You crib which I thoroughly recommend. Plenty of space for baby to grow 😊 Also, definitely recommend buying future sizes in clothing when you find something you like. My little boy has just moved into 3-6 months and it was fab already having a full wardrobe! We bought an expensive electric bouncer/rocker and my boy will sit in it for a little while. He has a classic bouncer at his nanny’s house and loves that so much more as it bounces more with every little movement he does xx
The swing was a life saver for me with both of my kids. As much as you want to, you can't spend all day rocking them and some times that's all they want so it's nice to have for when you need to make dinner or something.
Your baby needs to sleep in your room at the beginning so she can match your breathing while she sleeps! It helps her learn to breathe while asleep. Hope this helps!
@@JamesandCarys Been watching yoi guys for a while and no joke... the day I saw your first pregnant video, i was thinking "I wish i could be pregnant this month" and the next day..... i found out I was pregnant!!!! I think you guys helped hahhh. I am currently just over 8 weeks pregnant now :) xx
Swings (rockers) are an absolute godsend for when you need to get stuff done around the house, it keeps baby really calm and its super helpful to get them to sleep! The baby swing was one of my best purchases when mine were babies :)
Why don't you give away all that stuff to people who really can't afford it when you guys could easily buy it all yourselves? That would be a nice thing to do...
To a certain point i agree! Its something that bothers me with influencers (like obviously you would accept) but i remember having to budget ect to save up for a pram and then people get given stuff for free 😭 when others struggle
@@mejustme720 Exactly!! It's ridiculous when those that can afford it very easily get gifted stuff while other families, especially in these times, are having to scrape together the pennies
I can just picture Mila loving the sleepy head and the soft cushy play mat. I definitely would recommend a baby swing or rocker. I prefer the swing because it can be used for longer. Love your choice of furniture.
Electric rocker for sure!! I’ve got the mamaroo. You do not want to have to be rocking the rocking, when your trying to have a shower, make dinner do a little laundry etc
my friend had an electrical rocker and ALWAYSSSSS used it!!!! it was good for when they wanted the baby to go to sleep but didn't settled well in the crib straight away. the rocker helped because they would usually fall asleep in the rocker then move them from the rocker to the crib when they have fallen asleep. in my opinion, soooooo much better for a routine for your baby! so they know when it is nap time and they get used to this from an early age. i also did health and social care at college and routines for babies are better if it is introduced from an early age, otherwise it takes them months and months (or even years!) to get used to a daily routine. i hope this helps xxxx
I'd say get 0-3! My nieces were only in newborn for about 2 weeks then they were too small! Especially when they had been hot washed and dried they srink up, my nieces were 5.6 for reference! Oh and baby grows with built-in mittens! Saves so many wee scratches to their wee faces etc, those were used most in their house!
Highly reccommend getting an electric rocker (or baby swing here in north america). My daughter developed colic and she would ONLY settle in the swing and or sleep in it. She almost slept in the swing for a month. Its absolutely a LIFE SAVER!! 😊😊
Would 100% recommend the next to me crib!! Life saver in the first six months!! Me and my partner got a chicco next to me crib and it was fantastic, the side came down and you could adjust the height of it to the height of your bed ❤️❤️xx
ROCKERS ARE AMAZING! I have a 2.5 year old and am about to have my second on 6th April and I will be getting another rocker. It’s not about neglecting the baby to have you time, it’s about the baby having a safe spot to keep them comfy and also a place that you can feel comfortable putting them while you do housework/cook dinner/watch tv etc. I highly recommend them from my experience and all of my friends that have bubs too.
The rocker is amazing for times when baby is awake but can’t be held. Maybe while cooking or cleaning and go electric for sure so you can just peek at baby and not constantly have to stop what you’re doing for another push.
Don’t underestimate places like Asda/ Tesco etc for baby clothes, they do some adorable stuff!!
Asda and next have the same designer, I only know because I use to work at next on the baby department x
Sainsbury’s too
Sainsbury’s clothes are great
I have so many good clothes from Tesco F&F, and every time I was in there I saw sooooo many cute baby clothes. they have some pretty amazing stuff.
Each time I go in I contemplate having another child just to dress them 😂
Just had an idea - you could bring out a baby merch version of YAE but instead of it meaning ‘you are enough’ it could be ‘you are everything’
I LOVE this idea!!!!!!!!!
Love it too. They really need to see this!!
In cat sizes too? Asking for a friend
Stoppppp this is adorable I’d so buy it for my future family!
Omg love this idea, hope they see this 😀❤️
As soon as I hear “Hello guys” that’s it, my day is made 😁
Awww this comment made us smile so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️ means a lot to us thank you Amy!!
@@JamesandCarys I’m glad I could make you guys smile for a change 🥺🥰
I’m not planning on having kids any time soon if ever, I don’t even really like babies or kids, but I am 100% invested in your journey to becoming parents 🤣 I always click your videos so fast! Xx
Omg same 🤣 x
Freya Weston ???
That’s what all girls says but they end up with kids.
@@evelyngomez2723 not every girls says that, and not every girl has kids! Some people genuinely don’t want kids and others do. Either is fine :)
@@evelyngomez2723 I don't think all of them end up with kids as I have many aunts that don't have kids ;) but I'm not even saying never who knows, that's not my dream anyway but maybe I will want at some point . :)
The elephant thing is because elephants are very nurturing and loving to their babies
And as a whole family group... Grandparent elephants etc, beautiful caring intelligent animals. X
Heyyy Carys! More of a suggestion for busybee maybe but stilllll: Been watching a load of your old busybee videos and I was wondering whether you could maybe do a reaction video to one of your old fitness vlogs as I believe you have said before how you used to be super anxious about food and macros and your weight whereas now you are so much more free. I think it would be so interesting to see you look back at your old videos and see how your attitude to fitness has changed into a more loving and healthy relationship with your body and food!
I know if she made a video like that I would watch and I think it would help me
I hope my future baby daddy is as sweet, kind, patient, respectful and excited as James! He’s a dream type of guy!! 💖✨😋
Rocker over sleeping pillow, you can bring the bedside bed downstairs.
I’m a Grandparent of 7 and have 5 children of my own. Babies loved to be rocked. I highly recommend a baby rocker.
Haha James is so cute! I don’t think he realises how fast babies grow! She’ll be in 3-6 months in no time ❤️
I was thinking this
Yeah she be in them in 3 to 6 months 😂
Not all baby’s grow fast though! My little girl is almost 9 months and has only just gone into 3-6 x
@@jadeclements9672 or even faster depending on how quickly she gains weight or grows in length!
Also the best baby clothes are in like Morrison’s/Sainsbury’s/Asda/Tesco!
If recommended a nursing chair with a higher back or a head rest for when you’re tired and you can relax. The one you’re looking at doesn’t look the most comfortable and that’s the key! Xxx
Look at Lucy Jessica Carter’s early videos where she had the twins in electronic rockers and how much of a god send they were !
Aww all the little baby clothes so cute so excited for a little mini carys and James she’s gonna be beautiful 🥰
I know ahhhh! Aw you’re so kind boo thank you xxxxxx
Guys! Don't apologise for all the baby content! This is your journey and we're here to enjoy it with you :D Enjoy every moment and the classic white furniture set is gorgeous! Practical too with the larger chest of drawers option. I recently bought the Flip Xt3 bundle and I cannot wait to push my baby around in it :D
With the electric rocker my newborn didn’t like it at the start , but loves it now at 10 weeks!!!❤️
Sleepyhead would not recommend the rocker definitely yes and also a baby sling love baby clothes could buy all of them.stay safe stay beautiful ❤️
As someone who used to work at Mothercare, for mattresses I would always recommend getting the best one you can afford! A baby’s back is developing so much so they need the best mattresses they can have 😊 even more important than adult mattresses! X
Sleepyheads are not recommended by the lullaby trust, they aren’t safe for even supervised sleeping X
Sleepy heads aren’t recommended anymore. There’s been a lot of research on them and they’re just not as safe as they should be x
Yes to this, unless you are watching your baby like a hawk they aren’t recommended. They can increase the risk of SIDS due to the extra cushioning dulling their wake up response and movements xx
Sleepyhead has never recommended for their product to be for unsupervised sleep, people do that of their own back!
@@heatherjane4760 I agree with this but many aren’t aware that they are unsafe. Even when watching your baby sleep the increased risk of SIDS is still there. It’s just down to each individual what risks they choose to take, but informed risks are safer than not being made aware in the first place. It’s the same with the rockers really, some love them and some wouldn’t touch them with a 10 foot pole 🤷🏻♀️x
Sleep bed is cool....get the swing!!! It's a lifesaver, my 7 kids with different personalities it soothed them all🤗
Highly recommend the Sleepyhead. We have both sizes too. My little one slept a dream in it. We did have him in it overnight, although people may disagree with that. The point I think, is that a SIDS happens with or without a Sleepyhead. It’s a sad but 100% true fact. Our little one slept through the night from 5 weeks and that was down to the Sleepyhead - definitely one of our best buys.
We went for the Bugaboo buggy and also love that.
Our furniture is Mamas and Papas, still in perfect condition, three years later.
You have to get a chair/bouncer/rocker. It’s very practical. The best one in my opinion is the Mamaroo. It moves just like “a mama would” rather than vibrating or swinging. My little one suffered with bad colic and reflux and it help an absolute treat. Plus it was handy whilst you’re eating dinner or trying to get ready. Xxx
100% need the rocker, was my life saver!!!
But also it is good for baby self soothing and so they don't rely on you putting them to sleep will help you in the long run
Sleepyhead was an absolute life saver and the ‘newborns live in baby grows’ totally depends on the parents, literally I loved dressing my baby girl up (while she let me!) congratulations to you both xxx
Sleepyheads aren’t recommended! Please research them! Also baby rockers their are some suitable from birth, you will use it more than a play mat x
@@deborahglaves7434 have a google Hun 🙈
@@deborahglaves7434 by the way I’m not the only one on here saying the same thing so don’t come on my comment being aggressive. BE KIND!!!!
@@deborahglaves7434 no, Hollie is right. I’m a student midwife and things like sleepyheads MASSIVELY increase the risk of SIDS...
The automatic rocket is so helpful. The ones that have the ability to have toys hanging are the best option in my opinion. The rocker just gives you the option to place the baby down and give you time to clean or eat or whatever you need while still comforting them while rocking or just allowing them to reach up and play with the toys. I know a play mat can do that too but in the rocker you won’t need to worry about the dog or anything laying too close or accidentally stepping on the baby or playing too close if you need to look away for a moment.
Sleepy heads aren't recommended for safe sleeping. Have a look at the lullaby trust. Loved seeing everything in Mamas and Papas!!
Yeah i read many bad reviews and the price is stupidly expensive for something that is unsafe and won't last long
Gives me nightmares even if used how recommended it's still risky, and I'm not sure why anyone would risk it (I used to work in research in this area too). I'm sure Carys and James will do the right research, fingers crossed anyway! X
Just googling it! I think that they’re saying it’s unsafe for sleeping in unaccompanied by an adult? We NEVER intended to let the baby sleep in a sleepyhead but only as an extra place to put the baby during the day when we’re chilling with it and watching it all the time ☺️
@@JamesandCarys I think that's a perfect idea and what we have always recommended if anyone uses them. We often say even if accompanied by an adult they shouldn't be life to sleep in them overnight (as if you are co-sleeping in the same bed) because if the parents are a sleep they cannot be classified as 'supervising'. I think day times to keep little one from rolling anywhere and out of reach from Mila would work well for you guys! But also there are some great cheaper alternatives too which the same recommendations and safety ratings X
Also car seat shouldn’t be used on the chassis. It’s incredibly dangerous should only be used for the car. Why they make adaptors for it to attach is beyond me
A Boba wrap is a life saver and is excellent for longer walks bc babies get tired of strollers but love being snuggled up to you. Also excellent for getting stuff done around the house when baby wants held.
I'm so excited for you guys 😩🥰
Closer to your due date i would recommend you to buy yourself only a couple tiny baby(keep tags on) to put into your baby bag, along side new born just in case you need tiny baby, my second was 6lb6oz (they estimated she would have been 8/9lbs) and didn’t fit in any of her new born stuff. Xx
Sainsbury’s TU baby clothes are also so adorable x
I used the nuna leaf grow for my daughter it wasn’t electric but the weight of the baby keeps it swinging for a while before u need to give it a nudge again. Plus it adapts as baby grows to ‘normal’ seat - my daughter still loves sitting in it at 20 months 😁
i live for these baby updates!! it’s so cute living vicariously through the two of you! 🥺
I love the rainbows that keep popping up! Just like the rainbow you’ve made to put in the nursery, ugh it melts my heart
Please be careful with the sleepyhead if you guys get one heard some scary storys about them x
Very true I wanted one for my 3rd baby and midwife advised health visitors don’t recommend them x
I have one and I used a lot of the times! It's the perfect place to put the baby when you want to have a break. I would advice to buy one.
My baby loved his. Just be cautious but I’m sure every product has horror stories you have to go with you’re own instinct whilst keeping other experiences in mind
Although my health visitor didn’t want me to use it but I still did as it worked for me
I had one with my second then by my third there were horror stories i still used it but just cautiously
So exciting! I have 2 children and have a mama and papas pram for my youngest i love it! Little bit of advice, for a play mat, although not your cup of tea try get the brightest most interactive one you can find, babies don't enjoy neutral to play with 🥰 that nursing chair is gorgeous but one with a higher back where you can rest your head is essential for night feeds! Rocker is 100% a must have!! And finally, please don't get a sleepy head even for just chilling on the sofa it only takes a minute to get distracted by the TV and baby to roll and suffocate they're so dangerous, we had a next to me upstairs and bought a cheap moses basket for downstairs for baby to sleep and it was fab! Good luck with everything, yous will be amazing! xxx
i love the oxford set as you get good quality products that you can use for years. xx
Electric rockers are the most amazing thing! Especially ones that are at an incline because most babies tend to have a little reflux when they’re younger! Up until 2-3 months it won’t cause any negative sleep associations and by 3 weeks my daughter was sleeping in the crib every night and during her naps (she refused to sleep in any bassinets we got her so a camera monitor was a MUST). It gives mama a break to nap while baby does. One last note, if you’re a worried parent, swings are great because they’re strapped in and secure and me and my fiancé didn’t feel the need to obsessively check on her to make sure she was ok because she was right next to us being soothed.
There’s nothing better than clicking on RUclips and seeing you two. You totally make my day ❤️😘
Our baby is almost 2 weeks old and already we think that the rocker/swing has been our best purchase. We got the Joie Serina 2-in-1. She loves motion and hates being put down so when we are having dinner etc. The swing is perfect 😊
I’m a mum who works for mamas and papas! All the clothing is suitable for newborns, you’ll need a pramsuit (the fluffy all in one) it’ll keep her snuggly warm in the carrycot! Don’t get a electric rocker!! I’m anti rocking unless you really need to, babies like adults are creatures of habit, you’ll be rocking that little lady till she’s 3!! I have the ocarro (bought before working for them) it’s the best thing I’ve ever bought and it’s doing my second baby now, and the cloud Z car seat with it is the BEST!! Plus you can keep the isofix base for the next stage car seat which swivels! It’s the only infant carrier on the market with a swivel base!🙌🏼 You’ll get sick of baby being in babygrows for 3 months! Buy the outfits!!! Baby grows are PJ’s to me 🤷🏼♀️ x
1000% to the electric rocker. That nursing chair would be agony after a while, no support for your neck xxx love the journey
Get the automatic rocker. Sometimes you need just a minute to
Go to the bathroom or get something from the stove where you want to be able to put them down for a moment while you just don’t want to/it’s not safe to hold them and if they are rocked they might relax while you do what had to be done.
Sleepyheads aren’t recommended. Look at the lullaby trust for safe sleeping advice
Totally agree- I am a health visitor and we cannot recommend their use. Go get info from the lullaby trust website. Put baby on a safe flat surface with an appropriate mattress. 👍
I am also a health visitor and completely agree. Sleepyheads are definitely not safe for baby. Lullaby trust is such an informative website so please do go check it out
I’ve heard they’re fine for supervised sleep, but not overnight
Nonsense.
They are ok to put baby down next to you while supervised, they just aren't for sleeping
Buy 0-3 clothes. Limited newborn. They grow so quick! I recommend a colourful play mat for sensory purposes, the plain colours are literally just for the aesthetics of today. Get bright colours/black and white. You’ll enjoy dressing baby for the day she won’t always be in babygrows what I do is keep them just for bedtime. Next clothes are the ones that last the shortest amount of time, they come up small/tight especially the babygrows!! The best ones I found are Asda and Primark they have lasted the longest, wash the best too. My baby girl is just coming upto 3 months and these are things I’ve found xx
Which is annoying from next considering they’re more of the pricey side. Cheaper has been better in my opinion and especially considering how fast they grow and the money that essentially is wasted for a one time outfit haha! Also once washing and drying the grows, stretch the feet. I found the feet shrivel up for some reason?!
Omg this is so exciting!! I used to work in Mothercare and it was a dream!!! Sending love and hugs!! x
Omgosh love that boo!!!! Xoxox
Also for newborn sleepers/baby grows see if you can find the one with the fold over mittens piece instead of buying newborn mittens because they fall off and get lost so easily. So handy and baby prefers them way more, and less face scratches ☺️
I think it's only respectful to be not the type of person who just walks in and starts vlogging tbh it's a good thing so don't worry and absolutely creasing at Cary's saying after the baby's gone 😂 aw love you both and can tell how excited you are about it 💖
I had a little 'rocker' that I used whenever I was cooking, cleaning, using the potty, etc. I would put it near the door so I could see baby when I was dealing with necessities. I would recommend one. It's a place to put baby at those times things need to get done and you want to have them within reach.
The sleepy heads aren't recommended, plus stuff like that aren't needed, my daughter was happy with a V pillow and a blanket on the floor 😂 same with rockers, I had a battery one for my daughter and she hated it 🙄😂 you also want to get 0-3 months rather than too many newborn as they really don't fit in them for long, my daughter was out of newborn before she left the hospital😂 xx
I did a Mamas and Papas shopper experience and I cried the whole way through. So shocked you contained yourselves from tears!!! When I had my little girl, about 70% of her toddler outfits were mamas and papas and the rest were morrisons and tesco. Morrisons and tesco bub clothes are AMAZING! Considering they’re supermarket as well!
Also Tesco's and Asda do some great quality baby clothes should give them a go just because they're cheaper doesn't make them any less better.
We got the snuzpod and the sleepyhead.... both were great! I know a lot of HV are not keen on the sleepyhead but it was great for short naps whilst you did bits around the house.... also when you go to peoples houses who don’t have ‘baby friendly’ furniture/rooms etc... plus it saves your tired arms too!
Snuzpod we always brought downstairs in the day.... it’s really light!
Although hubs helped out the first few weeks lifting it (post baby - ouch).... can’t wait to see more of your finished nursery!
Our second lil girl is due 7th April..... 😀
I’m 39 weeks pregnant and I’ve got a 4Moms rocker and they’re supposed to be amazing! 💙
I had this to, loved it! Was well worth it 💕
My baby girl is 13 weeks and the electronic rocker was a life saver!! Even to just have somewhere to set her so you’re able to grab something to eat or have a shower or something I definitely recommend them!
Hey, sleep is important ! Lollll I need a lot of sleep too, can’t imagine when you’re growing a lil bub! I’m always just a better person and have a better life when I get enough sleep like 10 hours
If you haven’t already go for the baby grows with the built in fold over scratch mitts. So much easier than separate mitts.
When the baby’s gone...haha had me in stitches!
The Next to me is a great bedside cot, the side comes down too and compared to the snooze it’s really portable. Really good if you need to stay anywhere within the first 6-9 months (quite a small baby).
Sleepyheads are essentially glorified dog beds and aren’t actually advised to use for sleep as they pose a huge suffocation risk!
We used a battery powered swing for both our girls. God send!! Second one we brought a new one. But we got one that started as a swing with music etc and then as they got older it was a chair for them. Ideal to get things that grow with the baby. Loving the vlogs. Good luck. Xx
If you want to get a rocker, get an electric. Every momma in my life swears by them.
I love my mamaroo! It’s a must have for me
@@mizzielouise5590 yesss had one with my first born going to be getting another for my next baby its a lifesaver
You absolutely want the rocker! It was a lifesaver when our little was smaller. We used ours constantly. Also, don't feel like you have to put your baby is nothing but body suits. I made sure our little guy was always completely dressed from the day he came to us (we began fostering him at 2 months) and now that he is 2 years old I never have to fight with him about wearing clothing. Also, look into an under mattress foam wedge for the crib. It's helps a lot to keep the baby's head slightly elevated while sleeping. Especially if you have a baby who is prone to spitting up after eating.
Wait, that's how much prams cost?! Ok that info may just be the most effective form of non hormonal contraception EVER 🤣
Those next baby grows are adorable. Just in my experience, depending on the size of your baby they really aren’t in newborn/first size very long so I would recommend stocking up on lots of 0-3. Also the electric swing is a god send. My little boy wasn’t keen as a newborn, he just wanted to be held all the time but from about 3 months he loved it. He’s 5 month now and has a little nap in there midday while I do dishes etc. Definitely recommend xxx
Ngl this makes me extremely broody, but I’m just so anxious to have a baby not so much being pregnant just the labour really...so excited for you guys tho!💗
Rockers are fine for new borns and depending on your baby she may love or hate them. Mine loved them. Both of mine had heartburn/gerd bad so the rocker and swing was a lifesaver for them and me. You could tell laying in them even without swinging was much more comfortable for them.
You guys inspire me so much I love watching your content!
That’s so lovely to hear thank you!!
I don’t know if this has been mentioned yet or not but I just watched this vlog - for a play mat you may want to consider something bright and multiple patterns as the colors and patterns will help stimulate baby’s brain early on.
Storage is key. Think Carys, you have an entire room for your clothes. Your daughter will need storage Trust me.
Sleepy heads are fab but check the safe sleeping guidelines before you purchase - and look out for Mila when you’re not in the room, our dog struggles to work out the difference between the sleepy head and his bed 😂😂. In terms of rocker, all the advice we were given was to wait until baby arrives and then try them out in them because some babies love them and some hate them and they are super pricy!
Personally I'd wait until she is here to get a rocker. I spent hundreds on one for my girl and she didn't like going in it 🤦♀️ or just keep receipt lol
play pens are good too. If you needed to leave room for a moment or 2. I got the travel play pen filled with toys to grab etc....
Swings are a live saver. especially when you have things to do! My little girl loved hers when she was little x
When is your due date ???? ❤️❤️❤️ mines the 8th April
Aw amazing!!!! Ours is 3rd April!! So close ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Mines due 8th April too ❤️
April 10th 🥰
March 6th! :)
Aww my bday is the 3 April xx
Definitely a plug in swing is the way to go. The battery ones die to fast. You can't be there to manually rock the baby at all times. Sometimes they are the only way you can get anything done. Love you guys!
This makes me want a baby but i won’t cos i am 14! I am so excited for you! Also i am a second child so if you have a second you will find out that you don’t buy nearly as much for them xx
It’s good to buy 0-3 months as she will grow quickly. My niece was in 0-3 after 3 weeks as was born 8 pounds.. a rocker is also a really good idea to because it does help settle the baby when ur eating etc and just nice for them to have a nap in too and keep them in the rocker ( when they abit older ) for comfort x
15 minutes early omg 🥺😍 this got me TOO excited 😂❤️
Hehe enjoy boo!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
My sister had that next to me cot, she had twins last year and it was used constantly, it was the downstairs cot at first and then they had a non rocking one for the bedroom (well two when they got bigger and couldn't fit in one anymore!) honestly get as many baby grows and clothes as possible, you'd be surprised how many you go through!
Ahh I’m so excited for your little family!! ❤️
Thank you so much!!😫❤️
You two are getting so excited!! Brought me back 24 years when your brought out the babygrows they are so sweet, with you on the frills and beads, take care stay safe xx
im pregnant and we’re looking at getting the mamaroo rather than a rocker - everyone says its the best thing ever
Newborns in white 😍 and after 3 babies I’ve learnt you can never have enough vests and baby grows. Love you two x
Baby stuff is soo expensive jeeeeez 😲
It’s actually mamas & papas ... it’s very overpriced 😫
We have the entire ‘hello world’ range from Mamas & Papas 🙈 elephants are adorable! We also have the Chicco Next 2 You crib which I thoroughly recommend. Plenty of space for baby to grow 😊
Also, definitely recommend buying future sizes in clothing when you find something you like. My little boy has just moved into 3-6 months and it was fab already having a full wardrobe!
We bought an expensive electric bouncer/rocker and my boy will sit in it for a little while. He has a classic bouncer at his nanny’s house and loves that so much more as it bounces more with every little movement he does xx
You really dont need lots of new born clothes , they barely fit in them for more than a month and you will also get lots of them as baby presents
The swing was a life saver for me with both of my kids. As much as you want to, you can't spend all day rocking them and some times that's all they want so it's nice to have for when you need to make dinner or something.
Your baby needs to sleep in your room at the beginning so she can match your breathing while she sleeps! It helps her learn to breathe while asleep. Hope this helps!
Yes she will be!! ☺️
@@JamesandCarys Been watching yoi guys for a while and no joke... the day I saw your first pregnant video, i was thinking "I wish i could be pregnant this month" and the next day..... i found out I was pregnant!!!! I think you guys helped hahhh. I am currently just over 8 weeks pregnant now :) xx
PS: You do what you guys think is best.. mama and dadda know best. Youll do just amazing
Swings (rockers) are an absolute godsend for when you need to get stuff done around the house, it keeps baby really calm and its super helpful to get them to sleep! The baby swing was one of my best purchases when mine were babies :)
Why don't you give away all that stuff to people who really can't afford it when you guys could easily buy it all yourselves? That would be a nice thing to do...
To a certain point i agree! Its something that bothers me with influencers (like obviously you would accept) but i remember having to budget ect to save up for a pram and then people get given stuff for free 😭 when others struggle
@@mejustme720 Exactly!! It's ridiculous when those that can afford it very easily get gifted stuff while other families, especially in these times, are having to scrape together the pennies
A vibrating rocker was really good... But also multi functional with sounds for play time ☺️
I can just picture Mila loving the sleepy head and the soft cushy play mat. I definitely would recommend a baby swing or rocker. I prefer the swing because it can be used for longer. Love your choice of furniture.
Electric rocker for sure!! I’ve got the mamaroo. You do not want to have to be rocking the rocking, when your trying to have a shower, make dinner do a little laundry etc
my friend had an electrical rocker and ALWAYSSSSS used it!!!! it was good for when they wanted the baby to go to sleep but didn't settled well in the crib straight away. the rocker helped because they would usually fall asleep in the rocker then move them from the rocker to the crib when they have fallen asleep. in my opinion, soooooo much better for a routine for your baby! so they know when it is nap time and they get used to this from an early age. i also did health and social care at college and routines for babies are better if it is introduced from an early age, otherwise it takes them months and months (or even years!) to get used to a daily routine. i hope this helps xxxx
I'd say get 0-3! My nieces were only in newborn for about 2 weeks then they were too small! Especially when they had been hot washed and dried they srink up, my nieces were 5.6 for reference! Oh and baby grows with built-in mittens! Saves so many wee scratches to their wee faces etc, those were used most in their house!
Highly reccommend getting an electric rocker (or baby swing here in north america). My daughter developed colic and she would ONLY settle in the swing and or sleep in it. She almost slept in the swing for a month. Its absolutely a LIFE SAVER!! 😊😊
Jarys videos are literally so comforting to me. I don't know how you guys do it, as soon as I hear your voices I smile!
Would 100% recommend the next to me crib!! Life saver in the first six months!! Me and my partner got a chicco next to me crib and it was fantastic, the side came down and you could adjust the height of it to the height of your bed ❤️❤️xx
ROCKERS ARE AMAZING! I have a 2.5 year old and am about to have my second on 6th April and I will be getting another rocker. It’s not about neglecting the baby to have you time, it’s about the baby having a safe spot to keep them comfy and also a place that you can feel comfortable putting them while you do housework/cook dinner/watch tv etc. I highly recommend them from my experience and all of my friends that have bubs too.
The rocker is amazing for times when baby is awake but can’t be held. Maybe while cooking or cleaning and go electric for sure so you can just peek at baby and not constantly have to stop what you’re doing for another push.