I think a little grooming might've helped a bit first. He did a good job, but cleaning up his facial hair and style a bit would've helped him immensely. He looks a little unkempt like a homeless person on the street or something so it might alarm the girls a bit. Despite that, he did great.
@@aghayden Yeah, i figure with your coaching, a new wardrobe (i.e. getting rid of the backpack, the baggy clothes and bulbous boot shoes) and some trimming of the facial region, this guy could easily go from zero to hero.
@@nnnmmmable No rational person ever states that looks don't matter at all. Looks are a first impression yes, but game can EASILY override first impressions if you know how to do it right. The point here is that Damian looks like a homeless guy walking up to these girls. Any guy can upgrade his look with a little bit of wardrobe and hair trimming. Don't straw man, pal.
Keep up the good work dude! The guy has more balls than most guys by putting himself out there and approaching girls, even though it's hard at first, he will get better if he continues to take action and improve.
Well . I love the guy's spirit he really wants to make something out of himself and get better he has tons of confidence he only needs a little makeover keep up the good work ma man you are in the right path
Firstly i must compliment this guy for his bravery! He seems to have no fear in approaching but without mentioning the much needed style and grooming the way he was approaching was really letting him down. When a guy especially in this kind of situation approaches a woman they are thinking "how long is he going to stay?" "Is this person a threat?" He should have thrown in a false time constraint and rooted why he was there and how he noticed them so it makes them feel more comfortable. Like everyone has said in the comments a cool hair cut, beard trim and better fashion would help a lot because first impressions count im afraid. If you look scruffy, and unkempt you're going to have to work much harder so why not give yourself the best chance possible? Also i dont know if you gave him a simple structure to follow but he asked for the number too soon without showing any value. He needs a lot of work! But he could be great!
5:18 this is EXACTLY how daygame is, very realistic!!, thank you for posting this. I frecuently get this kind of accitude from gils, also sometimes a very good actitude from them!
Kudos to the dude for putting himself out there and approaching. Takes balls. IN fairness, 95% of them rejections were just due to her not being interested/attracted and better game wouldn't have changed the outcome. Even the best PUA's get fast insta rejections from what i've seen. PS - Fun idea for a vid would be for you to use different models of game as a fun experiment. For example, there's people on PUA forums who claim to use basically NLP/speed seduction stuff which i'm convinced is just fantasy lol. That stuff just sounds so weird and girls would be like 'what are you talking about?!'., but I think it would make a fun vid if you done infields using that style, as well as other styles that are popular, to compare them all. The NLP style would basically be: Walking up to the girl and after saying 'hi' and making a comment on something she's doing, saying ' Isn't it funny how you can find yourself liking a trusting someone for a very long time, even though you've only just met this person' and then transitioning like -"Sometimes we get caught up in the things we have to do. But if you stop and savor the moment. You see the green on the trees, feel the warm breeze and it's such a grounding experience. You feel alive. Adventurous!!" She responds very enthusiastically in amazement!!! Now time for 'immersion' "What's something you really enjoy doing that gives you a chance to take a break from reality and get in touch with how you feel?"
Nah dude his pacing and leading of the conversations was bad and he was trying too hard to force conversation. It's awkward the way he was saying hello followed by how are you and then i'm damon. He was so monotone when he did it too and i've approached with somebody like that and he scared girls and it gives off serial killer vibes. Especially since he's trying to push it
I used to cold approaching girl like this in my freshman college year, I quit after two months because I couldn't get over the rejection and didn't feel the excitement anymore but anxiety and constant stress
Keep it up bro… nice job nothing but respect ✊ I really love the part when you had that momentum and opened the interaction so smoothly there’s a few things you have to work on but it was great keep it up we all been there… Good luck 👍
If he calms his energy, grows out and combs his hair, shaves/trims his facial hair, and wears a button up shirt, he'd get em all... great vid idea btw, this provides a very realistic look into cold approach.
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Are these his first approaches ever? If so kudos to him. To me his primary sticking point he needs to work on is the lack of social awareness. Besides how loud he's speaking and how close he comes in he's saying awkward things that make the girl uncomfortable. He's trying too hard to be persistent. If a girl is walking away from him definetly don't follow her.
He needs to build his confidence in approaching girls...that's all he needs.....the guy look weird because he is nervous.... approaching any kind of people socially and making friends as long as you can....can make you confident... that's simple
Congrats on having the same name as me Damien. Some call me D Dog. He did good, the rejections are just a result of not bumping into "yes girls". The main problem with white guys like myself is if we don't dress well, we get chunked in with those crazy street people. This issue doesn't happen with Asian guys, and it's what gives them an advantage. As a white guy, you need to always visit a barber and wear nice clothes to look classy so the interaction lasts longer. If this guy did a 1 guard on the sides, lined and trimmed the beard, then got a nice shirt/shoes he'd get long conversations. It's also good to lose the swearing unless it's at night
Part 2 of this would be awesome. Fair play to the guy for keeping going and there was some definite improvement in how he was received the more he approached and took on some of your feedback. I do agree with some of the guys that some aesthetic upgrades, trimming his beard, getting a fade, maybe some better clothes would definitely improve how how girls receive him further but that is truly only part of the overall package. I think we will see further improvement with more approaches and critique of his interactions.
Great job overcoming the fear. Squint the eyes.....the eyes wide open look predatory. If you look too intense it is intimidating. If me a capable man sees you walking with intense wide open eyes scanning your surroundings I will assume youre a threat over the average person walking around. Your purpose is showing too much
Just look her into the eyes and say. BEIIB YOU SO THIQ I ALMOST HAD A HEART ATTACK. she laughs Then say I SMASHED you in my mind She says Whaaaa You say, nevermind my doctor told me to stop my medications for a while.
He's got the confidence for sure, lol def needs to calibrate and tighten up the grooming and styling, if he was a bit more well dressed and conveyed that he takes better care of himself, with a haircut, a shave, some cool sunglasses appearance, body language, I think he would have had more success, Onwards and upwards, dude has balls approaching some 8s/9s/10s looking shabby like that;-)
Unless you're already really high-status you can't have a scraggly beard like that and expect girls to respond excited. Or if you don't shave your game better be way better than average 🤪
Does that make you imitating the other RUclipsr? Haha. The guy needs to groom before anything. He is giving the homeless druggy vibe with this presentation
No offense to the dude, but I think he would score MANY points by trimming his beard, he looks too careless as is. I think he's actually not a bad looking guy, but the beard gives a bit of a hobbo vibe.
Bro, I'm a fan of yours but why didn't you tell him outright that his appearance is failing him, not his game. Fix up his appearance and a lot of these approaches would have gotten much better reception. You can't look like an ungroomed hobo and expect to get numbers from hot girls. Appearance isn't everything, but theres a point where appearance does matters and you need to at least look like you take care of yourself to a certain extent. I feel like you just made this video to advertise your coaching rather than actually helping the subscriber out.
It’s not one or the other it’s both. We did talk about appearance but don’t have the footage of it. And if you don’t think there was a ton of useful advice for anyone watching in the video than you’re not paying attention.
@@vegetaz1532 I think his game sucks personally. It's too aggro/ gimme sex now type of vibe. He needs to change his approach. Make it more casual/social/ not looking for sex
@@geovanilopez5459 Lol probably true but let's be honest for any fucking stupid reason a girl will reject you. Absolutely everything detail of you matters to them.
He should trim down or shave off his facial hair. His beard growth is not that great and gives off a "homeless" vibe. He could dress a little bit better as well.
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Bro is too fast with “GIMME YOUR NUMBER!” Lmaoo😂😂
For real!! Hahaha
Make this a series Avery. Love it!
Especially with the huge backpack. Makes it look like he is living on the streets
I think a little grooming might've helped a bit first. He did a good job, but cleaning up his facial hair and style a bit would've helped him immensely. He looks a little unkempt like a homeless person on the street or something so it might alarm the girls a bit. Despite that, he did great.
We talked about this but didn’t get the video of it unfortunately
Definitely!
@@aghayden Yeah, i figure with your coaching, a new wardrobe (i.e. getting rid of the backpack, the baggy clothes and bulbous boot shoes) and some trimming of the facial region, this guy could easily go from zero to hero.
I thought looks weren't supposed to matter, lol. Is game not king?
@@nnnmmmable No rational person ever states that looks don't matter at all. Looks are a first impression yes, but game can EASILY override first impressions if you know how to do it right. The point here is that Damian looks like a homeless guy walking up to these girls. Any guy can upgrade his look with a little bit of wardrobe and hair trimming. Don't straw man, pal.
Keep up the good work dude! The guy has more balls than most guys by putting himself out there and approaching girls, even though it's hard at first, he will get better if he continues to take action and improve.
Its good that you also started these type of videos like social animal..
Keep making it. Its really helpful to see things on ground.
Copycat
Well . I love the guy's spirit he really wants to make something out of himself and get better he has tons of confidence he only needs a little makeover keep up the good work ma man you are in the right path
Firstly i must compliment this guy for his bravery! He seems to have no fear in approaching but without mentioning the much needed style and grooming the way he was approaching was really letting him down.
When a guy especially in this kind of situation approaches a woman they are thinking "how long is he going to stay?" "Is this person a threat?"
He should have thrown in a false time constraint and rooted why he was there and how he noticed them so it makes them feel more comfortable.
Like everyone has said in the comments a cool hair cut, beard trim and better fashion would help a lot because first impressions count im afraid.
If you look scruffy, and unkempt you're going to have to work much harder so why not give yourself the best chance possible?
Also i dont know if you gave him a simple structure to follow but he asked for the number too soon without showing any value.
He needs a lot of work! But he could be great!
This is one of the best videos of game I’ve seen. So realistic and helpful to see a coach with a student. Thanks Avery
loved this content bro you should make more videos like this
Already recorded a second one, the guy crushed it!
To eager with the number question. His 13 min approach apart from the rejection was his best.
5:18 this is EXACTLY how daygame is, very realistic!!, thank you for posting this. I frecuently get this kind of accitude from gils, also sometimes a very good actitude from them!
Kudos to the dude for putting himself out there and approaching. Takes balls. IN fairness, 95% of them rejections were just due to her not being interested/attracted and better game wouldn't have changed the outcome. Even the best PUA's get fast insta rejections from what i've seen. PS - Fun idea for a vid would be for you to use different models of game as a fun experiment. For example, there's people on PUA forums who claim to use basically NLP/speed seduction stuff which i'm convinced is just fantasy lol. That stuff just sounds so weird and girls would be like 'what are you talking about?!'., but I think it would make a fun vid if you done infields using that style, as well as other styles that are popular, to compare them all. The NLP style would basically be: Walking up to the girl and after saying 'hi' and making a comment on something she's doing, saying ' Isn't it funny how you can find yourself liking a trusting someone for a very long time, even though you've only just met this person'
and then transitioning like -"Sometimes we get caught up in the things we have to do. But if you stop and savor the moment. You see the green on the trees, feel the warm breeze and it's such a grounding experience. You feel alive. Adventurous!!"
She responds very enthusiastically in amazement!!!
Now time for 'immersion'
"What's something you really enjoy doing that gives you a chance to take a break from reality and get in touch with how you feel?"
Nah dude his pacing and leading of the conversations was bad and he was trying too hard to force conversation. It's awkward the way he was saying hello followed by how are you and then i'm damon. He was so monotone when he did it too and i've approached with somebody like that and he scared girls and it gives off serial killer vibes. Especially since he's trying to push it
+ he can change his clothes/beard
Start with the basics, get grooming and fashion handled…
HomelessMaxxxing
(I'm not a Black piller but come on bro, use some common sense and go to a barber)
I used to cold approaching girl like this in my freshman college year, I quit after two months because I couldn't get over the rejection and didn't feel the excitement anymore but anxiety and constant stress
From your standpoint and personal background: does looks matter?
This dude is fucking awesome. Good spirited
Makes me feel good to see his progress. I’m horrible like he was at first.
Someone saw how well social animal is doing 😂
I swear 😂
Yup
That's how YT works dude. Copy the people that are doing well
This is awesome! This is similar to what Social Animal does on their channel. It's great.
Creo que no hay nada mejor que aventurarse en el juego con un excelente mentor junto a ti. Gran video A.G Hayden.
Damn this is what men today need. The right kind of help. Pride aside. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Keep it up bro… nice job nothing but respect ✊ I really love the part when you had that momentum and opened the interaction so smoothly there’s a few things you have to work on but it was great keep it up we all been there… Good luck 👍
Bro, he needs some grooming. Some chicks like that look ,but not everyone.
Hayden do more of these man this is golden info
Lol I’m surprised the black pillers haven’t been in the comments section yet.
If he calms his energy, grows out and combs his hair, shaves/trims his facial hair, and wears a button up shirt, he'd get em all... great vid idea btw, this provides a very realistic look into cold approach.
Never ask how are you at the start, you give off the salesman vibe. Also makes you look unconfident when you finally let her know your intention.
this is amazing. i could relate to this guy alot. although i'm probably much more meek than him.
My boy one glow up away from becoming a "Chad" 😂
This is amazing content right here man!
Just subbed, make these a series
Thank you man, so much +motivation out of that guy's improvement!
13:12 wow the smoothness of this moment is golden
Thank GOD I found this channel. 47m, divorced for over a year, separated for almost 3 yrs. Out of work designer living back with parents. Getting tested for autism as well (the high functioning intellectual type). Despite all the perceived negatives, I'm tall, good looking, funny, talented, great in bed, good cook, so I got real good shit to offer. Hit me up ladies!
update?
Are these his first approaches ever? If so kudos to him. To me his primary sticking point he needs to work on is the lack of social awareness. Besides how loud he's speaking and how close he comes in he's saying awkward things that make the girl uncomfortable. He's trying too hard to be persistent. If a girl is walking away from him definetly don't follow her.
a good trim for the beard and a dress shirt and he would have done much better.
social animal- like
He needs to build his confidence in approaching girls...that's all he needs.....the guy look weird because he is nervous.... approaching any kind of people socially and making friends as long as you can....can make you confident... that's simple
He needs to get cleaned up.
Congrats on having the same name as me Damien. Some call me D Dog. He did good, the rejections are just a result of not bumping into "yes girls". The main problem with white guys like myself is if we don't dress well, we get chunked in with those crazy street people. This issue doesn't happen with Asian guys, and it's what gives them an advantage. As a white guy, you need to always visit a barber and wear nice clothes to look classy so the interaction lasts longer. If this guy did a 1 guard on the sides, lined and trimmed the beard, then got a nice shirt/shoes he'd get long conversations. It's also good to lose the swearing unless it's at night
Massive respect for that man. Need some styling and calibration and he is basically good to go imo
Get my dude a nice beard trim and hair styled, my dude will instantly go up 2 points
Admire this king’s efforts, but he looks homeless!
Bravo! I like this video.. makes me better.
Bro needed a haircut and a beard trim!!!!
Part 2 of this would be awesome. Fair play to the guy for keeping going and there was some definite improvement in how he was received the more he approached and took on some of your feedback. I do agree with some of the guys that some aesthetic upgrades, trimming his beard, getting a fade, maybe some better clothes would definitely improve how how girls receive him further but that is truly only part of the overall package. I think we will see further improvement with more approaches and critique of his interactions.
Can’t wait part 2 and more
Very good Demian !!!! the only thing that I would change is the beard. you should remove it or tidy it up. I think that improve a lot your look.
C'mon put out the next infield already lol.
These take a long time to edit
Great job overcoming the fear. Squint the eyes.....the eyes wide open look predatory. If you look too intense it is intimidating. If me a capable man sees you walking with intense wide open eyes scanning your surroundings I will assume youre a threat over the average person walking around. Your purpose is showing too much
The guy needs to change his hair and clothes style bruh
Love how he's got more of the caveman look and it proves looks don't matter. We're in the jungle. Don't need a mirror!
Just look her into the eyes and say.
BEIIB YOU SO THIQ I ALMOST HAD A HEART ATTACK.
she laughs
Then say
I SMASHED you in my mind
She says
Whaaaa
You say, nevermind my doctor told me to stop my medications for a while.
Hey come to Atlanta bro
You could have at least told him to trim the beard, lose the Backpack and change his shoes....would have added 2 points to him right there
He just needs to work on his style and his interactions will be longer, he has 80 %
Which state was this? Awesome video
Miami
@@aghayden love it com 2 israel;;;;;
Where is part 2? :/
He's got the confidence for sure, lol def needs to calibrate and tighten up the grooming and styling, if he was a bit more well dressed and conveyed that he takes better care of himself, with a haircut, a shave, some cool sunglasses appearance, body language, I think he would have had more success, Onwards and upwards, dude has balls approaching some 8s/9s/10s looking shabby like that;-)
How about a tour in the UK?
It’ll happen next year, don’t know about a tour but I’ll go to London and most of Europe
Unless you're already really high-status you can't have a scraggly beard like that and expect girls to respond excited. Or if you don't shave your game better be way better than average 🤪
Which is that city?
Miami
Does that make you imitating the other RUclipsr? Haha. The guy needs to groom before anything. He is giving the homeless druggy vibe with this presentation
Looks do matter, should have trimmed his beard at least because he looks like he is living on the streets.
lol @ PUA in 2022
No offense to the dude, but I think he would score MANY points by trimming his beard, he looks too careless as is. I think he's actually not a bad looking guy, but the beard gives a bit of a hobbo vibe.
This guy just need to improve his looks a lil bit he'll do way better
Bro, I'm a fan of yours but why didn't you tell him outright that his appearance is failing him, not his game. Fix up his appearance and a lot of these approaches would have gotten much better reception. You can't look like an ungroomed hobo and expect to get numbers from hot girls. Appearance isn't everything, but theres a point where appearance does matters and you need to at least look like you take care of yourself to a certain extent. I feel like you just made this video to advertise your coaching rather than actually helping the subscriber out.
It’s not one or the other it’s both. We did talk about appearance but don’t have the footage of it.
And if you don’t think there was a ton of useful advice for anyone watching in the video than you’re not paying attention.
@@aghayden yeah but clearly the dudes appearance was way worse than his game
@@vegetaz1532 I think his game sucks personally. It's too aggro/ gimme sex now type of vibe. He needs to change his approach. Make it more casual/social/ not looking for sex
@@geovanilopez5459 Lol probably true but let's be honest for any fucking stupid reason a girl will reject you. Absolutely everything detail of you matters to them.
@@aghayden actually im curious if he can pull off (same appearance) somehow after an x amount of approaches
He should trim down or shave off his facial hair. His beard growth is not that great and gives off a "homeless" vibe. He could dress a little bit better as well.
Not to be critical..BUT.... you really should have told him to groom his mustache and facial hair. He looks homeless...seriously
Sooo cringe bro 😂
bro is embarrasing
Chill bro he tryin😂
he got the balls to put hinself out there at least which 95% of men cannot even think themselves doing it
let's see your infield bro
@@kagan2712 yes cause its nonsense and just gonna cause you to become an incel
This coach is not that good
This comment is not that good