i am a lesbian but not so much confidence when i sing on stage or do public speaking, i like to sing next to my bff and to myself and im so bad at public speaking i shake all the time :/
*when you're lesbian and don't wear baggy clothing and hats, and when you where them, there forward, and also your not confident.* *but..... you watch gay RUclips and tv shows* I'm totally gay, but I act like I'm the stereotypical straight cause that's the town I live in, but I love your video, keep up the good work
I'm pretty damn straight but I have always dressed in flannels and jeans and I sit like a man. I have never in my life willingly worn a dress or skirt. Feminine girls seem like a whole other species than me.
These stereotypes are so true. For me, I'm literally the opposite of what you described but I am gay as hell. So many lesbians think I am straight but in reality I'm a lesbian. Great vid tho!
Pamela Grant I'm all of these stereotypes, but I'm asexual. This explained why a lot of people think I'm lesbian tho... and why a lot of lesbians crush on me.
I'm bi and I look and act more stereotypically gay than my actually gay girlfriend. I'm literally wearing a button down with suspenders and a blazer right now.
Rania Hamzeh I sometimes forget that I'm not a lesbian 😂 I'm bi as fuck, but my style is naturally lesbian af, even before I knew the lesbian steryotypes.
I know this was put up a while ago, but im so confused. I really like girls but there aren't really any cute ones at my middle school good thing im going into highschool this year. But I also like guys but not that much. I don't feel as much as a stomg connection with them. But I will still date them, and I can see myself marrying them. Im pretty sure im bisexual but not completely sure. I am a huge tomboy tho😂😂😂
I relate to you a lot! I love girls; they are so beautiful, soft and kind. But, boys are much easier to get along with and they tend to be less high maintenance. Labels are silly; there is no need to decide if you like boys or girls!! Just like who you like and love yourself! xox
I SAW ARIANA it's really only you can decide. A femme lesbian is a girl who's gay but is still very girly. You can search it up if you want to know more about it
lol I'm a lesbian but I also wear flannels, sweatpants, low cut tanks, hats sooooo this is very stereotypical. I'm a lesbian but I'm not masculine. A lot of my friends watch the L word and they aren't gay... I'm not trying to turn down what you say but there's so many different lesbians out there so you can't pair us all together. And not all lesbians sit with their legs open? Nor do they all have masculine/ big tattoos. And definitely not all of lesbians have confidence?
In the description of this video I said these were all stereotypes. I for one, dress really girly for the most part and I am super gay. I just made this video to help people try to identify if their crush is gay because most girls that i've talked to have exhibited some of these things. I don't mean to offend anyone. These are all stereotypes
pup gammer 2016 ill be gaming all the way my advice is to just ask if they are and who they like then you'll know that's what I did and I'm now dating my gf who was my crush ironically I was hers so yeah
I’m here because there’s a girl at my school who is creeping me out I think she is lesbian. She has been telling me she loves me, and clinging to me. Telling me that I’m the best person in the world. and I am 100% straight. I’m just very creeped out. She hasn’t come out yet and I’m concerned. Does anyone have any tips on what I should do
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OMG I never noticed I dress and act so gay... I mean yes I am a lesbian but I never really thought I am so sterotypically. I always sit with my legs open and now that I think about it every girl in my class said I shouldn't do it cause guys would stare at me. And the compliment thing is like so accurate.
haha Thats totally valid. Lesbians/ Straight people come in all different shapes and sizes. This is super stereotypical and just MY way of distinguishing lesbians in public. At least we know you have good style.
How to tell if a girl is gay Show them a picture a hayley kioko if she says "oh that's the girl from lemonade mouth " shes straight if she says "I love her music" she's gay
Stereotypes are a form of social shorthand, but they can be REALLY dangerous. When I was going through the extended period of angst o/w known as adolescence, it was the early 80s, right when the AIDS epidemic was cranking up. It is a bit distressing to see those stereotypes used here to "help" a girl know if she's gay. In those teenage years, the lesbian stereotype was exactly as you're using it, tomboys, can't stand being "girlie", love sports, hard-ass partier, etc, basically a boy without the penis. I, on the other hand, always loved all the trappings of being a girl. I had not a tomboy bone in my body. Because I didn't fit the stereotype, I was sure I couldn't be gay in spite of several girls who got me wet and squirrely in my tummy just being around them. I didn't "want" to be gay, so the stereotype saved me -- by pushing me into my very own personal closet. It took me 15 years and a straight marriage complete with my very own child (at least something good came of it) to realize the stereotype was wrong and yes friends and neighbors, I am gay even though I like to wear makeup, get dressed up to go out, heels, dresses, etc, and I dislike playing sports, working on cars, I'm not tatted up, or ready to take a job in construction. Neither my wife nor fits the stereotype, and my experience suggests it is utterly invalid. It distresses me that you're falling back on stereotypes -- they can cause more harm than good. BE CAREFUL WITH GENERALIZATIONS. Maybe you ought to do a video which states it's perfectly normal to be gay and girlie, and that it's equally OK to be attracted to women who are as girlie you. Or vice versa. Just be careful.
so apparently i am gay because I do and wear all those things, except that tattoos but I am about to get that ish done. But nah I am not gay, but not straight lel, as you say sexuality is fluid so...
my style is everything and anything like one day I'm wearing baggy jumpers and jogging bottoms the next I'm in a tight green bodycon. Every girl thinks I'm straight
HAHAHAHAHA OMG THAT'S SO ME I CAN'T even the hat I don't wear hats usually but when I was a kid I was teaching preses to wear hat backwards CUZ "THAT'S HOW YOU WEAR IT MISTER" XDDDDDD
as a lesbian i noticed some gay people can't sit properly especially gay men and i have no problem with that i can't sit properly too btw there's something with short nails that are sus iykyk
Also I've noticed my gaydar "ping" sometimes when girls have wildly coloured hair like blue or red for example. Some straight girls do it too but I find a lot of lesbians do it
Tbh, I wear hobo stuff and act really, energised like a boy, and I watch rupaul SO much! But I never would get a tattoo and I will never wear hats backwards lmao
I like leggings, I wear makeup, I like getting dressed up to go out, I like fitted tops and a classy dress.... I’m definitely still into girls! I am not girly at all, you meet me and you know I’m into girls. But to look at you would never know. Good luck with Starbucks girl if that’s still the dream! Hahah x
I watch gay RUclips and I'm not gay, I just wanted to know how you can tell the difference. I act gay but I'm straight cause I like to act happy confident and feminine or casual. Taken women who don't care to impress other guys who are straight also dress carelessly lazy in sweat pants and messy hair around other people and dress super put together and prettier when trying to become taken as in not single to get a man
I am honestly pretty girly most of the times haha. I never wear dresses but i legit live in leggings and I love makeup! So, Im pretty sure everyone thinks im straight lol
i‘m bisexual and none of these things you talked about applied to me like literally nothing lmao. i‘m actually extremely EXTREMELY far from being masculine
“If you think she’s gay, she’s probably gay, if you think she’s straight... she’s probably still gay🤣” MEEE THATS SO MY MOOD 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 so relatable
That killed me
I'm gay 2
"lesbians have more confidence"
Well that would be nice...
Gold in ash but that’s not me😂....although I still don’t know am I les or bi
i am a lesbian but not so much confidence when i sing on stage or do public speaking, i like to sing next to my bff and to myself and im so bad at public speaking i shake all the time :/
@@yui-chan7264 I feel you..
I'm the exact opposite... You know.....
I'm a shy girl......😳😳😳
Ima faint if a girl wink at me.....😖😖😖
bro I wrote this when I barely knew English (I'm not a native English speaker), how'd y'all not roast me?😂
What if there's a "girly" type lesbian, those are like rare Pokemons 😂
Yesss! You never know
I'm bi and mostly girly! (This account has the name it has because I've been told to go back to the kitchen on the internet so many times, lol).
Femme facts
Hue hue
Scrawny C. Bones im here🙋🙋😂
*when you're lesbian and don't wear baggy clothing and hats, and when you where them, there forward, and also your not confident.*
*but..... you watch gay RUclips and tv shows*
I'm totally gay, but I act like I'm the stereotypical straight cause that's the town I live in, but I love your video, keep up the good work
I dress super straight for the most part too!! haha I made this to talk about stereotypes! Thanks for your support love!! xx
Thank you for responding! I understand you're doing stereotypes, so I'm not mad at you, I actually enjoyed the video! And no problem!!!
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sameee
I’m exactly like u
Your eyes are so pretty :)
Omg thank you so much!
Sophia Alexandra is it gay if you and a girl keep looking at each other and smile?
supergirl 11 me and my friend does it but I don't like her..... ....wait
Sofia Carson nope im just playin Hahahahah
kimia kardashian ikr so pretty
I never realized how gay I dress and act until this moment.....
Hahahahahah yessss!!!
Haha, same!!! 🤣🤣
Kiwinyan and Friends can you be mine?
Da1TruArtistPup what?
Omg same....
What if you're bi :(
Gabriela Blanco Thats okie dude
Gabriela Blanco You really pretty .💖🏳️🌈
Simplyizzy24 Omg, That so sweet of you !! ☺️Thank you so much, you are too ❤😙
Gabriela Blanco no problem Gabby 😊😚👌🏽
Simplyizzy24 Omg , you even know how to spell my nickname correctly, Gabby 👌🏼😭❤🔥
I'm pretty damn straight but I have always dressed in flannels and jeans and I sit like a man. I have never in my life willingly worn a dress or skirt. Feminine girls seem like a whole other species than me.
I feel you so hard. Skirts are so uncomfortable, I don't know how people do it!
Sophia Alexandra right! I hate dresses. Like ugh let me cover up and like where some long shorts underneath lol
Laura McNaughton I dont know you might be yup defiently .
Laura McNaughton same kol
Laura McNaughton Yup
Lmfao me "i dont give a fuck vibe"
Hahahahaah yesssss me too
You remind me of Baby Ariel
Omg same!
lia yesss
she does
Insulting her isn't very nice.
Yessss dont she look like her
These stereotypes are so true. For me, I'm literally the opposite of what you described but I am gay as hell. So many lesbians think I am straight but in reality I'm a lesbian. Great vid tho!
Pamela Grant I'm all of these stereotypes, but I'm asexual. This explained why a lot of people think I'm lesbian tho... and why a lot of lesbians crush on me.
Pamela Grant yea i feel like im gay but i still dress average and not tomboyish and i have long nails, and i dont wear makeup.
Dark Rose Feel?
Pamela Grant what grade are u ib
Pamela Grant *in
I'm so gay...🙌🌈💕
That makes two of us ;)
Sophia Alexandra
YASSSSSSSSSSSS
Jean Luna frfr
Jean Luna yesssss ❤️
I am gay and proudXD
I'm bi and I look and act more stereotypically gay than my actually gay girlfriend. I'm literally wearing a button down with suspenders and a blazer right now.
Haha, I love it!!!
Rania Hamzeh I'm wearing a rainbow bow tie, flannel, and sweatpants SO GAY
MIDNIGHT the wolf Haha that's the best. I want a rainbow bow tie.
Laila Lightwood Very 😍 love it .
Rania Hamzeh I sometimes forget that I'm not a lesbian 😂 I'm bi as fuck, but my style is naturally lesbian af, even before I knew the lesbian steryotypes.
I know this was put up a while ago, but im so confused. I really like girls but there aren't really any cute ones at my middle school good thing im going into highschool this year. But I also like guys but not that much. I don't feel as much as a stomg connection with them. But I will still date them, and I can see myself marrying them. Im pretty sure im bisexual but not completely sure. I am a huge tomboy tho😂😂😂
I relate to you a lot! I love girls; they are so beautiful, soft and kind. But, boys are much easier to get along with and they tend to be less high maintenance. Labels are silly; there is no need to decide if you like boys or girls!! Just like who you like and love yourself! xox
Ashley Walter Maybe your bisexual or lesbian but heteroromatic?
Sophia Alexandra I don’t like any boys
Sophia Alexandra Are you a lesbian? I’m just wondering 😄😀😃😊
I'm bisexual and I was SO confused about myself until I got older. Don't pressure yourself into a box. You'll find you it just takes time
your tshirt!! says "girls" and also worn on f.r.i.e.n.d.s 😍😍
Yesssss!!! Love how you caught that reference
Love how you caught that reference
YASSS
Not every gay girl is like that. I'm gay as fuck and I'm really girly
"stereotypes"
I SAW ARIANA thats because you're a femme lesbian
I SAW ARIANA it's really only you can decide. A femme lesbian is a girl
who's gay but is still very girly. You can search it up if you want to know more about it
I SAW ARIANA never said it was 100% always
and what about how to spot a bisexual girl or pansexual girl?
juncodelrio15 yes I would like to know
HORROR STORY TIME same here
HORROR STORY TIME so do i
Marleen R Gonzalez how do you just figure out them at you like boys and girls?
HORROR STORY TIME same lmaooo
lol I'm a lesbian but I also wear flannels, sweatpants, low cut tanks, hats sooooo this is very stereotypical. I'm a lesbian but I'm not masculine. A lot of my friends watch the L word and they aren't gay... I'm not trying to turn down what you say but there's so many different lesbians out there so you can't pair us all together. And not all lesbians sit with their legs open? Nor do they all have masculine/ big tattoos. And definitely not all of lesbians have confidence?
In the description of this video I said these were all stereotypes. I for one, dress really girly for the most part and I am super gay. I just made this video to help people try to identify if their crush is gay because most girls that i've talked to have exhibited some of these things. I don't mean to offend anyone. These are all stereotypes
I completely agree with you but even I made a comment saying almost the same thing however she did mention that she knows it’s not all ppl
Straight girls also say "like" ... a lot 😂
Gabriela Blanco another stereotype 😂
Gabriela Blanco like for real
Gabriela Blanco But so does Sophie...
I'm gay and I say it
I'm les af and I say that a lot maybe cause I'm around straight girls lmaoooo
the masculine part is the most common. for me
when you're watching this at 4.30 in the morning in your homophobic grandparent's house because you need some gayness in your life. rip
ur so adorable!!! Your eyes are so pretty!!!
Thank you so much, love
Your eyes are gorgeous omg
omg you're so sweet love
It’s actually the opposite straight girls we don’t talk like that also lesbians are very very rare
I have short nails and I'm not gay
Shadow beloved same
Shadow beloved oml. She only said probably.
ok, know i have to tell my bf that i'm gay😂 but super cute Video 😙
haha yesssss! Thank you babe!
I'm lesbian but scared to ask a girl out cause I can't tell if there lesbian or not any tips on how?
Oh god. This is so hard. Just try to ask her if shes dating anyone? Ask about her exs? idk something to get her to admit shes gay.
pup gammer 2016 ill be gaming all the way same
i agree, can’t really tell but sometimes just go for it :)
pup gammer 2016 ill be gaming all the way my advice is to just ask if they are and who they like then you'll know that's what I did and I'm now dating my gf who was my crush ironically I was hers so yeah
pup gammer 2016 ill be gaming all the way ask if have fiance reoson
If she's got black hair and wearing green clothes, she's 100% a lesbian
Don't put me in r/NotHowGirlsWork
lmao you literally described me as a straight girl but im gay af. The only thing is I am, very girly lol
same goes for me
Ahhh this is such a stereotypical video!! I dress super girly 40% of the time. Fuck a gender role!!! We can wear whatever we want and still be gay!!
Same
I’m here because there’s a girl at my school who is creeping me out I think she is lesbian. She has been telling me she loves me, and clinging to me. Telling me that I’m the best person in the world. and I am 100% straight. I’m just very creeped out. She hasn’t come out yet and I’m concerned. Does anyone have any tips on what I should do
I'm bi and I don't wear these typically "lesbian" things
Eileen Jacobsen that’s because your bi
Eileen Jacobsen samw
Sameeeeeeee
"Lesbians have like way more confidence" haha I wish I could relate ⊙︿⊙
Video title: HOW TO SPOT A LESBIAN!!
contents: HOW TO DISCOVER THAT YOU'RE A LESBIAN!
I’m lesbian and I wear heels, short dresses, chokers, and I LOVE IT!
Not gonna lie 4:35 had me like 😍😛
Wow
This is the first video I've seen of you and I couldn't stop looking at your eyes & I already love you♡
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Same
lmao yes i always sleep with my legs open in school
except for femme lesbians though
Very true haha
THE FRAME AND EVERYTHING!!!!!!
Haha yaaaas! I love this bed
Yas! But I when I wake up my hair always gets caught in those twists and curls!
Cute video but funny thing all the girls at my Highschool all wear sweats and flannels and baggy shirts under them
OMG I never noticed I dress and act so gay... I mean yes I am a lesbian but I never really thought I am so sterotypically. I always sit with my legs open and now that I think about it every girl in my class said I shouldn't do it cause guys would stare at me. And the compliment thing is like so accurate.
Do a video of "gay or nay" I kinda like it
I know I’m hecka late but I’m a girly lesbian
Yep you just described me
hahah yessssss lesbian style is the best
Bi girl representation?! Where you at?
YOUR EYES 😍😍😍
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Maddy Walker same
Same!
I'm straight but I do all of the things she said
haha Thats totally valid. Lesbians/ Straight people come in all different shapes and sizes. This is super stereotypical and just MY way of distinguishing lesbians in public. At least we know you have good style.
Kate Rafael same
You just said what I'm wearing right now (sort of)
-baggy sweater
-lace white top
-leggings
Yep
lol soo true! But there's also some femmes so gotta watch out for them
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Simplyizzy24 lesbian？
yeeee
How to tell if a girl is gay
Show them a picture a hayley kioko if she says "oh that's the girl from lemonade mouth " shes straight if she says "I love her music" she's gay
*L O V E I S L O V E*
Flannels/plaid everyday
Beanies
Short nails
Watches The L Word
Also watches Orange is the New Black
But sometimes band tees and hoodies
You are so frikin adorable 😍😍😍
Omg thank you!!
This is her opinion and this is her video. So don’t get offended. Also this was 4 years ago, a lot has changed
thhey like 2hide..but its cute*
People knew I was gay before I knew 😂
You are wrong in so many ways...
Haritiny Giannakopoulou "stereotypes"
1:23
XD I’m fucking crying because last year when I thought I was straight all I would wear is flannels,baggy t-shirts, and flannels
I should’ve known
you are really cute :))
Thank you, babe
I'm gonna come out in the comment section...
I'M A LESBIAN AND I'M PROUD OF IT! 🌈
Really.. Yeah me 2 hi 5
Yah no. Wearing baggy clothes just means ur tomboy. A lot of gay femme women wear more fitting clothes.
I'm bisexual, more into girls. Super girly and love wearing chique clothing and wearing make up. And I'm also into girls who like the same.
I’m LITERALLY A LESBIAN(also Idc what I wear and I watch things that ain’t gay)
Stereotypes are a form of social shorthand, but they can be REALLY dangerous. When I was going through the extended period of angst o/w known as adolescence, it was the early 80s, right when the AIDS epidemic was cranking up. It is a bit distressing to see those stereotypes used here to "help" a girl know if she's gay. In those teenage years, the lesbian stereotype was exactly as you're using it, tomboys, can't stand being "girlie", love sports, hard-ass partier, etc, basically a boy without the penis. I, on the other hand, always loved all the trappings of being a girl. I had not a tomboy bone in my body. Because I didn't fit the stereotype, I was sure I couldn't be gay in spite of several girls who got me wet and squirrely in my tummy just being around them. I didn't "want" to be gay, so the stereotype saved me -- by pushing me into my very own personal closet. It took me 15 years and a straight marriage complete with my very own child (at least something good came of it) to realize the stereotype was wrong and yes friends and neighbors, I am gay even though I like to wear makeup, get dressed up to go out, heels, dresses, etc, and I dislike playing sports, working on cars, I'm not tatted up, or ready to take a job in construction. Neither my wife nor fits the stereotype, and my experience suggests it is utterly invalid. It distresses me that you're falling back on stereotypes -- they can cause more harm than good. BE CAREFUL WITH GENERALIZATIONS. Maybe you ought to do a video which states it's perfectly normal to be gay and girlie, and that it's equally OK to be attracted to women who are as girlie you. Or vice versa. Just be careful.
58 sec " yes, it is a nipple " XD I laughed so hard
I love that part when you said if you watch gay RUclips your gay that had me in stitches laughing 😂
so apparently i am gay because I do and wear all those things, except that tattoos but I am about to get that ish done. But nah I am not gay, but not straight lel, as you say sexuality is fluid so...
my style is everything and anything like one day I'm wearing baggy jumpers and jogging bottoms the next I'm in a tight green bodycon. Every girl thinks I'm straight
Your eyes are literally so perfect.
Thank you so much!!!
No problem😋
Oh no this is perfectly describing someone I may or may not like
IM STILL CONFUSED
Hahahaah Its honestly the hardest thing, girls are so complex.
You're a total legend Girl!!
hi yes this applies to bi people. speaking from personal experience
The struggle is real it's like trying to find Waldo in where's Waldo, R. I. P I'm die alone. (´༎ຶ ͜ʖ ༎ຶ `)♡
this was fan-freakintastic!! xDD I lovED iT
No you say like every 5 seconds. That’s not a bad thing like, I feel you
"Those pants look really good on you" *winks.. 😂
"You think shes straight, shes probably still gay" 💀💀💀 im dyinggg
your eyes are so freaking beautiful
Thank you!!
Do Lesbians comb their hair less well ? Do lesbians wear a hairband on their right arm ?
HAHAHAHAHA OMG THAT'S SO ME I CAN'T even the hat I don't wear hats usually but when I was a kid I was teaching preses to wear hat backwards CUZ "THAT'S HOW YOU WEAR IT MISTER" XDDDDDD
I'm sure if I'm lesbian or bisexual but ik a friend that is a lesbian she never wears hats she doesn't wear them at all so yea
Omg I do not know how I got here , greetings from Perú❤
I'm a tomboy lesbian. I do my best to look as gay as I can and hopefully attract the gays to me.
as a lesbian i noticed some gay people can't sit properly especially gay men and i have no problem with that i can't sit properly too
btw there's something with short nails that are sus iykyk
Also I've noticed my gaydar "ping" sometimes when girls have wildly coloured hair like blue or red for example. Some straight girls do it too but I find a lot of lesbians do it
I love this!! I have given so many straight girls the gay vibe looking for gay girls lmaoo
I’m gay as fuck but my shitty flirting is literally “your hair is so pretty”
Aaah finally i found a way.. Thanks for the information girl.. Now i can help. My friend who is a lesbian
This gave me confidence I used this confidence to embarrass myself
Tbh, I wear hobo stuff and act really, energised like a boy, and I watch rupaul SO much! But I never would get a tattoo and I will never wear hats backwards lmao
I know she said at the beginning that these were just stereotypes, but the amount of stereotypes in this pAiNs me
I like leggings, I wear makeup, I like getting dressed up to go out, I like fitted tops and a classy dress.... I’m definitely still into girls!
I am not girly at all, you meet me and you know I’m into girls. But to look at you would never know.
Good luck with Starbucks girl if that’s still the dream! Hahah x
I watch gay RUclips and I'm not gay, I just wanted to know how you can tell the difference. I act gay but I'm straight cause I like to act happy confident and feminine or casual. Taken women who don't care to impress other guys who are straight also dress carelessly lazy in sweat pants and messy hair around other people and dress super put together and prettier when trying to become taken as in not single to get a man
I love when she says "omg I'm so straight"
how do you tell if a lipstick lesbian is gay? (you don't know obviously) i am a girly lesbian, but i really like girls. everyone thinks im straight.
I am honestly pretty girly most of the times haha. I never wear dresses but i legit live in leggings and I love makeup! So, Im pretty sure everyone thinks im straight lol
i‘m bisexual and none of these things you talked about applied to me like literally nothing lmao. i‘m actually extremely EXTREMELY far from being masculine