FTM Phalloplasty What About The Scar?

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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
  • The other day I received a question regarding my arm after phalloplasty and how it will never look the same. It hit me kind of hard at first because I have been trying not to think about it, but here is my answer.
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Комментарии • 45

  • @natjade4855
    @natjade4855 7 лет назад +11

    10 days? wow man that is amazing ,i hope everithing goes alrigth.

  • @honestcriminal9944
    @honestcriminal9944 7 лет назад +1

    i think it's pretty cool tbh. when you get to tell (understanding) people that you have your scar because you're trans, i feel, it that were me, it would be kinda rad? like, when you said you're sacrificing that for something even better that you've wanted for a really long time, that's very true! you have what you wanted, what a lot of other trans men would love and you also have a cool scar that you can tell people about and they'll go :0 woooah nice, man!
    idk i just think it's not more of a "bad" reminder, but a good one. to show how far you've come to be the person you want to be. :)

  • @saintsabe8632
    @saintsabe8632 7 лет назад +19

    To avoid any detailed questions about the scar, I'd probably just say that I had to correct a birth defect.

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 лет назад +6

      +Sebastian hmm not a bad idea! Thanks for the idea!

    • @icke11234
      @icke11234 6 лет назад

      Disgusting liars for life, that's what you are. We will spot you anyway, anywhere. We know all about your filthy phoney game.

    • @gigilopez1090
      @gigilopez1090 6 лет назад

      icke11234 😘

  • @avahanadel3525
    @avahanadel3525 7 лет назад +5

    Hey Cody, just wanted to let u know that your videos really inspire me. I do CrossFit and often use your meal plans and recipes as inspirations for my own. As a trans guy, it's nice to know I'm not alone in my struggles, and I hope your surgery goes amazing. Scars are scary to think about, but I hope you are happy with your results!(My name will show up as my birth name so if anyone wants to respond, using the correct name, Corbin, would be great. Thanks!)

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 лет назад

      +Ava Hanadel aw thanks Corbin! That means a lot. So glad that my recipes might be of some help and I'm
      Hoping to do more of them while I'm laid up a bit! :) that's awesome you do crossfit! Keep up the good work and thank you so much for the support and positivity! ❤️

    • @rileyx-x411
      @rileyx-x411 7 лет назад +2

      if he says he's a trans guy, he's a guy

    • @rileyx-x411
      @rileyx-x411 7 лет назад +1

      Cody is a trans guy, Ava is a trans guy and so am I. We both came to Cody so we can understand how this transition will go. I one day want Phalloplasty, and it helps so much watching his videos. Now that I know some transphobes watch him makes me so upset and just embarrassed, you click his videos to leave hate

    • @rileyx-x411
      @rileyx-x411 7 лет назад +2

      You're being transphobic to every transguy

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 лет назад +2

      Ignore Dead horses. All she does is ask the same repetitive questions while telling you her opinions of what your gender is. The truth is that you will run into a lot of people on the internet, and in real life like them, but you just have to be strong in who you are. If they were strong in who they were, they wouldn't have to step onto other peoples youtube channels to repeatedly comment their opinion. Their opinion doesn't matter, your truth does. We are transmen. I am proud of that, and that is all that matters. Stay strong brother.

  • @Yahriel
    @Yahriel 5 лет назад

    what you said about coming to like your scars... I hadn't thought of it like that before for my arm. It's true for my top surgery scars, but somehow I just never translated that to the possibility my arm will never, ever look "normal" again. That's... a bit of a revelation and very helpful. Thank you.

  • @GayFrankenstein
    @GayFrankenstein 7 лет назад +5

    I am so happy I am not the only guy who looks for top surgery scars on cis guy chests....

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 лет назад +3

      haha yup I do it all the time!

  • @vicarious1417
    @vicarious1417 7 лет назад

    I'm rooting for you Cody. Seems like yesterday you were just talking about making this decision - time really flies. Looking forward to seeing you and supporting you through out this physical and mental journey!

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 лет назад

      +Vic Arious aw thanks so much!
      I appreciate the support! Time does pass thank god haha ❤️

  • @caden4860
    @caden4860 7 лет назад

    Sending you positive thoughts for surgery Cody!

  • @jennak33
    @jennak33 7 лет назад

    10 days! HOLY SHIT DUDE!!!!! ALL THE BEST :):) So happy for you, sending positive vibes your way.

  • @indyf00t
    @indyf00t 7 лет назад +1

    Absolute best of luck with recovery!! :)

  • @thingsdylansays
    @thingsdylansays 7 лет назад +2

    In terms of scars, I feel the same way and just had this conversation with my partner about how I don't see my chest scars anymore but I know if I go shirtless in public the general public will. I honestly haven't really been out in public shirtless often since surgery and I was just curious as to whether or not people ask you questions about them and what your response is?

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 лет назад +2

      So far I haven't had any questions regarding my chest scars, but usually when I am shirtless I am running.. so it doesn't really give people a chance haha.

  • @privatepinstripe
    @privatepinstripe 7 лет назад +1

    I've seen a couple of great forearm tattoos over healed rfp scars.
    Also, do you think you will do a reveal?
    I'm interested in where your current tattoo ends up - mine is in the same place!
    Peace bro ✌🏼

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 лет назад +2

      Yea I am more than likely going to do a tattoo over the scar, I already have my tattoo artist picked out :) As for a reveal, of my penis or arm? haha. I might create a private blog where I post pictures.

  • @devonlee2323
    @devonlee2323 7 лет назад +1

    I still love watching your videos and progress !!!!! Love ya stuff bro !

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 лет назад

      Thanks man!! Appreciate it! :)

  • @leticiavalencia8338
    @leticiavalencia8338 7 лет назад

    so exited for you cody 😃 wish you nothing but the best love your videos your so detailed in to what you speak ❤❤

  • @alnthevalley1
    @alnthevalley1 6 лет назад

    I would’ve liked to see what you were speaking about bc you did not show it to understand

  • @MangoPandaBros
    @MangoPandaBros 7 лет назад

    Wondering how did you get insurance to cover phallplasty ?

  • @mayared932
    @mayared932 7 лет назад

    I'm seriously considering this....But I have so many questions and although it would work out for the best, I'm still nervous...

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 лет назад

      It's okay to be nervous! That is normal :)

    • @mayared932
      @mayared932 7 лет назад

      Thankyou, Not being normal or as accepted is a big worry for me.

  • @johnathank7583
    @johnathank7583 7 лет назад

    or at least part of it

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 лет назад

      +Calvin Guerrero yea I'm aware lol

  • @denisearagon5170
    @denisearagon5170 7 лет назад

    Cody u r amazing I have so many questions and things I'd like to talk to you about reply at ur earliest convenience thank you

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 лет назад

      Ask away :)

    • @denisearagon5170
      @denisearagon5170 7 лет назад

      here's my number id like to hear from you soon if possible 9152607706

    • @denisearagon5170
      @denisearagon5170 7 лет назад

      dnice0440 is my Snapchat if video chat with you is possible