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Hey Antonio, I’m a Special Education teacher in Minnesota who recently discovered your channel. I’ve got to thank you for helping me level up my professionalism and communication skills. I wasn’t necessarily suffering in these areas before. However I’ve been able to make some changes which should help me increase the productivity of interactions with colleagues and parents.-with the ultimate goal of becoming a better educator and increasing student achievement. Thanks so much for your help in this journey!
Antonio is the gentleman we deserve but not the one we need right now, so we'll hunt him, because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector, a dark gentleman.
I believe that 60 - 70% eye contact when talking to a person is perfect. It makes them feel connected and yet at the same time, it makes them feel like they need to work harder, and put in more effort.
Sir I am from India and I admire you a lot . You are really doing a great job by helping everyone to change his personality and increase confidence. A true friend Thanks
Wow Great stuff Antonio! This is Awesome! I have horrible eye contact... I need to work on it I look all over the place when I talk to women not her chest particular the floor and the ceiling mostly. Really insightful and helpful. I have a lot to digest to night!
I'd happily stare at a woman's chest. It is said to be healthy and reduce the risk of cancer by a certain drop rate. I ain't taking any chances. Some of the girls (i) have come across think it is funny too. It may perhaps be the way i deal with the situation in a very confident way. But it is not very nice to stare at her chest, so go grab your sunglasses and pretend you are Stevie Wonder. I promise she will notice though.
I'm watching this video because I'm going on a first date with a gorgeous women tomorrow night and it helped I'm alot less nervous on how to present myself THANK YOU!
The timing on this is perfect. After a conversation (whether with a woman, friend or coworker) I always feel that I could've made more eye contact. Definitely going to work on this more.
Good JOB .Nothing can be more true Sir Antonio. I wish they taught us this gold in school. I lost my first job because the Head was disgusted of my eye stance and the facial expressions and he ofcourse made me leave within a week.
This helped, I’m not originally from the US, although I’ve lived here for a long time and I’ve assimilated, I needed to clarify that eye contact aspect. It is said that eye contact is important in the American culture, but I was never sure how long or how to properly do it. A staring contest seemed too much to me, haha!
"Don't stare at her chest" Okay, so there is also a condition of situation you are in. I'll explain: Yes, staring aka looking at something for a long period of time is never a good idea. However glancing is acceptable, if it's not in a working surrounding and the mood is more intimate than usual. Imagine if a woman is attracted to you - suddenly she starts to make unaware movements (or sometimes she's perfectly aware of them) - particularly, touching her blouse or the edges of her cleavage, or maybe her legs and thighs. These are the signals she's giving to you as she tries to attract your attention to these areas, and if your eyes follow her hand movements - you're giving a signal back to her that you're interested in her as well. Being polite and avoid looking at her feminine parts is good thing for nice guys to be acceptable in society.. And then they'll be heading home alone and taking a cold shower. But sometimes you need to be more assertive if you are interested in this girl and not only she allows it, but also sort of _expects_ it from you. Just read the body language and learn how to interpret situations.
How i got more confidence? 1. Think why you are shy. Which reason find it. 2. What is difference btw you and others (answear nothing) than why you should be shy:)
VERY interesting. Good info. As a high functioning autistic, eye contact is a HUGE challenge for me, including when making a video. For some mysterious reason, making eye contact with the audience while dancing is easier for me than when speaking.
VERY informative video!! This vid. gives us some good tricks & tips on improving our eye contact… I love how you touched on the topic about cultures who MAY have different eye contact etiquette… It was very pivotal you included that, and it also shows that it might not be a, “one size fits all” approach for everyone in the world… So I also would like to add, that there are a lot of people, (mostly men) who have ADD, ADHD, and even Aspergers who are not made famous for maintaining eye contact as indicated AND demonstrated in this video… These individuals are also known to be intelligent, productive, trustworthy, and confident in their OWN way… It might be a thing for us to keep in mind… Do you disagree!?
Excellent My interpersonal communications teacher has put you in my life. Very good stuff. I am an overt person larger than life how about jokes? when is appropriate to joke. Should I avoid jokes? No off color jokes for sure. I consider myself shy until.... bam then its like people are my best friends how can I avoid this. have an awesome day.....
@@RealMenRealStyle eye contact speaks more than words it is really interesting!! And solved my long time question: Why people don't remember what I say rather they easily get others? Thanks a lot and I just subscribed today for your channel you are awesome!! ...sorry for lengthy reply.
I have noticed that with strangers, say in a grocery store, if you make casual, non-threatening, (staring or leering) eye contact with a male, they will typically keep the contact and usually it is followed up with a nod, a smile or a casual "hello". Now if this stranger happens to be a woman, I have found that most of the time they will break eye contact immediately and look away or their eye contact even if you caught them looking at you first. Most women do not like to make eye contact with others unless they know the person.
@@FearInTha I use the "I know where this is leading but I need more infos, more details" expression. Works for me most of the time and either they tell you the details and I get the bridge or I get a summary.
This is some grade A information. I learned a lot. But now this means that I'm aware of my faults and I can't be lazy about my bad habits. Great video, as a matter of fact.
I use the long eye contact technique during interrogations. Works pretty well. Eye contact in social setting can be a problem though. Scanning your surroundings gets to be a habit.
Anything new that you haven't really covered in detail in past videos basically. Being quite vague here because I'm open to any new content you have to offer. My problem was with content/information that was already mentioned in previous videos and therefore, made your videos quite "repetitive" in that sense. Things like how to tie ties, shoes, things like that? Even though the entire video wasn't focused on those things, they did appear now and then. But I find your videos on e.g. the amazon shipping service, interesting and worth watching. Hope this clarifies
I've been told by a couple of people that I blink a lot and now I just never blink. Another thing is that I never have smiled to a woman I don't have a conversation with but I might do that to men or elderly people.
Here is my problem I came here to solve: I may hold too much eye contact with short conversations. Also, I just found out that I may be a robot because I drink a lot of water and I blink around 2-3 times/minute. Plz help
I find that Burst training or HIIT gives me a very good intuitive eye.contact ability and attentiveness! Maybe because it's a great way to make you alert during the days after the training
Hey man I practice the eye contact I worked but some times not sometimes but frequently i seen my self going in the awkward moment I think it's my anxiety 🤦🏿♂️ the akward feeling is stronger than what i plan to do .what am I doing wrong ?😑
Antonio, i have 1 real question, this has always been a problem, so im kinda near sited but not quite enough to wear glasses. When people are kinda across the room, i cant ever tell if shes stairing at me or smiling at me from that far. I can see that far as soon as i squint for a second but if theres some kind of cue im suppossed to be lookin for from across the room, well im gonna miss it. For the most part i dont need glasses, but just for a second or 2 during the day and i usually just get closer to whatever i needed to see for that second instead of wearing glasses all the time. I even tried glasses but i hated wearing them for the most part. Dude, this has killed my game before and still does but im not all about to wear some glasses just for a second or 2 during the day that i needed em for. This is super frustrating. It happens at the gym or a public setting or just a park or alot of times. That and if im checkin out her ass or somethin, i cant ever tell if her eyeballs are lookin right at me or not, i can see the rest of her but not her tiny little pupils. Bro....
As a LEO, when working, I do not maintain more than 1-2 seconds of eye contact before checking my surroundings, (for safety reasons). Unfortunately that practice bleeds over into civilian life when off duty. And yes, the long stare is a good interrogation technique. I make sure my eyes are 'wide' and blink infrequently when putting it into practice. Stay safe!
The last part, “Stares at them like he’s in love” I like that! Very funny! Awesome video, I liked this one! This is what we’re trying to teach my nephews and niece, but mainly my nephews, they need to work on that, but as time goes on, they will. They’re only 9 and 11 years old.
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Here’s a little-known fact. If you want someone to remember your words… make eye contact.
WATCH NEXT: 10 Tips To Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever - ruclips.net/video/Yx-S7v1Z7gA/видео.html
Hey, could you do a video about gloves?
R4M1R0MC - Perfect for this season. Thanks for the video idea. 😁
that sticky eyes concept does work. also make sure when using make it the left half of your face as that has been proved to be more attractive
Staring for too long is off putting and comes off as too aggressive
Real Men Real Style I am from Russia and watch your original channel, you are a winner
50%talking,
70%listening,
120%being a gentleman
Absolutely!
nice one Alpha. Its about being respectful and geting that respect back my boy.
I just noticed Antonio never blinks.
Maxwell Nassiri-Shahroudi Blinking is for the weak 😂
Same. He just doesn't blink.
Well, he does. Twice here 2:45
Power move.
He is a former Marine. They are not allowed to blink. Blinking wastes too much time
For someone with autism, this is a great help, to actually get the intell in a condensed format how to make eye contact. Great video!
I'm glad to hear that this video helped in making eye contact. Thanks for being here TobiasL1991. 👍
@@RealMenRealStyle It is great to get some numbers instead of "just do it right", it helps me too.
Hey Antonio, I’m a Special Education teacher in Minnesota who recently discovered your channel. I’ve got to thank you for helping me level up my professionalism and communication skills. I wasn’t necessarily suffering in these areas before. However I’ve been able to make some changes which should help me increase the productivity of interactions with colleagues and parents.-with the ultimate goal of becoming a better educator and increasing student achievement. Thanks so much for your help in this journey!
Great stuff! Its easy to have eye contact while listening but sometimes you might not show eye contact while speaking to someone
Isn't it awkward not to have eye contact while talking to someone?
I love these videos. When I watch them,I realize I already do these things. You feel like a king when that's the case. Thanks Antonio!
Antonio is the gentleman we deserve but not the one we need right now, so we'll hunt him, because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector, a dark gentleman.
This comment is gold. 😂
😂😂😂😂
Lol
I believe that 60 - 70% eye contact when talking to a person is perfect. It makes them feel connected and yet at the same time, it makes them feel like they need to work harder, and put in more effort.
these videos are really helpful!!
keep up the great work
She looks at you: Oh! She likes me!
She doesn't look at you: She's nervous, Oh! She likes me!
That "blink if you want me " mentality
Nice info. I was looking for this and glad I found it here.
Happy to hear you find these tips useful.
I felt unconfomrtable with the eye contact with you trhough the screen. After watching i understood why...
Blink more... Please 😂
😂
He just blinks when you do.
I,m a 42 year old unemployed oil field worker, your videos have changed my life, thank you.
458 likes and 3 dislikes. Holy crap. Thank u Antonio for ur regular uploads. I needed it very much.
Dope video as always! Thanks Antonio!
Thanks a lot for providing the needful information
You hit it again! Every video I learn something. Please keep it up. Thank you.
Hi Rick - Thanks! #Antonioneverstops
Sir I am from India and I admire you a lot . You are really doing a great job by helping everyone to change his personality and increase confidence. A true friend
Thanks
Wow Great stuff Antonio! This is Awesome! I have horrible eye contact... I need to work on it I look all over the place when I talk to women not her chest particular the floor and the ceiling mostly. Really insightful and helpful. I have a lot to digest to night!
I appreciate this. I usually hold eye contact too long , no blinking and have been told it’s intimidating.
I'm glad this video helped you realize that. It can be pretty intimidating if you don't blink. 😁
Fantastic video Antonio! This was a great take on eye contact, I did a video myself, but it's a little different in what it aims to provide :)
Happy Facts Lifestyle - I'm glad you guys enjoyed it. What's the video title?
Good tip on the “figuring out eye color” vs staring “elsewhere”. Thanks!
Wow great video...Confidence = Strong Eye Contact
Nice Tips, Appreciate what ur doing Man💯👌
Gracias Antonio, saludos desde Venezuela! mucha calidad tus videos!! te felicito!
Thanks for the manual blinking
The funny thing is a lot of guys make the mistake of staring at a woman’s chest.
Haha - that's why I'm redirecting you to the oval section of the eye area. 😏
Especially their eyes keep tracking 🤦
well you're making eye contact just with different eyes
I'd happily stare at a woman's chest. It is said to be healthy and reduce the risk of cancer by a certain drop rate. I ain't taking any chances. Some of the girls (i) have come across think it is funny too. It may perhaps be the way i deal with the situation in a very confident way. But it is not very nice to stare at her chest, so go grab your sunglasses and pretend you are Stevie Wonder. I promise she will notice though.
YES, I WONDER WHY xD
Thank you, man, for this useful advices! Looking forward to your next vidio!
Thanks.this is what im looking for.
wow...so nicely made video for such a important topic,u owe a hats off again Antonio!!!
Love that you guys leave comments here about the importance of the video topic. Thank you! 😁
Great Tips Antonio!!! Eye contact is very important!
You got that right.
Great video 👌
Thank you and I like it all and need it
Thank you sir. Learned and applied many things from your videos.
I love that you're applying it. Thanks Jason.
Excellent advice and wise words ☝🏻
Thank you very much for this video❤️
Great tips! I know my smile is my weakness so I practice it in front of a mirror. That gives me confidence in real world situations.
Practice makes a lotof difference.
Thank you for the tips, Antonio. This video helps a great deal
Your videos are so informative! Love it.
Solid video Antonio. I’ll definitely keep these tips in my arsenal!
Sounds great! 😁
I'm watching this video because I'm going on a first date with a gorgeous women tomorrow night and it helped I'm alot less nervous on how to present myself
THANK YOU!
Great advice, thanks
The timing on this is perfect. After a conversation (whether with a woman, friend or coworker) I always feel that I could've made more eye contact. Definitely going to work on this more.
Sounds great - I love that you guys are taking action with these tips.
Fantastic video Antonio! Great work.
Thanks Klaas.
Good JOB .Nothing can be more true Sir Antonio. I wish they taught us this gold in school. I lost my first job because the Head was disgusted of my eye stance and the facial expressions and he ofcourse made me leave within a week.
Thanks man 😍
This helped, I’m not originally from the US, although I’ve lived here for a long time and I’ve assimilated, I needed to clarify that eye contact aspect. It is said that eye contact is important in the American culture, but I was never sure how long or how to properly do it. A staring contest seemed too much to me, haha!
Lol
3-5 seconds would be the perfect time to hold eye contact.
Thank you
Thanks for this video
AMAZING VIDEO ANTONIO
Very useful! Fantastic!
very helpful, keep it up.
Talking to the women and being able to remember their eye color is always a killer. Just the appreciation that we pay attention.
"Don't stare at her chest"
Okay, so there is also a condition of situation you are in. I'll explain:
Yes, staring aka looking at something for a long period of time is never a good idea. However glancing is acceptable, if it's not in a working surrounding and the mood is more intimate than usual.
Imagine if a woman is attracted to you - suddenly she starts to make unaware movements (or sometimes she's perfectly aware of them) - particularly, touching her blouse or the edges of her cleavage, or maybe her legs and thighs. These are the signals she's giving to you as she tries to attract your attention to these areas, and if your eyes follow her hand movements - you're giving a signal back to her that you're interested in her as well.
Being polite and avoid looking at her feminine parts is good thing for nice guys to be acceptable in society.. And then they'll be heading home alone and taking a cold shower. But sometimes you need to be more assertive if you are interested in this girl and not only she allows it, but also sort of _expects_ it from you. Just read the body language and learn how to interpret situations.
How i got more confidence?
1. Think why you are shy. Which reason find it.
2. What is difference btw you and others (answear nothing) than why you should be shy:)
VERY interesting. Good info. As a high functioning autistic, eye contact is a HUGE challenge for me, including when making a video. For some mysterious reason, making eye contact with the audience while dancing is easier for me than when speaking.
Thanks for this great information 😊
Really great video as always! Favourite tip: someone who you stare at will be more truthful
Diesis - I like that tip too.
VERY informative video!! This vid. gives us some good tricks & tips on improving our eye contact… I love how you touched on the topic about cultures who MAY have different eye contact etiquette… It was very pivotal you included that, and it also shows that it might not be a, “one size fits all” approach for everyone in the world… So I also would like to add, that there are a lot of people, (mostly men) who have ADD, ADHD, and even Aspergers who are not made famous for maintaining eye contact as indicated AND demonstrated in this video… These individuals are also known to be intelligent, productive, trustworthy, and confident in their OWN way… It might be a thing for us to keep in mind… Do you disagree!?
Excellent My interpersonal communications teacher has put you in my life. Very good stuff. I am an overt person larger than life how about jokes? when is appropriate to joke. Should I avoid jokes? No off color jokes for sure. I consider myself shy until.... bam then its like people are my best friends how can I avoid this. have an awesome day.....
Very good info for success. ON point!
Thanks Gator 126 - love hearing that it's this video is great for being successful. Enjoyed filming it too. 😁
Great one
Irish - Which trick did you find most interesting?
@@RealMenRealStyle eye contact speaks more than words it is really interesting!! And solved my long time question: Why people don't remember what I say rather they easily get others? Thanks a lot and I just subscribed today for your channel you are awesome!! ...sorry for lengthy reply.
I have noticed that with strangers, say in a grocery store, if you make casual, non-threatening, (staring or leering) eye contact with a male, they will typically keep the contact and usually it is followed up with a nod, a smile or a casual "hello". Now if this stranger happens to be a woman, I have found that most of the time they will break eye contact immediately and look away or their eye contact even if you caught them looking at you first. Most women do not like to make eye contact with others unless they know the person.
You rock Antonio thank you sir
Thanks for your videos! 🔥
i Make eye contact i forget what they are talking....few seconds later...in my mind... oops wat the said ooo my god lets pretend im listening... lol
Just laugh and hope it wasn't a question eh?
@@FearInTha I use the "I know where this is leading but I need more infos, more details" expression. Works for me most of the time and either they tell you the details and I get the bridge or I get a summary.
@@FearInTha Best chances with this "knowing" nod
Lol this happens to me every time😂😂
So much information.
Did you like the video? 😁
This is some grade A information. I learned a lot. But now this means that I'm aware of my faults and I can't be lazy about my bad habits. Great video, as a matter of fact.
Sir really I satisfy I love this vedio sir I hope you will brings more thank you for the session
Sir you are a genius !!!
I use the long eye contact technique during interrogations. Works pretty well.
Eye contact in social setting can be a problem though. Scanning your surroundings gets to be a habit.
Thanks for the video there are some tips that are helpful for me as I usually do when I see a pretty women
Gaming Bar - Happy to hear that. Let me know which tip works best for you.
I have always wondered about this. Thanks!
You're welcome Matt!
Great tips Sir
I've been missing videos without advertising and sponsoring. Thank you, Antonio!
Every other 1m+ RUclipsr cannot skip a video without one. So sad :(
Hey Frank - You should watch more of my videos. I do film non sponsored videos every week. 😏😁
Blinking!..Very cool vid.
love your videos my man
finally a video with fresh content. haven't been clicking on your videos in a while...
SethO- Glad to have you back. Would love to hear your thoughts on videos you want to see here.
Anything new that you haven't really covered in detail in past videos basically. Being quite vague here because I'm open to any new content you have to offer. My problem was with content/information that was already mentioned in previous videos and therefore, made your videos quite "repetitive" in that sense. Things like how to tie ties, shoes, things like that? Even though the entire video wasn't focused on those things, they did appear now and then. But I find your videos on e.g. the amazon shipping service, interesting and worth watching. Hope this clarifies
I really enjoyed this vid it explains a lot 🤘🏼
Riz - appreciate you for leaving comments on my videos. Thank you! 😁
I've been told by a couple of people that I blink a lot and now I just never blink. Another thing is that I never have smiled to a woman I don't have a conversation with but I might do that to men or elderly people.
Thanks !
Here is my problem I came here to solve: I may hold too much eye contact with short conversations. Also, I just found out that I may be a robot because I drink a lot of water and I blink around 2-3 times/minute. Plz help
I find that Burst training or HIIT gives me a very good intuitive eye.contact ability and attentiveness! Maybe because it's a great way to make you alert during the days after the training
Excellent video
This man is awesome
Hey man I practice the eye contact I worked but some times not sometimes but frequently i seen my self going in the awkward moment I think it's my anxiety 🤦🏿♂️ the akward feeling is stronger than what i plan to do .what am I doing wrong ?😑
Just Look At Eyes Colour THATS THE AMAZING TIP IT HELPS PRETTY MUCH
Thank you for making these types of videos .They are very useful to me 😊😊😊😊😊
And I love filming these videos for you guys. 😁
My God i needed this one so much,i just cant look at someone in eyes no matter what I do .
Quality content
Antonio you should write a book & it should be made compulsory till high school.🤘
I shared this with about 25 male, cousins thank you so much for the tips......
You rock Olga!
Good tips.👍
Nicolas Orozco that’s what he said
Wasn't even aware of this, but I definitely need it.
Antonio, i have 1 real question, this has always been a problem, so im kinda near sited but not quite enough to wear glasses. When people are kinda across the room, i cant ever tell if shes stairing at me or smiling at me from that far. I can see that far as soon as i squint for a second but if theres some kind of cue im suppossed to be lookin for from across the room, well im gonna miss it. For the most part i dont need glasses, but just for a second or 2 during the day and i usually just get closer to whatever i needed to see for that second instead of wearing glasses all the time. I even tried glasses but i hated wearing them for the most part. Dude, this has killed my game before and still does but im not all about to wear some glasses just for a second or 2 during the day that i needed em for. This is super frustrating. It happens at the gym or a public setting or just a park or alot of times. That and if im checkin out her ass or somethin, i cant ever tell if her eyeballs are lookin right at me or not, i can see the rest of her but not her tiny little pupils. Bro....
Yo awesome
This is an awesome page
Hi William - Thanks for checking out the channel. 😁
As a LEO, when working, I do not maintain more than 1-2 seconds of eye contact before checking my surroundings, (for safety reasons). Unfortunately that practice bleeds over into civilian life when off duty. And yes, the long stare is a good interrogation technique. I make sure my eyes are 'wide' and blink infrequently when putting it into practice. Stay safe!
LEO?
Would u please published a vedio about Fashion / style for doctors
The last part, “Stares at them like he’s in love” I like that! Very funny!
Awesome video, I liked this one! This is what we’re trying to teach my nephews and niece, but mainly my nephews, they need to work on that, but as time goes on, they will. They’re only 9 and 11 years old.
Love this plan - keep it up! 😁👍
Real Men Real Style Thanks Antonio!