I never knew Selena had a son!!! When people speak of losing a parent or a child, I will always think that losing a child is something you will never get over. It's no comparison, especially when you've had your parents for most of your life.
She lost her son while on the show then her grandmother (whom she considered her mother) then she had the seizure and sickness all pretty close together. Selena went through a lot on the show.
You’re comparing the dynamics in relations to the ones they lost, but a broken heart for a love one that filled that space is breathtaking in the saddest way. She had one son; Mimi had one father; both guys probably were these women’s first love that taught them how to love. Mimi didn’t try to compare their grief; she tried to connect their grief. There’s a difference.
@@shanec9840I definitely get where you are coming from. A loss is a loss no matter how you slice it. I wrote that from the experience of losing a parent.
Yes, she spoke about it the episode when she was getting SunJai ready for prom & she would also have her granddaughter with her from time to time. I miss thar show.
Deepest condolences to Mimi and Selena. I lost my son 2 years ago and it's been extremely difficult. I've lost a parent and a sibling as well but when it's your child, it's a different type of pain and I'm only speaking from my own experience.
My deepest condolences to Mimi, Selena and Tina (who loss her baby). 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😢🕊️ Grief never gets easy. I loss my cousin due to gun violence and I helped to raise him. I remember looking at him in the casket and I had to ask my daughter to ask the funeral director if that was him. I just couldn’t process it. He didn’t look like himself. I’m still trying to process it. He left behind 4 children, two who are 8 and 6. I just don’t understand. 😢😞 My husband loss his grandmother,, two step grandfathers, three aunts, and a cousin in the course of a few years. 😞 At the end of the day..death is God’s business. We can’t control the time, nor the hour, just like babies being born. No one knows, but God. Praying for those who are grieving. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
When my cousin passed at a young age. I didnt go to the funerals bc i didnt wanna believe it was real. Then later in life i started losing my uncles that i was use to seeing, spendin time with, and helping out with what i could. After i watch my one uncle on a machine and witnessing the pain he went througn during his last days. I never went to another funeral. I never wanna remember them like that. I wanted to remember the good times. Ppl felt like i was being mean, but ive watch to many pp, suffer and pass away. I rather not see them in a casket. My grandfather, both my grandma's 4 uncles,1 aunt and my 30 yr old cousin. I wasnt a long distance relative. I was there, going to visit at there home, taking them to doctors visits, visits at the hospitals. Now im just at the point where while we have time im enjoying them in the flesh. Show and telling them how much i love them. Im still not attending anymore funerals!
I lost my boyfriend of 3 and a half years. He was murdered a week and a half before the birth of our son. I couldn't "grieve" because everyone told me, i had to be strong and think about our son as i still was pregnant. Fastforward 12 yrs later, it still hurts. Apart of me died when he did. My first experience being a parent and i hate the month of june. June 6 he was murdered, June 7 i found out, june 12 was his memorial, june 15 my birthday, june 16 the birth of our son and june 17 was father's day. All of this happened in 2012. This year, my son birthday fell on father's day. It did omce in the past but he was younger (i think 2 or 3) but at 12, it crushed me. Knowing the one thing his heart desires is something i can't give. I never properly grieved so i have my moments especially lookinb at our child seeing his father. I hope anyone grieving, takes it a day at a time❤
First off my condolences 🙏🏽💔 our stories are similar so I had to reach out. My child’s father (and my spouse) passed away this Easter, our son was five months. I felt like I couldn’t properly grieve as well because I was battling postpartum, having to take care of a new born alone - along with my 6 year old. His wake and funeral was two weeks before my birthday. His birthday was two weeks after mine and a few weeks later was Father’s Day (would have been my first Father’s Day with his only son). It’s still very hard for me to process his death because everyday I have to get up, work and still be a mom while battling this hurt. It’s like I haven’t had even a weekend to just be in my thoughts and feelings and really just process, I have moments. I just pray God continues to be with us all because griping for the weak and it’s a lifelong process 🙏🏽💔🙏🏽
@lashawnslife4135 absolutely and I'm so sorry that you are experiencing this. I would be lying if I say it gets better but the truth is, it doesn't. You just learn to adjust to what has become your new normal. I find what keeps me going is not only my son, but doing things as my beloved boyfriend would have if he were here. But it gets hard seeing him in our son. I pray God one day mends your brokenheart and that you find comfort in his love💚 god bless you and your babies!
I totally understand what Selena and Mimi going through because I lost my uncle and aunt 2 years apart and I'm still grieving from it it's hard people don't understand my situation 😞😞😞😞😞😞😞
God bless them because it's really, really hard when grief doesn't have a timetable. You never get over it but you just pray to be able to accept it 🙏❤
Also R.I.P to the 2 Dancing Dolls that were killed. Smh man I feel for their mothers, fathers and Miss Dianna with that. So tragic and heartbreaking. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿😔😔😔🕊️🕊️🕊️💔💔💔 DD4L!
They ALL look SO incredibly beautiful!!!! I LOVED watching Bring It when it was on tv. I am SO proud of Dianna & what she has done for those girls & their families 🥰🫶🏽💕
2009 was the worst year of my life. 1. Lost my granddad and we buried him on Valentine's Day. 2. 2 months later lost my aunt. 3. 2 months later I Lost 2 sibling cousin a week apart. And that was there mom that died 2 months before they did. And in the mist of that I had emergency surgery in June. But the biggest shock of all was: I lost my dad September 25th of 2009. It was a shock and a heavy blow for me because I was a daddy's girl. And I end up getting a divorce that November. So I had a rough year of 2009. I would never forget that year for the rest of my life I still in my heart broken 💔💔💔
I lost my boyfriend of 10 years 2 years ago and it still feels very fresh. I was alone and had no one to deal with the pain of of it. I also wouldnt wish that kind of pain on my worst enemy. Death is inevitable but the process of coping that loved ones have to deal with is hard. I missed my only supporter who truly cared how I was doing on the day to day basis.
Im not taking away from anyone's loss, but loosing a child is in a category by it self. I know cause I just put my 23 year old son to rest. I loss both my parents and my kids father and believe me when I say the lost of a child hits totally totally different sorry but no comparison to loosing a child. It is not natural to bury a child but it is natural gor for you to bury your parents and your spouse. Not talking away from anyones loss but a child is in a category of its own no comparison at all.
DD4L LOVE THE WOMEN THE DANCERS THIS SHOW IS FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY!!!! I remember how I use to get strength from this show and it looks like I we can get it al
No one is saying death can't be avoided. They're saying there's no good time for it to happen. Nor is there a good time to heal from the grief. No parent, who is active in their child's life, expects the child to go before them. Death can't be avoided and neither can the pain it causes the surviving family.
@@porshataylor-ee5ri Losing a child, isn't everyone's destiny. Deaths aren't untimely, it happens when it's supposed to, whether relatives understands that OR NOT. That's why birthdays are important to acknowledge cause you don't know when the death day is.
Oh my god I so can relate. I’m just learning how to grieve over my mom and my Dog. I lost them both a year and a month apart from each other. I feel for Mimi and Selena. I wouldn’t wish losing a parent on my worst enemy either. It’s like someone took an ice brick and threw it at the Sun and the sun froze
I STRONGLY suggest that Mimi & Selena seek professional counseling to guide them through their grieving process (it's a process). That process is not cookie-cutter; each individual experiences it differently, but we all need help navigating through it. It takes time; for some, it can be longer than for others. I'll be praying for them!🙏🙏
I feel so bad for Selena, i feel like she isn't acknowledged ever. ❤❤ Bless her and Mimi condolences
I think she does I think she might like being a bit more private than they try to make it seem
I agree
Not grieving can literally kill you. 😔
It really can, cuz I've lost too many people in life.
Grieving is k!lying me 😢
Mi brother had a massive heart attack 4months after our mom passed. He couldn’t handle it and he was the 1st born…. I felt this comment 😩🗣💯💯💯
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I never knew Selena had a son!!! When people speak of losing a parent or a child, I will always think that losing a child is something you will never get over. It's no comparison, especially when you've had your parents for most of your life.
She lost her son while on the show then her grandmother (whom she considered her mother) then she had the seizure and sickness all pretty close together. Selena went through a lot on the show.
You’re comparing the dynamics in relations to the ones they lost, but a broken heart for a love one that filled that space is breathtaking in the saddest way. She had one son; Mimi had one father; both guys probably were these women’s first love that taught them how to love. Mimi didn’t try to compare their grief; she tried to connect their grief. There’s a difference.
@@shanec9840I definitely get where you are coming from. A loss is a loss no matter how you slice it. I wrote that from the experience of losing a parent.
I remember when the dancing dolls first aired and she did say at the reunion she had a son at 14 years old
Yes, she spoke about it the episode when she was getting SunJai ready for prom & she would also have her granddaughter with her from time to time. I miss thar show.
Deepest condolences to Mimi and Selena. I lost my son 2 years ago and it's been extremely difficult. I've lost a parent and a sibling as well but when it's your child, it's a different type of pain and I'm only speaking from my own experience.
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My deepest condolences to Mimi, Selena and Tina (who loss her baby). 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😢🕊️
Grief never gets easy. I loss my cousin due to gun violence and I helped to raise him. I remember looking at him in the casket and I had to ask my daughter to ask the funeral director if that was him. I just couldn’t process it. He didn’t look like himself. I’m still trying to process it. He left behind 4 children, two who are 8 and 6. I just don’t understand. 😢😞
My husband loss his grandmother,, two step grandfathers, three aunts, and a cousin in the course of a few years. 😞
At the end of the day..death is God’s business. We can’t control the time, nor the hour, just like babies being born. No one knows, but God. Praying for those who are grieving. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
When my cousin passed at a young age. I didnt go to the funerals bc i didnt wanna believe it was real. Then later in life i started losing my uncles that i was use to seeing, spendin time with, and helping out with what i could. After i watch my one uncle on a machine and witnessing the pain he went througn during his last days. I never went to another funeral. I never wanna remember them like that. I wanted to remember the good times.
Ppl felt like i was being mean, but ive watch to many pp, suffer and pass away. I rather not see them in a casket. My grandfather, both my grandma's 4 uncles,1 aunt and my 30 yr old cousin. I wasnt a long distance relative. I was there, going to visit at there home, taking them to doctors visits, visits at the hospitals.
Now im just at the point where while we have time im enjoying them in the flesh. Show and telling them how much i love them. Im still not attending anymore funerals!
I lost my boyfriend of 3 and a half years. He was murdered a week and a half before the birth of our son. I couldn't "grieve" because everyone told me, i had to be strong and think about our son as i still was pregnant. Fastforward 12 yrs later, it still hurts. Apart of me died when he did. My first experience being a parent and i hate the month of june. June 6 he was murdered, June 7 i found out, june 12 was his memorial, june 15 my birthday, june 16 the birth of our son and june 17 was father's day. All of this happened in 2012. This year, my son birthday fell on father's day. It did omce in the past but he was younger (i think 2 or 3) but at 12, it crushed me. Knowing the one thing his heart desires is something i can't give. I never properly grieved so i have my moments especially lookinb at our child seeing his father. I hope anyone grieving, takes it a day at a time❤
First off my condolences 🙏🏽💔 our stories are similar so I had to reach out. My child’s father (and my spouse) passed away this Easter, our son was five months. I felt like I couldn’t properly grieve as well because I was battling postpartum, having to take care of a new born alone - along with my 6 year old. His wake and funeral was two weeks before my birthday. His birthday was two weeks after mine and a few weeks later was Father’s Day (would have been my first Father’s Day with his only son). It’s still very hard for me to process his death because everyday I have to get up, work and still be a mom while battling this hurt. It’s like I haven’t had even a weekend to just be in my thoughts and feelings and really just process, I have moments. I just pray God continues to be with us all because griping for the weak and it’s a lifelong process 🙏🏽💔🙏🏽
@lashawnslife4135 absolutely and I'm so sorry that you are experiencing this. I would be lying if I say it gets better but the truth is, it doesn't. You just learn to adjust to what has become your new normal. I find what keeps me going is not only my son, but doing things as my beloved boyfriend would have if he were here. But it gets hard seeing him in our son. I pray God one day mends your brokenheart and that you find comfort in his love💚 god bless you and your babies!
So sorry
Now I understand why Selena is the way she is it makes sense
I totally understand what Selena and Mimi going through because I lost my uncle and aunt 2 years apart and I'm still grieving from it it's hard people don't understand my situation 😞😞😞😞😞😞😞
If you’ve never lost a child, you do not understand what Selena is going thru.
Selena has been through a LOT!!!! Good bless her. ❤
God bless them because it's really, really hard when grief doesn't have a timetable. You never get over it but you just pray to be able to accept it 🙏❤
My Deepest Condolences to you..I'm praying for your Strength 💪 🙏 ❤️..and I love me some Selena
My condolences Selena and my prayers goes out to uu and yur son ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Also R.I.P to the 2 Dancing Dolls that were killed. Smh man I feel for their mothers, fathers and Miss Dianna with that. So tragic and heartbreaking. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿😔😔😔🕊️🕊️🕊️💔💔💔 DD4L!
Which dancing dolls? So sad
@@Natwell1990 Dy'Shea Hall and Shakira.
I know how Mimi feels I loss my dad in Nov 2020 day before Thanksgiving and my heart is still broken I miss my dad so much.
Tina lost her baby son as well couple years ago. It’s just so sad overall.
Yep I felt so bad for her and her family 😢 she did welcome a baby girl a few years later . But still doesn’t take away the pain 😢
They ALL look SO incredibly beautiful!!!! I LOVED watching Bring It when it was on tv. I am SO proud of Dianna & what she has done for those girls & their families 🥰🫶🏽💕
God bless and comfort you both! ❤
2009 was the worst year of my life.
1. Lost my granddad and we buried him on Valentine's Day.
2. 2 months later lost my aunt.
3. 2 months later I Lost 2 sibling cousin a week apart. And that was there mom that died 2 months before they did.
And in the mist of that I had emergency surgery in June. But the biggest shock of all was: I lost my dad September 25th of 2009. It was a shock and a heavy blow for me because I was a daddy's girl. And I end up getting a divorce that November. So I had a rough year of 2009. I would never forget that year for the rest of my life I still in my heart broken 💔💔💔
I am so sorry all of that happened. 😔
God loves you and so do I. My deepest condolences to you.
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Wow my condolences to Selena losing her son I remember him he appeared a couple of times on the show ❤
Blessings to all who are grieving may God give you strength. 🙏
Selena my condolences I love u
We love you Selena
I lost my boyfriend of 10 years 2 years ago and it still feels very fresh. I was alone and had no one to deal with the pain of of it. I also wouldnt wish that kind of pain on my worst enemy. Death is inevitable but the process of coping that loved ones have to deal with is hard. I missed my only supporter who truly cared how I was doing on the day to day basis.
Selena so very sorry. I’m praying for you. I know this never goes away it just eases.. ❤️🙏
Awww this so sad 💔🥺😭
We Love ❤️ You Both Selena And MiMi ❤❤❤❤❤❤ And Let’s All Pray 🤲 For Them Because Grief Ain’t EasiEST For ANYBODY
Sending love to Mimi and Selena ❤
Im not taking away from anyone's loss, but loosing a child is in a category by it self. I know cause I just put my 23 year old son to rest. I loss both my parents and my kids father and believe me when I say the lost of a child hits totally totally different sorry but no comparison to loosing a child. It is not natural to bury a child but it is natural gor for you to bury your parents and your spouse. Not talking away from anyones loss but a child is in a category of its own no comparison at all.
I agree. And condolences to you❤️
Sorry for your loss Selena. May the good Lord comfort you.
I really need to get back on the doll house I love them always have since the beginning….
I feel sooo bad for them 🥺😔😩😩😩💔💔💔.
I feel all of that. Lost my Mom suddenly and unexpectedly Sept.2919 and it hurts now still as then😢. My prayers go out to Selena and Mimi 🙏🏼🙏🏼♥️♥️🕊️🕊️
Selena Rest In Peace To Your Son
Losing my son i lost myself 😢😢
This is so hard to watch but so necessary! Thank y’all for sharing with us! ❤🙏🏽
God Bless 🙏🙏🙏 Love You Honey 💖💖
I feel bad for Selena
DD4L LOVE THE WOMEN THE DANCERS THIS SHOW IS FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY!!!! I remember how I use to get strength from this show and it looks like I we can get it al
Selena needs therapy for herself and the girls. That’s so sad. She needs to grieve.
Death cannot be avoided. Death is a part of life. Death is normal. Y'all better act like y'all know. No one will skip death.
This is very true indeed… however it still hurts so deeply when we lose our loved ones.
No one is saying death can't be avoided. They're saying there's no good time for it to happen. Nor is there a good time to heal from the grief. No parent, who is active in their child's life, expects the child to go before them. Death can't be avoided and neither can the pain it causes the surviving family.
I accept that but at the same time I get very scared because I don't want to be laying in a casket underground wtf
When you lose a child from an untimely de@th. Let's see if you still act like it's nothing. I know how it feels
@@porshataylor-ee5ri Losing a child, isn't everyone's destiny. Deaths aren't untimely, it happens when it's supposed to, whether relatives understands that OR NOT. That's why birthdays are important to acknowledge cause you don't know when the death day is.
I can relate to Mimi because I lost my father as well 😭
Oh my god I so can relate. I’m just learning how to grieve over my mom and my Dog. I lost them both a year and a month apart from each other. I feel for Mimi and Selena. I wouldn’t wish losing a parent on my worst enemy either. It’s like someone took an ice brick and threw it at the Sun and the sun froze
I'm sending you the biggest hug I'm so so sorry 😔
Thanks so much. Sending hugs and positive vibes your way gurl
I STRONGLY suggest that Mimi & Selena seek professional counseling to guide them through their grieving process (it's a process). That process is not cookie-cutter; each individual experiences it differently, but we all need help navigating through it. It takes time; for some, it can be longer than for others. I'll be praying for them!🙏🙏
SENDING LOVE AND PRAYERS
Selena is so graceful. With all due respect, Mimi be quiet. Nothing compares to the loss of a child. NOTHING.
My heart breaks for them 💔
Praying
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i lost my baby too .
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I wonder why Tina didn’t say anything about her son that she lost. I know he was just a baby, but I know she still feels that pain.
0:11 on God. I miss you padré 💜
Selena son dies and Mimi father grief hits different for everyone Tina son August 21. 2024
That’s so sad smh
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Dianna I can’t seem to get Brandon tv . I have a Samsung tv . And a insignia fire tv .
The app is only available for certain tvs.
I wonder why Tina didn't speak...didn't her baby boy pass away not long after he was born? Pray for all of their comtinued strength.
What show is this
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