Karamo, Help My Toxic Family In Crisis! | KARAMO
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- Опубликовано: 20 дек 2022
- Adult siblings Sean, King, Coach, and KD are divided after suffering abuse from their parents. Sean has stood by his father’s behavior but now his younger brothers and sister are asking him to stand with them. Can Karamo help this family change their story?
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King definitely lives up to his name the way he speaks and articulates his words
Got so much respect for all of them, but he definitely hit different ❤
This is why naming a child should be taken seriously.
@@Angela-ot7es seriously, i was named Daniel and I'm a whole seer. Empathetic to a fault, and loving. Every Daniel i know has been. Ones who go by Daniel. No nicknames like Dan, Danny, but Daniel
His face throughout this episode is funny to me😂😂😂King is the "I'm just here", "Idgaf" and type to get at your azz type😂😂I love King
No, he is a horrible person. Dangerous attitude
It's so sad how narcissistic parents tear their family apart!
My mom keeps us divided. She's not verbally or physically abusive, but she is emotionally abusive. She favors certain kids & grandkids. She is very codependent too!
You know😢this reminds me of my father I can relate my siblings and I almost went through the same thing
King was well named. Well spoken and holding people accountable.
KD’s entrance spoke volumes. She went with who she felt safe with.
Sean was abused and then became the abuser to his siblings. I’m glad K talked to him separate.
I hope this mustard seed continues to grow between them
King came to speak the plain truth! I commend him for standing his ground with his brother in a dignified manner. Sending prayers of healing to this family.
He was not letting off of his neck.
😊
Shawn is exactly his father. He has to break out of that by accepting and acknowledge that his father is toxic.
I love how he has accountability for the sake of the relationship. My older sister could never. I love how the brothers treat and protect their lil sister like a Queen.
Props to Sean
💯💯
I feel you , MY MOTHER Could never 👀💯💕
As a Haitian girl who grew up into a toxic household and a father the same way l relate so much I’m literally crying 😢
❤ you’re healing ❤️🩹
@@bhouckie definitely the healing process is hard today is one of those days lol
@@shiloveee_noel I can relate too, but we'll make it💜
That’s wat happening to me rn 😭😭its sad 😔
@@Marabouhtcc so sorry l hope you feel better soon 💗
Wowwww when he said “he hated me and you didn’t make it better.” Powerful. It’s so sad to see this dynamic. I recognize a lot of these dynamics in African American households too.
Yesss I felt that
The way KD curled up next to her brothers is so sweet ; Coach's face lit up and King moved closer 🥹
You can tell king protects her BUT coach is her soul protector. That’s his baby and she understands that and cherishes him for it. I truly hope they seek therapy to help with the mental turmoil they are dealing with daily.😢
KING IS A KING HE AINT PLAYING NO GAMES😂😂😂😂😂
I'm telling you 🤣😂🤣
As the oldest of a Caribbean family, I understand where the oldest is coming from. As the oldest, we try to communicate with our parents continuously hoping that our parents will take their role of their parents. The oldest needs therapy. He can't even see his trauma.
Being the firstborn is so hard. Trauma may be passed down but I believe we had it worst. At least in my experience I did.
Isnt that some truth !! I felt bad because you can tell he was so misunderstood. It’s a little boy inside of him that was just trying to obey what he was taught . You can tell nun if these kids experienced the value of true love . And you can tell that because of that , he doesn’t know how to really show his love even when he so desperately wants to . This babyboy, and all of his siblings needs therapy way deeper then 45 minutes to a hour on stage in front of cameras and an audience. That change isn’t gonna just happen over night , but I’m so happy he was able to reflect and learn from this experience.👏🏽
Must be tough being the firstborn, I am personally a second born. Well done to Karamo for understanding the 1st borns point of view, going to where he was and allowing him the grace to see the error of his ways and start the journey to fix in a healthy way. He's a dude that wants to do good, but doesn't know how,...Hopefully he gets the help he needs and the three siblings can really create a good and healthy life bond. May God bless take care of all of them and bring much needed healing.
First born EVERYTHING falls on u. It's draining at times
The world need Jesus more than ever now even Jesus give us tough love
I'm first born and it's ridiculous how parents expect us to set the example. I once said to my parents I didn't ask for this role 🤣😂🤣😂
You can't heal if you can't forgive. Remember we forgive not because the person or persons deserve it. But because your needs peace. Let go and let God! We are not perfect but purpose!
Second borns are held accountable too for everything. The eldest child always runs off and live their life’s.
As a first gen Haitian-American, I resonate with this on so many levels 😓
Same here
Same here. Congolese-Canadian
Same
Karamo it's so intelligent of you to take the time and understand Sean's point of view. Though it wasn't the greatest seeing it from his perspective I'm sure made him feel heard
yes this episode made me so happy, i’m glad i got to hear his point of view cause i was hating him in the beginning
Thank you 🙏 I’m Sean
Hell yea!! I ❤ him so much
I love that the older brother took accountability. You can see they really do love one another their father and the abuse was the root of their issues I love how the host identified that the older brother was was passing down the fathers abuse and didn’t realize it
Seeing the Haitian experience being discussed on this show was amazing! People can only assimilate to a culture so much, and Haitians carry so much resiliency and trauma that we are not given the resources to unpack 😢
No excuse
Lord plz bless the Haitians.
@@angelashaw219 I think you meant to say, "no excuses"...
Thankfully, she wasn't making an excuse!
Please have this tall glass of STFU! 🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂
I COMPLETELY AGREE! With acknowledgment and accountability this can be addressed!
@@angelashaw219Did you hear her looking for pity or making excuses? Shooo fly!!
It would be nice if Karamo did an update on these beautiful siblings; they all have
experienced generational trauma.
King definitely has a role to play in society. King has to be some kind of activist
Big brother is going to take this family to another level now!!! I wish you all the best!!! Dad...stand down and love better!!!
As a first gen african child i felt this on a emotional level.
King did not come to play !!!
He letting it all be known !!!!
And he left the show STILL PISSED
But on a BETTER path to healing !!!!
King is definitely the fighter for his family
As an African I relate. Older brother needs to get out of his head Fr. I’m the oldest and at some point I channeled that anger and resentment onto my siblings but I realized that they were literally all I had ;Vice versa. He feels enraged but he knows he played a part tbh
Speak for yourself him here trying is the first step everybody’s situation is different
@@elzxhapo2411 good for Sean
@@elzxhapo2411 obviously but In any situation, as the oldest u can’t shirk urself from the part u played
@@howtotododo not everyone is built the same some people feel and think in different ways
King’s way to use his words to explain the situation is amazing. He speaks the truth, and I wish him healing and a good life.
He's a natural speaker. He's very articulate.
This is what happens when abusive parents have kids. Instead of loving and nurturing then you destroy them.
I pray they can work together and get past their pain. My poetry book about domestic violence is about to drop
Yeah this has absolutely nothing to do with the siblings but everything to do with their parents but especially the father since he was the abusive one.
When he said it destroyed his mental health, as a Haitian woman, I felt that. I remember when I was locked out of the house, I sleep on the streets and that felt better than being at home.
Kudos to Karamo for imparting wisdom like that. Love doesn’t need to be tough…just love. That’s it.
Idk where I thought this episode was going, but BAY-BEE this episode got me wanting to talk to my family like TALK TALK
Chile...
I hope it goes well if you decide to do it.
Black families throughout the diaspora go through this and it breaks my heart. I love you all. We will break these toxic family traits.
Wow this hit home, I was born in Sierra Leone. I ended up walking out of my uncle and aunty house in the UK, because it was better to be in the street than a home that was hellish.
So glad that these siblings are prepare to repair and build their relationships.
He had every right to call the cops if he was abusive.
This story definitely needs a update. I would like to know how the brothers turned out, and if they got there, Sister out of that toxic and abusive house
King spoke the truth honeyyyy. I loved this episode !!!
My heart goes out to this beautiful family. They have a long road of healing before them but they need to stick together. I wish i had three lovely siblings.
“Do you ever show me love?” He literally explained abuse you put him through. All love is lost when you bully your own brother. As an older brother, I’d never intentionally hurt my younger brother, that’s my lil dude.
Karamo is amazing! his wisdom is beyond spectacular. finally, a show where there isn't a lot of fighting and feuding but a change to change and make a difference in people's lives.
King has the right name. Because he stood his ground as a king and respectfully said how he felt without yelling
Well done Karamo 👏🏽 I can tell that older brother was hard to crack, but you got through to his heart an softened it to see that love is kind an not tough
The Haitian and Cape Verdean culture are so similar when it comes to old school parenting. This is what they experience growing up and now we, as the new generation have to put a stop to that toxic behavior. They think the tough love isn’t abuse, but it mentally affects us.
African parents in general are truly toxic in their old school abusive style of bringing child up. It's seems like Caribbean parents are the same which is a shame.
@@patriciakoroma587 Slav£ry. It's been handed down thru generations.
King deserves everything amazing life has to offer! ❤
The father has clearly brainwashed the first son from since a very VERY tender age.
When king said I’m glad you ask that made me cackle 😂 he has a come back for everything
The ending was so great May God heal you all one day at a time 🙏🏾
these siblings are really sweet. I can feel the love..its just the barrier of abuse they had...they have diff perspectives of whats acceptable way to move forward. The older brother loves them, but he more old school, prob a different generation. he more believes in submissiveness and he believed that the father would listen to him and change hhis ways. he prefers family intervention instead of getting the law involved. he believes he can solve the problem but if he could the abuse wouldve stopped llong ago. The first brother that spoke is so jovial and he is one of thse who can smile over pain and easily move on but the other eldest and the middle they will be at each other all the time, similar personalities but different perspectives. I hope they get through this. They are soo respectful and love each other..Their mother must be a gem
I respect each and everyone of the siblings’ viewpoint. I pray that they will seek individual and family therapy if they desire. Thanks Karamo for hearing each and everyone one of their experiences and assisting them with opening up their lines of communication.♥️♥️♥️
The real conversation is needed with the father. That’s a step for them to heal is to have a conversation with that father even if he is heartless etc.
The father should have been there. I can't blame him though. I'm Haitian, born and raised, and I can say that the older generation is not in tune with themselves
Being a first born is tough. We exhibit some of the same behaviors as our parents even though we know it doesn’t work. We just had to toughen up very early. I was called heartless by my younger brother. It’s very sad because he doesn’t know my story.
Hey. I hope you see this message. I understand everything wrote. I was parentified as a child. For instance, I would get beaten if my siblings didn't do their homework or shower. Kids being kids, they were uncooperative. So, I would hit them when they didn't want to do it.
Then, I realized one day that I just lost at the lottery of birth order. It wasn't my siblings' fault. So, I stopped being angry at them and started protecting them from our mother ( I would keep their secrets; I would laugh and make jokes at their expenses ; etc).
Today, they are closer to me than they are to our parents (who hate that).
So, I still get blamed for what my siblings do or don't do. But as adults, they now tell me to not worry and that it is not about me.
My mother resents the fact that I am different from her. I refused to do things in the name of tradition. She also resents the fact that I have more soft power over my siblings to than they do. But eh, I worked hard for this trust and the bond my siblings and I have. With the help of God, I orchestrated this status quo.
I accepted that my childhood sucked and it was not my fault nor my siblings'. Now, I intend to avoid passing the generational trauma at all cost.
I hope you can make peace with your siblings.
What about the empathy of not wanting to see your younger siblings going through what you did?
@@neisci it’s hard to have empathy when you are being called names
@@denfolo5224 thank you. I will definitely try what you did
@@zee-zm1io Good Luck. It will take a few months before you see results. But don't give up!
They all need to get a house together. And leave all that toxic behind.
Those hugs at the end were EVERYTHING.
The fact that i went to school with him just blows my mind cuz wow you really dont know what people be going through
I can understand why parents are so strict, but many of them are too harsh & unrealistic because they're so desperate for their children to be exactly who they want them to be . No matter what you say & do, you'll never be able to control, change, or stop your child from saying what they're gonna say, doing what they're gonna do, & being who they're gonna be . That's facts, common sense, & common knowledge !
I understand everyone’s pain.. Sean poor guy is fighting a up hill battle he is trying to be better but he needs some help himself with his own pain its terrible the parents put these kids in this situation. I hope they all become close and heal they may need to go no contact with their dad and one of them take their sister in she is in danger seriously.
When Karamo started speaking creole, I knew this was gonna be good!
Lol! I was shooketh!
Very hard to be the first born son
Always bearing the consequences of others weakness
Honestly, I love my siblings. Yes this is Sean.
When was this filmed? Would you all do an update. Praying for you all with empathy and love.
@@brittanybonet it was November 2022
Just praying that you’ve been working on letting go of the toxic behavior you were raised on
Hope you guys are good. A first born, I understand needing to keep the peace. I hope you'll continue walking into healing.
@@begoodify yes we are trying
Damn that was rough!They should get family Therapy as siblings and grieve the fact that their father is bad for all of them.
I rarely say this but they need to cut that man off in order to stay close.I already hate that man from hearing all of this.
I love king... He's on point.
Such a beautiful and intelligent family. Shame they were put under so much pressure, they are good people.
I feel like many black families have this same issue. Parents tearing apart siblings and damaging their kids. It’s nice to see these siblings listening to one another in the end and hugging it out. It’s never to late to fix a relationship! ❤
I am so happy for them. Jesus, I’m cryin’
I'm crying too omg. beautiful ending
Shoutout to Karamo tackling this issue! As a fellow 🇭🇹 I related to this entirely and like the men, I left and never look back. #teamking
Karamoooooo I be crying so bad at work watching these videos 😭😭. Happy Tears along with sad tears . But I love your show & the help you give to other’s 🤍
I can never watch the Karamo show without crying!!!
Same…
Karamo I loved the way you handled this situation. Making each sibling feel heard and addressing the older child separately. As an older child there is definitely a pressure we receive that is extra, but he needed to see the error of his ways and you handled it well
The big brother is great. He will still learn and grow immensely. Just in this episode he changed
The older son is trying to kiss up to dad to make up for that relationship...not realizing that man is evil.And there mom is horrible for letting that man raise them. He wasn't even present.
😂😂King was checking Sean. Sean is nothing nice. Sean telling them to be patient in abuse. Bye.
Absolutely beautiful family!! I hope they can heal from the toxic past their father cause.
King is me. He does not play any games and he doesn’t let anyone talk to him any kind of way. That’s probably why the dad didn’t like him. Sad but I’ve had people to not like me because I spoke up 💜
He's also the mother's favorite. The dad is a real jealous and insecure man
@@damnkevindeaderthanamf3297 but the father will have his karma soon. And also the attack on the sister and the oldest son (won’t call out names) agreeing to it the first time has me wondering do they lash out at women too
That's one reason
@@user-jc7wl6ki7m what could be the other?
“ oh I’m glad you asked “ LMFOAKSKSKSK😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂love him
I’m last born out of 4 so I’ll never know what it feels to be the oldest sibling…but I somehow feel the pain. The oldest seems like he was scarred and traumatized at a younger age. Sadly the 3 siblings just band together and isolate him more putting him deeper in the thoughts he learned when he was raised was raised. So the. It just always becomes arguments and no understanding. And he just treats his sister and brothers badly and they have the right to not want to be around I’m because they don’t understand his trauma. This is just so sad but I think just talking everything out is the key for them they still all seem very loving
It was so very important to give the oldest the opportunity to be heard (he’s not the bad guy here ) Karakoram is amazing
My Uncle Ramo Is so smart! There’s no such thing in tough love it’s just love and anything else needs to be removed. That statement also applies to the love / patience we give ourselves King. We love you
I NEED LONGER EPISODES AND UPDATES..... PLEASE!!!!!!!
I feel bad for all of them. Hopefully they can work it out.
im african american and can relate my cousin sneaked out of the house once and my aunt beat her so bad she was bed ridden for over a week we dont understand that type of discipline only really does something for the parents not the child
Wow
Beautiful young man,his facial features and skin ,Beautiful!
I love this msn. He is a gentle KING
❤😊
"YALL GONE BE ALRIGHT "ITS GOOD TO SEE ALL INVOLVED TAKE A STEP TO GO AND TALK ABOUT THE ISSUES AND MAKE IT BETTER.
idk, something about the way the brothers rallied around the sister makes me feel like it was worse than beatings.. idk
If you're implying what I'm thinking, I hope to God that didn't happen.
Karamo you’re so awesome ❤ When it comes to love it’s never tough. Love is just love
As a Haitian girl that grew up in a toxic household I completely understand what these siblings went through, especially having an eldest sibling who acts more like a 3rd parent than a sibling 😕 Caribbean households ain’t for the weak
I hope they move forward in a positive direction for good now. I was just talking about how my siblings and I cannot get along and it’s for these same reasons and more
My Haitian ppl where y’all at
I'm not Haitian but respect ❤️
Right hurrrrrr🇭🇹🇭🇹☺️
Ayeee🇭🇹
lol
We here 😘
The Dad is childish. But the son in the pink shirt came to rebuild his family and he is giving it to the Dad.
I understand the oldest brother so well he is suffering the most but sounds though…
Whew Karamo!! You made me tear up with this one🥺🥺🥺
prayers to this family , coach is so fine
Please do a follow up on this family…I care about them
It’s was me and my siblings. Thank you for caring about us.
@@seansanonbrother!❤❤it's KD
Wow!! Why does this hit home???? our Haitian parents has been on survival mode for so long that they impose their beliefs on the upcoming generation and it ends up being so toxic that it traumatizes us in our adulthood…😢😢😢😢
This episode brought tears to my eyes. Great job Karamo. ❤
First episode that made me cry 😢 and I’ve watched so many! Give this family love God, heal their pain, overflow them with love and abundance. Let them have a fulfilling peaceful and happy life. 🙏🏾 I declare and I decree in Jesus name 🙏🏾🙏🏾🥹
I love Karamo. I want to help people like him one day ❤️
I cried a little
Being Haitian there are values that I took that has been great in my life but that hardcore no love showing beat you no chances wasn't it I did my children different but I love being Zoe🇭🇹
I don't even have the right words to comment right now. I've been cutting onions the whole time 😓😩😤
Wow! this episode got me so emotional. Thank you Karamo for the amazing work you do to bring families together 🙂
That made me tear up. It hit home in some ways. Being the youngest of seven, I was mistreated in my older years after my parents passed away, and I really believe it is because my older siblings think that I had different parents then they had experienced. The only difference is that I learned to maneuver my relationship with my parents differently.
Speak truth Sean,I comprehend everything you are saying ,thank God I did not experience anything like that,God bless you all,I am praying for you all.Stay strong,with God all things are possible.
My Haitian people be going through it.. God please help us!!