The "California Exodus" is just a myth. For as many people leave the state many are back filling in behind. Some years are high, others low but in general over a 5 year period the inflow/outflow has been pretty consistent and even.
I'm planning to move to CA from the east coast despite all of the cons for living in CA. It's time for a change of pace and lifestyle and better weather.
I was told living in CA is like paying into a country club. You pay your monthly dues, and in return, you get to live in the most beautiful state in the U.S. I'm too obsessed with the mountains, the water, and the weather to leave haha.
We thought about moving out of state in 2021 due to the high cost of living and home prices but ultimately decided to stay. It’s very hard to leave many things we have here. We decided to move an hour away from where we used to live but this is our happy middle. We were able to buy a house that we could afford and we’re still close enough to everyone and everything we’ve known :) the job opportunities, weather, diverse cultures and nature - make it hard to beat.
Left CA for FL to pay off a home . now I have $$ to stay in California as a visitor in Airbnbs in places like Carmel and Dana Point for a month I work remote and get No State tax now. The key was getting rid of the mortgage.
I moved from CA to Austin in 2019 and now all I want to do is go back. Naval is right ~ where you live matters, and while Austin is great. It will never compare to CA.
Born and raised in Southern California. From Orange county to Los Angeles. Despite all of its flaws and issues, it is without a doubt the best place to live. Couldn't imagine ever leaving. If I did I would go to Vegas where I'm a short drive away.
Austin is a mini Cali!!! Hahaha Thanks for ruining Texas with Austin voters! Even the reds leaving California are left leaning and soon the F*UCKING BLUE CANCER will spread. It’s easy to see. Please leave Texas and go back, vote and FIX YOUR OWN STATE!!!!!!!
My folks were born and raised in CA but when they retired they realized that staying in CA was not an option. After extensive research amd many trips they decided to move to SC. They miss the great CA weather but when you're retired you have other priorites. The difference between the cost of living is amazing. So much so, that their retirement years are turning out to be much better than they ever dreamed. They travel to CA twice a year to see friends and enjoy what CA has to offer but are always happy to return home. I grew up in CA and still live here. I always thought it was the only place to live. But when my job took me around the country I quickly learned how my quality of life could be so much better elsewhere. I haven't decided where I'll move but CA will soon be my former residence.
I have lived in California my entire life, but may not retire here. The homelessness and crime are too much. The people are self absorbed and entitled. People used to be friendlier and less concerned about money. I grew up poor and was lucky to successfully make it to the upper middle class. I am on track to retire early and will consider it once my kids graduate from college. I am also a remote worker so I can keep working if needed from anywhere in the U.S.
The weather and geography are unbeatable. Plus, you can make serious money in CA. Affordable housing is a possibility outside of major metro. For us, however, taxes, crime, addicts, and politics tilt the balance to move to WY.
If you're a retiree I can see how WY would be a good choice. However, WY has one of the worst economies in the country. Unless you're gonna be a coal baron, you'll be making $14-16 an hr.
@@derekrequiem4359 That is very true. Unless you have a skill and a business plan (electrician) it's difficult to make money. Most moving into WY need to bring their money with them.
There's no affordability anywhere in CA. Even the waste-desert and poorer region of Central Valley CA rental homes are now over 2-3k+ last time I saw. Also, other regions in the US have everything that CA has.
I was born in Los Angeles, went to college, then optometry school in California. I left 30 years ago. Despite living in an upper middle class neighborhood, gangs were an issue. With 3 sons, I knew they could not escape the social toxins of gangs in my neighborhood. Colorado is a more free state.
the thing is that california is so big and diverse that the issue of gangs and safety is not a huge issue for everyone. take example like roseville, it’s a nice modern suberb with lots to do and it is very quiet and safe!! the thing it all depends where you live in that state because where you live drastically changes everything, sac vs socal vs central cal vs norcal are so different from each other
I live in San Diego, I'm not leaving California because I haven't found a place in this country I like more San Diego. I'm not going to live in miserable heat or cold to save a few bucks. That said, I understand people who are making low $100k and want to move out of state so they can afford a house and start the next phase of their life... that is really hard to do in CA unfortunately
@@humphrey @kashiro2492 I would!! 🤣🙋♀️ but I live in TN and love it here. My family and friends are all here. What he says about time with them is so true.
Finally...someone who's honest. I live in Los Angeles and while I didn't grow up here, I've lived here for almost 20yrs and luckily I bought a house back when houses weren't stupid expensive. I cannot imagine living anywhere else...yes there are lots of problems in California, yes the traffic sucks but just a drive away I have nice beaches, skiing, hiking, Yosemite, Las Vegas, Mexico...to name a few...there's more to love about California.
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We live in a place where many people keep moving to. Here are my notes that I’ve observed from them (and myself): - if you move from the city, DON’T expect that you will have city amenities (or at the least don’t complain about it). - many people move FROM a place rather than TO a place (small play on words there). Basically, they leave what they view as a bad situation, but then they usually want to change their new place to be more similar to the situation they moved from rather than assimilating. - most people that move here had a snapshot of summer life here but never experienced the hardship of winter. They will eventually leave after about 3-5 years because they get so frustrated with the cold. Point being, don’t move based off of a snapshot. - Many people here end up snow birding for the winter. While that sounds nice in theory, what it ends up doing is wrecking havoc on your community. When someone we meet say they snowbird, we now just ignore them because they won’t endure the hardships of weather with us, why would we expect them to endure the other hardships of life with us?
Property tax does go up, it's just capped at 2% a year. There have been several pushes to change the property tax format in CA over the past few years too.
I like keeping more of what's mine. That's why I'm not going back to Cali. Property taxes are so high that even if you pay off your house you'll be paying rent in the form of property taxes. My prop taxes in a different state are about $30 a month. I used to pay $600 a month in property taxes and that was years before COVID.
@@humphrey yeah I grew up in norcal countryside outside of sacramento- still not as nice as where I live in idaho when it comes to cost of living and safety
I am staying in California. Why? Here in CA I earn $115/ hour. Working the same job in Massachusetts, i only earn $45/hour. Yes Tax is high in CA. But still i can save more money here. Cost of living here in CA is expensive, but so is Massachusetts. I earn higher here in CA, but i live a simple and humble life.
I made that decision back in the 90's. Had a tech job offer both CA (Bay Area) and Atlanta, decided not to move out west and raised my family here in GA. We love it. Great weather here too and all my family is here. Same decision, different place. I've visited CA many times since then and its beautiful, but way too crowded and still prefer Atlanta. Politics are also a little too out there for me. You should live where you feel comfortable, not just move for money.
I been planning to move to LA from Vegas since 2019. Many factors to consider but 14.4% tax rate won’t be too killer. Thanks for info. Reasoning makes sense
It's admirable how the author prioritizes family and sees the value in the diverse opportunities, despite the challenges it presents! 🌟 Balancing personal connections with professional growth is crucial, and California's unique blend of both makes it a compelling choice for many.
I lived in LA for a few years during grad school. High highs and low lows. When I got into remote work it was timed perfectly with the housing downturn in 08 to 10. I realized I could buy 2 houses and rent them out in LV, then realized I could save even with income tax and business taxes, so I moved full time in 2008. There's things I miss but overall vegas is cool. If I had a reason to be in CA like family then maybe I'd move back.
I am originally from California and I have missed it on the daily. I have lived in the Midwest for almost 20 years now and have never adjusted. I do not think I could afford to live there anymore but do go out there at least 2-3 times a year. If I were you, I would stay. You can never get back the time you are spending with your friends and your family. Enjoy!
All valid reasons. I would not move to California (as an Austin resident). However, I am in Austin for the same reasons you're in SF. I would love to leave Austin (its too crowded, in my opinion), but I'm staying for family, work, etc. I will leave Austin when I retire (15-20 years).
Agreed. The city I’m from in the valley, we have the most diverse city and I believe we’re known for one of the most diverse cities ever. We have Indian, Mexican, asian, black and all other minorities. The food is extremely diverse as well.
I lived in Los Angeles for 16 years. My quality of life has increased DRAMATICALLY since moving 2 years ago, especially with location mattering less for work than before.
A few months ago my employer sent me to San Diego for a 32 day work assignment. It was my first time in California and the West Coast. And honestly? I get the hype. I met so many people who were like "my grandparents bought this home" but they could never have afforded it on their own today. And so I left San Diego feeling like if you've been "grandfathered" into the city or state in general (aka your parents or grandparents bought a home for low and you're living in it now), then there's literally no reason to leave California for any other state. Of course I perfectly understand why someone with no assets or family home would want to leave the state as a way to gain upward mobility. But if I had been born or raised in California (especially San Diego) with a family home, I probably would never leave.
wow you made me appreciated Cali even more... I love this place so much especially with its arts rich history that it has! Skate Capital of the world... dance capital of usa... creative capital of usa... i thought for a second to want to move but after hearing you ... I DEF DONT WANT TO MOVE! and ur right family and long time friends matter too :) thanks so much for making this GREAT video :) Wilpower.
I live in Sacramento. By husband and I work remote and both our jobs are based in other states. So literally the only thing keeping us here is family. But we're honestly considering leaving. Not just cost of living but also the culture. I'm not originally from here but I found people here tend to be very uneducated about anything outside their little bubble and think nothing interesting exists outside of California. Alot of single minded people out here and we just never felt like we fit in. It's like everybody we know is into cars, sports, or travelling to Hawaii, Seattle, or Disneyland for vacation. Not much real worldly-ness and everything just feels superficial and fake. Homeless people all over the place but oh, I get to look at palm trees outside my backyard window. Big deal. This is beyond just politics. People always bring up politics or cost of living. I feel like nobody really talks about general culture and vibe in terms of living somewhere. I'd like to move somewhere where we can be around more humble, down to earth, less image conscious folks.
Nice video! There are 38 million people in California for a reason (nice places are desirable)🤔. The people who “demonize” California usually do not live in California and are uninformed. I’m originally from the Midwest and always wanted to live in California growing up. I have been here for 40 years and have loved every single day and can’t imagine living anywhere else in the country. I have traveled a lot and I’m sure there are other “nice” places to live but nothing compares to all the options you have here. There weather is probably the biggest reason people are drawn to California (including the homeless) but is also has an incredible diversity in food, culture, landscape and unlimited opportunities. It is ridiculously expensive here (a huge problem for younger people starting off) but all this talk about crime, taxes etc. is way overblown. No matter where you live there will be a trade off but for me I’ll keep California Dreaming!😎
Live wherever you'd like. Just moved back home from living in Seattle for over five years and it's amazing to be back near family again. Was told by a friend that their brother moved his family from Seattle to Houston and they absolutely hate it there, but since they bought a house there and sold the one in Seattle, they're basically suck financially. Whatever anyone's case may be, just live where you want. Homelessness is a global issue right now, so is climate change. If you want to live close to family, live close to family. It's one of the greatest decisions I've made in the last year.
I am FROM California too and I had the exact SAME mindset at one time! But my son moved out of state and now I feel like there is NO reason to stay here honestly! I want to be near my son! So I might move where my son is honestly!
I was born and raised in the Philippines, in the ‘80’s. migrated to the USA in 1996. thank god we landed in San Francisco! lived in Vallejo since ‘96 and my family worked so hard to get ourselves established in the Bay. am I leaving California? hell no! this is better than what we had back in the Philippines and yes we know living here is expensive but thats how it is. thats why you go to school, get some education, get a good paying job, get a career and you’ll be set. thats why asians are successful in America, because of better opportunities. thank god that me and my wife have great careers, bought our own home back when the housing market was really cheap back in 2013, still live in Solano County, just minutes away from the Wine Country in Napa, less than 60 minutes away from either San Francisco and Sacramento, our kids are enrolled at California distinguished schools, my auto repair and performance shop is doing great, I’m literally 30 minutes away from one of the best race tracks in America, Sonoma Raceway and other dope race tracks in California are just hours away. we have great scenery here, great people, great opportunities. So Cal is just an hour flight away, we have beautiful coastline and mountains, state parks, we have everything good here.
Born and raised in the East Bay. California is the most beautiful state in the Union, has the most opportunity job wise and some of the highest salaries in the US (I work in tech). California is the financial engine for the US with the 5th largest GDP in the world. No place is perfect but for the people who are down to hustle... this is where its at.
I’m 60 with a sizable portfolio and live off dividends in Taiwan. I’m originally from LA and would love to one day cash out and move back home. With no family or kids, I’ll probably get a place in Henderson NV and do half time in LA. I want to avoid the CA state income tax but not sure if it is worth the trouble.
California is one of the best states to be an employee. We have a ton of employee rights and protections here that other states do not. That's a big reason why I am staying.
Your strong argument to stay in CA is based on that you were born there and your family/network tie there. Other than that, for others, there's no point to live in CA now unless they're ultra rich.
@@coorenshima3912 Lol forreal, as if family/friends/network aren't the strongest of arguments to stay anywhere. Plus most people I know are making good money here, because the jobs just generally pay better! Just gotta have the right skill sets.
@@coorenshima3912most major pharmaceutical companies are not in California. These are mostly in New England, so if most pharmaceutical sciences major would end up on the east coast.
As a Bay Area native, so glad you made this video. Some people think that it's a no brainer to leave because of the cost of living, but that doesn't come close to capturing the full picture.
Family and friends is the main reason I stay in CA. The politics here isn’t great, the crime is getting bad and the homelessness is a serious problem. I moved from LA to San Diego and that was a huge improvement. There’s no denying the weather and topography is incredible here, there’s so much to do, the beaches are amazing and you can live a very full life, it’s just expensive!
@@samantha32606 it’s a lot more prevalent in Los Angeles, more areas have more crime. There’s definitely crime still in San Diego but it’s overall safer than LA
California is currently building high speed rail networks, it should be completed in a few years. It will give more transportation options for those that need it or use it. People may even find they’ll prefer it over Greyhound, or even Caltrains
@@DefenestrateYourself Uh, I voted for the high speed rail measure in 2008. I would love for it to be done so I can visit my parents and sister more easily. I am just being realistic on its time frame. But bless your heart for trying to be cute
Can’t beat the weather in CA. However the quality of life in CA has greatly reduced over the past 30 years. I’ve lived here for over 50 years. Crime is seriously high, taxes are very high and the state does not take care of the roads and allow police to pro actively fight crime. Sad to have watched a once great place get destroyed by poor management from greedy politicians
People who are benefitting from special circumstances like rent controlled house, section 8, paid off home, living with parents, can all say 'California is the best place to live'. For the rest? Well, they pay taxes for the people who I listed.
Everything is very expensive in CA and commute times/distances to work are ridiculous for many like spending hours daily on the road and in traffic. The nice weather and outdoors you get used after a while and it's not worth the hefty premium you pay year round. On top of that, CA politics is a dumbster fire. If you have family and friends, you will rationalize staying there for the connections, but ultimately it doesn't make sense especially for new comers.
Great video! California is the best state in the country. You can live in any environment here and your never more than a few hours from the beach, forest, etc. San Francisco I is an awesomely city as well.
I see a difference in living in California and retiring in California. I wouldn’t mind living in Northern California or along the Sierra Nevada. I would never want to retire in California. Progressive property tax is great but it’s not great for buying a home at the moment and that’s something that needs to he addressed.
@@JBoy340a The problem with that is if I’m buying a million dollar home (which I can’t afford) then I’ll be still be paying more in property taxes than a state with low property taxes like SC.
@@tacticoolalan368 Depends where in SC. Both NC and SC are getting more popular. And with more people means price rises and more demand for services. Both of those lead to higher taxes for property, schools, roads, etc. I have friends in SC and they complain about these tax increases.
@@JBoy340a I’m talking about the present and overall. Overall, it’s cheaper to retire in SC than it is in California as many surveys or reports have indicated. I can take a handful of states like west Virginia and have a better outcome in retirement than in California. It all weighs on how much expenses you want to pay in addition to enjoy a standard of living.
Yes, california is good if you're already established there (friends, family, house, career) but for people thinking of moving there or people not working in tech, its very difficult and you will be working just to pay the bills Also, reason #3 crime
Your videos are always so interesting. Several years ago my husband wanted to move to Idaho because others were doing it. SO glad we did not move. We live in Southern CA near San Diego. There was virtually no diversity in the Boise area. 15 years ago my husband wanted to move to Utah. Same thing. We pondered southern Oregon because my. husband's sister lives up there. Nope...So Cal is what it is. California is a beautiful state and lots of diversity. My husband is German/ Irish and I am Chinese. There is so much diversity and acceptance here that any other state just does not compare. Plus, I like to be able to go out in shirt, shorts and sandals. We just got back from a ski trip in Mammoth where we experienced the cold and snow in the Sierra Nevadas. Yes, the cost of living is expensive but I am a super budgeter on everything and live simply, I buy second hand goods and limit monthly grocery bill to less than $300 for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. I don't know if families can afford to live here given all the costs with school, housing cost and food. It's just my husband and I plus a dog. We bought our home in 2002 and our housing cost is generally fixed. I am empathetic to those whose rent is $2800 for a one bedroom apartment or $4000 for a modest home rental.
My wife and I have talked alot about whether we'll leave or stay in CA. We always comeback to staying in CA. The convenience, the work opportunities and earning potential, our family is here, and our friends are here. Theres no reason for us to leave, but I get why people do.
My former employer asked me if I'd consider relocating to our HQ in California several years ago. I told them they would have to triple my salary which they obviously declined. To be honest, I don't even know if I would have accepted it as nothing appeals to me other than the weather. Fun fact: California is the most regulated state in the country by a HUGE margin, but it's surprisingly criminal-friendly.
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Im a California native and i agree with you it's better not to move to California with all these high regulations and crazy people. Unless you are a female California favor female, criminals, crazy, illegal, corruption, and dictator. There's more down then up here
The part about property taxes is inaccurate. i purchased my home in 2012, in California, my property taxes in 2024 is more than in 2012 or 2013, etc….. it goes up!
Aside from school, Ive lived in Ca for 45 years. Theres a lot to love and just as much that needs fixing and my wife and I would probably have moved out except that my parents and in-laws live here and we want our son to have a relationship with them. The state is unmanageable with a million residents per representative, Im leaning toward states needing to be broken up as their population expands to prevent anyone state from becoming to powerful
Girlfriend and I dont plan on ever leaving either. The taxes arent great, but we've both grown up here and will be tasked with caring for our parents eventually. Couldnt imagine forcing them to move out of their homes
Do also want to note, both of our jobs are govt. positions and the salary is tied to costs of living. Moving to save money doesnt apply as much to us without giving up both our careers, which requires leaving pensions on the table, so thats probably not happening
I just purchased a 3.8 million dollar home in La Jolla, north of San Diego. I am just 15-20min drive to the beach. It is amazing here! I plan to live here forever! I am 32 years old and have been single my whole life, I hope the dating scene is better here. I am originally from Miami. There is too much materialistic and superficial people there, so I left.
You're a 32 yr old single bachelor from Miami who just bought a 4 million dollar house by the beach but you hate materialistic and superficial people? Good luck to you in the dating scene.
@@ShameenYakubumaybe you have never been to Miami. Everyone there just wants to show off. You have young men and women that can barely afford their BMW. People out with their designer clothes and jewelry. Where I am, sure people have money but they are all career driven and are TRULY wealthy. Those are the type of people I want to be around.
Head to Toronto; where the sales taxes are 13%, house property taxes goes up every year and also where in the city it’s locate, prices of everything are going up, and of course, we have a snow.... eh! 😀
Cali here we give Zero F about the homeless, zero. If it was up to us it would be against the law to live on the streets in any city with a population of 65k or more.
I work and live in Alberta where Income taxes are really high especially for those high-income earners. I'd rather have my Apprenticeship here and make a lot of money then travel using my vacation days. My family and friends are here as well and I'll just give anyone the finger and motorcycle to those anyone who wants me to leave. By motorcycle I mean AFFA
CA is beautiful and it is "home base" if you are Asian and grew up there. I was in SF for college from 91 to 92 (before transferring to the Midwest) and SF is the most beautiful Asian city in the world. (too bad for the current times) The only reason to leave is if you feel unsafe or can't afford it or you got a better job/school elsewhere. Other than that, it's nobody's business.
Moved here for work (bay area, tech) about 10 years ago. I'm finding it doable to live below my means and I definitely appreciate the weather & career opportunities here. Going back home (I'm Canadian) is something I think about perennially though. I've been renting the whole time; I'm slowly building up money to maybe buy a house. It is difficult on a single income...I wonder if "help me afford a house" will work as a pick-up line?
Look home is home for some and I get that! Looking from afar Cali has some crazy high prices and without getting political they have some crazy laws that just don't align with me and my families values. While beautiful, has great weather, etc.. It's a place I'd like to visit (and have) but never live. But I did not grow up there or have roots like many so I get while people want to stay its not that easy to just pick up and leave, that's a big big decision. But many people and businesses are leaving for a reason!
Calif is for highly competitive people with exceptional skill sets. Calif is where the world class high tech companies are domicile. On the other hand, if your IQ is mediocre, under 130, you will not be able to compete. So if you are lacking, why frustrate yourself trying to fit in. It's unfair, but this is life. If you can't stand the heat, leave. There are plenty of tolerable states for those with modest abilities. You will be among people of your own class. As for me, I am willing to pay the extra tax to enjoy all exceptional beauties of this state.
CA is the best place in the world to live as long as yo can afford it. Key thing is you must be able to afford it. Its hell if your broke and cant afford a house.
I had wanted to live in retirement elsewhere but CA but can't find any state with what we have here. So I decided to make do, suck it up and stay. Maybe find a different area besides SoCal.
Love this type of content Humphrey, along with the video on why you’re single. It gives us a different perspective on things whether we agree with certain points or not. I hope you continue to make videos like this!
Left California for school back in 13 to Hopkins, now back living and working in my state. I’ll not leave California again until I leave the US. The flyover states aren’t even layover states to me any longer.
I’m 52 and in the same boat… Next level solution// borrow money off your assets, rent never own a mortgage (that’s it I’m da Bay Area in a privileged area
People always have to dress up things seen as high status even if they are actually causing bad outcomes in many ways. It's this way with the California, NY, etc, brand where despite the fact that the governments are insane and the culture and demographics lead to worse mental health outcomes and lower social capital, people will take that if it makes them seem higher status by living there. They should just be honest that there is in fact a trade-off. It's the same coping and lying drug addicts do. If you drink within moderation, that's fine, but it would be insane to pretend alcohol is not toxic just because you like to consume it.
I used to live in California. Moving to Texas is the best decision I have ever made. My family moved with me and I make good income anywhere I go so thanks God, leaving California is the best decision I have made
Loved living in SoCal for 50yrs and we are ready to move to retire to Las Vegas!! We are moving bc of high taxes and stupid politics! I think we will have fun living in LV in Summerlin!
If you're from California, comment below on what you are doing. If you're not - would you consider moving here? Would love to hear from you
The "California Exodus" is just a myth. For as many people leave the state many are back filling in behind. Some years are high, others low but in general over a 5 year period the inflow/outflow has been pretty consistent and even.
I'm planning to move to CA from the east coast despite all of the cons for living in CA. It's time for a change of pace and lifestyle and better weather.
I was told living in CA is like paying into a country club. You pay your monthly dues, and in return, you get to live in the most beautiful state in the U.S. I'm too obsessed with the mountains, the water, and the weather to leave haha.
We thought about moving out of state in 2021 due to the high cost of living and home prices but ultimately decided to stay. It’s very hard to leave many things we have here. We decided to move an hour away from where we used to live but this is our happy middle. We were able to buy a house that we could afford and we’re still close enough to everyone and everything we’ve known :) the job opportunities, weather, diverse cultures and nature - make it hard to beat.
I moved to Sacramento for better cost of living. You can move up too, we'll get KBBQ up here.
Left CA for FL to pay off a home . now I have $$ to stay in California as a visitor in Airbnbs in places like Carmel and Dana Point for a month I work remote and get No State tax now. The key was getting rid of the mortgage.
I moved from CA to Austin in 2019 and now all I want to do is go back. Naval is right ~ where you live matters, and while Austin is great. It will never compare to CA.
Born and raised in Southern California. From Orange county to Los Angeles. Despite all of its flaws and issues, it is without a doubt the best place to live. Couldn't imagine ever leaving. If I did I would go to Vegas where I'm a short drive away.
As they say, you get what you pay for. I’m fortunate enough to be in CA now but I wouldn’t trade it for anywhere else
Austin is a mini Cali!!! Hahaha Thanks for ruining Texas with Austin voters! Even the reds leaving California are left leaning and soon the F*UCKING BLUE CANCER will spread. It’s easy to see. Please leave Texas and go back, vote and FIX YOUR OWN STATE!!!!!!!
It’s ok buddy, Austin will always be a suburb of San Francisco.
Also people zoom over the 8.25 percent sales tax here in Texas as well as the relatively high rent here
My folks were born and raised in CA but when they retired they realized that staying in CA was not an option. After extensive research amd many trips they decided to move to SC. They miss the great CA weather but when you're retired you have other priorites. The difference between the cost of living is amazing. So much so, that their retirement years are turning out to be much better than they ever dreamed. They travel to CA twice a year to see friends and enjoy what CA has to offer but are always happy to return home. I grew up in CA and still live here. I always thought it was the only place to live. But when my job took me around the country I quickly learned how my quality of life could be so much better elsewhere. I haven't decided where I'll move but CA will soon be my former residence.
I have lived in California my entire life, but may not retire here. The homelessness and crime are too much. The people are self absorbed and entitled. People used to be friendlier and less concerned about money. I grew up poor and was lucky to successfully make it to the upper middle class. I am on track to retire early and will consider it once my kids graduate from college. I am also a remote worker so I can keep working if needed from anywhere in the U.S.
The weather and geography are unbeatable. Plus, you can make serious money in CA. Affordable housing is a possibility outside of major metro. For us, however, taxes, crime, addicts, and politics tilt the balance to move to WY.
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If you're a retiree I can see how WY would be a good choice. However, WY has one of the worst economies in the country. Unless you're gonna be a coal baron, you'll be making $14-16 an hr.
@@derekrequiem4359 That is very true. Unless you have a skill and a business plan (electrician) it's difficult to make money. Most moving into WY need to bring their money with them.
There's no affordability anywhere in CA. Even the waste-desert and poorer region of Central Valley CA rental homes are now over 2-3k+ last time I saw.
Also, other regions in the US have everything that CA has.
I was born in Los Angeles, went to college, then optometry school in California. I left 30 years ago. Despite living in an upper middle class neighborhood, gangs were an issue. With 3 sons, I knew they could not escape the social toxins of gangs in my neighborhood. Colorado is a more free state.
the thing is that california is so big and diverse that the issue of gangs and safety is not a huge issue for everyone. take example like roseville, it’s a nice modern suberb with lots to do and it is very quiet and safe!! the thing it all depends where you live in that state because where you live drastically changes everything, sac vs socal vs central cal vs norcal are so different from each other
I live in San Diego, I'm not leaving California because I haven't found a place in this country I like more San Diego. I'm not going to live in miserable heat or cold to save a few bucks. That said, I understand people who are making low $100k and want to move out of state so they can afford a house and start the next phase of their life... that is really hard to do in CA unfortunately
That's correct there's no place with quite as high pollution, crime or homeless population
Sombody needs to date this handsome man already
thats what im sayin!
Why dont YOU date him?
@@humphrey @kashiro2492 I would!! 🤣🙋♀️ but I live in TN and love it here.
My family and friends are all here. What he says about time with them is so true.
@@carolinasalcedo4256 a reason for him to relocate, maybe... lol
I volunteer
Finally...someone who's honest. I live in Los Angeles and while I didn't grow up here, I've lived here for almost 20yrs and luckily I bought a house back when houses weren't stupid expensive. I cannot imagine living anywhere else...yes there are lots of problems in California, yes the traffic sucks but just a drive away I have nice beaches, skiing, hiking, Yosemite, Las Vegas, Mexico...to name a few...there's more to love about California.
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We live in a place where many people keep moving to. Here are my notes that I’ve observed from them (and myself):
- if you move from the city, DON’T expect that you will have city amenities (or at the least don’t complain about it).
- many people move FROM a place rather than TO a place (small play on words there). Basically, they leave what they view as a bad situation, but then they usually want to change their new place to be more similar to the situation they moved from rather than assimilating.
- most people that move here had a snapshot of summer life here but never experienced the hardship of winter. They will eventually leave after about 3-5 years because they get so frustrated with the cold. Point being, don’t move based off of a snapshot.
- Many people here end up snow birding for the winter. While that sounds nice in theory, what it ends up doing is wrecking havoc on your community. When someone we meet say they snowbird, we now just ignore them because they won’t endure the hardships of weather with us, why would we expect them to endure the other hardships of life with us?
Property tax does go up, it's just capped at 2% a year. There have been several pushes to change the property tax format in CA over the past few years too.
I like keeping more of what's mine. That's why I'm not going back to Cali. Property taxes are so high that even if you pay off your house you'll be paying rent in the form of property taxes. My prop taxes in a different state are about $30 a month. I used to pay $600 a month in property taxes and that was years before COVID.
You have money… that’s my guess. It’s a beautiful state with tons of stuff to do. Great place to live if you can afford it.
Its a tough place to live (in the cities). Outside of the cities it gets a little easier but still tough compared to rest of country
@@humphrey yeah I grew up in norcal countryside outside of sacramento- still not as nice as where I live in idaho when it comes to cost of living and safety
Boulder Colorado is the closest similar city
@@garp9433nah Colorado isn’t it I like utah way more
California is not a “tough” place to live, its one of the best and nicest areas in the entire world to live 😂
I am staying in California.
Why?
Here in CA I earn $115/ hour.
Working the same job in Massachusetts, i only earn $45/hour.
Yes Tax is high in CA. But still i can save more money here. Cost of living here in CA is expensive, but so is Massachusetts.
I earn higher here in CA, but i live a simple and humble life.
What do you do for a living?
Yup. And you get the palm trees, beaches, sun for most of the year, weather is mild. Not too crazy humid nor snowy.
What's your job? That's a huge pay discrepancy.
@@xmochix604
Was dumb to use palm tree as a national tree of all the trees out there 😭 . Literally gives no shade nor are pretty or colorful trees.
I am in the same boat as you. I earn more working in San Francisco than I would in other states.
I made that decision back in the 90's. Had a tech job offer both CA (Bay Area) and Atlanta, decided not to move out west and raised my family here in GA. We love it. Great weather here too and all my family is here. Same decision, different place. I've visited CA many times since then and its beautiful, but way too crowded and still prefer Atlanta. Politics are also a little too out there for me. You should live where you feel comfortable, not just move for money.
I been planning to move to LA from Vegas since 2019. Many factors to consider but 14.4% tax rate won’t be too killer. Thanks for info. Reasoning makes sense
It's admirable how the author prioritizes family and sees the value in the diverse opportunities, despite the challenges it presents! 🌟 Balancing personal connections with professional growth is crucial, and California's unique blend of both makes it a compelling choice for many.
I lived in LA for a few years during grad school. High highs and low lows. When I got into remote work it was timed perfectly with the housing downturn in 08 to 10. I realized I could buy 2 houses and rent them out in LV, then realized I could save even with income tax and business taxes, so I moved full time in 2008. There's things I miss but overall vegas is cool. If I had a reason to be in CA like family then maybe I'd move back.
I’m a native New Yorker and my reasons for staying are the same as yours.
I am originally from California and I have missed it on the daily. I have lived in the Midwest for almost 20 years now and have never adjusted. I do not think I could afford to live there anymore but do go out there at least 2-3 times a year. If I were you, I would stay. You can never get back the time you are spending with your friends and your family. Enjoy!
All valid reasons. I would not move to California (as an Austin resident). However, I am in Austin for the same reasons you're in SF. I would love to leave Austin (its too crowded, in my opinion), but I'm staying for family, work, etc. I will leave Austin when I retire (15-20 years).
Agreed. The city I’m from in the valley, we have the most diverse city and I believe we’re known for one of the most diverse cities ever. We have Indian, Mexican, asian, black and all other minorities. The food is extremely diverse as well.
I lived in Los Angeles for 16 years. My quality of life has increased DRAMATICALLY since moving 2 years ago, especially with location mattering less for work than before.
A few months ago my employer sent me to San Diego for a 32 day work assignment. It was my first time in California and the West Coast. And honestly? I get the hype. I met so many people who were like "my grandparents bought this home" but they could never have afforded it on their own today. And so I left San Diego feeling like if you've been "grandfathered" into the city or state in general (aka your parents or grandparents bought a home for low and you're living in it now), then there's literally no reason to leave California for any other state.
Of course I perfectly understand why someone with no assets or family home would want to leave the state as a way to gain upward mobility. But if I had been born or raised in California (especially San Diego) with a family home, I probably would never leave.
You have money...next question
If you have lots of money it’s good place to live
He has had great opportunities to make such great money because of living here. Far more than most places.
wow you made me appreciated Cali even more... I love this place so much especially with its arts rich history that it has! Skate Capital of the world... dance capital of usa... creative capital of usa... i thought for a second to want to move but after hearing you ... I DEF DONT WANT TO MOVE! and ur right family and long time friends matter too :) thanks so much for making this GREAT video :) Wilpower.
I live in Sacramento. By husband and I work remote and both our jobs are based in other states. So literally the only thing keeping us here is family. But we're honestly considering leaving. Not just cost of living but also the culture. I'm not originally from here but I found people here tend to be very uneducated about anything outside their little bubble and think nothing interesting exists outside of California. Alot of single minded people out here and we just never felt like we fit in. It's like everybody we know is into cars, sports, or travelling to Hawaii, Seattle, or Disneyland for vacation. Not much real worldly-ness and everything just feels superficial and fake. Homeless people all over the place but oh, I get to look at palm trees outside my backyard window. Big deal.
This is beyond just politics. People always bring up politics or cost of living. I feel like nobody really talks about general culture and vibe in terms of living somewhere.
I'd like to move somewhere where we can be around more humble, down to earth, less image conscious folks.
Nice video! There are 38 million people in California for a reason (nice places are desirable)🤔. The people who “demonize” California usually do not live in California and are uninformed. I’m originally from the Midwest and always wanted to live in California growing up. I have been here for 40 years and have loved every single day and can’t imagine living anywhere else in the country. I have traveled a lot and I’m sure there are other “nice” places to live but nothing compares to all the options you have here. There weather is probably the biggest reason people are drawn to California (including the homeless) but is also has an incredible diversity in food, culture, landscape and unlimited opportunities. It is ridiculously expensive here (a huge problem for younger people starting off) but all this talk about crime, taxes etc. is way overblown. No matter where you live there will be a trade off but for me I’ll keep California Dreaming!😎
Live wherever you'd like. Just moved back home from living in Seattle for over five years and it's amazing to be back near family again. Was told by a friend that their brother moved his family from Seattle to Houston and they absolutely hate it there, but since they bought a house there and sold the one in Seattle, they're basically suck financially. Whatever anyone's case may be, just live where you want. Homelessness is a global issue right now, so is climate change. If you want to live close to family, live close to family. It's one of the greatest decisions I've made in the last year.
Beyond California, some great arguments for the West Coast as a whole! Great video! I like this blend of personal and financial.
I am FROM California too and I had the exact SAME mindset at one time! But my son moved out of state and now I feel like there is NO reason to stay here honestly! I want to be near my son! So I might move where my son is honestly!
The weather in CA is priceless. I will never leave. It's wonderful living 30 minutes from the ocean, an hour from SF and 3 hours from Lake Tahoe.
I was born and raised in the Philippines, in the ‘80’s. migrated to the USA in 1996. thank god we landed in San Francisco! lived in Vallejo since ‘96 and my family worked so hard to get ourselves established in the Bay. am I leaving California? hell no! this is better than what we had back in the Philippines and yes we know living here is expensive but thats how it is. thats why you go to school, get some education, get a good paying job, get a career and you’ll be set. thats why asians are successful in America, because of better opportunities. thank god that me and my wife have great careers, bought our own home back when the housing market was really cheap back in 2013, still live in Solano County, just minutes away from the Wine Country in Napa, less than 60 minutes away from either San Francisco and Sacramento, our kids are enrolled at California distinguished schools, my auto repair and performance shop is doing great, I’m literally 30 minutes away from one of the best race tracks in America, Sonoma Raceway and other dope race tracks in California are just hours away. we have great scenery here, great people, great opportunities. So Cal is just an hour flight away, we have beautiful coastline and mountains, state parks, we have everything good here.
Born and raised in the East Bay. California is the most beautiful state in the Union, has the most opportunity job wise and some of the highest salaries in the US (I work in tech). California is the financial engine for the US with the 5th largest GDP in the world. No place is perfect but for the people who are down to hustle... this is where its at.
I’m 60 with a sizable portfolio and live off dividends in Taiwan. I’m originally from LA and would love to one day cash out and move back home. With no family or kids, I’ll probably get a place in Henderson NV and do half time in LA. I want to avoid the CA state income tax but not sure if it is worth the trouble.
It’s easy for people to leave California but it’s way harder to come back.
Very interesting . Your humor is outstanding 😂
California is one of the best states to be an employee. We have a ton of employee rights and protections here that other states do not. That's a big reason why I am staying.
Your strong argument to stay in CA is based on that you were born there and your family/network tie there. Other than that, for others, there's no point to live in CA now unless they're ultra rich.
Im a scientist in biotech. Thats a strong argument to stay in CA already lol
Yea I agree
@@coorenshima3912 Lol forreal, as if family/friends/network aren't the strongest of arguments to stay anywhere. Plus most people I know are making good money here, because the jobs just generally pay better! Just gotta have the right skill sets.
@@coorenshima3912most major pharmaceutical companies are not in California. These are mostly in New England, so if most pharmaceutical sciences major would end up on the east coast.
@@xiphoid2011 great! Im not working in pharmaceuticals tho but yeah, great!
As a Bay Area native, so glad you made this video. Some people think that it's a no brainer to leave because of the cost of living, but that doesn't come close to capturing the full picture.
Family and friends is the main reason I stay in CA. The politics here isn’t great, the crime is getting bad and the homelessness is a serious problem. I moved from LA to San Diego and that was a huge improvement. There’s no denying the weather and topography is incredible here, there’s so much to do, the beaches are amazing and you can live a very full life, it’s just expensive!
Crime is everywhere, BUT is there a big difference with crime in LA vs San Diego?
@@samantha32606 it’s a lot more prevalent in Los Angeles, more areas have more crime. There’s definitely crime still in San Diego but it’s overall safer than LA
California is currently building high speed rail networks, it should be completed in a few years. It will give more transportation options for those that need it or use it. People may even find they’ll prefer it over Greyhound, or even Caltrains
If by "a few years" you mean 20, then yes
@@PelosiStockPortfolio better than no high speed rail which is the situation in ever other American city. But bless your little heart 🫡
@@DefenestrateYourself Uh, I voted for the high speed rail measure in 2008. I would love for it to be done so I can visit my parents and sister more easily. I am just being realistic on its time frame. But bless your heart for trying to be cute
Can’t beat the weather in CA. However the quality of life in CA has greatly reduced over the past 30 years. I’ve lived here for over 50 years. Crime is seriously high, taxes are very high and the state does not take care of the roads and allow police to pro actively fight crime. Sad to have watched a once great place get destroyed by poor management from greedy politicians
I love my hometown. I bought a house across the street from my parents and I've had the same friends for over 30 years.
cupertino, also I liked this video humphrey
People who are benefitting from special circumstances like rent controlled house, section 8, paid off home, living with parents, can all say 'California is the best place to live'. For the rest? Well, they pay taxes for the people who I listed.
Everything is very expensive in CA and commute times/distances to work are ridiculous for many like spending hours daily on the road and in traffic. The nice weather and outdoors you get used after a while and it's not worth the hefty premium you pay year round. On top of that, CA politics is a dumbster fire. If you have family and friends, you will rationalize staying there for the connections, but ultimately it doesn't make sense especially for new comers.
I need to.
Great video! California is the best state in the country. You can live in any environment here and your never more than a few hours from the beach, forest, etc. San Francisco I is an awesomely city as well.
I am a Belgian scientist at Stanford, love it here, will stay here, love it!
okay!
Most of the people commenting that they love California live with their parents and are all over 30.
Sales tax is 10.75% Not 7.25% I guess it depends on the county. Bay Area most expensive. Alameda, S.F
I see a difference in living in California and retiring in California. I wouldn’t mind living in Northern California or along the Sierra Nevada. I would never want to retire in California. Progressive property tax is great but it’s not great for buying a home at the moment and that’s something that needs to he addressed.
Move to CA well before you retire. Your property tax rate almost flat with a max increase in the property tax bill of under 2%.
@@JBoy340a The problem with that is if I’m buying a million dollar home (which I can’t afford) then I’ll be still be paying more in property taxes than a state with low property taxes like SC.
@@tacticoolalan368 Depends where in SC. Both NC and SC are getting more popular. And with more people means price rises and more demand for services. Both of those lead to higher taxes for property, schools, roads, etc. I have friends in SC and they complain about these tax increases.
@@JBoy340a I’m talking about the present and overall. Overall, it’s cheaper to retire in SC than it is in California as many surveys or reports have indicated. I can take a handful of states like west Virginia and have a better outcome in retirement than in California. It all weighs on how much expenses you want to pay in addition to enjoy a standard of living.
Not everyone that lives in CA have all those job opportunities you speak of, nor school opportunities. A lot of school districts are really bad.
Yes, california is good if you're already established there (friends, family, house, career) but for people thinking of moving there or people not working in tech, its very difficult and you will be working just to pay the bills
Also, reason #3 crime
Also in the heart of Silicon Valley! Love it here!!
Agreed. So many bright people and opportunities!
Your videos are always so interesting. Several years ago my husband wanted to move to Idaho because others were doing it. SO glad we did not move. We live in Southern CA near San Diego. There was virtually no diversity in the Boise area. 15 years ago my husband wanted to move to Utah. Same thing. We pondered southern Oregon because my. husband's sister lives up there. Nope...So Cal is what it is. California is a beautiful state and lots of diversity. My husband is German/ Irish and I am Chinese. There is so much diversity and acceptance here that any other state just does not compare. Plus, I like to be able to go out in shirt, shorts and sandals. We just got back from a ski trip in Mammoth where we experienced the cold and snow in the Sierra Nevadas. Yes, the cost of living is expensive but I am a super budgeter on everything and live simply, I buy second hand goods and limit monthly grocery bill to less than $300 for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. I don't know if families can afford to live here given all the costs with school, housing cost and food. It's just my husband and I plus a dog. We bought our home in 2002 and our housing cost is generally fixed. I am empathetic to those whose rent is $2800 for a one bedroom apartment or $4000 for a modest home rental.
My wife and I have talked alot about whether we'll leave or stay in CA. We always comeback to staying in CA. The convenience, the work opportunities and earning potential, our family is here, and our friends are here. Theres no reason for us to leave, but I get why people do.
My former employer asked me if I'd consider relocating to our HQ in California several years ago. I told them they would have to triple my salary which they obviously declined. To be honest, I don't even know if I would have accepted it as nothing appeals to me other than the weather.
Fun fact: California is the most regulated state in the country by a HUGE margin, but it's surprisingly criminal-friendly.
Oh come on! Squaters have rights too!.. and if someone needs your TV, the middle of the night while you are sleeping is a perfectly acceptable time to come get it.
Wait, I'll bet you weren't masked while writing this comment, were you?
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Im a California native and i agree with you it's better not to move to California with all these high regulations and crazy people. Unless you are a female California favor female, criminals, crazy, illegal, corruption, and dictator. There's more down then up here
Left CA for TX in 2020. You have to work VERY differently in CA than I was built for in order to make it.
The part about property taxes is inaccurate. i purchased my home in 2012, in California, my property taxes in 2024 is more than in 2012 or 2013, etc….. it goes up!
8.79% sales tax bay area
Love California!!!!
Aside from school, Ive lived in Ca for 45 years. Theres a lot to love and just as much that needs fixing and my wife and I would probably have moved out except that my parents and in-laws live here and we want our son to have a relationship with them. The state is unmanageable with a million residents per representative, Im leaning toward states needing to be broken up as their population expands to prevent anyone state from becoming to powerful
Girlfriend and I dont plan on ever leaving either. The taxes arent great, but we've both grown up here and will be tasked with caring for our parents eventually. Couldnt imagine forcing them to move out of their homes
Do also want to note, both of our jobs are govt. positions and the salary is tied to costs of living. Moving to save money doesnt apply as much to us without giving up both our careers, which requires leaving pensions on the table, so thats probably not happening
I'm in California now and I lost all my friends from my home state :(
Hey, I live in San Jose, California. Lived on the east coast (DC) for years for school. Will never leave the bay again.
I would try somewhere better than DC. DC is exactly like California but with bad weather
I just purchased a 3.8 million dollar home in La Jolla, north of San Diego. I am just 15-20min drive to the beach. It is amazing here! I plan to live here forever! I am 32 years old and have been single my whole life, I hope the dating scene is better here. I am originally from Miami. There is too much materialistic and superficial people there, so I left.
Wow congrats to you!!
Did you pay cash for it? If not, what is your interest rate? Congrats! Awesome job!
Wow. La Jolla. Perfect weather and great views. Congrats!
You're a 32 yr old single bachelor from Miami who just bought a 4 million dollar house by the beach but you hate materialistic and superficial people? Good luck to you in the dating scene.
@@ShameenYakubumaybe you have never been to Miami. Everyone there just wants to show off. You have young men and women that can barely afford their BMW. People out with their designer clothes and jewelry. Where I am, sure people have money but they are all career driven and are TRULY wealthy. Those are the type of people I want to be around.
The reason is that I don't leave California due to the weather. California is the best weather.
How can there be low population and traffic at the same time. that makes no sense. Traffic is very bad.
I work in San Francisco. I would not live there. Too expensive and the homeless people are everywhere (from my job to the ferry building 10min walk).
Head to Toronto; where the sales taxes are 13%, house property taxes goes up every year and also where in the city it’s locate, prices of everything are going up, and of course, we have a snow.... eh! 😀
Born and raised in California. Will never leave. We need a new governor that's about it.
Cali here we give Zero F about the homeless, zero. If it was up to us it would be against the law to live on the streets in any city with a population of 65k or more.
I work and live in Alberta where Income taxes are really high especially for those high-income earners. I'd rather have my Apprenticeship here and make a lot of money then travel using my vacation days. My family and friends are here as well and I'll just give anyone the finger and motorcycle to those anyone who wants me to leave. By motorcycle I mean AFFA
CA is beautiful and it is "home base" if you are Asian and grew up there.
I was in SF for college from 91 to 92 (before transferring to the Midwest) and SF is the most beautiful Asian city in the world. (too bad for the current times)
The only reason to leave is if you feel unsafe or can't afford it or you got a better job/school elsewhere.
Other than that, it's nobody's business.
I love living in California. As a long time home owner I pay very low property taxes.
Moved here for work (bay area, tech) about 10 years ago. I'm finding it doable to live below my means and I definitely appreciate the weather & career opportunities here. Going back home (I'm Canadian) is something I think about perennially though.
I've been renting the whole time; I'm slowly building up money to maybe buy a house. It is difficult on a single income...I wonder if "help me afford a house" will work as a pick-up line?
Good video. I wish you the best. U made sum great points 😁
I like my modified vehicles and guns too much to live there.
Look home is home for some and I get that! Looking from afar Cali has some crazy high prices and without getting political they have some crazy laws that just don't align with me and my families values. While beautiful, has great weather, etc.. It's a place I'd like to visit (and have) but never live. But I did not grow up there or have roots like many so I get while people want to stay its not that easy to just pick up and leave, that's a big big decision. But many people and businesses are leaving for a reason!
I just moved TO California this month (from TX)... have been wanting to do it for a long time. No regrets, the extra cost is worth every penny.
San Andres Fault in California
Calif is for highly competitive people with exceptional skill sets. Calif is where the world class high tech companies are domicile. On the other hand, if your IQ is mediocre, under 130, you will not be able to compete. So if you are lacking, why frustrate yourself trying to fit in. It's unfair, but this is life. If you can't stand the heat, leave. There are plenty of tolerable states for those with modest abilities. You will be among people of your own class. As for me, I am willing to pay the extra
tax to enjoy all exceptional beauties of this state.
CA is the best place in the world to live as long as yo can afford it. Key thing is you must be able to afford it. Its hell if your broke and cant afford a house.
No amount of $$ can replace a family you love! ❤ Healthy family relationships is worth it. I’ve never regretted a single dollar I spent on my sisters.
Same with me, I'm staying in California for the foreseeable future. Family is all that matters.
In San Diego I can visit a world class city, forested mountains, beautiful stretches of beach, and pristine deserts all in one weekend!
I had wanted to live in retirement elsewhere but CA but can't find any state with what we have here.
So I decided to make do, suck it up and stay. Maybe find a different area besides SoCal.
Love this type of content Humphrey, along with the video on why you’re single. It gives us a different perspective on things whether we agree with certain points or not. I hope you continue to make videos like this!
I am from LA, then moved to Ventura, and now I live in Dan Diego. I am not leaving either. This is my home, and California is my country 😅
Left California for school back in 13 to Hopkins, now back living and working in my state. I’ll not leave California again until I leave the US. The flyover states aren’t even layover states to me any longer.
I’m 52 and in the same boat…
Next level solution// borrow money off your assets, rent never own a mortgage (that’s it
I’m da Bay Area in a privileged area
If you had kids, they would LOVE having a second home in Nevada.
I might leave in 3 years
Those who let money guide their life will often live unhappy, stressful life
People always have to dress up things seen as high status even if they are actually causing bad outcomes in many ways. It's this way with the California, NY, etc, brand where despite the fact that the governments are insane and the culture and demographics lead to worse mental health outcomes and lower social capital, people will take that if it makes them seem higher status by living there. They should just be honest that there is in fact a trade-off. It's the same coping and lying drug addicts do. If you drink within moderation, that's fine, but it would be insane to pretend alcohol is not toxic just because you like to consume it.
I used to live in California. Moving to Texas is the best decision I have ever made. My family moved with me and I make good income anywhere I go so thanks God, leaving California is the best decision I have made
Loved living in SoCal for 50yrs and we are ready to move to retire to Las Vegas!!
We are moving bc of high taxes and stupid politics! I think we will have fun living in
LV in Summerlin!