New moms, if you don’t start all of this, you AND your sweet baby won’t have to go thru all of this. I promise!!! Keep your newborn in the same room but in their own sleeping space. Transitioning to a crib, in their own room is a breeze!!!
What happens if she wakes up in the middle of the night crying? Do you go and comfort her at all or do you just leave her there crying(let her work it out) until she puts herself back to sleep?
Hi. I was wondering how this has gone for your baby. It's a few months later. I am currently going to start sleep training my baby and she is already 9 months old so.... ahhh yikes. Thanks for this info. Great video.
Cry it out worked every time . Sleep is important , so co sleeping is to me getting no sleep . You have to understand babies cry . If she wakes up I’d go In attend to her and back to sleep . She has to know what is expected . This potty training at 3-5 years old and in and out of bed is for the birds .
Going cold turkey from co sleeping and feeding on demand to extinction is sooooo stressful and harsh for the baby. I don’t understand how a parent can do this. There sre so many sleep training methods that are less stressful. Even the 5 to 10 minute check in intervals would be easier. Just because the older child didn’t work with that method doesn’t mean it wouldn’t work with the younger. There’s the camp out method and the shush pat method. So many methods that are far less stressful for the chold.
I tried cry it out for my babies nap time and it was so stressful for her and for me. I am never doing it again. I had her already sleeping in her crib from 7:30p-2am and then I bring her to bed with me when she wakes up to nurse and now that is completely derailed because of this stupid method! Now my baby thinks her crib is a bad place where she’s left alone to cry. I feel absolutely terrible and my heart is broken. This is my 3rd baby and I never did this with the other 2. I don’t know for the life of me WHY I did this to her. Luckily I only did it for an hour and then soothed her for 20 mins and then let her cry for another hour and that was enough for me. Screw this method. Babies should be with their Momma just like babies are with their Mommas in the wild. Cry it out is inhumane. You are teaching your baby that their cries don’t matter, which is messed up because that’s their only form of communication. They literally use their cries for survival. Imagine being left to cry not understanding what’s going on. You just know that you’ve been left alone and no one is coming to your cries. That’s terrible!!! Adults these days are always in a rush to make babies grow up so they can selfishly go about their business in this materialistic world. In my heart I know it’s not supposed to this way. I am never looking up sleep training again and I am only going to do what is natural, which is breastfeed my baby, hold her, rock her, sing to her, lay with her, keep her comforted and safe!
Hope things got better!!! Maybe baby was not ready for it! I agree I would not let my baby cry for one hour as well.. 5 to 10 mins to max 15 mins..otherwise it just breaks parents heart...also we do not know if the baby is crying due to being anxious alone...that would be the worst thing to do to a baby
New moms, if you don’t start all of this, you AND your sweet baby won’t have to go thru all of this. I promise!!! Keep your newborn in the same room but in their own sleeping space. Transitioning to a crib, in their own room is a breeze!!!
What happens if she wakes up in the middle of the night crying? Do you go and comfort her at all or do you just leave her there crying(let her work it out) until she puts herself back to sleep?
Yes I really want to know too
Hi. I was wondering how this has gone for your baby. It's a few months later. I am currently going to start sleep training my baby and she is already 9 months old so.... ahhh yikes. Thanks for this info. Great video.
Cool. Thanks for your response. I started last night. It wasn't as awful as I thought. Night one... check lol
Thank you for this video 😊
Same here co-sleeping. Actually co sleeping in king size bed with mom 6 months now. Really confused what to do as I hate to hear my baby crying!!
Cry it out worked every time . Sleep is important , so co sleeping is to me getting no sleep . You have to understand babies cry . If she wakes up I’d go In attend to her and back to sleep . She has to know what is expected .
This potty training at 3-5 years old and in and out of bed is for the birds .
Going cold turkey from co sleeping and feeding on demand to extinction is sooooo stressful and harsh for the baby. I don’t understand how a parent can do this. There sre so many sleep training methods that are less stressful. Even the 5 to 10 minute check in intervals would be easier. Just because the older child didn’t work with that method doesn’t mean it wouldn’t work with the younger. There’s the camp out method and the shush pat method. So many methods that are far less stressful for the chold.
It doesn’t always work . They figure out that gets you in there. Have a baby monitor and leave them .
@@elizabethschofield4375 Fair enough point. But I still think the graduated extinction of Ferber would be a little less harsh than extinction.
I would have baby in the same room . Not in my bed . Cry it out lasts in my experience maybe 2 nights . The first being the worst .
I tried cry it out for my babies nap time and it was so stressful for her and for me. I am never doing it again. I had her already sleeping in her crib from 7:30p-2am and then I bring her to bed with me when she wakes up to nurse and now that is completely derailed because of this stupid method! Now my baby thinks her crib is a bad place where she’s left alone to cry. I feel absolutely terrible and my heart is broken. This is my 3rd baby and I never did this with the other 2. I don’t know for the life of me WHY I did this to her. Luckily I only did it for an hour and then soothed her for 20 mins and then let her cry for another hour and that was enough for me. Screw this method. Babies should be with their Momma just like babies are with their Mommas in the wild. Cry it out is inhumane. You are teaching your baby that their cries don’t matter, which is messed up because that’s their only form of communication. They literally use their cries for survival. Imagine being left to cry not understanding what’s going on. You just know that you’ve been left alone and no one is coming to your cries. That’s terrible!!! Adults these days are always in a rush to make babies grow up so they can selfishly go about their business in this materialistic world. In my heart I know it’s not supposed to this way. I am never looking up sleep training again and I am only going to do what is natural, which is breastfeed my baby, hold her, rock her, sing to her, lay with her, keep her comforted and safe!
Hope things got better!!! Maybe baby was not ready for it! I agree I would not let my baby cry for one hour as well.. 5 to 10 mins to max 15 mins..otherwise it just breaks parents heart...also we do not know if the baby is crying due to being anxious alone...that would be the worst thing to do to a baby