5 tips for dealing with difficult students

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024

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  • @meenashrestha655
    @meenashrestha655 3 года назад +73

    Summary
    1. Dont take anything personally
    2. Argument....never to be last one to say ( appolize)
    3. Always settle argument privately
    4. Make student part of learning experience ( active negotiating)
    5. Walking away is strength (ONE ON ONE DISCUSSION)
    - always be on place of strength

    • @etacude
      @etacude  3 года назад +5

      Thank you for making the summary, Meena!! 🥰
      I will pin it to the top of the comments. 🙏

    • @umuahu9902
      @umuahu9902 2 года назад

      Thanku dear

  • @elenabibi208
    @elenabibi208 3 года назад +6

    Thank u Eric ! I have the class at school 13-14 years teens and it’s something unbelievable ((( they shout , they are bold . It’s not only at my English class but also with other teachers . As I am new at school , I was disappointed really . You give me confidence . Thank u 🙏🏻

  • @angelv1393
    @angelv1393 2 года назад +8

    Thank you for this video. The number 3 is good but with the situation we have today where students felt privileged due to social media and no teacher protection when it comes to discipline process. They have this idea that we are ashaming them when we discipline them. So most of us felt we need to protect ourselves and do nothing instead so we don't lose our jobs or famed in social media negatively.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  2 года назад +1

      I know how difficult it can be, but just think about maybe the 1 student you can make a difference to!

    • @angelv1393
      @angelv1393 2 года назад +1

      @@etacude thank you, here in the Philippines you might have heard of some issues about teachers in social media and it is very sad some are being cursed in social media

  • @bushra7352
    @bushra7352 4 года назад +7

    Omg those practical examples of scenarios between student-teacher is gonna save my life. So excited!!!

    • @etacude
      @etacude  4 года назад +3

      I'll try my best to make them practical and explain why it is done a certain way. Hopefully release the first ones around March

    • @hinnazayn
      @hinnazayn 2 года назад

      @@etacude where are the videos available?

  • @TheLanguageLady
    @TheLanguageLady 4 года назад +6

    My first week back has been a little overwhelming both personally and professionally. I decided to stay put home all weekend to catch on items so that I wouldn't feel rushed or overwhelmed on my return to work tomorrow. Looking forward to seeing more of your videos on your return to Korea. I am glad you were able to enjoy the Phillipines. It looks like such a beautiful country. I have never been to Asia and it is most definitely on my bucket list. All the best to you !

    • @etacude
      @etacude  4 года назад +2

      Hi Dr. Hemphill, that first week back is always a major challenge. If we're lucky we can prepare well but there will always be obstacles at home or with work. Fortunately we have experience and I believe that if we focus on the process we will end up on top. New teachers have to find a different way of motivating themselves, be it through excitement or taking solace in the truth that there is always tomorrow, they will make it through. Good luck with your year and I hope you have a great week!

  • @genelynarado8568
    @genelynarado8568 2 года назад +3

    Wow glad to see you visiting my country.
    I’m currently in the US as a teacher and your videos help me a lot 😊

    • @etacude
      @etacude  2 года назад

      You're welcome Genelyn Arado!

  • @lonaomed5104
    @lonaomed5104 2 года назад +1

    As a teacher from Kurdistan,Iraq .
    I'm watching your vedios and they are really great man ,thank u🥰

    • @etacude
      @etacude  2 года назад

      You're welcome Lona Omed!

  • @sudanesenightmare
    @sudanesenightmare Год назад

    Thank you very much T. Eric. I really have a one student that I'm trying to work out with him.

  • @Eduscafflearn
    @Eduscafflearn Год назад +1

    Thank you so much, you give great advice for new teachers.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Год назад +1

      Thank you for watching, Rosemary! 😊 🙏

  • @حسن-ش2خ4ث
    @حسن-ش2خ4ث 2 года назад +1

    Thanks alot ,
    You talk about all teaching issues in your Vids . Evrey things that belong to teaching ,students class mangment (Mashallah )

  • @NavarroIvette
    @NavarroIvette Год назад +1

    excelente contenido gracias bendiciones

  • @oxanaivasiunico8568
    @oxanaivasiunico8568 2 года назад +4

    I've just come across your videos, and can't stop watching them. You're fabulous !Thank you so much for sharing with us! Your experience is very very and extremely important! Thousand of thanks!

    • @etacude
      @etacude  2 года назад +2

      You're welcome Oxana!

  • @chukoshenina5326
    @chukoshenina5326 3 года назад +3

    Hi, Eric. I am a retired teacher. After a few years of following my dreams, I decided to return to teach again. I teach now at a community college in U.S. I've learned all over again rom your videos. Thank you. I didn't get the title of the book you were mentioning in this video. I'd appreciate if you reply with the title. Glad that you are teaching in Seoul, my home town when I was young.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  3 года назад +3

      Hi Chu! Thank you for the comment and sorry for the late reply. The book is called 'Managing Behavior in the Classroom' by David Wright.
      It's quite rare to find so I'd like to make a newer version in the future. 😄

    • @ayatabbasmostafa8848
      @ayatabbasmostafa8848 2 года назад

      @@etacude Hi,Eric. First thank you so much. 💕 Any news regarding the newer version?

    • @НаджияНуруллина
      @НаджияНуруллина 2 года назад

      @@ayatabbasmostafa8848 ю

  • @jablestables682
    @jablestables682 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love your calm way of speaking, and the chickens in the background amused me 😊. Thank you for your content!

    • @etacude
      @etacude  11 месяцев назад

      So nice of you Thank you! ^^

  • @bolpinicreations7004
    @bolpinicreations7004 2 года назад

    I am a teacher from a foreign country. Not an english country. So my english would not be good. I follow you. Beacause I dont like our country s education system and I want to make a change. So I search for new tricks and tips, methods etc. Our country s teacher education is very boring. There are so many courses. We have to pay for that boring courses. Thank you so much sir because your content is very attractive and valuable to me. ♥️

    • @etacude
      @etacude  2 года назад

      I am humbled by your kind words!

  • @ascensioncano3606
    @ascensioncano3606 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing the summary the 5 tips with us, teachers and families.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  2 года назад

      Thanks for watching, Ascension! 🙏

  • @NavarroIvette
    @NavarroIvette Год назад

    todos tus videos son perfectos de gran ayuda

  • @mariam6927
    @mariam6927 2 года назад +1

    That's simply awesome.I've recently discovered your channel as if i have discovered a treasure..so useful for me as a teacher...regards from Egypt..

    • @etacude
      @etacude  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words, Mariam! I'll try to share more useful content in the future. 😊🙏

  • @jenifergopo4917
    @jenifergopo4917 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your tips and ideas, good job!!!

    • @etacude
      @etacude  2 года назад

      Thanks Jenifer!

  • @malcolmtaylor3583
    @malcolmtaylor3583 2 года назад +4

    Thanks Eric, your videos are always filled with useful and quality information

    • @etacude
      @etacude  2 года назад

      Thank you so much for your kind words, Malcolm. 🙏 I really appreciate it! 😄

  • @carolinekelly3415
    @carolinekelly3415 3 года назад +3

    Hello Professor, thank you for sharing your expertise!

    • @etacude
      @etacude  3 года назад

      Thank you for watching, Caroline! 😊

  • @haripariyar2286
    @haripariyar2286 2 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for your tips.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  2 года назад

      You're welcome Hari!

  • @Veronicawardwell
    @Veronicawardwell 2 года назад +2

    Yes! You are very helpful. I am grateful for your intuitive and creative ideas that you share. Thank you!!! Veronica from No Venice, FL USA I would have loved to have been your student!! : )

    • @etacude
      @etacude  2 года назад

      Thank you for your kind words, Veronica! 🙏
      I'm sure you would've been a great student! 😊

  • @davidpenafiel1639
    @davidpenafiel1639 Год назад +1

    Dear sir. When you talk about the third tip. Is it used on adults students too? For instance, can I take an university student aside and talk to them about the problem that he o she has? Thank you.

  • @josevil1513
    @josevil1513 2 года назад

    Salamat naman po at nakapunta ka dito sa pilipinas.

  • @jmbhteachusa4084
    @jmbhteachusa4084 2 года назад +1

    Hi eric, one of your subscribers from the philippines.
    Im a teacher here in the USA.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  2 года назад

      Welcome JMBH and welcome!

  • @chahwrite1157
    @chahwrite1157 2 года назад

    Hello ,could you please provide us with videos about what is a lesson plan and how it should be well prepared. Thx in advance.

  • @learning2read
    @learning2read 4 года назад +2

    Thanks for taking time to share these ideas. You are doing a great job.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  4 года назад

      Thank you Theo! I subbed to your channel and enjoyed your video. Your reading is crisp and clear. It can help students learning to read. Keep on making videos if that's what you're into!

  • @martezsatchell5163
    @martezsatchell5163 2 года назад +1

    I enjoy this channel. I cannot wait for the new content.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  2 года назад +1

      Thank you, Martez! 🙏 I'll try to make some more useful content soon! 😊

  • @nimusiimaprosper7093
    @nimusiimaprosper7093 2 года назад

    thanks so much for the service

  • @josefinacanullas8636
    @josefinacanullas8636 Год назад +1

    Thank you for visiting Philippines Sir

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Год назад

      It was really fun! Beautiful country!

  • @sabriinaatoulip4481
    @sabriinaatoulip4481 4 года назад +1

    Ow I am grateful for your interesting videos, thank you so much they are really helpful. Whenever I feel confused I go back to them
    Good luck !

    • @etacude
      @etacude  4 года назад

      I'm glad you liked it. My mom told me I should stick to the main points. Also, I was kind of nervous while shooting cause there were people around. 2 weeks from now I'm back home and I'll be ready to make good videos again! Till then I hope you have an amazing week Sabrina! 😄

  • @user-ud5vw9um8u
    @user-ud5vw9um8u 4 года назад +2

    Thank you for your videos. I heard you say you borrowed three basic rules for the classroom. Each rule included the main word of respect. I can't find the rules. Can you point me in the right direction? Which video did you post those in?

    • @etacude
      @etacude  4 года назад +3

      Good question T!
      I probably said it in some other videos but I'm not completely sure which.
      The 3 rules I give my students are:
      1. Respect everyone
      2. Treat your classmates kindly
      3. When someone is speaking, listen quietly.
      I hope these help. 😄

    • @user-ud5vw9um8u
      @user-ud5vw9um8u 4 года назад

      @@etacude Thank you!

  • @wadyahrh6107
    @wadyahrh6107 2 года назад

    Where have you been all this time im glad that u discovered u today...love

    • @etacude
      @etacude  2 года назад

      Welcome to the channel Wadya Hrh!

  • @shooshjordan9172
    @shooshjordan9172 2 года назад +1

    Wow! you are soooo amazing.. Hats off.. I learned a lot from you.. Every single word you say is a treasure. You helped me a lot in class management and control. The best ever 🏆❤️ Are you British?

    • @etacude
      @etacude  2 года назад

      You're so welcome Shoosh Jordan!

  • @mymusic-no8lo
    @mymusic-no8lo 3 года назад +1

    love your videos . keep them up please . wishing you the best .

    • @etacude
      @etacude  3 года назад +1

      Thank you Music! ☺
      I'm busy with new videos I will release shortly. Thank you for your support! 🙏

  • @martha_ntakou
    @martha_ntakou 2 года назад +2

    Hi Eric! How do you deal with young learners who swear in classroom? I have a new student that swears every time he makes a mistake. I try to make him feel comfortable and your videos have helped a lot in classroom management. I show him it's ok to make mistakes but the other students don't want to make him part of the group so he feels isolated anyway. It's a complex situtation I know, but I was wondering if you any tips. Should I ignore the bad words? Should I pretend it never happened and then deal with it in private with the student? Thanks in advance!

    • @etacude
      @etacude  2 года назад +2

      Hi Martha! Great question. If it's an isolated incident, strategically ignore it, but later mention to the student that it was wrong in private.
      If it's obvious in front of class, you want to tell him publicly that it is wrong to swear ~ also, reinforce the rule about swearing by telling the class why it's wrong. Ask the student if he understands, if he apologizes then say okay, but you don't want to hear it again.
      If he doesn't apologize, ask to see him after class and continue so that the interruption doesn't steal more of your time.
      I guess those are the 3 options. 😄

    • @martha_ntakou
      @martha_ntakou 2 года назад +1

      @@etacude Thanks for your answer! One of the things I've done is to make him say 3 good words for every bad word but it takes a lot of time. I guess I will have to create a clear rule about it! Thanks again for your help!

    • @etacude
      @etacude  2 года назад +1

      @@martha_ntakou Good idea! I didn't think of what to do with him after. I like the idea of him saying nice words after to repent. :)

  • @StaceySummers-k9e
    @StaceySummers-k9e 10 месяцев назад

    great advice.

  • @wardarashad6530
    @wardarashad6530 3 года назад

    Amazing tips, thanks!

  • @ikarly2898
    @ikarly2898 3 года назад +2

    Hello. Really appreciate these tips, but can these be applied to one-on-one teaching?

    • @etacude
      @etacude  3 года назад +1

      I definitely think that the mindset that you have when controlling an entire class can be adapted to suit individual students. 👍

  • @arnoldgabutan187
    @arnoldgabutan187 3 года назад +2

    Wow! You've been here in the Philippines! I hope you enjoyed your vacation here. Thank you for all the tips. I definitely learn a lot.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  3 года назад +1

      I love the Philippines and can't wait to visit again! Thank you for watching, Arnold. 😊🙏

  • @KCdierkes
    @KCdierkes 4 года назад +2

    So glad to have discovered your channel. Your videos and advice are super helpful! Could you tell me the author or ISBN number of the book "Managing behavior in the classroom" ? Thanks so much! and greetings from France!

    • @etacude
      @etacude  4 года назад +1

      Hi Carly! I'll post the code as soon as I get home. I'll also add it in the description. It is one of the best books I've read on classroom management and will make a video series of it in the future. 😊

    • @etacude
      @etacude  4 года назад +1

      Hi, I put the book in the description.
      The author is David Wright. Fantastic book!

    • @KCdierkes
      @KCdierkes 4 года назад +1

      @@etacude Thanks so much! I look forward to watching more of your videos, especially on classroom management, in the future!

  • @jensmail7
    @jensmail7 2 года назад

    OMGOSH that’s cool, I am from the Philippines. Enjoy the food and lovely people.

  • @jhamilante9409
    @jhamilante9409 3 года назад +1

    thanks for sharing.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  3 года назад

      Thank you for watching! :)

  • @bananatravel
    @bananatravel 4 года назад +1

    Hope you had a nice vacation in Philippines! My "Anneunhaseyo" to Korea! I studied Korean language there for one year😅

    • @etacude
      @etacude  4 года назад +1

      Sad that I never ran into you. Where did you stay, Seoul?

    • @bananatravel
      @bananatravel 4 года назад

      @@etacude in Cheongpeoyng, far to the North from Daegu where I guess you are))

  • @alminodon3913
    @alminodon3913 4 года назад +1

    Thanks for the videos you uploaded😀 It give us ideas😊 Love your videos Sir👍 Watching from Philippines, Hope you enjoy here😀

    • @etacude
      @etacude  4 года назад

      Hi Almin. I had a fantastic time in the Philippines thanks to all the great people and the beautiful country! I've been a bit busy with my travels so I was unable to upload a lot. When I come back next week I will work on lots of great videos I wish go share. Thank you for your support!!😍

  • @lilitbayatyan2543
    @lilitbayatyan2543 3 года назад +1

    You do a great job thanks

    • @etacude
      @etacude  3 года назад +1

      Thank you, Lilit! 😊

  • @maytecamacho7485
    @maytecamacho7485 3 года назад

    I loved the Obi Wan Kenobi's explanation, it enlighted me !!!

  • @wateenal_sayadi679
    @wateenal_sayadi679 3 года назад +1

    Hey, I'm a new teacher
    I'm really struggling with my noisy students..

    • @etacude
      @etacude  3 года назад

      Hi Wateen! Here is a video I did about noisy classes. I hope it helps!
      ruclips.net/video/51FyDOZVeVU/видео.html

  • @edwardrossman9448
    @edwardrossman9448 3 года назад +1

    I enjoy and benefit from these videos, but @ 8:50 I think he misuses the word capitulating. Demanding is not capitulating, demanding can force the capitulation on somebody else.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  3 года назад

      Right. Sometimes I use the wrong to explain something. Thank you for the correction, Edward. 👍

  • @TEACHINGTIPSGURU
    @TEACHINGTIPSGURU 4 года назад +1

    Very nice

    • @etacude
      @etacude  4 года назад

      Thank you! Now that I'm back from vacation I can't wait to see more of your videos! 😍

  • @kylaandrews3658
    @kylaandrews3658 3 года назад +2

    what if students are talking from another language I felt they are talking about me. Even I set the rule no speaking in their native language so hardheaded students,,,,

    • @etacude
      @etacude  3 года назад +1

      Every week you have to start class by telling them that they will never improve unless they use English. They can not be afraid to look silly or make mistakes, because that is the only way they will grow.
      Sometimes they can quickly use their language to explain, but that is an English class. They have to use English, especially when they are doing activities!
      Do this every week and correct them. Be strict but understandable.

  • @Rexxx123
    @Rexxx123 2 года назад

    Hi Eric, is there an online version of this book? I can't find it🤣

    • @etacude
      @etacude  2 года назад

      For such a useful book it is difficult to find. I believe it might be out of print.
      In the future I'll make content based on it. But that is a long time away!
      I hope you can find it Rex, I got it on Amazon.

  • @englishforbeginners9652
    @englishforbeginners9652 3 года назад +1

    Unable to join to receive free resources .plz help me .

    • @etacude
      @etacude  3 года назад

      Send me an email and I will add you!

  • @BeckyRiggs
    @BeckyRiggs Год назад

    What is the name of the book that you mentioned in this video?

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Год назад

      Sorry I missed you message. Can't remember of hand. Check out the video list or articles on Etateach.com. Best of luck!

  • @ГеоргійКалпакчи
    @ГеоргійКалпакчи 3 года назад +1

    Really good!

    • @etacude
      @etacude  3 года назад

      Thank you for watching! 😃🙏

  • @fizzarizvi7890
    @fizzarizvi7890 3 года назад

    Hello
    I have a problem creating student in my class.I need your help.How can I contact you sir?

  • @nerminessamaldin1567
    @nerminessamaldin1567 Год назад

    What of all the class are very noughty and few students are good I'm music teacher I can't let them sing or play music they always move and don't keep calm

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Год назад +1

      Sorry I missed you message. Are you coping? Check out the video list or articles on Etateach.com. Best of luck!

    • @nerminessamaldin1567
      @nerminessamaldin1567 Год назад

      @@etacude thanks

  • @nihilos7225
    @nihilos7225 3 года назад

    Hey..are u a lecturer?..cuz i have some question to ask..btw i am a student doing research for my assignment

  • @SuperGoatGazer
    @SuperGoatGazer Год назад

    I feel 3 is the same as 5

  • @roshnamohammadi2817
    @roshnamohammadi2817 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing your ideas. What is the name of facebook group? Can we join?

    • @etacude
      @etacude  3 года назад

      Please do Roshna! It's called Etacude

  • @hanifnumlian8191
    @hanifnumlian8191 3 месяца назад

    Good video

    • @etacude
      @etacude  3 месяца назад

      Glad you enjoyed

  • @wateenal_sayadi679
    @wateenal_sayadi679 3 года назад +1

    You are amazing

    • @etacude
      @etacude  3 года назад

      Thank you for your kind words, Wateen! ☺ Sorry for the late reply.

  • @mick5067
    @mick5067 Год назад

    It seems like a melt down was happening.

  • @karinaserrano5953
    @karinaserrano5953 4 года назад +2

    What is your facebook teacher's group? Can I join in?

    • @etacude
      @etacude  4 года назад +5

      Hi Karina! You're more than welcome to join the group. The group is called etacude. Right now I use it to talk and share extra contentand material with teachers. They are also welcome to post questions or ideas they want to share. So far I feel like it isn't used to it's fullest potential, but with the new series I'm working on I hope it will grow into a valuable resource and community! 😁

    • @karinaserrano5953
      @karinaserrano5953 4 года назад

      @@etacude Thank you very much and greetings from Dominican Republic!

    • @bananatravel
      @bananatravel 4 года назад

      Me join too!

  • @MrMario477
    @MrMario477 4 года назад +3

    I think so if the Filipinos were colonized by you American and have difficulties of English what good is they talking native language Filipino than English there that arises terrible doubts TRUE

    • @etacude
      @etacude  4 года назад +1

      I was talking to some Philippinos last night and some of them think it would've been better for them to welcome the Americans. I don't know if it's true or not but it's an interesting idea.

    • @MrMario477
      @MrMario477 4 года назад

      @@etacude yes theacher erick but the question is not because of reception, americans and yes because they are speaking more native filipino language than english, does that result in what the american colonization did not solve at all?