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  • @maryy.angell
    @maryy.angell Год назад +14398

    imagine being so insecure that you project said insecurities into some else who’s just trying to life their life, could not be me
    😌💅

    • @Ih8ufrrr
      @Ih8ufrrr Год назад +57

      Facts

    • @emmamarkel8410
      @emmamarkel8410 Год назад +115

      Yeah seriously, like if you're struggling with insecurities just say that, we're all here to help. But we're not helping anyone who's blatantly rude to someone cause they weigh more than 110 pounds... grow up.

    • @deefarhei3617
      @deefarhei3617 Год назад +62

      but I mean, her entire internet personality is about her being fat. Of course she's gonna get those comments. If she's a chef, the the comments would be about her cooking. Just logic.

    • @emmamarkel8410
      @emmamarkel8410 Год назад +65

      @@deefarhei3617 yes that's true, that's why she makes videos like this with a more humourous take on those comments. Cause she knows she's going to get them, and we all know making those comments isn't right.

    • @ksolo5382
      @ksolo5382 Год назад +11

      Ikr embarrassing tbh, could never be me 💅

  • @sailorbobell
    @sailorbobell Год назад +6043

    omg the “i’m skinnier than you and nowhere near as confident” was the best one 😭💕💕💕🙌🙌

    • @midomnour
      @midomnour Год назад +39

      umm don't you feel like she's making fun of skinny people now?

    • @kari.ethereal
      @kari.ethereal Год назад +269

      @@midomnour Not really

    • @hayz..
      @hayz.. Год назад +304

      @@midomnour She never said anything about being skinny was wrong or bad tf?

    • @hza5941
      @hza5941 Год назад +190

      @@midomnour pls explain to me how shes skinny shaming??

    • @always.ian.990
      @always.ian.990 Год назад +164

      @@midomnour she didn’t say anything bout shaming her for being skinny ☠️

  • @l.e.t.apostrophes.g.o.3325
    @l.e.t.apostrophes.g.o.3325 Год назад +742

    Ok- everything aside... THIS OUTFIT LOOKS SOO FREAKING CUTE TT

    • @mygod2529
      @mygod2529 Год назад +1

      I like the Halloween jacket

    • @midnightmakesart
      @midnightmakesart Год назад +1

      i need that halloween jacket

    • @idontexist7136
      @idontexist7136 Год назад

      Where do I find that Halloween jacket

    • @barbara_LL
      @barbara_LL Год назад

      omg ikr, thr jacket is absolutely adorable I love it so so much, and she looks so pretty🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

    • @HelTuo
      @HelTuo Год назад

      You are rigth

  • @shinynautilus
    @shinynautilus Год назад +958

    “I wouldn’t be surprised if no one wanted to take care of you when you’re old. You’re kinda rude.” This made my week 😂

    • @Hyper_Modee
      @Hyper_Modee Год назад +4

      Same !

    • @Funeral_Mannequin
      @Funeral_Mannequin Год назад +1

      Yeah, like if their family member becomes a homeless drug addict then what, they’d just let them die on the street?

    • @Georgie-q4p
      @Georgie-q4p 9 месяцев назад

      That made my month!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @HYDROCARBON_XD
      @HYDROCARBON_XD 5 месяцев назад

      I literally read this while she said that solipsism is true you’re all hallucinations

  • @glittermafia5759
    @glittermafia5759 Год назад +555

    I'm confused,she's not even fat. If I saw her walking down the street It wouldn't even cross my mind... people are so strange, they say anything they want on the internet but never keep that same energy irl

    • @somethingbambi875
      @somethingbambi875 Год назад +49

      Just this! What world do these people live in? I just don't get it. I remember my mum being angry at all skinny manikins and so happy then when the "normal sized" came here and there. She was always "too skinny" growing up and bullied because of that in school. This world!

    • @bloddrinkeraka
      @bloddrinkeraka Год назад +47

      Yeah, I guess she is overweight, but like not at that point where you write an essay that she is

    • @yasminxx9329
      @yasminxx9329 Год назад +17

      I just don't know why people care so much

    • @tomokokurokiirl
      @tomokokurokiirl Год назад +27

      tell me you’re american without telling me you’re american

    • @lifewithkids5231
      @lifewithkids5231 Год назад +8

      i think she’s a healthy weight, different people have different natural health standards

  • @ValentinaB2001
    @ValentinaB2001 Год назад +803

    OH MY GOD that halloween sweater is super cute

  • @builtlikeasnowman9103
    @builtlikeasnowman9103 Год назад +2220

    The fact that I didn’t even know she was “fat” until rude people on the Internet addressed it is saying something

    • @annacecil4836
      @annacecil4836 Год назад +35

      same

    • @aaronday1997
      @aaronday1997 Год назад +122

      Yeah I was confused at the end when she said fat.

    • @Lena-mt3ck
      @Lena-mt3ck Год назад +218

      fr I was thinking it was a joke at first.. she looks normal. Are people calling everyone who is not size 0 fat now?

    • @pixel_scapes
      @pixel_scapes Год назад +119

      Right? She looks like a normal sized person.

    • @cupcakegirlpoweredits9732
      @cupcakegirlpoweredits9732 Год назад +116

      She's not fat. Every person needs different weight for their body. She looks great! The things people say to make themselves feel better...

  • @mca_2678
    @mca_2678 Год назад +6

    i once heard someone say “if the worst thing someone can say about you is that your fat… i guess you’re doing pretty good” and that always stuck with me!! the only thing these hate comments ever say is “she should be skinnier”, im sure the people leaving those comments should be A LOT of different things…

  • @CaseyTheWeirdo583
    @CaseyTheWeirdo583 Год назад +790

    “Burden to the taxpayers” 😭😭😭💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

    • @ITangaDiElenoireFerruzzi
      @ITangaDiElenoireFerruzzi Год назад

      they blame fat people instead of capitalism 💀

    • @pxgzcookie
      @pxgzcookie Год назад +15

      The only burden is the IRS

    • @ilulu5082
      @ilulu5082 Год назад +23

      liiiiike....as if half of it doesnt go to the military

    • @Someone-kf8xe
      @Someone-kf8xe Год назад +1

      ​@@ilulu5082 exactly like 😂

    • @thicc_astley
      @thicc_astley Год назад +6

      as someone who has a useless government job so my wages are paid for with taxes, i’m gonna claim this title

  • @abbibi726
    @abbibi726 Год назад +866

    As a girl who struggles with her weight, it is truly disgusting that people are still fat shaming. Not everyone is overweight because they eat too much, some have a medical condition or need to take meds that make you gain weight, or you just have a slower metabolism and that is 100% ok. Others need to realize that the perfect body isn’t in weight it is in confidence. Thank you for my Ted Talk ❤

    • @paradoxavakin3420
      @paradoxavakin3420 Год назад +59

      Or simply just hormones

    • @kirby6844
      @kirby6844 Год назад +42

      I have a medicine that makes me fat and I’m naturally bigger. I totally agree with you.

    • @sleepiegirl
      @sleepiegirl Год назад +8

      @@paradoxavakin3420 exactly.

    • @karubaki_nag_6239
      @karubaki_nag_6239 Год назад +33

      @@kirby6844 , exactly, girl! My thyroid hormone medicines are what keep me alive and working,... aand, they also make me fat. It's pretty weird when I'm going out on a run and, new people on the trail, or, people I don't run with give me the stink eye.

    • @flops1792
      @flops1792 Год назад +1

      Also, ✨ mental health issues✨

  • @Yasmin-jk7fx
    @Yasmin-jk7fx Год назад +498

    when she started to braid her hair I lost it, they look so freaking cute 🥺🥺

    • @doctordiscord8063
      @doctordiscord8063 Год назад +1

      Isn't it one person?

    • @Olive_1103
      @Olive_1103 Год назад +3

      @@doctordiscord8063 they is a pronoun that can be used for an individual or a group of people.

    • @doctordiscord8063
      @doctordiscord8063 Год назад +1

      @@Olive_1103 Aw shit I forgot that was a thing, well

    • @xspacecl0udx
      @xspacecl0udx Год назад +1

      @@doctordiscord8063 I think the person was referring to the braids as cute (but the pronoun “they” is also used in a singular fashion, although its singular form has only been popularized recently).

  • @emmaheeps1605
    @emmaheeps1605 Год назад +51

    Those comments are disgusting. They make me sick, and that people can be that horrible. They say that bullies (that's what they are) always try and put someone down to make themselves feel better. Just insecure, low life, and judgemental scum who need to keep horrible, disgusting comments like that to themselves. Or better still get help.
    Babes, keep doing what you're doing. You're a beautiful, confident young lady with so much more to give. Xx

    • @musicgraze
      @musicgraze Год назад

      I love average sized people. because they are he size of my mom.

  • @pandafrog4888
    @pandafrog4888 Год назад +1130

    “omg i’m so much skinnier then you and don’t have a fraction of your confidence- not my problem”😌😙🥰LITERALLY ILY

    • @beverlyerwin7578
      @beverlyerwin7578 Год назад +2

      Who CARES

    • @beverlyerwin7578
      @beverlyerwin7578 Год назад +3

      She’s BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @emmamarkel8410
      @emmamarkel8410 Год назад +2

      @@beverlyerwin7578 Who cares? Toxic people with no self-confidence. 😉

    • @nocomment5398
      @nocomment5398 Год назад +2

      @@emmamarkel8410 not wearing a crop top when you have a huge purple tummy is definitely NOT being ''not confident'' but realistic about how to respect yourself...

    • @kris_underrune
      @kris_underrune Год назад +4

      @@nocomment5398 Crop top*. Don't reply.

  • @mamaknowsnothing
    @mamaknowsnothing Год назад +259

    I have a similar body type and I just want to feel good in my skin like you. You’re so gorgeous and you pull off all these different styles and you actually know how to style and I’m over here just hating myself and clueless. You are an inspiration to me.

    • @tiniunicornsparkles
      @tiniunicornsparkles Год назад +16

      Don't hate yourself, we are all beautiful just how we are. Sometimes it takes som eone else to show us how special we are. Love your little bits and the rest will follow ❤

    • @mamaknowsnothing
      @mamaknowsnothing Год назад +9

      @@tiniunicornsparkles thank you 💐💜🤍

    • @pinkusdean1178
      @pinkusdean1178 Год назад +14

      @Maya Unknow somehow many of these people (those who are nasty about/to those who are overweight) will try and claim that simply being overweight is "encouraging" it, if you're anything other than depressed about your weight you're apparently encouraging it! :0 when no, I've just accepted that atleast for me, my body won't be an ideal weight, my medical issues just won't allow it and I wanna just accept that and be happy in my own skin. Aka people are miserable sods

    • @Aurelian369_
      @Aurelian369_ Год назад +6

      people are so mean 😭 I know being overweight isn’t healthy but why do plus size people have to hate themselves just to be acceptable within society? It’s not like bullying someone for their weight will magically make them lose weight. It’s ultimately your body and nobody Can police your decisions. I feel like some of these commenters don’t know any fat people, and I say this as someone who’s underweight

    • @sand_eater101
      @sand_eater101 Год назад +4

      @@Aurelian369_ Being overweight doesn’t have to be unhealthy. If you eat healthy and do your best to exercise, you’re probably going to be fine

  • @nikkispace7121
    @nikkispace7121 Год назад +551

    I'm honestly shocked people would say that about her, she's very beautiful the way she is ♥️

  • @amandahoffman6912
    @amandahoffman6912 Год назад +87

    “I’m skinnier than you and don’t have a fraction of your confidence”. That was a good one👏🏻😂

  • @juliasheppard166
    @juliasheppard166 Год назад +695

    I’m underweight and I just want to say that your videos help me a lot with my ED your style is a bit like mine and you rock it!! It’s nice to get a reminder that your insecurities are normal and don’t define you. Keep killing it queen🫶

    • @SageKittyDraws
      @SageKittyDraws Год назад +20

      That's so sweet you seem like a very kind person I hope you get better hun

    • @juliasheppard166
      @juliasheppard166 Год назад +11

      @@SageKittyDraws aww thank you so much!!💛

    • @sand_eater101
      @sand_eater101 Год назад +34

      People tend to forget that people born underweight can’t gain weight and they sadly start telling them to eat more. It’s like telling a fat person to eat less. I’ve been told to eat less and I used to tell my best friend to eat more. I realised why that was so wrong and apologised.
      I see you and I hear you, you can do this. You’re stronger than most fighting such a tough battle against your own mind, you’re a star. Keep doing what you like💜💜💜

    • @mashaa.7509
      @mashaa.7509 Год назад +3

      rooting for u!!!!

    • @hereisahuman5977
      @hereisahuman5977 Год назад +3

      I'm glad you're doing better!

  • @BuyoSpudlin
    @BuyoSpudlin Год назад +325

    I'm naturally a wide, stocky person, and I'm amazed with how confident you are with yourself.
    I aspire to gain that confidence too.

    • @Ana_marshmallow
      @Ana_marshmallow Год назад +11

      ik
      some ppl just don't understand that there are more natural body shapes then skinny 😔🥲

    • @bailey7792
      @bailey7792 Год назад +6

      ​@@Ana_marshmallow
      Right because being a healthy weight or being skinny 'isn't natural'. The hypocrisy on this channel is crazy lol

    • @NoName-me5pc
      @NoName-me5pc Год назад

      ​@@bailey7792 You have to lack reading properly to get that dumb and absolutely out of nowhere conclusion. The person literally wrote that other body types exist, not just skinny. If a girl making outfit videos with a different weight and body type makes you mad, then that's what's crazy.

    • @bbt7620
      @bbt7620 Год назад +4

      ​@@bailey7792 What are you on about? No one said that being skinny wasn't natural, and you can be perfectly healthy and have a foopa, large legs and arms, and even a double chin. Shocking, I know

    • @satan4734
      @satan4734 Год назад +2

      @@bailey7792 they literally said that being thin isn’t the *only* normal body type… you’re deliberately misinterpreting their comment.

  • @lexhdz5803
    @lexhdz5803 Год назад +868

    "im so much thinner than you and so much less confident" "well thats not my problem" LOUDER FOR THE PPL IN THE BACK GIRL
    edit: how tf did the replies got this wild?? i was just praising this womans confidence ?? plz dont fight ????

    • @LookingForFrogs
      @LookingForFrogs Год назад +7

      That's not what the comment was saying so if we follow the logic of comments here that means she is projecting her insecurities on the person commenting 😄

    • @gabrieldartemius9940
      @gabrieldartemius9940 Год назад +1

      YES, it's so true xDDD

    • @LookingForFrogs
      @LookingForFrogs Год назад +2

      @¡ 𝗱𝗮𝗲𝗺𝗼𝗻𝗶𝘀𝘁𝘆 ! well, the person in the video made up the part that the person in the comment doesn't wear crop top because she lacks confidence. According to comments under this video people are projecting their insecurities on others when they make up stuff like that, so the person in the video sounds insecure.

    • @addiemoffett1703
      @addiemoffett1703 Год назад

      YES

    • @Strawberry_369
      @Strawberry_369 Год назад +13

      @@LookingForFrogs that’s basically what it meant, they just rephrased it. Also stop commenting if you’re going to turn a positive thing negative please.

  • @gabbyborjon7029
    @gabbyborjon7029 Год назад +286

    i’m so sorry you have to deal with so many incompetent people. beauty is not defied by how thin someone is and you’re the prime example of someone being comfortable and beautiful in their own skin. we all love you so much and you truly deserve the world ❤

    • @emandher1000sofanime
      @emandher1000sofanime Год назад +2

      Honestly, idk how she does it but I’m glad she’s here ❤️❤️❤️

    • @ScizzoringGirlz
      @ScizzoringGirlz Год назад

      Ikr and she’s not even fat lol
      That’s decent weight

  • @kathrynbarretteklund
    @kathrynbarretteklund Год назад +757

    And she really isn’t super big. Her body weight is perfectly distributed. She’s gorgeous and super tall. Her hair color is so pretty as well. People just dont like bigger sizes being represented and seeing people who wear those sizes to feel confident. This girl has accomplished that and it doing amazing!! 💜💜

    • @ChuuyasTackyHat
      @ChuuyasTackyHat Год назад +18

      Fr like they call her fat?! And being fat is nothing weird or ugly

    • @nou4716
      @nou4716 Год назад +5

      She's not perfectly distributed...

    • @maybeamoth
      @maybeamoth Год назад +13

      @@nou4716 she is though, she has very nice proportions

    • @crypticharpy
      @crypticharpy Год назад +6

      @@nou4716 don't like it, you don't have to watch it. Don't agree with it, you don't have to comment. Bye Mark!

    • @PrettyLittleSoulEater
      @PrettyLittleSoulEater Год назад

      @@nou4716 ah but you are? if you aren't stfu

  • @rightonlimes2879
    @rightonlimes2879 Год назад +198

    That is the ultimate Halloween sweater, I’m so jealous

  • @Dinosour6
    @Dinosour6 Год назад +109

    This look gives “Magic school bus teacher teaches the Addams children” I love it

    • @bananatost
      @bananatost Год назад +3

      her name is miss frizzle🤬🤬 /nm/lh

    • @Dinosour6
      @Dinosour6 Год назад

      @@bananatost I DIDNT KNOW THE FIRST PART AND DIDNT WANT TO LOOK IT UP

  • @Liam_17
    @Liam_17 Год назад +1

    They just mad you're happy with yourself, they could never

  • @corporalanonymous4589
    @corporalanonymous4589 Год назад +75

    When I was overweight, they wanted me thinner so I did. Then now I'm underweight, they wanted me a little more you know. I'm just glad to see this, it boost me up.

    • @gmw-g6880
      @gmw-g6880 Год назад +10

      that just proves that no one will ever be satisfied. no matter what end of the spectrum you are at, of any aspect, you’ll get criticized.
      so just do what makes you happy 😍

    • @bailey7792
      @bailey7792 Год назад

      Who is they lol? Who are these people that care this much about what you look like? Sounds like projection to me..

    • @Bexwizard
      @Bexwizard Год назад +1

      All of the people who see this content will never all agree with each other’s views and opinions, that’s what can make debate and discussion such an interesting and enlightening thing x

    • @ajdavidson6390
      @ajdavidson6390 Год назад +4

      ​@@bailey7792 what do you want her to do? Call the people out by name?

    • @HYDROCARBON_XD
      @HYDROCARBON_XD 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@gmw-g6880it’s simple,excess or very few is not good,you need to be in the middle,hell you just need to eat more and do resistance exercise if you’re underweight and eat less and do cardio if you’re overweight,simple

  • @itsciara1153
    @itsciara1153 Год назад +229

    When she said “honestly I don’t think anyone is gonna want to care of you when your older, you’re kinda rude” like yess tell ‘em girl ❤

  • @lauryn6037
    @lauryn6037 Год назад +149

    u are literally the most beautiful person and u can make ANYTHING look good so idk what are these people are even talking about

  • @NamelessOne-
    @NamelessOne- Год назад +15

    As a person whose struggles with weight going up and down and not having what I believe to be a good body. I admit I made a face the first time I saw her and then asked myself why. Realizing I only recoiled cuz of society saying it’s not acceptable to show any of your fat.
    But seeing her videos more and more makes me feel a lot better about not hiding anymore. I may not be into the same style as you, but I love that you wear anything you want cuz YOU like it. I hope I can get there eventually. I still wanna be thinner, but this helps motivate me through my journey to not be in my own head and hate myself the whole way.

    • @warmlavender5525
      @warmlavender5525 Год назад +3

      I wish a lot more people actually questioned why they have such a bad reaction to fat people and bodies instead of thinking they’re justified in being assholes. I’m saying this bc I’m happy that you questioned that belief and reflected on that discomfort.

    • @NamelessOne-
      @NamelessOne- Год назад +1

      @@warmlavender5525 I appreciate the sentiment ❤️ I feel somewhat the same about fashion. If people wore what they like vs what they think is fashionably acceptable. We would have a lot more interesting outfits out there.

    • @warmlavender5525
      @warmlavender5525 Год назад +1

      @@NamelessOne- I agree!! I’ve always loved super fun fashion bc I discovered Fruits mag when I was a tween which is a famous Japanese magazine that took photos of Harajuku kids in the 90’s. And I loved it bc they were just pushing the edge of street fashion in a way I’ve never seen before. But I looked around me and everyone dressed so boring & I still don’t get it.

    • @NamelessOne-
      @NamelessOne- Год назад

      @@warmlavender5525 I used to really like harajuku. A sister of mine gave me a gift of a harajuku figurine which was actually a perfume. The figure was the cap. After that I looked up the word and videos about it.

    • @TimmieLost
      @TimmieLost Год назад +1

      This comment made me so happy! I've seen people posting really mean comments on her videos just because they don't like her style. You have a different taste than her, but are very mature about it. I love the positivity. Thanks for sharing your thoughts! ❤

  • @Ting3rkig420
    @Ting3rkig420 Год назад +147

    You slay girl, watching you feel confident make me feel way better about myself cause my own mother projects all her insecurities onto me and my sister , and you genuinely have such good vibes and are so beautiful.

  • @madiiskrip
    @madiiskrip Год назад +82

    ok im obsessed with that whole outfit

  • @larset9
    @larset9 Год назад +3

    I can't believe how rude people are!
    I stumbled on your channel. I've been thin all my life & modeled professionally.
    I follow you because I'm not confident in ways that are not related to my looks (every body has confidence issues somehow - not speaking up, unable to put themselves out there, socialising etc) & I find you motivating & such good energy to watch. I love your drive, creativeness & ambition.
    Many blessings.

  • @sm00thcaramel
    @sm00thcaramel Год назад +324

    your response to “lose weight” just being no is actually something i really needed to hear. ive really been struggling with my body image post covid weight gain and ive hardly been able to look in the mirror and accept my body as mine. slowly, im gaining my confidence back but i still have this background thought that im still trying to lose weight. i rarely hear people firmly stating that not only are they confident in their body, but they’re content with it and don’t want to change it. idk im kinda just rambling, but your shorts being recommended to me has made a positive impact on me and i just wanted to say im thankful for u!

    • @Ck-hp8zq
      @Ck-hp8zq Год назад

      I feel you💪🏼👊🏼

    • @struck.kobe1999
      @struck.kobe1999 Год назад +8

      It’s perfectly fine for people to admit that they gained weight and want to lose it… I’d be more worried if you just “accepted” the fact that you gained weight…

    • @gabbyb9939
      @gabbyb9939 Год назад +5

      @@struck.kobe1999 this is a bad comment in general especially since you don’t even know how much weight they gained. Smh

    • @struck.kobe1999
      @struck.kobe1999 Год назад +2

      @@gabbyb9939 it’s not okay to motivate yourself to lose weight? Ok lol

    • @gabbyb9939
      @gabbyb9939 Год назад +2

      @@struck.kobe1999 When did I say that? I’m saying you don’t have enough information to say you’d be worried if they didn’t want to lose weight when you have no idea if they’re at an unhealthy weight

  • @rosemarie1817
    @rosemarie1817 Год назад +18

    I'm learning to love my body and your confidence is helping me so so much, these hate comments don't know anything about the real world apparently because they're typing things out like this, like how sad are their lives that they can't stand that someone is a different size than them??

  • @Lizzyboo6000
    @Lizzyboo6000 Год назад +66

    Okay but this is outfit is actually so cute I love the ribbons in your hair omg

  • @missyashby6397
    @missyashby6397 Год назад +2

    Girl I love you! You are helping so many girls out here!

  • @LimAmli
    @LimAmli Год назад +178

    Da person, da outfit, da theme, da vibes... It's everything

  • @repent.
    @repent. Год назад +64

    "lose some ✨️wate✨️"
    i just learned a new word, apparently.

  • @imaperson2121
    @imaperson2121 Год назад +33

    Am I the only one who is ✨ OBSESSED✨ with that cardigan also the outfit in general is just ✨ perfection ✨

    • @alim.9801
      @alim.9801 Год назад +2

      Oh no, I'm gonna need a version of that cardigan bc I DIG IT

    • @imaperson2121
      @imaperson2121 Год назад +1

      @@alim.9801 Same tho

  • @akuma9502
    @akuma9502 Год назад +4

    “im way skinnier and i know i dont belong in crop tops” i was crying laughing 😭

  • @jamiemorgan175
    @jamiemorgan175 Год назад +64

    God bless you 🙏❤️😇 I'm 12 and a bit overweight, and it makes me so mad when people say "lose some weight" or if I say I get bullied they’re like "here’s an idea, loose the weight" I'M TRYING! Obviously we all need to eat healthy, nobody's denying that, but you can't simply "lose the weight" It takes time and effort. I have done multiple diets, exercises, and I have a personal trainer but have only dropped down a few pounds. The people who say it isn't hard are very mistaken.
    Edit: thanks to all the people who left nice and helpful replies to my comment! God bless you my friends 🙏❤️😇

    • @PheonixLove
      @PheonixLove Год назад +27

      Some people also eat healthy, or barely eat, and still only gain weight.
      I've always been considered "overweight", when I was first told I was overweight, I was eating the same things as my brother who was severely underweight. Exact same food and exact same proportions, and he even ate more than me sometimes. That was when I was 10, and my brother was 12. It just shows that this isn't your fault.
      And losing weight is so much harder than skinny people think. Just like how "eating a burger" doesn't suddenly make you not be underweight anymore, "eating a salad" won't help you lose weight even if that's the only thing you eat for months.
      You're gonna be ok. Whether you lose weight or not, it doesn't matter. As long as you're happy and feel healthy it doesn't matter how much your weight is. (And yes you can be fat and healthy. BMI is shit and doesn't mean you're unhealthy at all.)

    • @jamiemorgan175
      @jamiemorgan175 Год назад +6

      @@PheonixLove Salads are actually my favorite food lol. I also don't eat burgers 'cause I got food poisoning from them once. I'm basically a pescatarian, the only meat I eat is chicken breast. This proves further that the type of food you eat isn't the main reason for weight gain. I have had anxiety since the first grade, and my trainer says that that is the main cause of weight gain. Did you have anxiety or depression?

    • @potatowellcox8870
      @potatowellcox8870 Год назад +15

      They just expect you to go into Sims customization and choose a body type 😂. Like bro it’s not that easy

    • @DoktorVinter2011
      @DoktorVinter2011 Год назад +12

      Please, you don't need a personal trainer at 12 years old, honey. Just try to live your life the way you want and enjoy yourself. The secret to not developing an eating disorder (which is what's dangerous to people, no matter their size) is to not hate yourself, I've realized. So try to not focus on losing the weight. Try to focus on just living your life. Do fun stuff. Eat fun stuff, but also move around. Don't do boring exercises, try doing fun stuff that you feel good doing. Talk to your doctor about your health if you're concerned, but don't lose weight because some idiot told you to.

    • @SafiyyahIsBored
      @SafiyyahIsBored Год назад

      U may drop a few pounds but weight loss takes years we say its easy cause any one able bodied can do it even people in wheel chairs do work outs

  • @nightmare7291
    @nightmare7291 Год назад +127

    Honey u look so pretty and they're just jealous ❤

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Год назад +23

      thank you angel!!

    • @dorkchops
      @dorkchops Год назад +4

      @@lovejessicablair pls where is the lil jacket-o-lantern from

    • @SafiyyahIsBored
      @SafiyyahIsBored Год назад +3

      No ones jelly they are just worryed about her heath lossing weight does not have to be toxic loss weight for your heath

    • @ashcreatures
      @ashcreatures Год назад +1

      @@SafiyyahIsBored there's a difference between being comfortable with having a bit of squish and being literally unable to function because of ur weight..

  • @random_ghooost
    @random_ghooost Год назад +5

    it's unbelievable how people say things like those without even thinking about the effects they could have on a person. You're response was amazing tho, you're absolutely wonderful and I love your outfits

  • @wy_woodvale
    @wy_woodvale Год назад +15

    I DIED “looz sum wate” HONEY SPELL😭 ALSO THAT SWEATER OMG??????YOU LOOK SO PRETTY

  • @christopherthieringer6322
    @christopherthieringer6322 Год назад +4

    I don't get how most people don't realize that usually you can't change your body type because its usually just a genetic trait that cant be changed. Similar to height.

    • @christopherthieringer6322
      @christopherthieringer6322 Год назад +2

      Also, why does it even matter to those people?? You doing what makes you happy is not an issue because you aren't hurting anyone!

  • @_saishun_
    @_saishun_ Год назад +18

    Can we just take a little break from all the hate and talk abt how cute she looks in the fit today? The braids with the adorable black ribbons to compliment her hair in a beautiful way, the simple but stylish long black dress, and the frikin HALLOWEEN SWEATER! The shoes and stockings match perfectly with the rest of the fit. And the makeup too! I love the color you used for your lips, it really matches the rest of your outfit. And the eyeliner was done so gorgeously! I swear you look good in anything!

  • @slabofofgrain.9836
    @slabofofgrain.9836 Год назад +320

    She’s not even fat- I’m so confused lmao. I think people really are just mad that you’re confident and have good style
    *Edit: y’all I’m aware fat isn’t an insult, I just don’t consider her body type fat, I have a very similar body type, I consider it chubby personally, but then again it’s not our place to decide her body type. That’s just how I say it so chill y’all.

    • @satan4734
      @satan4734 Год назад +51

      i mean, by definition she’s considered plus size, but that doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with her or other plus sized people’s bodies. that’s why i don’t get comments like the ones in her video-like, you’re seriously wasting your time hating on someone just for being happy in their own skin?

    • @mygod2529
      @mygod2529 Год назад +17

      She's kinda plus size which isn't a problem

    • @Gamdursol
      @Gamdursol Год назад +23

      Yes, she is, and she’s fabulous

    • @VENUS-fc8eb
      @VENUS-fc8eb Год назад +1

      She is fat, but you’re saying it like being fat is a bad thing. She’s gorgeous!

    • @mimimicamica
      @mimimicamica Год назад +4

      what do you consider fat?

  • @hiiiiiiiiiii2865
    @hiiiiiiiiiii2865 Год назад

    I want your confidence, and you deserve to be confident because you look so good

  • @bellajayne9374
    @bellajayne9374 Год назад +30

    This is a gorgeous outfit I’m literally obsessed!!

  • @longneckeddeer2789
    @longneckeddeer2789 Год назад +25

    I was literally painting when I watched this video and I almost dropped my brush cuz I was NOT expecting that ✨️ nOoOo ✨️

  • @boba5296
    @boba5296 Год назад +38

    Honestly everytime i feel confident and pretty and someone tells me "if you lost weight you'd look so much more prettier and better" it just kills me sm and my confidence that i built with so much hard work. Like i understand your "kind words" but it just breaks people sometimes especially when theyre tryibg their best to look and feel good

    • @fighterflight
      @fighterflight Год назад +7

      Ik it’s hard but don’t let them take your confidence gurl they’re just sad little people projecting their own insecurities onto you.

    • @Acehigh-Jenkins
      @Acehigh-Jenkins Год назад

      I had a mate who used to say. I just recovered from an eating disorder actually. she hadnt BTW but she though, well if you want to make me feel crappy then your going down with me!!! They changed their tune pretty fast!

  • @hannahware3751
    @hannahware3751 Год назад +1

    Honestly you give me the motivation to stay confident in myself

  • @tinabilledeaux7033
    @tinabilledeaux7033 Год назад +11

    People are so shallow and mean. The meanest ones are just plain ignorant. Keep on keepin' on!

  • @nikitajnshiimbi847
    @nikitajnshiimbi847 Год назад +20

    Every time your videos pop up on my page, you literally make my week. I have insecurities with my body too, and crestors like you have really helped me tremendously!
    I don't care what anyone else says: you are BEAUTIFUL, you are STUNNING, you SLAY every outfit and you are my literal role model.
    And I'm so glad you don't let them break you down either, even though I know sometimes it's hard to not let those messages get to you.
    Hopefully his comment makes you smile, the way you make me smile everyday :)))

  • @MicaelaContreras
    @MicaelaContreras Год назад +4

    These comments are hateful, I like your videos alot but I don't get why it's such a bad thing to be healthy and be fit. I had twins and when I was heavy and pregnant it was miserable and uncomfortable

  • @kalinkonrad1853
    @kalinkonrad1853 Год назад +21

    I love you standing up to everyone and your outfit is out of this world!!

  • @unicorntamer2207
    @unicorntamer2207 Год назад +13

    I'm not the biggest fan of all of your fashion style decisions, but I am a big fan of your creativity and your confidence. I don't have the confidence to film myself and put myself out there. I can't tell you how many creative projects I start but never finished. You're ahead of many just for creating and showing everyone your finished ideas. Rock on!

  • @FacelessAyato261
    @FacelessAyato261 Год назад +24

    She is not even fat?? Maybe yes a little overweight but not fat;-; anyways she slays so much in her outfits. like I want at least half of her confidence 😭🤌

    • @daniellenelson5300
      @daniellenelson5300 Год назад +3

      I think it's mostly loose skin, what it looks like to me

    • @mikailabroekaert9768
      @mikailabroekaert9768 Год назад +5

      Yeah, I know I'm wayyy over the fat line, uum someone needs to explain how she's fat, just a little overweight?

  • @lilacocean4137
    @lilacocean4137 4 месяца назад

    i love your attitude, i love your fashion style i love everything you do!!! 💓💓💓

  • @akato.5785
    @akato.5785 Год назад +15

    Okay but like, the hair and the shoes are just pure perfection

  • @audreybethmartin9048
    @audreybethmartin9048 Год назад +6

    the fit is giving wednesday addams…..and i’m living for it

  • @FanGurl4TY
    @FanGurl4TY Год назад +9

    I hate that people comment on your videos that say "she would get so much hate if she was skinny and making outfits blah blah blah" two things can be true at once, people shouldn't fat shame OR skinny shame. It's not right either way and people make it seem like you should be fat shamed since others are skinny shamed 😤😒

  • @ratsalad8295
    @ratsalad8295 Год назад +2

    I seriously dont get why people care so much, you seem healthy and happy so whats the problem? Also, i fucking love your style. Icon💗❤💖

  • @leafsculpture
    @leafsculpture Год назад +9

    Some ppl gave diff metabolism that they can’t do abt 💀 let it go at least she’s happy like-

  • @audreylangley3428
    @audreylangley3428 Год назад +12

    i love your confidence these people are just jealous that they don’t have this much attraction and confidence ❤

  • @miagonzo5522
    @miagonzo5522 Год назад +5

    also, can we talk about how cute this outfit is 🤧

  • @peppei666
    @peppei666 Год назад +1

    these people need to take a look at renaissance paintings- you have the body of a queen and a goddess :)

  • @josephinefox9347
    @josephinefox9347 Год назад +45

    The 2nd one was hilarious like "you know, IM really insecure and like that means you should be too"

    • @deathbloom27
      @deathbloom27 Год назад

      Yeah there's literally no other way to take that comment 😂 I couldn't imagine being so insecure and hating myself so much that I desperately try to drag others into my misery with me. Like. Ever heard of therapy? Just a big yikes.

  • @SP0NGIE
    @SP0NGIE Год назад +25

    You are so pretty, I’m glad you don’t let the hate get to you!

  • @sapnasana6804
    @sapnasana6804 Год назад +12

    I'm so confused... How is she fat?? She looks very healthy to me

    • @alienpotatosquid7850
      @alienpotatosquid7850 Год назад +11

      fat ≠ unhealthy :)
      thin ≠ healthy :)
      “health” has no one look. it’s just as diverse as all of us humans are. :)
      lastly “health” is not a prize or a moral virtue. it’s not black and white. it’s not either or. it’s complex and morally neutral. as a disabled person, i’d certainly love better health (less disease) but i wouldn’t be a better person for it. just a person with a bit less pain and fatigue. :)

    • @Venexe
      @Venexe Год назад +1

      @@alienpotatosquid7850 Fat is literally unhealthy tho, what do you mean. Thats common sense. Obviously thin people can be unhealthy as well, but when you're fat, you're GUARANTEED to be unhealthy. Thats simply how it is and there is no way to sugarcoat it.

    • @-satan-3885
      @-satan-3885 Год назад

      She's overweight

    • @-satan-3885
      @-satan-3885 Год назад

      @Maya Unknow nothing. I'm just saying it's true she isn't fat. She overweight

  • @nini5758
    @nini5758 Год назад +17

    okay but are we gonna talk about how she's not fat and literally as close to perfect a human can get-

  • @anne-kathrine
    @anne-kathrine 3 месяца назад

    You are lovely the way you are. FU to the haters. I love your videos and your confidence :)

  • @DaylightBreaks_
    @DaylightBreaks_ Год назад +4

    Bro idk if this will sound rude (I PROMISE IM NOT TRYING TO BE IM JUST BAD TALKING) but when I first saw you in a crop top I was like “omg she has so much confidence, I wish I was like her” but then I realized “WAIT I CAN” and bc of you I’m slowly starting to let my shirts show more of my stomach which might sound stupid but my mom always told me I was to “big” to wear outfits like that and that I should leave to my friends. But anyways thank you so much for the confidence!! ❤

  • @mroxannevh
    @mroxannevh Год назад +6

    thank you so much for these. I'm a 34 yo mother of 5 and I don't want to pass on the awful thinking to my daughter that my mom and dad passed to me.

  • @mizzyys262
    @mizzyys262 Год назад +8

    I loveeee ur attitude towards these comments, it just shows how amazingly confident you are while they’re not happy with themselves or With their lives that they try (and fail) to bring you down! Soooo, good on you ma 😍👏🏻

  • @charlottetaylor5311
    @charlottetaylor5311 Год назад

    I love how chill she is about them hate comments

  • @N0T_MY_N4M3
    @N0T_MY_N4M3 Год назад +7

    i’m so sorry that is what you have to deal with. i would like to say your are so freaking gorgeous and pretty just the way you are, and i could never have a fraction of your confidence. you are amazing and we love you!

  • @HealthyLife4Me
    @HealthyLife4Me Год назад +5

    Ignore the haters. Haters hate themselves. It’s not your fault that they don’t love themselves and don’t have confidence. Keep doing you. I love your videos…

  • @cioluvsurnan5722
    @cioluvsurnan5722 Год назад +7

    A black sun hat and a cardigan over this would’ve been a cute casual witch outfit

  • @haleymcadams1541
    @haleymcadams1541 Год назад

    Girl friend, I live for your videos! I don’t always have a personal liking for some of the outfits, BUT you love them! It makes my day to see someone feel confident and beautiful because you are! Coming from a plus sized girly who just dropped tons of weight due to health issues, loosing weight doesn’t make you happier or more confident, so the take away is outfit try ons are cute, taking others joy is not. Fat phobia is so old🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @gacemeltto3086
    @gacemeltto3086 Год назад +6

    I'm so glad there are people who don't care about weight as someone who has E.D you really Inspire me and I'm glad not everyone feels like they have to have perfect hour glass shape which we see everywhere and is what everyone is telling us to be, thank you so much for having such a positive attitude not letting people get to you, keep doing what your doing❤

  • @micahsears15
    @micahsears15 Год назад +9

    Okay but that whole outfit though!?! So adorable! I love love love the sweater❤️

  • @JankeyTeeths
    @JankeyTeeths Год назад +6

    You look so gosh dang pretty~~~ ♡♡♡

  • @lyn5150
    @lyn5150 Год назад +1

    I love your videos and love love that you express yourself you have great fashion taste!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @blairiris
    @blairiris Год назад +5

    Wow some people are so fucked up... these people need to get a life lol. You're gorgeous! Keep doing you! You inspire me!

  • @TheLottaLewis
    @TheLottaLewis Год назад +4

    I didn't even consider you as a fat person...wow, people these days. You seem just cute and sweet

  • @arfalites8870
    @arfalites8870 Год назад +5

    Girl you ate their comments and spit those back at them...Proud moment right here✨✨✨💔💔

  • @CrazyCatLady293
    @CrazyCatLady293 Год назад +1

    Girl that dress is adorable on you! 😍😍😍

  • @boiongoingong
    @boiongoingong Год назад +5

    that cardigan is so cute 😭😭😭

  • @wren7309
    @wren7309 Год назад +4

    THIS OUTFIT IS SO CUTE, IT HAS SUCH ART-TEACHER-DURING-HALLOWEEN-SEASON VIBES !! i really like your videos because i’m also a bit chubby and so it’s nice to see someone closer to my weight doing videos like these !!

  • @casio4067
    @casio4067 Год назад +4

    Been feeling insecure about my tummy today, was looking for your channel to help me feel better. Gave me a giggle

  • @samiansley5740
    @samiansley5740 Год назад

    Love following you and seeing your creativity with clothes! Thank You for posting and being here!

  • @benjaminscot1121
    @benjaminscot1121 Год назад +5

    “And my reaction to that is, NoooOoooOoo!” Love that ❤️

  • @theonetheonlyvoid
    @theonetheonlyvoid Год назад +3

    Seeing you be so confident has really helped my confidence. I am not exactly skinny (or even close) and I have always been very insecure about it, but seeing your videos makes my day every time. I love your content so much, keep being amazing, and keep wearing your gorgeous outfits

  • @Jess15410
    @Jess15410 Год назад +4

    It honestly doesn't matter what size anyone is as long as their happy with themselves, your outfits are amazing 💜

  • @korynnef7392
    @korynnef7392 Год назад

    She's such a queen I love her

  • @leo_drawss_
    @leo_drawss_ Год назад +4

    They couldn’t even spell “weight” right in the last one 💀

    • @devileaterinthahowse
      @devileaterinthahowse Год назад

      Yeah, like they should've put the weight of a dictionary on their head to have been able to have spelled it right.

  • @14jdx
    @14jdx Год назад +6

    I really love the outfit!!!

  • @abbyford-vb6mb
    @abbyford-vb6mb Год назад +2

    IF YOU LOVE ALL SIZES
    👇

  • @derpz_YTT
    @derpz_YTT 9 месяцев назад

    GURL U RULE RN U EVEN PROTECT THEM BY cutting out their user so they don’t get hate RESPECT BROO❤️❤️

  • @kaleighaluffman3775
    @kaleighaluffman3775 Год назад +4

    You look amazing in that outfit