JLU 03 the only thing that I couldn’t understand from wat he said was the height and weight thing. How can you be 170cm and 45kg??? I’m 168 and 55 and he is literally asking the girl to be a stick..
Alhassan he said 160-170 cm tall and between 45-55 kg, he never specifically said they had to be 170 cm and 45 kg. plus, they asked him to answer those questions. he had even said himself in the video that he didn’t feel comfortable asking that because he didn’t know a whole lot about weight regarding girls lol.
He did say he had no idea what ideal heights and weights were for girls because he only hangs around with guy friends. So yh, he probably thoughts off the top of his head. Even still when I think of a girl 44-45kg and 160-170cm, I can only imagine someone either anorexic or very very skinny.
Also consider body fat percentage, like the girl in the video said. I almost have the same measurements as the girl in the first comment, but my body fat percentage is still disproportional and I look non-skinny.
He's actually a really nice guy. And he was forced to ask those superficial question, which he felt bad about doing. He just made up the figures. Feel kinda sorry for him because he's obviously NOT a superficial type...
I guess he is asked to ask those questions, all the questions were arranged in the first place, otherwise he probably shouldn’t ask type of questions like do u wear lens, if u wear them plz leave... almost all the women who use makeup wear them...
Hash Slinger yeah but He could have asked differently, like choosing a bigger weight gap and Not only 45-55. I know He said that He doesnt know anything about that but still..
If I were there sitting among the other 39 girls and I weren't his ideal type, still, I wouldn't had replied such (quite) hurtful messages (from the girls) when he was asking about the height and weight of them. Like, he had been uncomfortable asking it and then he got such hurtful comments...
He was such a sweetheart. He was so polite about everything. He didn't feel right about asking all of those questions, but he was super honest and kind about it. He didn't like superficial people, but the margins they gave him were so shallow. He was just so genuine, and kind. I hope he finds someone he truly loves, and someone who truly loves him back. :' ))))))
those two girls that remain also has their own requirements and he's probably too tall or too short, too fat or too slim, maybe hey want active guy and he's passive no one gonna make out with anyone
"can i leave now?", "how much are you going to ask about physical appearence?", "just tell us what size you want" damn, there girls are going FERAL on him
I relate to the girls. Idk why everyone in the comments like him but even tho they made him ask these questions, he still could've choose a different question or don't choose that weight and height
Love isn’t about who is perfect or not. It’s about how that person makes you feel about yourself. If you love the person that you are with them...you love them. Because love is not about other persons it’s about what you are.
Marisabel i think he could have set a looser standard but it’s not like he’s fat or ugly or anything, he doesn’t need to settle for someone way way worse than him. Plus he didn’t really want to ask those questions anyways, but since it’s literally a show about ideal types you might as well go all in 😂 if he was more handsome or cute I’m sure the girls wouldn’t even complain 😂
I really liked how genuine and sweet this guy was. He was able to look at both sides and criticize his own ideals as well. I found it adorable how he bowed to everyone each time someone left, as well as when he felt embarrassed when asking certain questions.
Anime Otaku When he bowed, was it kind of a like a "I'm sorry that I have to send you away" or more of a "thank you for participating"? I don't know how to interpret it but I'm really curious~
Sabrina de Bos I think he felt apologetic for imposing his ideals on them and possibly hurting their feelings when they felt they didn't meet his criteria. He explained it at the end. I thought that was pretty sweet actually.
I think he is a true gentleman because he feels bad for his question just because the producer ask him to do that. Futhermore at first he said that he is not very picky so yeah I think he is sweet😊
I’m army too but guys.. don’t be annoying about it. It’s not necessary & rather immature to make a fuss every time someone has a bts related pic / name. Just let them be
@@yeri3429 no, the average person wouldn't just tell girls to leave based on his preferences. It's a different culture, but if westerners did this it would be seen as rude. He was very apologetic for it, but nobody dates people this way in the real world. Im saying the script they use would require him to say this stuff for the video versus on a dating app where you would swipe right or in real life where youd only approach people you were attracted to. They included girls that aren't his type in the video to make the video in the first place
@블러드 아잉 남성분이 제작진과 질문에 대해서 인터뷰를 하는 장면에서 보시면 질문에 카테고리를 그런식으로 만들었죠 개개인이 아니라 제작진이'여성'은 남자를 볼때 사회적 조건을 '남성'은 여성을볼때 외적인 조건을 많이 틀에 박혀 생각하기에 질문을 그런식으로 유도했다고 말씀드린겁니다. 뭐, 유도했다기 보단 그게 당연하다 생각하고 던진거겠죠 그 당연하다고 생각한부분을 지적한겁니다
@블러드 아잉 애초에 이상형이 뭔지는 제작진들도 모르거잖아요 그러니깐 질문을 쉽게 정하기 위해서 제작진들이 카테고리를 정해온거죠 미리 물어보는게 아니라 인터뷰하는것으로 물어보는거죠 자신들이 카테고리를 정해서 만약 물어봤다고 한다면 인터뷰하는 장면이 왜 있겠어요 왜 대략적이게 물어보겠어요 이미 알고있는데
They specifically asked him to ask questions about looks, so he did. It doesn't mean he is only interested in girls who meet his "ideal," look. I think this perfectly illustrates that meeting someone online is far different from real life because people are forced to be pickier online since it's mostly just a sea of faces.
Ariana Yours Truly they forced him to ask those questions and to come up with specific requirements.... it doesn't even look like he's ever considered weight until they made him pick a range
༄TheWeirdoShow༄ I agree. For one so young, his thinking is mature. Kudos to him. At the end, he was sensitive about how stereotyping people can hurt based on the questions he was obliged to ask. I am touched by his sensitivity.
༄TheWeirdoShow༄ really? He brought sex into this and weight and height and surgery into this. If more people were more like him, everything would become worse
Minhyuk's Gayness actually, he didn't get to choose the original questions. He wasn't given the option. You could clearly see his discomfort with some of the questions, that if he had a choice he would either not ask the question at all or rephrase it differently. He was part of a social experiment, which is usually designed as a way to either educate people or to expose stereotypical concepts. At 3:51 he said: "Ah...why...would you make me ask this kind of question." and at 3:53 "Once I started asking these questions, I realized how bad they actually are..."
Minhyuk's Gayness i dont think it’s a problem since he just wants to be honest with his standards for the future girlfriend. You might have your own standards when u find your partner. And standards dont have to be the same
Circle lenses are different from glasses though. They're contacts that are supposed to make your eyes look really big. Personally not a fan of it either
Out of all the dating vids here, wow. This made him look so shallow when it came to the appearance part but can we appreciate how polite he is? Like seriously, he’s very kind and he felt uncomfortable having to ask those.
At least he seems sweet and humble, they made him ask shallow questions and he made it obvious he was uncomfortable and unsure about asking the vanity questions the most but he had to say something lol
nvmffs I don’t think this was “over nothing”, these are super strict standards that are not typically healthy combinations. The ballpark could have been bigger. I can totally understand women feeling uncomfortable with someone having such narrow standards. If that’s something that they don’t like about him, that’s perfectly okay. I wouldn’t date someone who thinks like that, i had an ex that was exactly like that. No wonder he’s my ex ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
nvmffs A Person with 170cm and 55kg is Under weight and Unhealthy. What he really should have asked is their BMI index. For now he only did was what is called body shaming. Edit; They weren't mad or Insecure, they were honest. Personally or otherwise I wouldn't date a Man who tells me I am skinny or I am fat when I am perfectly healthy or isn't.
+Indu loves Chanbaek BMI isn't accurate enough for tall and short girls, that's why he used height and weight. Why would this be body shaming if he only stated his preference without offending the ones that don't fall into that category? If they weren't mad, they wouldn't be so rude as to say "can I leave now?" making him feel guilty for just being himself.
what was the director thinking? why didn’t they give him the same categories for questions as they gave the girl? implying that appearance matters more when you’re a female is... disappointing.
@@R0s3.R3d not the questions specifically, I was instead referring to the fact that there was even a category for appearance in the first place, which was not the case in the other video. They made him specify what he thought an ideal girl should look like by including this category. I mean, I don't blame people for having tastes and personal preferences, but the fact that the appearance category only came up in this video is slightly off-putting. And not just to me, it seems, because the guy in the video looks quite uncomfortable asking this as well.
@@imstillalive6819 im pretty sure they interview him before, and make the questions by order of priority, if a guy doesn't care/have a preference for an eye colour, would they force him to choose? No, that wouldn't make sense, he said that he liked specific height and weight (probably didn't want to date curvier chicks) and when they asked him about weight, in numbers, he got awkward out bc he didnt know what to say/how to say it
What Not To Do At a Stoplight not necessarily to change the colour to blue, most circle lense wearers I've found people still get them in brown/black it's more about the larger diameter than the colour I've found. That's from my experience living in Taiwan anyway, Korea might be drastically different, though I doubt it.
What Not To Do At a Stoplight They're not trying to change their eye color into lighter colors or trying to do it to look prettier. Circle lenses come in different colors that will complete your make up look and it also makes your eyes look more shiny and not dull.
California's FisherermanTV It's not his fault.. he was asked to do this. He shouldn't lie and give his honest opinion, he even said how many times he felt bad and he knows it's not right but its for the youtube channel so he doesnt want to lie
@@illiio-oaII 대체 어쩌라는 건지... 스크롤 내리다 가끔씩 보이는 한국 댓글마다 여혐이 듬뿍 묻어난 답글 복사 붙여넣기로 달아놓고 누가 자기 의견에 반박하면 죽자 살자 달려들어서 말싸움하고... 그래서 뭐 어쩌라는 건지? 그 답글을 본 사람들이 같이 여혐을 하길 원하는 건가? 공감을 받고 싶으면 남초 커뮤로 가시던가 왜 유튜브에서 여혐친구를 찾는지 참... 저기 출연한 여성분들이 여초 커뮤를 하는지 안 하는지는 어떻게 알고 그러시나? 정말 웃기는 사람이네
not gonna make any bold statements, but the female version compared to this was a complete opposite vibe. That one was fun and lighthearted but in this, since the director pushed it towards body image it made it feel depressing. The guy in this had to feel like an asshole compared to the other one.
ᴢᴏʀᴏʀᴏ-ᴋᴜɴ ᴛʜᴇ ʜᴀɴᴅsᴏᴍᴇ The problem imho was *not* he was asked to ask that xxxx. The problem ws that he actually did it! He showed real weak beta male attributes by obeying (espec. if he really did not want to). Simply reject or - would be smarter ;) - give ranges like "Anything 0 - 220 cm would be ok."
The dude was really sweet and nice, he was trying his best to be kind. And since he had less knowledge, it makes him seem like a bad person. But he was so good! He seemed like an amazing person.
여자편 월 300도 아니고 월 150 버냐고 사실상 제대로 직장은 다니는지 물어본건데 와 하면서 나가는 사람 있더만.. 영상 하나로 사회 분위기 페미 어쩌구 하는 거 웃기네ㅋㅋㅋ애초에 질문하는 사람 성격도 다르고 부르는 조건도 다르고 모인 사람도 다른건데.. 예의없이 구는 사람들이 문제지
idk why so many people are shitting on him for the height and weight thing :( i think he genuinely didnt know and just chose a random set of numbers typically talked about in the idol industry and he was apologetic about his answers as well. I think people should view this video as how ideal types and standards can really hinder your chances at finding someone you vibe with whether youre looking for friendship or a long term relationship.
HyungWonho you would literally just need the most basic medical knowledge aka BMI tbh... but that's my point if visually you don't have a clue what that looks like just use different criteria.
angelstouch92 well the whole bmi thing varies from person to person. Two people both weighing (for ex.) 55kg looks totally different so what 55kg looks like to one person, may not look like that to another. Like HyungWonho said, this kid doesnt interact with women much anyways and he probably got those numbers just listening to his friends talk, he didnt know any better. Also if you turn this thing around, women have pretty high expectations on men as well (ex. They should have abs but still be “lean” and look skinny etc) like alot of women don’t really know the basic fundamentals behind muscle gain or whatnot for men (heck i dont even know as im typing this out) but we dont really see men complaining about it and if they do complain women retaliate by saying “Well I have standards, so..” This whole argument isnt that big of a deal but im just saying that its very difficult to base an exact weight on how an individual may look so cut the guy some slack. Plus maybe his ideal type is just really tiny girls and theres nothing wrong with that, just personal preference not a big deal at all haha ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
angelstouch92 also since u mentioned bmi, i got curious and did some searching and heres what I found on the bmi based on his ideals of an Asian women who is ~24yrs old (he wants someone whos 22-26 and 24 was the average): 160cm and 45kg/5ft3 and 99lbs > youre at the moderate level so still healthy but would benefit by gaining a few more kgs/lbs (classified by WHO as underweight). 165cm and 50kg/5ft5 and 110lbs > youre at a low risk level and completely healthy (classified by WHO as normal weight). 170cm and 55kg/5ft7 and 121lbs > youre at a low risk level and completely healthy (classified by WHO as normal weight) So in conclusion, his ideal heights and weights are NOT unrealistic just so long as you increase the weight when increasing the height.
but the thing is, they told him to ask question about the appearence of his ideal partner, not their weight. like saying "i like slim girls, curvy girls, small girls..." would've been so much more appropiate if he had no idea of body weights. you don't go around asking people's weights; sure you'll think "oh they have a nice body" or "they're totally unattractive to me", but saying those things in numbers is really stupid.
AWW SNAP right? it's all there if you actually wait to listen to their thoughts at the end of the videos... or, you know, read the description of the videos themselves. It brings up gender stereotypes for a reason - to see how artificial it really is in meeting an ideal partner.
People are so quick to judge on something they already have opinions on. To them, they see one thing that supports their thoughts and leave. Ignorance, really.
ikr so many people are triggered by him stating his ideal height and weight even tho the guy did say he didnt really know how to gauge weight, i think he just pulled out the numbers from what women in korean media usually have
oh sehun what if most of the girls who left actually didn't fit the range of weight or height he specified ? how are they "triggered" when he's the one who told them to leave based on things they can't change on the spot or at all if it's height.
? I don't get what you're trying to say because he was instructed to tell them to leave if they didn't fit the standard he set. And it's kinda already obvious that Korean standards glorify really skinny and tall women and from the looks of it he doesn't even already have a set number/range in mind for weight and height so he did pull and obvious answer that's already found in Korean society. Just because a lot of the women didn't fit that range, it just goes to show how superficial South Korean media is in broadcasting these types of standards that people recognize even if they don't necessarily fit them. The women got more wary of him because he chose a standard already set by society which, to be honest is not uncommon.
He really made me think with what he said at the end of this... ‘we should try to not hurt others with our ideals’ Personally, I don’t have ‘ideals’ I’m not too picky and lol its not cz I’m ugly or desperate but In general I think everyone has something that is attractive whether it be physical or personality wise. I rather meet someone that wants to get to know me and go from there.
lil playful fandom girl omg sameeee I dont really care about looks aslong as the guy i marry when im older has a nice personality and can be a bit dom at times, id be happy with that And ofc if the guy loves me alot like i would
That's the point of this experiment to see the faults of an ideal partner and the unrealistic expectations that some people can have, the addition of that part is important
I think this was a very interesting concept. I thought the purpose of this video would be to actually find a match but I was pleasantly surprised when they added the comments, insights and reactions to show how you would probably not select or judge offline people in the same way you would do with people online.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with filtering out, realistically, in the real world we probably filter out thousands and thousands of people either by choice or just subconscious reaction. This dude just did what he probably does daily in a controlled and enclosed setting. All of us would probably end up with similar results as this dude.
@TheCrazyKid138l If a girl that is 160-170cm weighs 45-50kg it’s pretty likely they are unhealthy. They are supposed to weigh 60+. Most girls just want a guy taller than them not necessarily at 6’3+. But guys and girls are as bad as each other when it comes to being picky.
@TheCrazyKid138l A man wanting a woman weighing under 55kg is not because of evolution. Men are not ‘naturally’ less picky. It’s a social construct. Woman over several years have had to change everything in order to fit in with a mans idea of gender roles or how a woman is supposed to look. Men AND woman are both as picky as each other when it comes to picking partners. You have to be so ignorant and one sided to not see that and think men are less picky. Using evolution as an argument is also ignorant. So many ‘instincts’ brought up from evolution people don’t agree with anymore such as superiority.
You could see he was uncomfortable, and I don't think he's a shitty overly picky dude, I think he was just expected to answer those questions, he did, and got berated for it. Everyone has likes and dislikes, OK I didn't know what circle lenses are as a Westerner, is that to make the eye seem rounder? That was kinda weird but just because I'd never heard of it, I guess it's like coloured contact lenses. The body types was normal slim, and height, Asians tend to be thinner and smaller, though there are exceptions, I'm in that height and weight bracket and I'm white and Western, it's not like painfully thin. The only thing I thought was odd was wanting a student when working, I didn't get that really.
I’m also in that weight class, and absolutely not thin...🤣 But he should’ve said 60 kg or something, because there are also girls who just have a lot of muscles, which basically means they look thin but weigh like 60 kg
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for me it would be any1 who doesn’t find me ugly stay
**everyone leaves**
HAHAHAHAHAH bruh your comment got me dying
wow me
Alos someone said “I love watching baby shows”
we’re all beautiful💜
that's me!!
i love how no one left when he took a bad picture
yeah, but he was so specific about what he wanted that I was like damn...
Jessica Hernandez yeah
Stephanie Saavedra you should go and see the female version she was a lot more demanding
JLU 03 the only thing that I couldn’t understand from wat he said was the height and weight thing. How can you be 170cm and 45kg??? I’m 168 and 55 and he is literally asking the girl to be a stick..
Alhassan he said 160-170 cm tall and between 45-55 kg, he never specifically said they had to be 170 cm and 45 kg. plus, they asked him to answer those questions. he had even said himself in the video that he didn’t feel comfortable asking that because he didn’t know a whole lot about weight regarding girls lol.
남자분 중간에 눈물 고인고 같은데
몇몇분들 한숨 쉬면서 나가시고 하는 모습.. 남자분 언짢아 보여요오..
그러게용..다신보지맙시다라고도
하시고..(여자분이)
진짜 마음이 조금? 언잖아요ㅠ
그러게요.. 어떤 여자분 휴. 하고 나가심 콬ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
@@박민정-b4x 개인적인 생각이지만.. 그분 조금 생각없이 말하신 듯..
@@umr1098 어머
저 왜 좋아요 47개인가요
7개월전이라 쓴지도 몰랐는데
답변덕에 알림으로 왔어요 ㅋㅋ!
이건 좀 너무 심하지 않나요... 자기 취향인데 죄책감 가지지 않으셨으면 좋겠어요 이러다가 내가 남들보다 기준이 높은건가 싶은 생각에 괜히 기준을 낮추시는 건 아닐까...그냥 지금 그대로 사셨으면 좋겠어요
근데 여자편에서 남자들 나갈땐 다 조용히 나가던데 여기 남자편에선 여자들 왜 욕하고 나가는거야?
익명이라서 저러는거야?
와 방금 만난사람한테도 앞에서 대놓고 저러는데
여초커뮤에선 얼마나 더럽게 말할까;; 진짜...
@@nenenewa1 문제있는 질문이 뭔가요
ㅇㅈ 그러면 왜 나옴?ㅋㅋㅋ될 확률이 적지
He is more polite than any participants in this show
My Dreams true
They like dominant not weak
and he look so fineee
That’s because he’s korean ❤️❤️❤️
BTS World || That has nothing to do with it...?
근데 남자분이 더 죄송해 하는데 뭐냐면 여자편이랑 질문이 달라서 그런거 같음. 여자는 사회적 조건 개인적 조건인데 남자편은 처음부터 뽝 외모 이렇게임 그래서 남자분이 더 죄송해 하시는거 같음
질문 순서가 다른게 남자한테도 여자 사회적 조건, 개인적 조건 처음부터 왜 안물어보고 외모부터일까..
그래도 남자분이 일어서서 사과하는거보면 되게 예의있으신분 같음...
여자편에서는 돈, 직업 구했고
남자편에서는 외모로 보는거같다는 느낌이 들음
여자는 미래까지 생각하는데 남자는 연애로만 생각하는듯
wvvwwv vvwvv 고정관념이 아니라 현실이지
"If you're 170 cm and 45kg then you probably walk with your arms" BEEETCH I'M DYING
Adona 1234 bruh, I’m like 152 cm and 44 kg... and I’m already under weight, so yeah you prob can walk with your arms
I think he's using boys standard or his idols standard to find girlfriend
That question is what got me. I'd probably leave even if I "passed". I'm 166 cm and weigh 52 and I would be underweight if I lost 2-3 kg.
He did say he had no idea what ideal heights and weights were for girls because he only hangs around with guy friends. So yh, he probably thoughts off the top of his head. Even still when I think of a girl 44-45kg and 160-170cm, I can only imagine someone either anorexic or very very skinny.
Also consider body fat percentage, like the girl in the video said. I almost have the same measurements as the girl in the first comment, but my body fat percentage is still disproportional and I look non-skinny.
이거 남자편이나 여자편이나 촬영한다음에 상처 좀 받으셨을듯…..내가 다 속상하네 ㅠㅠ 상처받지 마셔요
ㄹㅇ 키 몸무게 질문에 진짜 풀발하네 이상형이라는 게 원래 까다로운 거 아닌가 어이가 없으면 그냥 웃고 나가든가 상대 한가운데 두고 다신 보지 말자느니 이질문 오바라느니 존나 무안주네 ㅋㅋ
ㄹㅇ 지들도 알고 나왔으면서 감정적인거 봐라
Like 5 of the girls said “Can I leave Now.”
He's actually a really nice guy. And he was forced to ask those superficial question, which he felt bad about doing. He just made up the figures. Feel kinda sorry for him because he's obviously NOT a superficial type...
Jojo Bee that’s true, feel bad for him 😔😔😔
Same I feel bad for him
I feel really bad
I guess he is asked to ask those questions, all the questions were arranged in the first place, otherwise he probably shouldn’t ask type of questions like do u wear lens, if u wear them plz leave... almost all the women who use makeup wear them...
yeah he didn't know the weight at all he just took a guess
when he took that selfie and someone replied w "your nostrils lmfaoo" mood
mia henderson lmaoo
if that aint me
バレーリア phat mood 😤
バレーリア eye
나간 사람중에 남자분 이상형인 분도
있었을 수 있는데 이런게 소개팅의 허점인듯
하나가 모자라도 나머지가 커버친다하면
보통 사랑에 빠지게 되어있는데
ㄹㅇ, 모든 조건을 충족시키는 사람을 찾는건 불가능에 가까움, 찾는다해도 그 사람이 나와 만나줄지도 미지수고..
I feel a bit bad for him, he didn’t choose those questions and you could tell he was uncomfortable asking them
Hash Slinger yeah but He could have asked differently, like choosing a bigger weight gap and Not only 45-55. I know He said that He doesnt know anything about that but still..
He didnt have to be so specific about weight if he didnt even know what was normal, he could have just said "slim" "shorter than my height" ect
yeah exactly thats what i tried to say
How do you know if he wasnt asked to be more specific?? He was pleading 'Why did you get me to ask these questions?'
If I were there sitting among the other 39 girls and I weren't his ideal type, still, I wouldn't had replied such (quite) hurtful messages (from the girls) when he was asking about the height and weight of them. Like, he had been uncomfortable asking it and then he got such hurtful comments...
"alright, anyone who doesn't want to stay on the blind date can leave" *no one leaves* *gives the camera a gangsta stare*
Baylee Corona I laughed way too hard
What?
Baylee Corona HAHAHAHA nigga is a G bruh!
Lol I would have left tho, he’s not my type (and yes I do like Koreans) but the selfie just solidified it lol
he was fine but that selfie was horrible
He was such a sweetheart. He was so polite about everything. He didn't feel right about asking all of those questions, but he was super honest and kind about it. He didn't like superficial people, but the margins they gave him were so shallow. He was just so genuine, and kind. I hope he finds someone he truly loves, and someone who truly loves him back. :' ))))))
well saidd, i was thinkiing the same thing
well saidd, i was thinkiing the same thing = [ in Korean ] = 222222
exactly what I was thinking
I mean, he would look really good with a comma hair cut!
Yeah
이건 컨텐츠가 잘못되었다. 왜 소개팅남과 소개팅녀들이 불쾌하고 미안해해야하는가. 애초에 쌍방이 민망할 상황이 연출되는 질문이라면 유튜버측에서 걸러야하는 거 아닌가? 너무 생각 없이 진행한 것 같아 보는 내가 불편하다.
ㄹㅇ 어그로 끌려고 자극적인 요소만 모으는 거 같음 저 남자분이 너무 미안해하는게 좀 그럼...
근데 여자편에서 남자들 나갈땐 다 조용히 나가던데 여기 남자편에선 여자들 왜 욕하고 나가는거야?
익명이라서 저러는거야?
와 방금 만난사람한테도 앞에서 대놓고 저러는데
여초커뮤에선 얼마나 더럽게 말할까;; 진짜...
160에 45도 연예인급 몸맨데 그냥 저분 여성 키몸무게 모르시는거 같은데 너무 여자분들 막말하시는듯 ,, 남자 너무 미안해하는게 눈에 보이네
@@user-si4op2sd1q 어머니가 관리 잘하시네
그냥 딱봐도 잘 몰라서 자기딴에선 적당한 몸무게 말한거같은데 ㅉ..
맞아요ㅠ 정말 몰라서 그런 거 같은데..
그니까요 진짜 잘 몰라하는게 보임
엥..?
“Try not to hurt others by what we find ideal” I really appreciate this guy!! He seems kind and mature about this
I like how he respect someone's feelings.He's kind. The girl that he chose is lucky.
Thinking same 😍
those two girls that remain also has their own requirements and he's probably too tall or too short, too fat or too slim, maybe hey want active guy and he's passive no one gonna make out with anyone
True
The perfect man 💜✨
@@daerontargaryen9499 bro what is active or passive at night can you tall me because I don't know 😕
여자편은 2.가 경제적 요건인데 남자편은 외적요건이네ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ ㅋㅋ 이게 뭐임..? 똑같이 물어봐야 하는거 아닌가 참나
질문은 각자 정하는거 아닐까요
경제적요건 월 150이었어요ㅡㅡ
경제적요건 150이 어려운건 아니잖아;;;
@손진호 그 말이 어디 나오는데요 ㅋㅋ 제작진이 구체적으로 여자키나 몸무게 다 정해놨다는 말임?
@손진호 그럼 결국에 질문을 정한건 남자 본인이네?
“How are you so fine even from that angle” BAHAHHAHAHAHA
HOESEOK MY HEARTEU
BEST COMMENT. would've wifed her 😂😂😂😂
Khem's They Them Corner that’s how you know she’s a real one🤞🏾😂
1:24 when you got 40 girls for blind date
HOESEOK MY HEARTEU that's so fangirl. Fangirls are the best
EXO G ????? what? how can something be so 'fangirl'?
"can i leave now?", "how much are you going to ask about physical appearence?", "just tell us what size you want" damn, there girls are going FERAL on him
I relate to the girls. Idk why everyone in the comments like him but even tho they made him ask these questions, he still could've choose a different question or don't choose that weight and height
@@Orbit_yves nah i think it's okay since this is about his ideal type. that doesn't mean he would only date people that fit his ideal type
Aww I’m so sad for him, the girls could’ve just leave w the next question yk looool
Lorenza Marzolla they are right
@@Orbit_yves he could've just said he doesn''t want to date fat/chubby or tall girls, he didn't have to say exact heights and weights.
Last girl: "im gay"
*stands up and leaves*
2 Cool 4 u M8 Wait w0t 😂😂😂
last two girls: We're gay for each other lmao bye
Hahahahaa amazing
Same comment lol
Gayathri Krishnaraj your grammar makes me sick..
자기 취향 가지고도 욕 먹어야하나 싶다 진짜 ㅋㅋㅋ
눈이 너무높으면 욕먹어야지
그니까 왜 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
눈이 높든 안 높든 뭔 상관이야?ㅎ악플 다신 분이세요ㅎ?김.진.우님?
난 인형이다인형 너도 말투가 정상이아니다
@@allure6899 아니...뭐가요
he’s so respectful, he bows and apologises after someone leaves . get me a man like this
linaa ik , but the other ppl who did this didn’t bow & apologise
@@knj9873 I'm late but I agree and he also felt bad at the end for both who stayed and left because of his standards
and imo as an asian i thought he was a little mean ngl HAHA but i can see how others might see him as respectful
I really like him
hes a dbag. its all an act to look modest on tv. and the sexual question so early?
When u fall in love, u won't even remember what was ur ideal type?
That's deep af
How true is that
Exactly. You might have an ideal type. However, you don’t choose who you fall for.
Love isn’t about who is perfect or not. It’s about how that person makes you feel about yourself. If you love the person that you are with them...you love them. Because love is not about other persons it’s about what you are.
Nah I did. I ended up dating my ideal type
I know that feel, bro. It would hurt me a bit to ask those kinds of questions too.
how do you have 4k likes and no comments??
It hurt me a little just watching
UnderscoreBrian it was his choice-
남지분도 너무 죄송스럽고 어쩔줄 몰라하시는게 보인다..ㅠㅠ
근데 여자편에서 남자들 나갈땐 다 조용히 나가던데 여기 남자편에선 여자들 왜 욕하고 나가는거야?
익명이라서 저러는거야?
와 방금 만난사람한테도 앞에서 대놓고 저러는데
여초커뮤에선 얼마나 더럽게 말할까;; 진짜...
죄송한거 눈에 보이는데 왜 저남자는 자기랑 ㅅ할 여자를 찾는거 갖죠?ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ이 영상 너무 불쾌해요
@갓만다 영상은 영상으로만.. 실제로 만나는 것도 아니자나요
@@밍밍밍-z7m 성적 취향만 물어봤지 한다고는 안했는데 ㅋㅋ
@@밍밍밍-z7m 뭐래; 그렇게 따지면 여자편에서도 여자가 낮져밤이인 남자 찾았는데 그것도 섹스할 남자 찾는거냐?
I love how the girls where honest in telling him off when he asked ridiculous questions, thats respect.
Marisabel Same I was so happy abt that lol
Everyone that has been in his position has had to ask those kind of questions too though :/
@@Rynkora really? They asked about someone who is 170cm and weighs 45kg? 😂 then I guess they are all ridiculous.
Marisabel i think he could have set a looser standard but it’s not like he’s fat or ugly or anything, he doesn’t need to settle for someone way way worse than him. Plus he didn’t really want to ask those questions anyways, but since it’s literally a show about ideal types you might as well go all in 😂 if he was more handsome or cute I’m sure the girls wouldn’t even complain 😂
It’s a show I wouldn’t see the point in getting angry at him plus he was very respectful towards all of them.
I really liked how genuine and sweet this guy was. He was able to look at both sides and criticize his own ideals as well. I found it adorable how he bowed to everyone each time someone left, as well as when he felt embarrassed when asking certain questions.
Anime Otaku When he bowed, was it kind of a like a "I'm sorry that I have to send you away" or more of a "thank you for participating"? I don't know how to interpret it but I'm really curious~
Probably both. Just a deep appreciative bow. Don't overthink things.
It is normal for Koreans to bow. Even I bow and I am not Korean.
Sabrina de Bos I think he felt apologetic for imposing his ideals on them and possibly hurting their feelings when they felt they didn't meet his criteria. He explained it at the end. I thought that was pretty sweet actually.
I think he is a true gentleman because he feels bad for his question just because the producer ask him to do that. Futhermore at first he said that he is not very picky so yeah I think he is sweet😊
“how are you so fine even from that angle” I LAUGHED
ARMY
Jiminie Taetae WE ARE MF EVERYWHERE, YESS ARMY
@@omgwow5670 YUSSSSS
I’m army too but guys.. don’t be annoying about it. It’s not necessary & rather immature to make a fuss every time someone has a bts related pic / name. Just let them be
J R lol i don’t mind
밤에 수동적이면 나가주세요 나가기도 남기도 민망ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
그냥 질문 개같아서 나갓을수도
@@wdcy4645 오빠 화났내
안움직인다는 뜻 예요??
그래서 능동적인 사람들 남았는데 여자같은 성격좋아한데 ㅋㅋㅋ 개웃겨
@기설남 님 프사에 있는 남성분도 자기 몸 일면식도없는 사람이 프사로쓰고다녀서 좀 역겨울듯?
왜 남자 편은 무슨 취향, 외모 이런 것 만 준비해놔요 제작진분들....
사회 분란 유도 프로그램이라서
그니까요 ;; 좀 별론데
분위기를 유도시킴 ㅋㅋ
오다빈 뭔...
뭐가 뭔소리야 맞는 말이고만
그냥 저 남자분의 이상형이 그렇다는데 자신이 맞지 않으면 그냥 나가면되지 왜 자꾸 비꼬는식으로 말하는 사람이 몇몇보이지,, 저분이 자기 이상형을 강요한 것도 아니고 그야말로 자기 이상형찾으러 나왔으니까 그렇지,, 죄송해하시는거 내가 다 보기 안쓰러움
솔직 잘생ㅇ기지도 않음...(제 취향으로)암..불쾌하셨나 봐요 아래 답글보니 죄송해요..개소리 지랄..이런소리가 많아서;;ㅎㅎ
불쾌하다면 죄송해요..
@@데헷-n4w 누가 잘생겼다고 하셨어요? 왜 갑자기 얼굴 얘기가 나오는거지? 저기 여자들마음에 젠더감수성 폭발해서 막 저 여자들 마음이 이해되고 그래요? ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
@@데헷-n4w 잘생기든말든 어쩌라는거ㅋㅋㅋ 존나 갑자기 개소리를 지껄이네
세상 남자가 저분만 있는것도 아닌데말이죠
@@데헷-n4w 갑자기 외모평가....?
the girl who kept typing "lmfaooo" is my spirit animal
AOA BBYS ! same
AOA BBYS ! I know right lmao
AOA BBYS ! Ikr hahaha
wtf is lmfao?
영강친구영감 laughing my ass off i guess
왜 남자분 눈물 그렁그렁하냐.. 아니 키나 몸무게도 자기 취향이 있겠지 그런 거 각오하고 나가는 거 아님? 다신 보지 말제..
그니깐; 괜히 지들이 돼지니까 짜증나서 저러나봄
ㅇㅈ 돼지에 난쟁이 년들이 많나봐ㅋㅋ
키커서 몸무게가 55이상일수도 있지.. 보통 168넘어가면 55는 기본인데.. 하긴 남성분은 170이하가 좋다고 했으니까 그게 걸러지긴하네유.. 근데 ㅈㅔ가 53키로인데 저보다 슬림하고 몸매좋은 60키로 엄청 많이뵜어요.. 전 키 161 그 친구들은 170
@ねこ 뭐라는거야 나 163에 43키로 여잔데ㅋㅋ 저 남자 이상형이 마른 사람일수도 있는거지 지들이 뭔데 다신 만나지마요~ 이럼ㅠㅋㅋ 그리고 몸무게만 보고 기아라 하는데 근육량이랑 체지방률에 따라 몸이 달라지는 거 모름..? 남자는 너 아니야?
@ねこ ㅈ까시고ㅋㅋ 해당 안되면 막말하고 나가도 됨? 뼈다구 ㅇㅈㄹ 하지 말고ㅋㅋ
"are you active or passive at night"
Him: *drowns in awkward and embarrassment and regretting to say that*
Heart Fillia semis relatable
I don't know but I think the women should wear mask on their face.. I feel pity for them
남자분 개미안해보임 안절부절 어쩔줄 몰라해
ㅇㅈㅋㅋㅋㅋ 커엽
처음에 개미 안해보임으로봤습니다ㅠ죄송해요 ㅜ
@@Haku_nama_tata 저도 ㅋㅋ
@@user-gamja55 저도여 ㅋㅋ
@서찌조아 앜ㅋㅋㅋ 저도여!!!
the girl that kept typing "can i leave now?" LMAOOO
@이상민 she was right, he is an asshole
Everyone is saying hes picky when u literally saw that they made him say those things for the video
i thought he was asking the questions ? isnt it his ideal type ? im confused
@@yeri3429 no, the average person wouldn't just tell girls to leave based on his preferences. It's a different culture, but if westerners did this it would be seen as rude. He was very apologetic for it, but nobody dates people this way in the real world. Im saying the script they use would require him to say this stuff for the video versus on a dating app where you would swipe right or in real life where youd only approach people you were attracted to. They included girls that aren't his type in the video to make the video in the first place
@chaotic_gabby ah okay
He said he had no idea about weight, but when they made him pick he choked and threw out some numbers.
@@MyFictionalChaos ㅇ
That was the most awkward looking selfie I've ever witnessed
SAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAME
It’s me taking a selfie
but still cute tho😅😍
😂🤣😭😂🤣🤣 DEAD 💀☠
I take selfies like that all the time.
My moto is be your own meme so
애초에 이분 직업이 모델이라 주변에서 그런 여자분들만 보셨을거임
Aㅏ.....그래서 몸무게 기준이..........
@ღ 사람마다 기준은 다르졍..
@ღ 모델은 얼굴안보고 비율본다 샊꺄 제대로나 알고 쳐 ㅈㄹ하자 제발ㅋㅌㅋ
@ღ 니는 얼마나 잘생겼냐?ㅋㅋㅋ
혹시 이분 성함 어떻게되시는지 아시나요?
여자한텐 남자의 사회적 조건 물어보고
남자한텐 여자의 외적인 조건 물어보네
ㅋ; 질문 왜 달라?
@블러드 아잉 제작진이 질문을 애초에 여자는 사회적 조건, 남자는 외적인 조건을 물어보는쪽으로 유도했잖아요 그게 잘못됬다고 말하시는것 같아요
@블러드 아잉 남성분이 제작진과 질문에 대해서 인터뷰를 하는 장면에서 보시면 질문에 카테고리를 그런식으로 만들었죠 개개인이 아니라 제작진이'여성'은 남자를 볼때 사회적 조건을 '남성'은 여성을볼때 외적인 조건을 많이 틀에 박혀 생각하기에 질문을 그런식으로 유도했다고 말씀드린겁니다. 뭐, 유도했다기 보단 그게 당연하다 생각하고 던진거겠죠 그 당연하다고 생각한부분을 지적한겁니다
@블러드 아잉 애초에 이상형이 뭔지는 제작진들도 모르거잖아요 그러니깐 질문을 쉽게 정하기 위해서 제작진들이 카테고리를 정해온거죠 미리 물어보는게 아니라 인터뷰하는것으로 물어보는거죠 자신들이 카테고리를 정해서
만약 물어봤다고 한다면 인터뷰하는 장면이 왜 있겠어요 왜 대략적이게 물어보겠어요 이미 알고있는데
근데 대부분 저렇게 보지않나? 물론 여자도 외적조건 남자도 사회적조건 안보진 않겠지만.
홍종현. 뭔소리야 남자임? 여자들 남자들 얼굴 ㅈㄴ 보는데 사회적조건보다
그냥 날씬한 몸매 얘기한거같은데 채팅이 좀 심하네.. 남자분 조금 상처받으셨을듯
다신보지맙시다는 좀 ㅜ.... 상처다
@@오늘하루-p7m 뭔소리여 이건또 ㅋㅋ,,
@@오늘하루-p7m 싸움 일으키지 말자
ㅇㅇ 그냥 몸무게 가늠을 잘 못하신것같음 계속 몸무게 잘 모른다고 한것도 그렇고...
남자 넘 안쓰러윰 ㅠㅠㅠㅠ
2:32 ARE YOU "ACTIVE OR "PASSIVE" AT NIGHT? HAHAHAHHAHAAHA LMAOO WHAT A QUESTION
Your username kills me
PARK JIMINS JUICY LIPZZZ I was dying af lol
Then I'm gonna be the one who leave 😂
PARK JIMINS JUICY LIPZZZ that’s the question that kinda ruins the whole thing
I'm pretty sure ppl left without really understanding what he really meant - HIS fault though.
He said really amazing stuff in the end. I like how he ended up bowing or feel uncomfortable sitting on the chair. He's a nice dude.
He really isn't...
Mesmer ASMR Why?
Special Snowflake perfectly said. He's too focused on visuals and childish things like agree and height and weight. That's really pathetic
They specifically asked him to ask questions about looks, so he did.
It doesn't mean he is only interested in girls who meet his "ideal," look.
I think this perfectly illustrates that meeting someone online is far different from real life because people are forced to be pickier online since it's mostly just a sea of faces.
Ariana Yours Truly they forced him to ask those questions and to come up with specific requirements.... it doesn't even look like he's ever considered weight until they made him pick a range
Honestly, he did apologize about it but I love how he was honest and was apologizing to everyone who had left.
저기 조건 다르니까 카톡으로 단답하고 기분 나쁜티 내는 거 진짜 보기싫다....
근데 여자편에서 남자들 나갈땐 다 조용히 나가던데 여기 남자편에선 여자들 왜 욕하고 나가는거야?
익명이라서 저러는거야?
와 방금 만난사람한테도 앞에서 대놓고 저러는데 여초커뮤에선 얼마나 더럽게 말할까;; 진짜...
@@illiio-oaII ㅇㄱㄹㅇ 솔직히 내가 남자여도 기분 상당히 나쁠것 같음..
@@illiio-oaII ㅇㅈ
@@illiio-oaII 그냥 저기 여자들이 무식하고 예의없는 거라고 해두자 휴
여자편에서도 월급때문에 떠날때 남자들 아오!!! ㅇㅈㄹ하고 떠나드만 뭘
남자분 너무 미안해하신다 ;; 그럴 수도 있는거잖어.. 애초에 이런목적의 컨텐츠이고...
I appreciate what he said at the very end about ideals...
Sage Irvin me too tho and not only that I'd be over weight at 15 X"D
same
I'd be overweight too XD This video got too awkward at that point.
여자지만 애초에 질문자체가 잘못된거 같음 ,,, 저분이 죄송해하시는거 보니까 내가 다 안쓰럽 ㅜㅜㅜㅜ
ㅇㅇ 다른건 다 할 수 있다고 생각하는데 밤에 능동적~ 이 질문은 진짜....;; 이거 질문 남자분이 짜는거 맞죠?
@@user-il2wv8oy4b 그런질문할수도있죠 ㅋㅋ 연애할때 잠자리가 얼마나 중요한데요 ㅋㅋ 연애안해보셨나
@@user-il2wv8oy4b 이거 질문 남자가 짜는 거엿어요 ..? 제작진이 준비해주는줄 알앗,,,,;
@@siksik30 그니까 그걸 첫만남에 묻는게 상식적이냐고요 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 괜찮은 사람은 괜찮겠지만 절대 상식적이진 않지
이상형 찾긴데 ㅋㅋㅋ물어볼수있는거아님??
남자분 점점 갈수록 폴더가 되어가....ㅋㅋ
근데 계속 외모적인 모습만 말하셔서 빡빡하다 느끼는 부분도 있네요
질문을 너무 외모만 해주신것 같아요..ㅜㅠ
제작진이 외모적인 질문 하래잖아요
제작진이 물어볼걸 물어보게 해야했음 ㄹㅇ 개못만듬
ㄱㄴㄲ.. 왜 외모를 물으래
여자들도 불편하고..남자도 불편하고..ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
엥 외적조건 물어본건 괜찮은데 뭐가 불편함? 난 사람 만날 때 얼굴보고 만나는데
@ねこ 그럼 전영상< 이라는 단어를 넣어서 말을 해야죠ㅋㅋ
@ねこ 위에 저 분들은 질문이 불편하다고 말씀하고 계시는데 님이 잘못알고 계신거 같아요~~~
I love the way he thinks. Truly wish more people would tend to be more sensible like him.
༄TheWeirdoShow༄ I agree. For one so young, his thinking is mature. Kudos to him.
At the end, he was sensitive about how stereotyping people can hurt based on the questions he was obliged to ask. I am touched by his sensitivity.
༄TheWeirdoShow༄ really? He brought sex into this and weight and height and surgery into this. If more people were more like him, everything would become worse
Minhyuk's Gayness actually, he didn't get to choose the original questions. He wasn't given the option. You could clearly see his discomfort with some of the questions, that if he had a choice he would either not ask the question at all or rephrase it differently.
He was part of a social experiment, which is usually designed as a way to either educate people or to expose stereotypical concepts.
At 3:51 he said: "Ah...why...would you make me ask this kind of question." and at 3:53 "Once I started asking these questions, I realized how bad they actually are..."
He's not the one who chose the questions, he just have his own answers to them. He obviously wasn't comfortable asking them either.
Minhyuk's Gayness i dont think it’s a problem since he just wants to be honest with his standards for the future girlfriend. You might have your own standards when u find your partner. And standards dont have to be the same
"I'm not that picky."
*Everyone with circle glasses should leave.*
It was lenses (I think you meant that)
@@shelene Yep.
Circle lenses are different from glasses though. They're contacts that are supposed to make your eyes look really big. Personally not a fan of it either
Circle lenses are weird. He seems to like natural beauty. It's his preference
its not glasses theyre contact lenses that make your eyes look huge
"If you're 170cm and 45kg then you probably walk with your arms" i CANT BREATHE
he said 160-170 and 45-50kg so maybe 170cm with 55kg.
@@ValentineWan that's still underweight oof
@@sharonmoscato9836 Chill bro.
@@sharonmoscato9836 ima pretend that your comment made some sense
@@letmeeatyourbooks let's not judge people's bodies (: thanks
I want to see an American version of this so bad
CarterTingz
More diversity.
CarterTingz same
Saaame
"Wait, not so fast!"
-Feminist
Itd end up on the news for being racist I bet
Out of all the dating vids here, wow. This made him look so shallow when it came to the appearance part but can we appreciate how polite he is? Like seriously, he’s very kind and he felt uncomfortable having to ask those.
agreeee!!!
Taste in girls: "I really like kids so"
Me for a second: *WOT*
Ok you have a green mind hahahah you thought that he is GOING to LITERALLY TASTE the girl?! And make a baby?! WTF HAHAHAHA
TaehyungKimXMingyuKim XD lol nooo dudeee I think what op meant was that he might have like young girls. That's why it was weird.
TaehyungKimXMingyuKim XD I tought that he'll say that he likes to date kids 😂😂 I'm so sorryyy 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Max Morresey SAMEEEE AHAHAHAHAHAHAH
me too, i was like wait wtf am i watching rn 😂
근데 너무 예의바른데..? 진짜 죄송스러워하고 나가실때 사과하시는거 멋있으심..
근데 여자편에서 남자들 나갈땐 다 조용히 나가던데 여기 남자편에선 여자들 왜 욕하고 나가는거야?
익명이라서 저러는거야?
와 방금 만난사람한테도 앞에서 대놓고 저러는데
여초커뮤에선 얼마나 더럽게 말할까;; 진짜...
ㄹㅇ 왜저럼 강제 ㅈ돼지 인증해야돼서 개빡친 듯 참고로 나도 여자임 스물한살인데 어떻게 스물한살보다 생각수준이 낮냐 ㅋㅋㅋ
At least he seems sweet and humble, they made him ask shallow questions and he made it obvious he was uncomfortable and unsure about asking the vanity questions the most but he had to say something lol
It’s sad how some of them said “Can I please leave now”. “I really wanna leave”. After the weight and height question.
insecure girls getting mad over nothing...
nvmffs I don’t think this was “over nothing”, these are super strict standards that are not typically healthy combinations.
The ballpark could have been bigger. I can totally understand women feeling uncomfortable with someone having such narrow standards. If that’s something that they don’t like about him, that’s perfectly okay.
I wouldn’t date someone who thinks like that, i had an ex that was exactly like that. No wonder he’s my ex ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
nvmffs
A Person with 170cm and 55kg is Under weight and Unhealthy. What he really should have asked is their BMI index. For now he only did was what is called body shaming.
Edit; They weren't mad or Insecure, they were honest.
Personally or otherwise I wouldn't date a Man who tells me I am skinny or I am fat when I am perfectly healthy or isn't.
Sabrina Bitxh
Surely I won't even ask I will Leave
I am 165cm and 59kg an according to his standards I am OBESE
+Indu loves Chanbaek BMI isn't accurate enough for tall and short girls, that's why he used height and weight.
Why would this be body shaming if he only stated his preference without offending the ones that don't fall into that category? If they weren't mad, they wouldn't be so rude as to say "can I leave now?" making him feel guilty for just being himself.
what was the director thinking? why didn’t they give him the same categories for questions as they gave the girl? implying that appearance matters more when you’re a female is... disappointing.
He chooses the questions, not the director
@@R0s3.R3d not the questions specifically, I was instead referring to the fact that there was even a category for appearance in the first place, which was not the case in the other video. They made him specify what he thought an ideal girl should look like by including this category.
I mean, I don't blame people for having tastes and personal preferences, but the fact that the appearance category only came up in this video is slightly off-putting. And not just to me, it seems, because the guy in the video looks quite uncomfortable asking this as well.
@@imstillalive6819 im pretty sure they interview him before, and make the questions by order of priority, if a guy doesn't care/have a preference for an eye colour, would they force him to choose? No, that wouldn't make sense, he said that he liked specific height and weight (probably didn't want to date curvier chicks) and when they asked him about weight, in numbers, he got awkward out bc he didnt know what to say/how to say it
Bruna Gama hmm maybe you’re right. but regardless of who’s in the wrong, isn’t it still a little disappointing?
@@imstillalive6819 it is, but unfortunately that's what online dating is..
지수야 보고있어?
남자편도 있어요
@@김정현-i5l5b 이게 지금 남자편 인데요??
김정현 다신 보지 맙시다 어디서 나왔나요?
@@ssshbom8 3:58
ㅋㄱㅋㄲㅋㅋ 프사랑 닉넴이랑 댓글 연관되서 너무 웃기닼ㅋㅋㅋ
He must feel so guilty for saying those things! I feel bad!! 😫
He should be
@yo sup the only butthurt I see is you over a comment LMAO
@yo sup are you okay? do you need help?.....like a therapist to sort out whatever deep-seated issues you have?
So many left after he said he hates circle lenses hahaha
What Not To Do At a Stoplight yes there are many who wear them
Weebs
What Not To Do At a Stoplight not necessarily to change the colour to blue, most circle lense wearers I've found people still get them in brown/black it's more about the larger diameter than the colour I've found. That's from my experience living in Taiwan anyway, Korea might be drastically different, though I doubt it.
What Not To Do At a Stoplight They're not trying to change their eye color into lighter colors or trying to do it to look prettier. Circle lenses come in different colors that will complete your make up look and it also makes your eyes look more shiny and not dull.
LMAO when all those girls left for circle lens😂
Justine Haro what is circle lens
Pablo Rivera Contacts
is kinda contact lenses but made your eyes look bigger
What an asset hole I would've kept all those beautiful women no woman deserves to feel such ,(ehdhfdjekdl)
California's FisherermanTV It's not his fault.. he was asked to do this. He shouldn't lie and give his honest opinion, he even said how many times he felt bad and he knows it's not right but its for the youtube channel so he doesnt want to lie
진짜 남자 분께 내가 더 미안하다
여자분들 채팅으로 꼽주는 거 좀 그럼,,ㅜㅜ
근데 여자편에서 남자들 나갈땐 다 조용히 나가던데 여기 남자편에선 여자들 왜 욕하고 나가는거야?
익명이라서 저러는거야?
와 방금 만난사람한테도 앞에서 대놓고 저러는데
여초커뮤에선 얼마나 더럽게 말할까;; 진짜...
@@illiio-oaII
대체 어쩌라는 건지... 스크롤 내리다 가끔씩 보이는 한국 댓글마다 여혐이 듬뿍 묻어난 답글 복사 붙여넣기로 달아놓고 누가 자기 의견에 반박하면 죽자 살자 달려들어서 말싸움하고... 그래서 뭐 어쩌라는 건지? 그 답글을 본 사람들이 같이 여혐을 하길 원하는 건가? 공감을 받고 싶으면 남초 커뮤로 가시던가 왜 유튜브에서 여혐친구를 찾는지 참... 저기 출연한 여성분들이 여초 커뮤를 하는지 안 하는지는 어떻게 알고 그러시나? 정말 웃기는 사람이네
So polite
hipnhappenin he was annoying
LOL he is not
wtf why would he be annoying? He was just extremely kind.
Ik that is so sweet
Agree, he is really adorable and sweet.
사람을 판단하는 데에서 너무 미안해하시는듯... 멋있는 분이네요
남자는 우월한 존재고 여자는 열등한 존재라서 여자는 남자한테 막 행동하지만 남자는 항상 여자가 상처받지는 않았을까 염려하며 죄의식을 갖게 됨
밤의황제 이건 또 뭔 분쟁유도야
밤의황제 조선시대 가치관
밤의황제 ㅂㅁㄱ
밤의황제 ㅉ...저런 가치관을 가지고 살고 있다는게 불쌍해ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅜ
not gonna make any bold statements, but the female version compared to this was a complete opposite vibe. That one was fun and lighthearted but in this, since the director pushed it towards body image it made it feel depressing. The guy in this had to feel like an asshole compared to the other one.
It’s out of order saying something about a girls body weight or height so that’s why. You shouldn’t bring up a girls size.
Exactly!
@@sunlooper the director ask him to ask that shit fckkkk i feel so bad for him😣
ᴢᴏʀᴏʀᴏ-ᴋᴜɴ ᴛʜᴇ ʜᴀɴᴅsᴏᴍᴇ The problem imho was *not* he was asked to ask that xxxx. The problem ws that he actually did it! He showed real weak beta male attributes by obeying (espec. if he really did not want to).
Simply reject or - would be smarter ;) - give ranges like "Anything 0 - 220 cm would be ok."
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아니 프로그램 자체가 이상형을 말해서 해당되는사람 뽑는건데 지가 해당안됬다고 단답하면서 왜 사람 무안하게 만듬
The dude was really sweet and nice, he was trying his best to be kind.
And since he had less knowledge, it makes him seem like a bad person.
But he was so good! He seemed like an amazing person.
MissManagerK people make him look bad just because of the range weight 😑😑
MissManagerK i agree with u he seems sweet and genuine
MissManagerK .
amen
MissManagerK yesss
여자편보다가 남자편넘어왔는데 왜 남자편은 이상형고르는게 무슨 죄짓는것마냥 분위기가잡히냐 ㅋㅋㅋ
잘못하면 페미년들이 개지랄 떨기 때문이죠
여자편도 그런 느낌 받았는데. 보는 시각 차이인거지..
imso imsoyo 다른 댓글들 봤는데 백96님이 말하는 것처럼 느낀 사람이 더 많은가보네요.
그러게요ㅠ 너무죄성하대
여자는 되게 쿨하던데ㅠ
여자편 월 300도 아니고 월 150 버냐고 사실상 제대로 직장은 다니는지 물어본건데 와 하면서 나가는 사람 있더만.. 영상 하나로 사회 분위기 페미 어쩌구 하는 거 웃기네ㅋㅋㅋ애초에 질문하는 사람 성격도 다르고 부르는 조건도 다르고 모인 사람도 다른건데.. 예의없이 구는 사람들이 문제지
Omg, the classic awkward guy selfie. ahhaha
VelvetTeddy so true lol
VelvetTeddy but...but...im a girl and i only take those kinds of selfies ;_;
VelvetTeddy omg the double chin
lmao ik but i guess most nervous, awkward guys would do selfies like that..
AND LISA AHSBASFEFA
VelvetTeddy 번역해주실분!
남성분이 계속 죄송해하니까 여자분들중 몇몇분들이 자기가 갑인것처럼 채팅 치시는 분 많네
남자 이상형 찾으러나 왔지 지 이상형 찾으러 왔나
인성검증을 하고 자빠졌네;
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 골빈년 꽤 많아보이는거 같음
ㅇㅈ 인성 개빻음
다신 만나지맙시다라고 하신분이랑 빨리 나가고 싶다 하신분 반성좀 하세요
그니까요 초등학생들보더 개념 없는듯
@@SnowSnowSnowWhite 애초에 미용 몸무게를 대면서 미적기준을 적용했으니깐 그러지 ㅋㅋ 실제로 저 몸무게면 마른 거 맞고 미적 기준을 대면서 여기에 포함되냐 안 되냐 따지는 거 자체가 상대가 누구든 무례한 거임
싸없새들임
@@user-zj2uk2sx8y 그거하는게 이 컨텐츠아님?
@@user-zj2uk2sx8y 뭐래 님 눈없음? 내 이상형 찾는거에서 외모 안보는게 가능함? 여자가 만약에 키 180 이상 근육질 몸매 찾으면 그게 무례한거야? 외모 따지는게 보기싫었으면 이 영상 안보면 되는거잖아 어이없네
참가한 남자분도 되게 힘들겠다ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
마지막 인터뷰 보니까 더 확 느껴짐
와 남자편 여자편 반응 다른거봨ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 여자편에서는 뭐 거의 아무것도 안봤는데 욕 개처먹고 여기선 개많이 따지는데 다 쉴드쳐줌
배우님 행동이 달라서..?
@@인성착한곰 여자 배우분 겸손하시고 미안해하셨는데ㅠㅠ
일단 40명 태도가 엿같아서 동정심 생긴듯
뭐가문제인지모르네 주인공들 상대방 무리들이 개념이없잖어
찌질이들이 커버쳐주는거지
idk why so many people are shitting on him for the height and weight thing :( i think he genuinely didnt know and just chose a random set of numbers typically talked about in the idol industry and he was apologetic about his answers as well. I think people should view this video as how ideal types and standards can really hinder your chances at finding someone you vibe with whether youre looking for friendship or a long term relationship.
HyungWonho oh I think he made up for it at the end with this reflection on the matter. Just saying that we should try and think first.
HyungWonho you would literally just need the most basic medical knowledge aka BMI tbh... but that's my point if visually you don't have a clue what that looks like just use different criteria.
angelstouch92 well the whole bmi thing varies from person to person. Two people both weighing (for ex.) 55kg looks totally different so what 55kg looks like to one person, may not look like that to another. Like HyungWonho said, this kid doesnt interact with women much anyways and he probably got those numbers just listening to his friends talk, he didnt know any better. Also if you turn this thing around, women have pretty high expectations on men as well (ex. They should have abs but still be “lean” and look skinny etc) like alot of women don’t really know the basic fundamentals behind muscle gain or whatnot for men (heck i dont even know as im typing this out) but we dont really see men complaining about it and if they do complain women retaliate by saying “Well I have standards, so..” This whole argument isnt that big of a deal but im just saying that its very difficult to base an exact weight on how an individual may look so cut the guy some slack. Plus maybe his ideal type is just really tiny girls and theres nothing wrong with that, just personal preference not a big deal at all haha ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
angelstouch92 also since u mentioned bmi, i got curious and did some searching and heres what I found on the bmi based on his ideals of an Asian women who is ~24yrs old (he wants someone whos 22-26 and 24 was the average): 160cm and 45kg/5ft3 and 99lbs > youre at the moderate level so still healthy but would benefit by gaining a few more kgs/lbs (classified by WHO as underweight). 165cm and 50kg/5ft5 and 110lbs > youre at a low risk level and completely healthy (classified by WHO as normal weight). 170cm and 55kg/5ft7 and 121lbs > youre at a low risk level and completely healthy (classified by WHO as normal weight) So in conclusion, his ideal heights and weights are NOT unrealistic just so long as you increase the weight when increasing the height.
but the thing is, they told him to ask question about the appearence of his ideal partner, not their weight. like saying "i like slim girls, curvy girls, small girls..." would've been so much more appropiate if he had no idea of body weights. you don't go around asking people's weights; sure you'll think "oh they have a nice body" or "they're totally unattractive to me", but saying those things in numbers is really stupid.
The amount of people who missed the point of both videos in this series is staggering.
AWW SNAP right? it's all there if you actually wait to listen to their thoughts at the end of the videos... or, you know, read the description of the videos themselves. It brings up gender stereotypes for a reason - to see how artificial it really is in meeting an ideal partner.
People are so quick to judge on something they already have opinions on. To them, they see one thing that supports their thoughts and leave. Ignorance, really.
ikr so many people are triggered by him stating his ideal height and weight even tho the guy did say he didnt really know how to gauge weight, i think he just pulled out the numbers from what women in korean media usually have
oh sehun what if most of the girls who left actually didn't fit the range of weight or height he specified ? how are they "triggered" when he's the one who told them to leave based on things they can't change on the spot or at all if it's height.
? I don't get what you're trying to say because he was instructed to tell them to leave if they didn't fit the standard he set. And it's kinda already obvious that Korean standards glorify really skinny and tall women and from the looks of it he doesn't even already have a set number/range in mind for weight and height so he did pull and obvious answer that's already found in Korean society. Just because a lot of the women didn't fit that range, it just goes to show how superficial South Korean media is in broadcasting these types of standards that people recognize even if they don't necessarily fit them. The women got more wary of him because he chose a standard already set by society which, to be honest is not uncommon.
He really made me think with what he said at the end of this... ‘we should try to not hurt others with our ideals’
Personally, I don’t have ‘ideals’
I’m not too picky and lol its not cz I’m ugly or desperate but In general I think everyone has something that is attractive whether it be physical or personality wise. I rather meet someone that wants to get to know me and go from there.
Josip Čondić Jurkić can u tell me the name of the vid of the girl? Bc I try to find the video but I can't :(
You say this until you get tired from your guy and move one lol
Revenger 211 yall live in a delusional world if you think all women do that
lil playful fandom girl omg sameeee
I dont really care about looks aslong as the guy i marry when im older has a nice personality and can be a bit dom at times, id be happy with that
And ofc if the guy loves me alot like i would
Is it just me or does anyone else find the "-1" so satisfying to watch
이거 하면서.. 남자분도 상처받고.. 여자분들도.. 상처받으실듯..
뭐 다 동의 하고 예상하지 않았을까요
ARMY VIP& ㅇㅈ
그와중에 죄송한데 아미랑 뷮이신가요..???? 디게 반갑네요
The physical appearance part should've never been included honestlt. I feel like some girls left just because of how the questions came off
Also I think he just guessed the numbers. 45 kg is worryingly low.
ikr. I know that they generally have smaller builds so it wont be surprising to find people that weight 45 kg but the question was wrong all together.
Lampshade not if your short
That's the point of this experiment to see the faults of an ideal partner and the unrealistic expectations that some people can have, the addition of that part is important
seb koo it’s okay not everyone’s a pretty fit for everyone. People should realize that.
I think this was a very interesting concept. I thought the purpose of this video would be to actually find a match but I was pleasantly surprised when they added the comments, insights and reactions to show how you would probably not select or judge offline people in the same way you would do with people online.
Through Coloured Glasses Yes, it was a pleasant surprise. Somehow this video was also very touching for me.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with filtering out, realistically, in the real world we probably filter out thousands and thousands of people either by choice or just subconscious reaction. This dude just did what he probably does daily in a controlled and enclosed setting. All of us would probably end up with similar results as this dude.
Yeah plus he was told to express his ideal type, idk why the girls in this video and the comment section is getting so butthurt lol.
@@dannyjoo6706 this mans said 160cm - 170cm and weighs 45 - 55kg. Please tell me you know thats wrong lmao
@TheCrazyKid138l If a girl that is 160-170cm weighs 45-50kg it’s pretty likely they are unhealthy. They are supposed to weigh 60+. Most girls just want a guy taller than them not necessarily at 6’3+. But guys and girls are as bad as each other when it comes to being picky.
@TheCrazyKid138l A man wanting a woman weighing under 55kg is not because of evolution. Men are not ‘naturally’ less picky. It’s a social construct. Woman over several years have had to change everything in order to fit in with a mans idea of gender roles or how a woman is supposed to look. Men AND woman are both as picky as each other when it comes to picking partners. You have to be so ignorant and one sided to not see that and think men are less picky. Using evolution as an argument is also ignorant. So many ‘instincts’ brought up from evolution people don’t agree with anymore such as superiority.
I would probably make everyone leave lol
why am i here.....
Adam Rohan same
Adam Rohan why are we all here
That's the question
same
I ask that myself everyday :)
Same... i was watching buzzfeed then accidentally went to a watchcut video then went here accidentally wtf is wrong with this?! ;-;
0:59 moral of the day: NEVER take a selfie from under
Levi Ackerman yess it’s from 19 days! I didn’t know so many people would’ve reconised my profile pic😂 love your pic too
Munise Y. he looks like a thumb 😂😭
Munise Y. lol i agree but i know someone who still looks so gorgeous doing that . that is BTS V!!!!!
Destiny Gomez YUP ARMY!!
Oh my god again -
Only one person doesn't like children im shook
ikr i hate children lmao
I don't hate children but I don't except to see myself as a mother in 20 years
sadiehamre why...?
I feel like more didn't like children they just didn't want to leave because I saw some start to leave but then sit back down
ASF
4:00 이분들 되게 무안주시네
왜 질문을 이상한거 시키냐 남자분 미안해지고 무안해지는게 느껴진다 여자분들 기분도 안 좋을거같고;
"I'm not that picky"
*everyone proceeds to leave*
😂😂😂😂😝😝
He's forced to narrow it down to very few selections you know.
@@Feathertail2205 was "forced" for a range 45-55kg to 1,60-1,70? Pfff come on. That's picky as hell.
@@MF-ie7vx It's a social experiment to understand how ideals don't typically match up in the real world. Relax.
@@Feathertail2205 ah, thank you so much for explaining. I appriciate it and feel more calm than I ever was. ❤️ Take care.
He seems like such a nice guy! I feel like a lot more would have stayed if the questions were not so ''picky''.
남자 엄청 잘생겼는데 셀카를 엄청 못찍어 얼굴을 막씀ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
일부러 그러는 거 잖앜ㅋㅋㅋ
남자 예의 바르네 나갈때마다 꾸벅꾸벅 인사 다하네
Hyunwoo Jung ㅇㅈ
Hyunwoo Jung ㅇㅈ
윤정재라는 모델이에요
(No girls were offended in the making of this video)
Novern Flare that’s bc he ugly tho 🤷🏻♀️
Who cares really?
Of course they aren’t , they aren’t western.
Novern Flare said no girl ever
camila cabello he is all but ugly, he fine as fuck bro
금방이라도 우실 것 같아서 제가 다 슬프네요..
😍😍
You could see he was uncomfortable, and I don't think he's a shitty overly picky dude, I think he was just expected to answer those questions, he did, and got berated for it. Everyone has likes and dislikes, OK I didn't know what circle lenses are as a Westerner, is that to make the eye seem rounder? That was kinda weird but just because I'd never heard of it, I guess it's like coloured contact lenses.
The body types was normal slim, and height, Asians tend to be thinner and smaller, though there are exceptions, I'm in that height and weight bracket and I'm white and Western, it's not like painfully thin.
The only thing I thought was odd was wanting a student when working, I didn't get that really.
Circle lenses are like accessories that help your eyes look bigger
I’m also in that weight class, and absolutely not thin...🤣 But he should’ve said 60 kg or something, because there are also girls who just have a lot of muscles, which basically means they look thin but weigh like 60 kg
About that last sentence i think he meant it's hard to meet with them and make plans when they're both working
I think usually guys like girls a few years younger than them and girls like guys a few years older than them.. that's how u feel anyhow 😅