I appreciate your vibe, man. I'm a lonely 38-year-old who is working through a lot of childhood/adolescent trauma and needing to study for a major career and who just got rejected by an amazing girl yesterday. Most days, I feel old, and I struggle with intensely depressive feelings. Thank you for the warmth and good energy. I used to be better at not giving a shit about other people's opinions, but the last few years, life has lifed all over me, eroding much of that confidence and self-esteem. Thanks again from a new subscriber.
Hey man I'm sorry to hear you're going through life like this. Carrying trauma around like that is never easy but it feels like you're aware of it and working to heal. That's the hard part. The healing part. Getting traumatized is super easy even a kid can do it 😬 But being aware is already a huge step forward. Self confidence is a plant you have to take care of. If it looks wilted right now you can be certain it will flourish again with some TLC. That stuff never left you it's just waiting on the sidelines for you to feel better. As for girls? Here's the thing about girls. They're awesome. They're incredible. They're amazing. They're so amazing in fact that you can find an even better fit if you open yourself up to the risk of heartbreak. It's part of the game. I have a theory that if you keep your eyes open and your heart welcoming you can meet someone really cool every three months. So hey don't make plans for January Much love man
Hey, how are you? The weather has been a bit crazy lately, but it seems like it’s finally going to stabilize. I think it’s a great time to step out of the bubble and enjoy the outdoors. Sometimes, all we need is a change of scenery to refresh ourselves and see things from a different perspective.
A change of scenery is exactly what we all need. It's all about perspective and changing the way the world alters the way we experience it. How's the weather been crazy for you? You're...you\'re not in Florida are you? 😨
I live in one of the few areas in the world that has Lake-Effect Weather due to The Great Lakes. Sometimes we can get 3 feet of snow overnight. Everyone assumes we can carry on life and drive because we have special equipment to deal with it but that isn't true. It's a way of life. You have to learn to drive in the snow and ice. Some towns even run out of money to plow the roads and only own a single plow for the entire city. It is not uncommon to have to drive through 6 inches (15 cm) of snow in a sedan style car with all season tires because it's all you can afford. You have to learn to drift. You have to learn how much time you have to cross the intersection, if you dare stop at it all the way lest you get stuck, before another car might come, who also cannot stop. We help our neighbors dig out their cars and front doors. We check on the elderly (who are often not very nice I might add.) We also get in fights in the snow and roll around in it and throw it at each other. It's very normal for the wind to be blowing at 30 mph with 60 mph gusts and we are unbothered. All 4 lanes of traffic on i90 will blow slightly out the lane together as one and we gently go back into our lanes. (Except that one person unlucky enough to be beside the semi-truck. xD) The weather is a part of us here.
I am living for this sort of storytelling! 🤩 I lived in Ohio for a year back in '96 and while I don't remember it being this bad up there, I do remember having to deal with ice on car windows and tire tracks that wouldn't yield like mud should. I remember that surprised me. Actually I just checked and I lived in a town just a few miles north of I90 that's awesome. "The weather is part of us here" should be in a Coen brothers movie somehow...
Hi, Jack! We have a sunny week here in Kraków, Poland - it's finally a full blown autumn and I love it. I'm 27 and I feel like I've peaked at like 16... but I agree with you that you're always the right age. Cheers - I hope you're doing fine. How's the job search - if you've started looking for one? Sorry you have to go back to that crap - you're great at what you're doing here, even if you don't get that many views.
Hey mate! Sunny day in Poland huh? What's something fun to do in Kraków when the sun is out? Lightly dipping my toes in the job market. The water is cold and I'm scared. But we move forward. We gotta...
Teenagers care, but adults don’t. Only few do and those aren’t the people I want to be in touch with anyway. If you don’t love me the way I am I don’t need your love 😊
This is it yes. Some adults still do though. Everything from religion to politics to sports teams inform the way some people will judge you. But we don't need that kind of live. We really don't ♥️
Oh man I get you. I can't stand the summer for that reason. It's hot and humid and there are mosquitoes. Who wants mosquitoes? Is this in Malaysia or did I google the wrong thing?
Weather in Houston TX is sunny and warm. Im not originally from here and miss the cooler fall weather from my home town in Cincinnati. I'm in the US btw. Love your vids🙏🏾
Oooooh Cinncinati! I lived in Fayette, Ohio for a year back in '96. It was the first time I truly experienced winter. And fall actually. I don't think I would willingly move anywhere that doesn't have crispy fall weather once a year. I hear Houston is nice though. I have a friend living there. Lots of complaints about the heat though...
Oh yeah without a doubt. People judging you comes from a place of their own insecurities being projected onto you. No need to spend any energy listening or arguing with them
Wow Chris Delia's new podcast is very wholesome
Someone else made the same joke in one of my shorts I'm starting to believe it
I appreciate your vibe, man. I'm a lonely 38-year-old who is working through a lot of childhood/adolescent trauma and needing to study for a major career and who just got rejected by an amazing girl yesterday. Most days, I feel old, and I struggle with intensely depressive feelings. Thank you for the warmth and good energy. I used to be better at not giving a shit about other people's opinions, but the last few years, life has lifed all over me, eroding much of that confidence and self-esteem. Thanks again from a new subscriber.
Hey man I'm sorry to hear you're going through life like this. Carrying trauma around like that is never easy but it feels like you're aware of it and working to heal.
That's the hard part. The healing part. Getting traumatized is super easy even a kid can do it 😬
But being aware is already a huge step forward.
Self confidence is a plant you have to take care of. If it looks wilted right now you can be certain it will flourish again with some TLC. That stuff never left you it's just waiting on the sidelines for you to feel better.
As for girls? Here's the thing about girls. They're awesome. They're incredible. They're amazing. They're so amazing in fact that you can find an even better fit if you open yourself up to the risk of heartbreak. It's part of the game.
I have a theory that if you keep your eyes open and your heart welcoming you can meet someone really cool every three months.
So hey don't make plans for January
Much love man
Hey, how are you? The weather has been a bit crazy lately, but it seems like it’s finally going to stabilize. I think it’s a great time to step out of the bubble and enjoy the outdoors. Sometimes, all we need is a change of scenery to refresh ourselves and see things from a different perspective.
A change of scenery is exactly what we all need. It's all about perspective and changing the way the world alters the way we experience it.
How's the weather been crazy for you? You're...you\'re not in Florida are you? 😨
This was a great video: Sincere but not too heavy. 😊
Thank you so much that's really kind of you to say 🫶🏻
I live in one of the few areas in the world that has Lake-Effect Weather due to The Great Lakes. Sometimes we can get 3 feet of snow overnight. Everyone assumes we can carry on life and drive because we have special equipment to deal with it but that isn't true. It's a way of life. You have to learn to drive in the snow and ice. Some towns even run out of money to plow the roads and only own a single plow for the entire city. It is not uncommon to have to drive through 6 inches (15 cm) of snow in a sedan style car with all season tires because it's all you can afford. You have to learn to drift. You have to learn how much time you have to cross the intersection, if you dare stop at it all the way lest you get stuck, before another car might come, who also cannot stop. We help our neighbors dig out their cars and front doors. We check on the elderly (who are often not very nice I might add.) We also get in fights in the snow and roll around in it and throw it at each other. It's very normal for the wind to be blowing at 30 mph with 60 mph gusts and we are unbothered. All 4 lanes of traffic on i90 will blow slightly out the lane together as one and we gently go back into our lanes. (Except that one person unlucky enough to be beside the semi-truck. xD) The weather is a part of us here.
I am living for this sort of storytelling! 🤩
I lived in Ohio for a year back in '96 and while I don't remember it being this bad up there, I do remember having to deal with ice on car windows and tire tracks that wouldn't yield like mud should. I remember that surprised me.
Actually I just checked and I lived in a town just a few miles north of I90 that's awesome.
"The weather is part of us here" should be in a Coen brothers movie somehow...
It’s a bit colder than in Paris, lots of pretty leaves
It's not cold enough for me here yet. Sun enjoyers can burn
@@LifeByJack so come over and enjoy the fog. Bring some good jackets.
One would do I reckon
@@LifeByJack whatever makes you buy that train ticket 👍
Thank you
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Hi, Jack! We have a sunny week here in Kraków, Poland - it's finally a full blown autumn and I love it. I'm 27 and I feel like I've peaked at like 16... but I agree with you that you're always the right age. Cheers - I hope you're doing fine. How's the job search - if you've started looking for one? Sorry you have to go back to that crap - you're great at what you're doing here, even if you don't get that many views.
Hey mate! Sunny day in Poland huh? What's something fun to do in Kraków when the sun is out?
Lightly dipping my toes in the job market. The water is cold and I'm scared. But we move forward. We gotta...
Teenagers care, but adults don’t. Only few do and those aren’t the people I want to be in touch with anyway. If you don’t love me the way I am I don’t need your love 😊
This is it yes. Some adults still do though. Everything from religion to politics to sports teams inform the way some people will judge you.
But we don't need that kind of live. We really don't ♥️
not an "old man", just not a kid.
That's a better way of framing it actually, thanks...
its cold and raining here in Sabah. (south east asia). Honestly, i love this weather as i hardly sweat.
Oh man I get you. I can't stand the summer for that reason. It's hot and humid and there are mosquitoes. Who wants mosquitoes?
Is this in Malaysia or did I google the wrong thing?
Weather in Houston TX is sunny and warm. Im not originally from here and miss the cooler fall weather from my home town in Cincinnati. I'm in the US btw. Love your vids🙏🏾
Oooooh Cinncinati! I lived in Fayette, Ohio for a year back in '96. It was the first time I truly experienced winter. And fall actually. I don't think I would willingly move anywhere that doesn't have crispy fall weather once a year.
I hear Houston is nice though. I have a friend living there. Lots of complaints about the heat though...
There is too much small take hate in the world and the haters are coping, that’s my take
Oh yeah without a doubt. People judging you comes from a place of their own insecurities being projected onto you. No need to spend any energy listening or arguing with them
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thank you
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