This guy is a gem. Maturity, wisdom, focused, he's been very patient with her woman it shows that he really loved the gal. May God give him peace and help him make the right decision..
@@paulmumu8468 You may not understand the man’s pain! His cheating was before marriage. Just one time bad behavior. The woman is conniving!! Living in marriage while secretly planning to have a muzungu baby!!! That is a killer!! Laughing with you yet planning to dump you!!!! Inexcusable!!!
@@paulmumu8468 true pia yye alicheat and the girl forgave in and so should he do the same and in this world we do alot that makes God angry but he really forgives us so pia yye arahisishe roho and forgive her hakuna ambaye hakosei
If you will ever read this my brother,just know that I dedicated my self to be praying for you that you get healing,peace and the strength to move on,,it shall be well my brother...
Have you ever thought of forgiving and accept her apology. The devil is a lier and he comes to steal, destroy and kill. Mwanaume you got the devil in the process, wake up and be a winner as a family don't let the devil prevail over you. I beg you as a brother/man.
If you wish I talk to you. I'm available. Calm down and analyze your wife and compare good vs bad, wrong vs wrong please. Disconnect her from previous friends
God never blesses such honest men in Kenya on matters relationship,they do trust too much hence they do suffer a lot.He is an example.He trusted too much.Hence as a man put yourself first,love yourself first then these sisters of Bethseba will respect you.Zingine tuwache kuwekelea God,this guy placed the needs of the lady way above his,wanaume mjipende sana.This guy should learn a lesson so that in his next relationship he needs to put himself,his happiness first.He needed to have a better smart phone than even the lady not that kadudu in the name of sacrificing for love.Most of these ladies do not know how to reciprocate respect and love back to one who doesn’t love and respect himself more than anything else.
I have felt so bad for myself man, I really have not been doing enough for myself and my family,this guy has taught me I lesson,from the first episode and now this one,I will work twice as hard and also this Guy has Jesus in his Life,such words of wisdom can only come from the spirit of God, Welcome Holy spirit inside me too
This man is very composed and well mannered, he is also that kind of a man who appreciates women coz despite of him been hurt he described her accordingly. Be strong God is there
Th gentleman today is full of energy last tym he looked tired nikaa th gal was eating everything including his happiness , invest in urself first n become strong
True..articulate too. I suppose he is the lucky one in regards to the episodes I have watched. This was girl talk. She hadn't had an a fair unlike other girls Aki.. I respect that girl..
To forgive is healing then move on with yo life, the big mistake she did is to control pregnancy while she has been fully married that means she had a mission and ladies and gentlemen let's choose friends wisely, God bless you all🙏
Nothing hurts like being denied to be a dad am sorry bro you are a gem you deserve the best let her go heal and move on God will give you someone who will appreciate your struggles 🙏🙏🙏
Ladies ladies!if you ain't interested in settling with someone stop wasting their time and allowing them to go an extra mile for you ,vitu zingine ni kujitaftia laana.This guy's mum will never forgive the lady
Listening to your testimony about your wife, you have come from far, you are a man of wisdom and a big heart. Please find in your heart to forgive her and give her another chance, she is meant for you bro, bad things happen so that good things can happen. She has learned her lessons and I believe by her involving your parents and hers into come back arrangements, she is serious. It's just this bad influence which you can help her overcome by forgiving her and believing in her again. We all fall short of God's glory many times but He never gives up on us. I wish I would meet and encourage you in person.
After I watched the first video I kept thinking about this guy... finally I prayed for you am happy to see you...you are looking healthier without her in you life...
May God grant you with someone who loves and cares for you the way you're. I really love the guys who appreciate BMS revealing their cheating partners. Thumbs up Stevo
Stevoo good job on this follow ups. They help a lot on the affected parties and us the viewers. We learn . We just pray for this guy to find someone true to his expectations.
This.guy covered it all...he is a mens spokesperson..we go through all the things u mentioned...and your closing statement is on point 👉☝️...God above all
At 21 minute mark when he says " I realized I was a stepping stone". That's the reality bro. Jezebel was using you to upgrade herself and then dump you for a mzungu. In the future avoid these transactional relationships. Take time to heal, work on yourself alafu uoge na urudi uwanja
@@phylliskamau4203 he's respectful not just stupid. Even a kid know the deputy president's words were inappropriate. Just because siasa imeisha doesn't mean the brain should stop working and we bury our heads in the sand.And by the way, old age doesn't translate to wisdom because even fools get old.
God will come through for you and you will look back and give glory to His name. Let your wife go get herself a mzungu kid and be content for that is her heart's desire.
May God give this man strength to move on. This is too much pain inflicted by the only one person he loved and cared for deeply. Oooh God, what do we ladies really want??? 😭😭😭
Brandon• Nelson Mandela did divo divorce winnie. Winnie was the one who life Mandela..most humans doesn't know story behind Mandela who humans think was..that Mandela is not the really people think..winnie was a hero woman
I used to think there no good men in Kenya but God this show has changed my mindset completely, There's so many good and honest men out there who are being taken for granted.
Ive never commented on your page Big man great job exposing ppl's true nature. Very sweet soul i would like to be frnds with him. A man so strong and composed,despite the outcome.
Uyu dame hakucheat...she was only texting...apo Kwa kutozaa swezi mblame...mtoto is a permanent mark.... listen to the lady and forgive her ..some of us talk trash but never do that
This guy follows Benjamin Zulu Ke faithfully...the wisdom and honesty here!! Hang in there brother,the sun will rise again.. sending you lots of love and hugs 🤗
After 3years of lying to him imgn being on family planning without ur husband knowledge ashide kujishuku ni yeye ako na shida ,i know hes feeling so bad
Men cry in silence I feel the pain in his voice 😥 it teared me when he said "I feel like am a destroyed man"... "He's no longer productive as he used to be"
Hapa ndio unajua the type of frienbds you keep is important, this girl was okay with the marriage, alianza na kijana kabla ata ajitambulishe lakini seeing what her friends are doing and living drove her to want that life.
Wooie the guy is hurting.May God grant him peace.Hakuna kitu hurting Kaa wewe kukuwa mtrue Kwa relationship then ukuje ku realize your partner was using you💔💔💔only God will repay us for wasting our love,time,money and affection with the wrong people
Baba, just forgive her. So hata wewe ulimcheza? Temptations come in the same measure to both man and women. Also note that once you cheated on her, trust disappeared and may be respect for you. Just be real and forgive.
Watching this video has made me believe again there are still good men out there. May God locate such men to ladies who deserve them. There is still hope. God above all.🙏
Good men do exist,.He is a living example. You never know what you got until its gone. My brother may God give you healing and comfort.In due time it shall be well.
Stevo I think you should give these guys some time like 2 months after the loyalty test to call them back to the show. My feeling is that a few days is too short because the emotions are still raw and people are still mad and in that situation, it's not easy to make a rational decision. Give them a little bit more time to heal.
Sorry for the previous video ..it has been pulled down by You tube community after being reported and we are working on it
Aaaiii leo umetucheza
nimeshangaa venye nilikuwa nangojea sana
Why was it reported?Did it have any illicit content?
Navenye ilkua intresting
Who reported it before it even aired? We want to know who Tony is.
He's so handsome i didn't see him this handsome in the last show
This guy is a gem. Maturity, wisdom, focused, he's been very patient with her woman it shows that he really loved the gal. May God give him peace and help him make the right decision..
Yes he's so mature
But the guy also cheated and he was forgiven why would he not forgive 🤔 .
@@paulmumu8468 You may not understand the man’s pain! His cheating was before marriage. Just one time bad behavior. The woman is conniving!! Living in marriage while secretly planning to have a muzungu baby!!! That is a killer!! Laughing with you yet planning to dump you!!!! Inexcusable!!!
True, but is it possible we pray that they reconcile.
@@paulmumu8468 true pia yye alicheat and the girl forgave in and so should he do the same and in this world we do alot that makes God angry but he really forgives us so pia yye arahisishe roho and forgive her hakuna ambaye hakosei
If you will ever read this my brother,just know that I dedicated my self to be praying for you that you get healing,peace and the strength to move on,,it shall be well my brother...
Kabisa. Thanks Kelvin. This guy was super hurt
🙏🙏it shall be well for him he was really hurt 😢
Have you ever thought of forgiving and accept her apology. The devil is a lier and he comes to steal, destroy and kill. Mwanaume you got the devil in the process, wake up and be a winner as a family don't let the devil prevail over you. I beg you as a brother/man.
If you wish I talk to you. I'm available. Calm down and analyze your wife and compare good vs bad, wrong vs wrong please. Disconnect her from previous friends
It's sad for me cause I know the guy, old friend manze. I hope he pulls through and be blessed, abundantly.
This guy is a symbol of Kenyan honest people, wherever they are, they know themselves.
God will bless you all one after the other. 🇰🇪 🙏🏾 🇰🇪
Amen
God never blesses such honest men in Kenya on matters relationship,they do trust too much hence they do suffer a lot.He is an example.He trusted too much.Hence as a man put yourself first,love yourself first then these sisters of Bethseba will respect you.Zingine tuwache kuwekelea God,this guy placed the needs of the lady way above his,wanaume mjipende sana.This guy should learn a lesson so that in his next relationship he needs to put himself,his happiness first.He needed to have a better smart phone than even the lady not that kadudu in the name of sacrificing for love.Most of these ladies do not know how to reciprocate respect and love back to one who doesn’t love and respect himself more than anything else.
@@johnnyaula7503 🤣🤣🤣 unasema ukweli why
Didn't he say he used to do this to women am shocked venye anaifeel karma is real
@@johnnyaula7503 best advice
I think I love this man,,he is a gem..May God help him
I have felt so bad for myself man, I really have not been doing enough for myself and my family,this guy has taught me I lesson,from the first episode and now this one,I will work twice as hard and also this Guy has Jesus in his Life,such words of wisdom can only come from the spirit of God, Welcome Holy spirit inside me too
Someone do an altar call
Good job Edwin
This man is very composed and well mannered, he is also that kind of a man who appreciates women coz despite of him been hurt he described her accordingly. Be strong God is there
Th gentleman today is full of energy last tym he looked tired nikaa th gal was eating everything including his happiness , invest in urself first n become strong
The dude just look sick
Maybe ilikua nguo alivaa that day, he looked so thin
This man can be a motivational speaker
Character development makes one so🥺🥺
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Amepata character development ya ajabu
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Very much true
The guy is a good communicator
He know how to talk
3 good years
This lady has actually lost a gem 💎
He speaks with so much wisdom
I wished you knew how it goes about unalima shamba expecting one to conceive.😭😭
Plus another 3 years they dated
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The wisdom of this guy is on another level
wisdom na jamaa anaumia
His IQ jo
But atapata Mrembo ameweza wasonge na life kapisa , nothing attached with the fool😅😅
The wisdom on this guy is on another lever.
It's above sea velaaaa!!
His eloquence though👍👍👍
LughA! ingekua swahili sawa
True..articulate too.
I suppose he is the lucky one in regards to the episodes I have watched.
This was girl talk.
She hadn't had an a fair unlike other girls
Aki.. I respect that girl..
This man deserves better. All he said is the plain truth. I pray God meets the desires of his heart.
After listening to my brother I have learned a lot mostly about women's
I'm here looking for him in fact even .me I need samone oooh
He looks good today,,,yaani wanawake mmeweka wanaume baridi mkiwa nao wanakaa Babu zenu
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Are u married wewe ama ni mdomo ,,, don't judge
This young man was brought up well. He knows his worth & exactly what he wants.All the best in your endeavours boy child.
You helped me out bro i healed from my relationship through this videos man💪
Ukaona huyuko peke yako cheating😂😂
Meanwhile kindly niongezee subscription dear 🙏🥰
This guy is a gem......he deserves better
To forgive is healing then move on with yo life, the big mistake she did is to control pregnancy while she has been fully married that means she had a mission and ladies and gentlemen let's choose friends wisely, God bless you all🙏
Very much true.
She was just waiting for an opportune time for mzungu to come then aache the guy.
Akwende kabisa.
True there is friends who can mislead you
I choose to have small circles of so called friends.. Some friends can mislead..
Wisdom is what this guy has wishing him all the best
The words from this guy really has made me to move to another level of thinking 🤔 😕 he is very intelligent and he deserves a better soul
What were you waiting for 😁
@@johnkush920 you
He thinks he lost her...bro...She lost you.you deserve better
In life I have learned to move on.
True
They lost each other
He deserves better.Who knows what else she was hiding?
wow, I love this guy. I feel him
It's really painful may will of God sent us right person,I feel it too
Chebet ak kibet oamunee😁
Well spoken. The guy himself is his own therapist and very good at it. Just don't get back with her after all that.
He has too much motivational words, thank you.
This are the words my heart was yearning for, thanks bro
This guy is just a gem …. he’s grown , focused and maturity is on another level … respect to him …. He’s a symbol of other men honest.
Nothing hurts like being denied to be a dad am sorry bro you are a gem you deserve the best let her go heal and move on God will give you someone who will appreciate your struggles 🙏🙏🙏
True
This man has just made me to download this video so that I can watch it time by time 👍 to that man.
Same here am downloading right now
I just feel like this guy was just talking to me 🙏🙏 be strong bro 👊👊
Thanks brow
Ladies ladies!if you ain't interested in settling with someone stop wasting their time and allowing them to go an extra mile for you ,vitu zingine ni kujitaftia laana.This guy's mum will never forgive the lady
Rebecca thats true
Treu
Whoever skips the hodari homes advert you will never see heaven 😂
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Back to u the writer 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Am always skipping it, these children of Abraham want me to miss heaven. Look at u😜😜😜😜
Listening to your testimony about your wife, you have come from far, you are a man of wisdom and a big heart. Please find in your heart to forgive her and give her another chance, she is meant for you bro, bad things happen so that good things can happen. She has learned her lessons and I believe by her involving your parents and hers into come back arrangements, she is serious. It's just this bad influence which you can help her overcome by forgiving her and believing in her again. We all fall short of God's glory many times but He never gives up on us. I wish I would meet and encourage you in person.
I concur
Wrong advice ,this lady is a gold digger,hii madharau ni mbaya ,she can't change, better a breakup now than later in life say in his fifties!!!
Always face your fears like a man!
He should let go in order to get other big things she took his man for granted
Forgiveness is the best
Fuata nafsi yako my dea bro..Mungu amekufungua ma ho..ukirudiana nayeye ,utakuwaga hapo but mind yake na ambitions ziko kwa wazungu
Nothing hurts more to be being denied a chance to be called a father. The pain this man is going through is unbearable. Be still karma never forgets 😌
imagine so of us want babbies but kuna hii hapa
@@ruthwanjiku3721 very painful in fact he needs time to heal the wound
the guy is looking good today😍😍
Na Ile siku
@@justineabarasa672 🤣🤣eee
After I watched the first video I kept thinking about this guy... finally I prayed for you am happy to see you...you are looking healthier without her in you life...
May God grant you with someone who loves and cares for you the way you're. I really love the guys who appreciate BMS revealing their cheating partners. Thumbs up Stevo
Wise and extremely articulate.
My thoughts too....
Very wise & mature guy! Appreciates self,acceptance n knows his true worth….👍🏽
total motivational speaking💯...bruh stay strong,after every tunnel(dark place),there comes a light.#there is God in heaven
His command of the queen's language is commendable...
Stevoo good job on this follow ups. They help a lot on the affected parties and us the viewers. We learn . We just pray for this guy to find someone true to his expectations.
This.guy covered it all...he is a mens spokesperson..we go through all the things u mentioned...and your closing statement is on point 👉☝️...God above all
you never know how precious something is until you loose it,, you deserve someone better and may God help you locate her
Guy is a gem. Smart and wise.
It hurts when you realise that you're not important to someone you thought you were. It hurts when someone you love loves someone else
What do ladies want?
@@michaelmarisio5208 sijui adi pia 😂
At 21 minute mark when he says " I realized I was a stepping stone". That's the reality bro. Jezebel was using you to upgrade herself and then dump you for a mzungu. In the future avoid these transactional relationships. Take time to heal, work on yourself alafu uoge na urudi uwanja
This man is full of wisdom.
Hawa wasichana wange juwa. Hakuna mabwana. Mimi nitakwabi kijana mungu atakupeya mwanamke mwema
Thank God for opening your eyes..He knew this will happen to you, and He will give you a lady who deserves you ..take heart my brother
I from now I have to know the kind of friends my woman keeps
It's ok Steve.
Hope it's sorted cz thus is a good educative channel
This guy oozes wisdom
This guy is very intelligent and the respect he has for this woman is on another level I pray that may he find peace
God shall reward you in His own way. Through this programme God protected you from future harm
He's a gentleman may God heal him
This guy has a lot of wisdom, the choice of his words are much better than the Deputy President
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Train yourself to be little respectful,I think you have a long journey to be in the age of that man,siasa imeisha.
@@phylliskamau4203 he's respectful not just stupid. Even a kid know the deputy president's words were inappropriate. Just because siasa imeisha doesn't mean the brain should stop working and we bury our heads in the sand.And by the way, old age doesn't translate to wisdom because even fools get old.
Gawsh..my heart melts for this guy..I wish he can come my way
The man is so down to earth. God will provide him his right partner
Ahh the uninitiated, and their mundane mindsets.
God is faithful. He will be blessed. We serve God of another chance.
His eloquence though.He should start a podcast
𝕋𝕣𝕦𝕖
I feel sorry for him but he's so wise
Sure i agree...bt on the other hand he shud have seen this happening from the day he her on contraceptives.
My brother be strong all will be well . May God give you strength to overcome the problem 🙏 ❤
It was bad 💔💔💔Sorry.The lady in her texts said she was too young and beautiful for this man and so she wanted her beauty for wazungu 😒😒
What else?
You can be beauty with empty minded full of water in the dander head what is the use being beuty.just to open legs
Sure she said she don't want to suffer
Noo there is avedio she delete just now hii achana nayo
Contraceptives for 3 years coz she was waiting for her soulmate Mzungu ndio sasa amzalie wewe ubaki hanging
God will come through for you and you will look back and give glory to His name. Let your wife go get herself a mzungu kid and be content for that is her heart's desire.
Great speech from the boy child,,I'm proud of you regardless of what you're through,,,,apply the same theory in your life.
May God give this man strength to move on. This is too much pain inflicted by the only one person he loved and cared for deeply. Oooh God, what do we ladies really want??? 😭😭😭
This man is a gem💎 not easy to find and his maturity level👌 that lady lost a gentleman she will live to regret
Nelson Mandela forgave those who imprisoned and mistreated him but he never forgave his ex wife, Winnie for cheating. Men dont forgive cheating
That's true, never forgive a cheating woman.
A man can forgive you for anything but not cheating.
Brandon• Nelson Mandela did divo
divorce winnie. Winnie was the one who life Mandela..most humans doesn't know story behind Mandela who humans think was..that Mandela is not the really people think..winnie was a hero woman
@@nancymuseve3249 i have my facts right. Just know that no man forgives cheating.
@@nancymuseve3249 feminism propaganda
Courageous,wise focused etc, I think you've thought me a lesson you're really brave
This guy has been hit below the belt, he's so hurt and pained to the extent that his soul is not at peace, it's been torn apart by love.
Kumbe this guy is Soo handsome like this waaauuu,
😁😁😁😁aki wewe kumbe ume notice ako👌
Let's focus
I pray God to give me such a gentle man some don't know what they have unless they lose it
My prayer too
I used to think there no good men in Kenya but God this show has changed my mindset completely, There's so many good and honest men out there who are being taken for granted.
True my sister
Men get hurt also. This days women have perfected the art of cheating
Ive never commented on your page Big man great job exposing ppl's true nature. Very sweet soul i would like to be frnds with him. A man so strong and composed,despite the outcome.
Uyu dame hakucheat...she was only texting...apo Kwa kutozaa swezi mblame...mtoto is a permanent mark.... listen to the lady and forgive her ..some of us talk trash but never do that
Bt she have a shindano kwa mkono
Alikuwa anaprepare vile ataacha huyu boy
This guy follows Benjamin Zulu Ke faithfully...the wisdom and honesty here!! Hang in there brother,the sun will rise again.. sending you lots of love and hugs 🤗
So sad amekua motivational speaker . character development is real
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Be nice 😂😂😂
wewe wacha hizo zako..
He is well spoken generally and looks too wise for his age
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 walai amepreach weuh
I think he should forgive her, this lady is can change live a happy life together.
After 3years of lying to him imgn being on family planning without ur husband knowledge ashide kujishuku ni yeye ako na shida ,i know hes feeling so bad
So sad,,I fail to understand thz,,why does good pple with good intentions,meet the wrong ones,it's vice versa..I feel your pain
Men cry in silence I feel the pain in his voice 😥 it teared me when he said "I feel like am a destroyed man"... "He's no longer productive as he used to be"
Hapa ndio unajua the type of frienbds you keep is important, this girl was okay with the marriage, alianza na kijana kabla ata ajitambulishe lakini seeing what her friends are doing and living drove her to want that life.
Wooie the guy is hurting.May God grant him peace.Hakuna kitu hurting Kaa wewe kukuwa mtrue Kwa relationship then ukuje ku realize your partner was using you💔💔💔only God will repay us for wasting our love,time,money and affection with the wrong people
The end reminds me of a saying by bob dylan.."you cannot be wise and in love at the same time".. love blinds us all..don't worry brother.
Baba, just forgive her. So hata wewe ulimcheza? Temptations come in the same measure to both man and women. Also note that once you cheated on her, trust disappeared and may be respect for you. Just be real and forgive.
Watching this video has made me believe again there are still good men out there.
May God locate such men to ladies who deserve them.
There is still hope.
God above all.🙏
Good men do exist,.He is a living example.
You never know what you got until its gone.
My brother may God give you healing and comfort.In due time it shall be well.
This man is real.
The description of the lady tempt me to break the rules and say she deserve a second chance.
I just picked a great lesson here.
She really deserve a second chance
@@AncientWord1 may be with you 😂
BMS bring the lady on the show, I'll like to hear from her... The boychild is full of wisdom , even tho ameumia lkn he's strong enough to mv on.....
Indeed there are good men out there..he is one of them
He is very wise and is giving great advice 👏
Be strong for your self..... that is a key 🔐 point.
You will just be fine brother, at the appointed time
Mmh iyo yenu mnaweza suluisha
Wow this guy is mature😍😍..
true...
Thanks BMS for putting up another episode, those of addicts we were sick waiting for a full dose of BMS.
There is God in heaven,,,may he visit ur heart ad heal,,,there is hope🙏
I just wish and pray to God anibless with such a guy....he is soo humble...composed and he knows wat he want...may God see this gentleman thru
Stevo I think you should give these guys some time like 2 months after the loyalty test to call them back to the show. My feeling is that a few days is too short because the emotions are still raw and people are still mad and in that situation, it's not easy to make a rational decision. Give them a little bit more time to heal.
Alafu tuwatch what??
Mesh 😂😂😂😂
At this early stages is when they can pour their heart out...helps them to start their healing too
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Good people like you deserve better