Tsis yog tim poj niam, tim koj xwb os. I see a lot of my sisters, aunts, cousins do everything for their husband & his family & the husband will still cheat on her. It doesn’t matter wat u do or don’t do, if he wants to cheat, he’ll cheat. U are a weak woman who couldn’t stand up for yourself & leave him after all that he did to u.
Sometimes it takes people who are abused a very long time to get the courage to leave. You found it eventually. Find love in yourself. Every one deserves love, respect, and kindness.
A cousin's wife did the same thing she did, stay with her husband who always goes to laos. She died of covid and now her husband is living his best life with her insurance money with a new young wife. Why wait so long?!
Tus mi niam tsev aw.. koj yog tug Viv ncaus txawj ntse ua tau lub siab tawv taus kuv thov qhuas koj nawb kuv ces tsis txawj ntse li koj kuv thiaj li tsis muaj peev xwm li koj es niaj hnub no mob kuv lub siab tshaj plaws tsuas yog kuv txoj tsis tu es lam nyob xwb tu siab kawg kuv ua tsis tau li koj Tam sis no ces cov niam tsev muaj peev xwm li koj muaj tsawg heev li os 😢😢
He cheated cuss you allowed him to. He treated you like that cuss you allowed him too. You need to ua siab tawv n kick him out or leave him the first time he did it.
This is the best example of what victim blaming is. Hope this never happen to you because only that person knows their reasons why they stay to save their marriage until enough is enough. Who are you to say she allowed it when she clearly said it hurt her? You haven’t walked her shoes and who knows if you are walking it right now but people with no sympathy haven’t experienced this kind of hurt and are so quick to judge and blame the women.
Why did it take you so long to realize that your husband doesn't love you ? Why did you accept him to cheat on you ? Why did you let him hit you ? A man knows from the beginning how he will treat you, by your attitude, yours words. Never accept any betrayal. Keeps your expectations high and set up your boundaries. Don't let your happiness in someone else' hand !
Because her parents did not like the guy to begin with based on his father's polygamy relationships. She must've felt worthless and wanted to prove a point to her parents that he wasn't like his father. She didn't have boundaries or if she did she let them go until she reached her breaking point. Hopefully she loves herself afterwards
Peb hmoob qhov koj xa kuv $1200 kuv xa koj $1200 tsum kiag. Mus poob nyiaj tsis muaj qab hau. Nws twb yog tus txhaum. Yus tseem yuav xa nws $1200 thiab. Ruam pob. Nws yog tus txhaum nws yuav tsum kho yus. Kho yus tas mas mam li sib tham seb yuav rov qab sib yuav los yuav sib nrauj. Hais tau zoo kawg.
I'm so sorry you went through cheating, abuse, scandals, betrayal, so much more. So glad you found self love and the courage to leave that loser husband. Don't look back on that monster. Best wishes to you.
Txoj kev xav yuav txiv ntxov 2 Kom tau ua me nyuam coob 2 maj zaum no paub lox ? Txhob txhawj koj tsis tau laus me nyuam twb cuag zog tas lawd ! Mam tau zoo rau yav laus
Cov niag ntsej muaj muag txiv quav dev qias neeg siab phem siab dub npaum li ntawd...Cas poj niam pheej yuav Uv ua dabtsi....yus tsis hlub yus li Los cas...txawm yuav muaj nws thiab tsis muaj tus txiv lim xyiam li ntawd Los yeej tsis tsawg yus li ma lawv e...muaj tus txiv siab phem siab dub tshob cuab khib xuab qias neeg quav dev li ntawd ...yus tsis muaj nws Los yus yeej tsis Tuag li o lawv e...nrauj pov tseg ..ces yus dim yus txoj kev lwj siab xwb o...hlub hlub yus tus kheej o poj hmoob e
So... you thought your ex-husband would love you more if you didn't call the cops on him for abusing you? Wow! He already stopped loving you when he beat you and cheated on you. Your ex-husband and his friends/their wives are disgusting! Good thing you left him and his nasty lifestyle!
Exactly. "Tim pojniam txiv neej thiaj ua hluas". Hmong people blames niam loj niam yau on the man but in this day and age, no one can force women to marry a married man. Yet, Hmong women are still willing to be niam loj niam yau. Who is niam yau? She's a woman. So it's women doing it to women, not men.
Reading the comments, I thought she stuck with him at the end but I'm glad she left him. You did everything to safe your marriage by staying and did what he demanded until you can't tolerate it anymore. You did great sister!👏👏
As a good man, you must be a husband, a protector, a best friend, and a lover to your wife…! You deserve someone who will treat you with respect, love, and care for you…!
Nrauj pov tseg yuav ntxiv los tsis zoo.thov hlub koj tus kheej koj twb make $ ntau koj tsis need tus man no.zoo li peb cov no ua hauj lwm $ tsawg y yuav tos tus txiv pab them nqi tjiaj tseem uv tus txiv. Tus lady no mob tsis tau txaus ua neeg yuav tsum mob txaus y thiaj yuav nrauj tau
Well, I'm not saying that she's stupid or weak, what she did was she love him and family, let him know that how good she was to him and cia xav txog lig when she is gone. This is what I thought about her story. 😂
I personally see some women like this life style & they also act cool to the other gf too. They like this life style but also complain. act like he the last men on earth. Don’t feel bed to this kind of woman
Niag txiv dev liam npaum no es tsam no nws thib quaj lawm los mas tsis txhob quav ntsej nws lawm nws twb tau kiag li nws ntshaw lawm nev tseem quaj tug nplaig hlaav le ua dabtsi
Hmong guys, people stopped going over sea, they ain’t worth it. When you got a good life and living good, please loved your wife or husband. They just want money and destroyed your lives. When you lost a house or family ain’t worth it and when you loose your gold ring your life will be poor.
Ua cas ho tim pojniam no twb yog tim txiv neej pojniam thj ua hluas sav,nws lam dag tias nws nco koj tabsi qhov tseeb nws ntxias kom kj qaug rau nws kj rov yv nws nws mam tsim koj xb mus lm ces mus txhb tig rov lo yv nws lm,koj thj tso cai rau koj tus txiv xb os
Tus niam tsev koj ruam lo ntse na koj tseem yuav nws cem tim koj xwb koj twb paub luag tsis hlub kojnna cem koj tsim koj lo koj ntsaw ntsaw nws ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb vim txiv neej tag rau tus ko lov txiv neej siab phem phem lo tim koj xwb vim koj tsis khiav tawm
wow ib tug txiv aub dev liam npaum li no ces pojniam neeg yuav tsis tau txiv dev aub lawm od thiab cov pog tom teeb liab teeb ntsuab thiaj li ua tau lawm xwb vim yog lawv ua yuav nyiaj ne hahaha.
yog kawg kuv tus txiv dev hauj lwm tsis Ua tsuas hais poj hmoob nplog xwb mus haus npias los ces los cem yus xwb kuv mas dhuav tshaj plaus nws mus laus mas tsis xav kom los li lawm os lawv tsis yog leej twg es leej twg tsis paub os
Sister, I think you gave him enough chances to change. I am glad you finally decided to move on. I am not even sure why you went to Laos...should have just counted $1500 as a loss and not go. You would have saved yourself money, heartache, fear, and time.
This is what happens when you married a bad boy. It’s fun at first but it’s not a stable life. I dated a bad boy but glad I chose to marry my nerdy husband because we have the same goals and values. Sometimes we should listen to our parents because they went through the struggles so they don’t want us to go through the same.
Why complain when you do nothing about it? You put yourself there so if you don’t like it, you need to relive yourself from it. However, you chose not to do anything so stop comparing.
Damn! Classic example of what you permits you promotes. I suppose cheating is a NOT non-negotiable item for this lady. That was a lot of wasted time in a miserable life. I guess it has to take you to watch your husband sleep with other women and be put in a life and death situation for you to wake and walk away for good. I wouldn't suggest that this is the best plan but glad that you got out and locked that door....Hopefully forever.
This guy disrespected you for a very long time, and he thinks you will never leave him. But glad you finally came to your sense. Leave that trash in the dumpster where he belongs.
Tus niam tsev no lam tau degrees tabsis weak and dumb woman, ntse ua cas tseem nrog ib tug txiv dev zoo li tus thaub dev no nyob thiab cia nws muab ntau zoo li ib tug maum dev. Xiam tiag 2
Only you let your husband go to Laos many times without you. As for me I tell my husband that if he goes to Laos, let’s divorce first. You were too kind. Glad u let him go.
You train your dog the way you want to be treated!! He can only do what you allow him to do!! Don’t sit there n be lazy about your marriage, fight for it n leave if don’t work out. There’s always a better man somewhere. U don’t need hmoob men, it’s ok … there’s plenty other race w good hearts n richer 👍
Tus mi niam tsev, qhov tseeb tiag tsis yog tim pojniam os. Txhob muab liam liam rau pojniam mog. Peb pojniam twb raug txiv neej/Hmoob society suppressed thiab opressed los tau ntau xyoos lawm. Koj yog ib tug pojniam, yog koj tseem xav tias tim pojniam es txiv neej thiaj ua hluas ces koj poob qab deb dhau lawm os mog. Koj yuav yiam koj tus txiv npaum li cas los tsis yog peb Pojniam Hmoob li teebmeem, yog koj ib leeg li xwb. Lub title ntawm koj zaj neej neeg nov, koj yuav tau muab tis tias "Tim kuv es kuv tus txiv thiaj tham hluas nkauj" li nov xwb. Txhob muab peb pojniam coj los Ev nrog koj mog.
You have too much patience. I would have divorce him when he first went to Laos. Cheater will always cheat. Don't waste any more seconds thinking about him. Now, free yourself from him and become stronger. " what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger ". Hope you will have a happy life going forward.
Wow, 5 girls all at once... and willingly. It's every man's dream. How come I went to Laos I can't even get 1 girl. I gave them money, they take it then run off. I buy them lunch, they eat it then run off. I helped them through college, they ran off with another Hmong American😭 This guy must be tall, handsome, charismatic and of course, with lots of cash. He's a lady's man. I used to despise men like him but now, I praised them because they can do something most men can't.
Self-love is true love. I'm proud of you for being able to leave a narcissistic relationship and finally choosing yourself. Best of luck to your future.
IDF know why he would cry for her when she divorces him? Like a baby wants candy. Annoyed. This what happens when it bits back. Dprotect yourself at all times.
Lucky lady she didn’t have to pay spousal support unless she is not a RN. If she was in California she would have to pay spousal support along with child support even if her children is with her. Not sure why she tolerated her ex-husband.
Can't make the connection between the title and the story.... it doesn't make sense to me. Proud of you for finally leaving to free yourself from eternal stress and heartache. Sounded like you needed to see him be unfaithful in person for you to make the decision to leave.
Koj ua tau niam kawg nrog koj zoo siab mog ❤❤❤ mam li nrhiav dua tshiab os me viv ncaus.👍👍👍👍👍
Koj yog 1 tus niam tsev ruam tshaj plaw koj nyob rau nws tsim koj xwb kavliam koj
Tsis yog tim poj niam, tim koj xwb os. I see a lot of my sisters, aunts, cousins do everything for their husband & his family & the husband will still cheat on her. It doesn’t matter wat u do or don’t do, if he wants to cheat, he’ll cheat. U are a weak woman who couldn’t stand up for yourself & leave him after all that he did to u.
Hom txiv neej zoo li tus no yog hom awb ruam tsab ntse ne 😊😊
What a weak woman. Smh sad that her daughters have to see their mom like this.
Sometimes it takes people who are abused a very long time to get the courage to leave. You found it eventually. Find love in yourself. Every one deserves love, respect, and kindness.
A cousin's wife did the same thing she did, stay with her husband who always goes to laos. She died of covid and now her husband is living his best life with her insurance money with a new young wife. Why wait so long?!
Guilty conscience or shame of disobedience towards her parents
At last. That young chick will live happily with his money as he did with his wife money.
Tus niam tsev cov txiv dev Liam zoo lis koj tus ntawm ko Cas yuav nkim koj kuas muag dab tsis muab nws cuam khib nyawb xwb mas.
Tus mi niam tsev aw.. koj yog tug Viv ncaus txawj ntse ua tau lub siab tawv taus kuv thov qhuas koj nawb kuv ces tsis txawj ntse li koj kuv thiaj li tsis muaj peev xwm li koj es niaj hnub no mob kuv lub siab tshaj plaws tsuas yog kuv txoj tsis tu es lam nyob xwb tu siab kawg kuv ua tsis tau li koj Tam sis no ces cov niam tsev muaj peev xwm li koj muaj tsawg heev li os 😢😢
Koj ua tau kuv siab tshaj plaws li os sister awcov txiv neej no phem heev li
Koj mas tsaj li tsaj t th thov kom koj ntxib tus neeg hlub koj mog
txoj kev tus txiv nyiam mus ntuj Tim ub ces ntxov tso ntxov zoo xwb nawb koj ua yog lawm
Peb cov txiv neej hmoob ces yog koj zam ntxim rau nws ces nws yeej saib tsis tau yus li ko tiag niam hluas kavvtsij muab dov kauj vab kiag xwb mas thiaj tshav kj ntuj mog
You act like you don’t care, but you can’t leave him. You’re too weak!
He cheated cuss you allowed him to. He treated you like that cuss you allowed him too. You need to ua siab tawv n kick him out or leave him the first time he did it.
This is the best example of what victim blaming is. Hope this never happen to you because only that person knows their reasons why they stay to save their marriage until enough is enough. Who are you to say she allowed it when she clearly said it hurt her? You haven’t walked her shoes and who knows if you are walking it right now but people with no sympathy haven’t experienced this kind of hurt and are so quick to judge and blame the women.
Why did it take you so long to realize that your husband doesn't love you ? Why did you accept him to cheat on you ? Why did you let him hit you ? A man knows from the beginning how he will treat you, by your attitude, yours words. Never accept any betrayal. Keeps your expectations high and set up your boundaries. Don't let your happiness in someone else' hand !
Because her parents did not like the guy to begin with based on his father's polygamy relationships. She must've felt worthless and wanted to prove a point to her parents that he wasn't like his father. She didn't have boundaries or if she did she let them go until she reached her breaking point. Hopefully she loves herself afterwards
Peb hmoob qhov koj xa kuv $1200 kuv xa koj $1200 tsum kiag. Mus poob nyiaj tsis muaj qab hau. Nws twb yog tus txhaum. Yus tseem yuav xa nws $1200 thiab. Ruam pob. Nws yog tus txhaum nws yuav tsum kho yus. Kho yus tas mas mam li sib tham seb yuav rov qab sib yuav los yuav sib nrauj. Hais tau zoo kawg.
Ntuj os ntuj es. Tseem kho ua dab tsis nas. Ruam pob. Xa 1200 nrauj ib tus txiv Liam ces kuv yeej tsi khuv xim kuv qhov nyiaj li. Vim tias kuv tus txiv Liam yuav nyiag yus pob nyiaj ntau tshaj qhov 1200! Txiv Liam ces yuav nyiag txog $20,000 - $30,000. 1200 xwb kuv tsis tau khuv xim li.
I'm so sorry you went through cheating, abuse, scandals, betrayal, so much more. So glad you found self love and the courage to leave that loser husband. Don't look back on that monster. Best wishes to you.
I'm so happy you finally realized your worth and left that toxic relationship. Hmong Women need to stop enabling men to cheat and yuav niam yau
Uaca koj yuav ruam npaumkos nej me ntxhai koj twb yug tebchaws no e koj tseem ruam npaum kos thiab e tsos cai rau koj niag txiiv liam thiab twb yog koj coj ruamruam lis kos e nws thiaj saib tsi taus koj ntag la maj me ntxhais ruam.yus tus txiv yus yuav tsum saib khoos nws kom nruj tib yam nws khoos yus ntag ho uaca yuav ruam tiagtiag lis os.
Yog lawm os. Leej twg Tsis tau taug txoj kev no yeej Tsis paub.
Txoj kev xav yuav txiv ntxov 2 Kom tau ua me nyuam coob 2 maj zaum no paub lox ?
Txhob txhawj koj tsis tau laus me nyuam twb cuag zog tas lawd !
Mam tau zoo rau yav laus
Cov niag ntsej muaj muag txiv quav dev qias neeg siab phem siab dub npaum li ntawd...Cas poj niam pheej yuav Uv ua dabtsi....yus tsis hlub yus li Los cas...txawm yuav muaj nws thiab tsis muaj tus txiv lim xyiam li ntawd Los yeej tsis tsawg yus li ma lawv e...muaj tus txiv siab phem siab dub tshob cuab khib xuab qias neeg quav dev li ntawd ...yus tsis muaj nws Los yus yeej tsis Tuag li o lawv e...nrauj pov tseg ..ces yus dim yus txoj kev lwj siab xwb o...hlub hlub yus tus kheej o poj hmoob e
So... you thought your ex-husband would love you more if you didn't call the cops on him for abusing you? Wow! He already stopped loving you when he beat you and cheated on you. Your ex-husband and his friends/their wives are disgusting! Good thing you left him and his nasty lifestyle!
Came back to listen and beyond happy for her!! 👏🏻
She left him at the end. Her message is that women allow men to walk on them and to not do that.
He must have a diamond 🪱 😂😂😂
@@panghouavang4077 Thank goodness! Great message moral then 👏🏻👏🏻
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Exactly. "Tim pojniam txiv neej thiaj ua hluas". Hmong people blames niam loj niam yau on the man but in this day and age, no one can force women to marry a married man. Yet, Hmong women are still willing to be niam loj niam yau. Who is niam yau? She's a woman. So it's women doing it to women, not men.
sister aw zoo siab tias koj tawm tau mu ntawm lub neej phem2 lo ko os
Ua poj niam nyob, hlub yus tus keej ces yus lub neeg zoo xwb
Poj niam hmoob need hnub txog hnub siav yaj ntshawv ntshis mam hais tias ua tau ib siab.
Just speechless about poj hmoob’s brain
Tus ntxhais aws koj ua yog lawm thiab koj hais yog mom.
You control your happiness. Do something about it and STOP complaining.
Reading the comments, I thought she stuck with him at the end but I'm glad she left him. You did everything to safe your marriage by staying and did what he demanded until you can't tolerate it anymore. You did great sister!👏👏
As a good man, you must be a husband, a protector, a best friend, and a lover to your wife…!
You deserve someone who will treat you with respect, love, and care for you…!
Nrauj pov tseg yuav ntxiv los tsis zoo.thov hlub koj tus kheej koj twb make $ ntau koj tsis need tus man no.zoo li peb cov no ua hauj lwm $ tsawg y yuav tos tus txiv pab them nqi tjiaj tseem uv tus txiv.
Tus lady no mob tsis tau txaus ua neeg yuav tsum mob txaus y thiaj yuav nrauj tau
Well, I'm not saying that she's stupid or weak, what she did was she love him and family, let him know that how good she was to him and cia xav txog lig when she is gone. This is what I thought about her story. 😂
About time hmoob women finally stand up to these txiv dev. Lol
Tus txiv phem ces pub los yeej mus tsis pub los yeej mus li os
Smh. Just say you are weak and see no value in yourself
This lady is just crazy weak. Txiv neej tag lawm los ua cas na.
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Koj ruam dhau pheej yuav nyob tiv qws tiv kev lwj siab txaus mam nrauj! Vim koj tsis hlub koj xwb!
I personally see some women like this life style & they also act cool to the other gf too. They like this life style but also complain. act like he the last men on earth. Don’t feel bed to this kind of woman
Niag txiv dev liam npaum no es tsam no nws thib quaj lawm los mas tsis txhob quav ntsej nws lawm nws twb tau kiag li nws ntshaw lawm nev tseem quaj tug nplaig hlaav le ua dabtsi
Hmong guys, people stopped going over sea, they ain’t worth it. When you got a good life and living good, please loved your wife or husband. They just want money and destroyed your lives. When you lost a house or family ain’t worth it and when you loose your gold ring your life will be poor.
Hmmmm
Good for you daughter you do good job I proud of you 👍
Yog koj tu siab ces koj yeej ua tau niam lawm los mas
Ua cas ho tim pojniam no twb yog tim txiv neej pojniam thj ua hluas sav,nws lam dag tias nws nco koj tabsi qhov tseeb nws ntxias kom kj qaug rau nws kj rov yv nws nws mam tsim koj xb mus lm ces mus txhb tig rov lo yv nws lm,koj thj tso cai rau koj tus txiv xb os
Tus niam tsev koj ruam lo ntse na koj tseem yuav nws cem tim koj xwb koj twb paub luag tsis hlub kojnna cem koj tsim koj lo koj ntsaw ntsaw nws ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb vim txiv neej tag rau tus ko lov txiv neej siab phem phem lo tim koj xwb vim koj tsis khiav tawm
Good for you. I am so glad you left that lowlife man. Let him cry like a dog. Love yourself. Your life is done.
Kuv tuaj saib koj mloog koj hais 😂😂
No pity for you lady! You allowed it to happen.
You're complaining yet you refuse to take any actions. He's like that because you condoned and allowed him to.
Quaj rau nyiaj xwb os. Ntawm koj es koj twb hais tsis tau koj tus txiv xwb nev. Raws li mloog koj wb tsis tso sav. Vim hais tsis tau lawm ne
wow ib tug txiv aub dev liam npaum li no ces pojniam neeg yuav tsis tau txiv dev aub lawm od thiab cov pog tom teeb liab teeb ntsuab thiaj li ua tau lawm xwb vim yog lawv ua yuav nyiaj ne hahaha.
yog kawg kuv tus txiv dev hauj lwm tsis Ua tsuas hais poj hmoob nplog xwb mus haus npias los ces los cem yus xwb kuv mas dhuav tshaj plaus nws mus laus mas tsis xav kom los li lawm os lawv tsis yog leej twg es leej twg tsis paub os
Kawm tiav bachelor Los ruam ua luaj li ko
I believe you enjoying this kind of life style. Because if you don't, you leave a long time ago. I have no remorse for you woman.
Lam kawm ntawv siab xwb lub hlwb tseem ruam thiab qauj heev.
Yeah, agree with these people comments you just can't see to leave him after he went over sea 2 times so stop complaining about it.......
thov txhob pub lusg ntaus yus os mog. goodbye xwb yog yus tus txiv losis pojniam ntaus yus.
Hmong woman just don't know when to let go and move on...
Love the revenge, but I don't really understand the title of the story.
Vim neb tseem yog tsiaj xwb
Sister, I think you gave him enough chances to change. I am glad you finally decided to move on. I am not even sure why you went to Laos...should have just counted $1500 as a loss and not go. You would have saved yourself money, heartache, fear, and time.
Koj zoo li ib tug Maum dev xwb es koj thiaj li raug tsim tag tsim thiab ne.
You deserves more loves and comforts.
Yes you allowed your ex dev liam to cheat, beat and everything in between! Took you long enough to trashed & shredded your ex dev liam out.
This is what happens when you married a bad boy. It’s fun at first but it’s not a stable life. I dated a bad boy but glad I chose to marry my nerdy husband because we have the same goals and values. Sometimes we should listen to our parents because they went through the struggles so they don’t want us to go through the same.
Why complain when you do nothing about it? You put yourself there so if you don’t like it, you need to relive yourself from it. However, you chose not to do anything so stop comparing.
I agree with all comments here
Damn! Classic example of what you permits you promotes. I suppose cheating is a NOT non-negotiable item for this lady. That was a lot of wasted time in a miserable life. I guess it has to take you to watch your husband sleep with other women and be put in a life and death situation for you to wake and walk away for good. I wouldn't suggest that this is the best plan but glad that you got out and locked that door....Hopefully forever.
Love is blind. So proud of you standing up for yourself and not fall into the traps of those overseas and finally let go of your ex husband.
The dog can only go as far as the leash allowed. You are correct to see that it is your fault.
Should have listened to your parents. May not always be true but statistically bad blood the apple usually don't fall far from the tree.
There goes your bank roll. Lol
Tus txiv neej no cuab thaj haib tab sis tsis yog haib...Yog Ruam tshaj ruam lawm xwb os 😮😮😮
This guy disrespected you for a very long time, and he thinks you will never leave him. But glad you finally came to your sense. Leave that trash in the dumpster where he belongs.
Koj twb paub tias koj niag txiv liam li kom ua cas koj tseem caum nws mus nplog thiab os. Nrog cov neeg liam li no ces kawg poob plig tuag xwb los as.
Tus niam tsev no lam tau degrees tabsis weak and dumb woman, ntse ua cas tseem nrog ib tug txiv dev zoo li tus thaub dev no nyob thiab cia nws muab ntau zoo li ib tug maum dev. Xiam tiag 2
Only you let your husband go to Laos many times without you. As for me I tell my husband that if he goes to Laos, let’s divorce first. You were too kind. Glad u let him go.
She made her self look good i believe she not she just waiting for the right place and time only 😢😢😢 she hide and lie not all but some
You train your dog the way you want to be treated!! He can only do what you allow him to do!! Don’t sit there n be lazy about your marriage, fight for it n leave if don’t work out. There’s always a better man somewhere. U don’t need hmoob men, it’s ok … there’s plenty other race w good hearts n richer 👍
Wow reading the comments is more important than wasting my time listening to the story now, the comments just says it all 😂
Agreed with you. My blood was boiling, so much patience and tolerance with her husband’s shitty treatments.
Tsis yog pej yog koj okay. Thank goodness you kept him dumb.
Tus mi niam tsev, qhov tseeb tiag tsis yog tim pojniam os. Txhob muab liam liam rau pojniam mog. Peb pojniam twb raug txiv neej/Hmoob society suppressed thiab opressed los tau ntau xyoos lawm. Koj yog ib tug pojniam, yog koj tseem xav tias tim pojniam es txiv neej thiaj ua hluas ces koj poob qab deb dhau lawm os mog. Koj yuav yiam koj tus txiv npaum li cas los tsis yog peb Pojniam Hmoob li teebmeem, yog koj ib leeg li xwb. Lub title ntawm koj zaj neej neeg nov, koj yuav tau muab tis tias "Tim kuv es kuv tus txiv thiaj tham hluas nkauj" li nov xwb. Txhob muab peb pojniam coj los Ev nrog koj mog.
You have too much patience. I would have divorce him when he first went to Laos. Cheater will always cheat. Don't waste any more seconds thinking about him. Now, free yourself from him and become stronger. " what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger ". Hope you will have a happy life going forward.
Wow, 5 girls all at once... and willingly. It's every man's dream. How come I went to Laos I can't even get 1 girl. I gave them money, they take it then run off. I buy them lunch, they eat it then run off. I helped them through college, they ran off with another Hmong American😭 This guy must be tall, handsome, charismatic and of course, with lots of cash. He's a lady's man. I used to despise men like him but now, I praised them because they can do something most men can't.
😂 nah, he just has charm, which is his fist. Some women like rough men.
Damn.. he must be a really good guy since u want to stay. Find someone better.
Self-love is true love. I'm proud of you for being able to leave a narcissistic relationship and finally choosing yourself. Best of luck to your future.
I just wanted to ask, did the guy in Laos that helped her? Ever reconnect ?
Yes you let it happen to YOU! But not every women is like YOU. Other women know better to not let their husband go so free free.
IDF know why he would cry for her when she divorces him? Like a baby wants candy. Annoyed. This what happens when it bits back. Dprotect yourself at all times.
Lucky lady she didn’t have to pay spousal support unless she is not a RN. If she was in California she would have to pay spousal support along with child support even if her children is with her. Not sure why she tolerated her ex-husband.
Can't make the connection between the title and the story.... it doesn't make sense to me. Proud of you for finally leaving to free yourself from eternal stress and heartache. Sounded like you needed to see him be unfaithful in person for you to make the decision to leave.
Cas tus poj niam dab tsi yuav ruam ua luaj siab zoo dhau
Hmoob os hmoob aw !!!! Lub coj mus pov tseg tim nploos teb cas yuav ruam ua luaj!! Cov hmoob ruam.
Wow are most of our hmong brothers this horrible? My brothers are not this way I'm glad I'm married to a different race. It's so sad
I can NOT believe they dared do the kissing circle. What a bunch of dogs, including the wife that participated. And he thinks he'll get away with it?
Good job girl
Tus niam koj ruam lo ntse na yuav tiv qws na
Koj muaj txoj hmoo koj rhiaj tsis tuAG os me muam aw Cas yuav ruam ua luaj