Prostitute interview-Bonafide (follow up)

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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
  • Soft White Underbelly follow up interview and portrait of Bonafide, a prostitute from South Central Los Angeles.
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Комментарии • 649

  • @SoftWhiteUnderbelly
    @SoftWhiteUnderbelly  3 года назад +223

    LaSonya Gaston AKA “Bonafide” passed away after an automobile accident on the morning of Sunday, March 14, 2021. Bonafide was loved and respected throughout the community and her tragic passing will be felt by many. Her family has created a GoFundMe campaign to help pay for her funeral and burial. gofund.me/4610ca54

    • @iphone3gsdivine
      @iphone3gsdivine 3 года назад +13

      🖤🖤🖤Rip Bonafide 🖤🖤🖤

    • @gastonquinn
      @gastonquinn 3 года назад +21

      @@iphone3gsdivine Thank you she is my sister. We have set up a go fund me for her if anyone can help as.well as cash app.and venmo god bless

    • @Helloslimkitty_
      @Helloslimkitty_ 3 года назад +5

      Nooo

    • @gastonquinn
      @gastonquinn 3 года назад +9

      @@Helloslimkitty_ unfortunately yes. Prayers are needed

    • @majawolfe3241
      @majawolfe3241 3 года назад +11

      @@gastonquinn i am so sorry for your loss.

  • @brianak4433
    @brianak4433 3 года назад +192

    “Anything after BUT is bullshit 99% of the time” truest shit I ever heard

  • @gloriavalentine3849
    @gloriavalentine3849 3 года назад +143

    Rest in peace girl, the struggle is over.

  • @okrantomatoes
    @okrantomatoes 3 года назад +146

    Hope her daughter gets out the game. So young. Thank you Mark for allowing all to tell their story.

  • @viralbuthow000
    @viralbuthow000 3 года назад +99

    “Your addiction is gonna be something. Even if it’s about makin the next mothafucca feel good because u don’t know who you is yet.” Says a lot.

  • @k_xxo
    @k_xxo 3 года назад +241

    It looks like everytime she’s about to break down she smiles 😕. I hope she finds her way out ASAP. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @evantochydlowski4787
    @evantochydlowski4787 3 года назад +24

    Honestly there is something so HEALING about these videos. Every time I listen to one I feel a greater sense of understanding and empathy than I did before.
    I think that we all have that judgemental and critical part of our minds that loves to label and condemn people. Watching these videos and listening to these stories has been helping me to let go of that judgmental part of myself and seek instead to understand.
    Thank you Mark for your work.

  • @joanbeavers9137
    @joanbeavers9137 3 года назад +49

    Thank you Mark for this follow up. You can definitely tell she is so hurt and angry, especially with finding her daughter. I truly hope she gets them both out of that life.

  • @k_xxo
    @k_xxo 3 года назад +231

    I have the worst feeling that if she doesn’t get out pretty quick, we won’t see another update of her. 🙁💔💔

  • @nobuhleee
    @nobuhleee 3 года назад +115

    this is one of my favorite yt channels i’m obsessed

  • @erichodge567
    @erichodge567 3 года назад +176

    Poor parenting is the gift that keeps on giving.

    • @OnjelieMarie
      @OnjelieMarie 3 года назад +4

      Yup

    • @jaggirl
      @jaggirl 3 года назад +6

      It sure does.
      For generations to come..
      Sad..

    • @hottrodd4532
      @hottrodd4532 3 года назад

      It's a mentality! 🧠

    • @sarahdixon6011
      @sarahdixon6011 3 года назад +1

      Round and round and round it goes.......

    • @lauramichelle5256
      @lauramichelle5256 3 года назад

      Yup!!!, just a never ending cycle.

  • @kidcut3y456
    @kidcut3y456 3 года назад +54

    “Im not getting whiplash looking over my shoulders”
    - Bonafide

  • @zackcraft7204
    @zackcraft7204 3 года назад +84

    "That 211 Steel Reserve so I can stay on the curb" - Bonafide

    • @langusarila
      @langusarila 3 года назад +20

      "Happy hoes make dough" - Bonafide

    • @theseklownskrazyasfuq344
      @theseklownskrazyasfuq344 3 года назад +3

      @@langusarila, Yeah they do 😂.

    • @Mark_Chandler
      @Mark_Chandler 3 года назад +10

      Steel Reserve is a low-quality, low-prestige, low-dignity malt beverage. Purchasing Steel Reserve is often an act of desperation by would-be drinkers in times of economic hardship. Aside from drinking cleaning solvents, Steel Reserve is perhaps the cheapest possible way to exit this reality.

    • @jaifyre702
      @jaifyre702 3 года назад +3

      @@Mark_Chandler and I use to mix that shit with gin. Thank God I'm still alive!

    • @tammybigby8467
      @tammybigby8467 3 года назад

      Yes, She for real Bonafide... ❤❤❤

  • @adreaddtingdisz
    @adreaddtingdisz 3 года назад +26

    During a tense time, we had a difference in opinion over some things but over time I realized what you’re trying to do and what you meant. I really enjoy your content, it’s so addicting and I learn a lot from every video I watch. Thank you for giving a voice to those we tend to overlook. I also love the portraits of the interviewees and the fact that you give us updates over time

  • @angelaf6319
    @angelaf6319 3 года назад +198

    Mark, can you ask the prostitutes questions about actual daily operations? that's what I'm curious about. Like, how do they interact with other hoes?- do they live together? What if they're sick or have a period or UTI?-do they rest? If they have a pimp, are they allowed to see their friends, allowed to eat, take breaks? When do they sleep?
    How do they clean up between clients? Stuff like that. Love the channel!

    • @angierose969
      @angierose969 3 года назад +18

      Yesss all that!! I wonder about that type of stuff when listening to these stories too

    • @jaifyre702
      @jaifyre702 3 года назад +25

      You don't interact with other hoes if they not your wifey, depends on the structure if they live together or not. Sometimes they do sometimes they don't. They still work sick, uti and period. Yes they rest and some have certain times they go out and trap. Pimps don't let you see family and friends business first period. Ain't no fun time ain't no game time nothing like that. It's pure sex all day from the time you wake up until the time you go to sleep. They clean up by using wipes or taking a shower if they got a room. Just to game y'all up.

    • @cherishamoura9233
      @cherishamoura9233 3 года назад +14

      @@jaifyre702 I think with different pimps there are different scenarios.I know hoes who are heavily involved with there family outside of the life.

    • @heidiho5179
      @heidiho5179 3 года назад +3

      @@jaifyre702 💯

    • @heidiho5179
      @heidiho5179 3 года назад +1

      @@cherishamoura9233 Also true

  • @mzfancy4767
    @mzfancy4767 3 года назад +43

    Morning Mark and my SWU family...Say what u may but Bonafide is a solid one. 💯 She is giving alot of real knowledge on the game. I'm sending positive vibes for her and her babygirl.

    • @thematriarchy2075
      @thematriarchy2075 3 года назад +2

      Morning Mz Fancy! I wish you a beautiful day, today 😘🦋

    • @mzfancy4767
      @mzfancy4767 3 года назад +2

      @@thematriarchy2075 Morning my luv. U have a pleasant day as well. The snow has engulfed Chicago. Brrr!!! 😊

    • @marylougeorge9890
      @marylougeorge9890 3 года назад +2

      Good afternoon!😊

    • @marylougeorge9890
      @marylougeorge9890 3 года назад +2

      @@thematriarchy2075 Good afternoon!😘

    • @thematriarchy2075
      @thematriarchy2075 3 года назад +1

      @@marylougeorge9890 Good evening here, already. Hi Mary Lou! Good afternoon 😘

  • @ninapearman
    @ninapearman 3 года назад +92

    Just as Bonafide’s joyous smile brings me hope, her personal accounts leave me grief stricken. 🧡

    • @hottrodd4532
      @hottrodd4532 3 года назад +1

      You're on to something there! You should make some cards saying that! 🤔👍🏽

  • @jewelsofalady
    @jewelsofalady 3 года назад +114

    “I don’t know what he was suffering from, probably coronavirus” 😂

  • @dindaroelovesyou
    @dindaroelovesyou 3 года назад +35

    This woman need to be a lyricist the way she be rhyming ☺️❤️

    • @lalaanthony2802
      @lalaanthony2802 3 года назад +4

      That’s how u know she been around some REAL pimps

  • @Heidi.M
    @Heidi.M 3 года назад +8

    The photos themselves are stunning and leave all of us wanting more.....and Mark provides this as well through some amazing stories. This channel is where I come every evening, hoping to see a new video. I often get so absorbed in these peoples lives and wish they could be helped. The best way I can help, and thank Mark, is to make a donation to his gofundme account.

  • @likearitual
    @likearitual 3 года назад +11

    Bonafide is probably the most hilarious prostitute name I've ever heard 😂😂😂😂

  • @alasabethea3034
    @alasabethea3034 3 года назад +45

    Mark you’re really the best for wanting to hear the stories of individuals that society often picks over and looks down upon

  • @joannemates6367
    @joannemates6367 3 года назад +40

    “It’s a dangerous game!” You bet it is. It’s a fast track to an early grave!!

  • @lisae1571
    @lisae1571 3 года назад +16

    She's too pretty, too sweet and too valuable as a person for this life.

  • @Morealz
    @Morealz 3 года назад +81

    She should really have her thyroid checked ASAP! Her neck is bulging

    • @Atlancticocean12
      @Atlancticocean12 3 года назад +3

      Yes this is what I was saying to myself aswrll morealz

    • @SagittariusChic888
      @SagittariusChic888 3 года назад +4

      Looks like she has a huge goiter..

    • @catebartley9865
      @catebartley9865 3 года назад

      What is it??

    • @sduyck1327
      @sduyck1327 3 года назад +4

      Considering everything, that is probably the least of her concerns.

    • @Leorgo
      @Leorgo 3 года назад

      @@sduyck1327 her neck is her asset.. that is a major problem if she can't give neck

  • @ladyredconstance
    @ladyredconstance 3 года назад +37

    Men need to get their own money..it's some sorry men in the world.

  • @litespeedway6538
    @litespeedway6538 3 года назад +20

    This woman is battle scarred and so deeply entrenched in this life; her 16 yo daughter, her mother, grandmother…. What a abject legacy, I'm going to watch her other talk and wish for an epiphany for her. And I'm also over strawberries, I wasn't ready for that either.

    • @AliciaM5555
      @AliciaM5555 3 года назад

      Yup old LA saying but times is tough and that's what happens. Many women become Strawberries.

  • @francii6803
    @francii6803 3 года назад +8

    Mark, your videos are no less than Brilliant!!
    Thank you for showing all these people respect and caring.
    Bonafide, the reality of your interview and the truth you share with us speak volumes.
    Thank you for allowing us into your world and the reality of it all. Stay safe. I'm praying for you and your Daughter.

  • @gee9351
    @gee9351 3 года назад +15

    Man I love Bonafide! She so honest & real. I pray she gets off these streets 🙏🏾

  • @nurseanastasialiberty
    @nurseanastasialiberty 3 года назад +36

    Thank you for sharing and for doing a follow-up with Bonafide. I always find it fascinating how the portraits tell the story before we get the chance to listen to the person speak. I thought this one was interesting to watch and I always learn something new every day. Hope others can too. Also, thank you for all the hard work and effort you put into these portraits and videos.

  • @dmarr8816
    @dmarr8816 3 года назад +19

    I watched her first interview, now this one...she sounds different. I am really hoping and praying for her. She has a good soul but needs to get help for her addiction and intense therapy for her past :-(

  • @wildwaymonee8o8
    @wildwaymonee8o8 3 года назад +25

    u can't get last nite back baby.. come on in to today... thank u Bonafide... 👏🏾

  • @notreallyraw8403
    @notreallyraw8403 3 года назад +15

    These interviews are so eye opening! Thank you for your intentionality in showing us other peoples worlds

  • @amberwkly3747
    @amberwkly3747 3 года назад +9

    Thanks for giving these people a place to voice their problems. Normally when someone asks you how you're doing, in passing, you say "good".even when you're not. Here, they can actually say how they're really doing. Thanks Mark.

    • @marylougeorge9890
      @marylougeorge9890 3 года назад +2

      And you know they probably don't have anyone who would take to listen if they asked them.

  • @poetry.in.motion...
    @poetry.in.motion... 3 года назад +9

    " I'm not going to take from anybody--- I don't have time to get WHIPLASH from looking over my shoulder..." 💕⚘💕 REST IN PEACE, LaSonya...⚘

  • @venusearth6682
    @venusearth6682 3 года назад +43

    Bonafide is a real one 💯🙌🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽 stay safe‼️

  • @iamdervy8789
    @iamdervy8789 3 года назад +38

    Why are we as black men so harsh towards our own women? smh. I am from the caribbean but y`all african american dudes be tripping smfh.

    • @knottsmarilyn
      @knottsmarilyn 3 года назад +16

      Very true... extremely harsh, impatient and angry toward black women....very sad.

    • @workkdahustla
      @workkdahustla 3 года назад +5

      If you are not AA why speak on them...you would cry and bitch if a white man said that about you smh

    • @austinrichards1740
      @austinrichards1740 3 года назад +1

      True

    • @LeslieMBates
      @LeslieMBates 3 года назад +4

      Residuals of slavery. Our men couldn't protect us from the abuse of the White men and women, therefore helpless and shame set in. The demascalination of AA men has some much deep deep trauma connected to it its almost paralyzed our progression as a people.
      I hope and pray that no SISTA sells her body to an AA man out there EVER!

    • @LeslieMBates
      @LeslieMBates 3 года назад +1

      Yes! They are B R U T A L towards their own women. My dad was, his dad was... it was devastating. However, the curse has been broken. My husband and both brother in-laws are good men. Good fathers, good provider and GOD Fearing. Its that mentality of abuse that crushes us as a ppl.

  • @mimihawaiikrpr4420
    @mimihawaiikrpr4420 3 года назад +27

    The sooner go to the hospital, the better it will be. I hope you can help her(thyroid)!!!

  • @user-in7cx5lz9c
    @user-in7cx5lz9c 3 года назад +13

    She seems to have so much less hope now. She has been through so much. Needs to get her neck checked and some lab work done, medical care needed. Praying for this lady.

  • @mimihawaiikrpr4420
    @mimihawaiikrpr4420 3 года назад +31

    Hey Mark!!! she should go to the hospital and have her test on the thyroid and please!!! see the doctor

    • @knottsmarilyn
      @knottsmarilyn 3 года назад +9

      I agree; her condition can be life-threatening. I am afraid for her. I am not a doctor but have first hand experience with a thyroid condition it can be deadly if not treated.

    • @knottsmarilyn
      @knottsmarilyn 3 года назад +7

      Depending on whether or not she is hyo/hyperthyroidism she can have a psychotic break. Her TSH levels need to be tested. I hope Mark reads this. Yes mental stress and anxiety/depression off the charts if thyroid is not functioning properly.

    • @shellcshells2902
      @shellcshells2902 3 года назад +5

      I see a very large goiter. I have a medical background.
      Yes, she needs to see a doctor asap!

    • @heidiho5179
      @heidiho5179 3 года назад +1

      @Russell Elliot You can see she’s overwrought. Even more so than just from the life. I hope she gets that checked. 🤞

  • @YAHSWarrior7777
    @YAHSWarrior7777 3 года назад +34

    The greatest lie the devil ever told was to convince people that it doesn’t exist. Please wake up beautiful people. This is no life for anyone. I pray the blood of YAHUSHUA covers all of these beautiful people. 🙏🏾

    • @jaifyre702
      @jaifyre702 3 года назад +4

      Tell it sis. Repent and follow the Most High. This lifestyle is deadly.

  • @joannekerr3
    @joannekerr3 3 года назад +16

    Bonafide, I'm sorry that you've had to endure those bad experiences. No one deserves to be assaulted no matter what. Sending you my love and encouragement 💕

    • @heidiho5179
      @heidiho5179 3 года назад +2

      That’s right. ❤️

  • @TheSWolfe
    @TheSWolfe Год назад +3

    Aw, man, I didn't know - until after seeing this - then I went back and watched her first interview. The brutal traumas, struggles & indignities many women - & yes, others as well, but today I speak for the Ladies - repeatedly endure throughout their lives, while still being able to smile, speak frankly about it, hold their heads high & represent, is hard to fathom & nothing short of amazing! Goldhearted Ms. Gaston - the honest & lovely - you have got to be in Heaven if such a place exists, for you more than did your time (and then some) in Hell while here on Earth. Rest in Peace Eternal...and Blessed Be.

  • @rosamoreno4794
    @rosamoreno4794 3 года назад +36

    Since she last spoke to Mark it’s been difficult because God has been working in her. Be silent so you can hear him. Let Him work.

    • @MH-ds8cb
      @MH-ds8cb 3 года назад +4

      Amen 🙌🏻

    • @blanketwilliams9178
      @blanketwilliams9178 3 года назад +1

      Girl, you said a word for all of us🙏

    • @NANDA-JONES
      @NANDA-JONES 3 года назад +1

      Thank you I was just thinking that ... Papa please save her soul in Jesus name amen 🙏

    • @dorothyholder9229
      @dorothyholder9229 3 года назад

      YES !

  • @chelseyrader
    @chelseyrader 3 года назад +4

    I keep learning Everyday BC of these videos.
    These are life-changing on both ends.
    Thank You People Who Are Honest & Speak Their Truth.
    Thank You Mark. For your perseverance, $$, and Non Judgement💜❤️🧡

  • @annehamshawthomas7770
    @annehamshawthomas7770 3 года назад +52

    Compared to her first interview, her goitre has got a lot worse. She needs to see a specialist and soon.

    • @finolaomurchu8217
      @finolaomurchu8217 3 года назад +7

      Yes, the neck area. God love her, and she is so good humoured.

    • @jaifyre702
      @jaifyre702 3 года назад +5

      Yes! I'm thinking she's hypothyroidism. Her having a heart attack makes me think hyper. However because the goiter is there she definitely needs to have her tsh levels checked and have an ultra sound done on it. It's strangling her throat. I suffer from Graves so I'm very familiar with this shit.

    • @amandacrouch6766
      @amandacrouch6766 3 года назад +3

      Thank god someone else noticed..I was going to mention it..

    • @sweetnessford---notmypic2756
      @sweetnessford---notmypic2756 3 года назад +3

      I kept looking at it... it's way more noticeable

    • @ashakidoredr.latinamerican1082
      @ashakidoredr.latinamerican1082 3 года назад +2

      @@jaifyre702 I'm thinking hyperthyroidism. Bulging eyes, sweating, the suffered a heart attack which means she was borderline tachycardia for a while, voice change, goiter and bright personality is more like she's jittery, I'll expect her to also suffer from insomnia which she may use to her advantage to work long hours. I was hyperthyroid for 19yrs. I had a total thyroidectomy and I'm now hypothyroid 4 yrs.

  • @yvettegriffin342
    @yvettegriffin342 2 года назад +3

    If you're from the "hood" or " grew up knowing the hood" this interview is free game & bonafide is comical. Sweet soul

  • @arthursmith5409
    @arthursmith5409 3 года назад +24

    The game never changes, it only gets worse. People in those environments have always been bad, they just get more liberated with the police turning a blind eye.

  • @PHOENIX966
    @PHOENIX966 3 года назад +7

    THIS WOMAN SEEMS SO SWEET TO ME...STAY BLESSED BEAUTIFUL YOU'RE IN MY PRAYERS💜

  • @cloudyvibez8063
    @cloudyvibez8063 3 года назад +18

    Bonafide made a new word “Altercated”

    • @quawilliams8143
      @quawilliams8143 3 года назад +2

      African American? You sound DUMB ASF . Like white ppl don’t use some words incorrectly! Whew RACISM IS REAL!

  • @godschosenone3952
    @godschosenone3952 Год назад +2

    When things get uncomfortable God is calling you to change. And He will guide you.

  • @marciabernard3820
    @marciabernard3820 3 года назад +11

    Her daughter is 4th GN.. grandma. Had HIV, MOM HAVE HIV, Bad Blessing on family's. WOW PRAY

  • @lekieviasimons2769
    @lekieviasimons2769 3 года назад +3

    Bonofide R.I.P MY BEST FRIEND. SHE RECENTLY PASSED AWAY IN A CAR ACCIDENT.

  • @nikkimcmurtrey8931
    @nikkimcmurtrey8931 3 года назад +18

    It continues to amaze me how strong these women are, and most of them are pretty damn smart street smart and book smart,it's to bad they can't work in safer environment,why is it even against the law if women are of age

    • @dlesliejones
      @dlesliejones 3 года назад +3

      Because we're a bunch of Puritans. The driving force of our "morality" arrived on the Mayflower, and has changed little since. Inhumanity wrapped in piety.

  • @Kait-333
    @Kait-333 3 года назад +8

    Love your channel! May god bless you & everyone participating in these videos!

  • @suefontaine5227
    @suefontaine5227 3 года назад +9

    she is so real. Tell it like it is. She is wayyy too smart to be in the game. I hope she gets out. It is NEVER too late.

    • @heidiho5179
      @heidiho5179 3 года назад +1

      You have to be smart TO be in the game, and survive. You won’t see that many dummies out there too long.

  • @finolaomurchu8217
    @finolaomurchu8217 3 года назад +8

    That's an awful thing to happen at the traintracks, being threatened with taser, and gangs at her. Give this woman a bit of peace 🧚‍♂️

  • @marylougeorge9890
    @marylougeorge9890 3 года назад +7

    Heartbreaking sadness in her eyes from the depths of her soul.💔

  • @mimihawaiikrpr4420
    @mimihawaiikrpr4420 3 года назад +22

    Mark!!! Please let her know she need to go now 👩‍⚕️👨‍⚕️and check it out for the thyroid🤔!!!

  • @OnjelieMarie
    @OnjelieMarie 3 года назад +5

    The first story was horrible ugh she’s so beautiful , I wish her the best of luck out there

  • @yup_im_tiff
    @yup_im_tiff 3 года назад +3

    It’s heartbreaking she couldn’t make it out.

  • @aliciac7053
    @aliciac7053 9 месяцев назад +1

    This was filmed in February 2021 and she died the following month. So damn sad.

  • @operavalo
    @operavalo 3 года назад +23

    It seems to me like she has tyroid problems, hope she went to doctor or is on meds already.

    • @jessica96
      @jessica96 3 года назад +2

      how can you tell? genuinely curious.

    • @averydavis1943
      @averydavis1943 3 года назад +2

      @@jessica96 Same. I'm curious too. Does something about her appearance give it away?

    • @sasha48189
      @sasha48189 3 года назад

      How old she is

    • @knottsmarilyn
      @knottsmarilyn 3 года назад +6

      Yeah seems she has a goiter and her eyes appear kinda bulging.

    • @operavalo
      @operavalo 3 года назад +6

      You can see her tyroid (butterfly shape clearly on her neck) when she speaks.
      Hope its not dangerous. Untreated tyroid can really mess up your body.

  • @jazzy-hq8er
    @jazzy-hq8er 3 года назад +2

    She pass away and now her daughter is chasing that life. The devil is busy I hope she’s at peace.

  • @danimarin6898
    @danimarin6898 3 года назад +8

    Keep that smile girl and never let anyone get one up on you.

  • @djblondi138
    @djblondi138 3 года назад +12

    omg their has to be a better way ...such a horrible life...feel sad for her daughter....following in her moms foot steps 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @KimbradleyMasterGardener
    @KimbradleyMasterGardener 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for bringing her back!
    Keep your head up Lady ❤️💪🙏

  • @iamdervy8789
    @iamdervy8789 3 года назад +16

    In my country(Jamaica), we got hookers here and even though its illegal but not enforced, our chicks don`t go through nothing compare to some of these chicks in first world countries. Damn, my heart goes out to them nonetheless.

    • @robertarnold9676
      @robertarnold9676 3 года назад +4

      You dont know what everyone go through in Jamaica.

    • @iamdervy8789
      @iamdervy8789 3 года назад

      @@robertarnold9676 I know dumbass

    • @thematriarchy2075
      @thematriarchy2075 3 года назад +4

      In Jamaica the tricks fck with integrity, is that what you're saying?

    • @iamdervy8789
      @iamdervy8789 3 года назад +3

      @@thematriarchy2075 we ain`t hurting them like the american dudes would do

    • @TheBootesStar
      @TheBootesStar 4 месяца назад

      These black American males are straight DEMONS.

  • @vikkicarr3255
    @vikkicarr3255 3 года назад +33

    This is the perfect picture of a toxic mother! Life is hard for everybody. A regular job would have been so much easier🤷🏿‍♀️

    • @dreadrocka87
      @dreadrocka87 3 года назад +16

      Yall got to stop being so judgemental. Most of these people come from some kind of physical, mental or emotional abuse. How can you just go get a regular job when you never seen it done before

    • @canza4663
      @canza4663 3 года назад +5

      @@dreadrocka87 Right!

    • @heidiho5179
      @heidiho5179 3 года назад +2

      Easier for whom?

    • @sinceregaston4258
      @sinceregaston4258 2 года назад

      Well life was harder for her then most she was my sister and she been through things most would have died from Rip sister

  • @noelleadams2526
    @noelleadams2526 3 года назад +3

    Perfect name for her. She is so beautiful and full of wisdom and knowledge about life! Her raw and real approach is amazing. I really wish her the best! She has a lot to offer women in the struggle, she just doesn't know it. I hope her and her family somehow, someway, someday are able to begin healing. Rooting for your success Bonafied, all the way from The Motor City! Stay up girl!

  • @leronicasolomon7711
    @leronicasolomon7711 3 года назад +3

    I'm praying she finds her way out. She looks so tired and stress!!! Can definitely see a difference in her look from her earlier videos!!! Lawd I'm Praying for her 🙏🙏

  • @RobertoTheGreat
    @RobertoTheGreat 3 года назад +7

    She's a beautiful woman, hope she's okay & gets on the right path

  • @sweetcocoa
    @sweetcocoa Год назад +1

    These videos have taught me to not judge a book by it's cover.

  • @gravelgirls
    @gravelgirls 3 года назад +4

    No one should have to go through Life like this...

  • @Mark_Chandler
    @Mark_Chandler 3 года назад +7

    thanks Bonafide for being honest and real, stay safe

  • @gastonquinn
    @gastonquinn 3 года назад +13

    Hello all first thank you so much for your support for my sister bonafide and our family during this difficult time. We are still asking for donations and prayer as we prepare to lay our sister to rest. The go fund me has been posted and our cash app. Venmo. And zelle. Paypal is.posted as well. Due to this being sudden and unexpected anything helps thank you all for your kind words as well. The Gaston Family

  • @alasabethea3034
    @alasabethea3034 3 года назад +15

    God bless her, I pray she finds a better way🤍

  • @Bigmamabitch01
    @Bigmamabitch01 Год назад +1

    SWEET SUNDAY...SHE SAID SHE LOVES SUNDAYS THOSE WAS HER BEST DAYS.....LOOK AT GOD HE CAME TO BRING U HOME A SUNNY SUNDAY RIP NO MORE PAIN

  • @ahh1180
    @ahh1180 3 года назад +37

    This is a bonafide crappy situation for this lady

  • @deletedbyebye975
    @deletedbyebye975 3 года назад +6

    She is SO broken. & You're right girl , that life AIN'T IT!!! I pray ALL the beautiful ladies in the game get out. 💗

  • @claudettemccoy2120
    @claudettemccoy2120 3 года назад +12

    A real bonafide 304... Hopefully daughter can turn life around being 16 and out there, bcuz Moms not going anywhere anytime soon.

    • @heidiho5179
      @heidiho5179 3 года назад +2

      I hope she goes to the doctor. Her neck is swollen from thyroid issues and it’s no joke. I hope she reads this & goes in, if she don’t already know. She’s definitely been steeped in the old school like my first daddy raised me.

  • @carissaexplainsitall8481
    @carissaexplainsitall8481 3 года назад +2

    I like this girl. She seems so nice. I like how she even said that the guys who pick them up may have mental problems and/or self esteem problems too....

  • @sherrycissokho-parker2988
    @sherrycissokho-parker2988 3 года назад +2

    She’s emotional and wants to cry 😭 She’s fed Up with her life
    I pray for her salvation and protection

  • @organic80
    @organic80 3 года назад +14

    Please save your daughter and build yourself up to be there for her. You can start over together especially if you can get out out California.

  • @edwardjones9338
    @edwardjones9338 3 года назад +3

    Dam I really wanted yo see another follow up with her. I really like her. I’m so sorry and prayers to her family

  • @skrrskrr99
    @skrrskrr99 3 года назад +5

    These streets ain’t nice this world be cold. How horrible. 😔

  • @rexbrix959
    @rexbrix959 2 года назад +3

    Would love to see an interview with her daughter, she has an absolutely devastating story.

    • @carmenroffa
      @carmenroffa Год назад

      😢😢the one she had with her own father !!

  • @enjoizfinezt2429
    @enjoizfinezt2429 3 года назад +2

    Mark I really hope you Blessed her cause she's an Angel fr she jus chagned me 🥺💯🙏🏽

  • @mikkeleblanc
    @mikkeleblanc 3 года назад +1

    MARK IS THE KING OF RUclips!!!

  • @Shannon314
    @Shannon314 3 года назад +5

    She is all over the place. The anxiety or whatever you call it has her talking in circles

    • @heidiho5179
      @heidiho5179 3 года назад +1

      It’s her thyroid. That’s why her neck is swollen and her voice is gravelly. She needs to get that checked right away. The thyroid levels being off makes you overwrought. You can be perfectly normal and have psychotic episodes from the chemicals. A lot of mental issues are really physical & that’s one of them, hyperthyroidism. I knew a woman died from that by going off her meds for a month.

  • @annn9917
    @annn9917 3 года назад +22

    More of these I watch the more I feel like the pimp structure is everywhere in American society

    • @Neenaross214
      @Neenaross214 3 года назад +6

      Right. My employer pimps me - shoot - Every job I ever had pimped me! Government pimps us too.

    • @annn9917
      @annn9917 3 года назад +3

      @@Neenaross214 truth

    • @austinrichards1740
      @austinrichards1740 3 года назад +2

      Yes facts

  • @mailainathrone8241
    @mailainathrone8241 3 года назад +1

    Its an never ending cycle of going in circles. They're not gaining or accumulating anything. It's such a shame that her daughter got involved in this way of life. She didn't raise her but I'm sure she knows all about her and her lifestyle. Maybe she decided to follow in her mother's foot steps just to see what the attraction is. Maybe its just in her DNA. Its a tragic situation to be in for the both of them. I listen to these women on here and I try to picture some of the situations they're talking about but I can only imagine it and try to capture it in my mind. Its got to be a horrible and scary life to live. You definitely have to be built for this kind of life. You have to be a hustler and your own security at the same time. She mentioned not getting whiplash but in that line of work your head better twivel all the way around like the exercist in order to keep your eyes open and on everybody who's in your surroundings.

  • @dg5123
    @dg5123 3 года назад +5

    he said she looks fantastic. NO SHE DONT. You can tell she is going thru something real!!!!

    • @heidiho5179
      @heidiho5179 3 года назад

      She sick...needs her thyroid checked. She looks good to me, but u can tell from her neck.

  • @wayne6066
    @wayne6066 3 года назад +6

    Her use of ebonics had me enthralled. She seems to know what to do but not know how to do it. Hope she finds the way.

    • @heidiho5179
      @heidiho5179 3 года назад +2

      That’s so endemic of addiction, though! I love the way you put that. That was me all over. Recovery does happen!

  • @cindyfitzgerald4500
    @cindyfitzgerald4500 3 года назад +4

    Can’t believe she’s gone. Such a beautiful person inside and out. RIP Bonafide

    • @cindyfitzgerald4500
      @cindyfitzgerald4500 3 года назад +1

      If anyone reads this go back and watch her first video. Damn I can’t stop crying I need to go pray and meditate for a little bit, get my vibes back up

  • @pamelastates5600
    @pamelastates5600 3 года назад +1

    God bless her soul! 🙏🏽 just because La Sonya was a working lady and a last of the night I call them, it’s a job for many many low income women worldwide. May she be remembered as a living caring lady yrs thst made many of mistakes!! TO THE ONES IS THE BACK WHISPERING!! YESSSS I HEAR YALL! I WILL GIVE YOU THE FIRST STONE TO THROW TO THE ONES WHO HAVE NOT SINNED!! 😒 God bless her children& family. She WAS LOVED!!! She was SOMEBODY!! She was a mother, daughter, grandmother, sister, Auntie, niece and friend, 🙏🏽 you had a hard hard life! You put up a good fight! Your fight is OVER NOW, REST EASY IN THE ARM OF JESUS 🙏🏽 La Sonya dear there is no more pain& suffering for you my beautiful strong sister 👑💛😇 sleep in heavenly peace. ❤️🙏🏽🇨🇦 PS;; God please give her family strength. And I pray her young daughter got out of that life style . God protect her and her entire family. Sending my condolences to her children and entire family . Amen! 🙏🏽 ❤️🙏🏽🇨🇦

  • @arriluvbugshorter8509
    @arriluvbugshorter8509 3 года назад +7

    I just had to say that hair of hers is flawless 🥰 I mean it’s full & healthy 🥰 despite her situation

    • @clara2887
      @clara2887 3 года назад +3

      I agree! Love the hair but I’m thinking it’s a weave piece, but still beautiful!😍

    • @mariebernier3076
      @mariebernier3076 3 года назад +4

      She wears it, not the other way around. I know this soul is in crisis but I love her personality.

  • @lovebucket9524
    @lovebucket9524 3 года назад +4

    She spoke some real stuff 💯

  • @ravensoddities5047
    @ravensoddities5047 3 года назад +2

    Beautiful get out! You got this. Hopefully being on here will help you get out!

  • @tuesdaysgift1411
    @tuesdaysgift1411 3 года назад +5

    Bonafied w/out a doubt-she’s a Queen in her own right.