TBH those channels has helped me a lot in my life. I can't afford to see a therapist so in my case I do learn from it and also I'm reading coran and learning about islam and what it said about those experiences so both are important and helpful.
Masha Allah.. He, be fazlihi ta'aala, so comprehensively explains the detailings behind every single word of Qur'aan. I would like to get to know if someone like him, explains the Ahaadith in the same way as well. JazaakALLAH.
Islam already teaches us about boundaries. Each and every person have rights and obligations. Parents are required to treat children equally and justly to avoid discrimination. Siblings have rights and obligations among themselves which needs to be implemented to respect the rights ( boundaries) of everyone that will teach them the respect of boundaries of other human beings. Husband and wife have their rights and obligations ( boundaries) defined by the Creator Himself. And same in all aspects of life. Unfortunately discriminations and no respect for rights starts from home , then it spread its branches to society. Muslims are required to be more cautious about the boundaries of others as the best among Muslims is the one from whose tongue and hands are other safe.
I am currently doing a placement as a psych student, There were many times when I said to myself ah if only this person knew about Allah and believed in the creator they would feel better. People have mental health illnesses, giving medicine and with therapy, people can feel better to an extent unless they have some existential issues, which most people have. As someone who wears a hijab and is obviously muslim, the patients have an initial reaction, but then as they get to know you their judgement changes. I also believe that it could be a type of dawah, if someone is looking for a purpose they might start asking questions about Islam and research more. Psychology studies human behaviour and how certain services can be improved, an example could be a certain type of interview technique used with the police, which does not mislead an eyewitness in a crime, so that they say the truth and not anything false about an incident. I love learning about people and our abilities because it reminds me of how amazing our creator is by looking at his creation SubhanAllah.
Thank you for sharing your perspective! It’s inspiring to see how you’re using your knowledge to help others while also remaining passionate about your deen, trying to explore ways to incorporate it.
Aslamalaikum. Just remember that ALLAH IS SUFFICIENT ❤. You might think it's terrible and it definitely must be for you but just remember that if you have faith ALLAH SWT will guide you through in a beautiful way. ALLAH IS NEVER UNJUST. Wallahi, sometimes we just can't even imagine how great of a plan ALLAH SWT might be planning for us. May Allah bless you. Ameen 💓. Hope this helped
Nowadays I'm so depressed by thinking about deen and duniya. I have so many questions i don't know what to do. Like now after listening this bayan seems like most of our studies aren't healthy for our brain and society but the basic reason of toxic behaviors.
It's completely normal to feel overwhelmed with questions about deen and duniya. Remember, seeking knowledge is a journey, and it's okay to take one step at a time. Don't hesitate to reach out for support! But also don't distance others over trivial things. Wallahu'Alim
Salaam u alaikum I'm as imperfect as any human being can be, but shukr day by day my yakeen in Allah is growing. I'm a student of psychology and if anything psychology helps me strengthen my yakeen in Allah. Psychology helps me understand why I feel the way I do and so I turn to Allah to give me the patience and strength to heal after enduring years of abuse. Ustaad, your wisdom and compassion, and your knowledge and yakeen in Allah is what helps me get closer to Allah. I'm not disputing what you say about Psychology. But there are benefits of psychology in ways that strengthen my imaan. May Allah guide and protect you to continue to be the source of ilm for so many of us who strive to be as knowledgeable as you are and who inspires us to appreciate and revere our beautiful religion, insha'alla.
Wa alaikum as-salam! Sounds like you’re on a dual degree in psychology and faith! Just remember, when life gets tough, Allah's your ultimate therapist-no appointment needed!
@@BaytAnNurwould you also tell someone whos leg was cut off in an injury that Allah is his healer, no appointment needed? Or would you say go seek medical treatment while knowing that Allah is the healer? Psychological problems are real. When you grow up with a narcissist parent, you need the help of psychology to understand the danage it causes to your nervous system and brain. I tried your approach for years yet it made my life worse until it started affecting my iman negatively because my symptoms required more than just talking to Allah. In fact, my duas is probably what led to me to learn about my psychological issues so i advice you not to advice people like this. Seeking treatment for mental illness or learning about how the human mind and nervous system works to understand yourself better does not contradict Islam.
@bellak2140 this is the only sane comment I see here. This khutba is very misleading. At what point do you say no? I have been dealing with and forgiving the same person for 20 years! And I'm done. According to Ustadh, it doesn't matter how you feel. You should shut up and put up because feelings don't matter. Allah knows best.
This is like- I was waiting to hear this for so long and finally I've found it
Alhamdulillah
TBH those channels has helped me a lot in my life. I can't afford to see a therapist so in my case I do learn from it and also I'm reading coran and learning about islam and what it said about those experiences so both are important and helpful.
Clearly explained in a concise and understandable manner with an excellent approach.
It’s really an eye-opening insight.Thank you ❤
A student of psychology myself.what ur saying is truly profound.
Ah, a psychology student! So you totally understand the dilemma of scrolling vs. studying.
@@nasmamukthar5728 pls suggest me ways according to psychology how to tackle this problem i really need this
Thank this man for his service to the ummah. He is a source of guidance for many many young people in the west.
Alhamdulillah.
Masha Allah..
He, be fazlihi ta'aala, so comprehensively explains the detailings behind every single word of Qur'aan.
I would like to get to know if someone like him, explains the Ahaadith in the same way as well.
JazaakALLAH.
Mashallah subhana Allah ...wonderful explained ...sir..Allah bless u with more imaan...mashallah
Ameen
Masha Allah your words are truly blessed by Allah swt himself.
Beautiful bayan.May Allah guide us in our lives. Seek knowledge from the Quran and Deen scholars, not from social media.
Ameen!
Mind blowing bayaan . Alhamdhulillah ❤❤
I needed This 🥺
Wonderfully explained!!
People are not ready to hear this.
Unfortunately.
Their brain is just like a child who doesn't know much we need to educate them on this and try to save them
Because its wrong and dangerous. What he is saying can make mental health problems worse for the Muslims who listen to this video.
@@Ayaansharfithats like telling someone their brain is like a child for seeking medical treatment to treat their body after an injury
@@bellak2140 yes, jazakallah khair for letting me know new perspective
Islam already teaches us about boundaries. Each and every person have rights and obligations. Parents are required to treat children equally and justly to avoid discrimination. Siblings have rights and obligations among themselves which needs to be implemented to respect the rights ( boundaries) of everyone that will teach them the respect of boundaries of other human beings.
Husband and wife have their rights and obligations ( boundaries) defined by the Creator Himself. And same in all aspects of life. Unfortunately discriminations and no respect for rights starts from home , then it spread its branches to society.
Muslims are required to be more cautious about the boundaries of others as the best among Muslims is the one from whose tongue and hands are other safe.
Masha’Allah, very well said.
@BaytAnNur Thank you, jazakAllahu khair
i needed this .
Amazing . Thank you for reminder !
the world is changing rapidly and it seems that we have more challenges indeed
Alhumdulillah this topic was covered.
Alhamdulillah 😊
جزاکم الله خیرا
Well said sir,
Ameen very good analysis
Jazak'Allah Khair
I am currently doing a placement as a psych student, There were many times when I said to myself ah if only this person knew about Allah and believed in the creator they would feel better. People have mental health illnesses, giving medicine and with therapy, people can feel better to an extent unless they have some existential issues, which most people have. As someone who wears a hijab and is obviously muslim, the patients have an initial reaction, but then as they get to know you their judgement changes. I also believe that it could be a type of dawah, if someone is looking for a purpose they might start asking questions about Islam and research more. Psychology studies human behaviour and how certain services can be improved, an example could be a certain type of interview technique used with the police, which does not mislead an eyewitness in a crime, so that they say the truth and not anything false about an incident. I love learning about people and our abilities because it reminds me of how amazing our creator is by looking at his creation SubhanAllah.
Thank you for sharing your perspective! It’s inspiring to see how you’re using your knowledge to help others while also remaining passionate about your deen, trying to explore ways to incorporate it.
What if the damage can not be healed at all. how can you forgive them?
Aslamalaikum. Just remember that ALLAH IS SUFFICIENT ❤. You might think it's terrible and it definitely must be for you but just remember that if you have faith ALLAH SWT will guide you through in a beautiful way. ALLAH IS NEVER UNJUST. Wallahi, sometimes we just can't even imagine how great of a plan ALLAH SWT might be planning for us.
May Allah bless you. Ameen 💓. Hope this helped
❤❤❤💖💯✔🙏 subhan Allah u🎉🎉
ALOT OF PEAPLE NEED TO SEE THIS TBH
Assalamoalikum
Nowadays I'm so depressed by thinking about deen and duniya.
I have so many questions i don't know what to do.
Like now after listening this bayan seems like most of our studies aren't healthy for our brain and society but the basic reason of toxic behaviors.
It's completely normal to feel overwhelmed with questions about deen and duniya. Remember, seeking knowledge is a journey, and it's okay to take one step at a time. Don't hesitate to reach out for support! But also don't distance others over trivial things. Wallahu'Alim
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Salaam u alaikum
I'm as imperfect as any human being can be, but shukr day by day my yakeen in Allah is growing. I'm a student of psychology and if anything psychology helps me strengthen my yakeen in Allah. Psychology helps me understand why I feel the way I do and so I turn to Allah to give me the patience and strength to heal after enduring years of abuse.
Ustaad, your wisdom and compassion, and your knowledge and yakeen in Allah is what helps me get closer to Allah. I'm not disputing what you say about Psychology. But there are benefits of psychology in ways that strengthen my imaan. May Allah guide and protect you to continue to be the source of ilm for so many of us who strive to be as knowledgeable as you are and who inspires us to appreciate and revere our beautiful religion, insha'alla.
Wa alaikum as-salam! Sounds like you’re on a dual degree in psychology and faith! Just remember, when life gets tough, Allah's your ultimate therapist-no appointment needed!
@@BaytAnNurwould you also tell someone whos leg was cut off in an injury that Allah is his healer, no appointment needed? Or would you say go seek medical treatment while knowing that Allah is the healer?
Psychological problems are real. When you grow up with a narcissist parent, you need the help of psychology to understand the danage it causes to your nervous system and brain. I tried your approach for years yet it made my life worse until it started affecting my iman negatively because my symptoms required more than just talking to Allah. In fact, my duas is probably what led to me to learn about my psychological issues so i advice you not to advice people like this. Seeking treatment for mental illness or learning about how the human mind and nervous system works to understand yourself better does not contradict Islam.
@bellak2140 this is the only sane comment I see here. This khutba is very misleading. At what point do you say no? I have been dealing with and forgiving the same person for 20 years! And I'm done. According to Ustadh, it doesn't matter how you feel. You should shut up and put up because feelings don't matter. Allah knows best.