I have a huge big, well carved butt that I hated all my life and always wished to give to someone. But I learnt to love myself. How differently we view ourselves 😢.
Story of my life. I'm 5ft 2inches short. My back is well carved but huge. I struggled to love myself for years. After seeing so many women doing bbl an others dying in the process. I learned to love myself. It's worth more than the stress of not feeling enough.
I have 3kids, my stomach is now big after the last one, my husband asked me the other day why I have left my stomach my belly this big, I asked him why his own stomach was big,because I didn't see him carry pregnancy let along breastfeeding , that's how he shout up and left me side, I know he was trying to compare me with one of those his side chic, who have not carry pregnancy and who is not even just going out with only him, comparing my body with any side chic is a no no, they are collecting money from different men to pay to have a banging body, and me taking care of my kids breastfeeding you are coming to ask me why my belly is big. If is another woman she will have low self esteem immediately and start thinking of a way to please the man and not their self. Me the here with the belly any1 that can't see it should cover their eyes am not going under the knife for nobody period.
Lilian u are funny but so cute. No matter do matter,e no fit be like white woman own nah..... Especially if u r skinny,"flat " backside may just be ur size. Who needs to be lugging all that extra weight around later in life anyways? (Think arthritis)
I experienced bullying a lot People saying I didn’t carry my mother’s body shape. Most of my mom’s friend even thought I was sickle cell because of my shape 😢. My mom made complains about me not fitting into the expensive clothes she buys for me, to be honest I was depressed. I was bullied at home, at school and at church. But I’ve grown to love my body no matter what. I don’t look my age so that’s a plus for me. If only we as humans can love our bodies and cherish it.
The crazy thing is that my mom even did BBL just to enhance the great body she already had. Trust me she looks beautiful with/without it but I remember taking care of her during that period, it wasn’t easy and the bills the surgery came with wasn’t cheap. She had to do monthly installation.
Once upon a time I was also body shamed by people, not my family though, I remembered someone even asking my mom in-law, I quote "Can this girl your son is getting married to be able to carry pregnancy with this her little and over slim body?" 😅😂, But today am a mum of 4, now looking chubby and hot. My advice to women is to love themselves and take care of their body when they start having kids. They are many natural ways to have a flat or not too big tummy. Take care of your body for yourself
For some reason (lm talking about me),l started appreciating myself after reading the whole bible.l should have gone for surgery by now because that was my goal ever since l was very young but after reading the word l feel adequate.l don't even know how it happened but it happened 🤷
The BBL procedure is the most dangerous plastic surgery procedure. Here in the US, most plastic surgeons have stopped performing this procedure. As such most women travel to Mexico or Turkey to get this procedure done. A lot of them return damaged, or don't return alive. Now, if you start having plastic surgery in your twenties, what would you look like in your fifties after your skin has been cut through, pulled, and stitched? We are losing too many sisters to this nonsense. God help her family cope with this lose.
@@cocainexxx1633the procedure itself is what's dangerous. And you are lying Turkey, Dom rep, Columbia, Miami and Mexico have many deaths and complications, but pay money to keep things quiet. Also lots of people don't tolerate people who do this to themselves, it is not looked upon as news so you all get away with treating people and sometimes ending up killing them like cattle.
I turned 56 on the 12th of March. As a teenager and young adult, some stupid men used to describe me as a she-boy, calling me "ugly" "dry crayfish", all because I was naturally toned and very slim, without the coveted protruding backside. Whilst my parent were accepting of my natural abilities at gymnastics, I was vilified by many, telling me I was acting unnatural and not behaving like a typical African girl etc. I completely ignored all the criticisms. Why am I saying all this? If you are not accepting of yourself at a young age (not even because you are not already "beautiful") you will never accept yourself at any age and will be committing to a life of complete dissatisfaction.
Thank you, barrister, for talking about this. I am from Uganda, and a dear friend of mine went for lipo after childbirth effects. I wasn't accepting of her decision, but she did it anyway. Her body wasn't even that bad, but she ended up looking good, though, because she transferred the fat to her hips. What shocked me, though, was the story of her healing process and the scars I saw on her from the fat removal procedures. She even ended up with some lumps. I was terrified. When she puts on clothes, she looks amazing. But when she takes them off..Mm. mm! The scars! I still think these procedures are not worth it.
My question.., what does a 20 year old need a BBL for??🤔 And how did she come up with the amount for the surgery?? Are we not rushing this life too much??
If there is something I love most is my body,all my features. I used to feel so insure especially with my lil oranges, bcus he didn't appreciate them . But after the separation, I feel more confident about myself. Let's be contented please. We insulting God's Grace n 💕 for us.
This is ridiculous. I don't feel sorry, because she killed herself. My condolences to her family though. People, receive sense. Thanks for the wonderful update
Im in Houston, TX and bbls are big here. I think social media def has a part to play but accessibility is key. More ppl have access to it. Its sad these women are so young. Women go through puberty until 26ish. If one decides to do this it should be later once your fully developed. These doctors need to be held liable. This is unacceptable!
When we started using the phrase “I am not against what people do with their body…” for serious issues is when we started loosing feeble minded people to any and everything. We used to be brutally honest. Tough love is still love and nothing more. Love yourself the way you are and stop looking sideways. BBLs are the most dangerous surgeries irrespective of the competence of the surgeon. The victim clearly had a PE (Pulmonary Embolism). I am a physician so I am able to make such submission. That facility is clearly hiding the truth. PE is an acute chest condition, even experienced doctors can miss the early signs. If they really did a CTPA let them share the image so other doctors like us can review it. It’s a damn shame!!! I don’t know where this lifestyle will lead anyone to. I will never be able to understand this new craze. The kind of parents I had (God rest their soul), I would not have imagined being admitted by myself without them knowing cos I was raised to tell them everything. I was raised in love and not fear. So I was never that child that would ever hide stuff from mom and dad. Our family and societal values are fast decaying. That is one factor you didn’t raise dear. No one can tell anyone the truth without being called jealous or some other negative name. Hopefully, someone will understand the point I have tried to make. Lovely content as usual.
Honestly Neze you make me come back to listen to you everyday. You have amazing storytelling gift. Meanwhile, although you mentioned reasons why people go for BBL, the only set of people I can empathize with are those ones who were bullied as kids. As for others, let them collect anything they see. As I am now, nothing can ever make me unappreciative of my body. I have amazing hips but butts not so prominent. Even my bust size is normal. Should I now cry that God didn't give me a Kardashian shape? Noooo, I enjoy myself and would rather use that BBL to buy correct suya and enjoy my life.
I used to be a size 8 during my teens till 22 thereabout I was a little insecure cuz I really admired the curvy shape...now I am 24 and I’m a curvy size 12 😊 young girls give your body time...even if u don’t end up being curvy u can opt for a diet to help gain weight and exercise to stay fit it’s not worth the risk honestly
As a mother, I am very concerned most especially with young girls with beautiful bodies not being content with their bodies. I wonder if this is a mental health issue. I am in my early 50's with an hourglass figure in my younger years and I hated the attention back then being in the UK. I must admit, I was desperate for an operation to flatten my bottom which my boyfriend now husband was totally against. How time have changed! Well done Nezeville! I think people need to continue to speak against this abnormal looking BBL. We are losing our young ladies to this madness. I don't understand the lack of focus on character building but rather on building the backside (slang).
I think it's natural for us to always find fault with ourselves, it's just when an obsession begins and it's taken to the extreme things becone unhealthy
It’s in the UK too and also the US. In UK, young girls go to Spain or Turkey for a cheaper operation. Some come back to the UK and admitted for days to save their life
I began looking like a whole different prsn from d time I clocked 28 than I was before. Having d "BBL body" which I didn't have earlier on though without any surgery or using any body enhancement products. Everyone around me including myself are shocked abt my transformation so I really don't understand why at just 20 a young girl will decide to take such risk when she's not even stopped growing. Like wat abt d butt? What do they urgently need it for?? Ladies be contented with your bodies n know they'l b a time your body type will b d one in fashion. Before it was "miss Lolo" now it's small breast. What will happen to those who followed the miss Lolo trend n increased the size of their breast now that smaller breast are now trending? You are just so beautiful the way you are. Don't let anyone tell u or make u feel less than u truly are.
Erin koje ki oko re ko na ni egba. Means...Smiling don't allow your husband to beat you ! I love 💕 you and the way you present your stories. You are nothing but the BEST ! KEEP IT ON BABE !
I have chosen to be happy with myself. I can't keep up with the pressure. When does it end, never. Even 70 year olds are still going under the knife. No thank you. It's a no for me. May she rest in peace. She was looking for happiness.
Umu nwaanyi zukwanunu ike! Heywu! What is a young girl of 20 doing getting a bbl? She still had time to blossom if she hadn't. There are late bloomers. One reason for things like this, imo is that children are made to grow too fast. They experience things that should come later in life if at all, way too early. Before you say jack they've experienced all the ordinary things, get bored and tired... but it's not the same tiredness of having mature as a person. They're still young and vibrant and hence seek new high, so they start craving and venturing into the extras. Then they grow into immature adults cos they skipped developmental milestones when that immaturity would have been more appropriate. There's no cheating life process. You would carry it over.
I would never choose to do elective surgery and if I can't change my figure with exercise, it wouldn't be for me personally. As someone who has had to have surgery for medical necessity, I'm not going to try God after he allowed me to live after the surgeries I had to have! However even as people are choosing to do corrective surgeries after these BBLs (that look a mess anyway) young women are still going under the knife. It is sad these young, beautiful women would feel the need to undergo surgery. Unfortunately when they looked at themselves, they didn't see what everyone else saw. Self-esteem is fragile.
It's hard for one to click out, with the way you tell your stories. Nothing will make me go to slaughter house for anything. I love my flat ass and I rock it always😂💃
I can listen to you for 24hrs non-stop. Thank you so much for your constant updates and the fact that you sieze every opportunity in every given situation to give out practical friendly, sisterly, motherly advice. You are a great narrator. At the same time my heart goes out to the bereaved family. May the God of all comforts, comfort them and give them the strength the need.
This is so sad. We need to do something about this really. Thinking of a video series already to Help confidence +‘give young girls other options to a fulfilled life
Even me wey be say my yansh na from God it’s heavy feel it in my leg…and I come get belle but even if my money plenty dey greet me I can’t do flat tummy,any man who doesn’t like my tummy should waka pass.I hate pain
Media is the worst kind of form to influence beauty, cause it is said that you buy beauty in this day and age if you don't like the way you look, ok im struggling with my legs n feet because the drs said my hips n bums were out of proportion, I honestly hated my body because body shaming, hence why lots of young ladies resort to such
All your opinions i think 🤔 is true in the real sense which i totally agree with you. The social media is more of the pressure. Lets beging to appreciate about ourselves.
Hi, I just wanted to asked if you have a Playlists for those celebrities stories? If you don't can you please create one like one for a celebrities relationships for example like the Annie and 2face one, and also a celebrities gossip one also. Please and thank you. I just love the way you tell stories abd I wants to watch them in a Playlist style while I'm doing things. Thanks again
Your lordship Mrs Neze, all your points are correct. It is senseless and useless for these beautiful sisters to be killing themselves for irrelevant butts. Like you side, it is the "Hookup culture" that our girls involved themselves with this days we have to blame for all this menances in our society.
20 year old girl that is supposed to be studying and aiming at getting degrees instead ma Yansh she dey aim for. I don’t feel an iota of pain for her.with the economic situation of the country, she would have put that money into better use and be in the news for a noble reason, but….
Thank God I have a brain to achieve success and not from BBL. I love my flatness & nothing or anyone can make me feel less of myself all to be senseless to pay with my money all for a shape that can’t give me ticket to Heaven. May God keep helping my gender😢
Ooo dear, must be a heart attack. They could have addressed it or called in a cardiologist to see to her. What blatant careless and recklessness on their part. So.... sad. Lord have mercy😢. May her soul RIPP
We still have many ladies still interested in doing thr deadly BBL. Who ever goes and never return, i wish them journey mercies. Let me rock my geepee in peace
The perception of an ideal body image keeps changing over the years. This was my undergraduate project topic in 2002. It's also sad that a lot of young girls are dealing with poor self esteem issues.
I have my 5 kids here abroad by God grace, I'm grateful and confident for the body God gave me (not the Doctor giving body). I'm not against those doing it but one thing for sure it has it SIDES EFFECT, too much for everything is bad the one that is choke me is the young girls following suits, gosh they don't have any kids yet so why ??? ( indeed low self steem) God have mercy 🙏🏼
Nze I love your story telling style, I personally won't encourage someone to do body enhancements, and if one is to do so , they should go to good hospitals which are very very expensive
Nnee you have spoken well ,Let those who have Ears 👂 hear ooh, and it dawns down to parents as well to be very involved in their Childrens lives ,it can prevent a lot of Circumstances and Situations😢
When we are not contented with ourselves, we become the enemy's handy tool. How can this pretty girl think she is not pretty enough.....look how she has ended her life suddenly. Thank you God for the way you made me. That doctor needs to be arrested.
Am not Nigerian but l head the similar situation last year but anthing has happened what is really happening such that the government is taking long to act.
I recently gave up make ups and any form of enhancements, I am all natural it’s not easy but it’s so refreshing to see me like I was created. Beauty in the outside and rottenness in the inside is what this people have.
Things like makeup, unless allergic, are pretty much harmless and can easily be taken off. Eyelashes( though that glue is dangerous), braids, nails etc are not "permanent" or hard to "reverse" like a BBL or other cosmetic procedures. Nothing is wrong if one wants to dress up and such, but those things like surgeries that mess your body up or can kill you, should be avoided.
I am not against plastic surgery, but people need to be well informed about the risks involved as well as who is performing their procedure. I never had BBL, but almost 2yrs ago I had a tummy tuck and breast lift. As a 40 something year old mother of 3, I struggled with accepting that my beautiful body suddenly went fown south. I am healthcare provider and I live in the USA , i went to a Harvard trained plastic surgeon and even that I had pulmonary embolism a couple of days later after i got home. Pulmonaryembolism. aka, blood clots in my lungs. If I wasn't a healthcare provider and knew my shortness of breath and dizziness wasn't normal, I would have died. I rushed to the emergency room where I was diagnosed and treated. I am a few of the lucky ones. People need to be careful
@@GracefulKnots hmmmm thank you. When I got to the ER, they said if I had waited one more hour i would have died. I had severe blood clots in both lungs. While I am happy with my surgery results and continued to eat right, exercise and lose weight which eventually got me off my blood pressure medication, my surgery recovery itself was long, painful, traumatic and excruciating. Nothing like what social media portrays
I agree but depending on what part of the world you live let’s say The US doctors who are great plastic surgeons MOST won’t even perform those procedures because they aren’t (1) medically necessary (2) present such great risk of complications and (3) are so damn expensive most can’t even cover the bill if they wanted to. My guess is to try the gym and diet first. I get something’s the gym and diet won’t give the produce the same results as survey, however it’s worth the try beings though we have seen it done🤷🏽♀️
@@lynniebunting9035 I beg to slightly differ with a point you made…that you can get the same results with going to the gym. You can never get rid of same fat and get curves just from going to the gym that will make you look like you went under the knife. You get more curves and definition when you go under the knife than when you simply work out at the gym; however, this is not to discourage anyone that hopes to obtain good results from working out.
Ironically, those running to their untimely death thru BBL are females that life is treating them favourably and they are already doing very, very well for themselves within life scopes of things.. So, when they go out there and pay for their very own death?..., THEN, THEY DIE WELL. My sorrow/pity arises only within true events of life trouble and injustice to humankind, not overfeeding & stupidity in dramatic costumes.
This trend is really wrong,but one thing i know about women,is that most of them wont back down once they have their mind locked on to it,to those who lost their lives RIP, to those planing to also go under the knife wish you LUCK
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I have a huge big, well carved butt that I hated all my life and always wished to give to someone. But I learnt to love myself. How differently we view ourselves 😢.
Eh? Abeg go and give thanksgiving..
Me too…. I felt the same when I was in high school….but I have learnt to love my body.
I am using medications every day to slim down and take away my essesive hip and back side,hey! this life no balance o
Story of my life. I'm 5ft 2inches short. My back is well carved but huge. I struggled to love myself for years. After seeing so many women doing bbl an others dying in the process. I learned to love myself. It's worth more than the stress of not feeling enough.
I have 3kids, my stomach is now big after the last one, my husband asked me the other day why I have left my stomach my belly this big, I asked him why his own stomach was big,because I didn't see him carry pregnancy let along breastfeeding , that's how he shout up and left me side, I know he was trying to compare me with one of those his side chic, who have not carry pregnancy and who is not even just going out with only him, comparing my body with any side chic is a no no, they are collecting money from different men to pay to have a banging body, and me taking care of my kids breastfeeding you are coming to ask me why my belly is big. If is another woman she will have low self esteem immediately and start thinking of a way to please the man and not their self. Me the here with the belly any1 that can't see it should cover their eyes am not going under the knife for nobody period.
Wow
side chic.... ehn. Hmmm
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High five Sis Sis 👋 😂
Na wa o Dorothy..... I dey feel u
I am so proud of my flat backside. It may not appeal to you, but I'm content with what I have....FLAT & PROUD❤️
Can I love this comment again and again.
Self-love 💞💞
Me too. Well said sister
My sister I agree with you dear
Lilian u are funny but so cute. No matter do matter,e no fit be like white woman own nah..... Especially if u r skinny,"flat " backside may just be ur size. Who needs to be lugging all that extra weight around later in life anyways? (Think arthritis)
I experienced bullying a lot
People saying I didn’t carry my mother’s body shape. Most of my mom’s friend even thought I was sickle cell because of my shape 😢.
My mom made complains about me not fitting into the expensive clothes she buys for me, to be honest I was depressed.
I was bullied at home, at school and at church.
But I’ve grown to love my body no matter what. I don’t look my age so that’s a plus for me.
If only we as humans can love our bodies and cherish it.
The crazy thing is that my mom even did BBL just to enhance the great body she already had.
Trust me she looks beautiful with/without it but I remember taking care of her during that period, it wasn’t easy and the bills the surgery came with wasn’t cheap. She had to do monthly installation.
Nobody can force an opinion about you on you if you do do not accept it..
Keep grinding in your positivity!
Love ya 💕
Once upon a time I was also body shamed by people, not my family though,
I remembered someone even asking my mom in-law, I quote "Can this girl your son is getting married to be able to carry pregnancy with this her little and over slim body?" 😅😂,
But today am a mum of 4, now looking chubby and hot.
My advice to women is to love themselves and take care of their body when they start having kids. They are many natural ways to have a flat or not too big tummy. Take care of your body for yourself
omg Blessing! Sorry.....
Chi me too very happy with my flat behind and hanging belly doing exercise and other things to just be healthy
For some reason (lm talking about me),l started appreciating myself after reading the whole bible.l should have gone for surgery by now because that was my goal ever since l was very young but after reading the word l feel adequate.l don't even know how it happened but it happened 🤷
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽That’s beautiful.
The BBL procedure is the most dangerous plastic surgery procedure. Here in the US, most plastic surgeons have stopped performing this procedure. As such most women travel to Mexico or Turkey to get this procedure done. A lot of them return damaged, or don't return alive. Now, if you start having plastic surgery in your twenties, what would you look like in your fifties after your skin has been cut through, pulled, and stitched? We are losing too many sisters to this nonsense. God help her family cope with this lose.
True. The BBL is something the certified plastic surgeons here in the US refuse to do! Ladies, think carefully before doing this!
I work in the best plastic clinic In turkey we hv nvr had any bad reviews ! It’s not very clinic that is bad
Yes, I keep saying I'm curious what the stretched out pumped up lips are going to be like in 30 years time
@@cocainexxx1633the procedure itself is what's dangerous. And you are lying Turkey, Dom rep, Columbia, Miami and Mexico have many deaths and complications, but pay money to keep things quiet. Also lots of people don't tolerate people who do this to themselves, it is not looked upon as news so you all get away with treating people and sometimes ending up killing them like cattle.
I turned 56 on the 12th of March. As a teenager and young adult, some stupid men used to describe me as a she-boy, calling me "ugly" "dry crayfish", all because I was naturally toned and very slim, without the coveted protruding backside. Whilst my parent were accepting of my natural abilities at gymnastics, I was vilified by many, telling me I was acting unnatural and not behaving like a typical African girl etc. I completely ignored all the criticisms. Why am I saying all this? If you are not accepting of yourself at a young age (not even because you are not already "beautiful") you will never accept yourself at any age and will be committing to a life of complete dissatisfaction.
Thank you, barrister, for talking about this. I am from Uganda, and a dear friend of mine went for lipo after childbirth effects. I wasn't accepting of her decision, but she did it anyway. Her body wasn't even that bad, but she ended up looking good, though, because she transferred the fat to her hips.
What shocked me, though, was the story of her healing process and the scars I saw on her from the fat removal procedures. She even ended up with some lumps. I was terrified.
When she puts on clothes, she looks amazing. But when she takes them off..Mm. mm! The scars!
I still think these procedures are not worth it.
True
If she had a child and needed fixing so she can find a husband, ibwould understand. But young girls do it so they can snatch people's husbands.
She didn't do it right. There shouldn't be lumps from fat removal.
My question.., what does a 20 year old need a BBL for??🤔 And how did she come up with the amount for the surgery?? Are we not rushing this life too much??
Fafa..I tire o. Aristos Tina nah....probably! Mchweew(hiss)
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😂😂😂😂😂 yo comment is funny
If there is something I love most is my body,all my features.
I used to feel so insure especially with my lil oranges, bcus he didn't appreciate them . But after the separation, I feel more confident about myself.
Let's be contented please.
We insulting God's Grace n 💕 for us.
This is ridiculous. I don't feel sorry, because she killed herself. My condolences to her family though. People, receive sense. Thanks for the wonderful update
Just workout and be consistent with it and you will get your desired body.
Women need to love themselves the way God created them.
Im in Houston, TX and bbls are big here. I think social media def has a part to play but accessibility is key. More ppl have access to it. Its sad these women are so young. Women go through puberty until 26ish. If one decides to do this it should be later once your fully developed. These doctors need to be held liable. This is unacceptable!
When we started using the phrase “I am not against what people do with their body…” for serious issues is when we started loosing feeble minded people to any and everything. We used to be brutally honest. Tough love is still love and nothing more. Love yourself the way you are and stop looking sideways.
BBLs are the most dangerous surgeries irrespective of the competence of the surgeon. The victim clearly had a PE (Pulmonary Embolism). I am a physician so I am able to make such submission. That facility is clearly hiding the truth. PE is an acute chest condition, even experienced doctors can miss the early signs. If they really did a CTPA let them share the image so other doctors like us can review it. It’s a damn shame!!!
I don’t know where this lifestyle will lead anyone to. I will never be able to understand this new craze. The kind of parents I had (God rest their soul), I would not have imagined being admitted by myself without them knowing cos I was raised to tell them everything. I was raised in love and not fear. So I was never that child that would ever hide stuff from mom and dad. Our family and societal values are fast decaying. That is one factor you didn’t raise dear. No one can tell anyone the truth without being called jealous or some other negative name.
Hopefully, someone will understand the point I have tried to make. Lovely content as usual.
@Iphie.....u took the words right out of my mouth. Bless u!
We've lost honesty, hence the lost of values!
You spoke nothing but facts here my dear 👏🏾 please continue to educate them as a physician 💐🙏🏽
@@lynniebunting9035 thavks dear.
Honestly Neze you make me come back to listen to you everyday. You have amazing storytelling gift. Meanwhile, although you mentioned reasons why people go for BBL, the only set of people I can empathize with are those ones who were bullied as kids. As for others, let them collect anything they see.
As I am now, nothing can ever make me unappreciative of my body. I have amazing hips but butts not so prominent. Even my bust size is normal. Should I now cry that God didn't give me a Kardashian shape? Noooo, I enjoy myself and would rather use that BBL to buy correct suya and enjoy my life.
I used to be a size 8 during my teens till 22 thereabout I was a little insecure cuz I really admired the curvy shape...now I am 24 and I’m a curvy size 12 😊 young girls give your body time...even if u don’t end up being curvy u can opt for a diet to help gain weight and exercise to stay fit it’s not worth the risk honestly
As a mother, I am very concerned most especially with young girls with beautiful bodies not being content with their bodies. I wonder if this is a mental health issue.
I am in my early 50's with an hourglass figure in my younger years and I hated the attention back then being in the UK. I must admit, I was desperate for an operation to flatten my bottom which my boyfriend now husband was totally against. How time have changed!
Well done Nezeville! I think people need to continue to speak against this abnormal looking BBL. We are losing our young ladies to this madness.
I don't understand the lack of focus on character building but rather on building the backside (slang).
I think it's natural for us to always find fault with ourselves, it's just when an obsession begins and it's taken to the extreme things becone unhealthy
It’s in the UK too and also the US. In UK, young girls go to Spain or Turkey for a cheaper operation. Some come back to the UK and admitted for days to save their life
I began looking like a whole different prsn from d time I clocked 28 than I was before. Having d "BBL body" which I didn't have earlier on though without any surgery or using any body enhancement products. Everyone around me including myself are shocked abt my transformation so I really don't understand why at just 20 a young girl will decide to take such risk when she's not even stopped growing. Like wat abt d butt? What do they urgently need it for?? Ladies be contented with your bodies n know they'l b a time your body type will b d one in fashion. Before it was "miss Lolo" now it's small breast. What will happen to those who followed the miss Lolo trend n increased the size of their breast now that smaller breast are now trending? You are just so beautiful the way you are. Don't let anyone tell u or make u feel less than u truly are.
Watching from Namibia 🇳🇦 I love your content always
Oh my god 🙆♀️😳💔💔💔🤦♀️ May God help our girl's and women s in Jesus Name Amen 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻thanks for Sharing Sis
@age 20, her body is still developing ( she's still growing my God) why the rush? May God comfort your family 🙏🏼
While here in the Western world, we are moving away from this nonsense. My dear naija is doing relay with this matter. Incredibly sad and unfortunate.
Erin koje ki oko re ko na ni egba. Means...Smiling don't allow your husband to beat you ! I love 💕 you and the way you present your stories. You are nothing but the BEST ! KEEP IT ON BABE !
Neze is glowing 🎉
Neze my Neze you are so beautiful 😍
As for this bbl thing which can rightly be described as a pandemic, peer pressure plays a huge role
It's sad how unprofessional & unaccountable the hospital is. Keeping her body and not reaching out to the family.
Exactly! Very suspicious too.
Love the wig!!!
Body positivity is everything.
You are right. Using social media pictures as the standard of beauty plays a big part in this
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I have chosen to be happy with myself. I can't keep up with the pressure. When does it end, never. Even 70 year olds are still going under the knife. No thank you. It's a no for me. May she rest in peace. She was looking for happiness.
I'm watching from Cameroon. My beautiful Neze, I love the way you present your stories.
Nezenwa, Nezepeperempe and this is Nezeville🥰😁
Your opinions are on point, I agree
I doubt she listened to them on other issues
Umu nwaanyi zukwanunu ike! Heywu! What is a young girl of 20 doing getting a bbl? She still had time to blossom if she hadn't. There are late bloomers.
One reason for things like this, imo is that children are made to grow too fast. They experience things that should come later in life if at all, way too early. Before you say jack they've experienced all the ordinary things, get bored and tired... but it's not the same tiredness of having mature as a person. They're still young and vibrant and hence seek new high, so they start craving and venturing into the extras. Then they grow into immature adults cos they skipped developmental milestones when that immaturity would have been more appropriate.
There's no cheating life process. You would carry it over.
This is my first time seeing any of your videos.......and I watched till the end. You have a captivating way of communicating
I would never choose to do elective surgery and if I can't change my figure with exercise, it wouldn't be for me personally. As someone who has had to have surgery for medical necessity, I'm not going to try God after he allowed me to live after the surgeries I had to have! However even as people are choosing to do corrective surgeries after these BBLs (that look a mess anyway) young women are still going under the knife. It is sad these young, beautiful women would feel the need to undergo surgery. Unfortunately when they looked at themselves, they didn't see what everyone else saw. Self-esteem is fragile.
It's hard for one to click out, with the way you tell your stories.
Nothing will make me go to slaughter house for anything. I love my flat ass and I rock it always😂💃
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Are u black Janelle? Our asses may not always protrude or "bounce", but it's never flat o. Mama Africa,I dey hail!
I can listen to you for 24hrs non-stop. Thank you so much for your constant updates and the fact that you sieze every opportunity in every given situation to give out practical friendly, sisterly, motherly advice.
You are a great narrator.
At the same time my heart goes out to the bereaved family. May the God of all comforts, comfort them and give them the strength the need.
Me too !
Amen 🙏🏽
Nmmmmmh a word is enough for a wise. Thanks Nezeville
This is so sad. We need to do something about this really. Thinking of a video series already to Help confidence +‘give young girls other options to a fulfilled life
Oh! What will she tell her Maker. Is this the destiny she came to fulfill? Oh! Nne why now?
Even me wey be say my yansh na from God it’s heavy feel it in my leg…and I come get belle but even if my money plenty dey greet me I can’t do flat tummy,any man who doesn’t like my tummy should waka pass.I hate pain
Media is the worst kind of form to influence beauty, cause it is said that you buy beauty in this day and age if you don't like the way you look, ok im struggling with my legs n feet because the drs said my hips n bums were out of proportion, I honestly hated my body because body shaming, hence why lots of young ladies resort to such
All your opinions i think 🤔 is true in the real sense which i totally agree with you. The social media is more of the pressure. Lets beging to appreciate about ourselves.
Hi, I just wanted to asked if you have a Playlists for those celebrities stories? If you don't can you please create one like one for a celebrities relationships for example like the Annie and 2face one, and also a celebrities gossip one also. Please and thank you. I just love the way you tell stories abd I wants to watch them in a Playlist style while I'm doing things. Thanks again
Thanks mi darling
Done ☑️
Named "Celebrity Documentary "
You’ve said the truth!!!!!
Really sad stories. I love your charisma in how you present your show. ❤
Your lordship Mrs Neze, all your points are correct. It is senseless and useless for these beautiful sisters to be killing themselves for irrelevant butts. Like you side, it is the "Hookup culture" that our girls involved themselves with this days we have to blame for all this menances in our society.
You have say it all but let always thank God for your look
You’re so correct Neze👌🏾👌🏾
20 year old girl that is supposed to be studying and aiming at getting degrees instead ma Yansh she dey aim for. I don’t feel an iota of pain for her.with the economic situation of the country, she would have put that money into better use and be in the news for a noble reason, but….
Thank God I have a brain to achieve success and not from BBL. I love my flatness & nothing or anyone can make me feel less of myself all to be senseless to pay with my money all for a shape that can’t give me ticket to Heaven. May God keep helping my gender😢
It's very expensive to try God your creator, I pray that our ladies will learn or pay the price. I pity their loved ones
I love your stories. Stay glued is an understatement
Ooo dear, must be a heart attack.
They could have addressed it or called in a cardiologist to see to her.
What blatant careless and recklessness on their part. So.... sad. Lord have mercy😢. May her soul RIPP
Good job my dear well done ,
Sisters lets love our bodies the way God created us .we are all naturally beautiful ❤❤🙏
We still have many ladies still interested in doing thr deadly BBL. Who ever goes and never return, i wish them journey mercies. Let me rock my geepee in peace
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Neze. Please, name and shame the hospital, so people can know it is a slaughter house.
Good analysis. Enjoyed your presentation.
The perception of an ideal body image keeps changing over the years. This was my undergraduate project topic in 2002. It's also sad that a lot of young girls are dealing with poor self esteem issues.
I have my 5 kids here abroad by God grace, I'm grateful and confident for the body God gave me (not the Doctor giving body). I'm not against those doing it but one thing for sure it has it SIDES EFFECT, too much for everything is bad the one that is choke me is the young girls following suits, gosh they don't have any kids yet so why ??? ( indeed low self steem) God have mercy 🙏🏼
Nze I love your story telling style, I personally won't encourage someone to do body enhancements, and if one is to do so , they should go to good hospitals which are very very expensive
The hospital need to be checked whether they are qualified
barrister Neze I have to connect with you on all your platforms because they way I love your vibes ehh
Hmmmm! Dear God Pls come to our rescue o!😢
This huge problem is all over certain country top countries Mexico, America California London etc
I think people who do BBL have complex. I dont know about others but i will never do such.
I’m in Tanzania and yes BBLs are becoming the norm..
Nnee you have spoken well ,Let those who have Ears 👂 hear ooh, and it dawns down to parents as well to be very involved in their Childrens lives ,it can prevent a lot of Circumstances and Situations😢
Exactly the Nigeria govt should never pay attention to this madness, they should face other issues
Having heard these stories some young girls 👭 are preparing for theirs in the same hospital or what ever they call it. So sad I pity her parents.
One clown is pinned up
They do susu for bbl? Is it that serious? That is a sad way to go
When we are not contented with ourselves, we become the enemy's handy tool.
How can this pretty girl think she is not pretty enough.....look how she has ended her life suddenly.
Thank you God for the way you made me.
That doctor needs to be arrested.
Am not Nigerian but l head the similar situation last year but anthing has happened what is really happening such that the government is taking long to act.
That was a nice narration❤❤❤❤
I just love your hair
I agree with your points Barr. Neze
Thanks for the update.
I hit the like button before a minute of viewing ❤❤❤❤
I never feel pity for her . They should continue . Some1 will be preparing to go and do same even as we are analysing this . Pple won't learn
Hmmmmmmmm many people will never learn. Never ever
Women should learn and acknowledge that they are fearfully and wonderfully made by God.
In Ghana as well, these young girls are going under the knife like its nothing
Going for BBL should be condemned. It is senseless.
I recently gave up make ups and any form of enhancements, I am all natural it’s not easy but it’s so refreshing to see me like I was created. Beauty in the outside and rottenness in the inside is what this people have.
Things like makeup, unless allergic, are pretty much harmless and can easily be taken off. Eyelashes( though that glue is dangerous), braids, nails etc are not "permanent" or hard to "reverse" like a BBL or other cosmetic procedures. Nothing is wrong if one wants to dress up and such, but those things like surgeries that mess your body up or can kill you, should be avoided.
One major problem with BBL is pulmonary embolism so if a patient says I can’t breathe that is not common
I fear this generation 😢
I’m content with what I have.
I am not against plastic surgery, but people need to be well informed about the risks involved as well as who is performing their procedure. I never had BBL, but almost 2yrs ago I had a tummy tuck and breast lift. As a 40 something year old mother of 3, I struggled with accepting that my beautiful body suddenly went fown south. I am healthcare provider and I live in the USA , i went to a Harvard trained plastic surgeon and even that I had pulmonary embolism a couple of days later after i got home. Pulmonaryembolism. aka, blood clots in my lungs. If I wasn't a healthcare provider and knew my shortness of breath and dizziness wasn't normal, I would have died. I rushed to the emergency room where I was diagnosed and treated. I am a few of the lucky ones. People need to be careful
Thank God you survived it
@@GracefulKnots hmmmm thank you. When I got to the ER, they said if I had waited one more hour i would have died. I had severe blood clots in both lungs. While I am happy with my surgery results and continued to eat right, exercise and lose weight which eventually got me off my blood pressure medication, my surgery recovery itself was long, painful, traumatic and excruciating. Nothing like what social media portrays
@@kukuakukua Thank God you went in time I can imagine. Social media makes it look like a very easy thing
This is heartbreaking.
If you absolutely need to do this, LOOK FOR A DOCTOR THAT IS NOT JUST BOARD CERTIFIED but DOUBLE BOARD CERTIFIED, my opinion!
Are you seriois😮, are you seconding such act, yuck!!!!!
I agree but depending on what part of the world you live let’s say The US doctors who are great plastic surgeons MOST won’t even perform those procedures because they aren’t (1) medically necessary (2) present such great risk of complications and (3) are so damn expensive most can’t even cover the bill if they wanted to. My guess is to try the gym and diet first. I get something’s the gym and diet won’t give the produce the same results as survey, however it’s worth the try beings though we have seen it done🤷🏽♀️
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@@lynniebunting9035 I beg to slightly differ with a point you made…that you can get the same results with going to the gym. You can never get rid of same fat and get curves just from going to the gym that will make you look like you went under the knife. You get more curves and definition when you go under the knife than when you simply work out at the gym; however, this is not to discourage anyone that hopes to obtain good results from working out.
Ironically, those running to their untimely death thru BBL are females that life is treating them favourably and they are already doing very, very well for themselves within life scopes of things.. So, when they go out there and pay for their very own death?..., THEN, THEY DIE WELL. My sorrow/pity arises only within true events of life trouble and injustice to humankind, not overfeeding & stupidity in dramatic costumes.
This trend is really wrong,but one thing i know about women,is that most of them wont back down once they have their mind locked on to it,to those who lost their lives RIP, to those planing to also go under the knife wish you LUCK
And here I am, with my very big butt that I would like to reduce. It’s not worth the waist and ankle pain, having big butts.
You look beautiful sister ❤❤😊😊
You are just right 👍
This is sickening. The short of breath and difficult in breathing was due to blood clots, very common with surgery and BBL if poorly managed.
So sad but it's not possible to lay complaints to a doctor and he does nothing about it. No doctor wants his or her patient to die.