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Phila and Bongani share their pain | Downtime with Somizi S1 | 1Magic | Episode 05

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  • Опубликовано: 16 май 2022
  • Growing up with legends as parents isn't all that we might think it is and this past week, Phila and Bongani opened up and shared with us their struggles with depression and anxiety and what has caused it while Somizi reassures them that it does get better and greener on the other side of it all.
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Комментарии • 118

  • @fezilenkabinde9087
    @fezilenkabinde9087 2 года назад +104

    Bongani is looking good and healthy. Happy for him

  • @keepitfrankwithfentse
    @keepitfrankwithfentse 2 года назад +151

    The pain in Phila's eyes...I just hope he can heal from everything he is experiencing. Its not easy.

    • @nhlanhlanzimande4001
      @nhlanhlanzimande4001 Год назад +1

      Yoh I did see that nami from Philas eyes..
      I really hope he gets better mentally

  • @tshenolodikgale1186
    @tshenolodikgale1186 2 года назад +75

    Wow 😲 Somizis’s and Bongani’s reaction when Phila confessed that he’s on a verge of depression, priceless moment 😭😭😭😭

  • @ginger_nlm41
    @ginger_nlm41 2 года назад +47

    Men to have more of these conversations. His vulnerability is empowering. Hope someone watching can seek help

  • @lawrenforcemann1800
    @lawrenforcemann1800 2 года назад +76

    To add onto what Phila said, sometimes it's not even the thought of other people being happier without you being around, it's also the feeling of being too exhausted to even think of your loved ones' feelings, and also thinking that you'd feel so much better if you actually ended things. This feeling never goes away, but the intensity differs from day to day. I know. Virtual hugs to everyone going through depression ❤

  • @augustinemsomi6336
    @augustinemsomi6336 2 года назад +23

    I need to say this from the bottom of my heart I am so happy and proud that Somizi thought it was better to have such a show in Mzansi, we need more shows like this. They promote healing and people should learn to talk more about what they are going through in life. It makes it easier for society to relate to celebrities BCS under the fame n money they are humans as well and we are tired of them taking their lives. Thank you Somizi. GOD bless you brother

  • @noendlovu4788
    @noendlovu4788 2 года назад +17

    I love Bongani, I have always felt that he has been misunderstood for a long time and hope people will put themselves in his shoes and then maybe we can empathise and get to see where he is coming from. I would love to see his show coming back because it was good to see him as he evolved. As for Phila, I also feel his pain and I am glad that he is opening up to his pain and hope he will get the support he needs. That was a very touching and beautiful episode Somizi👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @SuiYong
    @SuiYong 2 года назад +44

    Their reaction seemed so genuine ❤

  • @edzisanipatriciavhuromu801
    @edzisanipatriciavhuromu801 2 года назад +35

    Big up to you guys, this is a real talk. You must be thankful to be able to have an opportunity to sit in the same table with Somg and hold that kind of topic. I’m so so touched.

  • @dineomokgosi411
    @dineomokgosi411 10 месяцев назад +2

    This is my favourite episode. I have watched it so many times. This is real talk. I wish I could give them tight hugs. They have come a long way.
    Thank you so much Somizi for giving us this type of content. 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾 More seasons please!

  • @ladyzama5450
    @ladyzama5450 2 года назад +25

    We need more of such uplifting therapeutic shows

  • @sandilevumase4498
    @sandilevumase4498 2 года назад +20

    Being a child of a celeb...be strong guysm..my prayers are with you

  • @sisandangiba8666
    @sisandangiba8666 2 года назад +6

    You can tell Bongani really empathises. When Phila said sometimes he feels people would be happier if he wasn’t around☹️

  • @Jaythecook
    @Jaythecook 2 года назад +13

    Ooh bakith.. The pain in Phila's eyes😭😭. I hope both of you heal.

  • @thumekajordaan3920
    @thumekajordaan3920 2 года назад +21

    Bongani look handsome and sober, wish he could stay that way and more. You guys are lucky to have this opportunity, you will learn a lot of positive stuff from Somizi.
    I'm sorry for all what you went through I mean all of you.❤💛❤💛❤💛❤

  • @nonxubaadmin382
    @nonxubaadmin382 2 года назад +5

    Phila stay strong, the fact that you are on such a public platform talking about it is a milestone on its own indicating prosperity. Please persevere . The devil 👿 is a liar * in Somizi’s voice* You have been amongst my favs since Idols. Love you to bits !!! 🙏

  • @prudencepitso9750
    @prudencepitso9750 2 года назад +15

    Phila and Bongz touched me i literally feel their pain but its gona be ok it will workout and be well.we sometimes think Men have it easy they dnt go through the most like women do.depression is real

  • @pheladilentswane4568
    @pheladilentswane4568 2 года назад +9

    Let's get our boys talking, I love how he can express himself

  • @kidiboneruby4640
    @kidiboneruby4640 2 года назад +24

    I enjoyed this episode , it was bitter sweet , guys im soo proud of u , that u dint commit suicide , a lot of people can learn a lot from u guys .

  • @regaugetswemoabelo859
    @regaugetswemoabelo859 2 года назад +7

    How am I only learning of this show today. The honesty here is something else.

  • @tashingamavu1208
    @tashingamavu1208 2 года назад +10

    Oh Nkosi yami. Please help our generation dear Lord. 🙏

  • @mayolutholi5877
    @mayolutholi5877 2 года назад +10

    Yhooo Phila broke my heart ngxesi buti

  • @olgatalksmotlhabane8206
    @olgatalksmotlhabane8206 2 года назад +16

    🥺this was so brave of you guys😢❤️ Bongani looks good, I'm happy 🌻Phila it will get better🕯️

  • @nonhlanhlamahlangu8427
    @nonhlanhlamahlangu8427 2 года назад +16

    Aahhh Phila ❤️❤️❤️❤️ you will get through it. Kuzolunga

  • @lebonemaimane9686
    @lebonemaimane9686 2 года назад +1

    Somizi is giving south africans the type of content we wanna watch. Things that are uplifting us, giving context about how we conclude about people’s lives. I love this show and i wish they could play it on showmax

  • @_molebogeng6281
    @_molebogeng6281 2 года назад +6

    Ohhh Phila🥺 Bongani should have given him a hug not a fist bump, men it's okay to embrace one another

  • @khangelwakhathi508
    @khangelwakhathi508 2 года назад +3

    Men need to talk about these things more often among themselves in private and on public platforms for those who are comfortable about speaking publicly. It is so important for the young boys to learn to deal with their emotions and their pain!!!

  • @crownedtalks1789
    @crownedtalks1789 2 года назад +19

    'I just want to sleep and never wake up' deep

    • @Kate_Ntombela
      @Kate_Ntombela 2 года назад +1

      Yah

    • @windsorsegooa6933
      @windsorsegooa6933 2 года назад +1

      devil IA a lier all is going to be well may God hide you under his Holy Wings and give you peace . May he renew your mind May He purify your mind May He open your spiritual eyes and ears. All negative voices that are troubling you May He silence them in The Mighty Name of Jesus . The Blood of Jesus Is Upon You BE Healed Phila God is not done with you. Amen

    • @crownedtalks1789
      @crownedtalks1789 2 года назад

      @@windsorsegooa6933 Amen and amen. Thank you.

    • @phumi343
      @phumi343 2 года назад

      @@windsorsegooa6933 Amen 🙏🏼

  • @guguvilakazi4966
    @guguvilakazi4966 2 года назад +1

    as i always say guys lets be nice to each other, we are dealing with different inner struggles, wish i could give these guys a big hug

  • @LihleM1
    @LihleM1 2 года назад +2

    That fist bump from Bongani shows he gets it, it was deep.

  • @phelisakoleoso7049
    @phelisakoleoso7049 2 года назад +2

    Well done Somz... Men need to open up and share their pains, fears just let it out. Stop acting all tough guys,speak it out.. death is very selfish. I wish you all the best boys 🙏💐💕

  • @saneliswatosela8611
    @saneliswatosela8611 2 года назад +5

    I cried watching this :'(

  • @thandekamaziya3748
    @thandekamaziya3748 2 года назад +18

    Whenever i see Bongane am both thankful and impressed he is still alive, he was one of the people i worry about when it comes to suicide and celebrities he has been through a lot...
    These people keep us entertained so we need to keep them in our prayers as well not just criticize them nje

  • @mateobanda6808
    @mateobanda6808 2 года назад +10

    This was so deep

  • @ntandokhumalo7119
    @ntandokhumalo7119 2 года назад +1

    Eka Bongani has always brought me to tears

  • @namhladlomo1140
    @namhladlomo1140 Год назад

    Phila mntasekhaya ndiyayazi inhlungu okuyo.Nawe Bongani.Ndiyanicela madoda,zeni qine nomelele,nicimge about the good times you had with oMama benu.Nam ndaswelekelwa nguMama In 2022 kodwa ndomelele.Kuzolunga bafwethu.Nihlale ethembeni,nithandaze

  • @tebogoramokgobedi2309
    @tebogoramokgobedi2309 2 года назад +3

    Ooh Phila the sadness in his eyes💔

  • @tsholomodibedi2236
    @tsholomodibedi2236 2 года назад

    Laba ba ntwana man they posses something sooo special they soooo famous but not afraid to be vulnerable & share thier most heartfelt pain 😞😞😞😞😞😞

  • @Buntle7
    @Buntle7 2 года назад +1

    Oh God I just cried watching this...So much pain...I could only imagine. What Ohila spoke about...Can u imagine being in his shoes. Oh Nkosi yami give strength to these men and all the men who've gone through pain and loss and who are still expected to keep showing up and being perfect and knowing everything and being breadwinners and perfect husbamds, fathers etc...Let us be more kinder to our men...Let's show them love. This was just so painful..When it's better to die so you can just be...Hayi no...I get it...But it shouldn't be like this..May God strengthen us all

  • @timbawangu3038
    @timbawangu3038 2 года назад +1

    God bless you guys. All of you and those represented

  • @mmalefamathibe3401
    @mmalefamathibe3401 2 года назад

    It's really sad to hear this what Phila has been through the pain in his eyes,
    Bongani looks nice and clean I wish all the best to him also,is so sad to be a child and your life has to be in the public because of your parents, you are a child you never choice them but you are being label and judge because of them.Keep it up guys by talking about this issues we cannot keep on loosing young man

  • @sifezilemabuza9127
    @sifezilemabuza9127 2 года назад +6

    I know this feeling

  • @SamantheaMoemedi-yy8pt
    @SamantheaMoemedi-yy8pt 7 месяцев назад

    Yoh this episode😢😢😢got me teary through out the entire show

  • @honeydate
    @honeydate Год назад

    You never know what someone is going through - BE KIND!

  • @latoyakalu5596
    @latoyakalu5596 2 года назад

    My God. Just look at bongani. Im so happy

  • @morpheus6394
    @morpheus6394 2 года назад +6

    Bra, parents fight for their kids to have opportunities but the dark side is that when they have all, they have nothing to fight for.

  • @christianmaterial2417
    @christianmaterial2417 2 года назад +1

    Sending hugs to all of you

  • @brabandra4806
    @brabandra4806 2 года назад

    I can relate, and im almost in tears.

    • @tamaramoni6767
      @tamaramoni6767 2 года назад

      Stay strong, hope you doing better brother konke kuzolunga

  • @sindiswakasali355
    @sindiswakasali355 2 года назад

    I could just cry . I feel so so so for them . Kunzima man guys hiyu

  • @diatilenthoba8262
    @diatilenthoba8262 2 года назад

    I enjoyed this show....big up men you are so inspirational.

  • @heartofakingngwenya2383
    @heartofakingngwenya2383 2 года назад +1

    😭😭😭😭💔When he said me..... My heart broke

  • @portiamkhwnazi1726
    @portiamkhwnazi1726 2 года назад

    Much love to Phila and Bongani❤❤❤

  • @momomotlhabane6621
    @momomotlhabane6621 2 года назад

    Yoh I didn't think I'd cry like this today 😭😭😭I hope Phila gets through this 😭🙏

  • @sikhuthazejubisa3860
    @sikhuthazejubisa3860 2 года назад

    We men go through so much and it's so painful when even the closest people to you can't notice when something is wrong.

  • @zusibone
    @zusibone 2 года назад

    Phila Madlingozi just stretched the surface. There is so much to be said and men are dying from depression..

  • @tebellokhali9707
    @tebellokhali9707 2 года назад +2

    Hang in there , keep on pushing even when you Wana give up ,it always get better than you imagination ,you will not believe that you even have those thoughts when God blow your mind and make you see why I kept you ,why I created you ,what is your purpose to be here ,when all your why questions have answers ,my beautiful people l beg you all not take your lives Jesus really do love you whole heartedly just believe and you will see an instant change❤️❤️

  • @previous633
    @previous633 2 года назад

    I understand uphill, I have been there.

  • @Lerato9009
    @Lerato9009 Год назад

    This was such a heavy episode! Wish you both all the best 🫂

  • @tshenolodikgale1186
    @tshenolodikgale1186 2 года назад

    Bongani really looks good

  • @zinhledhlamini6320
    @zinhledhlamini6320 2 года назад

    Phila ♥️♥️♥️sending you love bro

  • @tsitsidzashezhova2609
    @tsitsidzashezhova2609 2 года назад +1

    I'm loving this Somizi thank you ♥️we need more like you get them to open up sending love

  • @namhladlomo1140
    @namhladlomo1140 Год назад

    Such handsome chaps.....

  • @zandilemamali2496
    @zandilemamali2496 2 года назад

    The only thing we need to get into our minds is celebrities are human beings... Let us not expect them to be perfect. Phumani apho guys!!

  • @thaatosetseho278
    @thaatosetseho278 2 года назад

    This is sooo painful 😭😭😭people go through a lot.. 💔🥺🥺

  • @pamadonis176
    @pamadonis176 2 года назад

    Oh guys, niphole, Nkulunkulu abekunyr nani. Know that we love you. And don’t ever give up, know that tomorrow is given unto you so that you can try again. Keep at it, keep on keeping on, xa nimkile no one will be happy, we will be sad, more especially your loved ones. Life is not easy, keep your heads up and try again the next day. Give life your best even if it’s always disappointing you, khona apho kuzode kulunge khona.

  • @khosidlomo7406
    @khosidlomo7406 2 года назад

    Lord; Please help your children. Enkosi Somizi😍

  • @vistom5784
    @vistom5784 2 года назад

    I'm going through dipression currently I ven think the best for me right now is the suicide so I can just rest in peace though my family and relatives will not be in peace😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @MissOndela
    @MissOndela 2 года назад +6

    💔💔🥹Phila…he’ll be okay man

  • @amandambonani700
    @amandambonani700 2 года назад

    This hit home.

  • @karabothoahlane3925
    @karabothoahlane3925 2 года назад

    haibooo Phila!!!😱😱😱😱😱😱🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @thandekamaziya3748
    @thandekamaziya3748 2 года назад

    I feel what Phila is saying beause from what i see people will not want to work with you because 1. people think you are difficult to work with because you may have had everything and 2. they think people will think i hired him because ungumtana kabanibani

  • @noncebacaster4035
    @noncebacaster4035 2 года назад

    phila😭😭😭I feel you mtase

  • @latoyakalu5596
    @latoyakalu5596 2 года назад

    Oh my God. Bongani. I was at the funeral of brenda. With a white man. And all the elders of jouburg. They treat me like a VIP. Iam very happy to bongani. Look so healthy

  • @marthamaphosa3890
    @marthamaphosa3890 2 года назад

    We look upto you guys be strong

  • @tinymajenge839
    @tinymajenge839 2 года назад

    Sometimes you just dont know why u even sad 💔💔

  • @nqobilepromise7677
    @nqobilepromise7677 2 года назад +6

    That "nyani?😐

    • @motshehoankuna6024
      @motshehoankuna6024 2 года назад

      Yooh I felt it too. They are beautiful people to react like that. It shows they care.

  • @corporateservices2610
    @corporateservices2610 2 года назад

    Uxolo Phila 🤗🤗

  • @ciandahebe5692
    @ciandahebe5692 2 года назад

    Ohno Phila I felt your pain

  • @naomimodise5113
    @naomimodise5113 2 года назад

    Phila😭😭😭💔💔💔💔

  • @noluvuyomakhoba2901
    @noluvuyomakhoba2901 2 года назад

    Men are going through a lot 💔

  • @siyolisemakaka6013
    @siyolisemakaka6013 2 года назад +5

    Owh maarn guys... Uxolweni maarn

    • @aniefotoi891
      @aniefotoi891 2 года назад

      Just cried because I know how it feels... Phila mara

  • @nosiphomalaka1280
    @nosiphomalaka1280 2 года назад

    "People would be happier without you around"

  • @litsoanentsalongsylvester9197
    @litsoanentsalongsylvester9197 2 года назад

    Phila is definitely broken... Lawd🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️

  • @kayak30
    @kayak30 2 года назад

    God help us seriously, mental health is real.Lets talk about it and somizi has saved my life more than once , just listening to him addressing depression saved me. So thank you so much🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @mamelisa.official
    @mamelisa.official 2 года назад

    Mmmmh phila 💔

  • @nhlanhlanzimande4001
    @nhlanhlanzimande4001 Год назад

    This is painful to watch ..
    Seeing human beings suffer like this because of the pressure the society brings to them because of who their parents are....its very inconsiderate of people to do that..
    I hope these souls can really surface mentally and be fulfilled and be happy again ....most importantly to find that balance mentally and emotionally

  • @sinenhlanhlamthethwa5661
    @sinenhlanhlamthethwa5661 2 года назад

    Can Phila please get some form of assistance/ counseling.

  • @pearlhlengiwe9427
    @pearlhlengiwe9427 2 года назад

    This is the part where they should have gave him a hug

  • @LebogangShazzygalMalatji
    @LebogangShazzygalMalatji 2 года назад

    💔💔💔lets get talking

  • @dineomaliehe2526
    @dineomaliehe2526 2 года назад

    Phila sound like his Dad when he speaks Xhosa though ...... am so sad about this 😢

  • @sibulelenqwelo8324
    @sibulelenqwelo8324 2 года назад

    Oh maan 😢

  • @coyottittocoetzee438
    @coyottittocoetzee438 2 года назад

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @zansikhosana4869
    @zansikhosana4869 2 года назад +1

    😭😭😭😭😭

  • @ayandayeni7968
    @ayandayeni7968 2 года назад

    Wheeew😭😭

  • @RayOfLetsatsi
    @RayOfLetsatsi 2 года назад

    💔💔

  • @ThabisoRatlou
    @ThabisoRatlou 2 года назад

    😭

  • @phumza2567
    @phumza2567 2 года назад

    💔💔💔💔💔

  • @misskarun2548
    @misskarun2548 2 года назад

    I have had to cut everybody offff

  • @sabelogama5686
    @sabelogama5686 2 года назад

    Let's just say people have their own views about depression and mine differs

  • @maletapatamakotoko7484
    @maletapatamakotoko7484 2 года назад

    whose chopping onions...