Dawg he did NOT need to tell you that. Liking bigger women is not a fetish just like liking skinny women isn’t a fetish! If he likes you regardless of figure then it’s not a fetish. Someone with a foot fetish wouldn’t date someone without feet. She’s pushed herself into this space where she’s the victim of his nonexistent fetish when she’s clearly not… no one talks about their ideal type with their partner. She claims she fell in love with his personality and that she’s perfect or something when he did the same thing
Liking a certain type of figure, person, personality, race, ect doesn't necessarily mean it's a fetish but it definitely CAN turn into one. Big people fetishes are definitely a thing (same with skinny fetish). Some people take it to the extreme while some are low key about it. To say no one talks about their ideal partner with their SO is wrong. Very wrong as many couples actually discuss that. Most times it's an ice breaker question so idk where you got that thought from
@@QueenMizu I agree, it definitely can turn into a fetish but those things are usually very obvious and easy to spot even before hand are they not? They usually tell on themselves. Also, correction no HEALTHY couple talks about their ideal type, I do know that people do it but I mostly see it in America. Where I am from I usually never hear of anyone doing such foolish things so that’s where I ‘got that’s thought from.’
@@jeuneverse eh you'd be surprised. Have you ever heard the reddit story of the woman who found out her fiance had a fat fetish? Wasn't even for her but about himself. He'd tell her he was trying to lose weight but would go on forums on reddit on how to make yourself bigger. He really got off from it it was weird. Poor woman was worried sick about him. That correction is even ruder but it's honestly whatever. It's talked about a lot in Europe too but I don't know much outside of that so I won't comment further on it 🤷♀️
@@QueenMizu the correction was for myself not you so I apologize for the lack of clarification. Also I have not but that’s so interesting , I’m not well versed in the world of fetishes so you learn something new everyday it seems. I’m sure it definitely exists in Europe but perhaps it’s not something people take as seriously or feel the need to mention to other people?
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I just assume all guys that like big women are for fetishy reasons. Especially since society tends to think big women simply can’t be loved otherwise
True. Although there's like half of them. Not all
Dawg he did NOT need to tell you that. Liking bigger women is not a fetish just like liking skinny women isn’t a fetish! If he likes you regardless of figure then it’s not a fetish. Someone with a foot fetish wouldn’t date someone without feet. She’s pushed herself into this space where she’s the victim of his nonexistent fetish when she’s clearly not… no one talks about their ideal type with their partner. She claims she fell in love with his personality and that she’s perfect or something when he did the same thing
Liking a certain type of figure, person, personality, race, ect doesn't necessarily mean it's a fetish but it definitely CAN turn into one. Big people fetishes are definitely a thing (same with skinny fetish). Some people take it to the extreme while some are low key about it.
To say no one talks about their ideal partner with their SO is wrong. Very wrong as many couples actually discuss that. Most times it's an ice breaker question so idk where you got that thought from
I do agree with you that she's victimizing herself tho
@@QueenMizu I agree, it definitely can turn into a fetish but those things are usually very obvious and easy to spot even before hand are they not? They usually tell on themselves. Also, correction no HEALTHY couple talks about their ideal type, I do know that people do it but I mostly see it in America. Where I am from I usually never hear of anyone doing such foolish things so that’s where I ‘got that’s thought from.’
@@jeuneverse eh you'd be surprised. Have you ever heard the reddit story of the woman who found out her fiance had a fat fetish? Wasn't even for her but about himself. He'd tell her he was trying to lose weight but would go on forums on reddit on how to make yourself bigger. He really got off from it it was weird. Poor woman was worried sick about him.
That correction is even ruder but it's honestly whatever. It's talked about a lot in Europe too but I don't know much outside of that so I won't comment further on it 🤷♀️
@@QueenMizu the correction was for myself not you so I apologize for the lack of clarification. Also I have not but that’s so interesting , I’m not well versed in the world of fetishes so you learn something new everyday it seems. I’m sure it definitely exists in Europe but perhaps it’s not something people take as seriously or feel the need to mention to other people?