You can’t look sexier than the bride might, gotta ditch the best for the 2nd best, because you’d want someone else to do the same on your day too, lol.
I’ve been to around 50 weddings (a lot of Italian relatives) and I have a good amount of experience in this department. Dress 2 and 5 are probably the most appropriate. Dress 2 probably more so. The last thing you want to do as a woman at a wedding is outshine the bride or draw attention away from the bride. It’s HER day, not yours. Wear something simple, modest, and NOT too extravagant. Basically what I’m saying is that dress 1 and 3 are extremely inappropriate to attend someone else’s wedding with. Hope this helps!
Yeah in some cultures it seen as rude to dress up fancier or more loud than the bride, so yeah, probably option 2. Option one and three are still pretty but they’re just… A little loud 😅
The second one isn't wedding appropriate because the 3 big taboos at a wedding are 1. you don't wear white, 2. You don't outshine the bride and 3. you don't wear black!
@@check2653 Some do. Not most. But I have heard of weddings with a disco or hippo themes. Those would be the only times I could see the 1 and 3 dresses not being ridiculous choices.
It is incredibly inappropriate for a woman to wear black to a wedding, the only thing worse would be white. (Unless it aligns with the theme or it's an order of the bride, of course.) The fourth one is kinda pretty, but it is at least two sizes too big for her. Still the only one of the dresses shown that is not eye molestation and incredibly inappropriate, so if she wears a nice blazer or a cute jacket with it, maybe it'll work. Just cover up the back because that's where you see that it's too big. Note: I would kill to have a waist like hers❤
@@KawaiiPrincess_Loveall of them scream “LOOK AT ME!” All attention should be on the bride and by far number 2 was her best option..i dont think she knows how to dress for a wedding… (the creator)
2 or 4, depending on the theme of the wedding. Just don't wear one that takes any attention away from the bride. Also, probably 2 if 4 is the least "you" of all the dresses. Have fun!
Omg thank you I have no idea why the top comment is saying the opposite, I think the first one and the third one are WAYY more eye-catching (especially the first one), the second one looked the least eye-catching but still really pretty and perfectly suitable for a wedding
@@LIROSTRAWBLES I’ve been to a couple of weddings and there are some unwritten rules like the bride wearing a silk saree and the regular people wearing regular cotton but that’s just my opinion
It's not hard to wear something that both looks good and won't outshine the bride, also i was just stating the truth. It's the bride and groom's day after all. Ngl, you've got me interested in indian weddings-
I feel like it depends on the theme of the wedding! All are gorgeous, but i think 2 and 4 are the cutest for a normal wedding, and the others would be super cute if its a really fancy wedding
Definitely 2!!!! You don’t want to take attention away from the bride! You are amazingly beautiful and dress 2 looked best on you and more appropriate for a wedding guest attire. 🥂
@@karly.asshhh well that's great for you but don't be mad if someone in your guest party comes up to someone next to you and tells them "you look great I love that dress where did you get it??" and then walk off
2 and 4 are the best options for a wedding, you want to be classy and elegant without putting to much effort into your look, it’s about the bride not you
You're definitely not arab 😂 In middle east arab weddings We tend to deal with a wedding as if it's the Oscars of the met gala or something 😂 Every girl picks the most standing out shimmery shinny glittery huge gown and make ultimate make up so she's not even recognizable anymore and the hair they make huge hair styles and even though the bride stands out more than everybody else in her huge white gown no one steals her moment or something.. but yeah I know we tend to really over over our looks in wedding unlike western people Even Asians like Japanese tend to have simple dresses and nice quiet romantic music It's just us in the middle who are really really load in how we look and in our music and dancing are extremely load too
2 and 5. You don’t want to be louder than the bride. It’s not a time to shine the brightest: it’s a day you go and celebrate someone else, so it’s best to not be flashy.
@@범금후 its just common sense to not wear something flashy or white out of respect for the bride. also common sense not to wear flip flops or jeans. set rules is where the bride and groom request all guests to be in one specific color.
#2 that being said you ROCK 1 and 3. If i was getting narried you could totally wear one of those. Personally i would love it. All look great on you. Even the "1970s Tea Party" dress.
Having been to at least 12 weddings that I can name off the top of my head, 2 is the best option. The last one is a decent choice as well. The other three are absolutely out of the question, especially the first one.
I think option 4 was the best LOL. The pink one looked like you were ready to work at a car wash and the purple one that you mentioned you had when you were five looked more of NYE dress than for a wedding
Silhouette of 2, don’t wear black to a wedding unless it is black tie or better dress code or specifically requested in the invite. Some consider it bad luck. The time of day of the wedding could impact the formality of the event.
@@check2653 All the other dresses are inappropriate for a wedding, like the pink one was too bright, the purple one was too loud and the other purple one showed off too much skin. The reason number 2 is appropriate is because it is the simplest (out of all the dresses) and not distracting. The reason people won't wear colourful or fun dresses is because it outshines the bride - which you never want to do. The bride is supposed to be the most beautiful, and showing up with a dress that outshines hers is rude.
Definitely options two or 4. You don’t want to be too flashy at a wedding. Also depending on the theme I’d go for the last one. You should really ask the couple what they think.
I think option 2 would be the best for a wedding. It's not too distracting, and it also makes you look great without taking attention away from the bride and groom. Edit: I had no idea that wearing black to a wedding was disrespectful, and also I thought the dress was green
Not even like most but seems the only to fit the wedding day, and about black so yes they might discuss it or can discuss with a closed one and then all is good.
I never really understood that about white weddings. In our culture, there’s no such thing as “outshining the bride” lol sounds the most childish shit ever. The bride and groom themselves would feel very offended if people didn’t try their hardest to stand out and look the best on their wedding day.
i think that number 2 was the most appropriate because it was pretty but not loud or something that might draw too much attention because we want all the attention on the bride! but i do think all the dresses are pretty, it’s just that dress 2 is the most appropriate for the occasion.
Definitely number 2. You want to look cute. It’s like fancy but also semi casual. So simple dresses and heels. You don’t want to out do the bride and be distracting in any way.
Idk how it is in America or other coutries but in my, we cannot Wear white and black on someones wedding, the only person who can Wear white is bride and nobody is allowed to Wear black except man,they can Wear a black suit but women cant Wear all black clothes, maybe some details can be black but not the dress
@@kayleighburr1083 oh I didnt knew that bc of the dress she wanted to Wear with flowers,it was black so I thought that its different in America with weddings
@@kayleighburr1083 yes white is defenitely not allowed except details but I didnt knew that in America its fine to Wear black on a wedding, as i said in my country its not allowed except for mens suits and maybe some details in dresses but women cant Wear black and white except for bride
Either option 2 or 5. American wedding rules: When going to a wedding, do not wear white or any really pale color. Don’t wear a gown or anything overly beaded or ornate. Don’t wear something that shows a ton of skin unless it is summer, but even then make sure it is tasteful skin, not a minidress or your boobs hanging out. The point of the wedding is NOT the guest or the guest’s fashion. So don’t wear something you may wear to a club or a party. Think, something you would wear to tea.
The second one is the most normal one. And that dress is gorgeous as well. Wish it's in lighter color though. But we should always remember not to try to steal the spotlight.
It’s not supposed to scream look at me it’s supposed to be something that highlights the bride in my opinion not that look at me as a bad thing not trying to judge just saying
1 and 3 are an absolute no go. 5 is ok? But 2 and 4 are your safest options. Advice, if something looks too flashy, its not for the wedding. The wedding party is usually the flashy ones and you dont want to be stealing the spotlight at a wedding by wearing something like over the top or by wearing white unless you’re told white is ok.
I think five is beautiful. It’s summery & chic. I agree that the pink & purple are an absolute no. You are not supposed to take attention away from the bride. I would consider it pretty disrespectful to wear either of those to a wedding, unless the wedding has a theme like disco-inspired & they fit the theme. Otherwise, it seems pretty self-centered to wear either of the two.
You show all of them to the bride because every dress except 2 is so unacceptable she is going to cey happy tears of relief when she sees 2 and won't question much after that.
the only thing you have to keep in mind when it comes to weddings is that you dont want to steal the spotlight from the bride. So I think options 2 and 4 are the most appropriate
Am I the only one who thinks the whole “I don’t want my guests to steal the spotlight” thing is literally so narcissistic?? Like wouldn’t you want your friends and family to look great at your wedding too as they’re there to support you?? Why would you want them to deliberately dress not as nice as they potentially could? Getting mad at guests wearing nice fancy clothes to weddings seems like such a bridezilla thing to me. Like as long as it’s not a long white dress so they don’t get mistaken for the bride, I don’t see any problem. Random rant but yeah, wedding culture in the west is so wierd to me.
@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy well i don't think it's about being narcissistic.. even if the bride herself doesn't get mad at someone, i think it is basic manners to not to try outshine the bride herself.. it is their wedding,the most special day for them,they should be the main focus.. so going to a wedding wearing something "too much" just seems very ill mannered to me. And i don't think it's a western only thing either. I'm Asian myself, and I would never wear something that would outshine the bride.. that feels super weird and rude to me
@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy It’s definitely not just a western thing, it’s basic respect in my culture to wear something that doesn’t resemble a bride’s dress or something flashy that will outshine the bride. Just common sense and respect, like how you wouldn’t wear a wedding dress to a wedding
@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy it’s more narcissistic to think that it’s ok to take the spotlight away from someone else’s day, seeing as they’ve invited you from a free party and free food
@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy dude it is their special day…it is nice to be selfless once in a while you know? It is just being considerate of other’s feelings
@@Straw_berry_671 No, it does not depend on the wedding. It is #1 rule for all weddings - DO NOT try to outshine the bride. Don't do that - it is very rude. It is not your day to shine. It is the wedding couple's day to shine. So, dial it back about 10, and don't do that - Be respectful to the wedding couple. If they wear a burlap sack - you better be showing up in a Hefty bag dress.
@@valkyre420 I don't think you get but not every wedding has this rule especially if it's the brides choice and all cultures are different and we shouldn't disrespect it.
@@valkyre420 I have no idea what your talking about all I'm trying to say is that not every wedding has this "rule" and can make up other rules to follow maybe you have to wear all black or wear a really pretty dress it's all up the bride. Also in different cultures around the world you can even look/dress up prettier to the bride but it's all up to the brides choice once again
I’ve never even been to a wedding and I can tell you for a fact that 1 and 3 and absolutely inappropriate to wear to someone else’s wedding. Avoid anything too bright/neon, flashy, or noisy.
Tip: if you’re going to a wedding, don’t wear something dramatic, it might look like you’re trying to take attention away from the bride. Almost dress as if you’re a background character. So I think 2 or 4 are the best choices. Edit: Guys ik not all weddings are like this but I’ve seen some brides get pretty upset ab shit like this. Any SANE person wouldn’t care but I’d play it safe by going for something classy that also isn’t TOO out there. (For example: my mum’s friend got pissed off at my mum for wearing a particular dress because she thought “she was trying to steal the attention away from her.” Needless to say they aren’t friends anymore lol.
Lmao honestly I feel like desi weddings are the total opposite. My mom is always like, “oh my god a wedding, time to look my best!” And I’m pretty sure the other guests are like that too 💀
At indian weddings, everyone in the fam be sparkling top to bottom. The bride and groom still get plently attention. Although yes, one should always dress according to the wedding's general dress code
European weddings are like that. For Indian weddings, even if everyone wears their fanciest dress (and they do. It can't be too plain for weddings), it is literally impossible to upstage the bride.
i love all of them, but second has the most wedding vibes cause it's more chill and laid back (though the first one is my favorite just not for weddings)
@@fluffypineapple790 you’re getting invited to celebrate THEIR day because they want you there, not because they want you to be the center of attention
Although it’s a bit old school, you’re technically not supposed to wear black to a wedding either. So that leaves the last two! I would vote for the last one because it’s less showy but still cute. I would wear that with some little heels and some delicate jewelry and you’re good to go!!
Haha. It's funny to hear that so many brides are insecure of themselves that they'd be intimidated by the guests. In india we appreciate all the overdressed guests 🥰
I feel like option 2 is the most wedding appropriate. You don't want to draw more attention to yourself than the bride so the pink and sequins may not be the best options.
It shows that you guys don’t have logic sense she does not know she’s not taking the spot light and the pride is definitely wherein something better then that and it’s not her fault she has barely been to weddings and you quoting it wrong. “I don’t know what appropriate dresses are” are wrong she added wedding dresses so ur saying she has no style what so ever? Or was it a mistake?
I agree. Unless the married couple tells you otherwise always go for the more subtle option. Now if they tell you go ham, wear whatever you’d like, take that as you wish.
@@myyou7335 It’s at least not offensive for a wedding like the 1st and 3rd. I doubt she would step on anyone’s toes wearing it even if it looks a little out of place.
@@lumeria7229 yup i definitely see where you're coming from! I feel you could get away with it, but it all depends on how well you know the people, etc.
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2nd & 4th are the most appropriate dresses. Simple and classy.
Feel like the 4th is perhaps a bit too neon
The goal of your outfit at a wedding is to look as good as you can WITHOUT DRAWING ATENTION AWAY FROM THE BRIDE!
@@tikimillie it’s neon?? option 4 looks like a pastel purple to me
@@Bumblebee_honeycone what i meant was that it was too strong a color. I wouldn’t call it pastel though, would have to be lighter than that.
True. It shocks me to see so many of these young women who were never taught proper dress etiquette for weddings.
"I don't know if I know what appropriate wedding dresses are"
Me, out loud, as soon as the first dress shows up "NOT THAT ONE THAT'S FOR SURE"
That was literally me, my jaw dropped😂
And 1 or 3 is her best pick 🤣
Oh my god! Those are the exact words I used 🤣🤣🤣
The 4
that’s exactly what i said!
The second one is the most wedding “
Appropriate” because of its subtle feel
Yeah that'swhat I think
No 3
Ya
You can’t look sexier than the bride might, gotta ditch the best for the 2nd best, because you’d want someone else to do the same on your day too, lol.
Its black though you're not suppose to wear black or white
Number 2 is the best one for a wedding. Stylish, yet subtle.
I’ve been to around 50 weddings (a lot of Italian relatives) and I have a good amount of experience in this department. Dress 2 and 5 are probably the most appropriate. Dress 2 probably more so. The last thing you want to do as a woman at a wedding is outshine the bride or draw attention away from the bride. It’s HER day, not yours. Wear something simple, modest, and NOT too extravagant. Basically what I’m saying is that dress 1 and 3 are extremely inappropriate to attend someone else’s wedding with. Hope this helps!
I'm Italian and have been to a crazy amount of weddings too! I also thought option 2 and 5 were the best.
she definitely needs to see this comment...
I completely agree!
@@jadynnewsome390 I think she was joking about wearing the big poofy and sequence dress 💀
I fully agree!
So the second dress is the most wedding appropriate one it’s simple yet elegant
Yeah in some cultures it seen as rude to dress up fancier or more loud than the bride, so yeah, probably option 2. Option one and three are still pretty but they’re just… A little loud 😅
But it’s black, on weddings you’re not supposed to wear black unless you’re in a suit
But it’s black you are not supposed wear black at the wedding
@@Bl00782 is that actually a thing? I though the no white except for the bride was the only rule(ofc if the bride gives permission)
Yeah, and it's so pretty on her
THE SECOND ONE DEFINETLEY its the most wedding '' appropriate''
The second one isn't wedding appropriate because the 3 big taboos at a wedding are 1. you don't wear white, 2. You don't outshine the bride and 3. you don't wear black!
Girl was really ahead of her time with the “ demure”
Bahahah
I know right 😊
Because it was already a word that existed
Adorable
As soon as i saw the first option i was like "she serious?..nah she can't be"
I’d say option two is the safest option, but it also depends on the wedding’s theme.
Do weddings have themes ?
@@check2653 Some do. Not most. But I have heard of weddings with a disco or hippo themes. Those would be the only times I could see the 1 and 3 dresses not being ridiculous choices.
What do you mean by safe?
@@Goth__Siren Least likely to someone having a problem with.
@@Goth__SirenWell, it’s definitely the most understated. You don’t show up to a wedding and out dress the people getting married.
Her: "I dont know the appropriate things to wear to a wedding"
Me: NOT THAT
Option two or four are your best bet. You look great in all the dresses though. If you can keep the purple one for a different event!
Like a really snooty rave
It is incredibly inappropriate for a woman to wear black to a wedding, the only thing worse would be white. (Unless it aligns with the theme or it's an order of the bride, of course.) The fourth one is kinda pretty, but it is at least two sizes too big for her. Still the only one of the dresses shown that is not eye molestation and incredibly inappropriate, so if she wears a nice blazer or a cute jacket with it, maybe it'll work. Just cover up the back because that's where you see that it's too big. Note: I would kill to have a waist like hers❤
@@KawaiiPrincess_Loveall of them scream “LOOK AT ME!” All attention should be on the bride and by far number 2 was her best option..i dont think she knows how to dress for a wedding… (the creator)
2 or 4, depending on the theme of the wedding. Just don't wear one that takes any attention away from the bride. Also, probably 2 if 4 is the least "you" of all the dresses. Have fun!
@Hi, I'm Mirage I think that is a very healthy mindset to have, I was just telling her that it is considered polite to dress humble at a wedding.
@Hi, I'm Mirage Exactly, but I don't know who the bride is so I just told her the basic wedding "rule." Thanks for your take on that though!
Since when do weddings have themes ?
@@check2653 if the bride and groom want one they do, it isn’t that common
@@jamiemorgan175 Maybe I haven't been invited to the right weddings then
The second one seems the most wedding appropriate and it’s cute!!
Ikr
Ikr
ur the only person i’ve seen who said this respectfully
Omg thank you I have no idea why the top comment is saying the opposite, I think the first one and the third one are WAYY more eye-catching (especially the first one), the second one looked the least eye-catching but still really pretty and perfectly suitable for a wedding
But it's black, a bit of a no go for a wedding
When going to a wedding a great rule of thumb is don’t attract attention to yourself
thats literally the opposite of what you should do. maybe its white people wedding rule but for desi brown black weddings you need to outdo yourself
@@deliri0um But you can't go fancier than the marring couple can you?
@@Lea-im3wr honestly in desi weddings I've mistaken so many people for the bride at times...overdressing just isn't a thing at some wedding 😅
@@LIROSTRAWBLES I’ve been to a couple of weddings and there are some unwritten rules like the bride wearing a silk saree and the regular people wearing regular cotton but that’s just my opinion
@@mukulhariharan4715 yup some desi weddings do have some sort of arrangements but some don't have a dress code at alll
2nd and 5th are the most appropriate ones and they are actually all pretty but those ones are the most appropriate❤❤
Option 2 was definitely the most wedding appropriate but it honestly depends on what the wedding theme is.
Its the closest thing to a funeral before a funeral
What are you guys wearing you funerals?-
last one tbh 🫥
don't they usually tell you what to wear anyway? i always thought they gave you a dress code, a color and theme and all that
@@jasperjazzie i don't think so mabye not that much.
Second one is most wedding “appropriate”.
The most important code for any wedding is, "wear something that doesn't outshine the bride" since it is both the bride and groom's day after all.
Yes, that's true.
ok? you didn’t answer the question though
We don't know what the bride is wearing, she probably is wearing something bigger
Nice but in India it's quite the opposite 😂
It's not hard to wear something that both looks good and won't outshine the bride, also i was just stating the truth. It's the bride and groom's day after all.
Ngl, you've got me interested in indian weddings-
I feel like it depends on the theme of the wedding! All are gorgeous, but i think 2 and 4 are the cutest for a normal wedding, and the others would be super cute if its a really fancy wedding
How do none of you uncultured people know that the number one rule of decent wedding manners is that women do not EVER wear black to weddings?!!
The second one it looks like it would fit for a wedding more
It looks like something my grandmother would wear around the house
"1 and 3 are living in my head rent free" great! Wear them ANYWHERE but at a wedding...
-and church*
@@ayaya7002 and funeral*
@@ffreya. *and work
and outside
@@ifrahismael781 😂
“I don’t know what appropriate wedding dresses are!” Yeah, we can tell
I’m sorry but it’s true 💀
Yeah lol
Righttt LOLLL
You are being very mean!!!!!😡😡😡
🤣
2 and 4 are the most appropriate for a wedding but they are all soooo pretty!!!!!❤
Definitely 2!!!! You don’t want to take attention away from the bride! You are amazingly beautiful and dress 2 looked best on you and more appropriate for a wedding guest attire. 🥂
Yes ! ❤
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@@check2653 some people try, and that’s already a problem.
The second one was the most wedding appropriate, as well as it was the cutest.
Agreed 👍
i agree
Agreed
Yes just logic
Agreed
At a wedding you wear something formal and subtle, dresses that stand out are for after parties and the bridesmaids
@@KristianaCembre oh yeah 😂 sorry forgot to right that down
It totally depends on the bride and tyoe of wedding.
It totally depends on the bride and the theme wedding. I wouldn't mind at all if she showed up wearing the 1 or 3, in fact those wear my favorite.
@@karly.asshhh well that's great for you but don't be mad if someone in your guest party comes up to someone next to you and tells them "you look great I love that dress where did you get it??" and then walk off
Just heard “Demure” and i was like is this a recent video 😂😂
2 and 4 are the best options for a wedding, you want to be classy and elegant without putting to much effort into your look, it’s about the bride not you
You're definitely not arab 😂
In middle east arab weddings
We tend to deal with a wedding as if it's the Oscars of the met gala or something 😂
Every girl picks the most standing out shimmery shinny glittery huge gown and make ultimate make up so she's not even recognizable anymore and the hair they make huge hair styles and even though the bride stands out more than everybody else in her huge white gown no one steals her moment or something.. but yeah I know we tend to really over over our looks in wedding unlike western people
Even Asians like Japanese tend to have simple dresses and nice quiet romantic music
It's just us in the middle who are really really load in how we look and in our music and dancing are extremely load too
@@janaeva2307 This is true in Asia too 😅😅 Girls NEVER wear the same dress they wore for one wedding, again to another 😂😂
@@diehard8615 yeah exactly 😂
That’s what I was thinking
Which wedding have u been to?
2 or 5 are the most appropriate for a guest at a wedding. You don't want to overshadow the bride or blend in to the bridal party.
4 as well
it might look to similar to bridesmaids dresses or like a bridesmaid dress
Yah I’d say 2
@@audreyaaron8199 there is a color rule and the 2nd dress is black which means mourning 😮
@@mella_0402 oh well then I’d say 4
2 and 5. You don’t want to be louder than the bride. It’s not a time to shine the brightest: it’s a day you go and celebrate someone else, so it’s best to not be flashy.
@@범금후 no…you underdress compared to the bride ALWAYS.
@@범금후 its just common sense to not wear something flashy or white out of respect for the bride. also common sense not to wear flip flops or jeans. set rules is where the bride and groom request all guests to be in one specific color.
This is such outdated thinking.
@@t.o903 so being respectful is outdated thinking? damn what kind of life have i been living
@@argentine9731 Thinking only one woman can shine at a time is outdated thinking.
#2 that being said you ROCK 1 and 3. If i was getting narried you could totally wear one of those. Personally i would love it.
All look great on you. Even the "1970s Tea Party" dress.
Having been to at least 12 weddings that I can name off the top of my head, 2 is the best option. The last one is a decent choice as well. The other three are absolutely out of the question, especially the first one.
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i agree! i screamed with the first one 🤣 could you imagine?
same,I too think the same
second and the last one.
The first one had me 💀
Agreed (as someone who's only been to 2 weddings), tho there's 5 so what would u rate #4?
Definitely #2 I don’t even know what to say about the other dresses LOL
I think option 4 was the best LOL. The pink one looked like you were ready to work at a car wash and the purple one that you mentioned you had when you were five looked more of NYE dress than for a wedding
Yes!
Silhouette of 2, don’t wear black to a wedding unless it is black tie or better dress code or specifically requested in the invite. Some consider it bad luck. The time of day of the wedding could impact the formality of the event.
#2 looks a bit too casual, the tea party one works great
2 or 5. Wedding attire usually shouldn’t be too “flashy”
Yeah I agree
The last one is most appropriate it's bright and classy. Other dress is more party dresses. The second is gorgeous day party or going out on the town.
I say 2
Laughs in Indian 😂😂
I say 4 with a few sewing skills xD
The 4th, that color is so pretty and the dress is very elegant 💜
Love how she genuinely asks the audience and the audience gives them their best opinion without shaming some inappropriate dresses
It’s either the last one or the second one. The others are giving “Ex of the groom that mom invited because she doesn’t like the bride”
Agree
Agreed
Agreed wooyoung 😉
Diddo
BYE THATS SO TRUE
Option 2! Other dresses are fun, but this is the most appropriate for a wedding.
@@check2653 All the other dresses are inappropriate for a wedding, like the pink one was too bright, the purple one was too loud and the other purple one showed off too much skin. The reason number 2 is appropriate is because it is the simplest (out of all the dresses) and not distracting. The reason people won't wear colourful or fun dresses is because it outshines the bride - which you never want to do. The bride is supposed to be the most beautiful, and showing up with a dress that outshines hers is rude.
That dress was awful, are you kidding?
@@sparrowwilson4514showing up to a wedding in a bright pink dress is the worst idea ever
2 is so gorgeous. You should definitely wear it and it’s the most appropriate.❤
Definitely options two or 4. You don’t want to be too flashy at a wedding. Also depending on the theme I’d go for the last one. You should really ask the couple what they think.
I agree w u 100%
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Agree
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the second one probably, mostly depends on wedding theme and such
Option 4 also looks like a good choice!
Wearing black or dark colours to a wedding is a sign you don't approve. You wear dark colours to a funeral.
@@SansDream6810 a lot of people don't follow those customs any more
“I don’t know what appropriate wedding dresses are”
Me: Obviously
idk if that was meant negatively but ok
@@adriaa_0506 probably is but I think she did good
LOL
Underrated comment lol
Girly was ahead of the demure trend🎉😂
I think option 2 would be the best for a wedding. It's not too distracting, and it also makes you look great without taking attention away from the bride and groom.
Edit: I had no idea that wearing black to a wedding was disrespectful, and also I thought the dress was green
But it's black that's bad luck
I think It would be the best also
@@arkadiakowalczyk4768
My sister wore black on her wedding. Buncha hokus pokus, just like that black cat shit.
You can’t wear black to a wedding that’s just mean
@@katie_842 idk its not fully black, if the bride has no problem with it than I don't think it's a problem
saw the first dress and i immediately went, _"No."_
why
@@sethuparvathy wym why? its bright pink and furry
@@poohbear6021 to short you would be the turn off attention by how short it is
@@LoveForMitsuri2 ik. i was agreeing with the person who said no
Same
The second dress is perfect for a wedding
I aggree
SHE WAS THE FIRST PERSON TO SAY DEMURE
I can’t tell if u like Kamala or not 💀
The second dress is the most wedding attire out of them all and it looks absolutely amazing on you
But also some people think it's disrespectful to wear black to a wedding so that may be a problem
@@thelittlevampirebecca yeah sometimes, I did not think about that but it's completely up to who ever is getting married
@@thelittlevampirebecca agreed but at the same time when I get married I 100% wanna wear a black dress or suit idk which- all I know is BLACK
@@thelittlevampirebecca isn't the second dress more of a dark green. I didn't see it as black in the first glance lmao I maybe wrong
Not even like most but seems the only to fit the wedding day, and about black so yes they might discuss it or can discuss with a closed one and then all is good.
when you go as a wedding you gotta cosplay an NPC
LMAO FRR
it really does show that this is only ur 2nd wedding
NOOT NOOT
Man I thought the exact same thing and laughed my ass off😂
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#2 and #4 are the best wedding’ attire but you look beautiful in anything. ❤
I have a feeling this is the last wedding she’s going to
I hope so..
for real
Y'all chill she's just tryna have her own style 😂
Hello didn’t expect you to be here
@@pointingouttheobvious8130 at a wedding?
Option 2 is the only one really “appropriate” for a wedding, the others for looking fab!!
DEFINITELY the 2nd!! all are amazing, but 2nd is good for a wedding so you don’t overshadow the groom(s) and bride(s). love your channel
I 100% agree with you!
It's black
No, because black symbolizes funerals and death
@@frogonthebikeheh so?
@@thea561 not traditional but unless its on the theme
I'm biased but I will always go for the modest dress. love it!!!!!❤❤❤
Definitely dress 2, you aren’t supposed to be the centerpiece the bride and groom are. Dress number 2 isn’t too flashy and has a subtle elegance
Yess!! I agree!
Agreed it’s also just the nicest one
Agreed!!
@@Vanilla_Girly_ You shouldn't wear white to a wedding not black.
@@Vanilla_Girly_ you can wear black to a wedding. You’re not supposed to wear white to a wedding
2 for sure. not only does it look "appropriate" for a wedding, but it's stunning and i absolutely LIVE for the back
Yes I agree with this too!
@@dannac_8888 your opinion. not mine.
ya I agree, or 4
2 is a nightgown ..
@@carolzinhaagringa897 your opinion not mine :)
Wedding guest rule of thumb: you’re not the one who’s supposed to shine. The fact that most of the commentors understands this gives me hope
Not in my wedding, y’all can wear whatever you guys feel like it, shine brighter then me Idgaf
@@Clvsterfuck appropriate username
I never really understood that about white weddings. In our culture, there’s no such thing as “outshining the bride” lol sounds the most childish shit ever. The bride and groom themselves would feel very offended if people didn’t try their hardest to stand out and look the best on their wedding day.
@@Khawlii7 rightttttt same here in Sri Lanka 🇱🇰
@@Khawlii7 Oh what's your culture?
Girl you gonna slay it your gonna look like “aunty classic” in the wedding cause it sooo designed ❤
When I saw the first dress I went: “oh no.”
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Same
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Sameee like miss girl abt to steal the show
i think that number 2 was the most appropriate because it was pretty but not loud or something that might draw too much attention because we want all the attention on the bride! but i do think all the dresses are pretty, it’s just that dress 2 is the most appropriate for the occasion.
Agreed
The last one is also good too
2
Definitely number 2. You want to look cute. It’s like fancy but also semi casual. So simple dresses and heels. You don’t want to out do the bride and be distracting in any way.
Idk how it is in America or other coutries but in my, we cannot Wear white and black on someones wedding, the only person who can Wear white is bride and nobody is allowed to Wear black except man,they can Wear a black suit but women cant Wear all black clothes, maybe some details can be black but not the dress
@@EvadesCola4life that is accurate for here in America too.
@@kayleighburr1083 oh I didnt knew that bc of the dress she wanted to Wear with flowers,it was black so I thought that its different in America with weddings
@@EvadesCola4life I think black is fine, but definitely not white. I think the main thing is to not draw attention away from the bride
@@kayleighburr1083 yes white is defenitely not allowed except details but I didnt knew that in America its fine to Wear black on a wedding, as i said in my country its not allowed except for mens suits and maybe some details in dresses but women cant Wear black and white except for bride
Either option 2 or 5.
American wedding rules:
When going to a wedding, do not wear white or any really pale color.
Don’t wear a gown or anything overly beaded or ornate.
Don’t wear something that shows a ton of skin unless it is summer, but even then make sure it is tasteful skin, not a minidress or your boobs hanging out.
The point of the wedding is NOT the guest or the guest’s fashion. So don’t wear something you may wear to a club or a party. Think, something you would wear to tea.
The second one is the most normal one. And that dress is gorgeous as well. Wish it's in lighter color though. But we should always remember not to try to steal the spotlight.
All scream "look at meeee" except for the second one.
It’s not supposed to scream look at me it’s supposed to be something that highlights the bride in my opinion not that look at me as a bad thing not trying to judge just saying
And the last one
Not the last one. That one is elegant and beautiful.
@@maryalicemeaneymeaney4551 its very 70s too😍
I think the second one is, I mean it is very dark, you don’t usually wear black at weddings...
1 and 3 are an absolute no go. 5 is ok? But 2 and 4 are your safest options. Advice, if something looks too flashy, its not for the wedding. The wedding party is usually the flashy ones and you dont want to be stealing the spotlight at a wedding by wearing something like over the top or by wearing white unless you’re told white is ok.
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I think five is beautiful. It’s summery & chic. I agree that the pink & purple are an absolute no. You are not supposed to take attention away from the bride. I would consider it pretty disrespectful to wear either of those to a wedding, unless the wedding has a theme like disco-inspired & they fit the theme. Otherwise, it seems pretty self-centered to wear either of the two.
4 is a bit bold because the purple but as long as its okay with the bride.
4 shows too much of her body and therefore takes away from the bride
Definitely
#2 IMHO that dress is the prettiest for a wedding.
The second one is the most appropriate and also flattering. The last one is lovely as well. The pastels are pretty complementary.
Second dress looks the most appropriate, rest are way too flashy, one is kind of 'revealing' which doesnt seem very approrpiate, 2nd is best
I agree
Second dress or the last dress either one.
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You show all of them to the bride because every dress except 2 is so unacceptable she is going to cey happy tears of relief when she sees 2 and won't question much after that.
the only thing you have to keep in mind when it comes to weddings is that you dont want to steal the spotlight from the bride. So I think options 2 and 4 are the most appropriate
Am I the only one who thinks the whole “I don’t want my guests to steal the spotlight” thing is literally so narcissistic?? Like wouldn’t you want your friends and family to look great at your wedding too as they’re there to support you?? Why would you want them to deliberately dress not as nice as they potentially could? Getting mad at guests wearing nice fancy clothes to weddings seems like such a bridezilla thing to me. Like as long as it’s not a long white dress so they don’t get mistaken for the bride, I don’t see any problem. Random rant but yeah, wedding culture in the west is so wierd to me.
@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy well i don't think it's about being narcissistic.. even if the bride herself doesn't get mad at someone, i think it is basic manners to not to try outshine the bride herself.. it is their wedding,the most special day for them,they should be the main focus.. so going to a wedding wearing something "too much" just seems very ill mannered to me.
And i don't think it's a western only thing either. I'm Asian myself, and I would never wear something that would outshine the bride.. that feels super weird and rude to me
@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy It’s definitely not just a western thing, it’s basic respect in my culture to wear something that doesn’t resemble a bride’s dress or something flashy that will outshine the bride. Just common sense and respect, like how you wouldn’t wear a wedding dress to a wedding
@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy it’s more narcissistic to think that it’s ok to take the spotlight away from someone else’s day, seeing as they’ve invited you from a free party and free food
@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy dude it is their special day…it is nice to be selfless once in a while you know? It is just being considerate of other’s feelings
Long skirts and more skin coverage is more appropriate 😊
Rule #1 for weddings: Never try to outshine the bride.
Depends on the wedding
@@Straw_berry_671 No, it does not depend on the wedding. It is #1 rule for all weddings - DO NOT try to outshine the bride. Don't do that - it is very rude. It is not your day to shine. It is the wedding couple's day to shine. So, dial it back about 10, and don't do that - Be respectful to the wedding couple. If they wear a burlap sack - you better be showing up in a Hefty bag dress.
@@valkyre420 I don't think you get but not every wedding has this rule especially if it's the brides choice and all cultures are different and we shouldn't disrespect it.
@@Straw_berry_671 You don't know what you're talking about. Don't be lead astray by this person, she's looking to create bridezilla content.
@@valkyre420 I have no idea what your talking about all I'm trying to say is that not every wedding has this "rule" and can make up other rules to follow maybe you have to wear all black or wear a really pretty dress it's all up the bride. Also in different cultures around the world you can even look/dress up prettier to the bride but it's all up to the brides choice once again
I’ve never even been to a wedding and I can tell you for a fact that 1 and 3 and absolutely inappropriate to wear to someone else’s wedding. Avoid anything too bright/neon, flashy, or noisy.
Most of them scream "I'm the hot ex girlfriend invited by the groom's mom cause she doesn't like the bride"
No, because that person would be wearing a full on wedding dress
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Haha so true
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I need this lavender dress 😢 so gorgeous
I’m still processing that she was considering wearing the first outfit
Not if it's a church wedding.
@@crybebebunny if it’s a stripper wedding, but most strippers don’t get married I’m sure lol
yes wth
I would. She looks gr8 in it.
lmao 💀
Tip: if you’re going to a wedding, don’t wear something dramatic, it might look like you’re trying to take attention away from the bride. Almost dress as if you’re a background character. So I think 2 or 4 are the best choices.
Edit: Guys ik not all weddings are like this but I’ve seen some brides get pretty upset ab shit like this. Any SANE person wouldn’t care but I’d play it safe by going for something classy that also isn’t TOO out there.
(For example: my mum’s friend got pissed off at my mum for wearing a particular dress because she thought “she was trying to steal the attention away from her.” Needless to say they aren’t friends anymore lol.
I think it depends on if you know the person or not, or if it's a celebrity/someone with a lot of money
no. Tip like you comment is like, not to wear white clothes like a bride
Lol sure if youre going to a white wedding. Its the brides job to come looking good. If the guest outshines them its not the guests fault. 😂💀
Lmao honestly I feel like desi weddings are the total opposite. My mom is always like, “oh my god a wedding, time to look my best!” And I’m pretty sure the other guests are like that too 💀
At indian weddings, everyone in the fam be sparkling top to bottom. The bride and groom still get plently attention. Although yes, one should always dress according to the wedding's general dress code
Weddings are pretty much the only time you need to attempt to not stand out love
Real
And maybe also funerals lol. But yeah
European weddings are like that. For Indian weddings, even if everyone wears their fanciest dress (and they do. It can't be too plain for weddings), it is literally impossible to upstage the bride.
And that’s why western wedding are so boring
@@charliebone8335 cause white women are insecure about themselves
I just loved the purple one and the black one💜
i love all of them, but second has the most wedding vibes cause it's more chill and laid back (though the first one is my favorite just not for weddings)
I hate the first one but the last one is so cute
I like the second one
I have the same thought
Ye but isn’t it considered bad luck to wear black to a wedding or is that just the bride
Yesss
the second one or the last one were the most "wedding appropriate"
Edit: thanks for 3k y’all : )
BRO THE 2ND ONE LOOKS LIKE A FUNERAL DRESS
Definitely the 2nd or last one
@@rosegoldensun3818 I agree
@@emzxop1eppy772 and also an appropriate dress for a wedding.
Yeah, the rest were for themed parties
I’d cry if somebody wore that first dress to my wedding
From laughing ?😂
I’d ask them if we hired them as a rug
Same
It’s like if Cruella DeVille had a thing for Muppets instead of dalmatians.
Same
2 is better for wedding for sure but 1 is GORGEOUS
2 seems like the most appropriate. 1 and 3 are DEFINITELY a no go.
Yeahh especially 1
Came here to say this
Now I know she knows that 1 and 3 are definitely not wedding appropriate
I guess if you don't think the bride should be the center of attention and not you, then maybe you wouldn't know lol 😅
@@thickthickly considering it was probably the bride and groom who invited you, that kinda mindset is still confusing 😭
@@fluffypineapple790 I mean that's like getting invited to a birthday and grabbing a slice of cake first. Everyone knows that's a no no haha.
@@thickthickly even still, people don’t dress like that outside in general let alone an event 😂
@@fluffypineapple790 you’re getting invited to celebrate THEIR day because they want you there, not because they want you to be the center of attention
I think two is definitely the most “appropriate” wedding thing and it’s rly cute
As an Arab girl,these dresses are what I wear when my friendes visits me at home.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤ damn we all need to step our game up then
Cardinal rule of dressing for a wedding: You do not want to be drawing more attention than the bride! Big no to the faux fur. No to the sequins.
Although it’s a bit old school, you’re technically not supposed to wear black to a wedding either. So that leaves the last two! I would vote for the last one because it’s less showy but still cute. I would wear that with some little heels and some delicate jewelry and you’re good to go!!
yes! dont wear something that brings more attention to you than the bride so number 2
Haha. It's funny to hear that so many brides are insecure of themselves that they'd be intimidated by the guests. In india we appreciate all the overdressed guests 🥰
@@payalswamimap it's not insecurity but just being courteous, it's her big day afterall.
@@payalswamimap that's really cool 😁
I feel like option 2 is the most wedding appropriate. You don't want to draw more attention to yourself than the bride so the pink and sequins may not be the best options.
2nd dress definitely, you never want to stand out in a wedding unless you’re the bride or a bridesmaid
Yea
Definitely, unless if given permission from BOTH Bride and Groom, then don't wear anything that stands out.
@⋉Starbebby⋊ Lol but to me wedding is a fashion show. U might even find your future husband lool🖐💀
Meanwhile arabs showing up to weddings like it's a fashion show ✨
Not even that, bridesmaids dresses are made to gather the attention back to the bride, thats why theyre usually all the same color and dress style
The last one is so modest and I loveeeee
"I don't know what appropiate dresses are?"
It shows.
literally..let the bride have more attention then you-
She wants to desperately get as much attention to a wedding that’s not hers and she’s doing in this stupid video. Such a blonde.
It shows that you guys don’t have logic sense she does not know she’s not taking the spot light and the pride is definitely wherein something better then that and it’s not her fault she has barely been to weddings and you quoting it wrong. “I don’t know what appropriate dresses are” are wrong she added wedding dresses so ur saying she has no style what so ever? Or was it a mistake?
I feel dress 2 it's the best option. Not only you won't be taking attention from the bride but you will look gorgeous and I feel it suits you so much.
My thoughts exactly ❤🎉
but it's black
Why are brides so insecure?
@@Goth__Sirenhonestly!
@@nosynellyso?
2 or 4 looks the most “wedding appropriate”
I agree. Unless the married couple tells you otherwise always go for the more subtle option. Now if they tell you go ham, wear whatever you’d like, take that as you wish.
The bride would Be pissed with 1 or 3
The 5th one is ok too.
@@iwanttosleep6414 5th looks too serious. It would probably work if the y were in a english garden wedding
@@myyou7335 It’s at least not offensive for a wedding like the 1st and 3rd. I doubt she would step on anyone’s toes wearing it even if it looks a little out of place.
4&5 are classy and gorgeous ❤
I'd say 2 or 5 are the only appropriate outfits to wear to a wedding
There wasn’t a 5?
@@Omarmuniz9 um yes
Number 2 is definitely too black for a wedding. I'd go with the last one, the tea party dress
@@lumeria7229 is black inappropriate for a wedding?
@@lumeria7229 yup i definitely see where you're coming from! I feel you could get away with it, but it all depends on how well you know the people, etc.
2 and 5 are the most elegant, modest and respectful but still beautiful options with 5 being my personal favorite
"u guys have probably gone to more weddings than me"
My Indian origin: that ma'am is an understatement 😶
I experienced that😂😂
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My mixed white and asian family
Ma’am it’s a full month assignment for a wedding
Honestly have a collection of bouquest from going to weddings since I was 12...i have 4 this year to go to..
relatable af- for me too cuz I'm Indian too 😂😶
No 5 is amazing, and for a wedding it's perfection 🙌🏼