Claire I can relate to your story, I underwent this for 16yrs but I thank God that I manage to leave that relationship. May God help you to get counseling as well as your daughter.
Some stories are reminder to appreciate what we have like my husband he is not rich but he is a great man,my sister am happy you have found peace may God bless you and your girls,you shall live mama
3/4 of Lydia's story similar to mine..... Ata mimi nilisema sirudi from 2017 Jan till now siwezi rudi kwake.... Naombanga Mungu anipee nguvu ya kutafututia watoi ndivyo wasome, gulf healed me, although kujikubali ilikuwa noma... marriage of 12 yrs iliisha hivyo....
I suggest she should also tell her story to Wambui wa Mwangi, Lynn Ngugi and other platforms so that people hear ndio akifanywa jambo au watoto wakifanywa mambo polisi wasianze kutuambia stories huku and yet they refused to act when they could. She should also move as far away from him as possible.
Aai kwani alikuwa anatumia kidukuru.. hahaha atî anakunyang'anya blanketi anajifunika peke yake? wololoyaye ama ni mechanic cos mwingine when I was at nanyuki was behaving awkwardly.anachapa bibiye anamkata na kisu kwa paja akimtukana sio mtamu,the following day hawezi enda job,akimbembeleza.. that's a toxic relationship
Never ever let a man tell you twice that he doesn't love you... okay I know it's not easy to leave a toxic marriage but on the other hand it's good to know our worth.
Sorry sana baby girl for having to endure all this trouble. Praying that God shall keep you and your daughters safe and that you'll be healed physically and emotionally
Another day with a emotional story mungu akukumbuke dear mm nlikataa kwa ndoa 17 yrs na machozi na matezo bt lastly I thought hakna place ingine naeza pata amani actually there's God in heaven who hear and answer all our prayers today I have peace of mind
I understand this lady 101 percent...imefika mshali my 19yr refused his dad's name in his ID card ..I had to call anyone ndio akaitikia shingo upande...my second born told his father siwezi kuzeeka na matabia kama zako ..next min his father akamwitia polisi 😢 but kule police station the kids were given time to talk n the police told the man to either man up or loose the kids ...but wapi ntill know he is doing worse plus giving my cousin pregnancy
Sending love en lots of hugs Mamaa you strong en God is going to change your story May the Angels of God in human form come through for you en your gals
@@Bettymariiyu sasa mambo ya kusaidia umetoa wapi?kama ulikula rent na hujamaliza hangovers za Vasha pls ng'ang'ana na stress zako peke yako usiniletee!
I relate that man with the man who kill his 2 boys in muranga,how he was toxic. My sister keep off to that man than to regret later. He needs to be jailed and arrested. 😢😢
She should seek legal advice from a lawyer at any cost.may be she can visit an advocate whatsoever so that the man should be given order by court of law.
@@EdithMugure-n4z yeah freedom of life or rather right of life is a guarantee in our constitution.and nobody should "sell fear"to anybody no matter to your class; whether you are poor, aristocrat, rich or your political party
That man is a real narcissist. There is honey moon time when they apologize,make you feel like you are the cause of the problem then tension , then abuse over and over for years . Been with one for 26yrs
True and with a narcissist it can never get better it worsens and depression hits that's where we take poison, sets ourselves on fire,weeh may people pray for discernment
Oh God! Claire, its not ok for this man to keep abusing you mentally, emotionally and physically, you are a human being who deserves peace, this is not a laughing matter. This Ng'ang'a is dangerous to you and the girls, ni mundu wa uiru, na niarakuiguira uiru tondu ndakenaga akiona ugithii na mbere. Keep recording every event to back up your claims. First heal before thinking about any future relationship. I wish you all the best. This police station is also responsible for the safety of Claire and her children.
Ndīrī njega ndīcemanagia na mŭthī mwega.....That was not marriage, you were just staying together, his mother and family members rejected you, saying hutawahi kua wao, a man who batters a woman is a failure....
Claire should move far away from that county,and if possible she should change her phone number and start afresh.God is great and her,her kids will get through this❤.
Me here, nilitoka marriage 2017 Jan..... 31st 2016 nilichapwa kama punda ju nilikua naenda kibarua akisema am shaming him kwa watu wa Kijiji ati naenda kibarua.... After one yr nilikam gulf....mimi naskianga marriage na tense
So sad I love your heart oh jeso The me can’t stand even a tiny piece of little abuse I will run But they are good men n women left Marriages are working but when you find your better half✅
Following closely, this lady has a good heart. If it were me .....i could have killed him kitambo niende langata. .surely kuchapwa kila saa...mbele ya watoto....wueh..
She is my friend and all she’s saying is so true,,,we love you Claire and we will support you always…
Uligotea sara
Claire I can relate to your story, I underwent this for 16yrs but I thank God that I manage to leave that relationship. May God help you to get counseling as well as your daughter.
My dad has been this way from when i was small.....i pray my mum will one day get the courage to break free from him
Some stories are reminder to appreciate what we have like my husband he is not rich but he is a great man,my sister am happy you have found peace may God bless you and your girls,you shall live mama
Thanks metha for providing this forum for those crying out for help🎉
3/4 of Lydia's story similar to mine.....
Ata mimi nilisema sirudi from 2017 Jan till now siwezi rudi kwake....
Naombanga Mungu anipee nguvu ya kutafututia watoi ndivyo wasome, gulf healed me, although kujikubali ilikuwa noma... marriage of 12 yrs iliisha hivyo....
I suggest she should also tell her story to Wambui wa Mwangi, Lynn Ngugi and other platforms so that people hear ndio akifanywa jambo au watoto wakifanywa mambo polisi wasianze kutuambia stories huku and yet they refused to act when they could.
She should also move as far away from him as possible.
Original is always sweet
I can relate to her story totally. My partner despised my 2 older kids since they were not his children. So toxic and diabolical. Pure Narcissist.
Cheaters always think the partner is cheating
The man is a true definition of a Narcissist 🚮and you really need to get solutions asap kabla mambo yazidi unga ....
Aai kwani alikuwa anatumia kidukuru.. hahaha atî anakunyang'anya blanketi anajifunika peke yake? wololoyaye ama ni mechanic cos mwingine when I was at nanyuki was behaving awkwardly.anachapa bibiye anamkata na kisu kwa paja akimtukana sio mtamu,the following day hawezi enda job,akimbembeleza.. that's a toxic relationship
Never ever let a man tell you twice that he doesn't love you... okay I know it's not easy to leave a toxic marriage but on the other hand it's good to know our worth.
Sorry sana baby girl for having to endure all this trouble. Praying that God shall keep you and your daughters safe and that you'll be healed physically and emotionally
Hama hio tawn, ama upeleke watoto kwenu ukuje saudi,akusahau kwanza
If we were in a country where the law fully works,such a man should have been given restraining orders! He is evil if not mad!😢
A true definition of a narcissist, I have lived with one for over three decades and the older they get, the worse they become
Another day with a emotional story mungu akukumbuke dear mm nlikataa kwa ndoa 17 yrs na machozi na matezo bt lastly I thought hakna place ingine naeza pata amani actually there's God in heaven who hear and answer all our prayers today I have peace of mind
This lady needs protection her and her children are in danger. This man is a narcissist and needs real mental support
I understand this lady 101 percent...imefika mshali my 19yr refused his dad's name in his ID card ..I had to call anyone ndio akaitikia shingo upande...my second born told his father siwezi kuzeeka na matabia kama zako ..next min his father akamwitia polisi 😢 but kule police station the kids were given time to talk n the police told the man to either man up or loose the kids ...but wapi ntill know he is doing worse plus giving my cousin pregnancy
Are you still living together?
Monica! You are looking amazing.
My baby daddy exactly,,,,,he had no boundaries he used to talk shit before his mom and my kid but mi nlijitoa mtoi akiwa months 😢
Mm niliambiwa mam,labda wanivurute na stima sitoki,siku nilitoka Leo ni 18yrs
The same case Leo marks 10yrs
Mimi 23 years now
Cheating partners always accuse you of cheating
Always Educative...
Keep up the good work @MonicaKagoni
Sorry for what you went through,, lakini wamama tujipende,,why take all that crap ati ni watoto unalea
Sending love en lots of hugs
Mamaa you strong en God is going to change your story
May the Angels of God in human form come through for you en your gals
Sending hugs to you mama❤
I have a friend that goes exactly what this lady went through....to extend that his husband goes to look for her kwa kazi yenye anafanya
Sasa kagoni Njororoko tigana nayo for now pls😂😂😂.ìno interview ìkwenda Ngugì a insist hau ha" shot na thuruarì"akene ta hiti😂😂😂
wee he Mundu wakwira umuteithie.
@@Bettymariiyu sasa mambo ya kusaidia umetoa wapi?kama ulikula rent na hujamaliza hangovers za Vasha pls ng'ang'ana na stress zako peke yako usiniletee!
usijali siku yakalibia utajua watu hawaongei kwa kupendwa unazaaa.
What are you talking about?kama huelewi Kikuyu pls kaa kando
Silence is a powerful weapon.
Kumbe tuko wengi 😮😮
Aii this thing you call marriage sometimes it's hell on earth... woman go through alot haki..mimi kuna vitu siezi tolerate..apana
Saad😢
May God intervene
Clare please ahame iyo Town kabisa
Watching
Hama county na usiambie mtu isopokuwa wazazi wako,na hata kwa social media usiwahi share kwenye unaishi.
I relate that man with the man who kill his 2 boys in muranga,how he was toxic. My sister keep off to that man than to regret later. He needs to be jailed and arrested. 😢😢
She should seek legal advice from a lawyer at any cost.may be she can visit an advocate whatsoever so that the man should be given order by court of law.
@kariukijoseph1198 Exactly he needs to be investigated and summoned for threatening actions
@@EdithMugure-n4z yeah freedom of life or rather right of life is a guarantee in our constitution.and nobody should "sell fear"to anybody no matter to your class; whether you are poor, aristocrat, rich or your political party
That is me in my Ex marriage😢 aki mungu kumbuka ndoa za watu
True definition of a narcists. Pole mamaa, they really need protection, Wakiama can handle therapy
Uhame hiyo place kabisa
Parents should respect their children's marriages. Girls make sure you can sustain yourself incase your man turns toxic.
May God be with you 😢🙏
Perfect candidate to seek assylum with foreign embassies
I thought so too
These is true,am also a househelp but my boss lady is really good ❤❤
I know Claire,she is saying total true n beshte yangu
Such a very beautiful woman
Gosh , stories relate kabisa with mine, God bless Women.. 😭😭😭,but now happy independent..
Kagoni looking dolled up❤❤❤
Ana weza toka hiyo Town
Claire all will be well I knew you when u got married very young.....
Aki Monica,ati atumia nimukona muoyo seriously.
That man is a real narcissist. There is honey moon time when they apologize,make you feel like you are the cause of the problem then tension , then abuse over and over for years . Been with one for 26yrs
Gosh hugs dear. It's my eighteenth year but planning my exit. May God see us through. I wish I can have courage to come out n give my story coz wueh😢
True and with a narcissist it can never get better it worsens and depression hits that's where we take poison, sets ourselves on fire,weeh may people pray for discernment
What! Madam you are a very strong woman tondu ma...always stay where you are celebrated not where you are toloreted.
Are you still there
Oh God! Claire, its not ok for this man to keep abusing you mentally, emotionally and physically, you are a human being who deserves peace, this is not a laughing matter. This Ng'ang'a is dangerous to you and the girls, ni mundu wa uiru, na niarakuiguira uiru tondu ndakenaga akiona ugithii na mbere. Keep recording every event to back up your claims. First heal before thinking about any future relationship. I wish you all the best. This police station is also responsible for the safety of Claire and her children.
Kagoni we!?😅😅😂tigana na Oljororok
Atumia nitugeragira mathina maingi,,,ndaumire kwa x na ahujirie itura ati nindamukuire Indo chia nyumba
Arume amwe matiritwo nia? Aiiii😭
Khai I know the lady she used to be our client at sir Henry locks place
My anger 🤬 is raising by the minute.
Mine too!!!
Aiiiii,hata kama!!!!
Trying to fathom. Some men are beyond creatures.
Plz wamama ukihona mwanahume akona vita na mtoto ni mumoja wapili ndio hatamaliza vita kweli wamama na c kwa hubanya....
Someone please accommodate this lady in another county and offer security to her parents
Kwani ol joro orok
ina nini. A very gd place am telling u.
Ni kwetu,tugwitaga njororoko😂
Ona niwarureiruo murangano muinge ngiri ithano nie baba aneiruo ngiri igiri ma kuhungurira second born njira
Big up mama watoto
Ata heri unge weka TikTok ingekuwa better coz ninge kuwa famous zaidi en thanks my baby's Mama's en gotea Sarah sana😂😂😜...
That husband was not normal period alikuwa na shida ya kichwa
Hana shida yoyote...... Ni narcissist
Hua wanafanya ivo just to get you in their trap and for you to get scared
I know her hugs gal
Monica pls, apia lidyia ahame that place akae bali sana yeye,
Alikua anajikunja na blanketi kama smochaa
Wauga tutheke mashakayaine
@mumbingigengige8830 theka
His days are numbered he will never have peace
Am imagining my 12 year's daughter yani huyu alikuwa na ujinga gani hata kama how can you tell your daughter all this things
What a coincidence, that's my story too,his (x) hubby name my X hubby name too,all his character and his family resembles character 😢😢
u two should connect mjue kama mko airu
Ndīrī njega ndīcemanagia na mŭthī mwega.....That was not marriage, you were just staying together, his mother and family members rejected you, saying hutawahi kua wao, a man who batters a woman is a failure....
Monicah nikii woria Joroorok gwitu
She should move out of that town and change contacts
I love you Kagoni
aki mapenzi ni scam siwezi tamani
Kagoni mbona usichukue huyo mtoto during this holiday season,my opinion
😢aki we ladies go through alot, join gulf
Aki wanaume wengine wacha nikae singe
Claire should move far away from that county,and if possible she should change her phone number and start afresh.God is great and her,her kids will get through this❤.
😢
tell them Kagoni they be responsible
This is the reason why me and so many ladies we are in gulf working so she can also find the way
Me here, nilitoka marriage 2017 Jan.....
31st 2016 nilichapwa kama punda ju nilikua naenda kibarua akisema am shaming him kwa watu wa Kijiji ati naenda kibarua....
After one yr nilikam gulf....mimi naskianga marriage na tense
So sad
I love your heart oh jeso
The me can’t stand even a tiny piece of little abuse
I will run
But they are good men n women left
Marriages are working but when you find your better half✅
A narcissist man never change,,, I wish you had walked away early bt , God's time is the best
Monica looks sweet 16❤ nyewle dress 👌👌👌❤️
People are suffering in these narcissistic relationships / marriages as children watch.
Let me not comment.....I will give my story one day kagoni.
Ata kama uko Na kasoro hii ya kuenda ukirudi hii unafaa ujijue.
This is anarcissist man .
If you just realise you are in a relationship with a narcissist please move as soon as possible tondu maweeeeeh
Ucio ari munyui wa bangi, i know mtu kama yy alikuwa anaingiza sigara bibi yake ati ajue kaa amelala na mtu huko nje.
Kagoni, huyu dame anaitwa Claire ama Lydia?
Her ID name ni Lydia but she's populary known as claire
Next time, kindly censor the negative and abusive words.
Ucio ari muhuguii maybe nianyuaga bangi. He was totally Narcissist
Following closely, this lady has a good heart. If it were me .....i could have killed him kitambo niende langata. .surely kuchapwa kila saa...mbele ya watoto....wueh..
Niarafucia muno
She is doing so because she is trying to hold back her tears😢
To mean??
❤❤❤❤
God is faithful dea.....it shall be well.