I spent my 20’s with an old white man and I paid heavily for it. Here is my message to young girls

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  • Опубликовано: 18 янв 2025

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  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi  5 месяцев назад +454

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    • @lonitenten
      @lonitenten 5 месяцев назад +1

      Mentioned how you lived: Bird in a Golden Cage. He will have to pay for his does. Nursed his Mom.The Previous Girlfriends where clever. Caregiver to brother. He did not marry you. So you have no shares from him for the 10yrs.with him. This reminds me of Slavery.

    • @jeniffermuthoni9752
      @jeniffermuthoni9752 5 месяцев назад +4

      😊😊😊😊

    • @karehat5241
      @karehat5241 5 месяцев назад +7

      The set is beautiful 💯. Honestly I thought u ve not come back from states😆.

    • @Becky370
      @Becky370 5 месяцев назад +1

      Watching it later 😮😮but better late than never

    • @namzysims334
      @namzysims334 5 месяцев назад +16

      Hi Lynn your loyal Zambian fun here😍 I really enjoyed today's episode after a long time infact I stopped watching your life changing videos/stories because sometimes Swahili is too much and no English sub titles. I loved the fact that Rose is fluent in English and spoke it 99% of the time.❤
      My take home is that there's always light at the end of the tunnel.
      Sorry for the long comment am off to give Rose a ka subscription on her channel 😊

  • @AGNES-jd6hy
    @AGNES-jd6hy 5 месяцев назад +1704

    After 3 years of graduating from University ( MUK ) I still didn't have a job I went fir a conference in Nairobi, 3 white men I met there were following me up for sex but I rejected all of them. , after the conference one from America followed me and my colleagues up to Uganda with expectation of spending a night with me but I took him to a safe hotel went home and all the days he spent in my country I took him around and when he was leaving, he insulted me of how poor I was without a job but refused him and that no woman have ever rejected him.
    But I told him that when time comes for me to travel to America I will but without complaining my body and faith in Christ.
    As I make this comment now I am in America, Glory to God and forever walking with my Savior.

    • @lovelyone98
      @lovelyone98 5 месяцев назад +18

      @AGNES-jd6hy I am happy for you.

    • @donethmiller1963
      @donethmiller1963 5 месяцев назад +38

      Stood your grounds girl.

    • @AGNES-jd6hy
      @AGNES-jd6hy 5 месяцев назад +33

      @lovelyone98 sweetheart when we honor the great way maker , we have no room for compromise.

    • @one-G-row
      @one-G-row 5 месяцев назад +12

      Wow good you kept your values

    • @osuizugbechioma4687
      @osuizugbechioma4687 5 месяцев назад +10

      Glorrrrrrrrrry be to God

  • @shemilaalexander8765
    @shemilaalexander8765 5 месяцев назад +459

    The wrong romantic partner can cause mental health issues

    • @maygrantz4426
      @maygrantz4426 5 месяцев назад +15

      interesting and it affect your self esteem and mental health..

    • @Jackie-lm2sc
      @Jackie-lm2sc 5 месяцев назад +24

      Not only that it can even cause you to look old yet you are young...machoz

    • @maygrantz4426
      @maygrantz4426 5 месяцев назад +6

      @@Jackie-lm2sc exactly..

    • @missmokwena
      @missmokwena 4 месяца назад

      Just imagine ​@@Jackie-lm2sc

    • @Poetical_prosing
      @Poetical_prosing 13 дней назад +1

      Facts

  • @francaneizer7129
    @francaneizer7129 5 месяцев назад +840

    I can relate...a dated a white guy. He was 29 and I was 21. I left with nothing after 6/7 years. I was lucky I really educated myself with my own money from the little I was getting from my employer.
    Now, I own my own house, car and 2 master degrees, taking care of 7 orphans by only trusting God with my life.

    • @gentrixkhatenje8907
      @gentrixkhatenje8907 5 месяцев назад +11

    • @TheRonoTV2024
      @TheRonoTV2024 5 месяцев назад +43

      Because you got into a relationship with a goal of getting material benefits.
      That is where the point of departure was.

    • @shesblack8917
      @shesblack8917 5 месяцев назад +3

      Good news is captivating 😊

    • @starj5114
      @starj5114 5 месяцев назад +10

      @@TheRonoTV2024she was 21… what were you looking for at 21?

    • @63rambler66
      @63rambler66 5 месяцев назад +11

      When dating ends, the normal thing is to “leave with nothing.”

  • @vivienneadala1429
    @vivienneadala1429 5 месяцев назад +215

    Thank you Lynn for not interrupting. Your interview skills are excellent!

  • @vivianhinzano2967
    @vivianhinzano2967 5 месяцев назад +298

    She Has Healed Through Accepting Her Mistakes . A Beautiful Soul ❤

  • @flaviageki5595
    @flaviageki5595 5 месяцев назад +779

    Rose is so pretty Oh My. You cant even tell she is 45yrs old. a beauty to behold and so well spoken and well spirited.

  • @aggiebaibe6494
    @aggiebaibe6494 5 месяцев назад +430

    This lady is so eloquent. God is so powerful. He changed her story.

  • @ChereneRabie
    @ChereneRabie 24 дня назад +43

    Woooooooow.
    54-year-old man watching you front South Africa . This is a must watch for every girl child who has ambitions of going abroad. Be it on a marriage or career path. There's a lot of lessons on this episode.
    Great lessons for everyone, woman and man at large. As a 54 year old. I learnt a lot out of this episode. Big up Rose' bibi ya muzungu' Nyambaru.
    God will never fail a humble human being like you.

  • @maggiem8869
    @maggiem8869 5 месяцев назад +397

    This is the best story i have heard from a lady.She is honest and wants others to learn❤She has a bright star and destiny

  • @PaulineGatonye-l5u
    @PaulineGatonye-l5u 5 месяцев назад +113

    I know Rose from childhood, it's true what she's saying. A humble and resilient girl.. He r heart is the same, jolly and humble.

  • @Godsclay2796
    @Godsclay2796 Месяц назад +26

    From Nigeria, Lynn I love your guest, she's so so funny that I have been laughing so hard. She's a positive person and full of positive vibes upon all she went through, please send my love to her, sisterhood is proud of her❤️

  • @rahabnganga2793
    @rahabnganga2793 5 месяцев назад +828

    I wish our girls would listen to Rose and know that a controlling man is a controlling man regardless of the color

    • @hannahGateru-t5z
      @hannahGateru-t5z 5 месяцев назад +40

      That's so true colour doesn't matter !!

    • @WAVELENGTH-tp1tm
      @WAVELENGTH-tp1tm 5 месяцев назад +27

      A controlling woman is a controlling woman, no matter the economic situation.

    • @evelynlyimo1557
      @evelynlyimo1557 5 месяцев назад

      ,,watch a controlling 😅😅😅 woman in 90 days fiancé, happily ever after,,Angie and Mike, ​@@WAVELENGTH-tp1tm

    • @puritymugo8153
      @puritymugo8153 5 месяцев назад +8

      Everyone have their own battles, you can't fight anyone battle,Rose fought hers

    • @p.be.s
      @p.be.s 5 месяцев назад +9

      The catch word is 'regardless' of color or age.

  • @milly_demilla1017
    @milly_demilla1017 5 месяцев назад +73

    Very honest - owns the story to the true facts . Not playing victim at all - puts the story as it is . Thanks Rose for your time and honesty. Pure lessons learned. ❤

  • @geraldineolubayo2924
    @geraldineolubayo2924 5 месяцев назад +142

    The new set is warm and homely

  • @brendangonyama
    @brendangonyama 3 месяца назад +43

    A beautiful young lady who had seen it all, and managed to pick herself up, I am proud of you my dear, you managed to Rise Above your Storms

  • @j.omondi5826
    @j.omondi5826 5 месяцев назад +311

    Her exit from her marriage to me is the epitome of strength and grace.

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 5 месяцев назад +14

      And walked away empty handed 😢

    • @ekachuks7481
      @ekachuks7481 5 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly

    • @DenelsiaWalker
      @DenelsiaWalker 5 месяцев назад

      No. She is rich. She walked away with herself, her sanity, and she has creativity in her DNA. 💯
      ​@@bellaolum9768

    • @Sthmohtwenty
      @Sthmohtwenty 5 месяцев назад

      Epitome of racist..who light skin kids and think thy will automatically get cuscasian privilege..stick 2 u own..lol

    • @beverleyhamilton4588
      @beverleyhamilton4588 5 месяцев назад +5

      Walking away is your peace🎉

  • @lilberhane3233
    @lilberhane3233 5 месяцев назад +233

    Im an 🇪🇷 Eritrean and i ❤ this show alot.thank you dear lynn watched your shows since tuko times ❤❤❤❤

    • @carolineg101
      @carolineg101 5 месяцев назад +6

      First time to see someone confess being from Eritrea

    • @lilberhane3233
      @lilberhane3233 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@carolineg101 what do u mean by saying dat please?

    • @naomymose1866
      @naomymose1866 5 месяцев назад +2

      Thanks Africa we are sisters and we learn from stories shared

    • @lilberhane3233
      @lilberhane3233 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@naomymose1866 well said dear Asante sana

    • @angelineowade2650
      @angelineowade2650 5 месяцев назад +1

      Wow

  • @shesblack8917
    @shesblack8917 5 месяцев назад +126

    Just learnt that financial freedom is the best thing any lady can have ...Also respecting ourselves as ladies will help us do away with disrespect from others ...Captivating story ❤

  • @godsgirlpodcast
    @godsgirlpodcast 4 месяца назад +23

    Rose!! You look 30!! You don't look 45yrs at all!! Girl, in as much as you have lost a lot..... you still are restored and glowing!! ♥♥

  • @jeanineainscough6698
    @jeanineainscough6698 5 месяцев назад +259

    My heart goes out to Rose. No judgement. We all make mistakes. She's a smart, strong lady. ❤

  • @teresiamuthoni4650
    @teresiamuthoni4650 5 месяцев назад +52

    Whoever signs the cheque keeps you in check ✔️.That hit hard Thank you for the courage of opening up and educating us as awhole.bless your heart .

  • @jaywilint.5408
    @jaywilint.5408 5 месяцев назад +45

    There is something special about this lady. Bless you

  • @carolineshivoche885
    @carolineshivoche885 Месяц назад +46

    I was bound in poverty until when i turned 40 is when i saw breakthrough. Now i am climbing stairs one by one. Patient is good. Please girls trust the Lord and stop this chasing money thing. Its until God says yes. I am now enjoying life after living in slums for decates. When i visit kenya i have to go to Lynn ngugi and niongee initike kwa roho.

  • @rose_wangari
    @rose_wangari 5 месяцев назад +65

    Omg, why am I crying. Acheni Mungu aitwe Mungu, what He can’t do doesn’t exist 😭😭😭🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
    To you Jehovah be all the glory, honour and all adoration 🙌🏾🙌🏾♥️

  • @EdwardW-p5i
    @EdwardW-p5i 5 месяцев назад +98

    This lady speaks fluently in English. Beautiful and with a good heart.

  • @eunicemoko5272
    @eunicemoko5272 5 месяцев назад +655

    You lost your 10 years, but God never left your side

    • @akotheffie8087
      @akotheffie8087 5 месяцев назад +24

      She looks 20 years younger though

    • @naturerazzi7shi495
      @naturerazzi7shi495 5 месяцев назад +22

      ​@@akotheffie8087True. She's still very pretty for her age.

    • @clementineonami
      @clementineonami 5 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@naturerazzi7shi495 how old is she

    • @stefane7374
      @stefane7374 5 месяцев назад +6

      Our Lord Jesus is every time whit us. Just call him 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @Ubhntu3789
      @Ubhntu3789 5 месяцев назад +10

      @@clementineonami 45. She looks 35.

  • @hauwaisa6983
    @hauwaisa6983 14 дней назад +24

    I wasted my 20s chasing after men with money and paid the same price. Thanks.for sharing

  • @euniceketer7676
    @euniceketer7676 5 месяцев назад +245

    Its her little cute smile for me whenever she wants to throw in a joke.
    She is so enthusiastic 🌻

    • @ah-jack5352
      @ah-jack5352 5 месяцев назад +1

      its true :)

    • @mercylizkyalo
      @mercylizkyalo 5 месяцев назад +1

      I've really laughed 😂😂

    • @refilwelephoto4154
      @refilwelephoto4154 2 месяца назад +1

      Literally she had me cracking up when she laughed telling her stories. I found this story on a whim and I didn’t think I’d watch the entire 2+ hours and here I am. She’s HILARIOUS

  • @Dee_the_blessed1
    @Dee_the_blessed1 5 месяцев назад +70

    I like her voice and how she's narrating the story systematically 👏

    • @anneanne8822
      @anneanne8822 5 месяцев назад +2

      Well composed

    • @Anny4700
      @Anny4700 2 месяца назад +2

      She’s warm, pleasant personality and very likeable

  • @ednawanjiku9808
    @ednawanjiku9808 5 месяцев назад +86

    This lady is extra candid, am impressed!! shez not ashamed of her past... God surely looks at the desires of our hearts,she finally got a genuine mzungu husband 🎉🎉🎉🎉it's the turn around by God for me..may God's name be glorified...

  • @dorahmlangeni729
    @dorahmlangeni729 2 месяца назад +25

    I'm a South African woman, listening and watching your story. Wow! What a strong woman you are. You are also a good storyteller❤. My heart goes to you, my dear

  • @Yimishe
    @Yimishe 5 месяцев назад +189

    Some of these older men in big age gap relationships exert almost all the characteristics that Rose mentioned: Selfishness, weird sexual proclivities, stinginess, scarcity mindset, cheating, jealousy, ED, body shaming, dream thieving, mental and emotional abuse simply because deep down they know they don’t deserve the younger and more attractive women that they are with! I hate poverty because sometimes it leads people to these horrible situations. Poverty is of the devil and don’t nobody come here and say not all poor people resort to old mzungus to escape it. Each situation is different! Glad Rose found a good man in the end

    • @adoumpmoussah939
      @adoumpmoussah939 5 месяцев назад +8

      Love doesnt have rule to follow.
      How many young men and women are in divorce court?

    • @gracekimani9771
      @gracekimani9771 5 месяцев назад +3

      The whole truth !! That most don’t want to hear.

    • @juliusnjure
      @juliusnjure 5 месяцев назад

      ​@gracekimani9771 look for an old white guy

    • @cutie4766
      @cutie4766 5 месяцев назад +6

      Sadly most of our young black men are like this 🤷🏽‍♀️.

    • @gracekimani9771
      @gracekimani9771 5 месяцев назад

      @@juliusnjure l have already a few of them aging 97 l can’t be jealous to give you one 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @JoyceWangui
    @JoyceWangui 5 месяцев назад +35

    Her eloquence and her delivery is absolutely incredible…… we go through life’s hardships so that we can educate others…. I am proud of the woman she is because she is using this platform to educate and create awareness….. her honesty is also what has opened other doors for her
    Child abuse should also not be overlooked as I am sure if she received love, her choices would have been different
    I will her more love and success

  • @AfroKingExplorer
    @AfroKingExplorer 5 месяцев назад +345

    The obsession of Kenyan women with the white man is just mind blowing to me. I have no idea what they see in the white man!

    • @Only1Othello
      @Only1Othello 5 месяцев назад +61

      It's excessive their obsession. The whole of Africa, especially East Africa, is memorized by their colonizers!

    • @Only1Othello
      @Only1Othello 5 месяцев назад +16

      It's excessive their obsession. The whole of Africa, especially East Africa, is memorized by their colonizers!

    • @AfroKingExplorer
      @AfroKingExplorer 5 месяцев назад +55

      @@Only1Othello not the whole of Africa or East Africa! Kenya is unique in this. Tanzanians and Rwandans women don’t seem to be that obsessed with white men!

    • @Only1Othello
      @Only1Othello 5 месяцев назад +8

      @@AfroKingExplorer I would agree with your statement, however see similar behaviors and actions when I’m in those countries, however on a smaller and short term scale.

    • @sheriamwangala
      @sheriamwangala 5 месяцев назад +44

      It’s also an obsession of white men with the black women. It’s both ways

  • @carolynemwongeli5764
    @carolynemwongeli5764 27 дней назад +8

    Can we all agree Rose is very funny I find her a comedian 😂😂 glad she is healed...may God restore to you whatever you've lost.

  • @dontatme42
    @dontatme42 5 месяцев назад +31

    She has it all. Peace, Beauty, Etiquette, and Love. Sister you have everything that God wanted you have. ❤️

  • @catherineusiri744
    @catherineusiri744 5 месяцев назад +75

    Am a Zimbabwean abroad and your story has opened my eyes as a single woman. Hugs Rose.

  • @beatricekinyua3952
    @beatricekinyua3952 5 месяцев назад +637

    love how she has owned up instead of playing victim big up for educating young girl may they listen

    • @extremeinteriors
      @extremeinteriors 5 месяцев назад +10

      She's a game changer

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 5 месяцев назад +12

      That's why I love about listening her story more and more because she own up to it 💯 percent.because there so many women still trapped to such relationship and marriages without courage to step out

    • @ngulubeprincess5009
      @ngulubeprincess5009 5 месяцев назад +8

      Its refreshing to lusten to simeone who owns their mistakes. Its difficult to judge a person like that!

    • @inspektasikujua
      @inspektasikujua 5 месяцев назад +9

      Exactly, and I think it shows that if you keep doing good and the right thing, the universe will bring you good things. And importantly to keep learning and growing so that you are ready for the blessings when they come

    • @gordonomondi7161
      @gordonomondi7161 5 месяцев назад +2

      We came into this world with nothing and shall take nothing after our death. EARTHLY LIFE AND ITS MATERIAL WEALTH IS TEMPORARY.

  • @CookingwithKbaker
    @CookingwithKbaker Месяц назад +8

    Just when I thought life was hard on me here is this queen beautiful story. May the man above continues to bless us all.

  • @minajose6602
    @minajose6602 5 месяцев назад +103

    Rose is ageing like fine wine ❤❤❤

    • @bosslady9167
      @bosslady9167 5 месяцев назад +1

      How old is she?

    • @joyngai7802
      @joyngai7802 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@bosslady9167to my calculations she's 45 yrs

    • @purpleeyessmith4151
      @purpleeyessmith4151 5 месяцев назад

      @@bosslady9167 45

    • @Sallyskin
      @Sallyskin 5 месяцев назад

      @@bosslady916745!!

  • @marionmuturi5283
    @marionmuturi5283 5 месяцев назад +140

    She's such a good narrator. Thank you Lynn for bringing her to the show. So many young girls get lost along the way. I've seen it here in coast😢.

    • @lilyann4505
      @lilyann4505 5 месяцев назад +2

      The English is 👌👌👌👌

  • @dooshimagbahabo2533
    @dooshimagbahabo2533 5 месяцев назад +581

    Whoever signs the cheque, keeps you in check.

  • @eberemaryroseattah
    @eberemaryroseattah 6 дней назад +3

    The fact that throughout the story Rose kept a laughing and smiling attitude is top notch

    • @LeratoM98
      @LeratoM98 5 дней назад

      Right. She is so strong and able to find humour even in the trauma. I admire her so much.

  • @reitaEbohon
    @reitaEbohon 5 месяцев назад +170

    The family was in on it. They just wanted a permanent free house maid.

    • @bbpersonalpage1613
      @bbpersonalpage1613 5 месяцев назад +8

      Yep

    • @bbpersonalpage1613
      @bbpersonalpage1613 5 месяцев назад

      And care taker .. it's expensive to hire a nurse and a maid . They all running to Africa to get a poor woman to turn into their slaves . They love freee ish

    • @tannygodisbeautiful9690
      @tannygodisbeautiful9690 5 месяцев назад +22

      THATS EXACTLY WHAT I THOUGHT TOO..... THE MAN GOT USE OF HER BODY AND THE MOTHER GOT HER SERVICE THE KNEW .., THATS OYIBO FOR YOU TRICKSTERS

    • @evelynhephi1889
      @evelynhephi1889 4 месяца назад +10

      Yes! They planned it. That why they travelled.

    • @zakwishaable
      @zakwishaable 4 месяца назад +4

      My thoughts as well

  • @glowtechvisuals6176
    @glowtechvisuals6176 5 месяцев назад +143

    I refused an old muzungu when i was 28yr, I desired a man in my age group and I thank God I made that decision. This is very helpful. Such men portray old retired life yet you are young and energetic.

    • @julieryatim7802
      @julieryatim7802 5 месяцев назад +8

      Love is what you make it. Its not the age gap but getting that man/woman who is chemically compatible to you. Young and old alike.

    • @Brandiisbeloved
      @Brandiisbeloved 4 месяца назад +8

      ​@julieryatim7802 it is about age gap. Big age gaps sucks the youth out of the younger person especially as the already old gts older and older. Let's not act like it's not about age. Most of us young women want to be with and have sex with men our age or a little bit oldee

    • @julieryatim7802
      @julieryatim7802 4 месяца назад +3

      @@Brandiisbeloved If it was only about sex then many young couples wouldn't get divorce or separate. Yet you find in that age gap many separate. In my 60 years of experience, I have come to the conclusion that it is not about age but about finding a soulmate.

    • @glowtechvisuals6176
      @glowtechvisuals6176 4 месяца назад

      @@julieryatim7802 yes, but they leave you early and when you ae older you go for younger men

    • @Brandiisbeloved
      @Brandiisbeloved 4 месяца назад +1

      @julieryatim7802 I can't knock you if that's what you came to the conclusion of. And I never said anything about it only being about sex but about young women usually wanting to be with men around or age or a little bit older. That's it

  • @joknyte8215
    @joknyte8215 5 месяцев назад +571

    traveling the world I’m realizing Africa is the most beautiful and truest place in the world.

  • @mathengenduhiu1580
    @mathengenduhiu1580 3 месяца назад +31

    It's Nyambura's eloquence for me. Nyambura storytelling is your gift. Listening to you tell your story in flawless English I'm tempted to think you went to top tier schools, which I doubt given your childhood challenges. Amazing.

  • @mrembo777
    @mrembo777 5 месяцев назад +53

    She speaks so eloquently! For once I watched the show in 1 sitting. You are a Mother to many Rose 🥰❤❤❤

  • @wanjanjubi
    @wanjanjubi 5 месяцев назад +71

    Team LNN silent followers ❤❤❤
    Hello Lynn😊❤
    Let me now listen......

  • @blessedassurance4743
    @blessedassurance4743 5 месяцев назад +37

    That man can be sued nd pay for that Lady! SHE deserve afair case! Judgment should be set up for her!

  • @abimbolaabiodun9505
    @abimbolaabiodun9505 7 дней назад +2

    If she have a good lawyer, this man should not get away with this crime of the abuse

  • @tytyeric6651
    @tytyeric6651 5 месяцев назад +300

    I wasn't financial free until my 40's and I'm still in my 40's, bought my third house already, earn I'm in a monthly through passive income, and i got 4 out of 5 goals, just hope it encourages someone here. that it doesn't matter if you don't have any of them right now, you can start Today's regardless your age to Invest and change your future! Investing in the financial market is a grand choice I made.

    • @stevenaustin3853
      @stevenaustin3853 5 месяцев назад +6

      yeah investment is the key to sustaining your financial longevity but venturing into any legitimate Investment without a proper guidance of an expert can lead to a great loss too

    • @CHELSJAMES
      @CHELSJAMES 5 месяцев назад

      I’ve been following Jason Graystone FX strategy for a while now. His insights are incredible

    • @HarrisonKelly-rs6is
      @HarrisonKelly-rs6is 5 месяцев назад

      Absolutely! His approach is so systematic. Have you thought about investing?

    • @ugochihelen6910
      @ugochihelen6910 5 месяцев назад

      What impresses me most about Jason. is how well He explains basic concept of winning before actually letting you use his tradein signals. This goes a long way to ensure winningtrades

    • @hannabas8198
      @hannabas8198 5 месяцев назад

      Wow

  • @jeddymoon3803
    @jeddymoon3803 5 месяцев назад +44

    I was ready to cry with a stranger today but I have laughed a lot..Rose is funny and well outspoken
    I am happy to have listened to her story and I have learned a lot of lessons...Thanks Lynn for today's episode

    • @dinnerideas1626
      @dinnerideas1626 5 месяцев назад +1

      She is😂😂😂😂 kwanza that part for ‘bibi ya mzungu with only 200 bob’ 😂😂😂

  • @sarahn4468
    @sarahn4468 5 месяцев назад +164

    At 45 Rose, people maybe able to get a child with God’s Grace. Don’t completely give up because you are not yet 50 years of age. Be blessed Rose and Thank you Lynn for this purposeful talk.

    • @isabellopes890
      @isabellopes890 5 месяцев назад +9

      Amen

    • @joannemuturi_purposecultivator
      @joannemuturi_purposecultivator 5 месяцев назад +11

      Best comment ever!!

    • @JesusChristSaves4ever
      @JesusChristSaves4ever 5 месяцев назад +28

      Even with 60, they still have children. My neighbor born her girl at the age of 60... she was so excited, and as a German woman, they believed and told by gynaecologist that 45yrs is limited time.
      And they forgot that God is the father of all creation.

    • @yvonneodul8291
      @yvonneodul8291 5 месяцев назад

      People now even get babies at 60 years

    • @ruthn9381
      @ruthn9381 5 месяцев назад +6

      Even in the 50s she still has a chance.

  • @AbisoyeALONGE
    @AbisoyeALONGE 18 дней назад +4

    My Sister not all that glitters is GOLD.

  • @ngatiasusan6954
    @ngatiasusan6954 5 месяцев назад +103

    Aki umaskini ni mbaya😢 the kind of entanglement we get ourselves in due to financial favours , God have mercy...mwanamke kuwa na pesa zake na kazi yake ni muhimu sana. No one will take advantage of you..lakini the way Rose is putting her story inabidi msee acheke..a good story teller

    • @Amira1977-y
      @Amira1977-y 5 месяцев назад +10

      POVERTY MATTERS!!!!! AND WE AFRICANS, WE THINK ALL WHITE PEOPLE ARE GOOD AND RICH!!!

    • @tinachris88
      @tinachris88 5 месяцев назад +8

      I agree, ladies we need to be financial independent.

    • @Amira1977-y
      @Amira1977-y 5 месяцев назад

      @@tinachris88EXACTLY!!!!

    • @lydianyagucha3527
      @lydianyagucha3527 5 месяцев назад

      6😢​@@tinachris88

    • @Sallyskin
      @Sallyskin 5 месяцев назад

      @@Amira1977-yTruee

  • @blessedgirl444
    @blessedgirl444 5 месяцев назад +132

    The set looks homely, warm & cosy

  • @pri_254
    @pri_254 5 месяцев назад +66

    Young ladies between 20 - 30, this is the time for you to prioritise the love of your life who is YOU. There are few things as freeing as having enough money to be self sufficient. Get an education , if you can't afford an education, learn a skill like doing nails, sewing, etc. And most important have faith in yourself and whatever God you believe in.

    • @renethomas6575
      @renethomas6575 5 месяцев назад +2

      Yes! make your own money..

    • @slysweetcandie9971
      @slysweetcandie9971 5 месяцев назад

      ❤️

    • @LeratoM98
      @LeratoM98 6 дней назад

      Very well said💯. Thank you🙏🏾❤️. Much love from South Africa.

  • @ellelively5693
    @ellelively5693 6 дней назад +2

    I could listen for her talk forever 💕 what a beautiful soul

  • @Makena_Ngai
    @Makena_Ngai 5 месяцев назад +40

    It is how I have stuck to this for 2hrs 49min... Rose has such a voice, and I love that she never gave up. She never sat at a corner and wallowed in sorrow. I love Rose, and how she just does not complain about the other party, she is quick to mention her stake in her experiences. May God be with you, even in the moment when the past comes knocking.

    • @Deedor72
      @Deedor72 5 месяцев назад

      Same here

  • @njerilinda
    @njerilinda 5 месяцев назад +45

    This is the most honest interview av watched, the lady was just young and naive. She fell for the white guy thinking it's her key to success, just like any other young girl would do.

  • @SAMUELMUNDIA-tc5rz
    @SAMUELMUNDIA-tc5rz 5 месяцев назад +22

    The best interview I have watched from lnn. The lady is accountable for her mistake and very educative. I resonate with her as I am in my twenties and at that point where I feel that I messed up in between my high school and college years out of ignorance and it is affecting me right now. I agree with her on the twenties years are the most important on shaping ones life

    • @LwmsMo
      @LwmsMo 5 месяцев назад

      Messed up, too, but we must move forward.

  • @Joylynw
    @Joylynw 5 месяцев назад +29

    "Nyambura, why are you walking like a man?" 😂😂😂😂got me...
    Rose you are beautiful in and out... The future is bright... We are not defined by who gave birth to us and which tribe we come from because that was not our choice... May God favour and expand you

  • @Priscillangaa182
    @Priscillangaa182 5 месяцев назад +169

    My take home whoever signs the Cheque, keeps you in check ❤

    • @therese2148
      @therese2148 5 месяцев назад +20

      Only if you allow it! I am with a white guy. I am fat, and when he tried talking about my body, I lectured him to size. Never mind that he pays all the bills, gives me about - 3,000 euros spouse allowance monthly. We are all different, insecurities allows bs in a relationship.

    • @merxg.creative
      @merxg.creative 5 месяцев назад +2

      Correct 💯

    • @EliananJenny
      @EliananJenny 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@therese2148You lucky

    • @James-y7i6d
      @James-y7i6d 5 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@therese2148 the fact that you talked about it is an issue. 3k euros is not money in Europe but for sure it's a fortune when you convert to KES. Good luck 👍!

    • @LatifaSue
      @LatifaSue 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@therese2148gives 3000 euros??? J think you are lieing 😮

  • @lifeisthebestteacher
    @lifeisthebestteacher 5 месяцев назад +57

    Great how Rose is speaking about a difficult subject with humour, looking casual and with a big smile on her face. You are indeed extraordinary. Wish you well. Cannot imagine how you do what you do Rose. Your courage is frightening. 65 vs 24. Transactional??? If these older men cannot approach young girls in their country of origin, what does that say to our young girls on the African Continent? Selling one's soul for money is the worst form of abuse. But that's just my view. People can do as they please, but consequences of making wrong decisions are eternally traumatic.

    • @monikam9069
      @monikam9069 4 месяца назад

      Several million of Black women in United States , they also lust White males. but not old ones

    • @kennykross3306
      @kennykross3306 19 дней назад

      This kenya not all afrika

  • @kekiplus1andonly
    @kekiplus1andonly 5 месяцев назад +20

    There is a price to everything.
    As long as you're happy now,the past doesn't belong to you,forget it and move on.
    Life is full of opportunities, focus on how you want to turn your life around and it will happen

    • @Friends46488
      @Friends46488 5 месяцев назад +4

      You sound so dismissive with your comment of " forget it and move on". Learn to have empathy.

  • @katebrown878
    @katebrown878 4 месяца назад +10

    WOW! Thanks a million my sister for sharing your painful life story, it is really a powerful lesson for young African women. She who has ears let her hear the voice of Roses. God bless you all😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @ej2507
    @ej2507 5 месяцев назад +31

    A 57 years old man still attached to his parents. What a shame.

  • @jemimahgeoff8892
    @jemimahgeoff8892 5 месяцев назад +42

    She is a good story teller 😅😅❤❤ smart gal.. thanks Lynn for bringing her here..

  • @user-wr9fn4ny4i
    @user-wr9fn4ny4i 5 месяцев назад +72

    Girl, iam kenyan man living in usa, what you have said towards the end of this show is totally true. Let those who have ears hear.

  • @sarahbirungi2928
    @sarahbirungi2928 3 месяца назад +16

    Joel 2:25 And I will restore to you the years that the locust hath eaten, the cankerworm, and the caterpiller, and the palmerworm, my great army which I sent among you

  • @paulinemadiro
    @paulinemadiro 5 месяцев назад +40

    She's an excellent orator,speaks good ,very funny and honest we all learn the hard way

    • @liliannakhumicha7952
      @liliannakhumicha7952 5 месяцев назад +1

      This is so educational... thank you for speaking the truth which most people are not open to share. Be blessed Rose...you are such a lovely nice person.

  • @anik8204
    @anik8204 5 месяцев назад +17

    Love her. Authentic, great sense of humour, easy to listen to and takes accountability where necessary.

  • @kandisphere8828
    @kandisphere8828 5 месяцев назад +32

    Rose, you are beautiful. Well done for educating girls and young women. Do not beat yourself about the mistakes of the past, because we all have done things that we wish we did differently. May God make you fruitful in all you do in life 🙏🏾.

  • @SbongilepatienceMphakathi
    @SbongilepatienceMphakathi Месяц назад +5

    Lynn Ngugi am 53yrs old now not married but l dont have problem with that god will provide me with someone l have 2kids boy n the gal.

  • @ojuoluwanwoo
    @ojuoluwanwoo 5 месяцев назад +79

    Rose please adopt a baby and he or she is yours forever. May you find unending peace

    • @okotray4577
      @okotray4577 5 месяцев назад

      Adopting a baby is very expensive and requires the permission of the husband as well.

    • @tendanipelaelo6293
      @tendanipelaelo6293 4 месяца назад +1

      Did you listen to he whole story? She said,,"Adoption is a calling" which means it's not not everyone who can adopt not due to financial status but are you going to love and treat the kid like your own even behind closed doors?

  • @MaryMutegi-j2g
    @MaryMutegi-j2g 5 месяцев назад +55

    Rose has such a sweet and kind soul! Her resilience is outstanding and has such positive energy. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @felisterwangu658
    @felisterwangu658 5 месяцев назад +32

    In my mother tongue there is a saying that says, whatever comes easily goes easily... Hope our young girls we can learn

    • @ocheing
      @ocheing 5 месяцев назад +7

      They never learn till it's to late , greed for money and fancy lifestyle has led Many to graves and prison

  • @joykange8134
    @joykange8134 6 дней назад +2

    Really brave for sharing your story! I can’t believe how wicked people can be. Rose, you are a lovely soul and deserve a beautiful life! I’m glad you are healing and wish you the best ❤

  • @jacqueypatrick4090
    @jacqueypatrick4090 5 месяцев назад +22

    How I wish our girls will listen to this,,,it is so awesome the way she talked with confidence and she looks very young

  • @Miss_Julie_Anyango
    @Miss_Julie_Anyango 5 месяцев назад +61

    I watched Rose's story and genuinely send love to her, it is quite an inspiration for us in mid twenties

  • @evagichobi2680
    @evagichobi2680 5 месяцев назад +67

    Wow she says she is now 45 but she is still looking so young like still in her 20's..... Her story is so educative. How I wish we learn from her story

  • @NakittoViola
    @NakittoViola 5 месяцев назад +9

    Wow,Lynn this reminds of a family here in Uganda the lady got married toablack American who doesn't even allow the lady's mom to visit even if she does and just gets out and came back the man would tell the guard to ask who she was.Lynn these things really happen ,much love from 🇺🇬 Lynn nakupenda sana

  • @aggieakia3577
    @aggieakia3577 5 месяцев назад +24

    Linn, lots of love from Uganda Kampala. Thanks for the good work you are doing .

  • @dooshimagbahabo2533
    @dooshimagbahabo2533 5 месяцев назад +12

    Rose, you are so real, honest and plain. Your laughter is infectious despite all. God bless you

  • @tabbydorcas78
    @tabbydorcas78 5 месяцев назад +91

    You converted from paid maid to unpaid maid, unfortunately they all used you . I m glad you have healed from all that pain.

  • @wawudamwasaru3821
    @wawudamwasaru3821 22 дня назад +3

    Very amazing story! I like Rose as brave lady.

  • @floraselez
    @floraselez 5 месяцев назад +23

    Wow ,Rose the blogger finally listening to your story once again, Thanks LYNN

    • @roseblogger
      @roseblogger 5 месяцев назад +4

      " Rose the blogger"😂😂😂 I love it🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @kainikakidz63
    @kainikakidz63 5 месяцев назад +20

    The mentality that mzungu will clear your problem. With a father or not it is good to affirm the kids and instill life principles from a young age.

  • @MburawaUK
    @MburawaUK 5 месяцев назад +270

    Wazungu have become wise, the mothers are even going an extra mile looking for black women to marry their sons, but the end game is for the girl to be the caregiver of the mother and family members as time progress. Think before you entangle yourself with modern day slavery in the name of I am married to mzungu.

    • @auntiemylee3157
      @auntiemylee3157 5 месяцев назад +9

      Yes nawadays the use love to manipulate

    • @henrythiongo8297
      @henrythiongo8297 5 месяцев назад +23

      Avoidance to pay care givers...

    • @joshuaombaka3116
      @joshuaombaka3116 5 месяцев назад +14

      @@henrythiongo8297 hahahahahaaaa! It is expensive ooooh. Do you know it is African immigrants that even work in care homes.

    • @naturerazzi7shi495
      @naturerazzi7shi495 5 месяцев назад +17

      The mum was evil just like her son. If she was kind she would have been paying her chini ya maji . She was a user too!

    • @Ethiopia890
      @Ethiopia890 5 месяцев назад +4

      Exactly 💯 they do !

  • @afuadankwaahowusu699
    @afuadankwaahowusu699 9 дней назад +1

    Sis is sooooo beautiful! I was doing cleaning and just sat down to watch it. Really, Rose is a beautiful lady! I pray God continues to guide her in life and on her healing journey!

  • @janekamondo1991
    @janekamondo1991 5 месяцев назад +17

    My heart goes to Rose.She was too young to have suffered so much.Thank you Rose for being there for so many other girls who you wil save from falling prey of the same.

  • @Bitunils
    @Bitunils 5 месяцев назад +50

    Rose, you are soo soooo genuine!! I wish everyone is honest as you are!! God bless you girl

  • @Sofia-dl9vw
    @Sofia-dl9vw 5 месяцев назад +81

    Ladies, there are no shortcuts in life. That is why my aunts always told us girls, make sure you have your own money and have your separate account for emergencies. This story is very tragic. What an evil man!

    • @renethomas6575
      @renethomas6575 5 месяцев назад +3

      Amen! My mother always said, have your money and have a private bank account for your own peace of mind. A selfish evil man is a selfish evil person regardless of race.

    • @Brandiisbeloved
      @Brandiisbeloved 4 месяца назад +2

      these men ate so convinced young women love old men. Most of us want men our age or a little bit older. They lie online and say young women are constantly hitting on them. it's ridiculous. Young women usually deal with old men for money or are coming from broken homes and easily manipulative. I want a man my age or a little bit older. The thought of sleeping with and waking up with someone old enough to my father or grandfather grosses me out. I'm so grateful I live in the USA and have so many resources for the poor so I don't have to deal with putting myself in comprising situations due to poverty

  • @evelynaziebu8573
    @evelynaziebu8573 4 месяца назад +13

    Try the IVF again, this time it will work. Hope is not lost. God is with you.

    • @sudanesgal
      @sudanesgal Месяц назад

      She got her womb removed

  • @remnant.watchman
    @remnant.watchman 5 месяцев назад +68

    My take away is that God is faithful. He has taken the best possible care of Rose. Another thing is that transactional relationships are not worth having. They don't have love.

    • @patriciakabibi2181
      @patriciakabibi2181 5 месяцев назад +8

      The best foundation of any relationship is love. If you're in it for any other reason, it will fall apart in due time.

  • @blackrose8643
    @blackrose8643 5 месяцев назад +25

    This girl is so sweet, sincere and breathtakingly beautiful. Such a shame how some demonic people can destroy young people's lives. I wish you the very best. Lynn the whole décor is lovely. Thank you for doing what you do. God bless.

    • @anneanne8822
      @anneanne8822 5 месяцев назад

      God will Restore everything to U Rose.

  • @natheeah7369
    @natheeah7369 22 дня назад +15

    LYNN, I watched your channel from Guyana 🇬🇾. Inspiring stories I have been watching for a few years, but I stopped because I was studying.
    I love this lady, she is so beautiful. She has such a good sense of humour 😅😅😅😅 You won't🎉 believe she has gone through so much. God bless her heart ❤️ 💙

  • @salomeorina3579
    @salomeorina3579 5 месяцев назад +13

    I just like this lady,she is so open and innocent.