Dr. Gabor Maté: The Healing Advice You Haven't Heard

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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

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  • @manosmehedee
    @manosmehedee Месяц назад +12

    In a toxic culture, Dr. Gobor Mate is one of the few people on the internet, who genuinely spread compassion and healing. Mr. Mate I admire you so much.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад +1

      I really appreciate your kind words! Dr. Maté’s work resonates with so many, and it’s wonderful to see his impact acknowledged.

  • @stephenschneider9209
    @stephenschneider9209 13 дней назад +3

    If he hasn't already, deserves a Nobel prize...

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  13 дней назад

      Absolutely! His contributions are truly remarkable and deserving of the highest recognition.

  • @stemmy3599
    @stemmy3599 Месяц назад +12

    Great teacher of self-knowledge, self-compassion, self-healing and self-love. Thank you for this compilation! 🙏🏽

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад +1

      I really appreciate your kind words! It means a lot to know that the content resonates with you.

  • @comnandmentsdeadlysins
    @comnandmentsdeadlysins Месяц назад +7

    God said "turn off the noise" . I listened and did as I was told. What happened next was divine intervention and fast track ascension while healing. 7 years total to heal and learn all I truely am. No one helped me conciously but subconsciously they gave me what I truely needed my purpose in life back by helping them. No one knows what I need but God and God will move people and situations to help me for far more greater purposes and missions then society is ready for.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience! It's inspiring to see how you’ve turned inward and found your purpose. Your journey is a beautiful testament to the power of faith and self-discovery.

    • @chaosdream21
      @chaosdream21 24 дня назад

      Very inspiring and resonant

  • @ljkoh20052000able
    @ljkoh20052000able Месяц назад +15

    The dealing with our difficulties honestly is what makes us human😮

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад +3

      Thank you for sharing that perspective! It’s so true, and I appreciate you being part of this conversation.

    • @just1john
      @just1john Месяц назад

      @@Cosmogonal_Hierogamy Same. Dan Winter on the physics (or in this case metaphysics) of lucid dreaming and astral travels is related to having and keeping ancestral memory, what we carry with us beyond this "reality" ill-led, really. We're the same age too.

    • @chrisoher
      @chrisoher 2 дня назад +1

      ​@@just1john Is there a video?

    • @just1john
      @just1john День назад

      @@chrisoher Many videos! RUclips @DanWinterFractalField I love this guy. Cheers

  • @mariellarobles3372
    @mariellarobles3372 Месяц назад +8

    Cancer was definitely an eye opener for me it gave me a new perspective on my life and I have learned so much and appreciated life more than ever.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience. It’s amazing how challenges like that can change our outlook on life. I’m so glad you’ve found new meaning and appreciation. Wishing you strength and peace on your journey! ❤

    • @mariellarobles3372
      @mariellarobles3372 Месяц назад +1

      @@yourinnerchildmatters thank you truly 💓

  • @donwalker117
    @donwalker117 Месяц назад +2

    I really needed to hear this. Thank you Gabor

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад

      Thank you for your kind words! It truly makes my day to know my content is helping others.

  • @sayusayme7729
    @sayusayme7729 Месяц назад +6

    Thank you, I’m doing so much better. Will be starting EMDR soon. Unraveling all the preconditions.
    Within my indigenous culture holistically.
    Years of western medicine I no longer want.
    Mind , body & soul 🦉 🇨🇦 🪶

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад

      I’m so glad to hear you're feeling better! 😊 EMDR sounds like a great next step, and it's wonderful that you're connecting with your culture in a holistic way. Wishing you strength and healing for your mind, body, and soul. 🦉🪶 Sending love and good vibes from here! ❤

  • @yourinnerchildmatters
    @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад +9

    Hey everyone! 🌱 This video with Dr. Gabor Maté really opened my eyes to how much our egoic mind can influence our healing journey. It's so easy to look outside ourselves for solutions, but real healing starts from within. 🙏 I'd love to hear your thoughts-have you ever felt like your ego was blocking your growth? Let’s share our experiences and learn from each other! 💬 #DrGaborMaté #SelfHealing #InnerHealing #OvercomingEgo #HealingJourney

    • @nalinidharanipragada1997
      @nalinidharanipragada1997 Месяц назад +4

      Absolutely. I was groomed as a career-oriented woman. I took pride in working as a journalist for some 12 years. But when I became mother, my desire was to be with my child from day 1. But somehow this didn't happen until she was three. I was working full time. But hardly any one would call me a professional journalist. I found it difficult to give time to my daughter as well as go to work and give one hundred per cent to my job. I was terminated. And this served as an opportunity for me to be a stay-at-home mom. I had a passion for living a life different from the routine working life of others around me. And this was the challenge. It has proved to be very tough because I had to literally unlearn everything from scratch. The world doesn`t think much of me because I don't own any property, I have not as much money as those I associate with and I had tough time with my daughter, who is by the way, a working woman now. However, because of sticking around at home, I learnt many things that I didn't know earlier. Especially of relationships. Recently, my quest for freedom from this routine household stuff has led me to read a copy of Dr. Gabor Mate's The Myth of the Normal. It is an eye-opener. It has definitely helped me to connect well with my daughter, who has started becoming close to me again. The best thing about us is we are corresponding like in the old times. Not through gmail or facebook, but through writing letters to each other. I am yet to finish reading the book and am enthused about the various exercises. Truly a balm for troubled minds.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад +3

      Thank you so much for sharing your journey. It takes so much strength to balance being a mother and pursuing a career, and I can only imagine how challenging that must have been for you. I’m so happy to hear that you’ve found ways to reconnect with your daughter and that Dr. Gabor Mate's book has been helpful. Writing letters is such a beautiful way to communicate, and it sounds like a wonderful bond is forming between you both. Wishing you all the best on your continued journey of learning and growth! ❤

    • @annelbeab8124
      @annelbeab8124 Месяц назад +1

      from which talk are the excerpts?

    • @Draginsezluvnlite-jp8sv
      @Draginsezluvnlite-jp8sv Месяц назад +2

      Hello Sweetheart, oh yes - doesn't everyone have this experience (but they just don't realise it?!) I've found three things that help: 1) go within - in meditation, still the mind by filling your thoughts and heart with high vibrations of gratitude, love, empathy, compassion sit quietly until you touch that inner core of peace and joy, where you sense how everything and everyone is interconnected by one unified field that is simply love. The more you do that the easier it becomes to identify when it's ego-mind driving your thoughts and actions and then you can stop and go to... 2) touch your heart, ask your HEART the question (whatever it is - maybe what to do, what to say, is this or that correct, am I reacting according to my Higher Self motivation or my ego-mind, etc.) The TRUE answer will come immediately, without further thought or reasoning, it just comes. If you like, before you do that, say a little prayer/ASK for clarity.
      There are other techniques like muscle testing and so on but they all come down to the same thing - your heart knows because your heart is CONNECTED to the unified field (check out discussions between Gregg Braden and Nassim Haramein for example; it's also intrinsic to concepts of quantum theory!) Hey did you know the heart actually THINKS like the brain does? Science has discovered the heart contains NEURONS that fire exactly the same way the brain's do. It also holds memory! (Our bodies are the most amazing machines and we only know a fraction of how interconnected it is to our emotional and spiritual lives!)
      The third is to be kind and grateful for ego - don't fight it, love it and thank it for keeping us safe, because that's why it's there - it's a survival mechanism. And if we truly love ourselves (which we need to!) we need to love ALL of ourselves, even the parts that don't seem to serve us the way we think are necessary. EVERYTHING is designed to serve us one way or another, be it practical in the here and now or even for our soul's purpose while here on earth for this particular journey! So be kind and loving, even as you are firm and disciplining of your ego.
      It's an ongoing learning process really - a part of our soul's journey to experience life and grow as we go. I certainly can't claim to have mastered it (not nearly!) but I'm keeping on keeping on trying lol... and I think the more we practise and stay MINDFUL as much as possible, the better we get at it!
      Much love and light and many blessings dear Soul, what a great thing you're doing by sharing all this with the world!

    • @glafiram
      @glafiram Месяц назад

      Thank you very much for sharing this truth! Very important!❤❤❤

  • @gabrielmackay5749
    @gabrielmackay5749 Месяц назад +4

    Thank you for this! I needed to hear the wisdom of the Dr today ❤🙏

  • @abbykoop5363
    @abbykoop5363 Месяц назад +9

    Around 2:30.... It doesn't do to look for the solutions on the outside.
    That's why I struggled with AA. The idea of giving my power totally away and trusting "something else outside of me" just never sat right. Eventually, i figured it out on my own. That part anyway. I'm still a work in progress....

    • @lanasawyer3128
      @lanasawyer3128 Месяц назад +2

      The creator of AA was also a very flawed person!

    • @NateX.theOriginalX
      @NateX.theOriginalX Месяц назад +1

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад

      Thank you for sharing your journey with us! Your determination to find your own solutions is truly inspiring, and I'm glad you're making progress!

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

  • @karaokenglish
    @karaokenglish Месяц назад +10

    Find this video on RUclips where you can see him speaking in person to be sure its not AI.

  • @stephaniegrace8993
    @stephaniegrace8993 Месяц назад +2

    Beautiful authenticity, truth etc❤

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you! Embracing authenticity truly makes a difference in our lives.

  • @ElevatedVibration11
    @ElevatedVibration11 Месяц назад +2

    Wonderful video very informative! God bless🙏

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm glad you found the video informative.

  • @meredithb3109
    @meredithb3109 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you

  • @sarojanidoddapaneni9734
    @sarojanidoddapaneni9734 Месяц назад +1

    LIFE is to live one's own life to glorify the HOLY ONE.
    I learnt.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад

      Thank you for sharing that! It’s always uplifting to hear such profound insights. Together, we can inspire each other to live our best lives!

  • @sarojanidoddapaneni9734
    @sarojanidoddapaneni9734 Месяц назад +2

    WORDS Without DEEDS ARE DEAD.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад

      Thank you for reinforcing such an important message! I appreciate your engagement with the content.

  • @szymonbaranowski8184
    @szymonbaranowski8184 Месяц назад +2

    competition helps you grow, but only of you compete with yourself and with others in playful manner

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts! I completely agree; playful competition can spark creativity and motivate us to reach new heights!

  • @SimplyMulani
    @SimplyMulani 17 дней назад +1

    💯

  • @InBeautyWayLLC
    @InBeautyWayLLC Месяц назад +1

    People have always ahd this DOUBLE STANDARD with me. They assume and expect me to be the better one while theyre being haters and acting like wicked children.
    They always wanted and expected me to behave while they act up and act out.
    Its disgusting.
    And yet this is how i became BETTER than them.
    Which results in their regular jeallusy of me. Very ignorant of them indeed.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад

      I'm really sorry you've had to deal with that. Dr. Gabor Maté often talks about how much our childhood experiences and emotions shape who we are. It’s tough when people act unfairly or out of jealousy, but your ability to rise above that shows strength and growth. Remember, their actions say more about them than about you. Stay kind to yourself and take care. 😊

  • @Novastar.SaberCombat
    @Novastar.SaberCombat Месяц назад +1

    Reflection is key.
    🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
    "Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In time, all points converge; hope's strength, resteeled. But to earn final peace at the universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again."
    🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
    --Diamond Dragons (series)

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад

      Thank you for sharing such a beautiful quote!

    • @Novastar.SaberCombat
      @Novastar.SaberCombat Месяц назад +1

      @@yourinnerchildmatters You're welcome. It's a profound yet adventurous, whimsical series. Maybe a "spiritual successor" to Tolkien-style works.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад

      @@Novastar.SaberCombatthanks again.

  • @dommccaffry3802
    @dommccaffry3802 Месяц назад +3

    Who is saddaram?

  • @MotocrossElf
    @MotocrossElf Месяц назад +4

    All the interruptions to the speech add nothing. Just let the man talk.

  • @homodeus8713
    @homodeus8713 Месяц назад +1

    Edit so that he finishes the last point he was making.

  • @weyounion9112
    @weyounion9112 Месяц назад +1

    Saddam/Sadharam?, Almas? He points towards something, what? I only find A.H.Almaas, is that the one quoted? This video is strange, usual Gabor Maté except these two names... Is it a real recording? If so why no explanations about these names?

    • @frogsandrobbers
      @frogsandrobbers Месяц назад

      He mentions Almas in other talks too. I don’t know who Sat Dam is. (?)

  • @sarojanidoddapaneni9734
    @sarojanidoddapaneni9734 Месяц назад +1

    I AM an Adamant insensitive stubborn so-called human .
    I Believe Everyone is Unique and Awesome Creation blessed with awesome talent to be Creative and Productive to blossom into the full image of the HOLY ONE.
    Obeying the COMMAND
    "LOVE THY NEIGHBOUR AS THYSELF '
    "DISCERN '
    I realised in my 80th year
    I Am A frog in the well.
    Every one of us should learn to develop Healthy Relationships with Respect Responsibility Resilience Relience and Healthy Boundaries Discipline and order Discernment Dignity with Integrity Honesty Patience understanding Adjustable Appreciate encouraged Motivate Strengthen Oneself Primarily and ONE ANOTHER implemented in all educational institutions including universities Globally ESSENTIAL.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад

      I appreciate your deep reflections and the wisdom you’ve gained over the years. It’s inspiring to see someone so dedicated to promoting love and understanding.Your insights are truly valuable.

  • @haniamritdas4725
    @haniamritdas4725 Месяц назад +3

    Just like all professions, using therapies to "heal" creates real mutual dependency. It's not part of the therapists' retirement planning, to heal their patients.

    • @mmw5656
      @mmw5656 Месяц назад

      Dependency is in our control, our choice. It doesn’t matter who/what one becomes dependent on, the work is always ours.

  • @susanralph274
    @susanralph274 Месяц назад +2

    Are we full circle to what our parents told us in the 70s or what

  • @sarojanidoddapaneni9734
    @sarojanidoddapaneni9734 Месяц назад +1

    I AM ADAMANT FEARLESS INSENSITIVE STUBBORN SO-CALLED HUMAN.
    If you say Every One Should be a Child to enter the Kingdom of the HOLY ONE.

  • @stephenwillis9988
    @stephenwillis9988 Месяц назад +2

    Get closer to HaShem GOD HaShem through prayer and meditation fasting .

  • @sarojanidoddapaneni9734
    @sarojanidoddapaneni9734 Месяц назад +1

    I think you got stuck in Child.

  • @lorrie9990
    @lorrie9990 Месяц назад +18

    Jesus said come unto me and I will give you rest ,take my yoke upon you and learn from me ,,what you say sir is good advice but only Christ /Messiah has the true answer ,in Isaiah 53 He’s called Councillor,Prince of Peace, Isaiah9:6 ,,,because He is the only one who can help us ,,,what you are talking about is Spiritual warfare ,,look into it and only through knowing Jesus Christ our Creator and Saviour can we overcome anything Satan brings upon us 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад +3

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It's always enlightening to hear different perspectives on faith and spirituality.

    • @JMcK75
      @JMcK75 Месяц назад +6

      What if ...... God is speaking through him for those that need to hear it because they are yet to connect as you have ?
      God is everything. Everywhere. Always speaking and by the sounds of it you picked up on that well. 🙏❤️

    • @haniamritdas4725
      @haniamritdas4725 Месяц назад

      Why would a tribal blood cult from the desert save you from anything? You need salvation from the mind control cult, not sin and death

    • @markmoran9272
      @markmoran9272 Месяц назад +2

      Watch the Frontline series on Jesus and Christianity. It’s really educational.

    • @omaraqil9638
      @omaraqil9638 Месяц назад

      Jesus is not the creator he is the creation just like us how can someone who come from the pussy of a woman (Mary) be creator?

  • @theresaterpening9225
    @theresaterpening9225 Месяц назад +3

    He lost me
    Yep
    Zero Trust
    Zero Report
    His puppets are revolting
    Flora Cowan