I started guitar on a whim, after watching School of Rock with my ex about 6 years ago. She told me I will never be any good as you need to 'have it in you'. The guitar is still here, she's not.............and I just got my first gig!
I learned to play Guitar because of a break up I was experiencing and my so called friends weren’t there for me Just me and a guitar in a small room . Subsequently a friend was giving about about nobody being their for him when he broke up with his girl I laughed a pointed out that neither hi nor nobody else was there for me and that that how I learned guitar. I was 33 at the time I play in pubs and coffee shops now as a bit of cash on the side I always loved music and life has funny twists and turns this twist was a gift That I’m forever thankful
@Paul Davids I am impressed with the quality of your videos, in every way. You don't only teach music, but teach also captivating communication besides video production and edititing lessons. Your videos always bring us life lessons too. I bet that many of your more than 2 million subscribers (almost doubled the amount in just one year) are not here just for the music lessons videos, but also for all the rich multidisciplinary content present in each one of them. Congratulations for the excellence you apply in every detail. Hugs from Brazil🇧🇷 .
Dang, I sure found this story extremely inspiring! I am so grateful you didn't give up, Otherwise we wouldn't have had such a talented, friendly, and informative guitar content creator! Congrats on 1.3m!
I was 21 years old making $50,000 + a year at a high end company selling insurance. I wasn't fulfilled. Better yet, I wasn't even happy. I've been playing music since i was 5 years old and have a gift for it. Every single day I play piano and guitar. I used to bring my guitar in my car and practice in the car during my lunch breaks. One day, I was playing guitar on my lunch break and I broke down crying. That's not where I wanted to be and I knew it. I didn't care about the money anymore. Sure I was more financially successful than most people my age but that meant absolutely nothing if i couldn't be happy. I walked into my job and quit right on the spot. My family freaked out. So did some of my friends. But something told me I was a musician. I reached out to my old guitar teacher that day and asked him if he could please take me under his wing again and thank god he did. Fast forward about 7 months... Now, I work full time as a musician teaching privately, started my RUclips channel (which i'm currently working on) and doing studio recording session with one of the best studios on Long Island (which is where i'm from) as a professional musician at 22 years old making around the same amount if not more than what I was making at the insurance company. Got invited to winter NAMM as an artist for a guitar company, and actually met paul. Super nice guy. I got to meet some of my heroes at NAMM. All of this because I went with my gut and I couldn't be more happier with the way my life is turning out. I thank god everyday. Do what you want to do its your life don't let people tell you how to live it. Trust your gut. This is one of my first comments I ever made on a RUclips video but i felt like it was needed.
Thanks John. I've been in the hospitality industry for the last two years and it has been depression the likes of which I have never experienced before... The only time I am calm and happy is when I sit down and grab my acoustic guitar and just noodle something... My parents really don't want me to do music but I know it's where I'm meant to be. So thank you for sharing your experience and I am subbing on your channel. All the best.
I had a very similar thing happen early in my career. When I first got out of university as an artist I struggled to find gainful employment. I only found occasional work and couldn't make a living. This went on for months until I finally decided to apply for a seriously shit desk job. Long story short- I didn't get the job- thank God. Eventually things panned out in my chosen filed. I've spent the last 25+ years creating animated shows for tv and film. As they say- do something you love and you'll never work a day in your life. Good luck to those still in the struggle.
I teach children at a local elementary school on a weekly basis. It can be tough, and frustrating at times. I asked for permission to have my class time video recorded using 3 cameras in the room for a number of reasons. - When the children know that they are being video recorded, their behaviour and responsibility improves a great deal. - If any objections from any of the children, or myself is brought forward, the video recordings from 3 perspectives will either reinforce a legitimate grievance, or negate a meaningless one. - When I stumble upon a particularly good response in teaching, I can review the reasons why this positive reaction happened, and use this to help formulate better lessons. - The students may requisition portions of the class time to review for their own curiosity, and reinforce their development. - Also, segments of the video recordings can be provided for the families of the students as well. To appreciate some of the children's performances. This strategy was a bit difficult to get the school onboard with, but has led to great improvements for everyone in the classroom.
💕 My mom was an academic school teacher, with pretty much the same type of kids & the same area. She said her first day a kid took her car keys outside & threw them across a field. It was a tough time for her but she hung in there. Thanks for your story ! Very inspirational !! 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼😊
I started out with the disposition that doing music as a career was a dichotomy; you were either a rock star or a failure. I played in bands and tried to promote myself, but I had no idea what I was doing. I gave up, and just focused on doing music on the side here and there, but mostly I was just working the day job for many years. I moved up in the company and moved in to management, but I wasn't fulfilled in the least. Recently, and especially after watching channels like yours and Adam's, I decided to start pursuing the only thing that made me happy; music. I contacted a friend that owned a studio and started teaching lessons. I stepped down at my day job as more lessons started coming in. Currently I am part time at my day job; I teach two days a week, help produce artists in the evening, and play in a good paying country band every other weekend. I'm hoping within 3 years to be able to completely shift over to music as career. We'll see, it's pretty late in my life at this point, but I never imagined I could even get to where I'm at before because I didn't allow myself the opportunity to fail. I think you have to be willing to fail to actually succeed. I think that's ultimately the lesson to be learned from your story and your life (Paul David's); and I thank you for sharing it. Without this RUclips musician community, I may never have taken these steps in my life, so thank you :)
oh boy that first sentence is why i kinda gave up music 3 years ago.. i made the choice to study psychology, now after the first year i've hit depression. i am not enjoying my life and I feel like it's too late to catch up somehow. I am only twenty years old, but in these 3 years my musical friends went into music school and they are now so much futher than i am. and suddenly i feel jealous and mad at myself for never taking music serious enough. i think i'm now starting to see that music might be the best choice for me, even when there are other people who will outplay me, even when i feel like i could never make a living. You are right. At this point i need to know, and i'd rather fail than never try.
@@ctogive It really isn't too late. I stopped playing guitar for a number of years during my mid 20s because I felt much the same way. Nothing worked out and playing open mics became dull. I felt like a fraud, an impostor. Now, I'm approaching my 30th birthday and in the last year I've picked guitar back up and I'm happy again. I don't know where I'm going but I know now that I just can't quit it, so I'm putting more into my music then I ever have before and I notice that, the more work I put into it, the happier I feel in my day to day. Don't ever quit.
Man, I am a teacher for 19 years now... Wow, times goes fast... I always entered in the first class as a military... I don´t give them a chance. I scream if necessary and I do not make a happy face at all. Then, with time passing by, I get softer and I do not need to be rude as they know how it works. Hey, it is working for 19 years now! Cheers from Portugal!
Firm but fair is a great start. Got to set the boundaries. Earn the respect but don't get run over trying to be everyone's friend, especially with kids. They'll always try and push the limits and there's good and bad ways to deal with that. A loud "Hey" to get their attention and then speaking quietly about consequences (which must be followed through) is very effective. I'm not a teacher (and don't want to sound like I know it all) but come from a long line of music educators and watched this in practice. My mother was my music teacher at high school for 3 of my 5 years as a music scholarship student and learned this the hard way as an obnoxious student ;) cheers
I don't think you CAN truly quit the guitar, if there is music inside you it has to come out some way and the instrument will keep calling to you until you pick it up again.
Yes. you can. I did. For 20yrs. Sure, I picked it up again but I could just as easily quit again. Life happens, you get older, and things change. It's best not to romanticize these things. Ofc I could be wrong. Hope I am wrong.
There's a saying I've come to truly appreciate: "There is no growth in the comfort zone." If you're comfortable, you're complacent. If you're complacent, you won't likely seek to improve your lot in life. You will stagnate, and you will [metaphorically] die. More careers in art have been killed by complacency, before they ever took off, than any other reason.
I call bs, you can be perfectly comfortable and happy while enjoying the process of learning. If there's no enjoyment in the process then why the hell would you keep playing, might as well pay 300$ to a dominatrix to step on your balls
In my opinion, your entire channel reflects your continuous development of your great personality and I've learned a lot, not only musically! Thankfully you decided to go this way which gives me the opportunity to work on module 4 since a week. Can't wait to get to module 5 :) You're an awesome teacher getting an old man understanding basic music theory and having fun to explore it on a guitar! Thank you very much!
First, congrats on the 1.3. That's a good sign you connect with people. I felt very identified with your story. I've been playing for almost 30 years and discovered too late that life is simple. Hard, but simple. I've spent some years teaching, some years playing on a band, but never had the guts to follow professionally what made me happy: playing, creating and sharing the love for music. My family wanted me to make money, so I studied engineering, went to law school. When I had a chance to become a music teacher and study on a university, my mother got cancer and my ex-wife forced me to forget about music or the marriage was over. I've followed other people's thoughts about what a well adjusted adult life is and never followed myself. A couple of years ago I got divorced, quitted the job as a programmer on a abusive little business. I just couldn't stand to look at myself on the mirror. That shadow of a man that's looking back at me with a guilty stare is me?. Today I still work a software engineer , but for myself. Got a newborn baby and an amazing new family. My wife is a kindergarten teacher and sings beautifully. Her oldest son I had the privilege of teaching him music and now he plays jazz piano mainly. I still don't find a way to dedicate myself to music since getting money to afford a life and a family is no small matter, but this time I'm loved because of who I am, and not an idea of what I'm supposed to be. At 42 years old i wish i knew this sooner, but as arthritis progresses and probably there will be a day I won't be able to play anymore, at least I turned to the right direction. Hopefully I'll find a way on youtube and other ways to make music, no matter how old I am, but is good to know that many of us are not alone on this, and we all struggle to fight for what make a life worth living... be able to be happy with what you choose to do, and mostly, with what you really are.
I’m glad you’re here in the tube! You do a great job. I almost quit when I was 17, 20, 34, 40, 45, 50, 54 and now I finally have it somewhat together at 57. I play piano, acoustic and electric guitars and bass, banjo and mandolin. I can also almost carry a tune on the drums although I’m not that motivated to play them. Keep working at it is all I can say.
How crazy that you went through all that. I keep collecting gear and trying to up my guitar playing but I always get worn down from working a day job and feel like music will never be anything more than a pastime. Definitely makes me bummed out, but I’m glad that there are people like you who play, teach, and inspire others to keep going. Keep it up!
_I’ve been following you since you had 100k+ subs. Congrats!!_ I have had my channel for a year and I have almost 30k subs. It is tiring and rewarding at the same time. So hearing your story is very timely. At times it can get discouraging. But, this inspires perseverance.
Hi Paul, I am envious you found what you like to do. But, I have to tell you ( in case you were not told this already ), you are very good at doing this. The quality of your videos (editing) and the materials you are presenting are top notch! They are well thought out and your personality comes through each video I have seen. In other words, I can see and sense your passion for the guitar. I am a Banjo picker who picked up the guitar so I could better understanding what the guitar dude was doing. By pursuing the guitar, for means other than learning how to play it, I have learned to love this instrument too. I'll be watching you and even supporting you as well. Cheers from Grand Rapids, Michigan. 🥂
Love the struggle. Empathy for us who fail regularly. We all try to find a level of satisfaction and success that you have achieved. We feel your kindness.
I love hearing stories like this from people like you, Paul, who manage to inspire so many musicians to keep chipping away at their craft. I’ve spent the past 10 months learning guitar and there have been countless occasions that I wanted to quit or felt it was going to get me nowhere in life but the passion persists and I find it the most rewarding challenge to figure out what to do with that passion
@@hariearyatama436 Unfortunately that's most likely not the case for anyone. I've been around a lot of really talented musicians, and everybody has had those moments where one day they dropped their instrument, and didn't pick it up again for at least (more then) a month. Unfortunate events, health problems, depressions, lack of motivation or maybe even just broken strings.. they can all cause someone to stop playing their instrument for a while. The passion usually persists and we get back to it, but don't get discouraged when it happens. It has probably happened to the best
ok... where do i begin well back when i was 16 years old i got bit by the music i love AC/DC i love classic rock Music and all i wanted to be the next Angus Young so bad. i wanted the Power that Freddie Mercury had with the People. fast forward to age 18 is when i got to jam with a band witch we played Pink Floyd to Grateful Dead to CCR to Reggae we got to do a show at the school and i felt i was on my way kinda lol i still was learning so much and now lead guitar soloing was now coming to play. so now i was out of school and was trying to think to do now that i am out of school and now i can do what i wanted to do well being in VERMONT and not having a car or a job after school wasn't good so i got a job for about 3 months then that was it for that job. after that i didn't work for about 6 months then got a job at a playhouse inn in Weston VT i work there all summer long got my Les Paul Guitar and i was Very Happy i got a Les Paul. i was still jamming with the band from High School for about 2 years then the band broke up and i had to look for a new band. don don don!!!!! lol so now i am at the age of 22 now and i was working at the inn and i couldn't get out to go to open mics or try to get new bands together and i was working so much that i couldn't get anything done until one April 3rd of 2010 i went to a show that i told my job that i had someone to come in and do my job witch was dish washer job and i gave them 2 MONTHS notice and i got the OK from my chef and my boss then the week of the show i get told NO and i went to the show and it was worth it!! i go in on a Easter Sunday and for fired!!! and i was so!!!!!!! happy to get gone from that @#$%hole. so!! now i look for a new band join a cover that was ok meet some new musicians but kinda wish i didn't because i got F by them later on in a band ill talk about that in a sec. the cover band was ok the Drummer was WAYYYYYYY too full of him self and noting was gonna go anywhere in that band so i was glad i left that band. so now the other band!! OK so here it is so 3 members of the cover band started a side project when we were in the cover band then we started to do it more and more then we kept on having on and off drummers for about 6 months then i got in touch with a old friend and got him in the band we Started to get a good amount of originals and i was like so this is how its like writing your own stuff and not doing that much covers witch was fine about so many years of doing cover songs. So after finding the Drummer of there dreams and me and the singer were tight too i would pick him up in NH TO VT every week even in the SNOW. then one dark day my world came coming down!! i got fired from the band they gave me two options play Bass or GET OUT!!! so i lied and told them i would play bass then had a VERY Awkward Drive bring the Singer Back Home lol it was like he wasn't the person i knew that was on my side when i had his Back the whole time in that band so i waited a few days called up the bass player then told him i need my gear for a DJ gig took my P.A SYSTEM AND MY AMPS and mic stands and left the place and never look back told the band a week later that i quit because i wanted to be the guitar player not the bass player so FUCK THEM!! FAST FORWARD NOW 3 YEARS LATER went to a open mic night and now with a drummer i was in a band with after when i quit that band. so we went to a open mic then we ROCK the place then we got offered to be the headliner at open mic the next week and i got in touch with a keyboard player and use three Rock THE PLACE that we got a gig then we decided to do more then we were a BAND that Rock VT NH NY MA and we did that for about 5 years by 2019 the band broke up because the keyboard player doesn't know what friend ship is and after when you did everything for the band with GIGS Festivals for about 5 years of your life wasted for nothing right when a ALBUM AND A TOUR WAS IN MOTION. so now i am a solo guitar player and trying to do everything by myself i am sick of relying on people now i do have a band now but i am not being all gun hoe about everything and so i don't know i just feel like i failed my 16 year old self with where i am with my life and music i lost my mom when i was in that band and all i had was that band and when that went and two months later i got a DUI and i just lost my mind and i feel like i will never get that bite that i had back when i was 16 i am now 33 and when i lost my mom had to start taking care of my moms house and its been a fuck up life since i was 13 and i don't know why people have to go threw so much shit in life. I'm sorry if this now went very dark and all I'm sorry to anyone but i needed to let this out. im just sharing my what i have been threw with music and i have had some GREAT moments but i still don't have a ALBUM i don't have Fans who go when you going to tour whens the new album i don't know if ill ever have that moment in the sun with 50,000 people screaming your name and just being able to make a living with music and just being happy. now i do some gigs that places will book me or i do busking witch i do more is the busking. nothing wrong with it but i rather have a big paying gig but i guess some musicians don't always get what they want and deal with what cards you are dealt with but will see what will happen now from here thanks for reading and please don't leave any hate full comments or reply's please i hope that Paul keeps up with these videos i like to watch them and see what is going on. thanks for what you do maybe you can use this in a video if you like any ways have a good one
I love guitar and i love bass guitar but i never expect to earn money because of it. I studied art and have a few ideas for books and graphic novels but work in retail, this keeps me ground down and not achieving. This video has made me want to pick myself up, dust myself down and do something with my life that i can enjoy. Thanks man
Don't quit any job you may currently have atm, tho. The harsh truth is that there's not much money to be made. The global economy is headed for another crash, and jobs are precious. Everyone is replaceable.
Kids nowadays don't respect their parents. Now imagine the level of respect they have for their teachers. The limits must be clear always. That's the only way to make them understand their position right now.
@@TheBrassGeologist it was a chef position I was wanting to quit for ages. It's working perfectly. Apart from the fact that I'm residing in New Zealand and that job was keeping me here. Thank you for your kind words.
@@meadish I hope theres a reason for it all bud. Keep your head up, the project obviously wasnt where you should be. Keep jamming keep smiling my brother you'll get there.
Dear Paul, I am a painter and I am still struggling with my art in a very similar way you described your past experience. But no matter what comes out of it, every person involved in any artistic activity needs to hear and see videos like this. Don’t quit what you love because life threw you of your track once!
Very cool story Paul, especially for younger viewers,. Think about your future, don't obsess just keep it in mind. (before you get caught in the "did this to pay the bills, now I got bigger bills to pay, now I'm stuck having to do this to support my family roundabout). Follow your dreams, and be true to them. Set yourself achievable goals (one step at a time, not I'm going to be the greatest tomorrow) and when you get through that first step, enjoy it for a little while before setting the next one (don't enjoy for too long though) Don't know how comfortable you are with the title, but, you are a great role model for our kids. Cool and successful RUclipsr (along with being a great teacher, not just guitar ;) ) Really enjoy your videos and outlook. All the best, keep it up. Cheers.
It was so inspirational. Thanks for sharing. It’s really gratifying to see where you are today. I want to be able to tell my story just like you one day. Thanks for sharing.
Congratulations on the milestone Paul! I for one, am appreciative that you hung in there. Your videos are not only instructive but entertaining. Please keep 'em coming!
If you have not already, you should read 'Chet Atkins: Me and My Guitars'. One of my favorite books. Within it, he discusses his successes and failures from his early days as a working musician. And then there's the bonus of his discussion of his guitars over his career with many good photos of them to excite the eyes as well. 😎
You are very humble guy, Paul. I enjoy watching your videos. Also i learned a lot from you. I started guitar about 1 year ago, and in changed my life since. But im at that situation, where you was. I guess i need to follow my intuition. Keep up the good work and the content you bring for us. I appreciate what you doing. Thank You!!!
Paul, you are a fantastic guitar teacher. Your calm, easy to understand method is what makes you so popular. You understand what people need and spend your time showing people want to do rather than others who spend more time showing off. We are blessed to have you helping us to improve. Do not stop, you are a great human being. Steve
Thumbs up for your passion man. I was in Netherlands last month (im from Slovakia) and I really wanted to go to Rotterdam but I was too afraid to write you. I was just choosing a new guitar and I had so many questions to ask you and I still do hah. Well maybe next time. Hope you are happy now and everything goes according to your plan. And also, congratz to such a milestone 1,3m subs. Keep on going man.
@@fritsvanzanten3573 I wanted Dangelico Excel Fulton but in the end I picked up Takamine GJ72CE-12-NAT (yeah weird name). A guy in a guitar store told me it's better that Dangelico even if it's cheaper and well ... It sounds Great. First 12 string. I'm playing for 3 years but for 2 years I was just strumming basic open chords without any progress and then I started to learn fingerstyle and a bit of theory so 12 strings are way better for fingerstyle even tho it's harder. I'm still having hard time learning theory tho.
@@wessamlauf Thx. In a way I thought you came to Rotterdam to buy the guitar. Acoustic, and even 12 string was not what I expected. Sophisticated choice, not the obvious. I didn't know D'Angelico made acoustic guitars. Happy playing!
Congratulations, well done! 1.3m is a serious achievement for original content. All the hard work really shows through your fantastic videos. It's great to see somebody persevere and succeed with their gut instinct!
You wanted a job but you ended up being stuck with Bebe's kids, with no lesson plan and no gear. This was one of those jobs where they pulled a bait and switch and then tried to blame you for them not setting expectations with their students before they brought in the teacher. It works the same way with adults. Any school that knew what they were doing would have provided an aid.
Thank you Paul. The same thing happened to me 2018-2019 school year; I was hired by one of the local “educational foundations” to teach extracurricular band class for one of the school districts. SIXTY+(60+) 4th-6th grade students. To prepare I boned up on brass instruments that I hadn’t played in many years plus woodwinds that I had had no prior experience with. No curriculum was provided, just some band books and most of the kids had never played an instrument before. I was left on my own to make the curriculum and figure out how to organize the band practices and get the kids playing. All this while I was attending college full time working on my music degree and running an election campaign while also doing a couple of part time jobs including some private lessons. A couple of old codgers from the foundation came in to “help out”, but they were completely disorganized and their expertise seemed to consist mainly about yelling at the kids. My initial goal was to start the beginners out learning first notes on their instruments, progressing to simple melodies and note-reading. Most of the kids couldn’t afford private teachers and they were borrowing their instruments from the foundation. So I went from section to section getting everybody started and asking the more experienced players to assist in helping the beginners learn how to play. I knew the kids weren’t likely to get much practice at home unless I could get them inspired to play and build their confidence up. By the third week I had taught the beginners and everyone to play ‘Happy Birthday’ by ear and a few simple melodies, which I also had them perform in front of the class in groups and solos with applause from the class after each performance. Okay so far so good, everything’s going great. Here’s where it starts to go downhill: the old farts started complaining that I was “losing control of the class”. They apparently expected me to stand in front and old school lecture music theory/scream at the kids for the entire period in order to “keep control”. They didn’t seem to understand how much help the beginners needed to get up to speed. Next problem: the principal of the school started coming to the practices because she was upset at the noise level of the kids learning to play their instruments. A cacophony to be sure, but it didn’t bother me as I knew what it would take for these kids to learn to play. Seemingly chaotic, but chaos with a purpose and I never lost control. The kids respected me, when I needed their attention for announcements or lectures they quieted down and paid attention. They even minded each other and helped me to manage the class. I knew how to talk to them and keep them engaged. I kept my lectures to a minimum as my main goal was to get them playing. However, management didn’t seem to like the kids enjoying themselves, talking to each other and playing their instruments in afterschool band class. Third problem: the principal’s kid was in the class, and he had some emotional problems; he was throwing fits/temper tantrums because he didn’t know what to do with himself, said he was bored after I put him on the instrument of his choice (bass drum). I also offered to get him on other percussion instruments. He needed extra attention which I tried to provide but I could only do so much with 60 other kids to manage. Funny thing is, I was starting to have a rapport with this kid when I got fired. He was starting to fit in and be helpful with the equipment after I showed him how to set up/break down. End of the story is, the principal came to class one day and started yelling at me because she saw her son sitting bored at his bass drum; she pointed to this as evidence that I had “lost control” of the class and because the kids were playing on their instruments. I told her if she wanted to stand in front of the class and scream at the kids all day she could be my guest, because I wasn’t going to do that. I was fired the next day. Some of the parents had started coming to me with complaints about the principal failing to provide a safe afterschool area for their kids; I offered some suggestions and perhaps that didn’t help my case either lol. The corrupt/clueless haters can go F___ themselves; I love guitar, I love music and I’m never giving up.
Wow that sucks, it seems you're better off being out of that school, sounds like the principal was crazy and/or a terrible manager. You'll find something better, don't give up!
Always be thankful for the struggles you go through. It helps us to be more thankful and appreciative of the things we have achieved when we look back on our past.
That's life! Always follow your guts. I jumped off a university lecturer/researcher career to become a simple trucker. I'm enjoying much more. Like you, I didn't belong to a classroom. Everyday it was a struggle. Now I'm fine. Antonio, Brazil.
@@mattgilbert7347 : I have many students who previously tried to learn through youtube-lessons but failed. As a beginner you are not able to distinguish between good and bad lessons - the sheer amount is overwhelming. Nothing can replace a good teacher.
@@DizzyKrissi And how many guitarists, realistically speaking, have the knowledge, ability, time, and resources to take on a second job as a teacher (that's assuming they are in my situation ie: working stiff who only has time to play on the weekends)? These are genuine questions. Not trying to be a negative Nelly, just trying to be realistic. I have *one* friend who gives me a few $ bills when he can and I teach him what I can. If I were to put myself out there as a "Guitar Teacher" it would feel like false advertising. Self-taught hack. I sincerely doubt that most guitarists could do it. You'd end up with oversupply, for starters, and that would lead to a race to the bottom vis a vis pricing (fees). Does that make sense? I'm trying to view this through the lens of economics in a post-Fordist world.
Mate, I feel your pain for teaching, I teach karate to children as young as 4 upwards, in classes of 10 - 18 at a time. Teaching them to punch and kick without hurting each other and maintaining their concentration is a skill. Being a father of 4 helped me greatly. Love your vids, you have helped me loads.
Man, I just got into your videos! I am a musician as well, and I have to say, chilling back with my guitar, practicing technique and watching your videos, is a good damn time. 10/10. I love your style on the guitar as well as your video-making. I'm looking forward to watching more of you. ✌ Peace
Friend the guitar is the only thing I want to take with me everywhere I go in life. I feel your pain in this video and I'm super glad things worked out for you. The main thing is, guitar as a hobby is who I am I have no intentions of making money with it. Ultimately it's just this thing I can only get better at and that is all I need. God bless you I hope you keep doing what do you deserve it
In a teacher-pupil relationship, when the teacher seeks the student, it may go well, but it's a crapshoot. When the student seeks the teacher, it will always go well.
I recently started teaching English language in my new home in Spain and it was almost accidental. I'd taken my certificate just as a way to fill time but people started coming to me asking for private lessons, friends of friends and their children mostly. Fast forward one year and if I wanted to I could fill every weekday with students. I never really sought it out but now I have lots of eager students and I'm feeling more fulfilled than at any other time in my life. I just wanted to share that as your words are very much the same as my experience.
@@Silverfirefly1 It sounds like you are a very good teacher, and now you have a bunch of self motivated students, the best scenario a teacher could have...
I'm happy that you stuck with playing guitar. You are one of the best teachers on RUclips. Your knowledge and personable way of presenting information makes you great! Thanks for all you have done for the guitar playing community.
Such a great human being! I initially thought your talking style was put on, almost commicaly emotionless but structured and informative. Its all to aid the nature of RUclips videos . Quick and packed full of information. You rock Paul Davids.
I am very impressed that you appreciate your success and share it with us. You deserve it because you earned your success through hard work. Keep up the good work. I learn a lot about guitar from you. Thanks for everything and hope you have more success in your music and life.
Hi Paul! Lately i've been having a hard time with music. I love playing the piano and the guitar, but these days, i'm not enjoying playing músic that much. I'm not motivated. What should i do? Pd: hugs from argentina!! Love your vids
While I'm not Paul, I will give my opinion. What works for me is to just take a break. Take a couple days off, listen to some music (new, or already well-loved), and wait for the inspiration to kick in again. I was in a major lull lately, and then I decided to take some time off and just get away from the frustration. Then I was listening to Tool's 10,000 Days album, and I got this major inspiration to learn Vicarious note for note. And away I went. I've been obsessively working on learning to play it perfectly, getting the right tones, etc, and as an added bonus, am learning to love and write in Drop D far more than I ever have before. So... that's my 2 cents. It works for me more often than not. Good luck!
I'm not Paul either but... Here are the things that rekindle my love of playing: 1. Jam session. Play with other people who share similar interests. If you have the space, set up a jam session at your home and invite anyone who plays or enjoys listening to music (It's nice to have an audience, too). 2. Get away. Take your headphones and go for a hike, ride a train, or just go somewhere you don't usually listen to music. Let the music be a soundtrack for adventure. 3. Perform. Play at an open mic night. Play on a bench at the park. Stand on a street corner. You don't have to play songs everyone knows; it's ok to experiment and just explore the instrument in a new environment. You are not there to entertain anyone but yourself. 4. Meditate (clear your mind). Contemplate (explore the noise that was persistent during meditation). Journal (evaluate in written form - pen and paper - what came from your contemplation) Optional: Pray for guidance. I like the Serenity Prayer. 5. Finally, after everything else, write a simple song. Even if it is only 2 chords and 10 words it's good enough. Repeat steps until the joy returns as it inevitably will. I have never had this process not work, and I know it will work for you too.
Your success on YT has alot to do with your skill at expressing yourself in addition to your guitar knowledge. And you have a very listenable speaking voice as well. Your channel is one of the most interesting guitar based channels on YT. Congratulations on your success.
Dutch kids....not an easy task to manage them in such a setting. Been there done that and survived. Paul...glad you found another way to teach. And what a fine teacher you are.
I've been teaching guitar privately for a long time. It's a great gig, but with young kids it's rough coming home as late as I do, as often as I do. Like you, I've taught some of those kids classes and even sung for little ones at children's play spaces before. Always taking the open door and trying to keep my career moving forward. It's a blessing just to be making a living playing and teaching guitar but I'm trying to figure out how to take the next step forward, and honestly you have been an inspiration. I'm doing my best to take a page out of your book and make the Patreon/RUclips thing work for me. I love your videos and your playing, keep up the amazing work! Congratulations on your success.
Good insights. Even with “failures” we learn. Btw. Teaching a group to play is hard. I tried it for a while. 🙁. You do a great job explaining teaching the aspects of guitar.
Firstly mate, Thanks for your awesome videos. I have been teaching for 25 years and still learn so much from your vids. I do enjoy teaching, but it has often been at the detriment to my own music in some ways. Whilst I have developed as a player due to teaching, I haven't left much time in the week for creating. I just recently started recording my own stuff and released an EP a few months back. One of the tracks even picked up a nomination in a fairly prestigious song competition in my home state. I'm currently going through a bit of reflection on what is working in my life, what works for me and what is just a waste of energy. I gotta say your video today has helped confirm some of my plans. Thank you!
I found this video at the perfect time. I'm a guitarist playing in a band that I created a few years back. I work so hard to try and build up my band in Nashville and I just got done playing a show tonight. Where I hauled all my gear and my drummers gear in and out of the venue, I lost money by playing this show, and my string broke on stage. I feel like I am spinning my tires so hard and there is no point in continuing. After this horrible night, I sit down and go on youtube to try and clear my mind and this video popped up. You might have just saved me from quitting guitar. Hearing your struggles and how you overcame this hurtle breathes new life into me. Thank you so much. Your channel is amazing.
So glad you made it to what you are doing now. Just want to tell you I’ve been playing for about 30 year with bands with out bands just noodling. I found your channel and have learned so much. Arpeggios ,scales etc..... It has pulled all my technic together and just has made me more interested and has brought back my love for it . Thank you so much peace always ✌️
Failure is part of the process to have success, I’m glad you make this channel , the videos are well made and the content is always top quality ! Well deserved 1.3 million followers !
I'm a Dutchman living in Seattle (#seattlerocks) and your channel is the funniest, most informative, and most well-produced out there. Very inspirational video. Thanks for everything you do for us.
I for one am greatly appreciative that you overcame the adversity in your life. Now we as an community has the opportunity to learn from not only A Master of the Guitar, but also from a very passionate teacher and in general a very plesant person! Thank you!
1.3m subscribers because you are clearly very talented and have a lot of knowledge to share. You speak clearly and calmly, your videos make me for one really happy to just watch. Even when the content may be above my skill level and understanding, I still love watching them because you make me feel very welcome. Obviously, RUclips/Patreon is about making money but what shines through the most is your passion for music and teaching. Thank you Paul.
It's never nice to struggle, but we learn from that and it's nice to see that you worked hard and earned where you are at. I would love to be able to sit comfortably, currently unemployed and struggling to look for work. That's my struggle, but I am perusing RUclips and I'm not giving up, thank you Paul very inspirational.
An overwhelming amount of your success can be attributed to your personality. Your skill as a musician is immediately evident and its impressive. But I think the real reason I subscribed is because you're very easy to like (or you're a remarkable actor). I really enjoy listening to you. You're very genuine, considerate, humble and have a sense of humor. Thanks for sharing this story.
It's not just the music and lessons....it's you, Paul, sharing your life experiences and musical journey...thats why i tune in...and i'm sure the other 1million (dr. evil voice) as well....rock on my brother!!!!
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I started guitar on a whim, after watching School of Rock with my ex about 6 years ago. She told me I will never be any good as you need to 'have it in you'. The guitar is still here, she's not.............and I just got my first gig!
Good luck on your first gig guys!
You’re about to set off on one of the best journeys of your life🤘🏻
Tenacious D has no talent, and it isn't stopping them! Lol!
Guys women don’t want you to learn guitar as it drops knickers quicker than cocaine
I should also add that I'm 31 years old, it's never too late to learn :) cheers guys
I learned to play Guitar because of a break up I was experiencing and my so called friends weren’t there for me
Just me and a guitar in a small room .
Subsequently a friend was giving about about nobody being their for him when he broke up with his girl
I laughed a pointed out that neither hi nor nobody else was there for me and that that how I learned guitar.
I was 33 at the time I play in pubs and coffee shops now as a bit of cash on the side
I always loved music and life has funny twists and turns this twist was a gift
That I’m forever thankful
Congrats on 1.3 mil dude! You're an inspiration 🎸
You’re male
Thanks Andy!
Hey Andy!!!!! You're an inspiration as well, i learnt a lot from you
@Paul Davids I am impressed with the quality of your videos, in every way. You don't only teach music, but teach also captivating communication besides video production and edititing lessons. Your videos always bring us life lessons too. I bet that many of your more than 2 million subscribers (almost doubled the amount in just one year) are not here just for the music lessons videos, but also for all the rich multidisciplinary content present in each one of them. Congratulations for the excellence you apply in every detail. Hugs from Brazil🇧🇷 .
Most genuine guy on RUclips, absolutely class.
And good at his trade.
Dang, I sure found this story extremely inspiring! I am so grateful you didn't give up, Otherwise we wouldn't have had such a talented, friendly, and informative guitar content creator! Congrats on 1.3m!
Not to mention exceedingly attractive.
@@larikipe940 that is definitely on point my man
Get fired from teaching a small class -> Teach 1.3 million -> that's a win in my book
@@sadhappy8860 I perfectly agree
Imagine one of your student is watching this right now. Realizing that he/she messed up with the wrong teacher
He may have done something right tho
They probably couldn't care less
I was 21 years old making $50,000 + a year at a high end company selling insurance. I wasn't fulfilled. Better yet, I wasn't even happy. I've been playing music since i was 5 years old and have a gift for it. Every single day I play piano and guitar. I used to bring my guitar in my car and practice in the car during my lunch breaks. One day, I was playing guitar on my lunch break and I broke down crying. That's not where I wanted to be and I knew it. I didn't care about the money anymore. Sure I was more financially successful than most people my age but that meant absolutely nothing if i couldn't be happy.
I walked into my job and quit right on the spot. My family freaked out. So did some of my friends. But something told me I was a musician. I reached out to my old guitar teacher that day and asked him if he could please take me under his wing again and thank god he did. Fast forward about 7 months... Now, I work full time as a musician teaching privately, started my RUclips channel (which i'm currently working on) and doing studio recording session with one of the best studios on Long Island (which is where i'm from) as a professional musician at 22 years old making around the same amount if not more than what I was making at the insurance company. Got invited to winter NAMM as an artist for a guitar company, and actually met paul. Super nice guy. I got to meet some of my heroes at NAMM. All of this because I went with my gut and I couldn't be more happier with the way my life is turning out. I thank god everyday.
Do what you want to do its your life don't let people tell you how to live it. Trust your gut.
This is one of my first comments I ever made on a RUclips video but i felt like it was needed.
Thanks John. I've been in the hospitality industry for the last two years and it has been depression the likes of which I have never experienced before... The only time I am calm and happy is when I sit down and grab my acoustic guitar and just noodle something... My parents really don't want me to do music but I know it's where I'm meant to be. So thank you for sharing your experience and I am subbing on your channel. All the best.
Thanks John inspiring story. I would cry too if I was working a sales job
Bullshit. Link me your music.
That’s great, John. Best of luck!
thanks for sharing man
I had a very similar thing happen early in my career. When I first got out of university as an artist I struggled to find gainful employment. I only found occasional work and couldn't make a living. This went on for months until I finally decided to apply for a seriously shit desk job. Long story short- I didn't get the job- thank God. Eventually things panned out in my chosen filed. I've spent the last 25+ years creating animated shows for tv and film. As they say- do something you love and you'll never work a day in your life. Good luck to those still in the struggle.
Thanks Paul ...for everything you are
Thinking of you in a group of chaotic children trying to calmly speak is hysterical!! 😄😂🤣😂😄
The Feel Button 😂😂
I teach children at a local elementary school on a weekly basis. It can be tough, and frustrating at times. I asked for permission to have my class time video recorded using 3 cameras in the room for a number of reasons.
- When the children know that they are being video recorded, their behaviour and responsibility improves a great deal.
- If any objections from any of the children, or myself is brought forward, the video recordings from 3 perspectives will either reinforce a legitimate grievance, or negate a meaningless one.
- When I stumble upon a particularly good response in teaching, I can review the reasons why this positive reaction happened, and use this to help formulate better lessons.
- The students may requisition portions of the class time to review for their own curiosity, and reinforce their development.
- Also, segments of the video recordings can be provided for the families of the students as well. To appreciate some of the children's performances.
This strategy was a bit difficult to get the school onboard with, but has led to great improvements for everyone in the classroom.
@@MultiAxisDiscipline wow! Sounds like those kids have a great teacher!! 🙏☺
My band and I made our first ever song if you would like to hear it :)
💕 My mom was an academic school teacher, with pretty much the same type of kids & the same area. She said her first day a kid took her car keys outside & threw them across a field. It was a tough time for her but she hung in there.
Thanks for your story ! Very inspirational !! 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼😊
I started out with the disposition that doing music as a career was a dichotomy; you were either a rock star or a failure. I played in bands and tried to promote myself, but I had no idea what I was doing. I gave up, and just focused on doing music on the side here and there, but mostly I was just working the day job for many years. I moved up in the company and moved in to management, but I wasn't fulfilled in the least.
Recently, and especially after watching channels like yours and Adam's, I decided to start pursuing the only thing that made me happy; music. I contacted a friend that owned a studio and started teaching lessons. I stepped down at my day job as more lessons started coming in. Currently I am part time at my day job; I teach two days a week, help produce artists in the evening, and play in a good paying country band every other weekend. I'm hoping within 3 years to be able to completely shift over to music as career. We'll see, it's pretty late in my life at this point, but I never imagined I could even get to where I'm at before because I didn't allow myself the opportunity to fail.
I think you have to be willing to fail to actually succeed. I think that's ultimately the lesson to be learned from your story and your life (Paul David's); and I thank you for sharing it. Without this RUclips musician community, I may never have taken these steps in my life, so thank you :)
Trevor Johnson 🤘🏽 right on!!
oh boy that first sentence is why i kinda gave up music 3 years ago.. i made the choice to study psychology, now after the first year i've hit depression. i am not enjoying my life and I feel like it's too late to catch up somehow. I am only twenty years old, but in these 3 years my musical friends went into music school and they are now so much futher than i am. and suddenly i feel jealous and mad at myself for never taking music serious enough.
i think i'm now starting to see that music might be the best choice for me, even when there are other people who will outplay me, even when i feel like i could never make a living. You are right. At this point i need to know, and i'd rather fail than never try.
@@ctogive it's never too late.
@@ericscaillet2232 thank you :)
@@ctogive It really isn't too late. I stopped playing guitar for a number of years during my mid 20s because I felt much the same way. Nothing worked out and playing open mics became dull. I felt like a fraud, an impostor. Now, I'm approaching my 30th birthday and in the last year I've picked guitar back up and I'm happy again. I don't know where I'm going but I know now that I just can't quit it, so I'm putting more into my music then I ever have before and I notice that, the more work I put into it, the happier I feel in my day to day. Don't ever quit.
Man, I am a teacher for 19 years now... Wow, times goes fast... I always entered in the first class as a military... I don´t give them a chance. I scream if necessary and I do not make a happy face at all. Then, with time passing by, I get softer and I do not need to be rude as they know how it works. Hey, it is working for 19 years now! Cheers from Portugal!
I should've done this... :o
Firm but fair is a great start.
Got to set the boundaries.
Earn the respect but don't get run over trying to be everyone's friend, especially with kids.
They'll always try and push the limits and there's good and bad ways to deal with that.
A loud "Hey" to get their attention and then speaking quietly about consequences (which must be followed through) is very effective.
I'm not a teacher (and don't want to sound like I know it all) but come from a long line of music educators and watched this in practice. My mother was my music teacher at high school for 3 of my 5 years as a music scholarship student and learned this the hard way as an obnoxious student ;)
cheers
@@PaulDavids You should have asked me mate! LOL! Cheers!
Dás aulas na zona de cascais?
@@pedroloboantunes4017 Boas. No Porto!
You're an inspiration mate, thank you
I don't think you CAN truly quit the guitar, if there is music inside you it has to come out some way and the instrument will keep calling to you until you pick it up again.
very well said
Agree, that’s the relationship I have with my guitar. I reach a plateau and stop playing. But like you said, the guitar will start calling me
I'll not pick up a guitar in weeks and then I'll hear a song and then just want to learn it
Yes. you can. I did. For 20yrs. Sure, I picked it up again but I could just as easily quit again. Life happens, you get older, and things change.
It's best not to romanticize these things.
Ofc I could be wrong. Hope I am wrong.
@@mattgilbert7347 I quit for years and I'm about to buy another guitar.. if there is a will there is a way
There's a saying I've come to truly appreciate: "There is no growth in the comfort zone."
If you're comfortable, you're complacent. If you're complacent, you won't likely seek to improve your lot in life. You will stagnate, and you will [metaphorically] die. More careers in art have been killed by complacency, before they ever took off, than any other reason.
I call bs, you can be perfectly comfortable and happy while enjoying the process of learning. If there's no enjoyment in the process then why the hell would you keep playing, might as well pay 300$ to a dominatrix to step on your balls
In my opinion, your entire channel reflects your continuous development of your great personality and I've learned a lot, not only musically! Thankfully you decided to go this way which gives me the opportunity to work on module 4 since a week. Can't wait to get to module 5 :) You're an awesome teacher getting an old man understanding basic music theory and having fun to explore it on a guitar! Thank you very much!
Glad you're enjoying the course Reb! Always great to hear :)
I would have killed to have a music teacher like you back in high school, these kids had no idea what a quality teacher they had ;)
Yes, thats why children cant consent to most major decisions.
Children are mostly cretins.
Much respect. Making something happen for yourself takes a lot - something that not everyone has in them
You inspire me a lot.. keep it up and continue share your knowledge...God bless
First, congrats on the 1.3. That's a good sign you connect with people. I felt very identified with your story. I've been playing for almost 30 years and discovered too late that life is simple. Hard, but simple. I've spent some years teaching, some years playing on a band, but never had the guts to follow professionally what made me happy: playing, creating and sharing the love for music. My family wanted me to make money, so I studied engineering, went to law school. When I had a chance to become a music teacher and study on a university, my mother got cancer and my ex-wife forced me to forget about music or the marriage was over. I've followed other people's thoughts about what a well adjusted adult life is and never followed myself. A couple of years ago I got divorced, quitted the job as a programmer on a abusive little business. I just couldn't stand to look at myself on the mirror. That shadow of a man that's looking back at me with a guilty stare is me?. Today I still work a software engineer , but for myself. Got a newborn baby and an amazing new family. My wife is a kindergarten teacher and sings beautifully. Her oldest son I had the privilege of teaching him music and now he plays jazz piano mainly. I still don't find a way to dedicate myself to music since getting money to afford a life and a family is no small matter, but this time I'm loved because of who I am, and not an idea of what I'm supposed to be. At 42 years old i wish i knew this sooner, but as arthritis progresses and probably there will be a day I won't be able to play anymore, at least I turned to the right direction. Hopefully I'll find a way on youtube and other ways to make music, no matter how old I am, but is good to know that many of us are not alone on this, and we all struggle to fight for what make a life worth living... be able to be happy with what you choose to do, and mostly, with what you really are.
I’m glad you’re here in the tube! You do a great job. I almost quit when I was 17, 20, 34, 40, 45, 50, 54 and now I finally have it somewhat together at 57. I play piano, acoustic and electric guitars and bass, banjo and mandolin. I can also almost carry a tune on the drums although I’m not that motivated to play them. Keep working at it is all I can say.
Just make sure that when you play the drums, you're in the right key...
How crazy that you went through all that. I keep collecting gear and trying to up my guitar playing but I always get worn down from working a day job and feel like music will never be anything more than a pastime. Definitely makes me bummed out, but I’m glad that there are people like you who play, teach, and inspire others to keep going. Keep it up!
_I’ve been following you since you had 100k+ subs. Congrats!!_ I have had my channel for a year and I have almost 30k subs. It is tiring and rewarding at the same time. So hearing your story is very timely. At times it can get discouraging. But, this inspires perseverance.
Puting Pinoy Wow, that’s nice, you grow really fast in fact (: I hope I can do the same this year!
Congrats for 1.3 million subs man, keep going
Hi Paul, I am envious you found what you like to do. But, I have to tell you ( in case you were not told this already ), you are very good at doing this.
The quality of your videos (editing) and the materials you are presenting are top notch! They are well thought out and your personality comes through each video I have seen. In other words, I can see and sense your passion for the guitar.
I am a Banjo picker who picked up the guitar so I could better understanding what the guitar dude was doing. By pursuing the guitar, for means other than learning how to play it, I have learned to love this instrument too.
I'll be watching you and even supporting you as well.
Cheers from Grand Rapids, Michigan. 🥂
Awesome story. You rock man! Thanks for all your efforts it has been very educational and inspiring!
It's not just your passion, Paul- you have worked so damn hard to make your videos better and better, all the time. Thanks, and congrats!
That was very inspiring! It is the lowest points in our lives that pushes us to find our true purpose in life. More power sir Paul Davis. You rock!🤘🏻
Love the struggle. Empathy for us who fail regularly. We all try to find a level of satisfaction and success that you have achieved. We feel your kindness.
I love hearing stories like this from people like you, Paul, who manage to inspire so many musicians to keep chipping away at their craft. I’ve spent the past 10 months learning guitar and there have been countless occasions that I wanted to quit or felt it was going to get me nowhere in life but the passion persists and I find it the most rewarding challenge to figure out what to do with that passion
i feel like of you really have a passion on guitar you wouldnt even think about quiting at all
Harie Aryatama you would think that, wouldn’t you? I think Paul’s entire video kind of refutes that statement though
@@hariearyatama436 Unfortunately that's most likely not the case for anyone.
I've been around a lot of really talented musicians, and everybody has had those moments where one day they dropped their instrument, and didn't pick it up again for at least (more then) a month.
Unfortunate events, health problems, depressions, lack of motivation or maybe even just broken strings.. they can all cause someone to stop playing their instrument for a while.
The passion usually persists and we get back to it, but don't get discouraged when it happens. It has probably happened to the best
ok... where do i begin
well back when i was 16 years old i got bit by the music i love AC/DC i love classic rock Music and all i wanted to be the next Angus Young so bad. i wanted the Power that Freddie Mercury had with the People.
fast forward to age 18 is when i got to jam with a band witch we played Pink Floyd to Grateful Dead to CCR to Reggae
we got to do a show at the school and i felt i was on my way kinda lol i still was learning so much and now lead guitar soloing was now coming to play. so now i was out of school and was trying to think to do now that i am out of school and now i can do what i wanted to do well being in VERMONT and not having a car or a job after school wasn't good so i got a job for about 3 months then that was it for that job. after that i didn't work for about 6 months then got a job at a playhouse inn in Weston VT i work there all summer long got my Les Paul Guitar and i was Very Happy i got a Les Paul. i was still jamming with the band from High School for about 2 years then the band broke up and i had to look for a new band. don don don!!!!! lol so now i am at the age of 22 now and i was working at the inn and i couldn't get out to go to open mics or try to get new bands together and i was working so much that i couldn't get anything done until one April 3rd of 2010
i went to a show that i told my job that i had someone to come in and do my job witch was dish washer job and i gave them 2 MONTHS notice and i got the OK from my chef and my boss then the week of the show i get told NO and i went to the show and it was worth it!! i go in on a Easter Sunday and for fired!!! and i was so!!!!!!! happy to get gone from that @#$%hole. so!! now i look for a new band join a cover that was ok meet some new musicians but kinda wish i didn't because i got F by them later on in a band ill talk about that in a sec. the cover band was ok the Drummer was WAYYYYYYY too full of him self and noting was gonna go anywhere in that band so i was glad i left that band.
so now the other band!!
OK so here it is
so 3 members of the cover band started a side project when we were in the cover band then we started to do it more and more then we kept on having on and off drummers for about 6 months then i got in touch with a old friend and got him in the band we Started to get a good amount of originals and i was like so this is how its like writing your own stuff and not doing that much covers witch was fine about so many years of doing cover songs. So after finding the Drummer of there dreams and me and the singer were tight too i would pick him up in NH TO VT every week even in the SNOW.
then one dark day my world came coming down!! i got fired from the band they gave me two options play Bass or GET OUT!!!
so i lied and told them i would play bass then had a VERY Awkward Drive bring the Singer Back Home lol it was like he wasn't the person i knew that was on my side when i had his Back the whole time in that band so i waited a few days called up the bass player then told him i need my gear for a DJ gig took my P.A SYSTEM AND MY AMPS and mic stands and left the place and never look back told the band a week later that i quit because i wanted to be the guitar player not the bass player so FUCK THEM!!
FAST FORWARD NOW 3 YEARS LATER
went to a open mic night and now with a drummer i was in a band with after when i quit that band.
so we went to a open mic then we ROCK the place then we got offered to be the headliner at open mic the next week and i got in touch with a keyboard player and use three Rock THE PLACE that we got a gig then we decided to do more then we were a BAND that Rock VT NH NY MA and we did that for about 5 years by 2019 the band broke up because the keyboard player doesn't know what friend ship is and after when you did everything for the band with GIGS Festivals for about 5 years of your life wasted for nothing right when a ALBUM AND A TOUR WAS IN MOTION.
so now i am a solo guitar player and trying to do everything by myself i am sick of relying on people now i do have a band now but i am not being all gun hoe about everything and so i don't know i just feel like i failed my 16 year old self with where i am with my life and music i lost my mom when i was in that band and all i had was that band and when that went and two months later i got a DUI and i just lost my mind and i feel like i will never get that bite that i had back when i was 16 i am now 33 and when i lost my mom had to start taking care of my moms house and its been a fuck up life since i was 13 and i don't know why people have to go threw so much shit in life. I'm sorry if this now went very dark and all I'm sorry to anyone but i needed to let this out. im just sharing my what i have been threw with music and i have had some GREAT moments but i still don't have a ALBUM i don't have Fans who go when you going to tour whens the new album i don't know if ill ever have that moment in the sun with 50,000 people screaming your name and just being able to make a living with music and just being happy.
now i do some gigs that places will book me or i do busking witch i do more is the busking. nothing wrong with it but i rather have a big paying gig but i guess some musicians don't always get what they want and deal with what cards you are dealt with but will see what will happen now from here thanks for reading and please don't leave any hate full comments or reply's please
i hope that Paul keeps up with these videos i like to watch them and see what is going on. thanks for what you do maybe you can use this in a video if you like any ways have a good one
I love guitar and i love bass guitar but i never expect to earn money because of it. I studied art and have a few ideas for books and graphic novels but work in retail, this keeps me ground down and not achieving. This video has made me want to pick myself up, dust myself down and do something with my life that i can enjoy. Thanks man
Good for you, man! Go get what you want!
Don't quit any job you may currently have atm, tho. The harsh truth is that there's not much money to be made. The global economy is headed for another crash, and jobs are precious. Everyone is replaceable.
@@mattgilbert7347 let me guess . You live in the us?
Your storytelling and editing skills are very capturing.
You keep making videos and we'll keep watching them my friend! Very happy for you, and wishing you further success in your career and life!
Kids nowadays don't respect their parents. Now imagine the level of respect they have for their teachers. The limits must be clear always. That's the only way to make them understand their position right now.
I actually got fired today. So this is brilliant
I hope this is the opportunity you need to get somewhere better. Best of luck to you.
It sucks getting fired and rejected (I just got rejected for a project I really wanted yesterday too). But hey, there is a freedom there as well.
@@TheBrassGeologist it was a chef position I was wanting to quit for ages. It's working perfectly. Apart from the fact that I'm residing in New Zealand and that job was keeping me here.
Thank you for your kind words.
@@meadish I hope theres a reason for it all bud. Keep your head up, the project obviously wasnt where you should be. Keep jamming keep smiling my brother you'll get there.
Are you all right bud? Are you still in NZ?
You're the best guitar channel I know, everything you teach is gold and your voice is calm and relaxing!
Thanks for the lesson too, I love the way you teach and congratulations 🎉🎉🎉
Dear Paul, I am a painter and I am still struggling with my art in a very similar way you described your past experience.
But no matter what comes out of it, every person involved in any artistic activity needs to hear and see videos like this. Don’t quit what you love because life threw you of your track once!
Very cool story Paul,
especially for younger viewers,.
Think about your future, don't obsess just keep it in mind.
(before you get caught in the "did this to pay the bills, now I got bigger bills to pay, now I'm stuck having to do this to support my family roundabout).
Follow your dreams, and be true to them.
Set yourself achievable goals (one step at a time, not I'm going to be the greatest tomorrow) and when you get through that first step, enjoy it for a little while before setting the next one (don't enjoy for too long though)
Don't know how comfortable you are with the title, but, you are a great role model for our kids. Cool and successful RUclipsr (along with being a great teacher, not just guitar ;) )
Really enjoy your videos and outlook.
All the best, keep it up.
Cheers.
It was so inspirational. Thanks for sharing. It’s really gratifying to see where you are today. I want to be able to tell my story just like you one day. Thanks for sharing.
Awesome story, keep it up!
Congratulations on the milestone Paul! I for one, am appreciative that you hung in there. Your videos are not only instructive but entertaining. Please keep 'em coming!
If you have not already, you should read 'Chet Atkins: Me and My Guitars'. One of my favorite books. Within it, he discusses his successes and failures from his early days as a working musician. And then there's the bonus of his discussion of his guitars over his career with many good photos of them to excite the eyes as well. 😎
Great to hear it worked out for you, very happy for you and great true story. Wow.
As I leave university and am about tackle and equally impenetrable industry, I'll remember this in the hard times
I hope things are going well.
My mind is a bit irreverent so forgive me, 'impenetrable industry' sounds like you design chastity belts!
paul, you are just so cool and sympathetic ! love your videos !
You are very humble guy, Paul. I enjoy watching your videos. Also i learned a lot from you. I started guitar about 1 year ago, and in changed my life since. But im at that situation, where you was. I guess i need to follow my intuition. Keep up the good work and the content you bring for us. I appreciate what you doing. Thank You!!!
Paul, you are a fantastic guitar teacher. Your calm, easy to understand method is what makes you so popular. You understand what people need and spend your time showing people want to do rather than others who spend more time showing off. We are blessed to have you helping us to improve. Do not stop, you are a great human being. Steve
always nice to hear stories from a successful AND HUMBLE person. Keep it up!!
Would love more videos like this! Love you Paul :)
Thumbs up for your passion man. I was in Netherlands last month (im from Slovakia) and I really wanted to go to Rotterdam but I was too afraid to write you. I was just choosing a new guitar and I had so many questions to ask you and I still do hah. Well maybe next time. Hope you are happy now and everything goes according to your plan. And also, congratz to such a milestone 1,3m subs. Keep on going man.
Did you pick a guitar in the end? If so, which one?
@@fritsvanzanten3573 I wanted Dangelico Excel Fulton but in the end I picked up Takamine GJ72CE-12-NAT (yeah weird name). A guy in a guitar store told me it's better that Dangelico even if it's cheaper and well ... It sounds Great. First 12 string. I'm playing for 3 years but for 2 years I was just strumming basic open chords without any progress and then I started to learn fingerstyle and a bit of theory so 12 strings are way better for fingerstyle even tho it's harder. I'm still having hard time learning theory tho.
@@wessamlauf Thx. In a way I thought you came to Rotterdam to buy the guitar. Acoustic, and even 12 string was not what I expected. Sophisticated choice, not the obvious. I didn't know D'Angelico made acoustic guitars. Happy playing!
Congratulations, well done! 1.3m is a serious achievement for original content. All the hard work really shows through your fantastic videos. It's great to see somebody persevere and succeed with their gut instinct!
You wanted a job but you ended up being stuck with Bebe's kids, with no lesson plan and no gear. This was one of those jobs where they pulled a bait and switch and then tried to blame you for them not setting expectations with their students before they brought in the teacher. It works the same way with adults. Any school that knew what they were doing would have provided an aid.
+100 for this comment. A bait and switch indeed. You got out before that circus imploded.
I had such a similar experience with teaching large groups of kids, so glad you persevered
Thank you Paul. The same thing happened to me 2018-2019 school year; I was hired by one of the local “educational foundations” to teach extracurricular band class for one of the school districts. SIXTY+(60+) 4th-6th grade students. To prepare I boned up on brass instruments that I hadn’t played in many years plus woodwinds that I had had no prior experience with. No curriculum was provided, just some band books and most of the kids had never played an instrument before. I was left on my own to make the curriculum and figure out how to organize the band practices and get the kids playing. All this while I was attending college full time working on my music degree and running an election campaign while also doing a couple of part time jobs including some private lessons. A couple of old codgers from the foundation came in to “help out”, but they were completely disorganized and their expertise seemed to consist mainly about yelling at the kids. My initial goal was to start the beginners out learning first notes on their instruments, progressing to simple melodies and note-reading. Most of the kids couldn’t afford private teachers and they were borrowing their instruments from the foundation. So I went from section to section getting everybody started and asking the more experienced players to assist in helping the beginners learn how to play. I knew the kids weren’t likely to get much practice at home unless I could get them inspired to play and build their confidence up. By the third week I had taught the beginners and everyone to play ‘Happy Birthday’ by ear and a few simple melodies, which I also had them perform in front of the class in groups and solos with applause from the class after each performance. Okay so far so good, everything’s going great. Here’s where it starts to go downhill: the old farts started complaining that I was “losing control of the class”. They apparently expected me to stand in front and old school lecture music theory/scream at the kids for the entire period in order to “keep control”. They didn’t seem to understand how much help the beginners needed to get up to speed. Next problem: the principal of the school started coming to the practices because she was upset at the noise level of the kids learning to play their instruments. A cacophony to be sure, but it didn’t bother me as I knew what it would take for these kids to learn to play. Seemingly chaotic, but chaos with a purpose and I never lost control. The kids respected me, when I needed their attention for announcements or lectures they quieted down and paid attention. They even minded each other and helped me to manage the class. I knew how to talk to them and keep them engaged. I kept my lectures to a minimum as my main goal was to get them playing. However, management didn’t seem to like the kids enjoying themselves, talking to each other and playing their instruments in afterschool band class. Third problem: the principal’s kid was in the class, and he had some emotional problems; he was throwing fits/temper tantrums because he didn’t know what to do with himself, said he was bored after I put him on the instrument of his choice (bass drum). I also offered to get him on other percussion instruments. He needed extra attention which I tried to provide but I could only do so much with 60 other kids to manage. Funny thing is, I was starting to have a rapport with this kid when I got fired. He was starting to fit in and be helpful with the equipment after I showed him how to set up/break down. End of the story is, the principal came to class one day and started yelling at me because she saw her son sitting bored at his bass drum; she pointed to this as evidence that I had “lost control” of the class and because the kids were playing on their instruments. I told her if she wanted to stand in front of the class and scream at the kids all day she could be my guest, because I wasn’t going to do that. I was fired the next day. Some of the parents had started coming to me with complaints about the principal failing to provide a safe afterschool area for their kids; I offered some suggestions and perhaps that didn’t help my case either lol. The corrupt/clueless haters can go F___ themselves; I love guitar, I love music and I’m never giving up.
Wow that sucks, it seems you're better off being out of that school, sounds like the principal was crazy and/or a terrible manager. You'll find something better, don't give up!
Always be thankful for the struggles you go through. It helps us to be more thankful and appreciative of the things we have achieved when we look back on our past.
That's life! Always follow your guts. I jumped off a university lecturer/researcher career to become a simple trucker. I'm enjoying much more. Like you, I didn't belong to a classroom. Everyday it was a struggle. Now I'm fine. Antonio, Brazil.
Inspirational Paul. You have clearly demonstrated how important it is to follow your instincts and passion. Congratulations and thanks for posting
deskjobs are the most terrifying jobs you can imagine of as a creative musician
I've been working at a deskjob for 15+ years. Making money playing music is simply impossible for many people.
@@mattgilbert7347 : that's true - that's why most musicians teach their instruments. I do that as well and enjoy it.
@@DizzyKrissi Who will pay for lessons when you can just go online?
@@mattgilbert7347 : I have many students who previously tried to learn through youtube-lessons but failed. As a beginner you are not able to distinguish between good and bad lessons - the sheer amount is overwhelming. Nothing can replace a good teacher.
@@DizzyKrissi And how many guitarists, realistically speaking, have the knowledge, ability, time, and resources to take on a second job as a teacher (that's assuming they are in my situation ie: working stiff who only has time to play on the weekends)?
These are genuine questions. Not trying to be a negative Nelly, just trying to be realistic. I have *one* friend who gives me a few $ bills when he can and I teach him what I can. If I were to put myself out there as a "Guitar Teacher" it would feel like false advertising. Self-taught hack.
I sincerely doubt that most guitarists could do it. You'd end up with oversupply, for starters, and that would lead to a race to the bottom vis a vis pricing (fees).
Does that make sense? I'm trying to view this through the lens of economics in a post-Fordist world.
This is great I'm in that place right now not with guitar but in my career.
This makes me feel like I'm doing right.
Thanks for sharing Paul.
Mate, I feel your pain for teaching, I teach karate to children as young as 4 upwards, in classes of 10 - 18 at a time. Teaching them to punch and kick without hurting each other and maintaining their concentration is a skill. Being a father of 4 helped me greatly. Love your vids, you have helped me loads.
Man, I just got into your videos! I am a musician as well, and I have to say, chilling back with my guitar, practicing technique and watching your videos, is a good damn time. 10/10. I love your style on the guitar as well as your video-making. I'm looking forward to watching more of you. ✌ Peace
Super proud to have been with you from pretty early on, mate! You inspire me daily and I love your videos! Cheers, mate, thank you for what you do :)
Friend the guitar is the only thing I want to take with me everywhere I go in life. I feel your pain in this video and I'm super glad things worked out for you. The main thing is, guitar as a hobby is who I am I have no intentions of making money with it. Ultimately it's just this thing I can only get better at and that is all I need. God bless you I hope you keep doing what do you deserve it
"gefeliciteerd je hebt de job, je past perfect in het profiel"
Happy you didn't shut down and never gave up. You're the best!
In a teacher-pupil relationship, when the teacher seeks the student, it may go well, but it's a crapshoot. When the student seeks the teacher, it will always go well.
I recently started teaching English language in my new home in Spain and it was almost accidental. I'd taken my certificate just as a way to fill time but people started coming to me asking for private lessons, friends of friends and their children mostly.
Fast forward one year and if I wanted to I could fill every weekday with students. I never really sought it out but now I have lots of eager students and I'm feeling more fulfilled than at any other time in my life.
I just wanted to share that as your words are very much the same as my experience.
@@Silverfirefly1 It sounds like you are a very good teacher, and now you have a bunch of self motivated students, the best scenario a teacher could have...
@@mrjohnp555 Thank you, that's a very kind thing to say. Merry Christmas!
Paul... Ironically, You are a really good marketing person.
A world deprived of Paul? That would be gloom!
I'm happy that you stuck with playing guitar. You are one of the best teachers on RUclips. Your knowledge and personable way of presenting information makes you great! Thanks for all you have done for the guitar playing community.
Success is rarely a straight line. Also, where did you pick up these sick editing skills?
Eugene Vedensky This!! I’m curious too. Where/how did you learn to edit your videos?
By just doing it basically... Best school there is ;) If you know how you want it to look you just make sure you know how to get there.
Such a great human being! I initially thought your talking style was put on, almost commicaly emotionless but structured and informative. Its all to aid the nature of RUclips videos . Quick and packed full of information. You rock Paul Davids.
It's impossible to picture you without your glorious beard.
You survive! That's so awesome. Love your sharing. So happy for you. May things get much better for you.
reasons i watch this channel:
to learn guitar 25%
to listen to this guys fucking amazing accent%
I'm glad you are where you are now. You have been immensely helpful to 1.3 million people.
So not just American kids are little brats, good to know...
I am very impressed that you appreciate your success and share it with us. You deserve it because you earned your success through hard work. Keep up the good work. I learn a lot about guitar from you. Thanks for everything and hope you have more success in your music and life.
Hi Paul! Lately i've been having a hard time with music. I love playing the piano and the guitar, but these days, i'm not enjoying playing músic that much. I'm not motivated. What should i do?
Pd: hugs from argentina!! Love your vids
While I'm not Paul, I will give my opinion.
What works for me is to just take a break. Take a couple days off, listen to some music (new, or already well-loved), and wait for the inspiration to kick in again. I was in a major lull lately, and then I decided to take some time off and just get away from the frustration.
Then I was listening to Tool's 10,000 Days album, and I got this major inspiration to learn Vicarious note for note. And away I went. I've been obsessively working on learning to play it perfectly, getting the right tones, etc, and as an added bonus, am learning to love and write in Drop D far more than I ever have before.
So... that's my 2 cents. It works for me more often than not.
Good luck!
I'm not Paul either but... Here are the things that rekindle my love of playing: 1. Jam session. Play with other people who share similar interests. If you have the space, set up a jam session at your home and invite anyone who plays or enjoys listening to music (It's nice to have an audience, too). 2. Get away. Take your headphones and go for a hike, ride a train, or just go somewhere you don't usually listen to music. Let the music be a soundtrack for adventure. 3. Perform. Play at an open mic night. Play on a bench at the park. Stand on a street corner. You don't have to play songs everyone knows; it's ok to experiment and just explore the instrument in a new environment. You are not there to entertain anyone but yourself. 4. Meditate (clear your mind). Contemplate (explore the noise that was persistent during meditation). Journal (evaluate in written form - pen and paper - what came from your contemplation) Optional: Pray for guidance. I like the Serenity Prayer. 5. Finally, after everything else, write a simple song. Even if it is only 2 chords and 10 words it's good enough. Repeat steps until the joy returns as it inevitably will. I have never had this process not work, and I know it will work for you too.
@@mark7166 thanks a lot!!! 😄
@@mitchhamburger480 thanks mitch! 😄
Congratulations on 1.3M subscribers! What an inspirational story. Thank you!
"Mr Davids, you're old and you suck! And I swallowed my pick?" Just in case you miss teaching kids? Great videos!
Your success on YT has alot to do with your skill at expressing yourself in addition to your guitar knowledge. And you have a very listenable speaking voice as well. Your channel is one of the most interesting guitar based channels on YT. Congratulations on your success.
"Graduated from College for Music"
That explains a lot.
Dutch kids....not an easy task to manage them in such a setting. Been there done that and survived. Paul...glad you found another way to teach. And what a fine teacher you are.
Just proves that good guys can be successful too. Your honesty shines through, brother. Long may you prosper.
I've been teaching guitar privately for a long time. It's a great gig, but with young kids it's rough coming home as late as I do, as often as I do. Like you, I've taught some of those kids classes and even sung for little ones at children's play spaces before. Always taking the open door and trying to keep my career moving forward. It's a blessing just to be making a living playing and teaching guitar but I'm trying to figure out how to take the next step forward, and honestly you have been an inspiration. I'm doing my best to take a page out of your book and make the Patreon/RUclips thing work for me. I love your videos and your playing, keep up the amazing work! Congratulations on your success.
Good insights. Even with “failures” we learn. Btw. Teaching a group to play is hard. I tried it for a while. 🙁. You do a great job explaining teaching the aspects of guitar.
Thank you for being so vulnerable and transparent! Keep up the awesome work!!!
Firstly mate, Thanks for your awesome videos. I have been teaching for 25 years and still learn so much from your vids. I do enjoy teaching, but it has often been at the detriment to my own music in some ways. Whilst I have developed as a player due to teaching, I haven't left much time in the week for creating. I just recently started recording my own stuff and released an EP a few months back. One of the tracks even picked up a nomination in a fairly prestigious song competition in my home state. I'm currently going through a bit of reflection on what is working in my life, what works for me and what is just a waste of energy. I gotta say your video today has helped confirm some of my plans. Thank you!
I found this video at the perfect time. I'm a guitarist playing in a band that I created a few years back. I work so hard to try and build up my band in Nashville and I just got done playing a show tonight. Where I hauled all my gear and my drummers gear in and out of the venue, I lost money by playing this show, and my string broke on stage. I feel like I am spinning my tires so hard and there is no point in continuing. After this horrible night, I sit down and go on youtube to try and clear my mind and this video popped up. You might have just saved me from quitting guitar. Hearing your struggles and how you overcame this hurtle breathes new life into me. Thank you so much. Your channel is amazing.
1.3m Congratulations!!! You deserve to have so many subscribers as your content and delivery is superb!!
So glad you made it to what you are doing now. Just want to tell you I’ve been playing for about 30 year with bands with out bands just noodling. I found your channel and have learned so much. Arpeggios ,scales etc..... It has pulled all my technic together and just has made me more interested and has brought back my love for it . Thank you so much peace always ✌️
Failure is part of the process to have success, I’m glad you make this channel , the videos are well made and the content is always top quality ! Well deserved 1.3 million followers !
I'm a Dutchman living in Seattle (#seattlerocks) and your channel is the funniest, most informative, and most well-produced out there. Very inspirational video. Thanks for everything you do for us.
I for one am greatly appreciative that you overcame the adversity in your life. Now we as an community has the opportunity to learn from not only A Master of the Guitar, but also from a very passionate teacher and in general a very plesant person! Thank you!
glad you pushed through - the world is a better place thanks to your online guitar lessons :)
1.3m subscribers because you are clearly very talented and have a lot of knowledge to share. You speak clearly and calmly, your videos make me for one really happy to just watch. Even when the content may be above my skill level and understanding, I still love watching them because you make me feel very welcome. Obviously, RUclips/Patreon is about making money but what shines through the most is your passion for music and teaching. Thank you Paul.
It's never nice to struggle, but we learn from that and it's nice to see that you worked hard and earned where you are at. I would love to be able to sit comfortably, currently unemployed and struggling to look for work. That's my struggle, but I am perusing RUclips and I'm not giving up, thank you Paul very inspirational.
An overwhelming amount of your success can be attributed to your personality. Your skill as a musician is immediately evident and its impressive. But I think the real reason I subscribed is because you're very easy to like (or you're a remarkable actor). I really enjoy listening to you. You're very genuine, considerate, humble and have a sense of humor. Thanks for sharing this story.
It's not just the music and lessons....it's you, Paul, sharing your life experiences and musical journey...thats why i tune in...and i'm sure the other 1million (dr. evil voice) as well....rock on my brother!!!!