Well said having male figures to take you under their wing is crucial in the development of a young man. A man teaches a boy on how to be a man. A woman can't teach a man on how to be a man. Masculinity must be taught by a man not a woman.
I enjoyed this. You could literally see his confidence change when he slowed down and after the 3 lessons. I hope it takes him far and he passes it along.
Nah that white boi needs to get another haircut. Needs to try a black barbershop so they can hook em up cause whatever that is on top of his head aint it buddy...out here looking like them purple crazy minions 😅
Nini Johnson, yes you're. 19 is very young but you look even younger than that! Keep it up, girl. You'll need it later in life. You'll be like JLO...age defying diva LOl
Alotta fashion/personality is subjective. i think the body language and lines Steven gave are wack. this guy will be mostly single or settle for an unattractive girl, if she's even down, due to his looks. Many women offer sex to (attractive) criminals they never met & offer to pay their bail to “get raped” by them (Example: Jeremy Meeks, who then became a male model) while many ugly guys with better character, confidence etc. are dismissed based on looks & judged as having less character/confidence, etc. (the Halo effect) & usually, they THEN eventually have less confidence and/or personality. Women pretend looks don’t matter but dismiss below average looking men regardless of personality, many studies confirm. Example: livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html “Women Becoming Obese At Faster Rates Than Men” www.huffingtonpost.com/michael-lazar/us-women-becoming-obese-a_b_10431802.html AND somehow: Men rate 50% of women below average looking, women rate 80% of men below average looking: Source: theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e If personality can override looks/race: There’s exceptions to every rule, especially if you’ve $ or status (like Steve) or the girl isn’t too outta your league etc. So rather than claim some minority of cases where “ugly” guys get “hot” girls, have an ugly/skinny Indian or Arab go in person or make a profile & see what % of girls flirt, give their # & agree to date/kiss etc. Show the videos. Girls will get the best they can get in the following areas, more/less in this order: handsome, tall, fit, wealthy, high status. THEN there’s some subjective, side factors like her preferred race/fashion/personality/beliefs etc. I’ll be uploading insightful/fun videos on this topic in time. Sub n stay tuned, trust me. Or watch this: AMAZING Secrets: What REALLY Attracts Women: ruclips.net/video/EFnJMPQow7A/видео.html
AirPlayRule i think i am the only one who read ur paragraph but thnx for the info though i kinda believe it coz i know man however u missed one important point and its a fact u have to agree with me that thers still somethin more important than everything u mentioned that can attract the most attractive women even if the guy was hella ugly it is the magic word (money)
arabian knight thanks for reading but u didn't read well cause u think i missed something even though i stated "There’s exceptions to every rule, especially if you’ve $ or status..." P.S. $ doesn't attract women. people over rate it, using it as a coping mechanism cause it's more possible to get rich than it is to change your looks. $ works like paying a hooker. $ can get girls to come to u for some intimacy, but $ based couples usually result in cheating, fighting, less sex, divorce because money isn't a part of u, it's something u have. my future videos will elaborate on this.
@@airplayrule You wrote a whole dissertation as a RUclips comment, just to prove you have no real experience with women. Too "smart" for your own good. Just admit that you got curved by women you found attractive and are hurt by that. But don't sit up there and reduce women to some random links you found on the internet. Cause I bet you for every attractive woman that curves a man, there is an unattractive woman who would give anything to be with him, but she's not attractive enough for him to even consider her or pay attention to her. Yall get mad when the Halle Berry's don't want you, but then you curve the women who look like Precious (reference to the movie) with no remorse. And guess what, both of them are women and both of them are beautiful. But because a high fashion model looking woman doesn't want to be with an unattractive man (who probably has some other qualities she doesn't like-etc: low self esteem and subpar personality), all of a sudden, she represents all women. There are plenty of women who date guys that society looks at as not attractive, but I guess those women don't count towards your small category of "women" because you don't find those women attractive. And yes, these unattractive men they choose to date be broke too. It's all about your self confidence regardless of how you look, just like Steve said. And like I said before, you want to be butt hurt about the women who curve you, when there are women you curve on the daily because you would never even consider dating them and put them all the way out of your mind. So it's okay for yall men to count out women who look like Precious or Tina (from Bob's burgers), but super attractive women are obligated to accept every unattractive guy who approaches her? Yeah right.
This is soooo cute! Steve taking his time to help out the dude! He does it so well everything he talks about or does he does it with passion! Steve is so genuine!
Sorry bruh, but you better earn good karma to get good genes if you want to attract women in your next life. Or seek nirvana and move on. Alotta fashion/personality is subjective. i think the body language and lines Steven gave are wack. the virgin student will be mostly single or settle for an unattractive girl, if she's even down, due to his looks. Many women offer sex to (attractive) criminals they never met & offer to pay their bail to “get raped” by them (Example: Jeremy Meeks, who then became a male model) while many ugly guys with better character, confidence etc. are dismissed based on looks & judged as having less character/confidence, etc. (the Halo effect) & usually, they THEN eventually have less confidence and/or personality. Women pretend looks don’t matter but dismiss below average looking men regardless of personality, many studies confirm. Example: livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html “Women Becoming Obese At Faster Rates Than Men” www.huffingtonpost.com/michael-lazar/us-women-becoming-obese-a_b_10431802.html AND somehow: Men rate 50% of women below average looking, women rate 80% of men below average looking: Source: theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e If personality can override looks/race: There’s exceptions to every rule, especially if you’ve $ or status (like Steve) or the girl isn’t too outta your league etc. So rather than claim some minority of cases where “ugly” guys get “hot” girls, have an ugly/skinny Indian or Arab go in person or make a profile & see what % of girls flirt, give their # & agree to date/kiss etc. Show the videos. Girls will get the best they can get in the following areas, more/less in this order: handsome, tall, fit, wealthy, high status. THEN there’s some subjective, side factors like her preferred race/fashion/personality/beliefs etc. I’ll be uploading insightful/fun videos on this topic in time. Sub n stay tuned, trust me. Or watch this: AMAZING Secrets: What REALLY Attracts Women: ruclips.net/video/EFnJMPQow7A/видео.html
AirPlayRule Looks doesn’t matter. It’s a proven fact. It depends on how you talk to her, the way you carry yourself(dress) and the emotion that you give her. For example; when you go to a club and talk to a girl, you don’t immediately ask them “what are you most passionate about” because she’s at a club and it means she just want to have fun.
Azaryah R. It depends on how you talk to her if your sexual market value, based on lms (looks/money/status) is good enough for her. but personality alone gets you friend zoned. the way you carry yourself(dress) and the emotion that you give her are subjective/side factors that help more in the long term. if guys like Brad Pitt starting wearing baggy pants and acting tired, they'd look cool n start a trend. "when you go to a club and talk to a girl, you don’t immediately ask them “what are you most passionate about” because she’s at a club and it means she just want to have fun." -what?? the ONLY friends/family i know that have various types of women try to date them are handsome/tall/fit guys. their personalities were unconfident or jerks or both. eventually, women made them reasonably confident. the ugly guys were alone , even though they had more confidence/personality. some got decent looking women AFTER they got money/status and attracted poor immigrants from non-Westernized nations. Every study done on looks show men putting looks on the top end of their list of wants/requirements. Women put it near the bottom...but when you evaluate women's actual behavior, it is no different than men. So why u say "Looks doesn’t matter. It’s a proven fact" when it's NOT a fact, and u gave 0 facts to support your claim? why ignore evidence i provided in my original comment? and in the club, as with online dating, women don't give attention or engage with short/ugly men nor do they see them as having a cool personality like they do when they see handsome/taller guys who they give attention to. Will u read my last comment better before replying?
Bright Star Your looks level (unless u hide from women or are blatantly mentally ill etc.) usually reflects your dating life. bad looks such as a less masculine face for a male, who is short, etc. are an indicator of poor genes. women are designed to seek the best genes/resources they can get in a man. i gave details in my above comment. the guy in the video is being rejected for these reasons and will have to wait to settle for a girl in line with his sexual market value, who will likely be settling for him, and the odds of divorce will thus be higher.
If he wasn't he would not be married and the sad truth is if you're not good looking no gf and the reality is people go by looks they just denied it all the time but its the truth sadly nobody wants to hear
He's handsome to me and seems well mannered. I don't think he needs more swag, he just needs a woman who is into him for who he really is but i guess it's nothing wrong with upgrading yourself. Hope he finds love!
I don’t think he has a problem getting with a girl, I think he has a problem maintaining the girl, raising the attraction more, and maintaining the attraction. He does seem well mannered and intelligent, he just needs more confidence and knowledge of the dating game to maintain the women he gets with. And some improvements wouldn’t hurt in terms of his swagger.
Mohammad Al-Habib how the f is that stupid😑 because I call a guy who thinks he's a nerd handsome😞 FYI my son is a ginger👀 black people have red hair too😑😒 oh n guess what😂😂😂 I'm a natural Blonde👀 yes black people have blonde hair to😋😌😏💅
+Vala Dina The only reason a black person would have ginger/blonde hair is because of existing European ancestry on both paternal and maternal lines somewhere on you're genetic history. The blonde may also come from Australian aboriginals but that's nearly impossible given the circumstances. Blonde hair, blue eyes, green eyes, red hair, etc are all European related traits.
I like Steve's swag class..the look was absolutely perfect, the walk too . This boy now looked the real 24 years than the last time he was in the show he really looked like 40. Thank you Steve for the swag class show...from Africa Kenya. Love you all
I liked at the end when the guy walked out for the last time, he was almost surprised by the audience's reaction and he played into it using Steve's other tips. With that swag, he will be just fine. Great advice from Steve!
Glad my Pops taught me about dressing up and the suit game. Everything Steve said about suits is exactly what I was taught growing up from my Pops. Thanks Dad.
This is the first time I truly liked a video when a celebrity gives tips. Most of times they just make fun of you. But Steve Harvey Sir, you made a difference.
Brandon has great hair. I LOVE the red hair. That should be his calling card. But did you see how his walk changed once he had the suit coat and shoes on? Steve Harvey is a master teacher. Props.
OMG! I LOVE YOU Monique!!! I'm learning so much from your videos!! Can you do one of these for women! How to physically exude your feminine energy or "feminine swag" lol! Please! :)
Just to remind you. Suits: Black Navy Brown Grey Tan Edit: shirt colours 2 whites Powder blue Cream Don't use white socks Use dark shoes Pocket squares are good ornaments.
This was soooo awesome! Definitely need more of this: Mr. Steve Harvey is excellent at teaching the younger generation and the young man was so teachable. The guy and girl looked cute together, too. The guy replied, "Word." 😃😃😃😃 This segment was Awesome!
Steve Harvey out here really teaching us a generation of men who never had a fatherly figure to go about in life. Never knew I needed a suit until now. Appreciate you Steve.
When I was in my 20's, I had all these girls around me. The good time of my life. Now I'm 45, all of them are married and have children, they don't laugh at my jokes anymore. What I just want to say is, find one person that loves and support you, and take care of her/him
Ain't nothing like seeing an older man giving out life social skills to a well deserving akward young man. The young guy reminds me of myself and I wished I had an established older gentleman to show me some swag. Doors are open when people perceive your confidence.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Ok Uncle Steve , I did like , share and subscribed , I made sure and send it to my son first , he is 19 +, it's always a pleasure watching and listening to you . God bless you always 🙏🏼♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Hey Mr Steve the kind of staffs you do share is transformation to many of us,my watching to them is pure cure to struggle i have for soo many centuries,be blessed..
MsSoaringstar18 YES I agree! I want a "swag class" for the women! I know there's a certain way a woman can walk, move, talk, stand, and look that makes her get more attention in the room.
I kinda like it..it’s got a classy intelligent feel too it..I feel like he should be British with that look though lol but still not against his look although I think very few ppl can pull off that look for him it suits his personality really really well
Steve you are an expert. You made over that guy in a split second. What a transformation. I could hardly tell he was the same person. You've got the swag man..and he's getting it too. Good job
He is a very handsome guy. He only should cut is hair a little shorter to suit his age. The rest is perfect. One thing.. if he, specially a ginger, would grow his beard.. and maybe work out a bit.. He could become model.
Xyqtrix: Goddess Of Beauty Bro .. Sure you need to develop some confidence and some social experience with people as they say, but at the end of the day, ITS STILL YOU. Not all women love that popular, handsome, amazing, funny, tall guy .. believe me, I found my soul mate and I'm *just like you* .. she is the most beautiful person I've ever seen and I Still can't get to know why she picked me. She just said that she felt that our souls clicked, we completed each other, we love to talk to each other we forget the world .. your swag or handsomness won't last it's just a thing to attract girls .. be yourself and I hope you find someone who will love you.
Alotta fashion/personality is subjective. i think the body language and lines Steven gave are wack. this guy will be mostly single or settle for an unattractive girl, if she's even down, due to his looks. poor guy has glasses, receding hair line, poor jaw line, and lacks facial features or height. that's usually why guys like him are single. Many women offer sex to (attractive) criminals they never met & offer to pay their bail to “get raped” by them (Example: Jeremy Meeks, who then became a male model) while many ugly guys with better character, confidence etc. are dismissed based on looks & judged as having less character/confidence, etc. (the Halo effect) & usually, they THEN eventually have less confidence and/or personality. Women pretend looks don’t matter but dismiss below average looking men regardless of personality, many studies confirm. Example: livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html “Women Becoming Obese At Faster Rates Than Men” www.huffingtonpost.com/michael-lazar/us-women-becoming-obese-a_b_10431802.html AND somehow: Men rate 50% of women below average looking, women rate 80% of men below average looking: Source: theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e If personality can override looks/race: There’s exceptions to every rule, especially if you’ve $ or status (like Steve) or the girl isn’t too outta your league etc. So rather than claim some minority of cases where “ugly” guys get “hot” girls, have an ugly/skinny Indian or Arab go in person or make a profile & see what % of girls flirt, give their # & agree to date/kiss etc. Show the videos. Girls will get the best they can get in the following areas, more/less in this order: handsome, tall, fit, wealthy, high status. THEN there’s some subjective, side factors like her preferred race/fashion/personality/beliefs etc. I’ll be uploading insightful/fun videos on this topic in time. Sub n stay tuned, trust me. Or watch this: AMAZING Secrets: What REALLY Attracts Women: ruclips.net/video/EFnJMPQow7A/видео.html
You are an idiot. Most women I know go for personality. I tried dating good looking guys, but they are total jerks. Swag, give me a break. Swag just means you are as dumb as a bag of rocks. Give me a man with brains and a big heart.
Stormchild74 Why don't u label who youre replying to, and back up your claims with facts like i did, instead of cherry picking unverifiable stuff? "personality" is subjective and plenty of handsome/tall guys have it and no women would choose the ugly/short guy with the same personality unless she had no other choice. u proved this by saying u tried dating good looking guys but they are total jerks, meaning u dated them for their looks. and they're jerks cause they can be. women will put up with good looking jerks. but, if youre honest, youre saying u had to SETTLE for an ugly guy to get the personality u wanted. both genders may do that to an extent, but there has to be some attraction. and i did not defend sway did i. and i have a huge IQ and i have heart, but i dont dare hit up women anymore until i finish building muscle/money/status cause winning on personality has never worked.
Too cute, this is what we need more of mentors for ALL of our children, no matter who they are. We alll needed that direction when we were younger and trying to find our way. Too bad he don't have a show just for that purpose. That would be awesome! Hey Everybody! Hope you're all doing well. Cheers.
Love how he wasn't advised to change his personality.
shabara liberal Right
What you mean personality you dont even know the guy 😐
His personality is fine? What you mean girl?
Monique Marquez She means that he can still be himself with the advice he received not in a negative way.
😂😂😂😂
This is literal fatherly advice. I'm so glad I had my dad to help me out with these moments and tools in life you'd never think were a thing.
Men need this
The world is happy to have Steve Harvey!
Well said having male figures to take you under their wing is crucial in the development of a young man. A man teaches a boy on how to be a man. A woman can't teach a man on how to be a man. Masculinity must be taught by a man not a woman.
i wish my dad gave me advice like this.
Must be nice
Steve Harvey producing the next generation of great young men with swag 🗣
True😂😂
Yes
the emoji u used at the end ... i though i had something on my screen...
i even tried wiping it off
So sure
And respect
I wish Brandon nothing but the best. He did good and seems like a good guy.
I enjoyed this. You could literally see his confidence change when he slowed down and after the 3 lessons. I hope it takes him far and he passes it along.
Rite
Nah that white boi needs to get another haircut. Needs to try a black barbershop so they can hook em up cause whatever that is on top of his head aint it buddy...out here looking like them purple crazy minions 😅
All love tho he just needs tl swagg up fr like Steve Harvey said
I appreciate the guys in the back giving him a standing ovation.
Yes that was so sweet 🥲
Lol it’s me again ☺️ did Steve just call me a cute little girl 😂😂 glad Brandon got his advice though 😄
Nini Johnson lol I know your turns get you subscribers up but not bad
I couldn't agree more with him. You're really cute, and yes you look very young. How old are you if you don't mind?
Abdirahim Aden I do look so young!! 19.
Nini Johnson, yes you're. 19 is very young but you look even younger than that! Keep it up, girl. You'll need it later in life. You'll be like JLO...age defying diva LOl
hola! como estas!?
He seems to have a great demeanor 🙂 it's like a soft assertiveness and confidence that is just right.
Ahh that is me u just described
Kind of baffled...he is way better looking than me yet got no girlfriend
He was feeling his self at the end 😂😂
Dude in the back hyped him up lol "yeah get em boa" lol
Lmfaoo fr he acting different 😂😂😂😂
As he should !😭
Bring him back again please..need to hear the progress
Alotta fashion/personality is subjective. i think the body language and lines Steven gave are wack. this guy will be mostly single or settle for an unattractive girl, if she's even down, due to his looks.
Many women offer sex to (attractive) criminals they never met & offer to pay their bail to “get raped” by them (Example: Jeremy Meeks, who then became a male model) while many ugly guys with better character, confidence etc. are dismissed based on looks & judged as having less character/confidence, etc. (the Halo effect) & usually, they THEN eventually have less confidence and/or personality.
Women pretend looks don’t matter but dismiss below average looking men regardless of personality, many studies confirm. Example: livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html
“Women Becoming Obese At Faster Rates Than Men” www.huffingtonpost.com/michael-lazar/us-women-becoming-obese-a_b_10431802.html
AND somehow: Men rate 50% of women below average looking, women rate 80% of men below average looking: Source: theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e
If personality can override looks/race:
There’s exceptions to every rule, especially if you’ve $ or status (like Steve) or the girl isn’t too outta your league etc. So rather than claim some minority of cases where “ugly” guys get “hot” girls, have an ugly/skinny Indian or Arab go in person or make a profile & see what % of girls flirt, give their # & agree to date/kiss etc. Show the videos.
Girls will get the best they can get in the following areas, more/less in this order: handsome, tall, fit, wealthy, high status. THEN there’s some subjective, side factors like her preferred race/fashion/personality/beliefs etc.
I’ll be uploading insightful/fun videos on this topic in time. Sub n stay tuned, trust me. Or watch this:
AMAZING Secrets: What REALLY Attracts Women: ruclips.net/video/EFnJMPQow7A/видео.html
AirPlayRule i think i am the only one who read ur paragraph but thnx for the info though i kinda believe it coz i know man however u missed one important point and its a fact u have to agree with me that thers still somethin more important than everything u mentioned that can attract the most attractive women even if the guy was hella ugly it is the magic word (money)
arabian knight thanks for reading but u didn't read well cause u think i missed something even though i stated "There’s exceptions to every rule, especially if you’ve $ or status..."
P.S. $ doesn't attract women. people over rate it, using it as a coping mechanism cause it's more possible to get rich than it is to change your looks. $ works like paying a hooker. $ can get girls to come to u for some intimacy, but $ based couples usually result in cheating, fighting, less sex, divorce because money isn't a part of u, it's something u have. my future videos will elaborate on this.
A where is he
@@airplayrule You wrote a whole dissertation as a RUclips comment, just to prove you have no real experience with women. Too "smart" for your own good. Just admit that you got curved by women you found attractive and are hurt by that. But don't sit up there and reduce women to some random links you found on the internet. Cause I bet you for every attractive woman that curves a man, there is an unattractive woman who would give anything to be with him, but she's not attractive enough for him to even consider her or pay attention to her. Yall get mad when the Halle Berry's don't want you, but then you curve the women who look like Precious (reference to the movie) with no remorse. And guess what, both of them are women and both of them are beautiful. But because a high fashion model looking woman doesn't want to be with an unattractive man (who probably has some other qualities she doesn't like-etc: low self esteem and subpar personality), all of a sudden, she represents all women. There are plenty of women who date guys that society looks at as not attractive, but I guess those women don't count towards your small category of "women" because you don't find those women attractive. And yes, these unattractive men they choose to date be broke too. It's all about your self confidence regardless of how you look, just like Steve said. And like I said before, you want to be butt hurt about the women who curve you, when there are women you curve on the daily because you would never even consider dating them and put them all the way out of your mind. So it's okay for yall men to count out women who look like Precious or Tina (from Bob's burgers), but super attractive women are obligated to accept every unattractive guy who approaches her? Yeah right.
steve giving this guy so much fatherly advice I love it 🤧🤧🤧
Yeah, I had to learn everything myself through the internet though
When Brandon walks out you can hear the brother in the background yelling "yeah boy, yeah boy" LOL
Mr. Pink lol 😂 u could... I
Someone said “cmon playa”😂
PixburghSound Awee I couldn’t hear that one
Lol i love that part
guys have got each other's back.
This is soooo cute! Steve taking his time to help out the dude! He does it so well everything he talks about or does he does it with passion! Steve is so genuine!
His smile grew throughout the video. You could feel his sense of confidence coming to life!
The boys in the crowd hyping him up are true bros for life👌🏼😎😂
they are just mocking
when he showed his socks and steve dropped the shoes 😂
Val Cruz I was bugging off of that part too 😂
Val Cruz lol yo I was hollering 🤣🤣
"It says country" I was dying I kept rewind to that part
I shouting so much my grandma woke up
Val Cruz lmao 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"Never wear white socks"
...UNLESS YOU MICHAEL JACKSON!!! 😎🙌
@@Matt90Nine noooo mj was the first to where high waters to see the white socks so you can focus on his footwork.
AMEN
I love white socks, that is all what i wear.
@@alie_smith 😂
Rite only Michael Jackson lol
God if there is a next life, I need a dad like Steve Harvey😊😊
Sorry bruh, but you better earn good karma to get good genes if you want to attract women in your next life. Or seek nirvana and move on. Alotta fashion/personality is subjective. i think the body language and lines Steven gave are wack. the virgin student will be mostly single or settle for an unattractive girl, if she's even down, due to his looks.
Many women offer sex to (attractive) criminals they never met & offer to pay their bail to “get raped” by them (Example: Jeremy Meeks, who then became a male model) while many ugly guys with better character, confidence etc. are dismissed based on looks & judged as having less character/confidence, etc. (the Halo effect) & usually, they THEN eventually have less confidence and/or personality.
Women pretend looks don’t matter but dismiss below average looking men regardless of personality, many studies confirm. Example: livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html
“Women Becoming Obese At Faster Rates Than Men” www.huffingtonpost.com/michael-lazar/us-women-becoming-obese-a_b_10431802.html
AND somehow: Men rate 50% of women below average looking, women rate 80% of men below average looking: Source: theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e
If personality can override looks/race:
There’s exceptions to every rule, especially if you’ve $ or status (like Steve) or the girl isn’t too outta your league etc. So rather than claim some minority of cases where “ugly” guys get “hot” girls, have an ugly/skinny Indian or Arab go in person or make a profile & see what % of girls flirt, give their # & agree to date/kiss etc. Show the videos.
Girls will get the best they can get in the following areas, more/less in this order: handsome, tall, fit, wealthy, high status. THEN there’s some subjective, side factors like her preferred race/fashion/personality/beliefs etc.
I’ll be uploading insightful/fun videos on this topic in time. Sub n stay tuned, trust me. Or watch this:
AMAZING Secrets: What REALLY Attracts Women: ruclips.net/video/EFnJMPQow7A/видео.html
AirPlayRule Looks doesn’t matter. It’s a proven fact. It depends on how you talk to her, the way you carry yourself(dress) and the emotion that you give her.
For example; when you go to a club and talk to a girl, you don’t immediately ask them “what are you most passionate about” because she’s at a club and it means she just want to have fun.
Azaryah R.
It depends on how you talk to her if your sexual market value, based on lms (looks/money/status) is good enough for her. but personality alone gets you friend zoned. the way you carry yourself(dress) and the emotion that you give her are subjective/side factors that help more in the long term. if guys like Brad Pitt starting wearing baggy pants and acting tired, they'd look cool n start a trend.
"when you go to a club and talk to a girl, you don’t immediately ask them “what are you most passionate about” because she’s at a club and it means she just want to have fun."
-what??
the ONLY friends/family i know that have various types of women try to date them are handsome/tall/fit guys. their personalities were unconfident or jerks or both. eventually, women made them reasonably confident.
the ugly guys were alone , even though they had more confidence/personality. some got decent looking women AFTER they got money/status and attracted poor immigrants from non-Westernized nations.
Every study done on looks show men putting looks on the top end of their list of wants/requirements. Women put it near the bottom...but when you evaluate women's actual behavior, it is no different than men. So why u say "Looks doesn’t matter. It’s a proven fact" when it's NOT a fact, and u gave 0 facts to support your claim? why ignore evidence i provided in my original comment?
and in the club, as with online dating, women don't give attention or engage with short/ugly men nor do they see them as having a cool personality like they do when they see handsome/taller guys who they give attention to. Will u read my last comment better before replying?
AirPlayRule are you saying S.Y.S Rukky is unattractive or doesn't have good genes?
Bright Star Your looks level (unless u hide from women or are blatantly mentally ill etc.) usually reflects your dating life. bad looks such as a less masculine face for a male, who is short, etc. are an indicator of poor genes. women are designed to seek the best genes/resources they can get in a man. i gave details in my above comment.
the guy in the video is being rejected for these reasons and will have to wait to settle for a girl in line with his sexual market value, who will likely be settling for him, and the odds of divorce will thus be higher.
Steve: “Im not a handsome guy” someone in the audience : YEAH U ARE!!
If he wasn't he would not be married and the sad truth is if you're not good looking no gf and the reality is people go by looks they just denied it all the time but its the truth sadly nobody wants to hear
@@iiTzLurks there are no ugly people. Confidence is what's attractive.
Gina
How did u catch that?
He's handsome to me and seems well mannered. I don't think he needs more swag, he just needs a woman who is into him for who he really is but i guess it's nothing wrong with upgrading yourself. Hope he finds love!
When he walked in with nice shoes and all that confidence, tho! Being well dressed shoes a lot of self respect, and attention to detail. I like that.
Rite
I think adding on that swag increases his chance for woman to get attracted by it to further give him a chance for them to learn how he is underneath
I don’t think he has a problem getting with a girl, I think he has a problem maintaining the girl, raising the attraction more, and maintaining the attraction. He does seem well mannered and intelligent, he just needs more confidence and knowledge of the dating game to maintain the women he gets with. And some improvements wouldn’t hurt in terms of his swagger.
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When he did the last walk, i noticed a man from audience making noise for him, love how he was boosting his confidence.
Steve is so sweet helping this young man. Life is good sometimes! ☺
This is how it should be, helping each other, Well done Mr. Steve, Bravo.😃
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At least this guy’s actually teachable compared to the others on the show 😂😂
I noticed that too
That might be because he is better at mathematics
We need more of this. Improve appearance, attitude, class.
I really enjoyed that, and he's actually a handsome ginger
Vala Dina hey well you're a pretty non ginger :)
That was stupid lol
Mohammad Al-Habib how the f is that stupid😑 because I call a guy who thinks he's a nerd handsome😞 FYI my son is a ginger👀 black people have red hair too😑😒 oh n guess what😂😂😂 I'm a natural Blonde👀 yes black people have blonde hair to😋😌😏💅
that's beautiful
Mohammad Al-Habib Shut up
+Vala Dina The only reason a black person would have ginger/blonde hair is because of existing European ancestry on both paternal and maternal lines somewhere on you're genetic history. The blonde may also come from Australian aboriginals but that's nearly impossible given the circumstances.
Blonde hair, blue eyes, green eyes, red hair, etc are all European related traits.
Great job teaching Steve! 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽
😭😂😂 his advice worked so well he looked so much better
My finger automatically clicked the subscribe button after watching this.
Man you’re the best dad ever
I like Steve's swag class..the look was absolutely perfect, the walk too .
This boy now looked the real 24 years than the last time he was in the show he really looked like 40.
Thank you Steve for the swag class show...from Africa Kenya. Love you all
Lol nakulola aisee
Habari
B.T.B mzuri sana.
Jambo?
Wakenya ndani ya comments...
Steve SIPUL hata hivo tunawacheki
School him Steve! I love a man who takes pride in his appearance and how he carries himself.
Hair cut and a beard help him right out
thats why i want one
That’s what I’m saying!!!
Yes! Such an easy fix and would make a big difference
I was gonna say it
His hair's good smh
One I like about u uncle Steve, is how u put smile on people face.
I liked at the end when the guy walked out for the last time, he was almost surprised by the audience's reaction and he played into it using Steve's other tips. With that swag, he will be just fine. Great advice from Steve!
Mr Steve Harvey you are just A Fantastic Person God Bless You Ever
7:30 - 7:36 dude was in the background screaming “get them boy”
THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
your the best uncle steve thank you for helping this young man
He seems a really sweet guy, super willing to learn and a fast learner. Hope he meets an amazing lady.
Glad my Pops taught me about dressing up and the suit game. Everything Steve said about suits is exactly what I was taught growing up from my Pops. Thanks Dad.
I’m so happy for you….😊
This is the first time I truly liked a video when a celebrity gives tips.
Most of times they just make fun of you.
But Steve Harvey Sir, you made a difference.
I appreciate how brave he is. Good for him in holding on to an opportunity.
He’s probably breaking hearts now.
😂
Brandon has great hair. I LOVE the red hair. That should be his calling card. But did you see how his walk changed once he had the suit coat and shoes on? Steve Harvey is a master teacher. Props.
Come through Uncle Steve!!! Didn't even finish video, but when "liked" it when Steve said " Drank the moment. You are a moment."
Monique Head I love your videos!
Thank you!
OMG! I LOVE YOU Monique!!! I'm learning so much from your videos!! Can you do one of these for women! How to physically exude your feminine energy or "feminine swag" lol! Please! :)
Steve should have you on his show!!!
I am the moment baby
The 5 suits thing is actually legit advice. Never thought I woukd actually see that from this
So you never had a platform to share that advice lol. I'm keeping it!
Just to remind you.
Suits:
Black
Navy
Brown
Grey
Tan
Edit: shirt colours
2 whites
Powder blue
Cream
Don't use white socks
Use dark shoes
Pocket squares are good ornaments.
The only advise ill be taking out this video.
Me too
And the shirts.
Thank you steve for giving that young man some confidence!!! you the man!!!
I just watched this dude's confidence grow to new heights in a few minutes 💪
You are like a father to his son Steve! Thank you very much!
We all forget to mention how brave this guy is for saying he never had a girl before
He's never had a girlfriend, but he's had a girl (friends with benefits).
5 different suits - 55 combinations. Steve you're genius!
Steve is like a dad every young guy needs !!!
That’s what makes Steve special. He loves people and is a special human being.
This was soooo awesome! Definitely need more of this: Mr. Steve Harvey is excellent at teaching the younger generation and the young man was so teachable. The guy and girl looked cute together, too. The guy replied, "Word." 😃😃😃😃 This segment was Awesome!
Wow the positive vibes from the crowd, And that dude "LETS GOOO AYE GET EM" haha made my day
Lol, I bet if he grew a beard it would help too
beards are always a game changer!
Ooh yeeeeessss
Big facts!
Druzii Cut his hair too
Change the hair color too
Went to Boarding school with Brandon. Genuinely Good dude. Great Actor. Hilarious kid 😂😂
Steve Harvey out here really teaching us a generation of men who never had a fatherly figure to go about in life. Never knew I needed a suit until now. Appreciate you Steve.
The father i never had. I respect Steve Harvey to the MAX👍🏽
Steve Harvey is a legend
When I was in my 20's, I had all these girls around me. The good time of my life. Now I'm 45, all of them are married and have children, they don't laugh at my jokes anymore. What I just want to say is, find one person that loves and support you, and take care of her/him
Steve was like a dad, so sweet
Ain't nothing like seeing an older man giving out life social skills to a well deserving akward young man. The young guy reminds me of myself and I wished I had an established older gentleman to show me some swag. Doors are open when people perceive your confidence.
I literally liked every single comment here.
Never thought Steve Harvey is that legit.
Kudos sir.
His hair has a beautiful color just trim it a bit and listen to Steve and you’re good to go
Steve is the example of what personality can make you way attractive than looks.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Ok Uncle Steve , I did like , share and subscribed , I made sure and send it to my son first , he is 19 +, it's always a pleasure watching and listening to you . God bless you always 🙏🏼♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I love Steve for this!!!! Brandon is such a good sport 😊
no lie
Hey Mr Steve the kind of staffs you do share is transformation to many of us,my watching to them is pure cure to struggle i have for soo many centuries,be blessed..
He gotta fix this haicut asap
Combover would look better on him. Ain’t nun wrong with upgrading
He should get a fade
Dont disrespect mr brandon from the YMCA yes I know him I'm his best friend 💅💅
A man who understands pain,understand Love.
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Steve you should've invited the young lady back on the show and had Marjorie do a "swag class" for the women!! Come on now!!!
MsSoaringstar18 unnecessary
MsSoaringstar18 I think that is a great idea!!!
I was thinking the same thing!
MsSoaringstar18 YES I agree! I want a "swag class" for the women! I know there's a certain way a woman can walk, move, talk, stand, and look that makes her get more attention in the room.
I'm surprised she hasn't been given her own show yet.
YYYEEAAAAUUUUHHHHHHH!!! He came out with pure fire at the end! 🔥
Steve you’re such an amazing inspiration to everyone in this world
To be able to stand up in front of that many people and open up like that he definitely has the confidence, just needs to know how to use it correctly
A man who is Willing to learn means he willing to compromise ,,,l am down for that man all day errrrrday!!!,
For me it's a yesss,,
Sure
A Big Yes for me as well 🤩
He is humble and has a teachable spirit...
Steve is the FATHER i never had 💯👏🏾
I like how he did not make him change who he was but change the style of his personality
Cut his hair, make him look 24 and not 12.
Kathy Brundidge he looks 30
He looks way 33 if you ask me. What do you feed them over there?
Dye it
Kathy Brundidge yess
I kinda like it..it’s got a classy intelligent feel too it..I feel like he should be British with that look though lol but still not against his look although I think very few ppl can pull off that look for him it suits his personality really really well
Steve you are an expert. You made over that guy in a split second. What a transformation. I could hardly tell he was the same person. You've got the swag man..and he's getting it too. Good job
Steve is hilarious and great, classy at the same time.
I love this video! I love the fatherly love and guidance.
He is a very handsome guy. He only should cut is hair a little shorter to suit his age. The rest is perfect. One thing.. if he, specially a ginger, would grow his beard.. and maybe work out a bit.. He could become model.
Xyqtrix: Goddess Of Beauty Bro .. Sure you need to develop some confidence and some social experience with people as they say, but at the end of the day, ITS STILL YOU. Not all women love that popular, handsome, amazing, funny, tall guy .. believe me, I found my soul mate and I'm *just like you* .. she is the most beautiful person I've ever seen and I Still can't get to know why she picked me. She just said that she felt that our souls clicked, we completed each other, we love to talk to each other we forget the world .. your swag or handsomness won't last it's just a thing to attract girls .. be yourself and I hope you find someone who will love you.
Alotta fashion/personality is subjective. i think the body language and lines Steven gave are wack. this guy will be mostly single or settle for an unattractive girl, if she's even down, due to his looks. poor guy has glasses, receding hair line, poor jaw line, and lacks facial features or height. that's usually why guys like him are single.
Many women offer sex to (attractive) criminals they never met & offer to pay their bail to “get raped” by them (Example: Jeremy Meeks, who then became a male model) while many ugly guys with better character, confidence etc. are dismissed based on looks & judged as having less character/confidence, etc. (the Halo effect) & usually, they THEN eventually have less confidence and/or personality.
Women pretend looks don’t matter but dismiss below average looking men regardless of personality, many studies confirm. Example: livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html
“Women Becoming Obese At Faster Rates Than Men” www.huffingtonpost.com/michael-lazar/us-women-becoming-obese-a_b_10431802.html
AND somehow: Men rate 50% of women below average looking, women rate 80% of men below average looking: Source: theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e
If personality can override looks/race:
There’s exceptions to every rule, especially if you’ve $ or status (like Steve) or the girl isn’t too outta your league etc. So rather than claim some minority of cases where “ugly” guys get “hot” girls, have an ugly/skinny Indian or Arab go in person or make a profile & see what % of girls flirt, give their # & agree to date/kiss etc. Show the videos.
Girls will get the best they can get in the following areas, more/less in this order: handsome, tall, fit, wealthy, high status. THEN there’s some subjective, side factors like her preferred race/fashion/personality/beliefs etc.
I’ll be uploading insightful/fun videos on this topic in time. Sub n stay tuned, trust me. Or watch this:
AMAZING Secrets: What REALLY Attracts Women: ruclips.net/video/EFnJMPQow7A/видео.html
You are an idiot. Most women I know go for personality. I tried dating good looking guys, but they are total jerks. Swag, give me a break. Swag just means you are as dumb as a bag of rocks. Give me a man with brains and a big heart.
Stormchild74 Why don't u label who youre replying to, and back up your claims with facts like i did, instead of cherry picking unverifiable stuff?
"personality" is subjective and plenty of handsome/tall guys have it and no women would choose the ugly/short guy with the same personality unless she had no other choice.
u proved this by saying u tried dating good looking guys but they are total jerks, meaning u dated them for their looks. and they're jerks cause they can be. women will put up with good looking jerks. but, if youre honest, youre saying u had to SETTLE for an ugly guy to get the personality u wanted. both genders may do that to an extent, but there has to be some attraction.
and i did not defend sway did i. and i have a huge IQ and i have heart, but i dont dare hit up women anymore until i finish building muscle/money/status cause winning on personality has never worked.
@@airplayrule r/niceguys or r/incel
2:41 why he laugh and then make a straight face like that😂
Because he is INTP
JahLLUMINATI yea that’s what I thought
Fr like damn was that him that laugh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
What I thought laughing was at someone from the audience.
"You can't wear no shoes like that and get no girls" said Steve 😂😂🤣
He taught him formal/semi-formal swag. I thought that he would teach him casual swag.
You gotta be the boss
Favorite line “YOU ARE A MOMENT “
True
Too cute, this is what we need more of mentors for ALL of our children, no matter who they are. We alll needed that direction when we were younger and trying to find our way. Too bad he don't have a show just for that purpose. That would be awesome! Hey Everybody! Hope you're all doing well. Cheers.
THAT is an awesome idea!
Learning a lot from Mr Steve😍.Love watching u 😎😎😎
😂😂 “Word!?” My man. 👌🏽
Teach him, Steve! Teach him!
He’s probably breaking hearts now. 😂😂😂😂
He needs a haircut, facial hair, & contacts! Give him the Prince Harry 🙌
I just loved it loved it and more loved it.. great advice, this means lot to our next young youth in our community ❤️❤️
Looks like Leonard from Big Bang theory
when I saw him he made me think of Seth Green, not per se for his looks, but how he handles himself.
Get him penny
His babies will be smart and extra swag.
Steve fixing my boy up!!💯💯🔥
Ginger grow your beard!!! Thank me later ✌
Yessssss, who doesn't love a good ginger beard 😍
Myro Ziah I should be on here.
A beard?...he will scare the girls off looking like a Biker from Texas😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@andersonaloko3394 a low cut beard shaped up
@@andersonaloko3394 Have you not seen lumbersexuals or "viking" models? Not all men grow scraggly beards.
Big respect you ma men.. never a person touches others shoes, but his Highness i respect.
That really helped me too thank you Steve 💎
Damm, Mr Steve is the best fashion advisor 👌😍 I'm inspired