Thobeka said hold my feelings I’ve got my son to take care of we’ll pick this up later . 👏🏾👸🏾 Yaz Simz I like this studio background setup for you . 😮💨
The spirit of God lives within Thobeka. If it was just anyone, all of this would have came out on the wedding day and after the wedding when everyone had their own opinions about her and her previous relationship with uCassper. Another person would have went on lives on Instagram, write long Twitter threads, write to all the blogs but she remained quiet and she gave them their moment in peace. It can only be God. May God continue blessing her and her son.
@@KhaytwoM Did you not hear that she played side chic to a man who has a partner and knew their son was fighting for his life. But she choose to open her legs and entertain his bs, hayi nawe maan...
@@Letstalkaboutit2323I just feel like as woman we should know better because man will never know our pain, man hate us and hurt us. I just feel like as woman we can team up man😢cause one day that might be you
@@siposihletukela2194 if men hate and hurt you why would you be sleeping with them and wanting another woman to protect you when you don’t even protect yourself. It could never be me darling, I would never love a man more than I love myself.
One thing about abafanaaaa.... They will leave you in the desert without water😥🚮💔... This is Soo hearbreaking😓😓😓..She definitely got rid of the cancer which was Casper🤞🤞.... & I loveeee it for her❤
@@Letstalkaboutit2323 what she is trying to say is the other woman might fall for Pulanes husband (Casper) the same way she did knowing very well about Thobeka and cancer diagnosed child...
@@nkulehmthimkhulu572 what you are saying is that Cass will do Pulane dirty the same way he did Thobeka dirty. It’s clear that he’s the villain why are we not blaming him and holding him accountable
@@Letstalkaboutit2323 as a woman what are you hoping to achieve when agreeing to proposal from someone you know he's committed somewhere and its not hidden? That they will break up and you take over neh?, hence "the enemy of the woman is another woma
Thobeka deserves to have the platform we gave to Lebo and Letoya 😂. But jokes aside... God bless her and her son. We forgave Cassper but we didn't get the full story till now. Thobeka didn't want him back after the humiliation. 😢
@mmakgomokamogelomaeko383 I think now more than ever I no longer want to see a man's package, I don't know how I will know which man is the right one for me. But I'm over 30 and afraid of teenage pregnancy still now more than ever. Even after maturing men can still play with you and kids they make with you.
Pulane knew what she was doing! She wanted that man against all odds, she has that Jezebel spirit that's why she still doesn't have peace, wanting to tell us at all turns that Cassper has always loved her which is BS! He's an escapist and still gonna escape her too cause Boity was a childhood love too, maybe she forgot That marriage is gonna end in BiG TEARS, two snakes 🐍 met at the right time Sending all the best energy, love and good juju to Thobz and her son That one of the curvaceous short man, zisazokhala... ku loud speaker at that
and how is your life going with all that bitter resentment you are spewing all over you tube pertaining to other peoples life and your opinion does not matter here....at all sham.
I can’t imagine what she went through emotionally 💔🙌 I’ve definitely been through shit but this this is toooooo much I hope God continues to shower her with grace and blessings
One thing I know about men towards women, never ever think that you are the special one!!! I hope she realize that she deserves better and dodged a bullet!
Even in the midst of all the pain and chaos…..she channeled her energy to the inevitable who needed her the most, her son!!! Even when he was talking in a Podcast, she kept to herself when she has so much to say! What a stella woman!!!
Cassper has always been the one to try to clean up his image from years ago. The whole " I'm humble" thing in the past. I wish i had something bad to say about him but yoh we dealing with a lot in 2024, lies being exposed, wars etc but God bless them all.
Interesting how some people have selective hearing and perception. What are your thoughts on the new wife. Yhooo people will leave us in the desert without water. There, fixed it for you.
I know exactly what Thobeka is talking about😢😢she has taken me back to 2007 when i was pregnant with a child that had a chronic condition. Let me pause here. God never sleeps nor slumber
My heart sank probably 15 times. Very happy she went to God as her Anchor. There's no other way in the valley but finding Modimo. On a funny note, I didn't know Puleng was our own Camilla😂
it’s definitely a tough world we’re living in, and it feels like values and boundaries are being pushed more than ever. The kind of situations we see unfold with the baddies and the Mihlali's of this world, reflect how social dynamics and personal ethics are being tested, especially with everything playing out so openly on social media. It’s sad to see people hurt and disrespected, especially when the fallout leaves others, like the wives in these situations, to deal with the emotional damage. It can sometimes feel like a reflection of bigger issues in society today. People have become more bold, with fewer consequences or accountability for their actions. In moments like these, it's natural to feel like we're in “end times” as traditional morals and values seem less respected. How do you think this impacts the general mindset around relationships and public responsibility?
At the core of Christianity is the belief that one is sinful and needs a savour. So by becoming a Christian Casper is admitting that he has made a mess of his life, but wants to do better going forward
Ladies in the comments, it's okay to blame both parties. That "the woman doesn't owe the other woman loyalty" doesn't fly. Bofebe ke bofebe and Cass and his wife are both shi
I need to find my comment from that time where I've called BS on all of this He was trying to win Thobz back with that hobo tour, when it failed he love bombed tf out of Pulane and married her shotgun and 6pm at night😂
production costs are up management!! But that thing about strong soldiers, may it never locate me... so sad that men can put you through the ringer but i guess eaches happiness to their own...Thobeka has got the grace to match the beauty hands down Just people need to not hurt others with their happiness; that is the only thing that makes it wrong Obviously, if you aren't happy, no one is expecting you to act for the rest of your life but honesty and timing are important
They were not married, y'all ignore the fact that they had a baby outside of wedlock. Cassper has turned himself to God let him find his journey instead of opening old things that God has probably forgiven already. God judges sin that poor child paid for his mother and father's sins. If Thobeka has truly moved on and seeking the Lord she also wouldn't be seeking revenge, she knew it would stir up a fire and we are all falling for it, the victim is the child here.Actions have consequenses both of them messed up, lets learn to take responsibility
Yeyi umntwana uyagula it's no time to be busy be planning imishado, timing bathong have shame we aren't worried about umjolo and wedding steps Tina. Cancer is a serious thing
@ntandokazimanqele9462 I agree and I'm not saying Cassper was correct, no, but let's get to the root of the problem, sex before marriage is a mistake they both made leading to the coming in of an innocent child into the earth outside of God's ordained plan. these kind of things affect our lives and our children's lives, they should have been set on marriage from the onset. God's judgements are alive and well, unfortunately cancer touched the child as a result of the parents errors so playing victim to me just isn't it. Read about what happened to David's child after commiting adultery with Bathsheba, that child died due to God's judgement on what the parents had done. That God is still the same one today. They should both repent and stop pointing fingers at this point. God honours marriage not dating and fornication.
@@sharmz91 As a Christian who knew the word of God but still made the mistake of having sex outside of marriage i felt attacked reading this but the I remembered indeed how God dealt with David in the bible. Thank You for being Honest and seeing this matter the biblical way. We should stop making ourselves comfortable with How we feel but Put Gods words first. Repentance is a journey and we can’t point fingers at others or judge others based on the society standards men this men that …… I pray they both walk this Journey of repentance and redemption in honest and truth, letting Go of the pain tho its not easy and allow God to restore them like He did with David
Shuuuuuuuuu ngwaneso 💔 and life will continue. He will have a happy marriage and live happily ever after. Life yona is not a Nigerian movie💔 karma doesn’t work. Yoh!👏
It does, she's already unhappy wanting to tell us everyday that Cassper has always loved her She's trying too hard cause we'll, he's starting to slip away... pin this
@MsSwanlake true, they kept their relationship private therefore can have a private marriage... Enjoy it quietly and come out when the dust settles...in a year or two 🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️
She is better off. God will show you people for who they are! What a painful thing to go through but God! Glad her baby is good. May she be blessed and filled with even more favour and grace.
She dodged a bullet though. I, for one, am happy for her
Very happy for her
Heavy on the “bullet” 😢 God’s grace is sufficient ngempela
@@FindingNeli I know that's right!
Thobeka said hold my feelings I’ve got my son to take care of we’ll pick this up later . 👏🏾👸🏾
Yaz Simz I like this studio background setup for you . 😮💨
Me too it's simple & elegant 👌
Right, so neat..
Now we know why his sister is team Thobeka
Exactly 😢
N people are outchea telling her to choose sides as if she owes someone her loyalty!
I would too, I always choose our makotis side, idc
Who's the sister??
Oh yeah
The spirit of God lives within Thobeka. If it was just anyone, all of this would have came out on the wedding day and after the wedding when everyone had their own opinions about her and her previous relationship with uCassper. Another person would have went on lives on Instagram, write long Twitter threads, write to all the blogs but she remained quiet and she gave them their moment in peace. It can only be God. May God continue blessing her and her son.
We all heal differently. There is no shame in shaming the shameful. Gold loves us all, whether we heal in asylum or in silence
Amen.@@Das644
That is God hle😢😢 she had me at "even when I was unfaithful, He remained FAITHFUL" eish God bafethu..❤❤
When they say God does the fighting for you, this is what they mean.,,,kudos to Thobeka, ♥️😔
That is why Casper's sister does not like iwife it makes sense
What did Pulane do?
Didn't you just watch the same video. She got into a relationship with a taken man
@@melmel7011Bathung 🙂↔️
@@KhaytwoM Did you not hear that she played side chic to a man who has a partner and knew their son was fighting for his life. But she choose to open her legs and entertain his bs, hayi nawe maan...
I know yall lere we should not blame the other women. But m stuck on she knew me, she knew my sons condition. Iyhooooooo😢😢that's evil.
💔
@@asivegaxa9788Jezebel spirit
Akere le Cassper knew his son’s situation. Both of them are evil
@@Letstalkaboutit2323I just feel like as woman we should know better because man will never know our pain, man hate us and hurt us. I just feel like as woman we can team up man😢cause one day that might be you
@@siposihletukela2194 if men hate and hurt you why would you be sleeping with them and wanting another woman to protect you when you don’t even protect yourself. It could never be me darling, I would never love a man more than I love myself.
That " cancer free" line left me in tears.... she's gorgeous from the inside out,# we serve a wonderful God
Bex is so beautiful bathong 😍🌸
chipi bathong ❤.
When we talk about CLASS, right there. What a lady ❤to
One thing about abafanaaaa.... They will leave you in the desert without water😥🚮💔... This is Soo hearbreaking😓😓😓..She definitely got rid of the cancer which was Casper🤞🤞.... & I loveeee it for her❤
She's strong. She kept quiet all this time whilst she was suffering.
Side note: I like your energy on this video, Simz ubuyile 😊
Cassper lost a real one on Thobeka....the Enemy of a woman is another woman indeed 💔
An enemy of another woman is Cassper in this case. She allowed herself to be turned into a baby mama. Hold him and her accountable
She allowed herself to be ababy mama?
Wa gafa?
What was shr supposed to do? Force him?@@Letstalkaboutit2323
@@Letstalkaboutit2323 what she is trying to say is the other woman might fall for Pulanes husband (Casper) the same way she did knowing very well about Thobeka and cancer diagnosed child...
@@nkulehmthimkhulu572 what you are saying is that Cass will do Pulane dirty the same way he did Thobeka dirty. It’s clear that he’s the villain why are we not blaming him and holding him accountable
@@Letstalkaboutit2323 as a woman what are you hoping to achieve when agreeing to proposal from someone you know he's committed somewhere and its not hidden? That they will break up and you take over neh?, hence "the enemy of the woman is another woma
I'm glad in all her pain she was able to find God and push through. May God continue to bless her and her baby.
Right now Pulane must be the most disliked wife more than 2nd, 3rd and 4th wives of polygamy in SA 😫
bra😢😢 to think people are saying Thobeka is giving bitter
She's sadly not there's buhle Samuels and mihlali ndamase in the list she's safe
@asivegaxa9788 I don't see that, I see mainly support and love ❤️ for Thobz
The bitter one is Pulane, she got the man and still bitter 😌😂
You forgot to mention Dj Zinhle ❤ another lady who remained still in all the chaos. Strength to Thobeka and Son. 🙏
Thobeka deserves to have the platform we gave to Lebo and Letoya 😂. But jokes aside... God bless her and her son. We forgave Cassper but we didn't get the full story till now. Thobeka didn't want him back after the humiliation. 😢
Would you want man like that back, when his own son is sick he is busy, his priorities are skewed
True!!!
@fifikay7727 hell no. People should assume that he didn't chose Thobeka. He chose himself. And that's what men do all the time.
@@kram9076 I just gained a new fear of man and selfishness!!!!
@mmakgomokamogelomaeko383 I think now more than ever I no longer want to see a man's package, I don't know how I will know which man is the right one for me. But I'm over 30 and afraid of teenage pregnancy still now more than ever. Even after maturing men can still play with you and kids they make with you.
Sasho as a country ukuthi something is off nga that marriage
The way he rushed to marry😂 at 6pm at night 🌙 😭
@@MsSwanlake😂😂😂
Listen we all saw as a country shem that hayi nor something is off. Kante! Eyo
It pains me, hurting someone at her lowest like that 😢😢😢
Ngasho nami ngathi Hai khona inuka iskaftini sefish ya 2021 kerh le way
Pulane knew what she was doing! She wanted that man against all odds, she has that Jezebel spirit that's why she still doesn't have peace, wanting to tell us at all turns that Cassper has always loved her which is BS! He's an escapist and still gonna escape her too cause Boity was a childhood love too, maybe she forgot
That marriage is gonna end in BiG TEARS, two snakes 🐍 met at the right time
Sending all the best energy, love and good juju to Thobz and her son
That one of the curvaceous short man, zisazokhala... ku loud speaker at that
and how is your life going with all that bitter resentment you are spewing all over you tube pertaining to other peoples life and your opinion does not matter here....at all sham.
Bashimane 😢am so glad khotso and mama are well❤❤
Infidelity thinks she's special but a leopard never changes its spots . U add more pain to a fellow woman while her child is sick .
Imagine that pain😢😢but God will answer for her
😅😂😂😂😂😂
I can’t imagine what she went through emotionally 💔🙌 I’ve definitely been through shit but this this is toooooo much I hope God continues to shower her with grace and blessings
One thing I know about men towards women, never ever think that you are the special one!!! I hope she realize that she deserves better and dodged a bullet!
Even in the midst of all the pain and chaos…..she channeled her energy to the inevitable who needed her the most, her son!!! Even when he was talking in a Podcast, she kept to herself when she has so much to say!
What a stella woman!!!
Her being silent about everything and never bashing him shows how beautiful her heart is🥹❤️
Atleast they both found Jesus ❤️❤️
Maybe that was their journey to both find God..hope she get save
Cassper has always been the one to try to clean up his image from years ago. The whole " I'm humble" thing in the past. I wish i had something bad to say about him but yoh we dealing with a lot in 2024, lies being exposed, wars etc but God bless them all.
Happy Birthday Thobeka . Stay Blessed
Cassper umgodoyi uhamba ngezinyayo ezimbili
" osebete, kannete,matete" 😂😂😂no one does it like simz
Yeey say that again😂😂😂
What a powerful woman. Thobeka remain prayerful at all cost. I am proud of you mme. Ngwana has always been wamme.
I've been saying something about the wife is off.
I think we all did hey, because hayi something was off and that interview was a seal over that pot of nonsense he put her through
Hhay madvodza awasifuni cobo.... Kunini ngitsi Yoh😐🙄😩😩
Happy Birthday Thobeka ❤❤
Yep. No surprise there. Please leave them alone at your earliest convenience. They don't care😩
none whatsoever
Yhoooo men will leave us in the desert without water😢😢😢Stay bleesed Thobeka n have a blissful day🎉🎉
Interesting how some people have selective hearing and perception. What are your thoughts on the new wife. Yhooo people will leave us in the desert without water. There, fixed it for you.
@simz o Bua nnete, Mary Jane and thobeka should write books, how did they survive Betrayal e kanakana tjo men will show us flames 😮😮😮😮
How can I cry for someone I don't even know like this, nobody deserces this. Thank God for this woman's strength. ❤
Different zoom meeting, mara where does Simz get these😂😂😂😂😂
what a MOTHER indeed yoh
I know exactly what Thobeka is talking about😢😢she has taken me back to 2007 when i was pregnant with a child that had a chronic condition. Let me pause here. God never sleeps nor slumber
So she dumbed him and went to his current wife. Good for you gal God bless you
But Everything about Casper and his wife was just off, the wedding itself was off 😑
Casper I found God nywe nywe then cheat😂😂😂
SMDH
My heart sank probably 15 times. Very happy she went to God as her Anchor. There's no other way in the valley but finding Modimo.
On a funny note, I didn't know Puleng was our own Camilla😂
The quality 🔥🔥🔥Ndivho and Shudu I give you your flowers🔥🔥🔥
You look so beautiful Simz❤️❤️❤️
it’s definitely a tough world we’re living in, and it feels like values and boundaries are being pushed more than ever. The kind of situations we see unfold with the baddies and the Mihlali's of this world, reflect how social dynamics and personal ethics are being tested, especially with everything playing out so openly on social media. It’s sad to see people hurt and disrespected, especially when the fallout leaves others, like the wives in these situations, to deal with the emotional damage.
It can sometimes feel like a reflection of bigger issues in society today. People have become more bold, with fewer consequences or accountability for their actions. In moments like these, it's natural to feel like we're in “end times” as traditional morals and values seem less respected. How do you think this impacts the general mindset around relationships and public responsibility?
@@kotima123 You ate!💯💯💯
It sure is the end of times, We're not even shocked
Now it makes sense sasingamfeeli kwathina nje singamaOutsider...energy doesn't lie😂
And Thobeka is so beautiful Yohh 🥰👌🏾
Imbogodo of note. God Bless Thobeka and Khotso.
Men will forever unlock levels of hell that even Satan himself doesn't know
its your face for me through out the video i love you Simz
At the core of Christianity is the belief that one is sinful and needs a savour. So by becoming a Christian Casper is admitting that he has made a mess of his life, but wants to do better going forward
Damn this hits deep. God bless Thobeka and her baby. Her healing journey is inspiring. Glory to God.
Ladies in the comments, it's okay to blame both parties. That "the woman doesn't owe the other woman loyalty" doesn't fly. Bofebe ke bofebe and Cass and his wife are both shi
What if the cancer was bought at Marabastad?😮 Life is spiritual
you might be telling the truth, anything is possible outhere
Iyooooooohhhhh!! Eish!
Well God is bigger than marabastad
Something off about that woman ....
As someone who have a past, I will never judge the guy no matter what he has done
Mxm
Mara ngiyibonile lekaman of God ukuthi it’s not make sure 😂😂😂 ubeyi overdoser. Glory to God that the child is cured 😢.
I need to find my comment from that time where I've called BS on all of this
He was trying to win Thobz back with that hobo tour, when it failed he love bombed tf out of Pulane and married her shotgun and 6pm at night😂
@@MsSwanlake So happy Bex chose herself.
Simz... I Love this set up... You and no distractions... Manje KLEAN ❤❤❤❤❤
oh my gosh, just went on Insta, found her..., and cried my eyes out!!! 😭😭😭
She’s leaving us to do the work 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
This background is really beautiful because all the focus is on you. And as always, love the red lip on you ❤
She's truly a LADY❤
Btw Simz you look so good😍
phephi Bex 😢.
Shout out to Sent Studios❤
You did very good Sims as usually narrating this Video...Big ups to you sthandwa ❤❤
I love this for Thobeka. Such a lady sana.
Sengim'zonda kakhulu kunasekuqaleni
Wow, she's amazing 😍
Yho!!!! What a mighty God Thobeka serves🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Amandla to you dadewethu!!💐💐💐 A true lady and mother indeed!!!
What a lady indeed, it's miracle shes still available 😢
production costs are up management!! But that thing about strong soldiers, may it never locate me... so sad that men can put you through the ringer but i guess eaches happiness to their own...Thobeka has got the grace to match the beauty hands down Just people need to not hurt others with their happiness; that is the only thing that makes it wrong Obviously, if you aren't happy, no one is expecting you to act for the rest of your life but honesty and timing are important
She is stronger and wiser. We live to learn.
I just subscribed mani❤. You the entire vibe🎉. It's the facial expressions for me ❤😂😅
Love the studio setup…
Men have zero timing 😔
“O sebete ka nnete matete”😂🤣😂😂😂😂
They were not married, y'all ignore the fact that they had a baby outside of wedlock. Cassper has turned himself to God let him find his journey instead of opening old things that God has probably forgiven already. God judges sin that poor child paid for his mother and father's sins. If Thobeka has truly moved on and seeking the Lord she also wouldn't be seeking revenge, she knew it would stir up a fire and we are all falling for it, the victim is the child here.Actions have consequenses both of them messed up, lets learn to take responsibility
Welele…
Yeyi umntwana uyagula it's no time to be busy be planning imishado, timing bathong have shame we aren't worried about umjolo and wedding steps Tina. Cancer is a serious thing
@ntandokazimanqele9462 I agree and I'm not saying Cassper was correct, no, but let's get to the root of the problem, sex before marriage is a mistake they both made leading to the coming in of an innocent child into the earth outside of God's ordained plan. these kind of things affect our lives and our children's lives, they should have been set on marriage from the onset. God's judgements are alive and well, unfortunately cancer touched the child as a result of the parents errors so playing victim to me just isn't it. Read about what happened to David's child after commiting adultery with Bathsheba, that child died due to God's judgement on what the parents had done. That God is still the same one today. They should both repent and stop pointing fingers at this point. God honours marriage not dating and fornication.
Welele sdididid
@@sharmz91 As a Christian who knew the word of God but still made the mistake of having sex outside of marriage i felt attacked reading this but the I remembered indeed how God dealt with David in the bible. Thank You for being Honest and seeing this matter the biblical way. We should stop making ourselves comfortable with How we feel but Put Gods words first. Repentance is a journey and we can’t point fingers at others or judge others based on the society standards men this men that ……
I pray they both walk this Journey of repentance and redemption in honest and truth, letting Go of the pain tho its not easy and allow God to restore them like He did with David
The " o se bete matete" took me out fr😂😂😂😂😂
Woo unto you 😂😂😂
You made me laugh so hard when you clap your hands....
Waze wayibeka so nice Simz Poleng nomuntu wakhe I say much ngithi hmmmmmm🤔…anyways I love the happy for Thobeka🎉🎉🎉
Shuuuuuuuuu ngwaneso 💔 and life will continue. He will have a happy marriage and live happily ever after. Life yona is not a Nigerian movie💔 karma doesn’t work. Yoh!👏
It does, she's already unhappy wanting to tell us everyday that Cassper has always loved her
She's trying too hard cause we'll, he's starting to slip away... pin this
@MsSwanlake true, they kept their relationship private therefore can have a private marriage...
Enjoy it quietly and come out when the dust settles...in a year or two 🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️
😢😢😢That was extremely deep yhooo Casper I'm heart broken💔
She is better off. God will show you people for who they are! What a painful thing to go through but God! Glad her baby is good. May she be blessed and filled with even more favour and grace.
“Ngi vele ngibe ne alostro Ke mina”🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂❤❤❤ Tell them Ausi utshiyele wena so finish it I trust you on that.
Simz usathi uThobeka no Mary Jane...mina ngithi uThobeka no Linda Mtoba.
Class sana. I have a new found respect for this woman now ❤
"Nisile marn, hay shame nisile" Yhoo Simz❤😂😂
Men🙆🏽♀️😭I went through the same thing. Ended up losing the pregnancy. He is now married to her
Nxese Sisi
Awu sesi uxolo va❤
😭😭😭 yoh honestly i don’t understand how you guys survive such cause nna i would die shame
Peace and love be with you Sisi❤❤❤
Basile, and basile and basile!!!
Men will leave you in the desert with no water 🥹💔
FEAR MEN FEAR MEN
Beauty and brains.. That's Bexx❤️❤️❤️😢🙏
Thina sizobaaashooo!!!!!😂😂
Bathong dikgang tse dikana🙀🙀🙀
I’m first 🤭
love this set-up too
Mawuthi uPULENGgggg hmmmm😂😂😂😂😂😂
Glory to God indeed🥺🥺🥺
Osebete kannete Matete😂😂😂
😅 mara Simz though the Drama.
Birth equipment 😂😂😂 AHA Simz