Knowing that there are other girls that you are currently interested in, and having it in your mind that another girl can appear in your life at any moment AND that you have the ability to get another one at will, really puts your whole 'demeanour' into a more positive setting, which can be sensed by others.
Just finished reading this book called Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish, and it says something similar. One big takeaway is how self-reflection can completely change your mindset. It says before expecting love, you need to fix yourself first, figure out your strengths, and let go of negativity. Honestly, it made me realize a lot about myself, and I think this guy is absolutely right!
Yes, it's funny, i was like this right through my twenties. I thought i was just 'being myself'. It was my 'genuine self' and that i was being 'real', and that being 'positive' was somehow 'pretending' and not being 'real' or 'serious'. You use the word 'repulsive'; once i changed my attitudes and behaviour, i could really notice other people's negative behaviour, and this really started annoying me and i could see how it can be seen as 'repulsive'. It's strange to see someone acting in a way that i would do and think myself in the past, and yet now would see it completely different !
The funny thing is, when i was younger, i thought it was to my advantage that i was seen not to be seen to be interested in running around after girls and not looking like i had the ability to pick up girls easily. I thought that a girl would like this because i wouldn't be seen as the type of man to stray; that i would be faithfull and loyal and genuine. I would be seen as a man interested in a real and lasting relationship. 'This was the ONE ! etc.' But slowly, i realized that this actually comes across as a weakness. They think 'oh, how come no one else is interested in him ?' It's seen as a negative; that you don't have ability of aptitude. You don't 'progress'.
I've got mixed views on the 'scarcity principle'. All through my twenties i would describe myself as quite 'rare' ! I'm an artistic type who always tries to be original in everything that i do, unique. But this didn't attract the girls though. I think that if you are too 'odd', there's nothing to relate to; to compare. ( something being scarce, doesn't automatically make it desirable. It's whether or not other people want it. )
There was a Woman I knew that I thought was hot but overtime with multiple interactions I realised she’s crazy! So I stopped the chase… At the point I stop talking to her or validating her in anyway she starts hovering around! I used to bump into in the corridor and she would explain with detail, why she hasn’t spoke all week! Because of what she was saying, I would naturally show some empathy and because of that she would start being rude almost instantly… So I pull away again, so she didn’t waste my time and again she would chase! I left the company so it stopped but this went on for weeks on repeat, it’s unbelievable 🤬 PS: What was so interesting, the minute I was kind or showed any empathy she defaulted into being a complete B&tch, It was only when I didn't care, she would act normally.. So I would ignore her, not talk to her at all, just get on with my life, and I wouldn't see her at all! Then when I did she would always have a story about how she is the victim or she was going to die in a few months!! What I still don't understand is; the kindness clearly made her think I was this weak BETA Male and i'm the opposite of that... But she could never work this out, I use to look at her baffled, because she actually thought I was interested and a complete B%tch, yet I never asked for a date, I never text, I never even approached her after week 1/2.. All I can say to anyone reading this is, everytime I led with kindness and empathy she would act Masculine and everytime I would be masculine, she would turn into a little girl.. It was astonishing and it's sill unreal as I text!
Half of the time, I am in geek mode and do not focus the women i see. Especially women over 40, even some African women when they stop to ask how my folks are doing, and I cant remember them nada.
Self-love is key. Always put yourself first. Codependency is toxic. Stick to your value system and clearly drawn boundaries. You never “need” a partner to be happy. I believe in a relationship where you and they should complement each other’s lives. Thanks to therapy, I’m starting to love and accept myself genuinely, and it’s been transformative. ❤👊🏾
Funny how I was thinking about this topic before watching this video. I keep imagining as if I've made it to the end of a movie before the credits roll, I'm about to go and spend my happily ever after, the woman sees that in me and is begging to join me.
it's just reinforcement of your attraction. if you are attractive it will strengthen your belief, if you aren't, well keep dreaming that women will be attracted to you just because you don't care 😂 in other words, attractive people make themselves even more attractive while less desirable ones further sabotage themselves
Knowing that there are other girls that you are currently interested in, and having it in your mind that another girl can appear in your life at any moment AND that you have the ability to get another one at will, really puts your whole 'demeanour' into a more positive setting, which can be sensed by others.
Just finished reading this book called Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish, and it says something similar. One big takeaway is how self-reflection can completely change your mindset. It says before expecting love, you need to fix yourself first, figure out your strengths, and let go of negativity. Honestly, it made me realize a lot about myself, and I think this guy is absolutely right!
Negativity is very repulsive and not just for women. It signals weakness!! Great video 💪💯
Yes, it's funny, i was like this right through my twenties. I thought i was just 'being myself'. It was my 'genuine self' and that i was being 'real', and that being 'positive' was somehow 'pretending' and not being 'real' or 'serious'. You use the word 'repulsive'; once i changed my attitudes and behaviour, i could really notice other people's negative behaviour, and this really started annoying me and i could see how it can be seen as 'repulsive'. It's strange to see someone acting in a way that i would do and think myself in the past, and yet now would see it completely different !
How comes Negativity has not died of like homo errectus.
That quantum entanglement parallel crazy! 🤯
"entanglement" Jada Pinkett Smith 😂😂😂
That was beautiful, thank you ❤
The funny thing is, when i was younger, i thought it was to my advantage that i was seen not to be seen to be interested in running around after girls and not looking like i had the ability to pick up girls easily. I thought that a girl would like this because i wouldn't be seen as the type of man to stray; that i would be faithfull and loyal and genuine. I would be seen as a man interested in a real and lasting relationship. 'This was the ONE ! etc.' But slowly, i realized that this actually comes across as a weakness. They think 'oh, how come no one else is interested in him ?' It's seen as a negative; that you don't have ability of aptitude. You don't 'progress'.
This was amazing
I've got mixed views on the 'scarcity principle'. All through my twenties i would describe myself as quite 'rare' ! I'm an artistic type who always tries to be original in everything that i do, unique. But this didn't attract the girls though. I think that if you are too 'odd', there's nothing to relate to; to compare. ( something being scarce, doesn't automatically make it desirable. It's whether or not other people want it. )
There was a Woman I knew that I thought was hot but overtime with multiple interactions I realised she’s crazy! So I stopped the chase… At the point I stop talking to her or validating her in anyway she starts hovering around! I used to bump into in the corridor and she would explain with detail, why she hasn’t spoke all week! Because of what she was saying, I would naturally show some empathy and because of that she would start being rude almost instantly… So I pull away again, so she didn’t waste my time and again she would chase! I left the company so it stopped but this went on for weeks on repeat, it’s unbelievable 🤬
PS: What was so interesting, the minute I was kind or showed any empathy she defaulted into being a complete B&tch, It was only when I didn't care, she would act normally.. So I would ignore her, not talk to her at all, just get on with my life, and I wouldn't see her at all! Then when I did she would always have a story about how she is the victim or she was going to die in a few months!!
What I still don't understand is; the kindness clearly made her think I was this weak BETA Male and i'm the opposite of that... But she could never work this out, I use to look at her baffled, because she actually thought I was interested and a complete B%tch, yet I never asked for a date, I never text, I never even approached her after week 1/2..
All I can say to anyone reading this is, everytime I led with kindness and empathy she would act Masculine and everytime I would be masculine, she would turn into a little girl.. It was astonishing and it's sill unreal as I text!
no wonder im attracting so many women but no one really cares any more
I question that logic, if it was true, by laws of natural selection there would be no men that have not got this attitude.
Half of the time, I am in geek mode and do not focus the women i see. Especially women over 40, even some African women when they stop to ask how my folks are doing, and I cant remember them nada.
The eternal dream of the abis.
This is solid
Self-love is key. Always put yourself first. Codependency is toxic. Stick to your value system and clearly drawn boundaries.
You never “need” a partner to be happy.
I believe in a relationship where you and they should complement each other’s lives.
Thanks to therapy, I’m starting to love and accept myself genuinely, and it’s been transformative.
❤👊🏾
Sometimes it is not just an internal game. Sometimes an old car with a software update is not going to make them faster.
I believe that mankind are well optimise to survive in human society. Just other animal species are adaptive to theirs.
Funny how I was thinking about this topic before watching this video.
I keep imagining as if I've made it to the end of a movie before the credits roll, I'm about to go and spend my happily ever after, the woman sees that in me and is begging to join me.
Previous owned sounds better than used cars. 😂
it's just reinforcement of your attraction. if you are attractive it will strengthen your belief, if you aren't, well keep dreaming that women will be attracted to you just because you don't care 😂 in other words, attractive people make themselves even more attractive while less desirable ones further sabotage themselves
I never thought of single women as used cars before. Some are like the cars in grand theft auto. And these are the ones to avoid at all costs. Lol 🤭🤣
She is just the barque sauce on the ribs. Even without it, it's still a good meal
Just saw Uncivil law and Sarah Boone Writes:- KenTsuGi ... Weird; She got life in prison.
What you have to understand..
The quantum entanglement thing is just wrong, but the rest is ok.
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