DISCRIMINATION OF FOREIGNER IN RUSSIA

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  • Опубликовано: 6 окт 2024
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    Interracial marriage is not easy. You needed to adjust with each others culture, traditions and most importantly to deal with the discrimination that comes with it.
    My husband and I leave Moscow with a smile on our faces and ready for a new challenge...
    We are now at the train station, waiting for the train to take us back to Krasnodar. We are looking forward to the night so we can get a good night's sleep after an exhausting day.
    Our morning on the train started out great. We got to talk to the guy who's staying on the bottom bunk under me. His name is Maxim He sings, writes music, and is on his way to Voronezh to be the lead singer in a new band. Soon it will be his station, and our paths will part. We wished him good luck, ate breakfast together, and went back to our beds.
    The day was quiet. My husband and I ate bananas, I listened to my favorite podcast on my headphones, and fiddled with a lamp. We were a little bored, so we decided to take a nap.
    We woke up to the noise of two women in the bunks below us. It turned out that they were drunk and continued to drink on the train.
    Boria calmly asked them to stop drinking and not to disturb the people next to them.
    Instead of complying with his simple request, they started mocking him and me.
    I don’t speak Russian and fortunately doesn't understand what they say to me.
    Boria stepped away for a while and when he came back he saw these women trying to explain to me through the translator on the phone. I definitely looked upset. They succeeded to offend me with their words.
    The situation was escalating by the minute.
    The insolence and rudeness of these people had long since crossed all boundaries. My husband said he would have gladly thrown them off the train with his own hands, but Boria and I don't want any more trouble. We need to get out of this situation the legal way.
    He decided to tell me what they were saying because I didn't understand what was going on.
    He said that he didn't expect me to swear back at them. I even tried to attack one of the women because of anger. Even though this woman was three times my size. Boria never seen me get so angry, he told that I am like a little soft kitten. I don’t even raise my voice to people older than me because I consider it disrespectful.
    My husband felt sorry for me when I started crying. I was in a lot of pain and I didn’t understand why I deserved such humiliation and insult.
    We called train security to deal with the situation.
    The train manager came over and told us that the women would be forced to get off at the next station.
    I looked them over and couldn't hide my smile. I was happy that we had gotten justice and that the people who had wronged us had gotten what they deserved.
    It was half an hour before the train stopped and the women were back again.
    We didn't know what else to expect from them, so Boria kept filming just in case.
    At the station, the police came into the train. They took statements from us and the people who had witnessed the incident.
    I told that I saw one of the women had tried to bribe train security not to call the police. That didn't work.
    They were escorted off the train, and we breathed a sigh of relief. They would probably be taken to the police station and spend the night there.
    Finally my husband and I could sit quietly and eat our dinner.
    A man and a woman who are resting in adjoining beds treated us to chocolate and tangerines. The conductor and train security apologized for the inconvenience and told us that we could sleep in the lower bunks if we wanted. Those beds were now vacant. We said thank you to the train workers, police officers, and all the kind people who helped us.
    Our carriage was once again filled with pleasant silence and tranquility.
    The next morning our train arrived in Krasnodar. We got off the train and went to the bus stop.
    It was cold outside, despite the fact that it was the second half of March.
    We bought coffee so we wouldn't freeze waiting for the bus.
    We are so glad to be home. We miss our mom, our bed, and our home-cooked meals. And we especially can't wait to book our plane tickets to the Philippines, pack our bags, and get out of this country as soon as possible.
    In the next episode, we will spend our remaining days in Russia and prepare to move to the Philippines

Комментарии • 818

  • @catherinegunang9482
    @catherinegunang9482 Год назад +16

    we Filipino women are descent..we should not be treated otherwise..we thank the husband in defending his wife...

  • @tiongsonjohn90
    @tiongsonjohn90 Год назад +131

    Well Done! You and your husband handledthe situation well and didn't allow such people to discriminate you. I applaud your husband for standing up for you and also maintaining self control.I'm also a Filipino married to a Russain woman for 13 years now and also living here in Krasnodar. anyway God Bless you and your husband and I do wish you a good life back in the Philippines!

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Год назад +5

      Thank you very much. All the best to you and your family🤗

    • @sherrylybanez9336
      @sherrylybanez9336 Год назад

      I definitely don't agree with you. In this video there is no discrimination. At first place why making video without permission. Haler! Where is the privacy. This video is just for show to have a lot of viewers as usual to have money 🤪🙄🙄🙄. I fell sorry to this woman, yes she may too loud , but you don't have a rights to provoke her. The Filipina was aggressive wanted to punch her , omg girl that's assault ! your not in the Philippines you don't have a rights ! You are too savage!!!😡 . I am also a Filipina , and also a Russian citizens ,but I never felt discrimination.. This video is just for show!!! Ты позор!!!!

  • @dalmonvindusivy8004
    @dalmonvindusivy8004 Год назад +21

    I understand how tough it is experiencing this kind of situation. Great that your husband was good enough to handle it protecting you against these ignorant people. Keep being strong even though!

    • @koyatsu-w9o
      @koyatsu-w9o 3 месяца назад

      I live in Japan and I am married to a Japanese It was painful when you know the language, She is in paradise now congratulations There is no place like home

  • @bunrathong2815
    @bunrathong2815 Год назад +161

    Thank you for protecting your wife and you are a great husband for her.

    • @marygaletiauson1930
      @marygaletiauson1930 Год назад +1

      The first thing you did rightfully is to inform the police not to intervene to these women , that's why the situation becomes worst

    • @marygaletiauson1930
      @marygaletiauson1930 Год назад

      These Russian women are drunk and crazy

    • @MrRobokoper
      @MrRobokoper Год назад

      Im Russian German and i hate evil people!!! I love justis.

    • @steplim9716
      @steplim9716 Год назад

      Mixed emotions... Truly amazing act of self control and humility.. Kudos to both.

  • @pingros5100
    @pingros5100 Год назад +46

    I salute the other Russians there who helped you guys. Even though the 2 women were rude, I was still amazed how kind and fair the train security and other passengers were. Thanks Russian community!

  • @ft1123
    @ft1123 Год назад +10

    fortunately they were kick out...those two women are just horrible...a shame. They should be punished.

  • @adamthegreat2816
    @adamthegreat2816 Год назад +59

    As someone also married to a south East Asian wife I understand how distressing and horrible this must of been. Unfortunately discrimination is common, but remember these are narrow minded and foolish people who evidently have nothing better to do. You both did well given the situation and I wish you every success in the Philippines.

  • @cdb5485
    @cdb5485 Год назад +24

    Racism is everywhere but you have to fight for your right as a human. I’m sorry you have that experience but I’m glad authorities did their job and your husband protects you. Be strong my friend. Life goes on.

    • @rozelbaruela
      @rozelbaruela 2 месяца назад

      Exactly

    • @ПользовательТыТуба
      @ПользовательТыТуба 2 месяца назад

      Well, there was no racism there.. These drunken women assumed that he was a pimp and possibly holding a foreign woman in sexual slavery.. Well, at least that's how they wanted to present it.. But in my opinion, a certain jealousy arose in them that a beautiful young foreigner was with him.. (this is my personal opinion). So they clung to them.. But there was no racism, that's for sure! It's more like drunken hooliganism.. Something like that

  • @cristinadeguiagan3324
    @cristinadeguiagan3324 Год назад +55

    Good decision to live in the Philippines,the weather must be too cold for you and to encounter drunk women in the train must be a traumatic experience. Have a good and happy life in our country. Goodluck to both of you,greetings from Belgium.

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Год назад +10

      Thank you for the wonderful comments, we appreciate them. Unfortunately the winter season is unbearable for me so I am happy that we’re going to live in warm country.

    • @konjo2484
      @konjo2484 Год назад +1

      @@Jonases_20 hahaha

  • @Samir.Sweden8
    @Samir.Sweden8 Год назад +39

    Beautiful couple my Russian brother and my Filipina sister may god protect you from all evil and bad experience. ❤️ love you guys much love from Sweden 🇸🇪❤️

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Год назад +5

      Thank you very much❤️❤️❤️

  • @MikeHoncho884
    @MikeHoncho884 Год назад +4

    You guys did the right thing with those inconsiderate people on the train. They are not worth any more energy.
    You guys are doing the right thing by moving on being happy!!!
    You to have such a bright future !!!

  • @rkdo9554
    @rkdo9554 Год назад +9

    They thought you're being trafficked, but the situation went out of hand. Though these women has to be called out coz they're too loud and they accused your husband of using you, and turned to being racists., you kabayan, also could have been more calm in this kind of situation. Glad you guys are safe.

  • @merysang1
    @merysang1 Год назад +7

    Be humble Girl as long as they dont attack us. Let them first to attack. Then Give what they want.Always remember we need to be flexible. Its ok God is watching🙏🏻 Just Pray.

    • @mylesgarcia4625
      @mylesgarcia4625 10 месяцев назад

      This is kinda bizarre advise. Really doesn't make sense.

  • @pinoyislander4400
    @pinoyislander4400 Год назад +11

    I have watched this vlog from begin to end. Your husband is very loving to you he cared for you and thats impressive. But please as an advice when youre discriminated never cry ( i understand why u cried), because those drunk ladies thought u were defeated by them being rude to u. In Germany I worked there and had experienced also discrimination by racists german. I never cried but I voiced out my anger. Just reason out accordingly so u would not be in danger esp if ur alone traveling. I feel u kabayan and ur husband. Both of u are lovely people. God bless and enjoy Philippines.

  • @wildorchids3657
    @wildorchids3657 Год назад +47

    Boris looks so exhausted in these video...hope he's enjoying his stay now in the Philippines.
    Inspite of these encounters I am impressed how Russian people and authorities deals with it without physical confrontation.

  • @Tashandthecity
    @Tashandthecity Год назад +11

    i felt your pain and i saw your hand was shaking 😢 Glad everything went well ❤❤❤

  • @mikeb9189
    @mikeb9189 Год назад +22

    You guy’s videos are addictive. Trying to catch up on all the episodes. The talent of your narration is immaculate. First class, pro. You are an incredible story teller. Thank you. God bless you two.

  • @Justice1007
    @Justice1007 Год назад +9

    I am Filipino , i love how your husband protecting you , he is a good man , i will admire him very much

  • @rasputinserg9659
    @rasputinserg9659 Год назад +19

    Your husband is a very good person. I watched his videos in Russian. I am very pleased that we are colleagues with him - I also live in the Krasnodar Territory (Sochi). And I am very pleased to watch videos and you and about him.

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Год назад +2

      Yes he is🥰. Thank you for supporting him and also me.

  • @Ymanntronics
    @Ymanntronics Год назад +18

    Your husband seems to be a kind and gentle one. I wish you both all happiness in yor lives. Stay in the Philippines, the people are as warm as the climate!

  • @edwardcook8982
    @edwardcook8982 Год назад +9

    Wow! What an experience. Your husband handled the situation very well. He appears to smart cool but tough - highly schooled behaviorally & emotionally.
    Actually Filipino women don't buckle in a situation like that. They can be a "Manny Paquiao" if being pushed to their limit. That situation brings you couple to be more closer to each other for sure - I truly appreciate appreciate Russia's security protection.

  • @robertlalor8090
    @robertlalor8090 Год назад +6

    Hell hath no fury like a Filipina scorned!!! The behaviour of those woman is reprehensible, particularly for Filipinos. Congratulations on your marriage and move to the Philippines. I look forward to seeing how your lives and adventures flourish. Bless you both.

  • @tonymanning9067
    @tonymanning9067 Год назад +6

    I'm so sorry that it happened to you and your wife.. I just don't understand why people discriminate like that.. I wish you all the best and all the happiness in the world

  • @lindaquisenberry3689
    @lindaquisenberry3689 Год назад +34

    You handled yourself with dignity and not going down to their level. It’s difficult to be in a foreign country and not understand their language. I’m sure you’re relieved that you’re back home and maybe Boris can find a job working at a school teaching art or work into some form of teaching carpentry and such. Hope he can acclimatize to our weather and so with his mother. More power to you and may your love carry you through in your endeavors and may the Lord give you both strength in your lives. ❤️you kapatid🙏🏻

  • @glorecitatan2436
    @glorecitatan2436 Год назад +5

    Very touching...am proud am filipino...yes Filipinos are nice people...ready to help...

  • @roseaujero849
    @roseaujero849 Год назад +10

    Ate girl wag ipakita agad Ang tapang always seek your safety first. Iwas trouble po tayo Lalo nat nasa foreign land tayo.

    • @czpstrana139
      @czpstrana139 3 месяца назад

      That could have applied to a tourist. She was shamed in public. What made it worse was she was shamed in a language that only the bystanders can understand. Those drunk babushkas made her and her husband look so bad. AT hindi niya ipinakita agad ang tapang niya. It is easy to post such a comment, I wonder how you would have reacted if you were in her shoes...

    • @rozelbaruela
      @rozelbaruela 2 месяца назад

      ⁠@@czpstrana139Exactly 👍 of course If will happen to me, I’ll protect my dignity and also I won’t allow such humiliation especially racism I will fight for what is right.💪💪💪

    • @rozelbaruela
      @rozelbaruela 2 месяца назад

      It was easy for you to comment because you weren't in her situation.

  • @skylightism
    @skylightism Год назад +10

    your husband was so calm in the whole incident. laban lang!!

  • @themediterraneanguy
    @themediterraneanguy Год назад +3

    Stay strong , stay together. Unity overcomes hardship , love conquers discrimination. GOD BLESS

  • @ft1123
    @ft1123 Год назад +27

    All the best for this nice and cool and international couple

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Год назад +1

      Thank you very much. All the best to you too😊

  • @alex7777
    @alex7777 Год назад +5

    Нормальное колхозное бабьё 😂😂😂😂 им просто стало завидно 😉😉

  • @marinazolotova-basa
    @marinazolotova-basa Год назад +17

    Such a shame :(( I am so sorry you experienced that in Russia 🙏🏻

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Год назад +1

      Thank you very much Marina😊

    • @Ymanntronics
      @Ymanntronics Год назад +4

      That could happen in any country. It was a bad day for the couple, but I still believe that those 2 women do not represent the characteistics of the Russian people. Warm regards from a Filipino-German in 🇩🇪

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Год назад +3

      @@Ymanntronics we have actually many Russian friends and they are so nice and made me feel welcome🥰.

    • @myrahnaif3163
      @myrahnaif3163 Год назад +1

      Also in Philippines it happened

    • @analizaespiritu3965
      @analizaespiritu3965 Год назад

      Knowing that the two women are in their seniorities.meaning they should respect other people whatever race it is but still the couple seems they still do respect the two women despite what rudity their attitude is.

  • @isagoldfield7393
    @isagoldfield7393 Год назад +5

    I’m really sorry you & your husband have to experience this type of situation. Many blessings to you both & your whole family🌷💜💚💙🌸

  • @chella4218
    @chella4218 Год назад +3

    Meron naman mababait na russian people, naalala ko nag travelled kami papuntang Moscow by train and one of old woman says to me, девочки ты очень красивая in English young lady your so beautiful 😂 natawa nalang ako kasi hindi naman talaga ako maganda, so ayon chikahan lang. Ang pagka intindi ko sa dalawang babae natu is concerned lang sila sayu, peru lang hindi maganda din yong ginagawa nila parang lasing kasi

  • @francispajutan7280
    @francispajutan7280 Год назад +16

    Discrimination is everywhere, not only in Russia. Even in the Philippines. And I’m sure there are lots of good Russians as well…
    I, myself, experienced it here in America.
    A very sensitive issue. But I think he handled it well. Good luck to both of you…

  • @maryjanebaldoz5359
    @maryjanebaldoz5359 Год назад +14

    If they want to be respected, they must know how to respect others.
    #LabyooBhexst 😘😘😘😘

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Год назад +1

      Kalahi ba naman ni manny paquiao ang kinanti nila🤣🤣
      Labyooomore😘

    • @Vladimir_Rus
      @Vladimir_Rus Год назад +1

      @@islandlifebd 😄

    • @snowdogthewolf
      @snowdogthewolf Год назад +1

      Respect others... yes. INVADE! It's the Russian way.

    • @biljanacvjetinovic6204
      @biljanacvjetinovic6204 Год назад

      @@snowdogthewolf shut up!!!

    • @snowdogthewolf
      @snowdogthewolf Год назад +1

      @@biljanacvjetinovic6204 Butthurt easily, do ya? 😆 woof!

  • @maximilianc9897
    @maximilianc9897 Год назад +11

    Hmmm…the women were drunk but it seemed like they were looking after your best interest.
    It sounded very offensive to you being married to your man but it would not be uncommon for Europeans ,or other caucasians for that matter, to abuse asian women or other women outside their race.
    I am sad that this happened to you as it transpired on the video.
    My take watching it was they were only concerned about your well-being and yes…they were drunk.

  • @HellofromBaguio
    @HellofromBaguio Год назад +1

    Your a badass lol. My wife is Philippina also, she's a firecracker like you too. Good for you standing your ground !

  • @MariaShieloNDavid
    @MariaShieloNDavid Год назад +23

    Foreigners should not underestimate Filipinas. We may not understand your language but once we are insulted, we rise up to the occasion.

    • @Realsurvivor_007
      @Realsurvivor_007 Год назад +7

      Women in other countries are jealous if their men married filipinas.That is a big insult for them.

    • @africaine4889
      @africaine4889 Год назад

      I do not think they are jealous. They just know most asian in their country prostitute themselves.
      In africa they are plenty opening massage parlors but behind they do illegal stuf. A lot went sent back im their countries

    • @Realsurvivor_007
      @Realsurvivor_007 Год назад +2

      @@africaine4889asian women are very hard working and they are educated too. That is the wrong prejudice.

    • @doloresonofre2684
      @doloresonofre2684 Год назад

      I second that emotion lol

  • @lhong_journeychannel0813
    @lhong_journeychannel0813 Год назад +2

    Wala sa size ng katawan. Basta Pinay matapang! Laban Darlene. “Sa manlulupig di ka pasisiil” Well on a serious note, I really admired Boris’ calmness. Continue to be in love with each other. New subscriber here 😉

  • @leonorvella7694
    @leonorvella7694 Год назад +5

    You're husband is very calm and gentle. Good on him. You are a lucky girl to marry him.

  • @melyaborot1707
    @melyaborot1707 Год назад +74

    Girl piece of advice when you are outside your country try to avoid trouble as much as you can try to ignore negativity around you...then you can live peacefully i myself living in a foreign land when i just arrived i didn't understand anyword they said then as time goes by i learned their culture and importantly the law of the land your basic rights here n there...thats the time you can try to fight them back when its necessary...the impressions of westerners from ph girl is bad if not worse coz most of them never been out of their country they had limited exposure of other culture...that explains a lot of their behavior towards others. Dont try to fight back not physically a no no no you're not in ph..dont pur yourself in a difficult situation in a foreign land coz you might end up in jail if things gets worst.

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Год назад +29

      Thank you for the advice. I lived most of my life in foreign countries and never had an experience like this before. Maybe my reaction was extreme to some people but you’ll never know how you’re going to react until you’re in that situation already🙂.

    • @ianMcFarlane112
      @ianMcFarlane112 Год назад +14

      its different if trouble comes to you... its wrong just to suck it up even what theyre doing is wrong. Thats what law is for.. it doesnt only apply to foreigners but natives as well. yes there are some of us thats has screws loose in their head.... but many of us are good people...we also speak up if we see something wrong or injustice just like the strangers who stood up for the asian girl here. and you are wrong saying we have limited exposure to other culture .... we travel alot and knew many people along the way and know how to respect other people. Lesson is stand up if youre right even when youre in foreign land or they will just continue to push you over

    • @darlingdenez116
      @darlingdenez116 Год назад

      Russian are a little bit behind of being civilized , they’re been isolated for decades from outside world. They’re ignorant of other cultures .It only changes when communism has been ended🥲

    • @letabass4111
      @letabass4111 Год назад +8

      Very well explained, agreed 100%. “ Choose your battles” I understand and have emphaty on Darlene’s emotion, but what if, she had touched one of the women, and charged with physical assault because she let her emotion took over her and she ended up in jail…🤷‍♀️😢 Boria’s efforts to get out and have a peaceful life in another country would have been a failure😢 I’m glad, that unfortunate situation ended well for them!✨👏 My best for them for a loving, and a peaceful happy marriage.✨🙏

    • @vanessabonde
      @vanessabonde Год назад +1

      Agree!

  • @FeliTongson
    @FeliTongson 9 месяцев назад +1

    Darlene, I understand perfectly how you are feeling, trust me I would have reacted the same manner!!! But Boris being the kind and sensible man that he is tried to diffuse the situation by being calm and patient and not losing his temper. Way to go Boris!! Having migrated to the US, trust me, we are subject to discrimination but if we show them that we are good people, we prevail and succeed!!!!🎉🎉

  • @Zanna_pr
    @Zanna_pr Год назад +3

    у Бориса какая-то особенность есть - то стычки с казаками,то конфликты с женщинами....Бывают такие люди. Борис,я желаю Вам понять себя,Бог Вам в помощь!

  • @imargenthat6694
    @imargenthat6694 Год назад +3

    I am 3 months late watching this video but I really cried my heart out seeing you crying. I can really relate this situation. Until now, I still keep on fighting for this discrimination to give a better life for my children.

  • @curtisgregory517
    @curtisgregory517 Год назад +14

    Sadly, here in the USA many are this way, but they are two-faced, a big smile to you, they will make you think they like you, then when out of your view they speak and do things against you. they are very cunning and know how to use this very effectively, leaving no evidence of their actions.

    • @eileenwu5049
      @eileenwu5049 Год назад

      Hahahaha

    • @curtisgregory517
      @curtisgregory517 Год назад +1

      @@eileenwu5049 ?❓😀

    • @DQ_Mine
      @DQ_Mine Год назад +1

      Most people in the USA are not racist. It is normal and very common to have people from all countries. Only certain people, especially in the South, can be racist.

  • @FrederikEngelmand
    @FrederikEngelmand Год назад +4

    what a heartbreaking scene to watch. but glad he chose to stay calm despite his (as a man i felt the same since my gf is vietnamese) urge to stop it himself. waiting for the police to solve it was the right move

  • @teodorojaranilla5008
    @teodorojaranilla5008 Год назад

    wow...what a day in the train...but it showed also how good it is that DARLENE has a kind, protective husband , Boris...we FILIPINOS thank you ..Darlene ...you are the BEST...no wonder you are loved!!

  • @jacksonj3082
    @jacksonj3082 Год назад +11

    Dear Darlene - I think you are a very brave person and willing to take responsibilities to help your family. Maybe I am wrong, but I might have an idea why you were so upset and angry when those very distasteful women on the train insinuated that you were a massage girl. Seeing your videos that your moved to Malaysia to help your family. And seeing you at your home, you likely grew up under challenging conditions - nevertheless I reckon you made the best of the situation and that you and your family did your best to put food on the table and help you get to where you are today. It is amazing that you became the main provider helping to send your sisters to go to university.
    No doubt, others in similar condition in the Philippines (and Thailand and many other countries) might have choose a different path, to work in the entertainment and sex industry to survive - which is nothing to be ashamed about. But, and I am guessing, maybe you did your best to avoid that type of life. So when those terrible women thought you were a massage girl, it must have caused a reaction in you because you have worked hard to have a different life. Don't worry about what those stupid women said, and don't worry if people think you are from the entertainment industry - you are a GOOD person. And people who work in the entertainment and sex industry only do so to get ahead, to survive and help their families - that is totally OK too and they are also good people.
    Please just concentrate on your new life with your husband and continue to do your best, I know you will find happiness ! You are an intelligent, good, and hard working person and I am proud of you. Please know unfortunately that there are cruel people all over the world , as an Asian living in the US I have experienced racism since I was a child and though I still find racism towards me painful, I have learned to look the other way - it is not worth violence and anger. Keep being a good person that you are, you will do fine. You have incredible wealth in a lovely family - I envy you. An admirer of yours and your family from the US. 😀

  • @charth777
    @charth777 Год назад +4

    Sorry to see this awkward situation. Glad these two women moved out! Take care always!

  • @IamtnrofUSA
    @IamtnrofUSA Год назад +3

    Ahhh…
    HUMANS: good or bad
    It’s too bad & too sad this happened. It’s heartbreaking & disgusting!💔😡
    For as long as we walk the grounds of this wonderful earth… there is no guarantee that this kind of ugly behavior(s) will go away.
    One goes out & another comes in.
    Say a prayer for the nasties that one day they may see the light of righteousness.
    Your cool demeanor how you handled the situation showed your true, good, polished human character.👍🏼👍🏼
    God bless you both & your families.
    ❤️🙏🏼&✌🏼🌏

  • @vladimirzinoviev
    @vladimirzinoviev Год назад +2

    Дарлин, удачи вам , любите друг друга.! Подписался. Из России ❤

  • @mykodack
    @mykodack Год назад +2

    No one deserves to be treated like that .. I am so proud of your husband for protecting you .. good man

  • @ladyesther3400
    @ladyesther3400 Год назад +1

    I commend your husband for his dedication to preserve the history of his homeland or city. Such tasks would require a lot of money. What your husband needs is a philanthropist who supports the same ideology. I can see your husband has great ideas of putting a god-forsaken city in a road map. Such may not work in his birthplace but I am sure there are other places who would be open to his great ideas - where he would find like-minded people. For now, you have a great RUclips channel with great island lives content. For now, learn to monetize your RUclips channel. Who knows you & your husband will be able to raise the funds he needs for whatever advocacy he chooses. Your mother-in-law is a strong woman, very kind with beautiful demeanor, as beautiful as she is. I pray the simplicity of island life will keep them happy and fulfilled. God bless!

  • @beatricealbo6385
    @beatricealbo6385 Год назад +2

    YOUR HUSBAND IS A GOOD MAN !!! LOVE HIM & KEEP HIM FOREVER IN UR LIFE ! GOD BLESS YOU BOTH !

  • @tinggotmey152
    @tinggotmey152 Год назад +3

    Yes we are so nice but once they push buttons it becomes too much. We can't hold our anger or emotion.. We filipinos are not used to that . Discrimination and just racism. . If they act like that for a long time its hard not to react. We're not used to it bc we don't come across alot of that in our country. your husband has so much patience. Kudos to him .and to the man who defended you both.

  • @crestfinancehrconsulting6727
    @crestfinancehrconsulting6727 Год назад +2

    This similar incident also happened in our country New Zealand where a local man/boy rode a train shouting to a Chinese migrant without justifiable reasons. When the train conductor knows the incident, he reported the matter to the train driver/manager and the train stopped. The troublesome man was advised to get out of the train, which he did.

  • @rodalynrarogal8803
    @rodalynrarogal8803 Год назад +3

    Rudeness in people is really devastating once you yelp for defense you lose. Put em aside in diplomacy &silence & they lose everything.

  • @emelieagustin2046
    @emelieagustin2046 Год назад +2

    I admire both of you for being simple and humble. Stay.nice and humble . God will lift you up.

  • @NiniBunini88
    @NiniBunini88 Год назад +1

    Lakas ng trip nang dalawang babae .. very good to your husband that he kept so calm (but your reaction emotionally was understandable)
    and ended up the two women to the police 👍 (from Paris)

  • @BenjieBiyahengPilipinas
    @BenjieBiyahengPilipinas Год назад +4

    Wow! What a terrible experience! Godspeed to both of you!

  • @sadeivillegas7627
    @sadeivillegas7627 Год назад +2

    I experience the same, my husband reported it to the Police, I was really offended when a group of teenagers mistaken me as a Chinese and told me that I brought the Virus in the country.

  • @atejingldrcoach
    @atejingldrcoach Год назад +8

    I dont think that this women are insulting you, they are just trying to asked if your man practiced prostitution and you will be a possible victim.
    As I undertood on what they are saying, they are just concern on you and its not polite being a foreigner to swear them or call them bitch first. Its you who are causing trouble and your man filming them without permission.
    For me as Filipina also but citizen now here in Russia, you should stay silent and avoid direct confrontation to people that can possibly put you in trouble specially when you cant understand what they are saying.
    When you are in other country, when you are a foreign person on a land you are in, specially with no better understanding on the language that citizens spoken, try to practice our calm, respectful and polite attitude being a filipino.
    Because when you will be in a foreign land, it will be not you anymore.
    You will be a filipina already, you will represent our race already so be careful on showing your claws, put it in the right place and in the right time. Avoid being entitled just because our husband's loves us and they can protect us, because of doing so..... You dont know, you will put him in trouble also.
    Just a piece of advice from a filipina who are massage therapist here in Russia but being loved of Russian citizens. Calling you a massage therapist just because you are a filipina is not a thing that you should react exaggerated, its a decent job.

    • @sherrylybanez9336
      @sherrylybanez9336 Год назад +4

      👏👏👏👏👏👏 so true dai. I am super agree 💯💯💯💯.

    • @LutscheLumpia
      @LutscheLumpia Год назад +3

      👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @rozelbaruela
      @rozelbaruela 2 месяца назад +2

      Case to case basis. It was easy for you to say that because you were not in her shoes.

  • @fhf482
    @fhf482 Год назад +1

    Good luck ate, I hope you found happiness in our country..

  • @sharimahigab1292
    @sharimahigab1292 Год назад +1

    It was good you stood up for yourself. You showed them you are strong. You didn’t back down. Bravo

  • @deemoonmarstar6801
    @deemoonmarstar6801 Год назад +1

    I also can relate to that, the important thing Is ur husband is there to protect u, we cannot control how people feels in some type of way towards us. Basta anjan Lang si hubby u that's all that matters

  • @bellaliggayu
    @bellaliggayu Год назад +1

    I am very sorry for all the humiliation you endured Dalene. God in His goodness will bless you. Stay well with Boris and mama Katya.

  • @ДенисПрокофьев-у6щ

    Это видео нужно показывать как еще одну причину выбрать жену-филиппинку :). Такой дикости я даже представить не мог. Сочувствую, прям испанский стыд какой-то. Кстати, собираюсь на Филиппины, надеюсь получится это сделать. I like to see videos in English, you didn't speak very quickly and I can understand a lot from your stories. Sorry for stupids - they happen in Russia... sometimes.

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Год назад +5

      Hello, Denis. Thank you for your kind words. This incident didn’t affect what I think about Russia, it is still a very beautiful country for me. We wish you all the best and we hope your journey to the Philippines will go smoothly❤️.

    • @ДенисПрокофьев-у6щ
      @ДенисПрокофьев-у6щ Год назад +1

      @UC0ppJ9HSvVpqlM6uvmIqysQ Thanks... ok, what is about Internet there? I would work distantly and need in a constant connection. What the situation about it? Is Internet in Philippines better with every year or it is in stagnation?

    • @wildorchids3657
      @wildorchids3657 Год назад +1

      @@ДенисПрокофьев-у6щ Philippines not very good internet connection
      And very slow in the province.

    • @pamelagarlito7149
      @pamelagarlito7149 Год назад

      These women says like that because they used to work like probably somewhere in Arab countries. Mostly Ukrainian, Russian, Uzbekistan,Georgian and Romanian girls they work prostitution and for massages in Arab world, along with Moroccan girls. They are very well-known in Arab world as dirty girls for money. Asked any Arab men and women either Jordan, Lebanon and the rest

    • @louellag.3256
      @louellag.3256 Год назад +1

      @@ДенисПрокофьев-у6щ we have good internet where I live. I work online and I have no problem.

  • @marijolivitzky4336
    @marijolivitzky4336 Год назад +3

    What a relief for you and your husband! Thank goodness!

  • @Z.Onyeze
    @Z.Onyeze Год назад +9

    Just saw your video . First, I want to say Congratulations on finding true love and may you have many,many years forever together. Now, I want to say that I believe,as a human being, that no one deserves to be disrespected because of any difference in culture,social status ,or religious differences. Thank you for showing "GREAT RESTRAINT " against sheer stupidity and blatant ignorance that is NOT an example of all Russian people. Just the truly miserable. Like the saying goes" Misery loves company..." and these two idiots are examples. Bravo to the other travelers who had decency and humanity about themselves to speak up and even show kindness. From my heart to both of you, thank you for showing extraordinary valor and never stop loving each other.

  • @methinks8175
    @methinks8175 Год назад +1

    Didn't expect you to lower yourself to their level of mentality. Thankfully Boris ìs a sensible person.

  • @lesolei65
    @lesolei65 Год назад +1

    Well done from your husband. He stay calm but fight for you. It is everywhere, sad but it's true. I wish both of you a great life together. God bless you and your family.😇😇😇

  • @gerarddelacruz2045
    @gerarddelacruz2045 Год назад +3

    I’m glad you fought back , We Filipinos do not stand for oppression , I live in US , Russians I know do not act that way , I’m sure you can attest to that for you are married to a good Russian man, unfortunately ignorance runs in all clots . Ingat ka sa journey mo Ate

    • @accountdeleted582
      @accountdeleted582 Год назад

      Both of the ladies are drunk
      They are not in their senses

  • @g.b.5206
    @g.b.5206 Год назад +2

    I'm merged to a Filippina for almost 30 years, they are great people and loving friend if you respect them they will go out of their way to help, Russians have lived a life of struggle and unhappiness very different from Philippine that are always happy

  • @narlenetiu4518
    @narlenetiu4518 Год назад +10

    So sad about the situation that you’ve encounter. I’ll be pissed off too but thanks to your husband’s patience that he didn’t go down to their level. I’m glad that the passengers were there to support you. Your husband is such a man with principles. Good luck on your future wherever you want to settle down for good 🤞

  • @nanaywaray966
    @nanaywaray966 Год назад +1

    So many discrimination for us Filipino in the foreign land! But if foreigners come to Philippines we welcome them with smile 😅 !

  • @natadodo1564
    @natadodo1564 Год назад +153

    Control yourself girl, violence is not the answer. Especially if your in a foreign land. Never put your hands first to others. Act professionally even in this situation. Let your husband handle the situation because he speaks the language.

    • @StrawberryMilkkTeaa
      @StrawberryMilkkTeaa Год назад +8

      Agreed.

    • @irishey0801
      @irishey0801 Год назад +3

      True

    • @Annyeonghigaseyo
      @Annyeonghigaseyo Год назад +8

      I dont think so kaw kya twagin prosti tingnn ntin kung di ka manggalaiti sa glit. Kulang p nga gnwa nya, kya nga mdli sa knla bumilly dhil akla nila you can't defend urself na aanga anga lng.

    • @natadodo1564
      @natadodo1564 Год назад +11

      @@Annyeonghigaseyo alam mo ba ang professionalism on how to handle the situation like that in a non violent way? pero kung hindi ka professional puede ka makipagsabayan.

    • @Annyeonghigaseyo
      @Annyeonghigaseyo Год назад +7

      @@natadodo1564 may nllman kpng professional. Akla mo nmn inaapply nu tlga. Look at them when the pinay was furious, they seemed calm down. Albeit calling them "bitch"infront of many people sounds upsetting. However, accusing our kababayan working as a prostitute was injustice and freaking slur, they deserved to be called "bitch" and other passengers will understand her, esp how rude it was talking to their own language in disrepectful way.

  • @filipinamoroccanfamily
    @filipinamoroccanfamily Год назад +5

    I'm so sad with what those people are talking about you. It was a very bad experienced. Stay blessed

  • @travelw.b12oo3
    @travelw.b12oo3 Год назад +1

    Omg this is crazy!!! Haha, thank God girl you are now in the Philippines!!!

  • @curtisgregory517
    @curtisgregory517 Год назад +3

    Alcohol, it is an excellent "truth serum" ,,, here is a very clear example.
    These two women are SAYING OUT LOUD their heart felt thoughts about this couple. If they were sober, they would carefully hide their raciest jealousy and ignorance with a false smile.

  • @jillclarke7264
    @jillclarke7264 Год назад +1

    Good husband, remain calm and protect your team. Nice couple.

  • @homerlim9995
    @homerlim9995 Год назад +3

    O wish you two the best of luck and props to your husband for keeping it real

  • @wadedavies3924
    @wadedavies3924 Год назад +2

    Hilarious. I rode the train from Moscow to Yalta in 1993 and had a blast. I was single then though and wouldn't consider doing it with my wife.

  • @maryanienhuis8926
    @maryanienhuis8926 Год назад +6

    The girl have to learn the law in the other country as foreigner, you cannot hit even that women insulted you. We have to calm down and have a class.
    Glad the husband is very calm.

  • @jsmith_01
    @jsmith_01 Год назад +11

    Oh Darlene . we are in the same boat . A Filipina who is married to a Russian and also doing a vlog.
    good thing , both of you recorded what happened . it's really hard to deal with such people 🥺🥺
    be safe , both of you . I'm already your new subscriber. ❤️

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Год назад +2

      Thank you very much🤗. Be safe and Merry Christmas.

  • @tyrape
    @tyrape Год назад +3

    Working abroad taught me never to lay hand even ur angry, i know its insuting but u just have to be composed when ur out of philippines i learned it the hard way, especially im working in the arab country where we are taught w high discipline.

  • @marilouandulithepinayalemandre

    Wow heads up for your hubby langga, he is so control, his voice even on this situation is so calm, oh my God i was teary when you cried, even me i think i would resback might be with my mouth but not with the hands, you will encounter the discrimination everywhere in this world darling so just be strong and ready.Watching from Germany.

  • @rovelynsunio7466
    @rovelynsunio7466 Год назад +1

    Descrimanation is everywhere, especially language and culture they thought that filipina are lowered than they expect but you don't know that we have a lot of patience to those people who're descrimate us, we respect people if you respect us and we fight peaple who are not disrespected us I hope Russian people are openminded like this husband of filipina girl..don't descrimate our language and culture that's why too much people in this world are sinners and judgemental eventhough we don't know each other..SPREAD LOVE, UNITY and PEACE NO TO WAR!!! Watching from Philippine s

  • @kiwipinos
    @kiwipinos Год назад +2

    This is the same here in Australia, with my Filipina wife & also myself a New Zealander, it is horrible. Women in the west acting like this, watch legion of men & many other vlogs & you will quickly learn how messed up it is.
    When we went to Philippines I fell in love with it there so much! People actually want to know about you & where you are from.
    We cannot wait to get our kids over there to live soon in Bolinao Pangasinan!
    Australia is so inhospitable & the youth crime & cost of living is terrible.
    Google all the racist rants on public transport in australia you will be shocked.
    In saying all this, you would have to be very naive to not know also the reason why these women think this..
    my wife was used by a foreign man & I have seen the disrespect by his Australian family towards her & her family also.

  • @wonder2394
    @wonder2394 Год назад +3

    I'm proud to be a Filipino...if ever I will be born again I still want to be a Filipino.

  • @Mexishark909
    @Mexishark909 Год назад +2

    Awww Don't worry about it man!!! You are safe in Philippines and half that ladies family will be visiting Ukraine and probably staying there. Ive been seeing a ton of Russians in Tijuana these days, hopefully Russian communities in San Diego and TJ will grow. Russian restaurants in L.A. are far and in between.

    • @TitB1199
      @TitB1199 Год назад

      No he isn't.

    • @Mexishark909
      @Mexishark909 Год назад

      @Kerghan Phillipines isn't that bad I lived there

  • @m3Lnavigator
    @m3Lnavigator Год назад +1

    Kabayan be strong kamuntik ka na magwala mabuti na control mo pa din basta tandaan mo lang kapag nasa ibang bansa huwag ka mauna mamisikal pero kapag sila nauna manakit natural lang na depensahan mo sarili mo. Pero kung salitaan lang hayaan mo na or kung naiintidihan mo wika nila makipag salitaan ka din basta walang pisikalan. Ganyan talaga sa ibang bansa lahat ng OFWs at ibang turistang Pinoy nakararanas ng ganyan. Pagpasensyahan mo na lang hanggat kaya.

  • @madona370
    @madona370 Год назад +1

    No, always take the high road, girl...don't go down to that level.

  • @ellamae6360
    @ellamae6360 Год назад +5

    The women are actually worried that you are being trafficked or used. Wag kayo magalit sa kanila. Concerned lang. Kung lasing mahirap kausapin.

    • @Lgu807
      @Lgu807 Год назад +1

      Yeah parang ganon ang pa ka intindi ko

    • @你好-f8l
      @你好-f8l Год назад +2

      Exactly! uso kc yan Kahit saang bansa yung papakasalan at dadalhin sa ibang bansa then binebenta pala online Lalo mga bata pang babe. Concern itong mga Russian woman kc nakita nila bata pa c Darlene at Mukhang inosente.

  • @AdamKidd1972
    @AdamKidd1972 Год назад +2

    I feel sorry for your Filipino wife having deal with those two drunk racist women. People think cause you marry and live overseas its for all the wrong reasons. They don't understand people just fall in love wanting to live happy life together. I live in Thailand happily married for ten years now. I don't think I would bring my wife to America cause I would lose my temper with those type of people. Fine line in keeping your composer and going to jail. I salute you for keeping your cool and your wife had good reason to be upset. I hope you both are living a happy life in the Philippines together away from others drama. 🙂

  • @serenangpalaka
    @serenangpalaka Год назад +3

    you don't want to insult a Filipina. im telling you. even this girl is outside Philippines she will fight to the death. and the officers who handled those bad russian women thank you so much. and for sir boris thank you for handling the situation calmly.

  • @mariellegrace_cacho8696
    @mariellegrace_cacho8696 Год назад +1

    To my Fellow Kababayan that is a good idea that you guys going back to Philippines because people are not Discriminate.

  • @janebangkok1
    @janebangkok1 Год назад +7

    Actually, the 2 women are concerned on your safety thinking you are a victim of your husband hehe. Your husband was the one discriminated as being involved on prostitution. I dont know why he didnt say you are married thats why those women created a scene.

  • @kfern8923
    @kfern8923 Год назад +27

    Maybe the women thought that you're being trafficked, be thankful that although they are russian they were concerned for you since you are a woman. I do understand their sentiments because you looked too young to be your husband's wife, so that's why they took a video of you and tried to call the police.

    • @seyerfamtv
      @seyerfamtv Год назад

      Don't forget they are drunktards

    • @NORMZS8
      @NORMZS8 Год назад +1

      who traffic people on open transport with hundred people ..hahaha

    • @athenstar10
      @athenstar10 Год назад +2

      ​​@@NORMZS8 It's Russia. Human traficking still exists in Eastern European countries, nomatter how discrete or ordinary things look like. I understand the point of those women but they don't have to confront people like that.

    • @robadventure8007
      @robadventure8007 Год назад +2

      I think so too...they might be drunk but just thinking that you are being traffic! You are just overwhelmed by your emotions. Good that your husband just tried to stop and calm you and the annoying women!🙏

  • @LutscheLumpia
    @LutscheLumpia Год назад +6

    Я не вижу никакой дискриминации в этом видео, очевидно, что если муж беспокоился о том, что его жена находится в России, он должен был научить ее языку, потому что эти местные женщины пытались сказать Дарлин уважать себя, а не этого мужчину. Мужчина на самом деле снимал незнакомцев без их согласия, а затем очень быстро обострил ситуацию. Филиппинка, которая не понимала всего разговора, обиделась, а затем внезапно стала агрессивной, называя незнакомцев «Сука» и «Bitch», готовая к нападению, была классическим способом увидеть ее истинное отношение в подобной ситуации.

    • @junlab2612
      @junlab2612 Год назад +1

      thats not discrimination, thats humiliation... like what they did to Ukraine

  • @coffeecrave7780
    @coffeecrave7780 Год назад +3

    I salute your braveness! For all the uncertainty of traveling and life awaits, I can see in you two how resilient you give back. Praying for wonderful and peaceful life ahead to your new life in the Philippines.