I feel like the mother goes so hard for the son because he won't do it for himself. And i can't blame her. The wife is abusing him and wants no one to say anything about it. And yes a woman can abuse a man as well. Too much.
My big little brother was being emotionally and mentally abused by his wife. Homegirl wound up in the hospital. We don't know what happened to her to this day 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️, but she's not with our brother anymore.
CAN YOU IMAGINE ONE'S WIFE BROUGHT HER BOYFRIEND TO SLEEP WITH TO YOUR HOME JUST BECAUSE SHE'S SORRY FOR HIM AND YOU THE HUSBAND IS COOL WITH IT? MEN!!! YOU ARE NOT A MAN BOY AND HOPE SHE THOROUGHLY DEALT WITH YOU. AM NOT SORRY FOR HIM.
No judge, he aint the father or the daddy. He needs to get as far away from that woman as possible. Stop telling these doormat of men to stay and ruin their lives.
The baby at the time was four months old. Yes, they have bonded but if he leaves now and divorces her it's not like the kid will have abandonment issues. The bio dad needs to step up.
@@bahaar2825 If a woman was in an abusive relationship the judge and most people would tell her to get rid of him. Unfortunately he is in an abusive relationship with a narcissist who will continue to degrade, disrespect, and use him. This child has a father out there and deserves to have him in his life. His biological father is the person who should be responsible for paying child support. This man's life won't magically get better by staying with her and or trying to co-parent with her. This man's mental health will impact his ability to parent the child.
@@bahaar2825 no one is saying it's the baby fault but it's not the man's fault either that the child isn't his. He should not feel guilty about not being a father to a child that is not his.
@@Triferus I am sorry but human beings are not disgusting urchins. This kind of negative thinking has been instilled in us for a very long time. It is about time we remove this demagogue ideology from our minds and hearts and understand our role in the universe which is being compassionate not only to others but also to ourselves. Thank you.
@@bahaar2825 My point still stands. It was wording, aggressive wording that, sure, didnt help my point. It's not someone's job to care for a kid that isnt their kid.
@@iamergoproxy3476 I'm a woman. I don't understand how the judge could shame him into staying with any woman who did what this woman did to this man. I also can't understand her guilting him into continuing to be there for that child.
As a women, the judge shames the men into staying almost every time and more often then not they should NOT stay! Especially with women like her who can't keep her legs closed, poor guy. I hope he finds someone who actually loves him enough to be faithful to only him.
I hate when she tells the man to be the father of a child that is not theirs. Let the man decide for his self if he wants to raise the child as his own.
He can't do that. As long as he signed the birth certificate, he is obligated to bear the responsibilities as the father. He may petition the court to emancipate him but it would take time.
Judge needs to stop advising these men to stick around. This is literally a God-given opportunity to leave. They should exercise discernment and start a new and happy home of their own with a faithful partner. No human being deserves to be treated that way and then manipulated to stay. That's very wrong.
I love Judge Lake, but that’s not fair to guilt trip him like that! Where’s the homeless boyfriend? Where’s his test? Dude is free and clear of this woman who will not change because she only sees justification of her actions. I am disappointed!
Judge never tells women to stay with cheating men but ALWAYS guilting these men to stay with cheating women why ...she so bias and don't respect men's feelings in the situation
I am upset that she gave him such toxic advice. I hope he listened to his mom and ran. Otherwise he is now in a trailer somewhere with her, 2 bfs and 3 more kids.
It’s never a ladies fault....you’ll see her get on to ladies but then tell the dude to stay and put up with the BS!! The judge ain’t fooling me, this SIMP should RUUUUUN!
The girlfriend has a lot of stress making so much drama that it’s starting to show. She cheated. The kid isn’t his yet she’s angry as if he had cheated on her.
I think she only did it because she knows he’s not going anywhere. If he didn’t leave her or kick her boyfriend out of the house when he caught them screwing, he will never leave her.
@@moak08He was mentally abused. It can happen to both a man and a woman. And I remember seeing his FB or Instagram or something. He is happy now, married and has his own child. He was just too young to get married and manipulated by that trailer trash for years. I agree with the mom. She got him out of that toxic relationship and now he is so much happier.
The judge telling him to remember his current emotions and saying the child will feel the same emotions is so messed up. You’re guilt tripping a broken man to stay in an abusive relationship. That is terrible advice. And he’s a baby... if Mr Riley left now he wouldn’t be remembered and his real father could step in.
I'll be getting a lawyer that'll handle my divorce and child issue..He can still be in the child life but she most definitely wouldn't have me financially responsible for him...
Jessica LeBlanc he needs to divorce her and get sole custody. he'd get it too, bc her actions make her unfit and her lifestyle is detrimental to the child's wellbeing.
He did seem like a very good man, he also seemed like a doormat and completely willing to be stepped on. And that’s very upsetting honestly, he deserves so much better than her. I just hope he realizes that for himself someday. 😞
@@uhRevoke you know why men become spineless and weak. these guys have been rejected their whole lives. and then the second they get even a sliver of love and affection from someone, they attach to it. so every time it seems like that sliver is about vanish, they start doing more and more to keep it there which in turn makes them do stuff no normal man would do. they keep getting their broken over and over again but stay because they still see that sliver of love they got from this person. these are good kind hearted men who are stuck in this vortex of lies infidelity and lust and keep getting pummelled by the vindictive women. so no hes not a spineless man. hes a broken man and he was broken by the woman he loved and gave his heart to.
I can never understand the way some people think 💔 How do you let your wife bring her boyfriend to the house and how is the wife still so flippant after cheating so openly
Lizz totally agree that the baby is innocent. However, should the man’s life come at the expense of a baby that’s not his and being tied to a reckless mama for the rest of his life? Why shouldn’t he be allowed to go out there go to school, get an amazing job, find a loving wife and raise kids that are his own? Why should he forfeit his life?
I know how it feels when you wish to run but for some reason you are stuck I have been there and am still Here is because of the love you have for this person and they are the ones that will hurt you most 😢😞
As a woman I must say if the man is NOT the father. LET THAT MAN GO AND LIVE AND HAVE A BIOLOGICAL CHILD WITH A WOMAN WHO CAN LOVE &SUPPORT HIS FEELINGS. Take the L sis. Fun comes with after math. 😢😢
I agree. The wife is toxic and this baby is too young to remember him if he leaves now. The child will be more traumatized a few years down the road, as well as being exposed to the bickering.
Judge is a ridiculous human being for pressuring him to stay. Put that pressure on the real dad and let this man get away from the people who are hurting him.
I don't blame the mother for interfering it must be hard as mother to continuously watch a fellow woman just toy with your son like that, that man, God bless his soul is Weak! The less said about that vile woman the better.
If he chose to stay great , but I was not a fan of the guilty trip the judge pulled at the very end. It’s not his child and he doesn’t have to feel guilty if he doesn’t want to raise it. Plus what’s to stop her from trying to use his love for the child as a weapon later on.
The judge should have told that young man to leave that terrible situation and get his life together. That female was a corrosive entity. He needs time away from her to heal.
How on Earth do you sleep around like that and get offended when people question paternity? Internet fertility pills? This child stands zero chances in life.
This judge is enabling wicked women and justifying their wickedness on good men. He should not and I repeat should not raise that child. What a witch of a wife
@@princesaofjudah because it's not his and he owes nothing to her or the child. Being linked to this toxic woman in any way shape or form will ultimately destroy his life, he needs to get out, especially as the baby will have ZERO recollection of him and no harm will be done. If he stays it may backfire on the child as dad may up and leave later on when the kid does understand what's going on, or cut ties with the mother when he reaches his breaking point, which he will.
Ariella Young She should advise him to not make that decision until his emotions have calmed down. It’s easy to get swept up in the moment and want to look honorable but as long as men are complicit in this type of scandalous behavior it will definitely continue.
Soooo just to clarify, this dude gets cheated on three times, raises a kid that isn't his, and now is told to keep being the father by not only the b*tch that cheated on him but also the judge who should helping him? Umm, anyone else getting a Jim Carrey: Me, myself, and Irene vibe here?
I wonder if the judge had a son in this situation would she tell him to stay in this toxic, disrespectful relationship/environment? It is so amazing to me how she encourages men to stay in messed-up relationships for a baby that is not theirs. That is a decision they need to make for themselves. SMH
She asked her husband for her boyfriend to live with them??? Man, a cheater like this has NO respect for you, you should leave her alone and find yourself a better woman!
Judge Lake, you are an awesome judge that keeps us coming every day, but what happened to finding the real father because he deserves to know? Is PC now encouraging men to stay in toxic situations to give the child a dad? Not right.
She isn't a real judge. Look it up. She's an actor and nothing about this is legally binding until it's presented in front of a real judge in a real courtroom.
That was a one night stand. Not the live in boyfriend. I think the husband consented to the boyfriend to give their marriage a child. Its comes at an emotional expense which he was and Is willing to Pay to have a child with his wife. This story is as old as Time. Adam and Eve and her love affair with what God called the man Beautiful Morning Star, a Serpent. Then made him to slither on the ground.
This man needs to leave his wife, one she does not even know the father. You will never trust this woman again. And you have no rights she will use the baby against you as long as you are with her. I really hope this man leaves her
Ms. Tammy looks younger than her son’s wife. Go head, mama!
Girl doesn't she look good
@Megan Tamba-Modandi élève
Alright now ladies dont yall start!
Mama has it going on. Beautiful lady.
If I were him, I'd happily go home with mummy and have her shower me with love. And I would do the same to her, if you catch my drift.
Yep
Judge needs to stop telling these guys to raise kids that arent theirs
I was mad that she guilted him about staying for that kid. Big mad.
True enough 🤷🏾♀️
I agree! That kind of decision is HUGE and not a decision to be made lightly!!!
And, why didn’t they test the boyfriend???
"It's called a REAL man ".......... yeah ok
Yes I'm so over that! They deserve to move on to someone who will actually appreciate them and to raise a family that's actually their's!
His wife isn't going to change, he needs to listen to his mom
You right she not going to change
From what I see in this comment section finally, 1 year ago he already leave (definitely they end up in divorce) his wife.
@@justgotlucky_24
Thanks so much for the update! I wondered if he'd leave her.
Exactly.
Ya'll act like y'all can't feel this Mothers pain.. if a woman messed over my son like this I'll be the same way..
danielle tumblin Me too!
Yes, she is in momma bear mode.
Yeph.
He's not her son, he's her 'man'. She's too much in his business. When she said, "He's coming home with me!" that told it all.
I'd probably be worse.. ain't gon let nobody do my child like that.. plus imma have a serious talk with my child...
I feel like the mother goes so hard for the son because he won't do it for himself. And i can't blame her. The wife is abusing him and wants no one to say anything about it. And yes a woman can abuse a man as well. Too much.
My big little brother was being emotionally and mentally abused by his wife. Homegirl wound up in the hospital. We don't know what happened to her to this day 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️, but she's not with our brother anymore.
He has no backbone and very low self esteem. No real man would let another man in his home.
Right! Women abuse men too. She was abusing him mentally, psychologically, and emotionally.
Anbrianna Dixon exactly
CAN YOU IMAGINE ONE'S WIFE BROUGHT HER BOYFRIEND TO SLEEP WITH TO YOUR HOME JUST BECAUSE SHE'S SORRY FOR HIM AND YOU THE HUSBAND IS COOL WITH IT? MEN!!! YOU ARE NOT A MAN BOY AND HOPE SHE THOROUGHLY DEALT WITH YOU. AM NOT SORRY FOR HIM.
The judge had no right into making him feel guilty if he decided to leave. He has every right to.
Agreed, and unfortunately she does this in a lot of other videos with guys who aren’t the father and deserve way better than the current relationship.
No judge, he aint the father or the daddy. He needs to get as far away from that woman as possible. Stop telling these doormat of men to stay and ruin their lives.
Yes but that innocent baby needs a father who will love and care for him like his own.
He doesn't have to accept the wife, but he can still adopt the little boy. Love is the greatest gift one can give to a child.
The baby at the time was four months old. Yes, they have bonded but if he leaves now and divorces her it's not like the kid will have abandonment issues. The bio dad needs to step up.
@@bahaar2825 If a woman was in an abusive relationship the judge and most people would tell her to get rid of him. Unfortunately he is in an abusive relationship with a narcissist who will continue to degrade, disrespect, and use him. This child has a father out there and deserves to have him in his life. His biological father is the person who should be responsible for paying child support. This man's life won't magically get better by staying with her and or trying to co-parent with her. This man's mental health will impact his ability to parent the child.
@@bahaar2825 he does,it should be with his biological father.
Judge Lauren please STOP attaching these men to babies that aren’t there especially where the mother’s no good
Yes but it is not the babies' fault. They are completely innocent and should never be punished for their parents' immaturity.
@@bahaar2825 no one is saying it's the baby fault but it's not the man's fault either that the child isn't his. He should not feel guilty about not being a father to a child that is not his.
@@bahaar2825 But he isnt the kids parent. By your logic it's the job of men to take in every random disgusting urchin they see, it isnt.
@@Triferus I am sorry but human beings are not disgusting urchins. This kind of negative thinking has been instilled in us for a very long time. It is about time we remove this demagogue ideology from our minds and hearts and understand our role in the universe which is being compassionate not only to others but also to ourselves. Thank you.
@@bahaar2825 My point still stands. It was wording, aggressive wording that, sure, didnt help my point. It's not someone's job to care for a kid that isnt their kid.
How could you Judge? Haven't he suffer enough? Why shame him into staying with her wife for a child that isn't his? You trick him.
She is a woman...does that really have to be spelled out
@@iamergoproxy3476 I'm a woman. I don't understand how the judge could shame him into staying with any woman who did what this woman did to this man. I also can't understand her guilting him into continuing to be there for that child.
As a women, the judge shames the men into staying almost every time and more often then not they should NOT stay! Especially with women like her who can't keep her legs closed, poor guy. I hope he finds someone who actually loves him enough to be faithful to only him.
Methinks you've committed far greater crimes Macbeth! Regicide to name but one.🤣😂🤣😂
True
I hate when she tells the man to be the father of a child that is not theirs. Let the man decide for his self if he wants to raise the child as his own.
He can't do that. As long as he signed the birth certificate, he is obligated to bear the responsibilities as the father. He may petition the court to emancipate him but it would take time.
Yup it's super annoying. Dont pressure the man to take care of another man's baby.
I agree and it's a shame he married such trash
She is speaking biologically not his
@@Layput Isn't that atomaticlly reveresed in the United States. What kind of sick country are you runing over the pond.
The mother gave an accurate description of who his son is married to
Passing that buck huh?
@Heather Gabriel she really doesn't.
@Heather Gabriel Aaa
And she was married when she got pregnant too.
@Heather Gabriel !
Judge needs to stop advising these men to stick around. This is literally a God-given opportunity to leave. They should exercise discernment and start a new and happy home of their own with a faithful partner. No human being deserves to be treated that way and then manipulated to stay. That's very wrong.
She is suggesting to stay in the child's life.....not the mothers!
@@QueenKayKay47 It’s one in the same.
@@milehighblerd7544 no it's not! Smh
I love Judge Lake, but that’s not fair to guilt trip him like that! Where’s the homeless boyfriend? Where’s his test? Dude is free and clear of this woman who will not change because she only sees justification of her actions. I am disappointed!
Judge never tells women to stay with cheating men but ALWAYS guilting these men to stay with cheating women why ...she so bias and don't respect men's feelings in the situation
Exactly I thought she was calling him to run, because he acting like a battered wife right now
I am upset that she gave him such toxic advice. I hope he listened to his mom and ran. Otherwise he is now in a trailer somewhere with her, 2 bfs and 3 more kids.
Judge does that a lot. He deserves to be happy and a father
It’s never a ladies fault....you’ll see her get on to ladies but then tell the dude to stay and put up with the BS!! The judge ain’t fooling me, this SIMP should RUUUUUN!
I'm not usually here for mama's being all up in relationships but somebody needs to stand up for this man!
Alegria Fleur bingo!
Yessss!!!
Yes. He is so weak. Ugh!
Agreed!
Right. She needs to knock some sense into him. This wife is terrible.
Why is his Mom prettier than his wife though? 😍🤣
my question too
The girlfriend has a lot of stress making so much drama that it’s starting to show. She cheated. The kid isn’t his yet she’s angry as if he had cheated on her.
True
youre not wrong
I thought it the mother was the sons wife? Only when I went back I realised that the sons mom.
He stays because he's insecure and have low self esteem periodtttt
same reason women stay
@Error Report NEVER caz no mother gonna clown their son
With the mom like her no wonder
Facts
FACTS
Judge Lake needs to stop guilt tripping these men into taking care of children that are not their own! This man needs to run away FAST!
ChinweezyFaSheezy it’s pathetic
That’s not what’s she’s doing.
She’s telling these fathers who love these babies to never stop loving them. Love is good not bad.
She only did it because she knows he's a simp. She don't try with men who have a clue.
@@Mind-Over-Body I agree too, I think she does it to men who are too simpish.
I think she only did it because she knows he’s not going anywhere.
If he didn’t leave her or kick her boyfriend out of the house when he caught them screwing, he will never leave her.
That guilt trip at the end was the most underhanded nasty move ive seen she is basically encouraging him to stay in an abusive situatiom
The wife is a nasty..... I like the mother and I feel sorry for the man
Why feel sorry for the man when he is doing this to him self?
He needs to learn how to stand up for himself.
Don't feel sorry for him, he's a grown man. Honestly he did all this to himself.
@@moak08He was mentally abused. It can happen to both a man and a woman. And I remember seeing his FB or Instagram or something. He is happy now, married and has his own child. He was just too young to get married and manipulated by that trailer trash for years. I agree with the mom. She got him out of that toxic relationship and now he is so much happier.
He's in an abusive relationship get out now.
He's still in an abusive relationship. He has a control freak for a mother.
That's why he let's the gf treat him like that cause cause he grew up with a mom like that.
The wife is a slapper and the guy is a fool
Well said
He looks so exhausted.
It’s funny how they both thought the other was unattractive 😂
😂😂😂
The mom is hot
Girl you asked your husband if your boyfriend could stay at yall house.....imma head out 🤦🏽♀️
__ WeekendVegan __ 😮😩🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
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Okay!! 🚗🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️ And the fact that he allowed it 🤦🏿♀️
__ WeekendVegan __ 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
U know what 😂😂😂😂😂😂
She's as nasty as they come. I hope he leaves her and finds someone worthy. I think his self-esteem is gone. Someone needs to help him out. Poor guy.
True. I bet his mother is going to see that he leaves
@@Browny241422 true, I think she’s emotional king abusing him and sleeping around with other men just because she is a cheater
The judge is absolutely insane for asking him to stay.... Im 100% sure she wouldn't allow her son to be in that scenario
These folks in the courtroom reacted when they saw the one-night stand. I cannot!
IKR? Messy!!!
Looking like he could bite a carrot through a chickenwire fence!
They messy ain't they?🤣
@@scottakanumba1heathen379 that's a country statement right there.
Numba1 Heathen 😂😂😂
They look like the type of family who would fight at a kids birthday party..
Ken Fulton {Baby Elder} 😂😂😭😭
I'm dead 💀😂💀😂 💀💀!!!
He shouldn't be at the Birthday party because that isn't his child.
Ohhhhh 🙃😂😅😂
I'm not playing with you today, Sir!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
The judge telling him to remember his current emotions and saying the child will feel the same emotions is so messed up. You’re guilt tripping a broken man to stay in an abusive relationship. That is terrible advice. And he’s a baby... if Mr Riley left now he wouldn’t be remembered and his real father could step in.
I hope he divorces her. He's still the legal father if he wants to be in the baby's life. But she's horrible and selfish. He needs to move on
Move as fast as possible 😂
I'll be getting a lawyer that'll handle my divorce and child issue..He can still be in the child life but she most definitely wouldn't have me financially responsible for him...
So true!
Jessica LeBlanc he needs to divorce her and get sole custody. he'd get it too, bc her actions make her unfit and her lifestyle is detrimental to the child's wellbeing.
@@samanthanickson6478 YES
MEN!! You cannot find your treasure in the trash can! Stop looking there!
that should be on a coffee mug :D
👏👏👏😆
Sua Bhu thank you! He’s confused clearly
She is trash!
@Sua Bhu She told the truth so it's cool, that she moved her boyfriend in, and had a "one niter" , and she's married ??
i’m legit bawling for that man. she’s so vindictive and ridiculous. he’s such a good man
i thought he came across as entirely spineless
He did seem like a very good man, he also seemed like a doormat and completely willing to be stepped on. And that’s very upsetting honestly, he deserves so much better than her. I just hope he realizes that for himself someday. 😞
@@uhRevoke you know why men become spineless and weak. these guys have been rejected their whole lives. and then the second they get even a sliver of love and affection from someone, they attach to it. so every time it seems like that sliver is about vanish, they start doing more and more to keep it there which in turn makes them do stuff no normal man would do. they keep getting their broken over and over again but stay because they still see that sliver of love they got from this person.
these are good kind hearted men who are stuck in this vortex of lies infidelity and lust and keep getting pummelled by the vindictive women. so no hes not a spineless man. hes a broken man and he was broken by the woman he loved and gave his heart to.
Some people don't value marriages anymore. Vows are sacred.
True people just don't like to keep them that way
Exactly 💯
@kate kanini Amen to that
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Unfortunately, so ppl say
"It's just a piece of paper "
😔
The momma look like she can fight 😂 shorty better calm down👏🏽
Megan Tamba-Modandi élève 💯 she was ready for whatever 😂
Don't mess with a momma bear 😂
TAS TX RIGHT ‼️
Chickanya Dominguez 🤣🤣
sunny Days 🤣
The judge needs to leave the advice to a professional! What kind of guilt trip was that at the end.
gotta admit, the man's older mother looks more appealing than the wife
those eyebrows are horrible
Very true...
Right
Wow what a fool
Lol
When your mother looks younger than your wife
That's true my eyes are all on her 😀
or you
@@shrgh1876 Right😂😂😂😂
Mom looks good for her age. And she is beautiful
That's because his wife has alot of mileage.😂😂😂
I can never understand the way some people think 💔
How do you let your wife bring her boyfriend to the house and how is the wife still so flippant after cheating so openly
every mother's worst nightmare,, to see your son get used and abused by a no good woman
That’s right.
Pach'e 81 exactly
J Audry mi feel like she fail him big time the mother
Definitely
If a woman was treating my son this way I'd be in jail. Period!!
Doing a bid!
HAHAHAHAH same
Same
The poor baby looks sad too. Just heartbreaking 😢 Please Good LORD be with that adorable baby and the husband
Judge would never tell a young girl to stay with a man that treats her like this... she so biased!
I totally agree......100%
As a woman I agree they tell us to leave people who treat us bad so why should a guy stay
The baby is innocent and deserves a good man in his life that loves him
Lizz totally agree that the baby is innocent. However, should the man’s life come at the expense of a baby that’s not his and being tied to a reckless mama for the rest of his life? Why shouldn’t he be allowed to go out there go to school, get an amazing job, find a loving wife and raise kids that are his own? Why should he forfeit his life?
@@ebrooks24711 well that's the mothers responsibility to provide that for the child. Mama's baby, papa's maybe.
Yeah i swear, the mom is more beautiful,young looking and hot then the daughter in law
The d-i-law is not any of those things.The young man should leave his wife and cut the apron strings.
I just going to comment. But saw this
So he is keeping the child, she got no punishment for her behavior...she will keep cheaten
I had the same thought.
The mother looks 20-something and is gorgeous.
Yes but she's too loud and) why can't he stand up for himself?
No man should be a doormat for someone else's child and wife's cheating. Period.
The chance of Mrs. Ryley keeping her legs together outside her marriage. 0%
She was confused?!?! Lol
Im 100% on the mothers side. Boy you better run the other way.
While he's running, he might want to stop somewhere and have a STD test.
@@me-pm6mx uuuuu 😂
I know how it feels when you wish to run but for
some reason you are stuck
I have been there and am still
Here is because of the love you have for this person and they are the ones that will hurt you most 😢😞
me, that makes sense.
bunny fufu but please, not to moms house! That will only cripple you.
As a woman I must say if the man is NOT the father. LET THAT MAN GO AND LIVE AND HAVE A BIOLOGICAL CHILD WITH A WOMAN WHO CAN LOVE &SUPPORT HIS FEELINGS. Take the L sis. Fun comes with after math. 😢😢
First time hear the people in the back saying "BOO!!" Lol
for a moment I think they were also saying 'Hoooo...….hoooo!'
I enjoyed it too 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hahahaha...
@Mark Guerrero Nice... 👍🏽😁
Stop guilting these men why does the judge ALWAYS try to make men stay it's wrong she wrong
absolutely right. he needs to bounce
Woooooord yes brother never me im outta there must think im a fool.
I agree. The wife is toxic and this baby is too young to remember him if he leaves now. The child will be more traumatized a few years down the road, as well as being exposed to the bickering.
@@tastx3142 Exactly
I agree. He needs to go on with his life. Judge be to emotional sometimes.
Judge is a ridiculous human being for pressuring him to stay. Put that pressure on the real dad and let this man get away from the people who are hurting him.
Ive been married 25 years and have never used the phrase “my boyfriend and my husband “ in the same sentence. 🤭
Congratulations on 25 years
Respect! I wish you happy, long and healthy life🙌💐
Mel's life 570, what's your secret for 25 years of marriage?
@@truesonofafrica8772 happy wife is a happy life
Do you want to?
WHAT A BLESSING FOR HIM THAT HE IS NOT THE FATHER...
I don't blame the mother for interfering it must be hard as mother to continuously watch a fellow woman just toy with your son like that, that man, God bless his soul is Weak! The less said about that vile woman the better.
“I went back with my husband but, my boyfriend was going to be homeless” oh my goodness 🤦♀️🙈 what a mess!!
Mr Riley looks like a good guy who's been through the wringer, he just don't have a lick of sense. He really needs to listen to his mama on this one.
SC TravelRN He doesn’t have any backbone.
He's been henpecked.
If he chose to stay great , but I was not a fan of the guilty trip the judge pulled at the very end. It’s not his child and he doesn’t have to feel guilty if he doesn’t want to raise it. Plus what’s to stop her from trying to use his love for the child as a weapon later on.
He's a good man but need help with his self esteem and establishing boundaries
When did the audience start booing? Lol🤣 I'm booing her too 🤷🏾♀️.
Judge, stop blackmailing people in cordial manner.
She told everybody... even her husband in front of open court that her boyfriend f*ked her the best 😭😭 man she gotta go!
Another episode of, "He didn't give me the attention I need"....smh. Trifling women's week continues.
Always the excuse of these nasty woman. And why does this man stays with her.
Cindy Sinclair Exactly
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He knew all that and still stayed with her.
He chose her over and again
Hes no victim
@@InLoveWithaPaladin I never stated that he was a victim
The judge should have told that young man to leave that terrible situation and get his life together. That female was a corrosive entity. He needs time away from her to heal.
How on Earth do you sleep around like that and get offended when people question paternity? Internet fertility pills? This child stands zero chances in life.
Feral Chicken, my point extactly! She was all over the place.
This judge is enabling wicked women and justifying their wickedness on good men. He should not and I repeat should not raise that child. What a witch of a wife
She didn’t say that he had to but the husband said that he loves the child like his own. Why would she encourage him to abandon the kid?
@@princesaofjudah he should leave the situation for his own peace of mind. She is I repeat she will cheat again and again. He deserves better.
@@princesaofjudah because it's not his and he owes nothing to her or the child. Being linked to this toxic woman in any way shape or form will ultimately destroy his life, he needs to get out, especially as the baby will have ZERO recollection of him and no harm will be done. If he stays it may backfire on the child as dad may up and leave later on when the kid does understand what's going on, or cut ties with the mother when he reaches his breaking point, which he will.
Feel sorry for the man
Ariella Young She should advise him to not make that decision until his emotions have calmed down. It’s easy to get swept up in the moment and want to look honorable but as long as men are complicit in this type of scandalous behavior it will definitely continue.
It was so satisfying watching Judge Lake go in on the defendant. 👏👏👏
The mom looks so good, I thought she was maybe a side chick of his
Ikr she's a straight up hottie
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I did think it was his girlfriend.
You are not the father. RUN.🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️😥
The mother has every right to speak up, she cares for her son and cares about him. She don’t want no disgusting daughter in law.
When the mom looks amazing for her age.
And her hair is GLORIOUS!
Right? Lol she looked younger than the wife..
I bet that ultrasound tech was confused. Homegirl showed up with 2 men. 😆😆
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When in medical field you see everything 😂
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😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂💣
You know she went home and told her family all about that foolishness 😂😂😂
That poor man. He’s a doormat. I hope he learns to stick up for himself
Asked your husband if your boyfriend can stay with you til he get on his feet? Did I hear that right? 😩😳 This is too much.
Briana R. I know right. I can’t with this mess.
At least use a comdom
why do these guys always look like they could do better than that
my guy deserve simp of da year wit dis one and i ain’t even finish da episode yet
He left her
The mother looks younger than the wife
I guess spending a lot of time on you're back ages you fast 😂
Along with the maturity I thought they both slept with him. They’re a little dumb ahahah
I can’t believe that’s his mother! She looks so young.
Thots age like milk.
It’s the brunette hair. It looks really healthy. Makes her look so young.
Poor guy needs to give her the boot and love himself. 💔
He's weak. At this point he loves the torture she puts him through. I have no sympathy for people like that.
@@wamz9191 simp
@@wamz9191 no he's a victim of abuse
judge should not advice this man to take responsibility of the child which is not his!!! He needs to stay away from that horrible,cheater lady...
For the first time I disagree with the judge. He needs to run and move on. His mother is right.
Soooo just to clarify, this dude gets cheated on three times, raises a kid that isn't his, and now is told to keep being the father by not only the b*tch that cheated on him but also the judge who should helping him? Umm, anyone else getting a Jim Carrey: Me, myself, and Irene vibe here?
Namikaze1 haha.
Namikaze1 exactly
JUDGE IS JUST PLAYING HER PART IS A SHOW, SHE DIDN'T MAKE HIM CHOOSE HE'S WEAK AND IS A JUGGLE OUT HERE, SURVIVOR FOR THE FITTEST.
Facts judge don't need this job
Yeah, it's crazy. She needs to stop doing that. He's young and can always start over!
Such a wonderful young man...he didn't deserve this kind of treatment..hope he find someone who Will take better care of him..
Mother looks like she had a son at 14. This is off to a promising start.
She is fine though
I love the shows but I'm getting tired of the judge ALWAYS telling these men to be in not their kids lives.
I wonder if the judge had a son in this situation would she tell him to stay in this toxic, disrespectful relationship/environment? It is so amazing to me how she encourages men to stay in messed-up relationships for a baby that is not theirs. That is a decision they need to make for themselves. SMH
She is a women and will support only women. Simple as that
Never. She'd be the first to get him all the legal aid needed to ensure wife and baby never see even his back again.
THEY BOO'ING HER 😩😩😂 I'M YELLING 😭😭😭 This is wild 🤣
She asked her husband for her boyfriend to live with them??? Man, a cheater like this has NO respect for you, you should leave her alone and find yourself a better woman!
Alexander Bemar, she has no respect for him and he looked like he was not all there.
@@derekmathews1818 completely agree with you! She has no remorse too.
Alexander Bemar, definitely no remorse.
why take the raw deal?
Judge have no rights to tell the guy to be a good daddy even tho he is not the dad!
"That's all right" "that's all right." NO IT IS NOT all right!! You just devastated this man but you think it's all right!!
Why don't u just leave the relationship if your going to cheat
She said she "wants her family". She never even said sorry to the Simp, or I'll never do it again ??
bcos then we wouldn't have pc to watch :D
Joel Stelmark exactly
because she's selfish. hate to think how her kids will turn out!
@@shrgh1876 🤣😭
Don’t tell him not to leave. You ruining him having to raise another man’s child and stick in that mess
Who raised this young woman? She has no sense of right and wrong. She's like okay and so what. Wow!
That’s women these days. Ask them to take accountability, they can’t even spell it.
Omg I feel so sad for the husband. He is way too good for her. Girls always ruin the good men!
Well said young lady 👍
goodness knows why he put up with such slutty behaviour. I wouldn't want that woman for a wife!
He's a simp, not good man.
The judge isn't being fair to these men.
Judge Lake, you are an awesome judge that keeps us coming every day, but what happened to finding the real father because he deserves to know? Is PC now encouraging men to stay in toxic situations to give the child a dad? Not right.
She isn't a real judge. Look it up. She's an actor and nothing about this is legally binding until it's presented in front of a real judge in a real courtroom.
@@shellos8 I looked it up as you said, and she's a family lawyer. Not a judge though, true. (Actually her resume didn't say actor anywhere.)
@@Bouitaz You need to look a little deeper into her and this show then.
If the reverse where the case, she would have told the woman to leave the toxic space. Men are really in trouble in today's world
Her: cause that's the only man I really know
*also her* : proceeds to have a 1 night stand AND has an ex boyfriend... soooo
BeautifulMusiq 😂😂
this bish.......
That mother knows his child is still a kid at heart.
Please tell me this poor man did not stay please tell me he did not stay
christ f i have a feeling he did
I laughed so loud when they showed the video of the guy she had an affair with. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Scraping the bottom of the barrel.
He looks like a sixth grader.I thought he was a kid.
She definitely would sleep with anybody but then again look at her
That was a one night stand. Not the live in boyfriend. I think the husband consented to the boyfriend to give their marriage a child. Its comes at an emotional expense which he was and Is willing to Pay to have a child with his wife. This story is as old as Time. Adam and Eve and her love affair with what God called the man Beautiful Morning Star, a Serpent. Then made him to slither on the ground.
courtney fairley True! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
risk sikrikak 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I LOVE WHEN JUDGE YELLS AT THE PERSON WHO NEEDS IT!
Guess his mom was right. The wife can't even see how destructive what she did was...sheesh. How dense
She looks super young to have a son that could be married.
N.W.A. No she takes care of herself.
This man needs to leave his wife, one she does not even know the father. You will never trust this woman again. And you have no rights she will use the baby against you as long as you are with her. I really hope this man leaves her
“He still my son & he comin home with me” *snap *snap ok mama
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