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  • Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
  • Tumi finds herself unhappy in her marriage and finally makes the decision to tell Lindani the truth about her feelings.
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Комментарии • 236

  • @zithomajozi7357
    @zithomajozi7357 4 года назад +342

    Tumi and Lindani show me that just because we've got history doesn't mean we should stay together. People grow apart and the person you once loved is no longer the same

  • @telelamatutyana
    @telelamatutyana 4 года назад +172

    This is the most important thing in any relationship. HONESTY!

  • @katlegoblake4897
    @katlegoblake4897 4 года назад +131

    Love has NEVER and WILL never be enough.
    Tumi and Lindani are prime example of how important it is to be honest with yourself. When times change, either your relationship will adjust or fall apart.
    And if it falls apart move on

  • @tps8518
    @tps8518 4 года назад +40

    Tumi's skin is goals😍

  • @naledzimathibe3729
    @naledzimathibe3729 4 года назад +9

    The acting in this scene ❤️❤️❤️❤️, wow. She deserves an award just for this scene

  • @ritchierich4363
    @ritchierich4363 4 года назад +24

    This was a very insightful scene, props to the writing team, teaches us South Africans How important it is to be honest, well done for this scene

  • @nabogasa3446
    @nabogasa3446 4 года назад +124

    This was what she should have done long ago, be Honest, communicate.

  • @Lebo_FindingTime
    @Lebo_FindingTime 4 года назад +83

    Lindani is scared to be alone... But he really is not in love with this Tumi. This is a different Tumi, not the one he got married to long ago.

    • @ntokotoPM
      @ntokotoPM 4 года назад +4

      He's scared to confront the pain of divorce 😭💔

  • @mmathapelomatona3122
    @mmathapelomatona3122 4 года назад +98

    Lindani is Emotionally attached... that’s completely normal when someone breaks you heart and you willing to compromise. But deep down the trust is broken and it may not show fully now but in the years to come.

    • @ntokotoPM
      @ntokotoPM 4 года назад +5

      He wants to be back with her so the pain goes away.

    • @syabongawelcome6579
      @syabongawelcome6579 4 года назад +1

      Tru

    • @syabongawelcome6579
      @syabongawelcome6579 4 года назад

      @@ntokotoPM but it wonts

    • @ntokotoPM
      @ntokotoPM 4 года назад

      @@syabongawelcome6579 it will go away for a while then come raining on him.

  • @theecandy6888
    @theecandy6888 4 года назад +14

    I'm proud of Tumi for having this conversation with Lindani she realized her part in all of this

  • @sinasomxakaza9170
    @sinasomxakaza9170 4 года назад +72

    You see, she's being deeply honest and Lindani still doesn't get it. 🤷

    • @ruesie8125
      @ruesie8125 4 года назад +5

      He is still in denial

    • @tinaadams6832
      @tinaadams6832 4 года назад +5

      My husband said hey wena lindani go smoke a zol,lmaof,😂😂😂

    • @cellb2619
      @cellb2619 4 года назад +1

      as if you'll instantly understand when your man tells you this.
      you'll be screaming "man are trash" to everyone who'll listen.

    • @dudusthoughts1773
      @dudusthoughts1773 3 года назад +1

      @@tinaadams6832 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @onelove9599
    @onelove9599 4 года назад +76

    Awasemaningi ama-Psychologists and Behavioural Specialists kuma-comments😶

  • @Godsflower91
    @Godsflower91 4 года назад +8

    This ladies is the definition of finding someone who loves you more then you love them

  • @nontokozomtshweni4074
    @nontokozomtshweni4074 4 года назад +73

    But Tumi is telling the truth that she tried to change lindani nd unfortunately this is who lindani is

  • @nyashadzashemuzavazi7787
    @nyashadzashemuzavazi7787 4 года назад +41

    Tumi doesn't realize how much Lindani is suffering...N it's so sad

  • @zinhlesibisi2531
    @zinhlesibisi2531 4 года назад +58

    Men take this as a lesson,dont look at it as Tumi only cheating but that women seek a leader in a man,ambition...not only love....

    • @beennete
      @beennete 4 года назад +2

      Yhuuuu 😅 not liberals excusing an affair.... hae Lea bora maaan!!

    • @zinhlesibisi2531
      @zinhlesibisi2531 4 года назад +1

      @@beennete nawe uyabora

    • @legodimashiane7451
      @legodimashiane7451 4 года назад +1

      I agree.

    • @cellb2619
      @cellb2619 4 года назад

      women don't even know what they want.

    • @smangantuli4869
      @smangantuli4869 3 года назад

      Ever heard of hypergamy?

  • @mvzyuniverse
    @mvzyuniverse 4 года назад +55

    The moment Lindani mans up and actually becomes a man and focuses on himself and becomes ambitious....Tumi will want him back. I mean....look...he doesn't have a kid and doesn't have a kid with Tumi. He just needs to build his character. Let the money come through and the rest will follow suit.

    • @ptpanashe9
      @ptpanashe9 4 года назад +2

      MVZY's Universe true.He’ll even increase his options in the the type of women that he attracts.The worst thing a man can do is fall in love,it makes us lose focus on our ambitions & hence women lose attraction for us once we always put their happiness above our own

    • @watchitanyway7889
      @watchitanyway7889 4 года назад

      I agree with you, i just need you to explain the last sentence what do you mean by "let money come through and the rest will follow suit? "

    • @mvzyuniverse
      @mvzyuniverse 4 года назад

      @yvonne zodwa what I mean is build your paper. Ambition has a magnetic pull and it creates a sense of protection and provision to the one you attract. Money....it's ambition personified. You can either use it as a weapon or a tool. Either way how you use it will attract people in your life hence I said the rest will follow suit.

    • @smangantuli4869
      @smangantuli4869 3 года назад

      AMS videos.

    • @mvzyuniverse
      @mvzyuniverse 3 года назад

      Actually....experience.

  • @deborah_12
    @deborah_12 4 года назад +17

    Everybody here who is saying no woman likes a weak man and whatever is straying from the point that he is in pain and if begging is a way to cope then its fine. You can be the most manly man and still get cheated on by someone you deem weaker. Cheaters dont care. His only problem is ambition not weakness. There are some of you saying "manly what what",who were with manly men and still it ended in tears. And dont speak for the whole female group. Some of us like emotion showed than those who think they can power through life and think that toughness is what makes them a man🙄.

  • @oluremi3351
    @oluremi3351 4 года назад +9

    Honesty matters ...sometimes we fall out of love un knowingly but our partners keep us trapped there ...well done tumi I can relate

  • @ManzLykJangz
    @ManzLykJangz 4 года назад +16

    You'll judge Lindani until you fall in love with someone 😕

    • @bridgetjones6819
      @bridgetjones6819 4 года назад +1

      Charles MJ 😂😂😂😂 so true, love is tricky...

    • @luciamika4027
      @luciamika4027 4 года назад

      You are absolutely right Charles

    • @dudusthoughts1773
      @dudusthoughts1773 3 года назад

      We've all been here 😂😂😂begging and pleading to men eyoo

    • @BlackRose-rk7zs
      @BlackRose-rk7zs 3 года назад

      Ei bro....😓

  • @yonelatoko3018
    @yonelatoko3018 4 года назад +2

    " I am a woman and im changing ,
    " I'm going in a different direction " 😂aww Tumi 😭😂

  • @ndumiso426
    @ndumiso426 4 года назад +4

    Wow the lighting in this scene 🔥👑 some other level

  • @pelomk9022
    @pelomk9022 4 года назад +17

    She did the right thing

  • @Phushprada1
    @Phushprada1 4 года назад +19

    Is it me or is Tumi becoming her mother’s daughter, I mean even her voice and the way she speaks is starting to sound like Lindiwe’s way of speaking!!!!

  • @VuyoPhika_
    @VuyoPhika_ 4 года назад +15

    No Matter How Much You Love Someone If They've Fallen Out Of Love With You, There's Nothing You Or Anyone Can Do Except To Accept And Move On. Tumi's Def No Longer The 'Young Innocent Inlove With Lindani' Type Of A Girl. The Sooner We Accept That People Will Change (For Good Or Worse) With Time,The Better.

  • @amandashez1296
    @amandashez1296 4 года назад +3

    this was deep and honest and i respect her for that👏👏

  • @joycesetena6416
    @joycesetena6416 4 года назад +1

    I love how calm Tumi was

  • @benjyreba385
    @benjyreba385 4 года назад +3

    This is better then someone pretending to someone when the person knows that can’t be able to love anymore

  • @sindiswamakele2575
    @sindiswamakele2575 4 года назад +20

    Good Tumi am single nami gave up on my 10 years relationship and am not going back i wish my Lindani all the best 😊

    • @VuyoPhika_
      @VuyoPhika_ 4 года назад

      Did You Fall Out Of Love Or Was It Something Else??

    • @sindiswamakele2575
      @sindiswamakele2575 4 года назад +1

      @@VuyoPhika_ I fell out of love..I wanted to focus on me..I waisted soo much time hoping we will achieve alot together but nah ,he was too comfortable , sometimes u can't change a person ,in 10 years we've never been on vacation ,no lobola , suddenly pushing for a baby ..I had to leave sorry

    • @VuyoPhika_
      @VuyoPhika_ 4 года назад +1

      @@sindiswamakele2575 Ohh I See... So You Wanted More From Him And He Was Too Comfortable...Did You Ever Speak About The Things You Like Or Things You'd Like To See Happening In Your Relationship Or Was More Like "He Should Be Knowing By Now" Kind Of A Thing?

    • @sindiswamakele2575
      @sindiswamakele2575 4 года назад +1

      @@VuyoPhika_ everyday politely , he just wanted to turn me into a baby Maker 😁

    • @VuyoPhika_
      @VuyoPhika_ 4 года назад

      @@sindiswamakele2575 Haha 😄😄 Maybe He Saw That You'll Be A Great Mom 😅

  • @siamisangsia6840
    @siamisangsia6840 4 года назад +17

    That's why it's very important that before you commit to another person you must know who you are and where you're heading... you must have an idea about your purpose . But anyway Lindani is desperate and he lacks self-love🙄

    • @sheaandi
      @sheaandi 4 года назад

      It’s not easy to have self love

  • @jadaajayi8369
    @jadaajayi8369 4 года назад +6

    Lindani really has a good heart

  • @candryclide2129
    @candryclide2129 4 года назад +4

    She was honest enough. Trying to change who you are just to accommodate others. 😔😔😔👀👀👀

  • @tebogosekonya8293
    @tebogosekonya8293 4 года назад +7

    She finished him off. I knew he shouldn't have taken her back.

  • @khodanitshiovhe9258
    @khodanitshiovhe9258 4 года назад +4

    I felt that joooo ya this made me realize that I need to be honest as well in my relationship, cos I'm in the same situation as tumi n lindani "( but not married) ".

    • @nomalungelomnguni4815
      @nomalungelomnguni4815 4 года назад

      I think I am too but I can't do that nope, what if I never find somebody that loves me like him😭😭

    • @luciamika4027
      @luciamika4027 4 года назад +1

      I am also in the same situation as Tumi😥

    • @luciamika4027
      @luciamika4027 4 года назад +1

      @@nomalungelomnguni4815 I'm wondering the same thing too,that I know I wouldn't find anyone who loves me like him and I just feel safer with him by my side😞

    • @khodanitshiovhe9258
      @khodanitshiovhe9258 4 года назад +1

      @@nomalungelomnguni4815 my fear exactly so I'll just keep on entangleng I guss 🤷‍♀️

    • @khodanitshiovhe9258
      @khodanitshiovhe9258 4 года назад

      @@luciamika4027 me 2 girl

  • @bulelaniciki9349
    @bulelaniciki9349 4 года назад +26

    What is wrong with Lindani how do you beg a woman who repeatedly cheated on your marriage and that was not a mistake she’s unfaithful, once they got another challenges she’ll cheat again 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @sinobomityhoba4523
    @sinobomityhoba4523 4 года назад +3

    Tumi is doing the right thing for both of them shame. She is brave🙌

  • @cebiledlodlo8058
    @cebiledlodlo8058 4 года назад

    Tumis must win the most improved actor award. Wow the babe is actually lovely to watch now

  • @virgo8985
    @virgo8985 4 года назад +2

    Communications key

  • @chinjebwanamidi9358
    @chinjebwanamidi9358 4 года назад +1

    the amount of truth in this snippet tjoooo...you'll can call Tumi names but i like the fact that she was honest and blunt, its always good to hurt someone with the truth than have them live a lie

  • @retsilitsoemakena2161
    @retsilitsoemakena2161 4 года назад +2

    Hhhm what she said it was painful but true..i just love the new TumI I see

  • @mpumiiemm2032
    @mpumiiemm2032 4 года назад +5

    Lindani has self esteem issues thats why he's begging Tumi so much . He doesn't see himself with anyone of Tumi's calibre , Tumi is the best thing in his life currently that's why it's so hard for him to let go. 💔

    • @michelleminland4204
      @michelleminland4204 4 года назад

      Lindani is just lazy. He just need to work hard L, let the money flow

  • @curiousk4083
    @curiousk4083 4 года назад

    Wow well executed, now I understand the root cause if GBV emotional attachment. Tumi's honesty is priceless.

  • @bongangombane4926
    @bongangombane4926 4 года назад +4

    This jika jika thing really happens. We can't now be like "hebana Lindani, dintsang nou?" He really loves Tumi but le ene Tumi can't go back after realizing that Lindani is this type of guy.

  • @theLionessss
    @theLionessss 4 года назад +3

    The owner of the relationship has spoken

  • @londiwenkosi731
    @londiwenkosi731 4 года назад +2

    I'm glad they did this. Their marriage was broken long before the affair. The affair just made it seem like Tumi is the problem, but they've been broken for a while now. Getting over the affair was not going to heal their marriage, the old problems were bound to resurface at some point.
    Lindiwe may be interfering, but she was right about everything she said this time.

  • @buhlebuhle2764
    @buhlebuhle2764 4 года назад +6

    The fact that, she cheated and Lindani forgave her is what turned her off. She wants someone who's going to kick her out should she cheat. Female nature.

  • @rorisangnatashamokgalapa9844
    @rorisangnatashamokgalapa9844 4 года назад +5

    Aii I give up shem Tumi and Lindani will never love each other the way they used to. If Tumi was still in Refilwe she wouldn't be saying such stuff. She's comfortable with the rich life as Lindiwe's daughter.

  • @luxolosongo5462
    @luxolosongo5462 4 года назад

    Tumi is officially my crush 🙈😍🙈

  • @FOREXANDBEYOND
    @FOREXANDBEYOND 4 года назад +3

    This should be a lesson to lot of us(men) that in life purpose, destiny and goals are more important that love, whether you in relationship/married or not.
    God gave you purpose(your life assignment) before a woman(Adam to Eve). So that's what you should prioritise otherwise you gonna live a useless life, begging where you shouldn't

    • @FOREXANDBEYOND
      @FOREXANDBEYOND 4 года назад

      Since we prioritise our life purpose above all. We then align every decision to the purpose, Be a woman we choose to marry or friends we keep.
      Basically your purpose will sets standards for your life.

    • @tinaadams6832
      @tinaadams6832 4 года назад

      Amen brada

  • @naledidonovel9914
    @naledidonovel9914 4 года назад +2

    Ya no this is painful tjerrrr 🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️

  • @nthabisengkekana6698
    @nthabisengkekana6698 4 года назад +1

    I wish I could wear a full mask and say it without seeing the hurts in his face.

  • @primmycooks884
    @primmycooks884 4 года назад +5

    They are pulling our legs. It's not yet time for them to break

  • @KhuleNxumalo
    @KhuleNxumalo 4 года назад +1

    This is how I'm getting out on all my next relationships 👆

  • @tiroyaonejustinphologolo9763
    @tiroyaonejustinphologolo9763 4 года назад +2

    Tumi is finally being honest. I doubt they'll break up just yet. Maybe the writers are stalling till there's baby drama

  • @PiusDosSantosTeresaAbreu
    @PiusDosSantosTeresaAbreu 9 месяцев назад

    Lindani was a man of honour he did not deserve any of it😢😊

  • @chiposimoyi5176
    @chiposimoyi5176 4 года назад +4

    These two are extremely good looking but their acting skills leave a lot to be desired. This break up scene is emotionless... it evokes no feeling ...

  • @naleditsotetsi5398
    @naleditsotetsi5398 4 года назад

    Shuuuu, This Scene. 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @getoslover
    @getoslover 4 года назад +1

    Yes, Tumi and Lindani LOVED each other. Yes, they got married. But when things fall apart this easily LET GO. Its better you move on with a broken heart than stay with one. Mabazi mosha and I think this break up is good for both of them.

  • @mzamosibiya99
    @mzamosibiya99 4 года назад +1

    I am Lindani in my relationship right now. Finding it hard to leave a person who shows no care. I feel stuck and hopeless. Angsazi noma idliso noma yini.

  • @mnpictures_sa
    @mnpictures_sa 4 года назад

    This was deep

  • @nontuthukogumede1215
    @nontuthukogumede1215 4 года назад +1

    Tumi belongs with Zolani, periodttt

  • @amandaseretsi7927
    @amandaseretsi7927 4 года назад

    Nothing but the truth 💯🙏

  • @gladyssimelane830
    @gladyssimelane830 4 года назад

    It's sad hearing someone u in love with saying they not in love with you

  • @Zoe_Halls
    @Zoe_Halls 4 года назад

    Really please we need extra acting classes for these two

  • @matetechirwa8296
    @matetechirwa8296 4 года назад +2

    Tumi should just get back together with zolani

  • @setsomotsoai6336
    @setsomotsoai6336 4 года назад +3

    Lindani was lying to himself deep down he can never get what Tumi did to him and I preach what Tumi is saying all the time there's a huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuge difference between loving someone and being I love with someone!!!!! Thank you for the honesty ❤️❤️❤️ but I still don't like what you said to Lindani gore yena o stale 😂😂😂

  • @paulinemangoro5633
    @paulinemangoro5633 2 года назад

    she now speaks soft like her mom

  • @linackyndina4043
    @linackyndina4043 4 года назад

    I felt this 🥺 someone having “an idea” of you 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @maleselashaun1171
      @maleselashaun1171 4 года назад

      Haha my ex said those exact words to me 🤣🤣will never that bophelo Ke ntwa

  • @lindamoroane4128
    @lindamoroane4128 4 года назад +1

    Lindani has to learn to love himself more, as a person you need to grow and keep moving...Lindani is stuck in the basic way of living...no ambition,no growth...it's hard to leave your partner behind as you grow 💔💔

  • @keletsoludick3502
    @keletsoludick3502 4 года назад

    Give it to Tumi👏👏👏she knows how to break up

  • @pastorkmonyisi1742
    @pastorkmonyisi1742 4 года назад

    So sad

  • @mantombitshabalala4666
    @mantombitshabalala4666 4 года назад

    HECTIC

  • @mudiwabizabani8043
    @mudiwabizabani8043 4 года назад

    It's about time yoh Nkosi Yami💯

  • @sydneymathuka4228
    @sydneymathuka4228 11 месяцев назад

    Take your thing

  • @mercyalexander8256
    @mercyalexander8256 4 года назад

    Its about time Tumi does the right thing🤦‍♀️

  • @katlegotaole1587
    @katlegotaole1587 4 года назад

    Too deep...I felt that too

  • @sakalempuphu10kg99
    @sakalempuphu10kg99 4 года назад +1

    Lindani's plan is disturbed now bcs he was lying when he said he has forgiven Tumi he was gonna avenge himself and destroy the Dikana family. Remember what Lindiwe said?

  • @Locdinwithdr_
    @Locdinwithdr_ 4 года назад

    What if tumi is pregnant😂😂😂this is gonna give a whole twist

  • @magadalinemegan.hamukwani.1553
    @magadalinemegan.hamukwani.1553 4 года назад

    Hmmm sad bt Right

  • @zandilendlovukazi2348
    @zandilendlovukazi2348 4 года назад

    Story of my life😢

  • @lumkajacobs7724
    @lumkajacobs7724 4 года назад

    Yhooooooo love isn't enough ....

  • @akhonankosi4704
    @akhonankosi4704 4 года назад

    A lesson learned don't try to fix broken glass in the end you will hurt yourself more

  • @lindamaphosa4533
    @lindamaphosa4533 3 года назад

    My current situation eix

  • @jamejurineemots5790
    @jamejurineemots5790 4 года назад +1

    So now she wants a man who will match the new version of herself. Wow. Mara rona basadi rea lapisa shem.

    • @StorytellerJobe
      @StorytellerJobe 4 года назад +4

      men do the same babe, and they never shy to change their minds

  • @kermmy3228
    @kermmy3228 4 года назад +5

    Lindani is a disgrace to men,woman will never respect a beta male.. gentlemen here the advice on how to be a Man
    - Don't let a woman control you
    - You should be the head, lead your women and your household
    - You should be adventurous with your women , don't be boring
    - Realise that you are the Key ,She is a padlock , so if she got opened up by some other key then she is a bad lock, you move on and unlock someone else who is a precious padlock.

  • @malebogojenifer4854
    @malebogojenifer4854 4 года назад +1

    Hai Lebdani deserves better ba2n Tumi' s life change has changed her completely...she lost her morals included 🚮🚮🚮...ddnt she realise that she wasn't in love with him b4 she married him

  • @paballomajela4907
    @paballomajela4907 4 года назад

    Wow

  • @koekiebeukes4265
    @koekiebeukes4265 4 года назад +2

    What??? Leave herrrr

  • @Ohstha__
    @Ohstha__ 4 года назад

    waze wanginyanyisa uTumi rhaa

  • @ntokotoPM
    @ntokotoPM 4 года назад

    Lindani is going through the most

  • @mercymveree3971
    @mercymveree3971 4 года назад

    Tumi should have said all of this before getting married

  • @khutsochoma4672
    @khutsochoma4672 4 года назад

    Lord bless me with a man to beg for love soos Lindani

  • @bongephiwazulu6373
    @bongephiwazulu6373 4 года назад +1

    Hau not so long ago he wanted divorce now she is dumping him😂😂😂

  • @ndamasenasiphi7437
    @ndamasenasiphi7437 4 года назад +1

    This hairstyles yaTumi made her realize what she really wants... Ay lindani doesn't want to grow naye

  • @mphojanel
    @mphojanel 4 года назад

    Phologolo ya motho 😭😭😂😂

  • @warona27
    @warona27 4 года назад

    Lindani is so boring. He has to accept Tumi is gone.

  • @palesamaretlane6491
    @palesamaretlane6491 4 года назад

    “I am women” hahaha

  • @syabongawelcome6579
    @syabongawelcome6579 4 года назад +6

    Thats how good guys suffer

  • @Ronald-rn3yz
    @Ronald-rn3yz 4 года назад +1

    So after forgiving her, then she dumps him... Mara le Gender I don't understand...

    • @watchitanyway7889
      @watchitanyway7889 4 года назад

      Haybo we dont cheat, it was her trying to lowkey tell him that she is not inlove with him anymore

  • @akuagawe1480
    @akuagawe1480 4 года назад

    Serves Lindani right for forgiving Tumi feeling that uthando alusekho😏