Don't you every describe a BW features like that again. Don't forget about the BW in your family. You describing the woman, who carry you in her womb for 9 months. You're not cute or hot to look at. It seems like you've been hurt by BW. And you talk about the black community negatively on your other shows. Get over yourself and I wouldn't cashapp you anything.
They have had it forced upon them!!!!! Then they get blamed for seeing everything through the lense of race in a FOUNDATIONALY RACIST COUNTRY & SOCIETY!!! If you don't fully understand this concept, then maybe you shouldn't be talking about it as if you do.
Why bring God in this because she has money. If they put God first; can build structure on a solid slab (trust) than it money should be the furthest from his mind. If or she can be articulate, work through the problems and bumps, spats and differences as a Husband and Wife and or family, then money will of no consequence here.
@Curt_mcdirt I only brought up the money because people were saying she is just with him because he's a rich athlete! Who says they didn't put God first?! There is nothing wrong with having money. It's the love of money that leads to evil. So again, God bless him and his wife to be!
HS sweetheart? Then she deserves to be there when he makes it. Period. She invested years into him and his success. It's not like she showed up at the finish line. I hope they have a happy life together.
@@TheloniousJackson You gotta love the one who loves you. His "kind" is a woman who honours and respects him. So should every man have that in his life.
I am mixed race, I live in Brazil, my mother is black. I remember when I was 17 and I showed my mother the girl I was dating at the time, she was also mixed race, Japanese.The look on my mother's face and the comment she made, made me very sad. She said that I should only date black girls and showed disgust for the girl being Asian. So when I see black people saying that only white people are racist, well, I have something to tell you... Sometimes people in your own family or people in your own community secretly hate you and don't want to see you happy and successful in life.
Dude, that's your mother you are dissing.... Could you not find a better example to give than the woman who gave birth to you? Did you ask her why she said that to you? At 17, you have no business dating anyone. You were supposed to be busy with your math focusing on your future career. Your mother may have made an error in judgement, but I am more disgusted by the fact that you have chosen to strip her naked publicly for a discourse you had with her whilst your brain was not even fully developed. I will take your mother's side each time on this subject for different reasons, no 17 year old should be dating, that's immorality
Same happened to me in high school. Mom got a high paying job and we moved to a majority white neighborhood. She was visibly disappointed when I brought home a white girl. But I was like "mom, there are no black women here to date" 🤣🤣
CRT ( CRITICAL RACE THEORY) derived from CT( CRITICAL THEORY) . CT ( Critical Theory) is a cheat sheet for Marxism In the 1970s old school CT wasn't having the effect that was "needed" for Marxism in multicultural countries thus CT was turned into CRT . First at law schools then trickling down
There is a french saying:"Miracles come only to those, who believe in them." And, to step into your own faith, there is no other way, but going deep within yourself.
@TheloniousJackson - you don't speak for that brother. He has the right to choose doesn't he?? Or is that only a right for Black women when they go and delete our babies??
Sometimes I feel like the people or more specifically black women who gets mad at such a happy moment just hate seeing a brother happy. Because I see those same woman turn around cheering for a black ‘queen’ being with any guy outside their race. But end of the day sad now in 2025 we still deal and see with stuff like this in society.
THANK YOU. THIS! They cheered Serena Williams and Meghan Markle (who's not even black) for marrying non black men, but wanna boycott Black Panther cuz Michael B Jordan had a latina girlfriend. They booed Mike Colten from Luke Cage and he had to explain himself when he didn't need to
As a black woman who USED to think like this, it’s all insecurity and a scarcity mindset (a HORRIBLE combination). A lot of black women truly believe they can’t compete with a white woman, which I find ridiculous. There’s a man out there for everybody, regardless of what race he is. They’re so focused on getting a black man they forget to just get to know ppl and fall in love. Once I dropped this mindset, I found somebody and now I’m happy. You gotta cut the dead branches to have a healthy tree.
@@Dvrkwulfunfortunately I used to think this way too. I’ve always dated outside my race so I never got mad at black guys for doing it but I also used to look down on them but then cheer on black girls for doing it. It’s not a good way to think
Ephesians 6:12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
I just celebrated 20yrs with my husband & if I didn't see past my own nonsense, we wouldn't have made it past the first 2yrs, because it was a fight, me fighting the love of a man because it wasnt popular in my group. I was in lesbian relationships for 5yrs before I met him. My "bestfriend" told him I would end up hurting & disposing of him while encouraging me to do so... I thank God every day for this man 🥲 Thank you for shedding light on the absurd & doing your part to inspire ❤
If you’re focused on race and not love with pure intentions; you missed the point. God doesn’t care who you’re with as long as you both love each other & seek Him together.
It baffles my mind that certain people can't stand seeing an interracial couple. We hated segregation back then and now for some reason people want it back!
Segregation was always about powerr and control over people. Look at the people who demand it and how they always seem to be HYPER thirsty for power and control. The woman complaining is upset that she doens't have power over a couple who probably don't know she exists.
It’s ironic people are so angry about racism and hate between races but when two people from different races come together in love they hate it. How can we possibly progress from that point of view ?
I think some black people need to be honest with themselves and accept accountability for their behaviours and attitudes. We need to grow as a people and work on ‘those’ things that have put their own people off wanting to choose them. I don’t know who they are,but marriage is a beautiful thing,Yah created it so let it be done! Congratulations to them!
The first step should be AA’s coming to terms with the fact they are also part Whyte. Hating something that makes up part of you only keeps you in a self destructive cycle.
As a mum of two boys I’m terrified for my sons choices of women today. I don’t care about the melanin content of their futures wife’s skin all I care about is about are my boys going to have women who will love and cherish them give them beautiful happy children and spend their life dedicated to staying with my sons and fight for each other to stay happy and strong everyday like I do with my partner.
I saw a few podcasts where Black athletes explained why they married a White girl. They should have said that particular girl. Some said that Black girls ignored them until they became athletes, or the Black girls in college wouldn't put up with the fact that he was always studying, attending practice or at away games and couldn't entertain them all the time. One said that his White college sweetheart supported his goals, didn't expect him to spend a lot of money on her, and often brought him something to eat when she knew her was cracking the books. These White women were there before they had money or fame. Another athlete said that right after he was signed to a team, his Black girlfriend demanded a very expensive designer bag. Another said the White wives were handling the celebrity's charity or investments while the Black wives just wanted to be in front of the cameras, or embarrassing them by inserting themselves into a business meeting, when the man wanted to be taken seriously. These jealous women should look into the reasons why they chose their partner, not a White woman, but that particular woman.
I heard similar things over 30 years ago from a Black female lawyer who represented several Black athletes in the Kansas City area. These guys married the women that were in their corner from Day One. If those women happen to be White so be it.
I think that's a generalization. Yes there may be black women that acted that way but you can't justify that white women aren't about materialization. Look around. Who do you think supports haute couture and these high class expensive brands? Not majority black women. So I'm not going for the idea that all the white girls are frugal, unmaterialistic, bores just sitting around waiting for the chance to so something for the black guy they are so grateful for. I know better lol.
the internet has made me an extremist optimist lol, i cheer for ppl's happiness all the time cuz of all the hate and misery i see on the net. especially black men i just randomly cheer for any happy black man
They pick and choose when a black woman dating outside her race is okay with them. But in private they bash us for dating white men and call us slurs & exclude us from everything
I found your channel about a month ago and every video has been straight truth and rights. My wife (ChicagoHope312) and I look forward to your videos and have been happy that you are posting every day. Keep up the good work & fighting the good fight. It's an honor to be part of your community.
They celebrate Umar Johnson even though he has multiple baby mamas. Simply because Umar tickles their ego by hating interracial dating and marriage by black men.
I just looked these two up. Made me teary eyed. They seem to truly love each other and support each other. You can’t put negativity on that no matter what anyone says. I pray their relationship remains solid throughout the years as they grow old together. If only all of us could find a true love, but I’ll rejoice for those that do.
You are a beautiful man inside and out. I love your heart!!! God bless you sir, you are spreading truths this world needs to hear! I am married to 100% Mexican for 38 years and people were so mean to us from the start. My own parents and his said we would never make it. Guess what, we are one of the only couples still married!
I never understood how someone could waste their time getting mad at someone who they don't know for marrying someone who they also don't know...people like the Umar Johnson's and the ilk's rhetoric is a hell of a drug and laxative... With all the things the black community has to worry about I seriously think that marrying outside of one's race is one of the immediate problems...
Wish I could buy you a coffee I certainly will when I can.. got a little credit card debt going on which I normally don't have meanwhile what I do is I watch your videos and I watch them to the end.😊 And I always hit the like button
If two people can find love and common ground in the modern world, that is a miracle in its own right. Trying to demolish that feat only shows what a petty and vindictive person you are. I wish these two well in their marriage.
As a Hispanic man I do not discriminate against any female who is a different race than me. All I want is a good woman who can love me just as much as I would love them. Idc about what race they are
You are correct sir on everything you said. They both seem happy i see know problem. I wish them the best. Aquarius you will succeed at this RUclips channel or whatever your doing. You have an intelligence that seems rare now days .
I realized as a full adult I am not apart of the community I was born into because I don't hold these invisible ideas and beliefs about the culture that I have realized many in the community do. I am NOTHING like most who have a deep seated hatred for anything good, are ashamed of nothing but offended by everything. Its just not in me to hate anything and anyone for the most mundane things the way alot in the community do and it's just sad to see. I don't see race in every single thing and don't believe the world owes me anything. I have NEVER cared about who dates what and I actually really do go by a persons character and hold everyone, including my own people accountable yet I feel like an island on my own for being this way and that's ok by me!
I'm mixed & consistently date white women, you get this crap all the time, despite the fact that I'm not even half black there will be some pearl-clutching when we show up holding hands. Typical hater behavior.
It’s a self loathing issue bro. Many AA’s sit uneasy at being part Whyte. Until they come to terms with this and move forward they’ll be stuck in a self destructive cycle
It’s not that we hate to see her happy. We (black women) just don’t see us in these moments very often. To the unhealthy this can be very hurtful and anger is just an emotion covering another… Jealousy…Black women aren’t a monolith but treated as such and most male groups are less likely to “pick us” even approach. We need to change as a community so black women can heal. But we can’t 1st be honest with ourselves about our community so we’re a long way away.
Are you sure you're not a monolith? 92% voted Kamala. I suspect black women are so monolithic that they can't see black men as anything other than a monolith also, so when a black man is happy, black women get butthurt and react like they are owed something. I really wish I was wrong about this. I feel like black women keep proving me right though. Much respect to you for even being on this channel though.
Bw are the only ones who are expected to hand their sons over to other races of women with a smile. This is why so many of us are choosing to go child free.
Successful Black pro athletes typically go for a light skinned black woman or white / asian / hispanic woman. They consider this "MARRYING UP". Not saying it's right or wrong. It is what it is. But to a black woman this is a direct HIT on her because she can't compete with that white woman since that black man has chosen to "upgrade" and THAT is the proverbial elephant in the room that cannot be mentioned. In truth, let that white woman and black man be happy. It's NOT about a black woman being scorned. The black woman scorned should go and find herself a white man and "get even" if she's so insulted by this.
Have you ever thought about why Black women don’t see themselves in these moments often? “ Black women aren’t a monolith, but are treated as such and most male groups are less likely to pick us or even approach “ ~ again, have you ever taken a step back and think of the reasons why? It appears, that there are valid reasons for these outcomes… they aren’t created in a vacuum. It isn’t just because Black men, and men of other races don’t pick Black women very often. Perhaps it’s the multiple generations of Black women who insisted that they didn’t need a man, and that Black men aren’t ish, and blaming Black men (who also aren’t a monolith) for everything under the sun. Maybe it’s because Black women, have a negative cultural image, over sexualized, angry, loud, masculine, constantly talk down on “their” men, and have, by the data, have the most children out of wedlock, and celebrate single motherhood as being strong and independent. Have Black women ever been held accountable, and accepted accountability for their contributions in the demise of Black culture, the so called Black community… By your own admission, there is no Black community ~ since Black women aren’t a monolith (although they have voted as such, even when the politics they support are most often against their own self interest… political party views that triumph abortion, and the elimination of Black families, supporting and paying homage to women such as Nikki Givonnani ~ a staunch feminist who was anti Black nuclear family…wholeheartedly supporting groups such as BLM who were also anti Black male and Black family… by their own admission… There’s so much more to unpack… and it starts with self reflection… There are valid reasons why Black women are the least chosen to be wives. It’s quite possible that they, by their actions, aren’t wives… understand every woman isn’t a wife. Black women don’t raise their daughters to be helpmates, to be wives, their focus is often on their own self interest… career minded, materialistic, and a majority are single mothers ~ while not a monolith… the data is overwhelming… and points specifically to why Black women aren’t chosen as wives. Have Black women ever listened to those that warned them that Black women were “out of order” 40-50 years ago..? These are honest questions. Yet I’m sure that you’d object and deflect, as has been the case for the past 3 generations. It is why Black men have voted with their feet, and many have left the so called Black community, or what’s left of it, majority headed by single mothers… and oh BTW Black women divorce at a higher rate than any other group… especially the higher educated ones~ I’m sure that this is all on Black men as well… as this topic has been discussed ad nausea on social media. Black women, in general haven’t made marriage and family a priority, and while it’s taken decades to get to this point, Black men have finally began to go where they are valued and celebrated, and are no longer staying where they are tolerated. FTR, I was twice married to Black women. Fathered children, and twice had no fault divorce, when I wasn’t abusive, I wasn’t a cheater, but famously was a victim of “growing apart” syndrome… I am not perfect by any means, and I’ve accepted my mistakes, and accountability and moved forward… “Healing” … heal from what exactly ~ Black men and Black women have experienced much of the same… and Black men, have had it far worse… but this isn’t an oppressive Olympics. Black women, need to look inward and do better and stop being the victim. Accept accountability for why they aren’t being chosen. It isn’t “hate” it’s a reality and despite this Black women are still trying to blame others for their own actions. Black men deserve love and respect… but the elephant in the room~ Black women don’t belong to Black men as other groups of women belong to their men. Other groups of men see this and understand this as well. Black women still after multiple generations refuse to acknowledge this. They still refuse to accept accountability.
Are you happy? Do you love each other? Do you get along? Do you have similar values? Will you be good parents? The answers do not require anything about race. Haters are gonna hate! Hope they have a long, beautiful life!
Love is beautiful no matter the colour, age, religion. It’s the one thing we as humans all agree on. It’s amazing to see how love will endure and break boundaries.
Love sees no color / when my grandparents got married she was Jewish and he was Italian / and people had something to say ..she converted to a catholic.. love is love
A Nigerian phrase I heard was that no matter what you do in this world people will talk either way, good on your grandparents for ignoring the talkers nnd just doing whatever they wanted. 👍
❤Love is love , Congratulations to them. And that’s all that matters. I don’t get why black people use their platform to poke an pick at each other over the most ridiculous things. I’m sure this couple had other haters too ;not just regarding race🙄.
It don't matter. Fredrick Douglas fought his whole adult life to free Black people from slavery. Yet, he married a White women. Why? Because she helped him to be free. My point is that if someone, regardless of their race or ethnicity, supports you and loves you, then their race is irrelevant. True love trumps all things material, and whoever has that love in their heart for you that is where you need to be, period.
This message has really hit home to me. Not the example used here but being a failed musician i look at successful musicians with envy and negativity. Thank you for this video. Ive got a lot of work to do on ME!
Another one from my files is this one, WM Luke Abaffy several years ago married BW Katye,and they have 2 boys now living in rural Ohio. Luke and Katye lives in a tiny house 🏡 . They are creators of the Way documentary. Boom and boom
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That's not what a pick me is.
RUclipsrs looove begging for money. If it’s not profitable, get a real job, because this needs to stop.
Don't you every describe a BW features like that again. Don't forget about the BW in your family. You describing the woman, who carry you in her womb for 9 months. You're not cute or hot to look at. It seems like you've been hurt by BW. And you talk about the black community negatively on your other shows. Get over yourself and I wouldn't cashapp you anything.
Thank you for reminding people that Bdubs are #theenemywithin
Its actually sad that people who scream about racism so much always see everything through the spectrum of color. It's horrible.
They have had it forced upon them!!!!! Then they get blamed for seeing everything through the lense of race in a FOUNDATIONALY RACIST COUNTRY & SOCIETY!!! If you don't fully understand this concept, then maybe you shouldn't be talking about it as if you do.
Hypocrisy at its finest!!
I blame the left. They run the media, and report everything through a racial lense
Its literally why they do
Those same people treat mixed children as if they are abominations.
They have been dating for 8yrs. She is worth $ 3 million alone! Her family is worth millions. That brother winning! God bless him!
Envious women are a nightmare.
Why bring God in this because she has money. If they put God first; can build structure on a solid slab (trust) than it money should be the furthest from his mind. If or she can be articulate, work through the problems and bumps, spats and differences as a Husband and Wife and or family, then money will of no consequence here.
@Curt_mcdirt I only brought up the money because people were saying she is just with him because he's a rich athlete! Who says they didn't put God first?! There is nothing wrong with having money. It's the love of money that leads to evil. So again, God bless him and his wife to be!
-and she stuck by him when he was struggling
Whether she's worth millions or not...no one has right to bully them
WHO GIVES A DAMN IF PEOPLE ARE DIFFERENT COLORS AND DATE OR MARRY
Amen
The people that can't tell you what a woman is.
Miserable people. Misery loves company. They're miserable, and they want everyone else to be as they are.
Yet, their choice and their business and the heII with those that carry around all the hate.
The jealous haters that's who
HS sweetheart? Then she deserves to be there when he makes it. Period.
She invested years into him and his success. It's not like she showed up at the finish line. I hope they have a happy life together.
Her heart, character, the way she looks at HIM, that makes her SO BEAUTIFUL to him.
That is what matters
Truth!
Barf
Like Anita told Maria in “ West Side Story” stick to your own kind….
@@TheloniousJackson You gotta love the one who loves you. His "kind" is a woman who honours and respects him. So should every man have that in his life.
@TheloniousJackson what if your own kind doesn't want you and calls you corny all the time hmm 🎉
I am mixed race, I live in Brazil, my mother is black. I remember when I was 17 and I showed my mother the girl I was dating at the time, she was also mixed race, Japanese.The look on my mother's face and the comment she made, made me very sad. She said that I should only date black girls and showed disgust for the girl being Asian.
So when I see black people saying that only white people are racist, well, I have something to tell you... Sometimes people in your own family or people in your own community secretly hate you and don't want to see you happy and successful in life.
Come on, did you ever believe that nonsense for a second?
My man, your mother's a hypocrite, and so is mine, and it's rooted in insecurity.
Dude, that's your mother you are dissing.... Could you not find a better example to give than the woman who gave birth to you? Did you ask her why she said that to you? At 17, you have no business dating anyone. You were supposed to be busy with your math focusing on your future career.
Your mother may have made an error in judgement, but I am more disgusted by the fact that you have chosen to strip her naked publicly for a discourse you had with her whilst your brain was not even fully developed. I will take your mother's side each time on this subject for different reasons, no 17 year old should be dating, that's immorality
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Same happened to me in high school. Mom got a high paying job and we moved to a majority white neighborhood. She was visibly disappointed when I brought home a white girl. But I was like "mom, there are no black women here to date" 🤣🤣
Just one of the reasons I can't stand critical race Theory since it teaches people to look at race first and character second.
This issue has existed before that sadly.
@@larrysmith2655 yeah but we made great progress and it was on it’s way out until the modern explosion of CRT brought it back.
That is amongst minority groups especially eastern and middle eastern cultures.
CRT ( CRITICAL RACE THEORY) derived from CT( CRITICAL THEORY) .
CT ( Critical Theory) is a cheat sheet for Marxism
In the 1970s old school CT wasn't having the effect that was "needed" for Marxism in multicultural countries thus CT was turned into CRT . First at law schools then trickling down
You always see race first unless you’re blind..
Misery doesn't just love company, it demands it.
@@tinaarko6625 😮💨😮💨😮💨
Excellent summation of how Post-Moderns think. *applause*
There is a french saying:"Miracles come only to those, who believe in them." And, to step into your own faith, there is no other way, but going deep within yourself.
Law of attraction is something Einstein believed in himself too
That's a great saying.
Jealousy is a terrible thing, they look super cute together and hope they can just ignore the idiots and let their love shine :)
That's what it is.
That part...all I see is 2 people who love each other. People who like to argue about race, religion, and politics are miserable but won't admit it
You’re delusional if you don’t think that race matters? Stop living in that bubble and come out to the real world!
Indeed! It's a new day, fellas! 👏🏾
@@gailscrypto1536 they love fruit but hate the tree
I think that’s sweet. I hope they have a nice life together.
Very nice post😊
Agreed
He proposed to the woman He Loves, as he should, regardless of race.
It's sad that everyone is mad when a Black Man is happy. Smh...
Snotty black hair-hat hyena women don't count as "everyone".
He could be happy with a sister.. he chose Becky
No one owes black men or women anything.
@TheloniousJackson - you don't speak for that brother. He has the right to choose doesn't he?? Or is that only a right for Black women when they go and delete our babies??
@TheloniousJackson - no one wants a dysfunctional bw.
I'm a 57 year old white man, I love your videos. Nothing but truth.
Yes. With the most articulate and direct delivery.
I have only seen a few but I really like him. He has common sense.
Was it necessary to say you’re a “white man”?
@@Teresia12Only a few? There are many more pal.
Where are people hating on them? I have looked everywhere. I haven't seen anybody speaking about them but black men.
I see a man proposing to the woman who has been by his side through the good times and bad. And that, to me, is beautiful.
I remember Joel Embiid got bombarded with hate on social media when he married a white girl.
Sometimes I feel like the people or more specifically black women who gets mad at such a happy moment just hate seeing a brother happy.
Because I see those same woman turn around cheering for a black ‘queen’ being with any guy outside their race.
But end of the day sad now in 2025 we still deal and see with stuff like this in society.
THANK YOU. THIS! They cheered Serena Williams and Meghan Markle (who's not even black) for marrying non black men, but wanna boycott Black Panther cuz Michael B Jordan had a latina girlfriend. They booed Mike Colten from Luke Cage and he had to explain himself when he didn't need to
As a black woman who USED to think like this, it’s all insecurity and a scarcity mindset (a HORRIBLE combination). A lot of black women truly believe they can’t compete with a white woman, which I find ridiculous. There’s a man out there for everybody, regardless of what race he is. They’re so focused on getting a black man they forget to just get to know ppl and fall in love. Once I dropped this mindset, I found somebody and now I’m happy. You gotta cut the dead branches to have a healthy tree.
@@Dvrkwulfunfortunately I used to think this way too. I’ve always dated outside my race so I never got mad at black guys for doing it but I also used to look down on them but then cheer on black girls for doing it. It’s not a good way to think
They hate to see you happy. Congratulations 👏🏻🎉 to the newlyweds! ❤❤
Ephesians 6:12
For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
Amen.
I just celebrated 20yrs with my husband & if I didn't see past my own nonsense, we wouldn't have made it past the first 2yrs, because it was a fight, me fighting the love of a man because it wasnt popular in my group. I was in lesbian relationships for 5yrs before I met him. My "bestfriend" told him I would end up hurting & disposing of him while encouraging me to do so... I thank God every day for this man 🥲 Thank you for shedding light on the absurd & doing your part to inspire ❤
If you’re focused on race and not love with pure intentions; you missed the point. God doesn’t care who you’re with as long as you both love each other & seek Him together.
And heaven isn't segregated by race or ethnicity: People of all nationalities, languages and tribes.
@@thethoughtfulpeanut6662interracial is weird
Amen!!!
Very nice to see people in their happy space
It baffles my mind that certain people can't stand seeing an interracial couple. We hated segregation back then and now for some reason people want it back!
Ironically, many economically strong communities emerged during Jim Crow segregation.
Segregation was always about powerr and control over people. Look at the people who demand it and how they always seem to be HYPER thirsty for power and control. The woman complaining is upset that she doens't have power over a couple who probably don't know she exists.
@@SuperCosmicMutantSquid Eh segregation can make a community stronger, and it did
@@SuperCosmicMutantSquidstop coming up with excuses. You’re just trying to have power over who people should marry
I’m calling it right now. This dude is going to be huge. He’s speaking the truth. Keep up the good work bro.
It’s ironic people are so angry about racism and hate between races but when two people from different races come together in love they hate it. How can we possibly progress from that point of view ?
I think some black people need to be honest with themselves and accept accountability for their behaviours and attitudes. We need to grow as a people and work on ‘those’ things that have put their own people off wanting to choose them.
I don’t know who they are,but marriage is a beautiful thing,Yah created it so let it be done! Congratulations to them!
The first step should be AA’s coming to terms with the fact they are also part Whyte. Hating something that makes up part of you only keeps you in a self destructive cycle.
I just recently revoked my black card about a week ago and I am so happy 😊
Welcome aboard. It was mid 90s when I handed mine in.
Your black card is worth the paper it is printed on - absolutely nothing
Welcome to FREE THINKING. I’m 43 and NEVER held one and NEVER had a desire or need to hold one. Life will be much better.
LOL I was never issued one.😂
Wait, y’all got cards?
It is called envy.
-and/or racism.
Envy is 'I want what they have' and Jealousy is 'I deserve what you have'
It’s called being a fool and he’ll regret marrying Becky
@@Notawesomeatall7 Yep 👍🏾😊
@@Notawesomeatall7did someone ask? wtf you just out giving definitions?😂🤣😂🤣
As a mum of two boys I’m terrified for my sons choices of women today. I don’t care about the melanin content of their futures wife’s skin all I care about is about are my boys going to have women who will love and cherish them give them beautiful happy children and spend their life dedicated to staying with my sons and fight for each other to stay happy and strong everyday like I do with my partner.
Sadly, my FIRST thoughts were, "Smh, here comes the bitter people."
He's winning
Definitely has his ish together because through thick and thin she remained by his side. She's a real one.
I saw a few podcasts where Black athletes explained why they married a White girl. They should have said that particular girl. Some said that Black girls ignored them until they became athletes, or the Black girls in college wouldn't put up with the fact that he was always studying, attending practice or at away games and couldn't entertain them all the time. One said that his White college sweetheart supported his goals, didn't expect him to spend a lot of money on her, and often brought him something to eat when she knew her was cracking the books. These White women were there before they had money or fame. Another athlete said that right after he was signed to a team, his Black girlfriend demanded a very expensive designer bag. Another said the White wives were handling the celebrity's charity or investments while the Black wives just wanted to be in front of the cameras, or embarrassing them by inserting themselves into a business meeting, when the man wanted to be taken seriously. These jealous women should look into the reasons why they chose their partner, not a White woman, but that particular woman.
Yeah, the wise would veer toward an asset and away from a liability; irrespective of color.
I heard similar things over 30 years ago from a Black female lawyer who represented several Black athletes in the Kansas City area. These guys married the women that were in their corner from Day One. If those women happen to be White so be it.
Would Becky stand by you if you weren’t going to be a millionaire?
I think that's a generalization. Yes there may be black women that acted that way but you can't justify that white women aren't about materialization. Look around. Who do you think supports haute couture and these high class expensive brands? Not majority black women. So I'm not going for the idea that all the white girls are frugal, unmaterialistic, bores just sitting around waiting for the chance to so something for the black guy they are so grateful for. I know better lol.
Respect to these guys are girls who supported each other!
I love it. You can't force someone to marry their own 'color'. You fall in love with their personality, what they believe in, attraction, etc.
As a latino, keep preaching brother! Don't worry about the black card. The truth is more important.
Thank you for your insight and powerful perspective. It helps break me out of that dysfunctional thought process. Congratulations to the happy couple.
Respect
I think jealously and envy are the main components that are fueling their emotions.
A little introspection goes a long way.
You can tell a lot of people have probably never even heard that word before.
Love your channel Aquarius 💪
Wishing them both a long and happy marriage!
the internet has made me an extremist optimist lol, i cheer for ppl's happiness all the time cuz of all the hate and misery i see on the net. especially black men i just randomly cheer for any happy black man
@@lughano5253 I love this 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I saw a picture on RUclips of Grace Jones and her white boyfriend back in the day. Nothing but praises, cheers and happiness from black women.
They want black women to be happy with men of other races, not the other way around. Hypocrites.
That was Dolph Lundgren.
They pick and choose when a black woman dating outside her race is okay with them. But in private they bash us for dating white men and call us slurs & exclude us from everything
They're hypocrites
Most black men said she was ugly. These things aren't as simple. Dark skinned black women are often viewed as ugly.
I found your channel about a month ago and every video has been straight truth and rights. My wife (ChicagoHope312) and I look forward to your videos and have been happy that you are posting every day. Keep up the good work & fighting the good fight. It's an honor to be part of your community.
I had a black woman and was shocked that this still gets such negative reactions, and mostly black people.
"HOW DARE THEY! HE SHOULD HAVE MARRIED MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE"
lol i dono y i read that in like a witch/evil villain voice
@@lughano5253 i mean it works lol
My favorite podcasters are the black conservative men.. love it
Agree! They are changing the course of our country/politics for the better!
Ladies…being a “pick me” is a compliment. Do not let the bitter ones make you think otherwise. Ya’ll are the winners
Then you don't know what a pick me is..they are the type of women that put other women down to make themselves look better
Don't be one of those women
Fr fr
Seriously, where da f*ck do these terms come from, and why did they all come at the same time. They probably coming from the government
No... that's to feed a frail ego for one who has multiple options....No good deal....
No... that's to feed a frail ego for one who has multiple options....No good deal....
"You're not even bottom shelf."
Daaaamn 😂😂😂😂
Its his high school sweetheart so whats the big deal. Im glad he stuck with her after making it.
I appreciate your honesty and message. You're on the right path, do not waiver. Respect.
Envy is one of the seven deadly sins.
💯🎯
It’s none of my business who people choose to marry or date or whatever I don’t know why people get so upset about that sort of thing
Agree
Thanks!
I am still genuinely comfused my the rage and instantaneous racist behavior coming out of some people.
Thank you man. Seriously.
If he had 5 baby mamas he would been praised?
They celebrate Umar Johnson even though he has multiple baby mamas. Simply because Umar tickles their ego by hating interracial dating and marriage by black men.
Reaves known her since middle school, and she held him down when he was at his lowest point. I'm happy for the both of them
They didn’t have the same energy for Kamala and her husband and in fact they were the complete opposite
That part.
Exactly. We know their hypocrisy.
I just looked these two up. Made me teary eyed. They seem to truly love each other and support each other. You can’t put negativity on that no matter what anyone says. I pray their relationship remains solid throughout the years as they grow old together. If only all of us could find a true love, but I’ll rejoice for those that do.
You are a beautiful man inside and out. I love your heart!!! God bless you sir, you are spreading truths this world needs to hear! I am married to 100% Mexican for 38 years and people were so mean to us from the start. My own parents and his said we would never make it. Guess what, we are one of the only couples still married!
Saw you for the first time today on Doc Rich. Thank you for speaking the truth. 🙏🏻❤️
It’s a beautiful thing, developing a relationship that leads to marriage. I regret not having that in my life.
I thought love was blind?! What happened to being allowed to love who you love?
The leftist racists
When you connect with another human being beyond the physical and beyond the spiritual is absolutely nothing short of amazing
I never understood how someone could waste their time getting mad at someone who they don't know for marrying someone who they also don't know...people like the Umar Johnson's and the ilk's rhetoric is a hell of a drug and laxative... With all the things the black community has to worry about I seriously think that marrying outside of one's race is one of the immediate problems...
Jealousy, envy and hatred are terrible poisons to your heart and soul. 😞
Wish I could buy you a coffee I certainly will when I can.. got a little credit card debt going on which I normally don't have meanwhile what I do is I watch your videos and I watch them to the end.😊 And I always hit the like button
@@bobby-7167 it’s all love! I appreciate the support 🙏🏾💯
If two people can find love and common ground in the modern world, that is a miracle in its own right.
Trying to demolish that feat only shows what a petty and vindictive person you are.
I wish these two well in their marriage.
Hello my fellow American citizens 🇺🇸.
As a Hispanic man I do not discriminate against any female who is a different race than me. All I want is a good woman who can love me just as much as I would love them. Idc about what race they are
Social authoritarians tend to try to call the shots in one's life, ignore them.
My wife and SIL both turned in their black cards when our respective son and daughter were born and they’ve never second guessed or looked back.
This brother has true happiness. I want to be happy too. Where are all the beautiful yt princesses?
“You’re not even bottom shelf.”
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This is part of the reason why I'm disillusioned with the black culture.
Love it when someone calls a random person "mid". Immediately shows some depp insecurity/jealousy
You are correct sir on everything you said. They both seem happy i see know problem. I wish them the best. Aquarius you will succeed at this RUclips channel or whatever your doing. You have an intelligence that seems rare now days .
They are people who become indignant when they see other people's joy.
I realized as a full adult I am not apart of the community I was born into because I don't hold these invisible ideas and beliefs about the culture that I have realized many in the community do. I am NOTHING like most who have a deep seated hatred for anything good, are ashamed of nothing but offended by everything. Its just not in me to hate anything and anyone for the most mundane things the way alot in the community do and it's just sad to see. I don't see race in every single thing and don't believe the world owes me anything. I have NEVER cared about who dates what and I actually really do go by a persons character and hold everyone, including my own people accountable yet I feel like an island on my own for being this way and that's ok by me!
I'm mixed & consistently date white women, you get this crap all the time, despite the fact that I'm not even half black there will be some pearl-clutching when we show up holding hands. Typical hater behavior.
It’s a self loathing issue bro. Many AA’s sit uneasy at being part Whyte. Until they come to terms with this and move forward they’ll be stuck in a self destructive cycle
If there is not raceplay or race fetishizing BNWO crap and it’s human to human love, that’s not an issue. Live and let live.
Preach my young brother. He loves who he's with, and so does she. That's what really counts.
It’s not that we hate to see her happy. We (black women) just don’t see us in these moments very often. To the unhealthy this can be very hurtful and anger is just an emotion covering another… Jealousy…Black women aren’t a monolith but treated as such and most male groups are less likely to “pick us” even approach. We need to change as a community so black women can heal. But we can’t 1st be honest with ourselves about our community so we’re a long way away.
Are you sure you're not a monolith? 92% voted Kamala. I suspect black women are so monolithic that they can't see black men as anything other than a monolith also, so when a black man is happy, black women get butthurt and react like they are owed something. I really wish I was wrong about this. I feel like black women keep proving me right though. Much respect to you for even being on this channel though.
Bw are the only ones who are expected to hand their sons over to other races of women with a smile.
This is why so many of us are choosing to go child free.
Successful Black pro athletes typically go for a light skinned black woman or white / asian / hispanic woman. They consider this "MARRYING UP". Not saying it's right or wrong. It is what it is. But to a black woman this is a direct HIT on her because she can't compete with that white woman since that black man has chosen to "upgrade" and THAT is the proverbial elephant in the room that cannot be mentioned.
In truth, let that white woman and black man be happy. It's NOT about a black woman being scorned. The black woman scorned should go and find herself a white man and "get even" if she's so insulted by this.
Have you ever thought about why Black women don’t see themselves in these moments often?
“ Black women aren’t a monolith, but are treated as such and most male groups are less likely to pick us or even approach “ ~ again, have you ever taken a step back and think of the reasons why?
It appears, that there are valid reasons for these outcomes… they aren’t created in a vacuum. It isn’t just because Black men, and men of other races don’t pick Black women very often.
Perhaps it’s the multiple generations of Black women who insisted that they didn’t need a man, and that Black men aren’t ish, and blaming Black men (who also aren’t a monolith) for everything under the sun.
Maybe it’s because Black women, have a negative cultural image, over sexualized, angry, loud, masculine, constantly talk down on “their” men, and have, by the data, have the most children out of wedlock, and celebrate single motherhood as being strong and independent.
Have Black women ever been held accountable, and accepted accountability for their contributions in the demise of Black culture, the so called Black community…
By your own admission, there is no Black community ~ since Black women aren’t a monolith (although they have voted as such, even when the politics they support are most often against their own self interest… political party views that triumph abortion, and the elimination of Black families, supporting and paying homage to women such as Nikki Givonnani ~ a staunch feminist who was anti Black nuclear family…wholeheartedly supporting groups such as BLM who were also anti Black male and Black family… by their own admission…
There’s so much more to unpack… and it starts with self reflection…
There are valid reasons why Black women are the least chosen to be wives.
It’s quite possible that they, by their actions, aren’t wives… understand every woman isn’t a wife.
Black women don’t raise their daughters to be helpmates, to be wives, their focus is often on their own self interest… career minded, materialistic, and a majority are single mothers ~ while not a monolith… the data is overwhelming… and points specifically to why Black women aren’t chosen as wives.
Have Black women ever listened to those that warned them that Black women were “out of order” 40-50 years ago..?
These are honest questions.
Yet I’m sure that you’d object and deflect, as has been the case for the past 3 generations.
It is why Black men have voted with their feet, and many have left the so called Black community, or what’s left of it, majority headed by single mothers…
and oh BTW Black women divorce at a higher rate than any other group… especially the higher educated ones~ I’m sure that this is all on Black men as well… as this topic has been discussed ad nausea on social media.
Black women, in general haven’t made marriage and family a priority, and while it’s taken decades to get to this point, Black men have finally began to go where they are valued and celebrated, and are no longer staying where they are tolerated.
FTR, I was twice married to Black women. Fathered children, and twice had no fault divorce, when I wasn’t abusive, I wasn’t a cheater, but famously was a victim of “growing apart” syndrome…
I am not perfect by any means, and I’ve accepted my mistakes, and accountability and moved forward…
“Healing” … heal from what exactly ~ Black men and Black women have experienced much of the same… and Black men, have had it far worse… but this isn’t an oppressive Olympics.
Black women, need to look inward and do better and stop being the victim. Accept accountability for why they aren’t being chosen.
It isn’t “hate” it’s a reality and despite this Black women are still trying to blame others for their own actions.
Black men deserve love and respect… but the elephant in the room~ Black women don’t belong to Black men as other groups of women belong to their men.
Other groups of men see this and understand this as well.
Black women still after multiple generations refuse to acknowledge this. They still refuse to accept accountability.
Totally Disagree: It is totally INSANE to expect society to cater to the whims and insecurities of black women.
It is easier to pull someone down than raise yourself up.
I daid this once black women are jealous and you could be gorgeous but your attitude towards black me is the reason
Some of em don't get it
Said not daid
Thank you so much bro for making this video people like that are the ones who keep racism alive and well in the world
Are you happy? Do you love each other? Do you get along? Do you have similar values? Will you be good parents? The answers do not require anything about race. Haters are gonna hate! Hope they have a long, beautiful life!
Love is beautiful no matter the colour, age, religion. It’s the one thing we as humans all agree on. It’s amazing to see how love will endure and break boundaries.
Excellent lesson!
Those who are so jealous spew hate instead of fixing their own lives. What has this couple got to do with them, nothing…smh.
Love sees no color / when my grandparents got married she was Jewish and he was Italian / and people had something to say ..she converted to a catholic.. love is love
A Nigerian phrase I heard was that no matter what you do in this world people will talk either way, good on your grandparents for ignoring the talkers nnd just doing whatever they wanted. 👍
Yes!! Preach it, brother! You are quickly becoming one of my favorite channels. So much truth & articulated so well!
❤Love is love , Congratulations to them. And that’s all that matters. I don’t get why black people use their platform to poke an pick at each other over the most ridiculous things. I’m sure this couple had other haters too ;not just regarding race🙄.
Man u preaching I subscribed! Dont stop
@@Cerebro1977 appreciate you🙏🏾💯
Imagine telling adults who they can and should date lol
We free dawg !!!
You are my guy....happy new years!!!
It don't matter. Fredrick Douglas fought his whole adult life to free Black people from slavery. Yet, he married a White women. Why? Because she helped him to be free. My point is that if someone, regardless of their race or ethnicity, supports you and loves you, then their race is irrelevant. True love trumps all things material, and whoever has that love in their heart for you that is where you need to be, period.
Every word you said is so true how refreshing
They should make an interracial success couple story movie called get in lol.
@@gbot9000 🤣🤣🤣🤣
This message has really hit home to me. Not the example used here but being a failed musician i look at successful musicians with envy and negativity. Thank you for this video. Ive got a lot of work to do on ME!
Another one from my files is this one, WM Luke Abaffy several years ago married BW Katye,and they have 2 boys now living in rural Ohio. Luke and Katye lives in a tiny house 🏡 . They are creators of the Way documentary. Boom and boom
I subscribed. I like how you didn't choose to target the specific group who spew hate. Very tactful and mature.