Winners Always Quit | Zahid Azmi Ibrahim | TEDxUniversitasIndonesia

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  • Опубликовано: 2 дек 2024

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  • @xdflow021
    @xdflow021 2 года назад +437

    "Successful people is quiting all the time when something isn't working and they find another way to go where they've been aiming for"

    • @DarlikaDor
      @DarlikaDor 2 года назад +10

      So *NOT* quitting actually, just finding an alternative route.

    • @redapple9367
      @redapple9367 2 года назад +7

      @@DarlikaDor quitting the wrong route

    • @bravelle23
      @bravelle23 2 года назад +1

      we are sometimes busy to being successful and forgot the way to feel content and happy

    • @rafaryuga18
      @rafaryuga18 11 месяцев назад +1

      when GoogleMap heading you to the wrong way, just quit that route, find another route

    • @rafaryuga18
      @rafaryuga18 11 месяцев назад +1

      cause if you insist, the river ahead will stop you

  • @zaynee24
    @zaynee24 2 года назад +258

    orang-orang yang berani ngambil keputusan besar untuk diri mereka sendiri tanpa mencampur adukkan pendapat orang banyak itu absolutely keren. kita ga akan pernah tahu kalau kita ngga mencoba. orang-orang banyak yang mau mempertanggungjawabkan setiap keberhasilan, tapi enggan menanggung kegagalan. i hope could be brave and confident as you Kak, you're so inspiring for me

  • @DOREMIFA12345
    @DOREMIFA12345 2 года назад +948

    He's not exactly quitting, he finds out the way isn't leading to his destination, so he takes another way.

    • @anggaapriliansyah7143
      @anggaapriliansyah7143 2 года назад +8

      Exactly

    • @irwanzsmj
      @irwanzsmj 2 года назад +27

      Yeah he is not quitting, the experience from english debate, building youtube gaming, and being in itb make him can delivering english pretty good in this talk, gaing many followers in new youtube channel, and accepted in japan.

    • @kholidamsolikhah0373
      @kholidamsolikhah0373 2 года назад +9

      With his privilege i think his quitting is fine, even he is mentioned it

    • @btsshort1550
      @btsshort1550 2 года назад +1

      yas,unrelateable , some aspects should be taken into it and it can be relateable

    • @Pureforyouman
      @Pureforyouman 2 года назад +3

      HE JUST USING ANOTHER WORDS BUT CONFUSING

  • @dwiliarahmah3231
    @dwiliarahmah3231 2 года назад +392

    Either we quit or not, we are sacrificing something. Choose the decision that fulfilling our heart :)

    • @ahmadsrizal2365
      @ahmadsrizal2365 2 года назад +4

      I never know that i need this quote. but now i do, thanks

    • @TheEastLastof45
      @TheEastLastof45 2 года назад +3

      Zahid Azmi berhasil membuat pilihan agar arah hidupnya menjadi lebih baik dari sebelumnya. Namun, masih tetap banyak orang-orang di luar sana tidak seberuntung Zahid. Konsep "keluar" disaat yang "dikira" tepat belum tentu tepat, ada banyak pengaruh-pengaruh lain semacam efek kupu-kupu yang lebih kompleks meliputinya.

  • @ariyantolim2197
    @ariyantolim2197 2 года назад +134

    His English is so good... super easy to understand, and straight forward. Ofc the content was outstanding, but it is the way he delivers his story that really grasp my attention

  • @samanthacelena6241
    @samanthacelena6241 2 года назад +336

    your parent should be really proud of you zahid. kebanyakan orang merasa takut akan perubahan, namun itu hak masing-masing manusia. semoga video ini dipahami anak muda Indonesia, dan menjadi motivasi untuk memiliki tujuan yg lebih baik

  • @juansinaga901
    @juansinaga901 2 года назад +179

    Life is a series of choices. We can never know exactly the outcome of each options. Let's just try our best to analyse and choose the 'right' decision.

  • @shellioncemallice669
    @shellioncemallice669 2 года назад +97

    " If you don’t like where you are, move!
    You are not a tree. "
    - Jim Rohn

  • @dwinurcahyyo
    @dwinurcahyyo 2 года назад +101

    Cannot believe it. Zahid in TED Talks, but in few years ago, I knew it he has potential talent on his soul

  • @aangngng3308
    @aangngng3308 2 года назад +40

    Omaigodddd. Is it.... Is it.... Is it zahid? How come you get here :) so proud of you. Hope more talented Indonesian youth come here to motivate world's youth

  • @eigenvector24
    @eigenvector24 2 года назад +108

    Good luck for your next adventure Zahid :) such as an inspiring talk you shared in this video. 3 lessons I gained when I decided to quit my old job:
    1. The courage to start new
    2. The strength to move forward, and
    3. The ability to value myself better :)
    For everyone who is in the middle of making an important decision in life: trust your gut feeling. Wishing you all the best.

  • @simeonaditan
    @simeonaditan 2 года назад +111

    This story is very related to my experience. As a civil engineer student at one of the prestigious uni too, i failed to graduate in 4 years because I am to afraid to quit an organizational activity outside campus that turns out have a very bad impact to my life and study. I am afraid about what other people in the organization think about me if i quit. Like Zahid said, we have to think reasonably about this kind of problem and what other people think is not a reasonable reason to stay.
    One big thing that i learned from this story and my story is our life, time, future is in our hand, we are the one who have to determine our life not somebody else. Doesn't mean that we ignore everyone's opinion, but that's not the purpose of the decision that we make for our lives.

  • @matthieuahmed8318
    @matthieuahmed8318 2 года назад +54

    I like his talk... it's encouraging..
    Only that not many people's stories relate to that kind of privilege or leverage.. people fall into some sort of delusion... great talk anyway!

  • @hilwashafiya4067
    @hilwashafiya4067 2 года назад +31

    His storytelling skill is outstanding. Thankyou for sharing, Zahid!

  • @bakudanma
    @bakudanma 2 года назад +60

    The uncertainty of choosing a path to take in our life is something that will and always be haunting us. Eventually, we can only react to present task that is in front of us. With that said, I couldn't stress my self to create a 'masterpiece' rather I have to focus on what I am facing today and work on my self to become a better person.
    We are not wasting time by learning new things or studying subjects that we don't really feel into it, because it is part of the journey and the journey will always continue throughout our life. What I get from Zahid's perspective, choosing to quit means you want to focus on specific purpose which lead the direction to your goals.

  • @tatumrin9354
    @tatumrin9354 2 года назад +24

    I really love the part about how we tend to attribute positive values to past decisions as if they're absolutes

  • @nilakomalasari4970
    @nilakomalasari4970 2 года назад +11

    Can't believe it, you're so amazing Zahid. Biasa liat orang" dunia, dan Orang Indonesia masuk dichanel internasional ini kereeeeeeen bangeeeeeeet

  • @jaz_sica
    @jaz_sica 2 года назад +15

    I have quitted from school for two times because I was not happy and got depression, but right now I have my own path. I embarassed my parents at that time, but I promised them that I would find the right way to live my life.

  • @zemiii9488
    @zemiii9488 2 года назад +78

    last week, I have withdrawn my credentials from a well-known university in my country. I'm in third year architecture, but I guess I chose this major for the wrong reason: being hyped with the drawing and presentation aspect. (I didn't see myself in the profession). I couldn't take the toxic learning environment anymore since it was already costing my sanity (esp sleepless nights and peer pressure)
    Right now, I signed up for a university where I know I would fit in. also, I ventured into a science major, BS in Biology.
    I find this video very comforting since it validates the idea that Quitting is for Winners. For others out there who are feeling lost, I wish us all good luck and hopefully will have the opportunity to bring out our narratives.💓

    • @adit7695
      @adit7695 2 года назад +2

      you're amazing! congrats for being one of the people that choose to get out of their comfort zone instead of staying in for the sake of others' oppinion. wish you the best for your future endeavors

    • @2cool2btrue41
      @2cool2btrue41 2 года назад +2

      I actually relate to your situation very much . I was in my first year architecture but by the second semester I had the exact same realization as you had. I couldn’t handle the toxic environment as well as realized that I couldn’t see my future in the career so I changed my department in the university and instead went into industrial engineering. It was a big risk at the time and I am still dealing with the adjustments but truly it was the best decision that I took.

  • @kolmienglish
    @kolmienglish 2 года назад +11

    "Quitting is some of the best decisions you can make." 👏👏👏

  • @nakitavalentinapanjaitan1292
    @nakitavalentinapanjaitan1292 2 года назад +2

    Bang Zahid, aku udah ngikutin abang dr lama, banyak pelajaran yang aku ambil dr Abang, bahkan aku sampe cerita ke mama tentang Abang. Melihat bang Zahid sudah sukses gini rasanya kek bangga banget

  • @muhammadhaqqi2932
    @muhammadhaqqi2932 2 года назад +11

    When the lad says "this has been Zahid Ibrahim," it gave me goosebumps. Proud of you!

  • @idfipancani
    @idfipancani 2 года назад +3

    what a bold & brave young man ... bravo!

  • @EvaVDavid
    @EvaVDavid 2 года назад +5

    Pheww, this appeared in my suggestion, I had goosebumps at the end of your talk!

  • @nonblesse
    @nonblesse 2 года назад +12

    Thank you, Zahid. Choosing those difficult decisions, that's very brave of you. I hope I'll be as brave as you.

  • @Kenken99847
    @Kenken99847 2 года назад +6

    Quit is Brave and to be brave is awesome, cool, and amazing !

  • @happyberry1478
    @happyberry1478 Год назад +3

    "we need to accept that the short-term reality of confronting other people and confronting other stakeholders may be horrifying but this is a necessary step in hopes to win us long-term fulfillment."
    thanks, zahid! those words are so magical.

  • @unordinaryidea
    @unordinaryidea 2 года назад +7

    Thank you for your inspirational speech about quitting. It makes me ralize my last quitting must be motivated me to make a more beautiful happy ending than my sorrow to loose it after three years of struggle to get it.
    Hope we have a great future together a good person that make their environment better place.

  • @haimiviews4784
    @haimiviews4784 2 года назад +5

    This is what I want for long time, thank you so much

  • @-halolelly
    @-halolelly 2 года назад +16

    this video appeared on my youtube homepage so i decided to watch it. you know? I was blown away by how inspiring the video was. I love the courage this guy has. it wakes me up to start my own journey 🤎🤎
    thank you tedx talks, and thank you for your powerful message kak zahid ✨. guess i should watch this kind of video right now..

  • @cherryrosetorres6491
    @cherryrosetorres6491 Год назад +1

    He is such a brilliant and calm speaker. Very impressive speech.
    Thank you, Zahid, for this informative speech.

  • @agus8116
    @agus8116 2 года назад +2

    Semoga terus memberi banyak manfaat, ya, Zahid dan jadi pribadi bahagia :)

  • @SantiNurjanah-wy1ob
    @SantiNurjanah-wy1ob 2 года назад +9

    Zahid, do you know that you have inspired many people?😭

  • @atiquetanim1802
    @atiquetanim1802 2 года назад +9

    I highly value your thoughts, Zahid Ibrahim. I highly admire the book "The Long Game" by Dorie Clark during these long-term decision making. Our legendary poet in Bengal, Rabindranath Tagore, always raised voice in favor of self-learning, abiding by one's own nature.

    • @kingki1953
      @kingki1953 2 года назад

      Is that book has Indonesia translation?

    • @atiquetanim1802
      @atiquetanim1802 2 года назад +1

      @@kingki1953 I googled but could'nt find any.

  • @abdurrahmanaladalah_2ia088
    @abdurrahmanaladalah_2ia088 2 года назад +6

    A lot of respect to him. Gua selama ini nyari apa yang gua mau dan belum ketemu *mungkin udah tapi belum sadar* dan bisa dibilang terlanjur masuk ke perguruan tinggi yang bahkan setelah gua jalanin 2 semester masih belum dapetin minatnya. 😢

  • @syilvani-7912
    @syilvani-7912 2 года назад +3

    it never hurts to quit doing something with the right analysis at the right time. quitting is necessary and does not mean failure. quit with the right analysis and no need to listen around and find your way. Be yourself, find your happiness for your life.

  • @microscopicdeeds
    @microscopicdeeds 2 года назад +2

    masyaAllah, you are so brave ka! thank you for sharing your life experience.., it is amazing.. I hope Allah SWT will always give you and all of us the courage that we need to make a decision in our life, the strength and power that we need to always go ahead in our life journey, and the happiness in every moment of our life aamiin allahumma aamiin..

  • @mayorbotak2437
    @mayorbotak2437 2 года назад +5

    I'm 18 yo and I kinda have some situations like you, the feeling that losing interest in something like some time comes to my mind word like "what would I achieve at the end of the journey", I feel terrible I feel burnout I feel loosing I feel I can't take it anymore, and thanks to your video, after watching it I search for your name on YT and I found a lot of stuff that actually helps me a lot.

  • @handilla4395
    @handilla4395 11 месяцев назад

    i really like to watch Zahid's videos of giving us tips to learning other languages. Thanks, Zahid!

  • @Chikamiyuu
    @Chikamiyuu Год назад

    Just a video that i needed the most❤ the answer to my question.

  • @ekasusanty4513
    @ekasusanty4513 2 года назад +2

    It is always hard to quit what we have started...but you got it for better one

  • @dikkinuralamsyah6644
    @dikkinuralamsyah6644 2 года назад +8

    Wow, extremely proud of u, Zahid!

  • @rabeccaosman5014
    @rabeccaosman5014 2 года назад +9

    I quit my job"own", i knew it was wrong decision from the first days but tried to stick and hold on. I became more depressed and irritated until I did it 5 months ago. I felt sad and griefed for a month or two but definitely felt free. Going to abroad for studies its massive and uncertain move but i guess i will make it.

  • @yamanovia1459
    @yamanovia1459 Год назад +1

    Thank you for inspiring me, kak Zahid Ibrahim!🌟 I don't know if I don't open TEDX today, maybe I won't know when to stop and open my eyes wide to be brave maake decisions and take 100% responsibility for my choices without interference from other parties.
    In a few years I will come back here and I will see myself in a different place and all of that is thanks to your contribution.
    Let's see, hopefully

  • @nadiraazrina7672
    @nadiraazrina7672 2 года назад +3

    He did a great job on delivering such profound perspex. Great one Zahid!

  • @ran.journey2135
    @ran.journey2135 2 года назад

    Orang sukses mencari berbagi cara menuju kesuksesannya tetapi yang lainnya mencari banyak alasan untuk ketidaksuksesannya.
    "One way or another"
    Don't forget with Usaha dan do'a.
    Semangat bagi yg lgi berusaha dalam proses!!!

  • @empiwandaedu6540
    @empiwandaedu6540 2 года назад +1

    Your story catched all my attention, so inspiring Zahid!..

  • @zenpardosi
    @zenpardosi 2 года назад +1

    When you want to quit, it's best to do it as early as possible. I'll take that words

  • @mulyanisegara
    @mulyanisegara 2 года назад +1

    You'r not quite bud, you'r just made a new path

  • @skinnywannabe546
    @skinnywannabe546 2 года назад

    OMG I'M GRATEFUL THIS VIDEO RECOMMENDED EARLIER

  • @niswa8883
    @niswa8883 2 года назад +1

    kereen! you never stop impressing me

  • @angga8444
    @angga8444 2 года назад +5

    'to live is to suffer, to survive is to find meaning in that suffering.'
    Nietzsche

  • @audreytantri
    @audreytantri 2 года назад +1

    Truly enlightening and brave. Thank you for the talk

  • @marcellafbs
    @marcellafbs 2 года назад +2

    Omg ka zahid!! Keren I'm sooo proud of you❤🇲🇨

  • @jinuloioi88
    @jinuloioi88 2 года назад +2

    Thank you Zahid, Live is a choice, we will face struggle, we need another way not giving up.

  • @muslih5
    @muslih5 2 года назад

    IT'S BETTER SOMETIMES KNOWING WHEN TO QUIT, INSTEAD OF LYING YOURSELF AND HURTING THE ONES YOU CARE ABOUT THE MOST.

  • @suensiti
    @suensiti 2 года назад +4

    Zaid ... i'm so proud of you! Waktu pertama kali aku lihat kamu di youtube aku gak ekspek kalau kamu lebih muda dari aku tapi kamu menunjukkan semangat yang begitu besar, semangat untuk terus belajar dan tetap produktif dan berkarya di usia muda. Wah. Bisa lihat kamu di TED wow banget sih!

  • @ahuman378
    @ahuman378 2 года назад +2

    It's a perfect reason, we don't have to stick to something that we already good at it. We can change. And when something is really not interesting anymore, we can't enjoy, quitting is somethig normal, or perhaps it's a must.

  • @mikirAttt
    @mikirAttt 2 года назад +1

    He has done a good Job...
    Damn, I'm so frustrated bout my life if I look how he get what he want.
    ...
    U're lucky person. Hope my damn life will be getting better.
    I'm so frustraring right now.. May life get better. I hope. Thank you u've been here share what is ur mind.,.
    Applause

  • @halyangrandom7154
    @halyangrandom7154 2 года назад

    Feeling blessing to watch this video

  • @stellarmoto3214
    @stellarmoto3214 2 года назад

    Yayyy zahid on tedtalks ... Awesome ... Duri yayyy

  • @Ann-id3ht
    @Ann-id3ht 2 года назад +1

    Zahid you are here!! proud of you

  • @rabhita5853
    @rabhita5853 2 года назад +1

    omggg so proud u zahidd!! u're such a great inspirational influencer fr indonesian teens!! lookin u here makes a hope fr others youth !! best wishes fr u ❤️

  • @ploy8jewel
    @ploy8jewel 2 года назад

    Thank you so much. You have helped me climbing up the hole of guilt.

  • @husnitaufiq7738
    @husnitaufiq7738 2 года назад

    dude i do relate to this, we do not quit, we just move on and discover new world out there

  • @lathiframadhan5629
    @lathiframadhan5629 2 года назад

    This person inspires me a lot

  • @nindao3121
    @nindao3121 2 года назад +16

    Indonesian here, I graduated med school a year ago and just failed my licensing exam. Back in high school I was lost and didn’t know what to become, I did not receive the guidance I needed as a teenager. My parents wanted me to become a doctor and as the eldest child I pursued medicine to make them happy. 7 years later I’m not the happiest I’ve ever been, I can’t quit because the many years my parents invested in my studies. I’ve tried to like medicine all these years but just couldn’t and constantly trying to find a reason to keep going. Being on meds for my depression and anxiety is not worth it, but in our culture parents would always be first. Please pray for me to find my way, thank you x

    • @JohanRio
      @JohanRio Год назад

      thanks for sharing this, hang in there, I hope and I pray you will find your way anytime soon.

    • @mitsaqughalizhaabdansyakur208
      @mitsaqughalizhaabdansyakur208 Год назад

      how about now ? do you find it yet ?, I'm a medical students myself and currently struggling in my 2nd year, I just hope that I actually in my right path so I could work it all out until the end

  • @englishafterschool2526
    @englishafterschool2526 2 года назад +1

    Winners were losers at some points in life. The term "winners" itself is debatable. How do you claim yourself as a winner? Life changes, we win some and lose some. Quitting is part of seeking for an assumed better option. It takes courage which many lack of. Well, nice to see an Indonesian youth given a chance to share his life.

  • @nadnado4786
    @nadnado4786 2 года назад +6

    Thank you sooo much Zahid for such an inspiring talk! Wish u all the best in pursuing your next journey in Japan 🇯🇵
    I was afraid to quit my engineering job because I worried so much about what will people talk about me. But, after a lots of thinking about my future and health, I did a big move this year. I quit my stable job. Honestly it was not an easy decision but I am proud of my own decision. Really looking forward to start my new life chapter 😀

  • @adamdanwindy
    @adamdanwindy 2 года назад +2

    just dont quit to be a good human being

  • @renisaputri6139
    @renisaputri6139 2 года назад

    So proud of this young man. I know him from couple years ago

  • @assyfaatha665
    @assyfaatha665 2 года назад +4

    I want to leave my current major. I know my goals, but I'm just a human who can only try and pray to the god. When I made the decision to out of this major, my whole family were against me and even said I was an ungrateful. I was stressed almost depressed and almost secretly go to a psychologist. Your videos that made me better and helped me to make a very big decision in my life. I hope you can see my comment which is a mess of grammar. One word from me.. Thank you Kak Zahid🙏

  • @tamita07
    @tamita07 2 года назад +4

    Criiieedd 😭😭😭 thank youu for speaking my mind in a better (than my mind ofc), logical, acceptable & convincing speech.. you're a lot younger than me but your speech enlightens me.. kinda look for this so looong, thank you for showing up in my yt home 😭🙏🙏

  • @bravelle23
    @bravelle23 2 года назад

    We tend to pursue success and set it as our main goal in life, forget that there is other important things too, to feel content and happy.

  • @MrRicojoshuasalu
    @MrRicojoshuasalu 2 года назад +1

    Interesting talk! Thanks for sharing with us Zahid! Proudy Indo!

  • @simplestdaisy4186
    @simplestdaisy4186 2 года назад +1

    a very much needed Ted Talk by my favorite youtuber ever.

  • @daver_ap
    @daver_ap 2 года назад

    Im so proud of you zahidd, you inspired more people

  • @novialestari2783
    @novialestari2783 2 года назад

    thank you zahid for this. it means a lot to me

  • @khansazhafirah1253
    @khansazhafirah1253 2 года назад +5

    Keep going kak zahid!! You’re truly an inspirational person >

  • @dewihajarahmad
    @dewihajarahmad 2 года назад +1

    ZAHID DI TED TALK WOYY😭🤘🙂✨

  • @otosproperty
    @otosproperty 2 года назад

    Once Upon A Time......you got me envy how the way you talk "Quit", it sound damn good. inspiring talk.

  • @disga5853
    @disga5853 2 года назад

    couldn't say anywords for him but proud, goodluck for ur new journey, Zahid!

  • @Peacemindi
    @Peacemindi 2 года назад +1

    Quitting is not for everyone.

  • @mutiarairmaa
    @mutiarairmaa 2 года назад +2

    Imagine my self can be like zahid in the future✨😇

  • @ilyasarazzanand
    @ilyasarazzanand 2 года назад +1

    This is gold.

  • @ayufebiolaa
    @ayufebiolaa 2 года назад +2

    PROUD OF U ZAHID!!!!

  • @zelanahmed4864
    @zelanahmed4864 2 года назад +1

    Yeap Brother, Do what You Love!

  • @josuasagala3325
    @josuasagala3325 2 года назад

    gile sampe masuk tedx talks, mantap kak zahid, sukses selalu

  • @AnakGajah3
    @AnakGajah3 2 года назад

    Best Indonesian speaker in ted talk

  • @muhammadfadhilah1667
    @muhammadfadhilah1667 2 года назад +2

    Well done bro. Proud of you. Your speak is very inspiring

  • @runningwithjane
    @runningwithjane 2 года назад +1

    Incredible message, Zahid. Lucky to know you!

  • @nurjihan7642
    @nurjihan7642 2 года назад

    thank you zahid, you always make my day

  • @nurulilmi8537
    @nurulilmi8537 2 года назад

    Omg... damn, so proud to see u dude in this channel.... unbelievable, wanna cryyyyy 😢😢

  • @lestariayu07
    @lestariayu07 2 года назад

    im so proud of him

  • @juliussetiawan5436
    @juliussetiawan5436 2 года назад

    You are awesomely wise!

  • @syifaaza
    @syifaaza 2 года назад +1

    Zahid keren bgt 😭

  • @viskaseptiyani8252
    @viskaseptiyani8252 2 года назад +1

    Beautiful! Thank you, Zahid 💖

  • @raniafathony
    @raniafathony 2 месяца назад

    this is beautiful zahid, thank you😊

  • @hisal5242
    @hisal5242 2 года назад +1

    Proud of you zahid 👍🏼

  • @ardesaseptiani1445
    @ardesaseptiani1445 2 года назад

    How amazing u are!!!🤩I so proud of you ka zahidddd hehe, usually I am listening speakers from other countries except indonesia and now I am listening u from indonesia!!!