The most vulnerable I have ever been 😅😅 How I overcame this Traumatic Childhood experience.

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  • @cypriansikagoma7268
    @cypriansikagoma7268 8 месяцев назад +6

    You've reminded me of my own sexual abuse by 1. my 2 step sisters when I was very young and some older boys when I was young with some other young boys. I didn't tell my parents or other people about the half sisters sexual abuse of me. I'm now 63 but I need to forgive and forget although 1 of the 2 sisters is late now. I need inner healing. Pray for me. That molestation affected me negatively later. I also was exposed to porn which still haunts me todate and sometimes I wonder if God has forgiven me and heal me. Pray for me, sister.

  • @therapistwamwene3857
    @therapistwamwene3857 9 месяцев назад +5

    Rape, Defilement,sexual molestation and sexual abuse is painful, it elicits anger, self hate, shame and worst of all excruciating Trauma. It can be a major barrier to destinies and goals. Girls and women are going throughvthis right, left and center yet no one can listen or give them a shoulder to lean on.....may God hug every bleeding lady, child or male going through this pain. It is well darling

  • @loisemuthama5793
    @loisemuthama5793 5 месяцев назад +2

    Hellen you have remind me of what I went through at the age of 4yrs and at the age of 8yrs,the person whom did that was my neighbor and my cousin who was 17 yrs l told one person whom was very close to me but she did the same she beat me up which made me to hate all men, but I thank God I was preached just to forgive , and that is what I did,but am still preasing on

  • @rebeccaetter1104
    @rebeccaetter1104 9 месяцев назад +7

    You are strong woman 🎉hugs hugs.I always think about it when I see my daughter growing may God protect our children 😢

  • @margaretkamau2437
    @margaretkamau2437 9 месяцев назад +6

    Helen you have given me the courage to open up because I experienced the same

  • @emmaterryw
    @emmaterryw 9 месяцев назад +5

    6yrs old. Woi. My daughter's age 😭😭😭I feel so sad about that. I'm so sorry apple. I know the story. I'm glad you got to share this and I'm happy you have healed. I love you

  • @Luccccy187
    @Luccccy187 9 месяцев назад +5

    I love you Hellen, you are my role model ❤️ the impact you have created in this video is sooo huge ❤❤

  • @elinagwimile6136
    @elinagwimile6136 6 месяцев назад +2

    Accept
    Mourn
    Forgive
    I am glad when i had traumatized condition, i did all these three by the grace of God. Until today i am asking my self how did i crossed that situation, I believed that the grace of God took me through... one day, i will share my story but until i have my husband beside 😅

  • @gazzbizz2163
    @gazzbizz2163 9 месяцев назад +3

    So extremely brave of you to do this video Hellen and put your vulnerability out there ❤ god bless you 🙏🙏

  • @jamesmuchiri1305
    @jamesmuchiri1305 8 месяцев назад +1

    Sexual abuse can scar a person and cause you pain your whole life. Devastated by your story yet encouraged you have healed and forgiven the molester. May God keep ministering to you.

  • @IAmAvon3726
    @IAmAvon3726 9 месяцев назад +4

    Hi Hellen, you truly have a story to tell. And this will help a lot of people.

  • @jimmywagrace
    @jimmywagrace 9 месяцев назад +3

    You are destined or greatness Hellen you are always an inspiration to me to I know you are to so many young people. You are a blessing to many Daughter of Zion. Glory to God for the healing also and we pray and hope that you will get a man whom you will love and also love you.

  • @therapistwamwene3857
    @therapistwamwene3857 9 месяцев назад +3

    Am listening to this today. Gal, this is a milestone. Taking this step of opening up is indicative of courageous acceptance. Keep healing my dear. I hear your deep woes but am excited of this step taken.......trust will return slowly but surely❤🎉

  • @menyambu4849
    @menyambu4849 8 месяцев назад +2

    Hugs girl ❤️😘. We thank God for your opening up and sharing and healing too. You're amazing girl ❤❤

  • @gakuru_wambui
    @gakuru_wambui 8 месяцев назад +1

    Accept
    Mourn
    Forgive
    WOW hard pill to swallow but its the way to move on. Thank you Hellen for sharing your story, you have helped a lot of us from dwelling and ploting revenge and wishing people who hurt us the worst so may God intervene and help us..

  • @alicemuthoni7031
    @alicemuthoni7031 3 месяца назад +1

    I was molested when I was 6yrs and when I was 18yrs, This thing destroys ones self-esteem, the 18yrs one was from my Boss's son who repeatedly raped me for months and I became pregnant and got threatened if I told anyone he will kill my entire poor family, I almost killed myself but God took me through..I gave birth to a baby boy who is 17yrs now, I also have an issue with men am 37yrs not married but trusting God for a good man coz there are good men out here..I healed as well and even introduced the boy to his dad and they are good.. God is a restorer I no longer hate men but am always careful and hard to trust anyone easily..What the devil meant for evil God has turn it around for my good, Hallelujah!!

  • @juliakui2262
    @juliakui2262 9 месяцев назад +6

    God's grace is always sufficient

  • @joycesusan5398
    @joycesusan5398 9 месяцев назад +17

    I faced something almost similar from my mum's ex boyfriend when I was 10.Mum innocently told me to accompany him to his house not knowing she had handed me over to the devil. I have never shared this before but to this day, now as a wife and a mum,I have never healed. I hate intimacy with my husband. coz of the memories. Being a mum of a girl i pray that she will never be molested in Jesus name.

    • @josphinenyambura
      @josphinenyambura 9 месяцев назад

      😭😭

    • @user-dg2xg2fn3x
      @user-dg2xg2fn3x 9 месяцев назад +2

      Ooh No. Hellen, I am so sorry this happened to you. Judgement is on that evil man. He is judged now & after death he will be judged for his evil deeds. May he meet punishment for this. & All those who take advantage of innocent children.
      I thank God that you have forgiven him. Let God deal with him.
      May God use you & uplift you for His glory. Keep going strong Hellen. The Lord loves you & will always strengthen you. I salute you for letting bitterness out of your heart.
      God bless you always.

    • @rosethumbi40
      @rosethumbi40 9 месяцев назад

      Kindly write it down and allow yourself to feel the feelings...childhood traumas is really bad .I went for counselling and am now in such good space

    • @gladwelltailor
      @gladwelltailor 5 месяцев назад

      ❤❤❤🛐🛐📖✝️🩸🩸🙏🏾

  • @annwanjira2496
    @annwanjira2496 9 месяцев назад +5

    Hugs mama...you are really strong

  • @valentinemwangi5408
    @valentinemwangi5408 9 месяцев назад +4

    You are very strong ,am happy you are well now

  • @bethkimani3931
    @bethkimani3931 9 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks be to God for healing your heart... you're blessed 🙏

  • @user-wd1gw2lr6u
    @user-wd1gw2lr6u 9 месяцев назад +2

    I thank God for how you are today,,,, you have already healed

  • @angel_lizgaturu1330
    @angel_lizgaturu1330 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story. You have no idea how impactful (is that a real word?) it is 🙏🏽❤️

  • @aarongachanja
    @aarongachanja 9 месяцев назад +2

    Hellen you are Strong, May God reward all your pain with Joy and long lasting happiness.

  • @ruthmuthoni9296
    @ruthmuthoni9296 9 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks Hellen for sharing you have encouraged some people who are going through the same thing

  • @rosengugi4150
    @rosengugi4150 9 месяцев назад +1

    I am glad you didn't allow the devil to steal your star. You are going far Msoo, daughter of the most High, keep shining dear💞🙏

    • @rosethumbi40
      @rosethumbi40 9 месяцев назад +2

      One has to heal from this kind of trauma .there is no miracle about it..otherwise it will control ones conscious mind to the grave

  • @esthermuthoni-ql9gk
    @esthermuthoni-ql9gk 9 месяцев назад +2

    you are a strong woman may God increase you more and more to be a blessing to me ❤️

  • @Nixonogwang
    @Nixonogwang 7 месяцев назад

    Oh dear. Hellen you should know that all things happen for God for those who love The Lord. I feel so sorry for this and my greatest gift is to thank you for being open about this.May God richly bless you always. Am touched badly but this.

  • @margaretwambui2306
    @margaretwambui2306 9 месяцев назад

    You are a strong lady, i love your ministry. May God continue walking with you because you are a blessing to many

  • @Carolkajump
    @Carolkajump 9 месяцев назад +3

    Aki me I need guidance I passed sexual abused when I was young and threatened not say at all I went through a lot sijui kaa nitawahi heal juu sijawahi gain nguvu ya kumwambia mum dad
    🙏 💔 😔 💙 😢 😪

    • @menyambu4849
      @menyambu4849 8 месяцев назад

      🫂🫂❤❤Hugs love I pray you found peace and able to forgive and heal too.

    • @MaryMutunga-pe3he
      @MaryMutunga-pe3he 6 месяцев назад +1

      Me too sometyms I feel my mom was careless

  • @annmumbi6926
    @annmumbi6926 9 месяцев назад +2

    Hugs dear, you are amazing soul.

  • @njeps584
    @njeps584 7 месяцев назад

    Pole sana Helen. I thank God for healing your heart.. Through your testimony, may many receive healing in JESUS name. God comforted you and now you are comforting others.

  • @lilymwangi6905
    @lilymwangi6905 9 месяцев назад +2

    We thank God for healing you Hellen

  • @musaamani1177
    @musaamani1177 8 месяцев назад

    So sad that you went through this ordeal. I believe the Almighty God willdo wonderful things in your life. The lessons out of this video are powerful. I do follow you and i know you're ment for God's greatness and glory.

  • @YoungmannUg
    @YoungmannUg 6 месяцев назад

    God bless you in all for sharing with us.

  • @johnmwangi1374
    @johnmwangi1374 8 месяцев назад

    😢😢see what the lord has done,,,.
    you are a pillar I can rely on...

  • @Shanice-K
    @Shanice-K 9 месяцев назад +2

    oooh girl.. brought me to tears

  • @catherinechege8359
    @catherinechege8359 9 месяцев назад +1

    I love your courage girl...thanks that u are getting healthier daily

  • @enhadassah
    @enhadassah 4 месяца назад +2

    Hellen, kindly explain why God allows this to happen when He is in full view of the action! There is a lot of pain in this act because they steal the only true thing that truly belongs to you and that you have the power of. It is devastating 😭.

  • @Hellenah_Sufii
    @Hellenah_Sufii 9 месяцев назад +2

    Stand strong. Your destiny is very great 👍👍

  • @jamesonmaluleke6752
    @jamesonmaluleke6752 9 месяцев назад

    Its true Sister Helen it's not easy to forgive but we have to forgive as children of God.

  • @monicahwangechi1753
    @monicahwangechi1753 9 месяцев назад +2

    You are blessed gal... God be with you mamaa

  • @lydiababu8765
    @lydiababu8765 9 месяцев назад +2

    Hellen God bless you. My question is I went through the same and my daughter also to me the same thing happened to her, I have never healed and I don't know how to handle her. Please help

  • @naomiwaithera5911
    @naomiwaithera5911 9 месяцев назад +4

    You are sooo strong gal❤

  • @josephinemuthoni8100
    @josephinemuthoni8100 9 месяцев назад +1

    Msoo you are blessed and you are going far, thanks for sharing your story.

  • @leahnduta5539
    @leahnduta5539 9 месяцев назад +1

    It happened to me 8 yrs ago.Karibu niuliwe.thank God am alive

  • @ExploreMaasai
    @ExploreMaasai 9 месяцев назад

    Waah my sister sorry for you.Good idea for you lefting Inooro coz hugejiongea ugeishi na plastic smile bt now you are really and nice smile from your heart..pole dear

  • @user-gi2wn9hc9w
    @user-gi2wn9hc9w 7 месяцев назад

    ❤❤this will be of great help to many

  • @hannahrhodah2018
    @hannahrhodah2018 8 месяцев назад

    Let me subscribe before watching, subscribed already.
    Pole baby girl for what you went through 😭😭😭😭 God Loves you and we love you too our girl , receives many hugs 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂

  • @user-ry2ic4li8f
    @user-ry2ic4li8f 8 месяцев назад

    You are going far my sister keep up the good spirit

  • @njerindungu643
    @njerindungu643 9 месяцев назад +1

    This is very encouraging

  • @dianahmuhoro3869
    @dianahmuhoro3869 4 месяца назад

    Hugs girl❤❤❤

  • @MaryNjeriHausch-yn5yi
    @MaryNjeriHausch-yn5yi 8 месяцев назад

    Pole Sana Hellen. Thank God to make u strong.

  • @janegatua5335
    @janegatua5335 9 месяцев назад +1

    Hellen you are a strong woman, and beautiful,, ❤️ continue shinning ,,, May the grace of God continue protecting you,,

  • @karispower
    @karispower 8 месяцев назад

    Love you so mo much hellen, my favorite public figure❤

  • @VirginiaMaina-vv1vv
    @VirginiaMaina-vv1vv 9 месяцев назад +1

    Waiting to hear from you servant of God

  • @SophiaWambui-gg7rq
    @SophiaWambui-gg7rq 5 месяцев назад

    I'm sorry for that noni l miss your service in Inooro on Sundays please try to forgive from US

  • @charity9847
    @charity9847 8 месяцев назад

    I'm always asking my friends or anyone not to leave their children with strangers..God,, I don't feel like I've healed..😢

    • @MaryMutunga-pe3he
      @MaryMutunga-pe3he 6 месяцев назад

      Me I always feel so bad for my young sisters bcoz the person who did the same to me is still with them😢😢😢

  • @philipyashe2606
    @philipyashe2606 8 месяцев назад

    Interesting story, open minded lady...

  • @countrygal84
    @countrygal84 2 месяца назад

  • @JohnsonMwangi-wx8xs
    @JohnsonMwangi-wx8xs 5 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Wawira_N
    @Wawira_N 9 месяцев назад +1

    You are strong

  • @fosternkhoma6547
    @fosternkhoma6547 8 месяцев назад

    It happened so that the power of the Cross should be seen. Actually now consider yourself blessed to share the sufferings of Christ which heals the world, He loved.

  • @karispower
    @karispower 8 месяцев назад

    Positivity all through

  • @simulianaperis_ke
    @simulianaperis_ke 8 месяцев назад

    Receive hugs hellen❤❤

  • @gracemwangi5250
    @gracemwangi5250 8 месяцев назад

    Not me here thinking about my life .... I live I lying life😢😢

  • @wilfrednjoroge
    @wilfrednjoroge 9 месяцев назад +2

    What a healing 🤭❤

  • @user-tw9qh3bz4v
    @user-tw9qh3bz4v 9 месяцев назад +1

    How do i get to talk to you .....i texted you on fb am waiting kindly .

  • @mercymumbi4347
    @mercymumbi4347 9 месяцев назад

    Hugs hugs❤

  • @eunicejoseph6323
    @eunicejoseph6323 9 месяцев назад +1

    You are strong do you to talk to your uncle ????🤔🤔🤔

  • @suzzykiriswo1857
    @suzzykiriswo1857 9 месяцев назад

    There is more for you❤❤❤

  • @njerigitimu7457
    @njerigitimu7457 9 месяцев назад

    ❤❤

  • @lawrencewachira845
    @lawrencewachira845 9 месяцев назад

    😢😢😢

  • @JerushaKibe
    @JerushaKibe 9 месяцев назад

    Hugs dear🫂🫂

  • @edithwairimu
    @edithwairimu 9 месяцев назад +1

    😔🫂🫂

  • @judithmusangi9471
    @judithmusangi9471 8 месяцев назад

    Come hug me muthoni😢😢

  • @salomemuthoni1986
    @salomemuthoni1986 9 месяцев назад

    Wueeh 🫂🫂🫂

  • @terrynjihia2724
    @terrynjihia2724 9 месяцев назад

    Woi gal

  • @roberto7995
    @roberto7995 6 месяцев назад

    😢😢 I know the story and the person who did that to you 😡...but I just pray for him to get saved by the blood of Jesus Christ....

  • @wokykagez762
    @wokykagez762 8 месяцев назад

    Hug

  • @mercyireri6778
    @mercyireri6778 9 месяцев назад

    🫂 🫂

  • @marywangai5694
    @marywangai5694 9 месяцев назад +1

    🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂❤❤❤

  • @user-qc6mg3fk1l
    @user-qc6mg3fk1l 9 месяцев назад

    🫂🫂🫂❤️❤️

  • @naoshkadogo9933
    @naoshkadogo9933 9 месяцев назад

    🫂