Brothers and Sisters in Christ, Subscribe to the channel to keep receiving content that strengthens faith and enlightens the heart. 🙏www.youtube.com/@CSLewis-Sermons?sub_confirmation=1 Psalm 34:18 - “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
Every word of this sermon spoke to me and lifted me out of the broken spirit and depression that I have been feeling due to the workings of a narcissist family member. God bless you for the piece that I feel now!!
My narcissist that is robbing me of God’s peace for me is my 21 year old adopted daughter. For 18 years I have tried to rescue her and fix her but the trauma and abandonment inflicted upon her from 0-3 1/2 years of age, I am powerless to heal. These videos from this channel have help me to realize that she’s a narcissist robbing me of God’s peace and that for her sake and mine, I have to step aside, let go and Let God. Only He is able; I’m only a stumbling block in the way. Thanks for the God inspired wisdom.
I separated from my narc husband after 51 years. God delivered me from the narc and chaos and delivered me to peace, tranquility, calm and Confidence. Glory to his name I will be forever grateful!
I told my ex-husband that I am happy God sees me differently as he sees me. My ex-husband abused me in all kind of ways for 30 years. I tried to help my ex-husband and had put a lot of energy in it to fix him because i thought God would do a miracle. Nothing changed ...but I became exalted. God cannot do a miracle because the narcissistic thinks he is right. I am very grateful God helped me to recognize this and escape.God helped me to heal from all kinds of wounds he inflicted on me. In God, I am free and loved. ❤
Very inspiring, for twenty-eight years of my marriage, now divorced, praise God, I was trapped in the web of a narcissistic relationship, I lived every word of this message, listening to what was practically my everyday experience was very emotional but liberating, because at the end all glory belongs to the LORD. He delivered me, now I am free. Amen
Wow. So well said! Describes what so many are going through. I believe that each of us have a certain level of narcissistic behaviors. Used to protect us, used as coping mechanism. We all need healing in Christ
@@thembindaba6977 I am blessed. True. It took me moving a 1000miles away from this man to get away from the temptation to return to that relationship. It has taken me years to unrinse my mind and heart and soul from the “craziness” of that relationship. I am blessed. I am alone but at least I have the peace that only Christ Jesus brings to my heart & soul.
To have only seen this information sooner would have prevented 26 years of hardship, trauma, emotional pain and abuse in an unhealthy, toxic marriage. Thanks be to God he got me out of Satan's stronghold, the trap of being in a Narcissist's relationship and set me free before it completely ruined me.
Hearing about the roots of narcissistic behavior made me realize how much of it stems from brokenness. While I want to show compassion, I also know I need to protect my peace and worth in God. How do I set firm boundaries without feeling like I’m abandoning someone in need?
@@pamelamohn5931Amen to that!!! I continually demolish my alter of bitterness, project Love & Dunamis power (from Bible) along with claiming Excellence of Soul to my ex fiancé- I also read Psalm 51 out loud putting his name in - it’s very difficult sometimes-especially when memories of hurt & pain show through- but then I reflect on the deep seated hurt he has. I am aware of what he went through as I think back on the few things he told me happened when he was very young. Things that I did not examine when first hearing of. But something inside of me told me that there were things I needed to look deeper into only so that I may understand better as I try to heal.
Thank you so much - I’m always blaming myself for our marriage problems - this has truly helped understanding most of our 45-yr marriage difficulties- thank you again
A beautiful message! Amen, I'm worthy of gods love an peace, Thank you God for protecting me guiding me thru this turmoil . You showed me the way the truth an my real life I deserve. Amen n Amen 🙏🏼 ❤🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼😊
I am worthy of God's love and peace. After 30 years of marriage, mental and emotional abuse, I now understand!!! I decree and declare that deliverance is near me very soon!!!!
Yes they were false pretenses and nothing but emotional betrayal for me. It's sad when I didn't deserve this chaos brought into my life. I have rebuked all Diabolical negative spirits from my life. Amen 🙌🙏
I love CS Lewis's commentaries they are spirit-filled humble filled definitely wisdom filled from the Lord above thank you Lord Jesus for this wonderful man who came before us and went before us I'm sorry I didn't get a chance to hear him alive or see him alive but his commentaries today still ring true and they are such immense will help😊 thank you so much Heavenly Father🙏🏿🙏♥️🤍💙
I’ve dealt with more than one narcissist in my life, and I am well over it! They have no clue what they do. They don’t care what they do. In fact I’m convinced they find pleasure in leaving chaos and pain all around them.
Thank you I read mere Christianity 30 years ago. I thought for sure my husband of 3 years would have dug into it. Needless to say have been like a yo-yo most of my life. Lots of promises of change but not seeking God at all, we know it can't be done without Holy Spirit wisdom and mercy as He exposes our sinful prideful heart and fear. Like the scripture says," if you hold on to your life, you will loose it.". Pray for me that I can solid in on the sovereignty of The Lord.
I am worthy of God’s peace and love. Thank you, Father, for confirming the lies I believed, while I was being controlled and manipulated by a narcissistic husband, and his buddy, the senior pastor at our former church. Thank you for strengthening me, when I didn’t think I’d survive 2022, or even 2024, and for wisdom and discernment! And for the courage to leave both that church and my husband (currently on divorce #3, for him). I humbly ask for protection over my teen daughter, for her eyes to be opened and the truth to be revealed, and to break the generational curse of narcissism, on that side of her family.
Thank you for clarity of understanding! I came to a stark abandonment by a husband years ago when Holy Spirit stepped into my relationship with a "love & empowerment" I never knew could exist on this earth. Ever since the presence of H.Sp./Word have kept my ID in the obedience to/faith in the approval of God as His "Beloved" & His witness to my truth upheld by His Truth. A gift of grace I gladly rest in! God never fails His promises!! Proverbs 3:5,6 ... my grandfather's gift to me on my 11th Christmas! 🙏😇🥰
My daughter I gave my love, my time, my care, For a child who never could be fair. Persistent disrespect, a soul so cold, I never knew the truth I’d hold. A screaming match, a wasted night, A life consumed by endless fight I saw the darkness, the twisted game, But still, I carried all the blame. Depleted, drained, I’m left behind, Her hatred etched, a tortured mind. She never learned the simplest rule, Pretending to not understand-a game cruel. Every day, the same old show, God, have mercy, please let me go. I seek my life, not hers to own, My spirit weary, tired, alone. I’m done with pain, done with this strife, Only now, I want my life.
I am totally believing this. My nativity depression at spouses death protocol children and then the narcissist. I was totally set up for this by my whole life. Plus having unchristian family. Now understand how sad the plight of the Narcissist and their attempt to not see how they are possibly not realizing that repenting and forgiving those who have damaged them is what they need. Then those of use who got into their Webb thinking they really loved God somehow or loved us was all a lie so know I am worthy of Gods love and protection. So hope all of you on this Journey will see that We need closeness to our Father in Heaven and the Closeness with Him brings the happiness we seek. Like said in this video God will make a way for us He will direct our paths. We must seek Him with our whole hearts minds and strength. He will be there for us if we truly seek Him. It is not easy after leaving the Narcissist but we must learn to Trust God for all. Asking for Discernment of people is important! Ask God to help you build up your self esteem so you can understand to see thru the bs of Christians and non Christians. Learn to have a Godly love of yourselves. Pray for those who have hurt you!
I love to see people protect. reflect. shun. it’s a daily goal. Always striving to be better for Him. Accountability for our very own lives is the best example we can give these lost. Heaven IS a place on earth and I hope you find that in your life if you havnt you’re on the right page to reaching the high road.
@@heatherdenmark22 Thank you I also had a couple others tell me that too. It is not easy after all that to learn how to live an see thru what people are pulling off. Playing games which thru might not even know the stuff they are doing. Sick of Christian saying zGod told them this or that when you must realize they are not even ok even themselves so must really notice . Would love to tell the narrcissist who have not spoke to since end of July what exactly is wrong with him. He would not believe it anyway. I totally loved him and it was all just do he could get. I do hope God can open his eyes. He stole like 50000 but at least I am alive and so is my dog but he really hurt me and I hoped a lot for his life. I no longer at this point have to get property and a home but maybe our Father will give me a life and who knows can hope for a Christian husband. In Gods timing. Right now working at being ok and learning about people what I was suppose to learn as a kid. Learning to love self. And to trust that God will make a way for me. God bless!
I lived in abuse physical and mental for 15 years and I finally left after he tried to kill me and my children one night. I had to strategically plan my escape with them and had to get police protection until his rage caused him to be escorted To an institution to calm him down and make him realize he had to stop or be indefinitely hospitalized or jail. It was so horrific for me and my 2 little children. I thank God he gave me the courage to leave. I encourage anyone that’s being abused to step out by faith and you will heal and have peace joy and happiness you deserve God bless all of you
My youngest brother is, and as a Christian I tried over the years , I’ve learned the hard way that even with tolerance and Christ dwelling In my Heart and praying , distance and no contact was my only solution .
God bless you for this video! So many scars after a relationship with a narcissist and then some with children from the narcissist that place him on a pedestal with no respect for the parent that truly loves them wishing the best for them.
Some will never feel the joy that comes after repenting. To be truly known by God is like nothing else. He is able to control every part of our lives and forgives us when we are honest. He already knows so why do they not keep their hearts and minds at peace by not holding on to anything that would break Gods law or makes him Sad.
"Have you ever noticed how some relationships start with a dazzling light, only to fade into chaos, confusion, and pain?" Wow. The perfectly describes Christianity.
I am sorry that has been your experience. Do you think the ones you have encountered are hiding behind a guise of Christianity? If there is no fruit of the Spirit within those individuals I would question whether they even know Christ Jesus. Keep your eyes on the Lord Jesus, and not on flawed people.
@@pamelamohn5931 Christianity is the guise. It is the façade that covers bigotry. Religion allows you to commit any act, hate any person, as long as you claim to do it in the name of your god, and proclaim love while doing it.
I found myself reflecting deeply on this message about stepping away from toxic relationships. The roller coaster analogy felt so real-I've been through those highs and lows that leave you drained. It’s a struggle, but anchoring in God’s peace is the only way forward. How do I ensure I don’t fall back into the same cycle once I’ve stepped away?
By renewing your mind, when thoughts come examine them. Are they your thoughts, God's thoughts, or the accusers. Bring it into captivity and say what the word says about the situation. I send Love forgiveness
Although God wants us free and at peace, in Him, the Word of God is very clean on divorce. Except for the act of adultery...I pray that all those commenting on being "free" from their abusive marriage, and thanking God for freeing them, have remained single and celebate.
My youngest daughter had a past (childhood) I can’t even imagine… her father left us for another woman while she was a very young child, the house we lived in had been used for her father’s grandmother’s seances…. Please pray for her. Thank-you.
I know i am worthy, but am conflicted by my sacrament and vow of marriage. I have set boundaries and no longer let him affect me emotionally, his episodes are fewer, but i would be lying if i said it didn't take a toll on me.
3 yrs ago, after a 30 Yr marriage with divorce threats yearly, I finally said OK and upped and left. We sold house, I moved 8 hrs away. He hoovered, I caved, but after 4 times, I was done done. He has now ignored me for 8 mths, still not got divorce papers to me like he threatened. This was the best summary I have ever heard and I've heard all of them for 3 yrs, a few hours every day on you tube realising he was a covert narc and learning from therapists on here. But this.. This was brilliant! Thank you
And Yet, we are left with the Reality of biblical truth, that narcissism is not grounds for divorce... As horrid and toxic . CS Lewis also shares the hard reality of this in his other writing and this series of videos. Regardless of where we find ouselves in these desperately lonely or toxic relationships... God is still on His throne.. and the Truth of His eternal promises in Yeshua remain our everlasting hope.
The chaos = acts of passive-aggressiveness & then the gaslighting about it! "No, I didn't sabotage you again...why would I do that?" "BECAUSE you're a narcissist who gets pleasure from causing pain in others and then denying it; stating it's other's imagination."
It can't be said any better.Thank you so much. 2025 is the year of liberation from such mockery, belittling of God's children. Come Holy Spirit, Come, come Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of your faithful. And kindle in them the fire of your love. Send forth your Spirit, and they shall be created. And you will renew the face of the earth. 2 cor 3:17 17 Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. 18 And we all, who with unveiled faces contemplate the Lord's glory, are being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit. May this be my prayer for anybody who listens to this video. Where the Spirit of God dwells there is freedom and liberty....Reign Lord in your people and heal all narcissists of their trauma as they're victims of the past, childhood they never chose. Mercy Mercy Mercy. Redeem us all o Lord in Jesus name. Amen.
I am Worthy of Gods love ❤️ Past. Present. Future. - I am so grateful to have knowledge passed to me. I must compliment the way you outline and deliver these message. The value vast. Anyone with a thirst for wisdom can have their cup overflowing with the quality content you’ve presented. You’re an inspiration to us all ♥️ Enamored.
The narcissist I dealt with had a “black” heart. He was so spiteful and wanted to punish me. He said he was going to punish me. His wife had died 11 months before I met him at work. He love bombed me, with food and expensive gifts… moving me into his house the 1st day I set my foot in his house. I am finally able to pray for him genuinely. The truth has set me free. I went to hell with the trauma bonding. I was under a lie and spell because the wasn’t even me! I sent those demons right back to hell. I pray for his deliverance and that God spares his soul from Hell Fires 🔥 please pray for his deliverance, his name is Franklin. Thank you, we have to bombard the darkness’ kingdom. The devil wants to infect us with narcissism and darkness, but don’t let him. Bounce back from walking on the dark side and seeking revenge. Thank you Father for all the knowledge of Narcissism on RUclips 🥰🥰🥰
Yes, it’s very traumatizing to meet somebody and fall in love after they have been in a divorce from infidelity of a wife that left him for a whole year then they become single for five years you meet them because your spouse passed away and was a nice Christian man you find out the traits of this man when he’s angry cuss you out that’s not Christian love ..but he says he loves you because he’s the man and he’s in control and he’s running it and he don’t like a woman to speak. There mind they leaves her caught up in depression stress every day he doesn’t wanna be around people because he can’t control his anger. Now you left alone not going places not doing anything, but when you come out constantly arguing over minor things tthings that up and downdown relationship. Now you left wondering, should you become single or should you stay in the marriage and make it work because you’re Christian walk is stronger than that person that person acts in anger and verbal abuse when they have a drink when you push a button is very scary. Verbal abuse is terrible than putting your hands on someone so I’m praying to God give me wisdom in this marriage with these last four years and I pray for others peace as well. I never knew what a narcissist really was till heard this message but I know God is able because he’s a very sweet understanding person but he’s got these personality traits. I guess he came from his last marriage to all of you going through the same thing I pray to God, everything flows in the fruits of the spirit .to help with marriage . So always pray before you say I do . I saw there’s flags before we married . But I was a weak vulnerable widow. So I hope he change force better . Because like he said as a narcissist, they try to make you feel like everything is OK after they’ve done all their mean disrespectful stuff like nothing never happened and you’re back in the same boat again for another year then it turns out to five years, there must be boundary set, or you will be stuck
No, you don’t stay. The Bible says in 2 Tim 3:2-9z it describes the narc and tells you to stay away from them. If you experience what’s in this video, you are experiencing abuse. Emotional and psychological, those are grounds for divorce. Listen to David E Clarke, he tells you all
That's the thing, we can't. They think they know everything. They are walking with the enemy because he has them so blind. My husband is a narsisist. He only thinks of himself and playing the part of serving God when he isn't at all. I'm asking God whom I love dearly for guidance in what to do besides praying for him.
I'm not sure it's original. Because what one shall do, for example in a marriage, when she was blind, and now it's too late 😭 God hates divorce! This messages suggests, and tell even openly, that such relationships is unbearable. Somehow it doesn't fit to a christian.
My children's father became a life & death action in front of a 5 & 6 year old and later a threatening to them rage reaction!! ... God's Word in entirety is required to validate His LIFE position!
I'm quite confused if it's original. Because what one shall do, for example in a mindabusing marriage, when she was blind by choosing a narcissist spouse, and now it's too late!!! God hates divorce! This messages suggests, and tell even openly, that such relationships is unbearable. Somehow it doesn't fit to a christian!!! It wakes up regret ; sorrow ...and all kind of negatives. It doesn't makes sene at all!
@@dawnkelly804 I've heard that excuse before-it shows me that you can't refute my claim or defend your beliefs. "It clearly proves otherwise" Show me, child.
@ it’s simple - The Word is Truth…… you are using a tactic of confusion to try to Féria the Truth- God is Love ….. narcissist = control. God= free will
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Psalm 34:18 - “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
💕Amen 💔🙏🏻❤️🩹💕👸🏻
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Every word of this sermon spoke to me and lifted me out of the broken spirit and depression that I have been feeling due to the workings of a narcissist family member. God bless you for the piece that I feel now!!
Amen
One of my favorite verses
My narcissist that is robbing me of God’s peace for me is my 21 year old adopted daughter. For 18 years I have tried to rescue her and fix her but the trauma and abandonment inflicted upon her from 0-3 1/2 years of age, I am powerless to heal. These videos from this channel have help me to realize that she’s a narcissist robbing me of God’s peace and that for her sake and mine, I have to step aside, let go and Let God. Only He is able; I’m only a stumbling block in the way. Thanks for the God inspired wisdom.
May God bless and heal every person who is here. Amen!
I separated from my narc husband after 51 years. God delivered me from the narc and chaos and delivered me to peace, tranquility, calm and Confidence. Glory to his name I will be forever grateful!
That was a long time wow..mine was 25 yrs.
Blessings as u heal sister..never take your eyes off HIM...much love.❤
after 41 years I divorced my narc husband. Im free and no more
May God’s amazing grace & peace be with you always.
I divorced him after 45 years. I couldn’t take anymore. The Lord has been good to me, but it is still hard.
Amen ✝️🕊👍
I told my ex-husband that I am happy God sees me differently as he sees me. My ex-husband abused me in all kind of ways for 30 years. I tried to help my ex-husband and had put a lot of energy in it to fix him because i thought God would do a miracle. Nothing changed ...but I became exalted. God cannot do a miracle because the narcissistic thinks he is right.
I am very grateful God helped me to recognize this and escape.God helped me to heal from all kinds of wounds he inflicted on me. In God, I am free and loved. ❤
Very inspiring, for twenty-eight years of my marriage, now divorced, praise God, I was trapped in the web of a narcissistic relationship, I lived every word of this message, listening to what was practically my everyday experience was very emotional but liberating, because at the end all glory belongs to the LORD. He delivered me, now I am free. Amen
I choose God’s peace over toxic chaos.
God is my defender and his peace is my shield.❤
I CHOSE GODS PEACE OVER CHAOS!
Wow. So well said! Describes what so many are going through. I believe that each of us have a certain level of narcissistic behaviors. Used to protect us, used as coping mechanism. We all need healing in Christ
Yes, the enemy twisted our hope into codependency but God used it to strengthen the ties that bind us in Christ only!
I declare to trust God over toxic chaos.❤🙏
I’m worthy of God’s peace and love, amen. 🙏
Trusting and believing God will deliver me from my abuser now!
I am Worthy of God's Peace
I am worthy of God's Peace & Love!!! Jesus saved me & delivered me from adultry! Free 50 years!!! Praise the Lord!!! ❤😂🎉
I am worthy of God’s love. Thank you lord Jesus for you healing power towards me.
I am so relieved that I got out of a 14year relationship with these dynamics. Terrible and crushing was it.
Were you married?
You are blessed. I am still stuck with the narcissist. I am trusting God 2025 is going to be a year of victory for me in Jesus name
@@thembindaba6977 I am blessed. True. It took me moving a 1000miles away from this man to get away from the temptation to return to that relationship. It has taken me years to unrinse my mind and heart and soul from the “craziness” of that relationship. I am blessed. I am alone but at least I have the peace that only Christ Jesus brings to my heart & soul.
You can at least separate and go no contact
I left after 6 years- so difficult but doing ok
I am worthy or God’s peace and love, let us work together as the body of Christ..Building each other. God Is Faithful!!
To have only seen this information sooner would have prevented 26 years of hardship, trauma, emotional pain and abuse in an unhealthy, toxic marriage. Thanks be to God he got me out of Satan's stronghold, the trap of being in a Narcissist's relationship and set me free before it completely ruined me.
Lord the kids and i accept your help. In Jesus name, Amen
Hearing about the roots of narcissistic behavior made me realize how much of it stems from brokenness. While I want to show compassion, I also know I need to protect my peace and worth in God. How do I set firm boundaries without feeling like I’m abandoning someone in need?
Remember the pain.
Sometimes we need to love others from a distance, and just pray for them. Remembering that they themselves are the ones who created the distance.
@@pamelamohn5931Amen to that!!! I continually demolish my alter of bitterness, project Love & Dunamis power (from Bible) along with claiming Excellence of Soul to my ex fiancé- I also read Psalm 51 out loud putting his name in - it’s very difficult sometimes-especially when memories of hurt & pain show through- but then I reflect on the deep seated hurt he has. I am aware of what he went through as I think back on the few things he told me happened when he was very young. Things that I did not examine when first hearing of. But something inside of me told me that there were things I needed to look deeper into only so that I may understand better as I try to heal.
I lived every word of this message, listening to what was practically my everyday experience was very emotional but liberating❤❤❤
This is so good for my soul. Truth sets us free.
I have God's peace and love.
I am worthy of God's love.
I trust God and stand on the Rock.
I am so worthy of God's grace, peace and love! Amen
I am worthy if God's peace and strenght
Thank you so much - I’m always blaming
myself for our marriage problems - this has truly helped understanding most of our 45-yr marriage difficulties- thank you again
Remember, you can't fix someone else.
A beautiful message! Amen,
I'm worthy of gods love an peace, Thank you God for protecting me guiding me thru this turmoil .
You showed me the way the truth an my real life I deserve.
Amen n Amen 🙏🏼 ❤🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼😊
I am worthy of God's love and peace. After 30 years of marriage, mental and emotional abuse, I now understand!!! I decree and declare that deliverance is near me very soon!!!!
We are not worthy of anything, God is worthy, we received grace.
❤❤❤ we are all worthy of peace
Yes they were false pretenses and nothing but emotional betrayal for me. It's sad when I didn't deserve this chaos brought into my life. I have rebuked all Diabolical negative spirits from my life. Amen 🙌🙏
IAM WORTHY OF GODS PEACE AND LOVE❤
I love CS Lewis's commentaries they are spirit-filled humble filled definitely wisdom filled from the Lord above thank you Lord Jesus for this wonderful man who came before us and went before us I'm sorry I didn't get a chance to hear him alive or see him alive but his commentaries today still ring true and they are such immense will help😊 thank you so much Heavenly Father🙏🏿🙏♥️🤍💙
AMEN !!! I am worthy of God's peace and love. Thank you.
Tha nk you Lord for deliverance
I’ve dealt with more than one narcissist in my life, and I am well over it! They have no clue what they do. They don’t care what they do. In fact I’m convinced they find pleasure in leaving chaos and pain all around them.
Narcissists wear down any normal person.
I needed this! I’m in tears!
My ears have heard, my eyes opened and my heart trusting in God has given me peace. Thank you for a very enlightening video.
I am worthy of God's love and peace!
I Declare YAHWEH Peace over me and in my life It's Done Amen 🙏
This message is a gift from God for me. Thank you!
I am worthy Of God Peace and Love
Thank you I read mere Christianity 30 years ago. I thought for sure my husband of 3 years would have dug into it. Needless to say have been like a yo-yo most of my life. Lots of promises of change but not seeking God at all, we know it can't be done without Holy Spirit wisdom and mercy as He exposes our sinful prideful heart and fear. Like the scripture says," if you hold on to your life, you will loose it.". Pray for me that I can solid in on the sovereignty of The Lord.
I am worthy of God’s peace and love. Thank you, Father, for confirming the lies I believed, while I was being controlled and manipulated by a narcissistic husband, and his buddy, the senior pastor at our former church. Thank you for strengthening me, when I didn’t think I’d survive 2022, or even 2024, and for wisdom and discernment! And for the courage to leave both that church and my husband (currently on divorce #3, for him). I humbly ask for protection over my teen daughter, for her eyes to be opened and the truth to be revealed, and to break the generational curse of narcissism, on that side of her family.
Thank you for clarity of understanding! I came to a stark abandonment by a husband years ago when Holy Spirit stepped into my relationship with a "love & empowerment" I never knew could exist on this earth. Ever since the presence of H.Sp./Word have kept my ID in the obedience to/faith in the approval of God as His "Beloved" & His witness to my truth upheld by His Truth. A gift of grace I gladly rest in! God never fails His promises!!
Proverbs 3:5,6 ... my grandfather's gift to me on my 11th Christmas! 🙏😇🥰
I am worthy of God's love an Peace !!!
Yes you are!
99.99999% of them are not willing to change!!!😢😢😢
They believe there is nothing wrong with them, nothing to change or fix.
Pray
My daughter I gave my love, my time, my care,
For a child who never could be fair.
Persistent disrespect, a soul so cold,
I never knew the truth I’d hold.
A screaming match, a wasted night,
A life consumed by endless fight
I saw the darkness, the twisted game,
But still, I carried all the blame.
Depleted, drained, I’m left behind,
Her hatred etched, a tortured mind.
She never learned the simplest rule,
Pretending to not understand-a game cruel.
Every day, the same old show,
God, have mercy, please let me go.
I seek my life, not hers to own,
My spirit weary, tired, alone.
I’m done with pain, done with this strife,
Only now, I want my life.
Prayer and Fasting that kind cometh out!
Beautifully Written, Well Done, I feel the same as you with my daughter
I am totally believing this. My nativity depression at spouses death protocol children and then the narcissist. I was totally set up for this by my whole life. Plus having unchristian family. Now understand how sad the plight of the Narcissist and their attempt to not see how they are possibly not realizing that repenting and forgiving those who have damaged them is what they need. Then those of use who got into their Webb thinking they really loved God somehow or loved us was all a lie so know I am worthy of Gods love and protection. So hope all of you on this Journey will see that We need closeness to our Father in Heaven and the Closeness with Him brings the happiness we seek. Like said in this video God will make a way for us He will direct our paths. We must seek Him with our whole hearts minds and strength. He will be there for us if we truly seek Him. It is not easy after leaving the Narcissist but we must learn to Trust God for all. Asking for Discernment of people is important! Ask God to help you build up your self esteem so you can understand to see thru the bs of Christians and non Christians. Learn to have a Godly love of yourselves. Pray for those who have hurt you!
I love to see people protect. reflect. shun. it’s a daily goal. Always striving to be better for Him. Accountability for our very own lives is the best example we can give these lost. Heaven IS a place on earth and I hope you find that in your life if you havnt you’re on the right page to reaching the high road.
He takes what the enemy planned for evil and makes good to come for us, His body and His glory...my experience has been 40 plus years in the making!
@@heatherdenmark22 Thank you I also had a couple others tell me that too. It is not easy after all that to learn how to live an see thru what people are pulling off. Playing games which thru might not even know the stuff they are doing. Sick of Christian saying zGod told them this or that when you must realize they are not even ok even themselves so must really notice . Would love to tell the narrcissist who have not spoke to since end of July what exactly is wrong with him. He would not believe it anyway. I totally loved him and it was all just do he could get. I do hope God can open his eyes. He stole like 50000 but at least I am alive and so is my dog but he really hurt me and I hoped a lot for his life. I no longer at this point have to get property and a home but maybe our Father will give me a life and who knows can hope for a Christian husband. In Gods timing. Right now working at being ok and learning about people what I was suppose to learn as a kid. Learning to love self. And to trust that God will make a way for me. God bless!
I stand on the Lord's promises as I navigate my way to a better life!!!❤
I lived in abuse physical and mental for 15 years and I finally left after he tried to kill me and my children one night. I had to strategically plan my escape with them and had to get police protection until his rage caused him to be escorted
To an institution to calm him down and make him realize he had to stop or be indefinitely hospitalized or jail. It was so horrific for me and my 2 little children. I thank God he gave me the courage to leave. I encourage anyone that’s being abused to step out by faith and you will heal and have peace joy and happiness you deserve God bless all of you
My daughter escaped but her son is still with him indescribable pain
Iam worthy of Gods love and peace
My youngest brother is, and as a Christian I tried over the years , I’ve learned the hard way that even with tolerance and Christ dwelling In my Heart and praying , distance and no contact was my only solution .
God bless you for this video! So many scars after a relationship with a narcissist and then some with children from the narcissist that place him on a pedestal with no respect for the parent that truly loves them wishing the best for them.
Oh how I love Jesus, what evil double minded people but we cannot hate them they need to repent.❤❤
Some will never feel the joy that comes after repenting. To be truly known by God is like nothing else. He is able to control every part of our lives and forgives us when we are honest. He already knows so why do they not keep their hearts and minds at peace by not holding on to anything that would break Gods law or makes him Sad.
"Have you ever noticed how some relationships start with a dazzling light, only to fade into chaos, confusion, and pain?"
Wow. The perfectly describes Christianity.
I am sorry that has been your experience. Do you think the ones you have encountered are hiding behind a guise of Christianity? If there is no fruit of the Spirit within those individuals I would question whether they even know Christ Jesus. Keep your eyes on the Lord Jesus, and not on flawed people.
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Christianity is the guise. It is the façade that covers bigotry. Religion allows you to commit any act, hate any person, as long as you claim to do it in the name of your god, and proclaim love while doing it.
I found myself reflecting deeply on this message about stepping away from toxic relationships. The roller coaster analogy felt so real-I've been through those highs and lows that leave you drained. It’s a struggle, but anchoring in God’s peace is the only way forward. How do I ensure I don’t fall back into the same cycle once I’ve stepped away?
By renewing your mind, when thoughts come examine them. Are they your thoughts, God's thoughts, or the accusers. Bring it into captivity and say what the word says about the situation. I send Love forgiveness
I’m worthy of Gods peace and love not verbal abuse under drinking .
YOU ARE AMAZING SIR… I THANK GOD FOR YOUR VIDEOS,,, I only heard 2 of them and I’m a subscriber now, BLESSINGS FROM ABOVE.,🙏🙏🙏
Thank you. Personality disorders can trap easily.
HALLELUYAH 🙏👏
Although God wants us free and at peace, in Him, the Word of God is very clean on divorce. Except for the act of adultery...I pray that all those commenting on being "free" from their abusive marriage, and thanking God for freeing them, have remained single and celebate.
@@CJD714 I have and will continue to be.
My youngest daughter had a past (childhood) I can’t even imagine… her father left us for another woman while she was a very young child, the house we lived in had been used for her father’s grandmother’s seances…. Please pray for her. Thank-you.
I know i am worthy, but am conflicted by my sacrament and vow of marriage. I have set boundaries and no longer let him affect me emotionally, his episodes are fewer, but i would be lying if i said it didn't take a toll on me.
Thank you God knows when I need with this video I needed to hear thank you 😊
3 yrs ago, after a 30 Yr marriage with divorce threats yearly, I finally said OK and upped and left.
We sold house, I moved 8 hrs away.
He hoovered, I caved, but after 4 times, I was done done.
He has now ignored me for 8 mths, still not got divorce papers to me like he threatened.
This was the best summary I have ever heard and I've heard all of them for 3 yrs, a few hours every day on you tube realising he was a covert narc and learning from therapists on here. But this.. This was brilliant! Thank you
Thank you
Like your wisdom.....its deep ...
Well done
When even God says leave i left.long before revealing the plan of God.
And Yet, we are left with the Reality of biblical truth, that narcissism is not grounds for divorce... As horrid and toxic . CS Lewis also shares the hard reality of this in his other writing and this series of videos.
Regardless of where we find ouselves in these desperately lonely or toxic relationships... God is still on His throne.. and the Truth of His eternal promises in Yeshua remain our everlasting hope.
There anger is realy real fraiting.....if they losing control over you ....yes.!
The chaos = acts of passive-aggressiveness & then the gaslighting about it! "No, I didn't sabotage you again...why would I do that?" "BECAUSE you're a narcissist who gets pleasure from causing pain in others and then denying it; stating it's other's imagination."
Deep.
It can't be said any better.Thank you so much. 2025 is the year of liberation from such mockery, belittling of God's children. Come Holy Spirit, Come, come Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of your faithful. And kindle in them the fire of your love. Send forth your Spirit, and they shall be created. And you will renew the face of the earth.
2 cor 3:17 17 Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. 18 And we all, who with unveiled faces contemplate the Lord's glory, are being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.
May this be my prayer for anybody who listens to this video.
Where the Spirit of God dwells there is freedom and liberty....Reign Lord in your people and heal all narcissists of their trauma as they're victims of the past, childhood they never chose. Mercy Mercy Mercy. Redeem us all o Lord in Jesus name. Amen.
Thank you ❤❤❤❤❤
Powerful ❤
Thank u
Amen 🙏🙏
Praise and Honour to You Lord Jesus Christ through the intercession of Our Blessed Mother 🙏☘️🙏
Intersession of Holy Spirit/Jesus Christ to Father/Abba God! ...find scripture...
What about a narcissist in a relationship with another narcissist?
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I am Worthy of Gods love ❤️ Past. Present. Future. - I am so grateful to have knowledge passed to me. I must compliment the way you outline and deliver these message. The value vast. Anyone with a thirst for wisdom can have their cup overflowing with the quality content you’ve presented. You’re an inspiration to us all ♥️ Enamored.
The narcissist I dealt with had a “black” heart. He was so spiteful and wanted to punish me. He said he was going to punish me. His wife had died 11 months before I met him at work. He love bombed me, with food and expensive gifts… moving me into his house the 1st day I set my foot in his house. I am finally able to pray for him genuinely. The truth has set me free. I went to hell with the trauma bonding. I was under a lie and spell because the wasn’t even me! I sent those demons right back to hell. I pray for his deliverance and that God spares his soul from Hell Fires 🔥 please pray for his deliverance, his name is Franklin. Thank you, we have to bombard the darkness’ kingdom. The devil wants to infect us with narcissism and darkness, but don’t let him. Bounce back from walking on the dark side and seeking revenge. Thank you Father for all the knowledge of Narcissism on RUclips 🥰🥰🥰
I'm an empath trapped in a narcissist's body...
Yes, it’s very traumatizing to meet somebody and fall in love after they have been in a divorce from infidelity of a wife that left him for a whole year then they become single for five years you meet them because your spouse passed away and was a nice Christian man you find out the traits of this man when he’s angry cuss you out that’s not Christian love ..but he says he loves you because he’s the man and he’s in control and he’s running it and he don’t like a woman to speak. There mind they leaves her caught up in depression stress every day he doesn’t wanna be around people because he can’t control his anger. Now you left alone not going places not doing anything, but when you come out constantly arguing over minor things tthings that up and downdown relationship. Now you left wondering, should you become single or should you stay in the marriage and make it work because you’re Christian walk is stronger than that person that person acts in anger and verbal abuse when they have a drink when you push a button is very scary. Verbal abuse is terrible than putting your hands on someone so I’m praying to God give me wisdom in this marriage with these last four years and I pray for others peace as well. I never knew what a narcissist really was till heard this message but I know God is able because he’s a very sweet understanding person but he’s got these personality traits. I guess he came from his last marriage to all of you going through the same thing I pray to God, everything flows in the fruits of the spirit .to help with marriage . So always pray before you say I do . I saw there’s flags before we married . But I was a weak vulnerable widow. So I hope he change force better . Because like he said as a narcissist, they try to make you feel like everything is OK after they’ve done all their mean disrespectful stuff like nothing never happened and you’re back in the same boat again for another year then it turns out to five years, there must be boundary set, or you will be stuck
Please, does a Christian still remain in this kind of relationship. The husband in question is a pastor.
No, you don’t stay. The Bible says in 2 Tim 3:2-9z it describes the narc and tells you to stay away from them. If you experience what’s in this video, you are experiencing abuse. Emotional and psychological, those are grounds for divorce. Listen to David E Clarke, he tells you all
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I find that the previous episode was very helpful, but if the narcissist is created because of pain and abandonment shouldn't we try to help them?
That's the thing, we can't. They think they know everything. They are walking with the enemy because he has them so blind. My husband is a narsisist. He only thinks of himself and playing the part of serving God when he isn't at all. I'm asking God whom I love dearly for guidance in what to do besides praying for him.
I'm in the same boat! @@gabrielleyoung7164
I wonder if some are just born that way. In that case they are not fixable.
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CS Lewis talking about narcissists? Really???
I'm not sure it's original. Because what one shall do, for example in a marriage, when she was blind, and now it's too late 😭
God hates divorce! This messages suggests, and tell even openly, that such relationships is unbearable. Somehow it doesn't fit to a christian.
Ikr
My children's father became a life & death action in front of a 5 & 6 year old and later a threatening to them rage reaction!! ... God's Word in entirety is required to validate His LIFE position!
I'm quite confused if it's original. Because what one shall do, for example in a mindabusing marriage, when she was blind by choosing a narcissist spouse, and now it's too late!!!
God hates divorce! This messages suggests, and tell even openly, that such relationships is unbearable. Somehow it doesn't fit to a christian!!! It wakes up regret ; sorrow ...and all kind of negatives. It doesn't makes sene at all!
The irony here is that Lewis worshipped a narcissistic god.
There is no jew or greek, slave or free, male or female😅
@Zoe-c9z
Therefore what, child?
@@cygnusustus I’ve heard that claim before- it shows me that you have not read the Word- It clearly proves otherwise
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I've heard that excuse before-it shows me that you can't refute my claim or defend your beliefs.
"It clearly proves otherwise"
Show me, child.
@ it’s simple - The Word is Truth…… you are using a tactic of confusion to try to Féria the Truth- God is Love ….. narcissist = control. God= free will
I am worthy of GODS LOVE AND PEACE.
I am worthy of God love and peace.❤❤
I am worthy of God's love and peace
I am worthy of God’s peace and love 💗
Thank you.