The Consequences of Leaving a Narcissist | C.S Lewis Sermons

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  • Опубликовано: 23 дек 2024

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  • @CSLewis-Sermons
    @CSLewis-Sermons  7 дней назад +7

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    Psalm 34:18 - “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”

    • @ErikaAlexisLopez7421
      @ErikaAlexisLopez7421 5 дней назад

      💕Amen 💔🙏🏻❤️‍🩹💕👸🏻

    • @keyanajackson4987
      @keyanajackson4987 5 дней назад +1

      Is there a book? I need the book please 🙏🏾 along with the Bible ❤

  • @angelawilliams1091
    @angelawilliams1091 4 дня назад +14

    Very inspiring, for twenty-eight years of my marriage, now divorced, praise God, I was trapped in the web of a narcissistic relationship, I lived every word of this message, listening to what was practically my everyday experience was very emotional but liberating, because at the end all glory belongs to the LORD. He delivered me, now I am free. Amen

  • @cslewisoawakening
    @cslewisoawakening 5 дней назад +17

    May God bless and heal every person who is here. Amen!

  • @Toni-s2d
    @Toni-s2d 3 дня назад +5

    I am worthy of God's Peace & Love!!! Jesus saved me & delivered me from adultry! Free 50 years!!! Praise the Lord!!! ❤😂🎉

  • @anildasanchez4944
    @anildasanchez4944 День назад

    I declare to trust God over toxic chaos.❤🙏

  • @catfriend2024
    @catfriend2024 4 дня назад +8

    I’m worthy of God’s peace and love, amen. 🙏

  • @deborab8985
    @deborab8985 2 часа назад

    I am so worthy of God's grace, peace and love! Amen

  • @teresabarrett3266
    @teresabarrett3266 5 дней назад +13

    I am so relieved that I got out of a 14year relationship with these dynamics. Terrible and crushing was it.

    • @gabrielleyoung7164
      @gabrielleyoung7164 4 дня назад +1

      Were you married?

    • @thembindaba6977
      @thembindaba6977 3 дня назад

      You are blessed. I am still stuck with the narcissist. I am trusting God 2025 is going to be a year of victory for me in Jesus name

    • @teresabarrett3266
      @teresabarrett3266 3 дня назад

      @@thembindaba6977 I am blessed. True. It took me moving a 1000miles away from this man to get away from the temptation to return to that relationship. It has taken me years to unrinse my mind and heart and soul from the “craziness” of that relationship. I am blessed. I am alone but at least I have the peace that only Christ Jesus brings to my heart & soul.

    • @elizabethabijah3770
      @elizabethabijah3770 3 дня назад +3

      You can at least separate and go no contact

  • @CSLewisArchive
    @CSLewisArchive 5 дней назад +10

    Hearing about the roots of narcissistic behavior made me realize how much of it stems from brokenness. While I want to show compassion, I also know I need to protect my peace and worth in God. How do I set firm boundaries without feeling like I’m abandoning someone in need?

    • @scalab1
      @scalab1 3 дня назад +1

      Remember the pain.

    • @pamelamohn5931
      @pamelamohn5931 3 дня назад

      Sometimes we need to love others from a distance, and just pray for them. Remembering that they themselves are the ones who created the distance.

  • @evelisoyola63
    @evelisoyola63 3 дня назад +5

    I am Worthy of God's Peace

  • @japethellison506
    @japethellison506 5 дней назад +13

    Wow. So well said! Describes what so many are going through. I believe that each of us have a certain level of narcissistic behaviors. Used to protect us, used as coping mechanism. We all need healing in Christ

    • @lilirebeccaskinner6670
      @lilirebeccaskinner6670 2 дня назад

      Yes, the enemy twisted our hope into codependency but God used it to strengthen the ties that bind us in Christ only!

  • @rahjeechalson3580
    @rahjeechalson3580 День назад

    I am worthy of God's love.
    I trust God and stand on the Rock.

  • @Beau4ashesKessy
    @Beau4ashesKessy 4 дня назад +4

    I am worthy of God’s love. Thank you lord Jesus for you healing power towards me.

  • @sheilabayes9250
    @sheilabayes9250 5 дней назад +12

    I am totally believing this. My nativity depression at spouses death protocol children and then the narcissist. I was totally set up for this by my whole life. Plus having unchristian family. Now understand how sad the plight of the Narcissist and their attempt to not see how they are possibly not realizing that repenting and forgiving those who have damaged them is what they need. Then those of use who got into their Webb thinking they really loved God somehow or loved us was all a lie so know I am worthy of Gods love and protection. So hope all of you on this Journey will see that We need closeness to our Father in Heaven and the Closeness with Him brings the happiness we seek. Like said in this video God will make a way for us He will direct our paths. We must seek Him with our whole hearts minds and strength. He will be there for us if we truly seek Him. It is not easy after leaving the Narcissist but we must learn to Trust God for all. Asking for Discernment of people is important! Ask God to help you build up your self esteem so you can understand to see thru the bs of Christians and non Christians. Learn to have a Godly love of yourselves. Pray for those who have hurt you!

    • @heatherdenmark22
      @heatherdenmark22 5 дней назад +1

      I love to see people protect. reflect. shun. it’s a daily goal. Always striving to be better for Him. Accountability for our very own lives is the best example we can give these lost. Heaven IS a place on earth and I hope you find that in your life if you havnt you’re on the right page to reaching the high road.

    • @lilirebeccaskinner6670
      @lilirebeccaskinner6670 2 дня назад

      He takes what the enemy planned for evil and makes good to come for us, His body and His glory...my experience has been 40 plus years in the making!

    • @sheilabayes9250
      @sheilabayes9250 2 дня назад

      @@heatherdenmark22 Thank you I also had a couple others tell me that too. It is not easy after all that to learn how to live an see thru what people are pulling off. Playing games which thru might not even know the stuff they are doing. Sick of Christian saying zGod told them this or that when you must realize they are not even ok even themselves so must really notice . Would love to tell the narrcissist who have not spoke to since end of July what exactly is wrong with him. He would not believe it anyway. I totally loved him and it was all just do he could get. I do hope God can open his eyes. He stole like 50000 but at least I am alive and so is my dog but he really hurt me and I hoped a lot for his life. I no longer at this point have to get property and a home but maybe our Father will give me a life and who knows can hope for a Christian husband. In Gods timing. Right now working at being ok and learning about people what I was suppose to learn as a kid. Learning to love self. And to trust that God will make a way for me. God bless!

    • @lynnmorgan1785
      @lynnmorgan1785 2 дня назад

      I stand on the Lord's promises as I navigate my way to a better life!!!❤

  • @charlesoliver5740
    @charlesoliver5740 День назад

    HALLELUYAH 🙏👏

  • @JoyLeaders-uk6lk
    @JoyLeaders-uk6lk 2 дня назад +2

    I separated from my narc husband after 51 years. God delivered me from the narc and chaos and delivered me to peace, tranquility, calm and Confidence. Glory to his name I will be forever grateful!

  • @SheilaDay-k6q
    @SheilaDay-k6q 3 дня назад +3

    I have God's peace and love.

  • @ericapotts1678
    @ericapotts1678 3 дня назад +3

    Lord the kids and i accept your help. In Jesus name, Amen

  • @GODISNUMBER3
    @GODISNUMBER3 2 дня назад +1

    A beautiful message! Amen,
    I'm worthy of gods love an peace, Thank you God for protecting me guiding me thru this turmoil .
    You showed me the way the truth an my real life I deserve.
    Amen n Amen 🙏🏼 ❤🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼😊

  • @charlesoliver5740
    @charlesoliver5740 День назад

    I Declare YAHWEH Peace over me and in my life It's Done Amen 🙏

  • @yvonner4260
    @yvonner4260 14 часов назад

    Thank you I read mere Christianity 30 years ago. I thought for sure my husband of 3 years would have dug into it. Needless to say have been like a yo-yo most of my life. Lots of promises of change but not seeking God at all, we know it can't be done without Holy Spirit wisdom and mercy as He exposes our sinful prideful heart and fear. Like the scripture says," if you hold on to your life, you will loose it.". Pray for me that I can solid in on the sovereignty of The Lord.

  • @cygnusustus
    @cygnusustus 5 дней назад +2

    "Have you ever noticed how some relationships start with a dazzling light, only to fade into chaos, confusion, and pain?"
    Wow. The perfectly describes Christianity.

    • @pamelamohn5931
      @pamelamohn5931 3 дня назад

      I am sorry that has been your experience. Do you think the ones you have encountered are hiding behind a guise of Christianity? If there is no fruit of the Spirit within those individuals I would question whether they even know Christ Jesus. Keep your eyes on the Lord Jesus, and not on flawed people.

    • @cygnusustus
      @cygnusustus 3 дня назад

      @@pamelamohn5931
      Christianity is the guise. It is the façade that covers bigotry. Religion allows you to commit any act, hate any person, as long as you claim to do it in the name of your god, and proclaim love while doing it.

  • @Robbie-r5z
    @Robbie-r5z 4 дня назад +3

    Tha nk you Lord for deliverance

  • @valentiadonellyaugustin
    @valentiadonellyaugustin 5 дней назад +10

    Oh how I love Jesus, what evil double minded people but we cannot hate them they need to repent.❤❤

    • @heatherdenmark22
      @heatherdenmark22 5 дней назад

      Some will never feel the joy that comes after repenting. To be truly known by God is like nothing else. He is able to control every part of our lives and forgives us when we are honest. He already knows so why do they not keep their hearts and minds at peace by not holding on to anything that would break Gods law or makes him Sad.

  • @lisamariegonzalez7315
    @lisamariegonzalez7315 5 дней назад +9

    99.99999% of them are not willing to change!!!😢😢😢

    • @ljones98391
      @ljones98391 День назад

      They believe there is nothing wrong with them, nothing to change or fix.

  • @sahn1205
    @sahn1205 6 дней назад +4

    AMEN !!! I am worthy of God's peace and love. Thank you.

  • @dotsiedawson2941
    @dotsiedawson2941 5 дней назад +1

    I am worthy of God's love an Peace !!!

  • @susanProkosch
    @susanProkosch 5 дней назад +2

    Iam worthy of Gods love and peace

  • @angelicapui6153
    @angelicapui6153 5 дней назад +3

    YOU ARE AMAZING SIR… I THANK GOD FOR YOUR VIDEOS,,, I only heard 2 of them and I’m a subscriber now, BLESSINGS FROM ABOVE.,🙏🙏🙏

  • @kremenamihova3606
    @kremenamihova3606 5 дней назад +3

    I am worthy of God's love and peace!

  • @BibleHolyTales-ll1zd
    @BibleHolyTales-ll1zd 5 дней назад +1

    I found myself reflecting deeply on this message about stepping away from toxic relationships. The roller coaster analogy felt so real-I've been through those highs and lows that leave you drained. It’s a struggle, but anchoring in God’s peace is the only way forward. How do I ensure I don’t fall back into the same cycle once I’ve stepped away?

    • @rhondadillon9158
      @rhondadillon9158 4 дня назад

      By renewing your mind, when thoughts come examine them. Are they your thoughts, God's thoughts, or the accusers. Bring it into captivity and say what the word says about the situation. I send Love forgiveness

  • @Heleen-n5o
    @Heleen-n5o 3 дня назад

    Like your wisdom.....its deep ...

  • @estellaramos2207
    @estellaramos2207 6 дней назад +2

    I am worthy Of God Peace and Love

  • @nikiblessed9405
    @nikiblessed9405 5 дней назад +3

    IAM WORTHY OF GODS PEACE AND LOVE❤

  • @BessieDeLoach-jy7js
    @BessieDeLoach-jy7js День назад

    Thank you

  • @laurenchieco-garofalo5513
    @laurenchieco-garofalo5513 День назад

    Well done

  • @ligiaproenca1211
    @ligiaproenca1211 День назад

    When even God says leave i left.long before revealing the plan of God.

  • @anikkabrokken4710
    @anikkabrokken4710 5 дней назад +1

    Thank you ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nedmyers3801
    @nedmyers3801 2 дня назад

    My youngest daughter had a past (childhood) I can’t even imagine… her father left us for another woman while she was a very young child, the house we lived in had been used for her father’s grandmother’s seances…. Please pray for her. Thank-you.

  • @rtldulin
    @rtldulin 5 дней назад +1

    Powerful ❤

  • @BelindaGoosen-xq2zb
    @BelindaGoosen-xq2zb 5 дней назад +2

    Amen 🙏🙏

  • @33knownme
    @33knownme День назад

    My daughter I gave my love, my time, my care,
    For a child who never could be fair.
    Persistent disrespect, a soul so cold,
    I never knew the truth I’d hold.
    A screaming match, a wasted night,
    A life consumed by endless fight
    I saw the darkness, the twisted game,
    But still, I carried all the blame.
    Depleted, drained, I’m left behind,
    Her hatred etched, a tortured mind.
    She never learned the simplest rule,
    Pretending to not understand-a game cruel.
    Every day, the same old show,
    God, have mercy, please let me go.
    I seek my life, not hers to own,
    My spirit weary, tired, alone.
    I’m done with pain, done with this strife,
    Only now, I want my life.

  • @Linda-e9r
    @Linda-e9r 5 дней назад

    Thank u

  • @deborahvolck14
    @deborahvolck14 4 дня назад +1

    The chaos = acts of passive-aggressiveness & then the gaslighting about it! "No, I didn't sabotage you again...why would I do that?" "BECAUSE you're a narcissist who gets pleasure from causing pain in others and then denying it; stating it's other's imagination."

  • @Heleen-n5o
    @Heleen-n5o 3 дня назад

    There anger is realy real fraiting.....if they losing control over you ....yes.!

  • @CeciliaAdrio-ek5iq
    @CeciliaAdrio-ek5iq 5 дней назад +2

    🙏🙌🙏

    • @heatherdenmark22
      @heatherdenmark22 5 дней назад

      I am Worthy of Gods love ❤️ Past. Present. Future. - I am so grateful to have knowledge passed to me. I must compliment the way you outline and deliver these message. The value vast. Anyone with a thirst for wisdom can have their cup overflowing with the quality content you’ve presented. You’re an inspiration to us all ♥️ Enamored.

  • @erickstjames
    @erickstjames 2 дня назад

    I'm an empath trapped in a narcissist's body...

  • @aideenoconnor7643
    @aideenoconnor7643 4 дня назад

    Praise and Honour to You Lord Jesus Christ through the intercession of Our Blessed Mother 🙏☘️🙏

  • @debragrant-h4h
    @debragrant-h4h 5 дней назад +1

    I find that the previous episode was very helpful, but if the narcissist is created because of pain and abandonment shouldn't we try to help them?

    • @gabrielleyoung7164
      @gabrielleyoung7164 4 дня назад

      That's the thing, we can't. They think they know everything. They are walking with the enemy because he has them so blind. My husband is a narsisist. He only thinks of himself and playing the part of serving God when he isn't at all. I'm asking God whom I love dearly for guidance in what to do besides praying for him.

    • @robinhowell9162
      @robinhowell9162 4 дня назад

      I'm in the same boat! ​@@gabrielleyoung7164

    • @scalab1
      @scalab1 3 дня назад

      I wonder if some are just born that way. In that case they are not fixable.

  • @Heleen-n5o
    @Heleen-n5o 3 дня назад

    😉

  • @palesayates6200
    @palesayates6200 5 дней назад +3

    CS Lewis talking about narcissists? Really???

    • @childofgod700
      @childofgod700 5 дней назад

      I'm not sure it's original. Because what one shall do, for example in a marriage, when she was blind, and now it's too late 😭
      God hates divorce! This messages suggests, and tell even openly, that such relationships is unbearable. Somehow it doesn't fit to a christian.

    • @lizabethgarrett8251
      @lizabethgarrett8251 4 дня назад

      Ikr

  • @childofgod700
    @childofgod700 5 дней назад +1

    I'm quite confused if it's original. Because what one shall do, for example in a mindabusing marriage, when she was blind by choosing a narcissist spouse, and now it's too late!!!
    God hates divorce! This messages suggests, and tell even openly, that such relationships is unbearable. Somehow it doesn't fit to a christian!!! It wakes up regret ; sorrow ...and all kind of negatives. It doesn't makes sene at all!

  • @cygnusustus
    @cygnusustus 5 дней назад

    The irony here is that Lewis worshipped a narcissistic god.

    • @Zoe-c9z
      @Zoe-c9z День назад

      There is no jew or greek, slave or free, male or female😅

    • @cygnusustus
      @cygnusustus День назад

      @Zoe-c9z
      Therefore what, child?

  • @valorahunter1148
    @valorahunter1148 4 дня назад +1

    I am worthy of God’s peace and love 💗

  • @kimzastrow8074
    @kimzastrow8074 День назад

    I am worthy of God's love and peace.

  • @SongbirdRebekahMyers
    @SongbirdRebekahMyers 3 дня назад

    I am worthy of God's peace and love❤