Why Won't Our Daughter Eat Our Traditional Food? | House Of Tiny Tearaways
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- Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2022
- There's a breakthrough with the Hussains as they begin to understand why their toddler won't eat their curry, but will the Baileys act on Elizabeth's advice to be more united as a couple and can Emma learn how to manage her violent son?
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I lived among Indian people years ago - my ex husband is Hindu and we lived with his parents and extended family for 5 years. They never made their toddlers eat curry.....the children were all given bland foods that they liked. They were able to choose to eat curry when they were ready, and the children's food did not contain chillies or hot spices. We used to make a separate chicken fried rice for the kids or chicken chop suey and rice pudding for after dinner and they loved it.
Yes, I remember rice pudding too, and yellow rice, with raisins. Biryani too.
That's wat I said on a different video like she's young n all them seasons may jus be to much for her n for her skin them spices can inflamm her skin my sister has a skin issue n some foods bother her n her yelling n the words she uses its like she don't like her child
@@terrolls9504 I didn't read the comments of the other videos, but thanks for confirming my suspicions about that issue. Haven't they got a doctor connected to That House of Tiny Tearaways? She surely sounds very frustrated at that child, but it can be because she wanted a perfect little baby.
@@TheSybil47 may be she wanted a son.....
@@athensmajnoo3661 That's very probable. But, her niece sounds like a bully to me, because her little child already eat curry. That puts a lot of pressure on a first-time young mother. On top of that, the little girl's got psoriasis. Not easy for anyone to deal with. She must get strong, and tell her family to mind their own business.
I don't believe that food is something that should ever be forced upon a child. Just because we're the adults, we are bigger and stronger, this gives us no right to make a child eat something they aren't comfortable eating. As adults we certainly wouldn't. Nor would we find it okay if someone said "Sit there and eat this or that!" Food being a primal need can have very negative and even damaging psychological effects on children if it is used in the wrong way.
Of course, it's important for children to eat healthy, to sit politely at the table even if something is being served that they don't enjoy. That's where being a parent comes in.
I wouldn't make the child eat food she doesn't like. My parents used to do that with us when we were kids. We would be made to sit for hours and told we would get the cold mushy revolting boiled over salted cabbage and celery and broad beans shoved down our throat with a shovel or we would get it again for breakfast. I used to hide it in my pocket and flush it sown the loo, or sneak ti the back door and throw it over the fence into the neighbours compost pile. As an adult I have never eaten cabbage, broad beans and celery again. I feel sick at the thought of them. I also never forced my kids to eat thinks they didn't like. I let them choose their breakfast cereals and other things they liked when shopping at the supermarket. It just causes unnecessary stress having these constant battles with kids for no good reason. They don't starve and they are healthy as they are.......
I'm so sorry that you had to go through that. My childhood was very similar to yours. I was raised by my grandmother who grew up through the depression. She didn't waste anything, and everything went to use. She would say the same things as your parents. She was very physically abusive, so I was too scared to not eat what was put in front of me. She always found a reason to criticize me, to yell at me, to hit me in the face. She yelled at me for "using too much" ketchup, or mustard, mayo, peanut butter, or whatever it was. Now I wasn't the only grandchild taken in by my grandmother. There were my two boy cousins, and eventually my two baby sisters. So I can understand that money is tight when you're raising 5 grandchildren, and you lived through the depression. I get it. I don't get the abuse though.
I have a son and I have never, ever forced my child to eat anything that he doesn't want to eat. I may encourage him to eat it, or try it, but I will never force him to eat it. That's abuse. I know many of you won't see it as abuse, but it indeed is abuse. And traumatizing.
@@PositiveVibesOnly37 My mother married a wealthy man after she and my father split before I was born. We lived in a fancy big house and he and my mother both had nice cars. We had a big vege garden and fruit trees so we weren't poor, they were just mean and strict disciplinarians. Our house was run like boot camp. Later I made sure I was a very different kind of parent.
The Brits seem to have a strange thing with beans. I never ate beans as a kid and never fed them to my kids. I’ve never seen them being fed to kids in the US. They are simply not tasty to most people, and have very little nutritional value besides fiber. Veggies are so much tastier, and there are so many ways to make them. I’ve never seen these kids eat a green vegetable.
@@lessehead I’m not sure what sort of bean you’re talking about. In Australia when you say beans it means green beans, as in the vegetable.
@@annephillips1870 Look at what they’re eating in the video, not green beans, but beans, the legumes. In the US, we call the green veg green beans or string beans, while beans are the starchy legumes. I never see those kids eating any kind of healthy green vegetables, just loads of starchy, unhealthy carbs.
I have psoriasis- the thought of anything inflammatory is dreadful. I was a spicy food eater for 50 years but when psoriasis hit me I can’t touch it. The beautiful little girl needs the Dr Gundry diet!!!
I had a friend who told me her daughter screamed for the first three years of her life. When she turned three, it was as if a switch had been flicked and she was delightful. I asked her if this was why her daughter was an only child. She replied it was exactly the reason!!
Sherry Bailey, mom of Todd & Tamsind spends more time slumped down on the sofa chewing and picking at her fingernails, even while talking back & forth with Elizabeth. She reminds me of Feeling Sorry For Herself Sammy.
Since they came, she's the only one who throw tantrums. The children are so bored, but are left on their own to entertain themselves. One rejection from her daughter, and she throws another tantrum. Oh, she doesn't want to hug me. How childish. (Oh, please don't remind me of Sammy, but it is true though.)
I noticed that too. I think she just wants to be lazy all the time and wants him to do all the work.
Most of these moms ( & likely dads too ) suffer from Depression. I'm busy picking their parenting skills apart to acknowledge it. Guilty. I recall loving spending time with my children. When I was still home with them before returning to the office 😒 I loved going to the beach, which was 2 blocks away, and the park. Who doesn't remember playing with waterguns and running through the sprinker in summer and pulling sleds in the winter and being happy. It was the best time of my life. These miserable moms who sit on the sofa and gripe at their children should be pitied because they are really missing out on something truly special.
Sherry is ridiculous, sitting there digging for complements but at the same time spouting nasty digs and not willing to give a well deserved complement and getting mad instead that Martin was able to get the kids to sleep in a decent amount of time.
Very Sammy-ish behavior 😉
And just how romantic did she behave on their romantic dinner night? Dear me, she's so young, and yet so boring.
Immature and annoying 🙄
I’m 32 years old and unfortunately I’m a picky eater. It’s honestly something I hate about myself. They say your taste buds are supposed to change every 7 years…I’m pretty sure I eat the same way I have since I was 7 years old 😅 I try things all the time, I just simply don’t like them. I eat a large variety of different foods, I just eat everything plain. I’m really weird with sauces and dips and dressings (I don’t even like ketchup). I so badly wish I could just eat a simple salad and enjoy it, but I don’t like lettuce 😩 I totally feel for Anisa being terrified of curry, I’m sure she was forced to eat some and it’s just simply too spicy for her and now she’s scared because she associates it with that pain of the spice 🥺 I’m sure that they are receiving a lot of pressure from their families as well because for them curry is a cultural staple. I know she mentioned that she has a younger niece that will eat curry fine so I bet that is adding even more pressure from family that the younger niece will eat curry but their daughter will throw a tantrum at the sight of it 🥺 I’m really glad this family came to the house and I’m hoping that they will get the guidance and understanding they need to help little Anisa not feel so pressured about curry. One day she may eat it on her own and love it, or she may not and that’s okay too 💕
Why on earth is that poor little girl forced to eat curry?! She has psoriasis! Doesn't any one on the show including the doctors know? Forcing her to eat it and or actually eating it will cause flare ups! SMH! Some one please help this child! 😧
Spicy food can be an aggravating factor if you suffer from psoriasis. My mother had psoriasis, but she ate curries anyway, and afterwards had to pay the price. Itching like mad.
Agreed
SYBIL STEPHENS, My Mom, one of my brothers, my uncle (Mom's only brother) and my grandpa (Mom's Dad) all had food triggers to their psoriasis...3 generations of psoriasis and diabetes.. some had one; others had both. Maybe this little girl has curry as a trigger to her psoriasis. Wouldn't it be great if this solved her psoriasis? ... but I think it may be a lot more complex than just that.
@@mountainwoman4924 Oh, it would be great if it solved this little girls' problem. I still wonder if they don't have a doctor in that house, because surely they need one in cases such as this. Thanks God we didn't get it.
Right. No kidding. That's ridiculous to make her eat things that aggravate her. It will aggravate everything. Her daughters health should be paramount
Most people love curry, but I hate it myself. Can`t even stand the smell of it!! So can`t for the life of me, understand why the want to make her eat it? I really really feel for her, and this feels so so wrong.....!
I love curry and still feel for the child and think it's ridiculous to force her to eat it. If the mother wasn't creating such an issue she might even like it when she's older 💜
@@littlelizzi3135 I suspect the mother's family. They are the bullies behind the scenes.
@@TheSybil47 probably, such a shame
I'm glad the counsel gave her some instruction on how to use that time out, but she needs to walk away once he is there! He must stay there BY HIMSELF or he can stay there until he learns to do his time out! Why would you let a child who is still behaving badly...screaming and hitting...to leave time out?
A child should never be forced to eat something they do not like especially something Spiced. As long as they eat healthy and nutritious foods they will be fine .Everyone including children have different taste preferences would the parents like if they were forced to eat something they did not like .
I’m amazed that parents don’t even think about how kids come out of the womb being not used to any flavor or textures. Kids start off with the most bland baby foods n then u start to add more as they grow. I would refuse curry as well if it was 2 spicy since i hate spices.
Psoriasis is affected by processed foods and stress, and other triggers. She is getting stressed cause she doesn’t like curry thus flaring up the psoriasis, I’ve had 27 yrs dealing with my daughters psoriasis 😓 it can badly affect mental health even in a little one
"that baby isn't for you" lol
That made me laugh too.
Dude I wouldn’t want to eat curry either , I don’t like Indian food at all the smell and taste is so strong and pungent I can’t do it. Imagine a toddler being forced to eat it😞
Unfortunately, I agree but maybe over time she'll try it but definitely not at this age I don't seeing it happening any time soon. Especially with her moms energy and how her vibe is towards her not eating it. The key is not too take it personally, especially coming from a baby in general.
@@pastel_popits02 I dislike Indian food too, and have done it my whole life. I can eat strong spices, that`s not the problem. I just don`t like indian food. And currry is the worst!! Both the taste and the smell is repulsing to me, and I don`t mean to be offensive. It`s just the way I am. You can take a DNA test, that will show what food you like, and what you dislike.
If I’m gonna be honest, I’ve never gotten this kind of attention as a child. I never had connections with my mother and my father, my father left and my mother gave me up to my great grandparents. Which I see more as actual parents instead of my biological parents, my father left me as a child, visited and stopped visiting me at the age of 6yrs old. He’s done a lot to the point where I cannot remember stuff, same with my mother. We fought so much. I was physically, mentally and verbally abused by my step dad my mum was with. She had no idea because I was terrified to tell her, but my oma (grandmother in German and Dutch) and my auntie/mums cousin. They KNEW, and could do nothing except for try to help me when we visited them or when they visited me and my siblings. It turns out I had so many health problems that the doctors did not put effort into looking more into, and now I live with my grandparents to help them. I am 20, going on 21 now and I have a boyfriend I see as my husband and it’s been a year into this relationship. I’ve been happy, but I’m scared on how it will be for my future children. Because of how I was treated as a child, I am still learning things and it’s difficult for me sometimes. Especially to remember things, turns out I have a severe trauma block. So my grandparents, my auntie, my partner/boyfriend and my friends are and have been helping me.
This triggers me on how some parents act these days… especially with the lil one with the medical condition, I have psoriasis but on my scalp. Not what like she has, but I also have other health conditions called hashimotos disease which is a thyroid. That health condition is so rough… it needs to be treated with a lot of medication, I myself get very very upset and frustrated because of my conditions. That little girl reminds me of myself as a kid and it’s heartbreaking, I’m not trying to be rude btw! It just makes me sad.
That is very sad to read. Your parents had something missing, not you. You were a perfect child and because of their shortcomings they couldn't recognize and appreciate what they had with you. I'm sure you've been advised to forgive them for your own good, and that's true. I believe it's okay to stay away from family members that do not enrich your life and you do not owe any explanations for it. Make your mind up to be happy and just be it. Because you recognize how negative influences affected your upbringing, you know what good parenting is. You can be a kind and loving parent because you know what is required and what to avoid.
I like the format where people go home, trial the new regime in their home environment then go back to discuss it. Paul and Becca both look as if they have grown up, and certainly seem happier. With regard to Nazreen she seems a very confident and modern Muslim young woman, not the traditional arranged marriage wife who never makes eye contact and walks 10 paces behind her husband. I think they are both very clever and showing how Muslim, Pakistani, families are changing. She even has her own surname and not the name that means married woman that I cannot remember! I grew up with the smell of curry and was actually eating it aged 5 when I went to a neighbours house. Not bad for a white kid in 1950's Britain!
I think the Indian family need to focus on their daughter!!! No wonder the daughter screams her head off at the table and then when they let her down from her seat she calms down!!!! Like stop spending time in the kitchen and play with your daughter!!!! I mean toddlers are supposed to eat non spicy foods!!!! That’s how you drive your child away from eating their own culture’s food
Won't eat curry. Give me a break.
Wow! Screaming children in the background. Horrible to hear
That Mother is set on her daughter eating curry. Why??? The mother ate a cheesy baked potato right in front of her child! 😝 Give the child a hamburger.
I am from India, and kiddie food has little to no chillies,!
The big brother voice coming through at apropriate times would have been hilarious that would scare the scream outta them . Please redo this show with big brother shouting orders through speakers ❤😂😂🇦🇺
Why are they insisting that she eat spicy foods? Maybe it bothers her stomach or maybe she has really sensitive taste or smell. She also has an inflammatory skin condition that could be aggravated by the chemicals that make food spicy.
when the little ones got down to steal sweets i was like "yep thats me as a toddler" i use to sleep over at a family friends house on new years eve and day as a toddler and one time i could not have been older then three, me the two friends (one was 3 the other was a year) and my sister who was two all woke up because we would sleep in the main playroom, and we all decided to go downstairs and get the rice krispy treats that were left down stairs, i remember we all went down, helping Matthew (the baby) down the stairs and running into the kitchen and i climbed the counter and tossed down the treats, we ate all the left over ones and were sick XD
Those timeouts are a joke these kids take these timeouts like jokes you need to make sure that they know that when they are on time out they can’t move from where they are
Can you imagine giving birth to people and they don’t even want to cuddle or hug you . I would be so sad too I feel so sorry for this mother. She just wants more cuddles
I think she's extremely immature and annoying!!
The one Mother spends way too much time in the kitchen creating dishes that she knows her child dislikes instead of taking her little girl by the hand and going for a walk, maybe play a game or draw a picture. Common sense should prevail when introducing solid food to an infant. Chili peppers and other hot or pungent spices are not a good idea. A viewer commented Indian people she knows do not feed curries and spicy foods to their children until they are old enough to tolerate them, as it should be. People accustomed to curries love the heat but it's child abuse to suddenly start feeding it to a toddler. Mind once she leaves the table, a stop should be put to that screeching right away.
All of that 💜
Not to mention the fact that the child has skin issues so they need to be super careful what they feed her. It's more like a battle of will than anything else. And that's a really ignorant thing to choose to battle over.
Another thing I noticed too was that the mother got onto the little girl by the way she ate her eggs in the last video. She didn't want her daughter to take the eggs off the bread and eat it. She wanted her to keep it on the bread and eat it like a sandwich. That's just doing way too much. Let the child eat however she wants as long as she's not throwing it on the floor and especially if she's not throwing a tantrum.
@@lalareeves1941 I know right. That mom is way too controlling. I was surprised they were already sent home. We're the issues fixed and I missed it?
I agree!!!!!
Apparently my uncle was super picky as a kid and got worse after he married and never changed. I can be quite picky as well. My mum said that she and her 4 other siblings were all forced to sit at the table and eat in silence. Grandad actually had a belt he put on the table and if you said anything or refused to eat what was in front of you, then you got the "strap." This was back in the 60's mind you. When it comes to toddlers though, it doesn't take much for food to become a battleground unfortunately. It's best to distract or move onto something else. When the kid gets hungry, it's better to let them choose what they like and not create phobias around food.
Why is mom so upset that her daughter doesn't like curry? Many people do not like any curry flavored anything!
I personally have a sensitive stomach and curry REALLY upsets me.
the baby Cleo doesnt trust her brother, even when hes trying to be loving
These parents have no respect for themselves. They are sloths. Can even sit with respect when you talk to them and feet on your couch. They are slovenly
Graceless and unmannerly. No table manners, either.
Sloths are the right description. Well said!
@@melanytodd2929 why? Because they are eating with their hands?
Thats how they eat.... and what is good manners for you might look mannerless for them.
I don't think curries and spices are for a toddler my daughter had the same skin condition. Growing up my kids used to fight heaps but nothing like Kai does with his sister. Kai needs help he is very aggressive and will end up hurting his sister more than he already has. Last thing the toddler who wont eat what her mom wants her to (mom should lead by example) has no manners I did not hear please or thankyou just give me
Just started watching and I’m so confused. Why are Kai & Martin in black face?!?
FFFFAAACCCTTTSSS👀like are we really not gon address this?!
Ya what was up with that? They looked covered in melted chocolate.
It's because nobody is paying attention to these poor children. I saw that too, and I also saw how lonely that child looked with his little brown face. All the parents in there are useless. They were suppose to use many different colors, but left to their own devices the poor children just smeared one colour all over their faces, when the parents started shouting, open the present, no send it around, and I was shocked at how fast the game of fun was over, because there was no fun at that birthday party.
@@alir1013 oh for Gods sake! So whattt?? They’re children!
Im so confused on what order these documentaries are in. Its frustrating. Help😱 Thank you
28;55. Fear of curry. GET OUT OF THERE that lil princess is BOSS!!!
That little girl can’t even walk or talk and she hates her older brother and rightfully so
Childrens taste are different from growns. Their tongue is very sensible
The mother says that if she doesn't have the hope that her daughter will eventually eat her curry, she has NOTHING! This is a woman with very serious issues...the kid is fine!
I agree, this wonen needs help! Otherwise she will distroy her live and the relation with her child. What a loss over nothing.
I don't get why she's so fixated on it. You can make traditional foods for the child that aren't spiced thats what most asian people do. Every asian country has a "kids curry" as like a packaged food you can buy and making it at home is even simpler. My friend is indian and her kid curry is tomato tumeric coconut cream and the veggies. Thats it. I mean isn't that what indian restaurant food is? Just watered down sweet versions because us white people have the palates of toddlers lol.
I am 47yrs old. I still hate food. Dont like smelling food. eating food. Tasting food.
As long as you’re not overweight or underweight and you’re getting your nutrients, it’s not the end of the world. Take a good multivitamin if you don’t eat a balanced diet.
I'm older than you, and I hate talking about food, eating with people, trying new stuff, especially strange things.
@@TheSybil47 That must be really boring! How do you know if you like something new if you don’t try it? I love trying new foods!
I thought I was alone
@@superdupersnowflake No my dear, you're not alone. lol
Martin with mo shirt on ? 😬😳
These couples are so GRACELESS. Not even table manners!
What do you call no table manners? Are you aware that in some middle eastern cultures, people eat with their hands? The world doesn’t revolve around your little corner of the earth.
Nooo... I'm talking about chewing with their mouths open, burping/ farming at the table... etc.
NOTHING to do with cultural norms, Karen.
@@melanytodd2929 Actually, burping at the table is normal in many cultures, it’s not healthy to hold them in, and I have no idea what farming is, other than growing food! No these people definitely aren’t the most refined, but that’s the least of their problems.
Yes she was eating mouth open and talking
Why make her eat it is she doesn't like it lol
Can’t work out who are the parents and who are the children.
I can’t see the time out working 👎btw I’m against it 😢
12:10 dony she look like she got fake flipper teeth in or she’s like photoshopped teeth 😂
That Hindi must have smoking lungs lol