Just because you see poor people in the streets, doesn't mean the country itself is impoverished. It ranks 39th strongest economy out of the 195 countries in the world. Many countries have their fair share of poor people. Just because U.S. has many homeless people in LA, etc doesn't mean the U.S. is poor. DO YOU GET WHAT IM SAYING MR KNOW IT ALL? Just bec you see shanties doesn't mean PH can't afford to make decent houses for them, it's just that the PH govt is so corrupt and incompletent, brainless and heartless to know what should be done and have sufficient programs to work on those social issues. People are paying high taxes here compared to other SEA countries but we're not seeing that they're used efficiently. So stop being a know it all.
Are you willing to expand your guides in other parts of the Philippines? The central islands perhaps? Not every expat wants to settle in big cities or even medium sized cities. There are just as many that would love to settle in small towns or rural areas. You're missing a large piece of potential clients by not catering to them. I was wondering if you can give savvy advice to Filipino-Americans who want to get in touch with their roots by relocating at said locations, particularly the central islands region of Philippines. Hope you are able to follow through with my suggestion.
@@PrinceKatamari2004 Most definitely willing to expand my guides to provincial areas once I've acquired more experience living there. For transparency and the sake of being genuine with my audience, I try to only speak on places I've extensively experienced for myself (especially if it's a product I believe in.) coming soon!
From someone who been to the Philippines MANY times, married to a Filipina going on 16 years. Learn to say NO!! If you are an impatient person, you will not like being in the Philippines. NOTHING get done fast here.
I can relate to that. Once they know you’re the “go to” person for borrowing money, it becomes a habit for them. I do help once or twice but only up to certain amount but on the 3rd time if they ask for $$$, no way!! They need to learn how to help themselves.
Mr. Evan, bad apples among Filipinos do it also in their own kind and not only Filipinos do that kind of thing but also other kinds of people. My husband and I host an exchange student from Vietnam and she told me about Vietnamese attitudes that makes their people shamed, and I told her that there are bad apples in every race. It is a human nature, so just be careful who you be friend with. stay safe and God bless.
Evan, you nailed it! I'm sure you stepped on toes but I couldn't agree with you more. Yes, the #1 on the list is SOOOOOO true. The worst problem is the "can I borrow" and you know dare well, they will NEVER pay you back and they will TOTALLY forget they owe you and if they ask you again and you mention that they still owe you from before they take it as an insult. UNREAL!
You don't have to be a foreigner for this to happen though. I am a local and I am detached to so many relatives because I grew up seeing them do that exact shit to my parents. I have no interest in being part of that cycle.
What I wish I would have known before coming to the Philippines was the bathroom situation. I had never left the U.S.A. before I find out that the toilet seat is missing off of every single toilet in the malls and that they don't have toilet paper in the stall (You are supposed to bring your own).
i have been here in cebu for 7 years, i do not where u go to the bathroom there. But here in cebu they always have seats on the toilets, and at the mall most have toilet paper available. hahaha
Most malls here in Metro Manila have toilet paper available outside the cubicle that one can get before entering the cube. The bigger newer malls have toilet paper and bidet per compartment. But we Pinoys are used to having our own tissue paper inside our bags to come in handy anytime. I must admit just like in any country, there are some toilets that don't have toilet paper and clean toilet seats. It sucks especially when you're in a rush. 😂
Great list. I live in Makati and always have my bill separated when out with friends. I still see a lot of tables at restaurants where you see the foreigner picking up the entire bill for a table of mixed couples.
We have come across several moochers in my time in The Philippines. I have seen ladies take advantage of men. I have seen relatives try to take advantage of my Filipina wife's generous nature. The price of meat and some other food stuff seems to be close to that of our home city. Other food is much cheaper. International bank accounts are not that difficult to set up. Homebase... I will reserve going there. Safety sjould always be a high priority. Poverty takes something to get used to. I have been able to deal with the poverty issue, but it took some getting used to. The people and the beauty of the islands outweigh the negatives and you video was very honest. Thank you for sharing a dose of reality.
Evan, this video is why I follow your channel. You tell the truth and don't sugar coat anything while not being caustic unlike a certain FB group that describing it as toxic would be very generous.
The issues that you talked about that I deeply understand and identify with .Do not asking where I came from to the US.haha .Your honesty will be respected by the vast majority of people.
Although I have seen comments on these negative topics in other videos, none were as objective and cruel as this one. Great video. I believe topic 1 is the most disappointing because it reaches your confidence and hope for a better life.
You convince me that I was very lucky in having my beloved for years before I came there. He had set up the house I was renting for us in Sibonga. He was and is incredibly protective. I stayed for six months and while we helped with poverty stricken kids often (his family feeds many dozens at Christmas and gives out over a thousand kilos of rice divided into 10 kilo bags to the families and do other things as well), he never let me go anywhere alone, and even still, he left me looking at phones in the mall while he ran into a store to pick up something he needed, he wasn't gone 5 minutes and by the time he got back three people - two young women and a young man had tried hitting on me - and let me tell you, I am and always have been oblivious and I knew what they were doing - but, to their credit and the credit of the culture, the moment he came back and took my hand, they melted away. So I think you are giving out very good advice. It is also true that the poverty is grinding - you could see it in Cebu, if not as badly in the town we were or the town where his family is. Out in the country - the people at least have a place to live, there were homeless all over in Cebu, and I think they are trying there. I've been thinking of sending money to the big Roman Catholic orphanage there that is run by the Little Servants of Christ the King - and if we do not do it before we get him over here - we certainly will after he is here. I have to admit, no one from among his friends ever tried to take advantage of me - but to be fair, I love entertaining, so normally I cooked a meal and we invited them to come and share it, so that's somewhat different I guess. Thank you for what you do.
Great content, I especially love the knowledge about an international card. I had no ideal. Salamat. I’ve been living here for a little over a month now. I’m from San Diego, Ca.
Its' been a while, but my agency sent me to Manila to observe and give training to the Filipino employees there. I arrived at the airport and a company driver took me to the Shangri-la Hotel in Makati where I was staying. The area around the Shangri-la was amazing, but when my driver picked me up to take me to work, I saw countless people literally living in cardboard houses and women would hold their babies up to the SUV window at every stop. I had never experienced such extremes in wealth. Unfortunately, I don't think it is better now.
My Filipino family protects me from scammers. I’m very grateful to them! Haven’t had any problem with moochers but I’m sure that’s an issue for most! Good vlog.
From my time abroad is that you run in to moochers in most of the developing countries outside the U.S.A. It really sucks, because I would think I was making friends with the locals and then after 15 minutes of fun conversation, they ask if I can give them some money.
I just visited my family in Illinois and I was surprised of the 9% sales tax and 1.25%state tax!!! With the inflation and taxes, it's truly expensive 😢 can't wait to retire to the Philippines 😅😅😅
@@dsrrellgriffith1161 Yep. Gio in the Philippines recommends a $30,000 emergency fund that you need to build back up as soon as a bump in the road hits. Open heart surgery is $13,000.
Phenomenal cost of living? Service, taxi and rent is cheaper. Actually alcohol too but that’s it. Meals are often half the size of US portions. Grocery stores are outrageous. Small rotisserie chicken 350 pesos. Same as NYC. Mango was a dollar each at Metro. Mango juice 120p a liter. The Philippines is the most expensive country in SEA. I still love it, and you can get good deals, nice resorts at a cheap price and SERVICE overall is cheap, but the prices of goods in the malls are often US prices. And don’t get me started with electronics… Malaysia, Vietnam and even Thailand is cheaper than the Philippines.
I would agree with all your observations. Seeing so many kids in poverty is very hard to get used to. BGC is very westernised, so as "nice" as it is, it's very different from the province. Ive lived in Cebu, a nice mix of developed and unspoilt, but if I was going back there I'd consider Batangas as its cooler and the beaches are near and somewhere like Santa Rosa has well developed green spaces but you can still get to MOA or the airport in an hour or so. Great video, I'll watch more. 👍
In 1973 I was a sailor and the first city I saw in the Philippines was Olongapo. I had never seen poverty before. Listening to you tell of the little girl with the baby brought it all back.
Sorry but your #1 is not exclusive to the Philippines. That exists everywhere in the world. Its a matter of knowing how to choose your inner circle. Its something that you have control of and highly avoidable. If anything that is on you and not the Philippines per se.
Im filipino but grew up in the US my whole life (Im 40 years old)... I look like a local filipino, but I dont speak tagalog, I dress differently, I obviously have an accent and carry myself liker a westerner... and same thing happens to me when I am in the philippines... they automatically think I am rich and treat me differently. Most local filipinos dont realize most people in the US are broke lol. Maybe a different type of broke, but we definitely dont have as much money as they do. We are planning on buying a house in the philippines pretty soon for retirement and dealing with local agents, contractors, etc, definitely will be handled by my wife, who is also dual citizenship, and im sure we'll be taken advantage of to some extent. Just have to be savvy and be firm and let people know from the start, we arent rich.
ive been and i found out just like you did and yes some of them will use you foe there own self and yet i am going back i learn to just not give and only then you will fine the good one just say no i will not they know how to make there own money so let them make there own way i have found thats the best way just say no and walk on and dont look back its not being mean do what you got to do ....
It's a hard knock life for us 🎶🎵It's a hard knock life for us 🎶🎵🎶 You give to who ever you think is honestly asking and those who you think are scamming you stay away from. I know its difficult to tell but just use your better judgement and know in your heart that you have helped someone. Now if you keep seeing the same people always asking for money then just say no and move on. 🚫
I make a good living as in the tech and research field. After the driver, cook and maid explanation…I’m thinking the Philippines may be my next destination for awhile. Lol
I am glad you brought up the sensitive issue of moochers. Unfortunately, I have had two LDRs with Filipinos and both turned out to be moochers. This has resulted in me being very guarded with any new friendships and being cynical about intentions unless proven otherwise.
I hear you bro. My outlaws even charged me 1,000 pesos for picking me up at the airport. And their all time favorite quote when it come to pick up the bill is “next time bro”
Filipinos think foreigners are rich but fail to realize that even though you make a lot more money overseas you also have very high expenses and taxes, leaving little disposable income.
FACTS regarding the moochers! You need to learn to pick your friends wisely! If my "friend" asked me to spot them while out to eat, I would've told them sorry 🤷♂️ but if you couldn't afford to go out to eat or pay for your lunch, you should've never gone out to eat in the first place!
I was born in the Philippines. Your right don't let. Them borrow money . We been helping our family. They never appreciate they want more. 😢 that's the sad. We still the bad guys. 😢
Great information. The last time I came to the Philippines for a month with my wife, I had a budget but it did not count on her family. They all needed something and wanted to eat out at different restaurants. I am now working overtime to pay off the extra we spent. As far as moochers, they would be the non family members (family friends) which would show up at a restaurant or party and just expect for me to pay or feed them. Honest, not sure how to handle this but may retire to BGC and do not mind treating once in a while. But my wife has 7 brothers and sisters with many nieces, nephews and cousins. Any suggestions, please let me know for sure many foreign men married to a Filipino woman have had the same problem.
I have seen foreigners who trade their resources for some job that need to be done. For example, you could them money after the mow the lawn or something. You could hire her brother/sister to occasionally clean the house. You could teach her younger siblings to buy something on the market in exchange for allowance. Trade and do not give anything for free. Giving something for free encourages mooching but trading does not. Trading encourages someone to work so..
And for non- family members, hmm..draw the line early. Say that the party you are planning to do is for family only. And if you have extra then from time to time, you could invite them so that you would not be called tihik.
Hello sir, maybe you can talk to your wife about it, she should be the one to handle it.. I hope relatives and friends would realized you're not Santa Claus☺️
The one thing that got me when I 2st went to the Pelepens was the little kids begging for money was so sad and how dirty certain areas were. But like anything you kinda learn to adjust.
Mr. Evan, I just watched the "Hello,United Philippines" vlog about the Philippines in the year 1974. Just a thought to suggest it to you to watch it because it interesting and it is spoken in English by the narrative.
Used to go at Malongo Atelier Barista for a coffee time 🤙🏽 my Fav 💯 , used to live at Burgos circle, BGC and I feel you Bruh 🥺 about being used and abused ATM, sad but true story 💯 🇵🇭
My best friend growing up was from Philippines, I fell in love with his moms cooking and I loved his family. I wish I knew what happened to him as we got older.
This happens in every part of the world the only difference is that it may seem more prevalent in countries like philippines because they beleive all americans are rich
Last month when I was in Cebu city, the kids came up to me and said, where is our money we want our money we need to eat. And they harassed me.all the time, I was glad to leave for Bohol
Good job Evan telling us the truth… yeah smoothers, everywhere even in Christian churches fellowship, I just recently wise up and managing my own money now since my American husband passed almost four years ago. Maybe if I wasn’t so giving to family and friends it would have been less stress for my husband, although I took good care of him in so many areas of our lives I could have done better in the area of finances, still learning at the age of 64, my husband and I was married 42 years. Live in Philippines for 26 years.
This was one of your best videos. Do you have a video that goes in depth on the best strategies for banking? Transferring money from the States to the Philippines, How to avoid fees? Getting the best ex hange rate? Thanks.,
I thought makati is the safest place in the Philippines.. I used to walk at 2am in the morning and I always felt safe there around greenbelt shopping centre
Good advice about a safe home base. Thinking BGC or Cebu IT park, condos should be aafe enough. Figure I will just visit both and decide. Big dogs in the province might work like Tim K, but, foreigners are certainly a target for some bad people.
i have lived in cebu IT park for 5 years, i love it. Many places to eat and shop, the weather here is so much better than manila and the surrounding areas.
Yes u r absolutely right, Iam not filippino Iam old the the reason many specially girls my mother, brother and other sick family have problems I been living in philippines since late 90s so I figured it out
Because you look filipino and you have relatives there, it's them and your closest friends will , what you think had taken advantage of you...but on their part, it's not like that. But have you been invited on an event like a birthday party in a resto and you didn't pay anything?
Po you with be a millionaire before your 40 years of age. You can easily replace Kevin Hart with the JP Morgan Chase commercials for half the cost. Salamat
IT IS TRUE and alot of times not only close friends , but you'll find family being the biggest Moochers , my parent couldn't stop , my mothers family took the last drop of blood and still wanted more. even my ex she would try to due stupid financial experiments ala Ralph Cramdon then ask me to covers her tuition ( that she received from HER aunt in Cali but lost during her ridiculous venture)
Good advice. Where were you in Subic that you got robbed? I'm in the Freeport zone and it seems safe with lots of security guards. Our building has cameras and a guard too.
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Just because you see poor people in the streets, doesn't mean the country itself is impoverished. It ranks 39th strongest economy out of the 195 countries in the world. Many countries have their fair share of poor people. Just because U.S. has many homeless people in LA, etc doesn't mean the U.S. is poor. DO YOU GET WHAT IM SAYING MR KNOW IT ALL? Just bec you see shanties doesn't mean PH can't afford to make decent houses for them, it's just that the PH govt is so corrupt and incompletent, brainless and heartless to know what should be done and have sufficient programs to work on those social issues. People are paying high taxes here compared to other SEA countries but we're not seeing that they're used efficiently. So stop being a know it all.
Are you willing to expand your guides in other parts of the Philippines? The central islands perhaps? Not every expat wants to settle in big cities or even medium sized cities. There are just as many that would love to settle in small towns or rural areas. You're missing a large piece of potential clients by not catering to them. I was wondering if you can give savvy advice to Filipino-Americans who want to get in touch with their roots by relocating at said locations, particularly the central islands region of Philippines. Hope you are able to follow through with my suggestion.
@@PrinceKatamari2004 Most definitely willing to expand my guides to provincial areas once I've acquired more experience living there. For transparency and the sake of being genuine with my audience, I try to only speak on places I've extensively experienced for myself (especially if it's a product I believe in.) coming soon!
That's why date someone who is also a foreigner like yourself who is established
I mean if its for school its reasonable because you know they'll get your own money
From someone who been to the Philippines MANY times, married to a Filipina going on 16 years.
Learn to say NO!!
If you are an impatient person, you will not like being in the Philippines. NOTHING get done fast here.
I can relate to that. Once they know you’re the “go to” person for borrowing money, it becomes a habit for them. I do help once or twice but only up to certain amount but on the 3rd time if they ask for $$$, no way!! They need to learn how to help themselves.
Mr. Evan, bad apples among Filipinos do it also in their own kind and not only Filipinos do that kind of thing but also other kinds of people. My husband and I host an exchange student from Vietnam and she told me about Vietnamese attitudes that makes their people shamed, and I told her that there are bad apples in every race. It is a human nature, so just be careful who you be friend with. stay safe and God bless.
It’s a good list. Honest and to the point. Those who can get mad at this video are the individuals who can’t handle the truth.
Evan, you nailed it! I'm sure you stepped on toes but I couldn't agree with you more. Yes, the #1 on the list is SOOOOOO true. The worst problem is the "can I borrow" and you know dare well, they will NEVER pay you back and they will TOTALLY forget they owe you and if they ask you again and you mention that they still owe you from before they take it as an insult. UNREAL!
You don't have to be a foreigner for this to happen though. I am a local and I am detached to so many relatives because I grew up seeing them do that exact shit to my parents. I have no interest in being part of that cycle.
What I wish I would have known before coming to the Philippines was the bathroom situation. I had never left the U.S.A. before I find out that the toilet seat is missing off of every single toilet in the malls and that they don't have toilet paper in the stall (You are supposed to bring your own).
i have been here in cebu for 7 years, i do not where u go to the bathroom there. But here in cebu they always have seats on the toilets, and at the mall most have toilet paper available. hahaha
@@dsrrellgriffith1161 This was in 2016 in Las Pinas and Alabang, which are cities that connect right to Manila. These were big fancy malls too.
I wonder where.
Most malls here in Metro Manila have toilet paper available outside the cubicle that one can get before entering the cube. The bigger newer malls have toilet paper and bidet per compartment. But we Pinoys are used to having our own tissue paper inside our bags to come in handy anytime. I must admit just like in any country, there are some toilets that don't have toilet paper and clean toilet seats. It sucks especially when you're in a rush. 😂
Well said Evan! This information is very helpful to expats who could easily be taken advantage of.
Great list. I live in Makati and always have my bill separated when out with friends. I still see a lot of tables at restaurants where you see the foreigner picking up the entire bill for a table of mixed couples.
We have come across several moochers in my time in The Philippines. I have seen ladies take advantage of men.
I have seen relatives try to take advantage of my Filipina wife's generous nature.
The price of meat and some other food stuff seems to be close to that of our home city. Other food is much cheaper.
International bank accounts are not that difficult to set up.
Homebase... I will reserve going there. Safety sjould always be a high priority.
Poverty takes something to get used to. I have been able to deal with the poverty issue, but it took some getting used to.
The people and the beauty of the islands outweigh the negatives and you video was very honest. Thank you for sharing a dose of reality.
Evan, this video is why I follow your channel. You tell the truth and don't sugar coat anything while not being caustic unlike a certain FB group that describing it as toxic would be very generous.
My son never complained the traffic, humidity, beggars he just loves being there
What's the difference between complaining and the truth?
Outstanding advice and video, as always. Ty Savvy Expat!
The issues that you talked about that I deeply understand and identify with .Do not asking where I came from to the US.haha .Your honesty will be respected by the vast majority of people.
Thanks for the honesty. You’re doing great!
Although I have seen comments on these negative topics in other videos, none were as objective and cruel as this one. Great video. I believe topic 1 is the most disappointing because it reaches your confidence and hope for a better life.
I appreciate that! Thanks for watching.
You convince me that I was very lucky in having my beloved for years before I came there. He had set up the house I was renting for us in Sibonga. He was and is incredibly protective. I stayed for six months and while we helped with poverty stricken kids often (his family feeds many dozens at Christmas and gives out over a thousand kilos of rice divided into 10 kilo bags to the families and do other things as well), he never let me go anywhere alone, and even still, he left me looking at phones in the mall while he ran into a store to pick up something he needed, he wasn't gone 5 minutes and by the time he got back three people - two young women and a young man had tried hitting on me - and let me tell you, I am and always have been oblivious and I knew what they were doing - but, to their credit and the credit of the culture, the moment he came back and took my hand, they melted away. So I think you are giving out very good advice. It is also true that the poverty is grinding - you could see it in Cebu, if not as badly in the town we were or the town where his family is. Out in the country - the people at least have a place to live, there were homeless all over in Cebu, and I think they are trying there. I've been thinking of sending money to the big Roman Catholic orphanage there that is run by the Little Servants of Christ the King - and if we do not do it before we get him over here - we certainly will after he is here. I have to admit, no one from among his friends ever tried to take advantage of me - but to be fair, I love entertaining, so normally I cooked a meal and we invited them to come and share it, so that's somewhat different I guess. Thank you for what you do.
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Great video, really well done!
Thanks a lot!
Great content, I especially love the knowledge about an international card. I had no ideal. Salamat. I’ve been living here for a little over a month now. I’m from San Diego, Ca.
How about just say NO? Nobody's obligated to acquiesce to any one.
Its' been a while, but my agency sent me to Manila to observe and give training to the Filipino employees there. I arrived at the airport and a company driver took me to the Shangri-la Hotel in Makati where I was staying. The area around the Shangri-la was amazing, but when my driver picked me up to take me to work, I saw countless people literally living in cardboard houses and women would hold their babies up to the SUV window at every stop. I had never experienced such extremes in wealth. Unfortunately, I don't think it is better now.
Evan, glad to see you back presenting again.
My Filipino family protects me from scammers. I’m very grateful to them! Haven’t had any problem with moochers but I’m sure that’s an issue for most! Good vlog.
From my time abroad is that you run in to moochers in most of the developing countries outside the U.S.A. It really sucks, because I would think I was making friends with the locals and then after 15 minutes of fun conversation, they ask if I can give them some money.
Thanks for the valuable and honest info!
Much appreciated! 🙏🏼
I just visited my family in Illinois and I was surprised of the 9% sales tax and 1.25%state tax!!! With the inflation and taxes, it's truly expensive 😢 can't wait to retire to the Philippines 😅😅😅
Right? It's unbelievably expensive out there!! Our dollar stretches much further out here
California is even worse. In some cities it is like 14% state income tax.
make sure u have money for health insurance, or u will get wiped out of your savings
@@dsrrellgriffith1161 Yep. Gio in the Philippines recommends a $30,000 emergency fund that you need to build back up as soon as a bump in the road hits. Open heart surgery is $13,000.
Phenomenal cost of living? Service, taxi and rent is cheaper. Actually alcohol too but that’s it. Meals are often half the size of US portions. Grocery stores are outrageous. Small rotisserie chicken 350 pesos. Same as NYC. Mango was a dollar each at Metro. Mango juice 120p a liter. The Philippines is the most expensive country in SEA. I still love it, and you can get good deals, nice resorts at a cheap price and SERVICE overall is cheap, but the prices of goods in the malls are often US prices. And don’t get me started with electronics… Malaysia, Vietnam and even Thailand is cheaper than the Philippines.
Geez, living expenses in the Silicon Valley California is much more reasonable and not in bubble.
Amazing video thank you so much for this content 👌🏾
Good advice again Evan; my Filipina wife and I are considering Baguio for retirement- could you do a video on this? Thanks 😊
I would agree with all your observations. Seeing so many kids in poverty is very hard to get used to. BGC is very westernised, so as "nice" as it is, it's very different from the province. Ive lived in Cebu, a nice mix of developed and unspoilt, but if I was going back there I'd consider Batangas as its cooler and the beaches are near and somewhere like Santa Rosa has well developed green spaces but you can still get to MOA or the airport in an hour or so. Great video, I'll watch more. 👍
Great points and great places to live. Thanks for sharing John, can’t go wrong with Batangas.
Your content is on point, truly appreciate your honesty and credibility.
Damn he's on winter clothing in the Philippines! haha nice bro
Thank you for being honest.
In 1973 I was a sailor and the first city I saw in the Philippines was Olongapo. I had never seen poverty before. Listening to you tell of the little girl with the baby brought it all back.
Ah yes, We were there at the same time. Had some great times !
Sorry but your #1 is not exclusive to the Philippines. That exists everywhere in the world. Its a matter of knowing how to choose your inner circle. Its something that you have control of and highly avoidable. If anything that is on you and not the Philippines per se.
Great job and great info, especially about not being the human atm for all!
Moochers - this happens to everyone who are seen as "galante" or generous. just enforce the 'kkb' rule. that's 'kanya-kanyang bayad'.
Im filipino but grew up in the US my whole life (Im 40 years old)... I look like a local filipino, but I dont speak tagalog, I dress differently, I obviously have an accent and carry myself liker a westerner... and same thing happens to me when I am in the philippines... they automatically think I am rich and treat me differently. Most local filipinos dont realize most people in the US are broke lol. Maybe a different type of broke, but we definitely dont have as much money as they do. We are planning on buying a house in the philippines pretty soon for retirement and dealing with local agents, contractors, etc, definitely will be handled by my wife, who is also dual citizenship, and im sure we'll be taken advantage of to some extent. Just have to be savvy and be firm and let people know from the start, we arent rich.
ive been and i found out just like you did and yes some of them will use you foe there own self and yet i am going back i learn to just not give and only then you will fine the good one just say no i will not they know how to make there own money so let them make there own way i have found thats the best way just say no and walk on and dont look back its not being mean do what you got to do ....
It's a hard knock life for us 🎶🎵It's a hard knock life for us 🎶🎵🎶 You give to who ever you think is honestly asking and those who you think are scamming you stay away from. I know its difficult to tell but just use your better judgement and know in your heart that you have helped someone. Now if you keep seeing the same people always asking for money then just say no and move on. 🚫
Perfectly said!
Dude, I love your videos. This video is a little different, but Keep them coming!
Requesting a video on "how to" have a Maid, Driver and Cook (house help) on the payroll in the NCR.
Like your truthfulness
You’re the man! Going to look more into BCG thanks you so I really appreciate it!
I make a good living as in the tech and research field. After the driver, cook and maid explanation…I’m thinking the Philippines may be my next destination for awhile. Lol
I am glad you brought up the sensitive issue of moochers. Unfortunately, I have had two LDRs with Filipinos and both turned out to be moochers. This has resulted in me being very guarded with any new friendships and being cynical about intentions unless proven otherwise.
I hear you bro. My outlaws even charged me 1,000 pesos for picking me up at the airport. And their all time favorite quote when it come to pick up the bill is “next time bro”
Stay away from your outlaws bro, what kind of family charges their son in law lol
Filipinos think foreigners are rich but fail to realize that even though you make a lot more money overseas you also have very high expenses and taxes, leaving little disposable income.
Great explanation video
Glad it was helpful!
Great channel
Can personally relate !
Ok bro,let's go...
Thanks for tuning in Elmer!
It’s very helpful, thanks for sharing
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you Evan, I really appreciate this video 👍
My pleasure!
FACTS regarding the moochers! You need to learn to pick your friends wisely! If my "friend" asked me to spot them while out to eat, I would've told them sorry 🤷♂️ but if you couldn't afford to go out to eat or pay for your lunch, you should've never gone out to eat in the first place!
Not just a lot of moochers....all are liars and thieves. Thanks for doing what you've done. It's helpful!
Wherever you go there are people taking advantage and poverty. Just have a look at the documentaries on poverty in the United States.
I was born in the Philippines. Your right don't let. Them borrow money . We been helping our family. They never appreciate they want more. 😢 that's the sad. We still the bad guys. 😢
Nice Video Evan. Shout out on your next video. Love from Bulacan. ❤️❤️❤️
Great information. The last time I came to the Philippines for a month with my wife, I had a budget but it did not count on her family. They all needed something and wanted to eat out at different restaurants. I am now working overtime to pay off the extra we spent. As far as moochers, they would be the non family members (family friends) which would show up at a restaurant or party and just expect for me to pay or feed them. Honest, not sure how to handle this but may retire to BGC and do not mind treating once in a while. But my wife has 7 brothers and sisters with many nieces, nephews and cousins. Any suggestions, please let me know for sure many foreign men married to a Filipino woman have had the same problem.
I have seen foreigners who trade their resources for some job that need to be done. For example, you could them money after the mow the lawn or something. You could hire her brother/sister to occasionally clean the house. You could teach her younger siblings to buy something on the market in exchange for allowance. Trade and do not give anything for free. Giving something for free encourages mooching but trading does not. Trading encourages someone to work so..
And for non- family members, hmm..draw the line early. Say that the party you are planning to do is for family only. And if you have extra then from time to time, you could invite them so that you would not be called tihik.
Hello sir, maybe you can talk to your wife about it, she should be the one to handle it.. I hope relatives and friends would realized you're not Santa Claus☺️
@@meguillozebern8806 right
@@vanessalifewithJ agree
Good job on this one, Evan. I will definitely look into living in BGC...thanks.
The one thing that got me when I 2st went to the Pelepens was the little kids begging for money was so sad and how dirty certain areas were. But like anything you kinda learn to adjust.
Great wisdom and advice!
Mr. Evan, I just watched the "Hello,United Philippines" vlog about the Philippines in the year 1974. Just a thought to suggest it to you to watch it because it interesting and it is spoken in English by the narrative.
Spot on! Harsh, rude, AND true. GB you dude.
hey Even....your previous video did not load into youtube
Always good info from TSE, thanks!!
Used to go at Malongo Atelier Barista for a coffee time 🤙🏽 my Fav 💯 , used to live at Burgos circle, BGC and I feel you Bruh 🥺 about being used and abused ATM, sad but true story 💯 🇵🇭
Great video, Thank you 🙏
The info you shared is invaluable. I feel much more confident about coming there now.
I’m very glad to hear that. God bless.
My best friend growing up was from Philippines, I fell in love with his moms cooking and I loved his family. I wish I knew what happened to him as we got older.
Nice one 👍🇬🇧same in many countries asking for money I'm in Colombia
This happens in every part of the world the only difference is that it may seem more prevalent in countries like philippines because they beleive all americans are rich
Thanks for the honesty
Last month when I was in Cebu city, the kids came up to me and said, where is our money we want our money we need to eat. And they harassed me.all the time, I was glad to leave for Bohol
Good job Evan telling us the truth… yeah smoothers, everywhere even in Christian churches fellowship, I just recently wise up and managing my own money now since my American husband passed almost four years ago. Maybe if I wasn’t so giving to family and friends it would have been less stress for my husband, although I took good care of him in so many areas of our lives I could have done better in the area of finances, still learning at the age of 64, my husband and I was married 42 years. Live in Philippines for 26 years.
Hot guy! Good video!
This was one of your best videos. Do you have a video that goes in depth on the best strategies for banking? Transferring money from the States to the Philippines, How to avoid fees? Getting the best ex hange rate? Thanks.,
People will take as long as you are willing to give
I thought makati is the safest place in the Philippines..
I used to walk at 2am in the morning and I always felt safe there around greenbelt shopping centre
Good content!
My son never been to the Philippines & I took him there recently & he loves it there & he never mentioned culture shock
it's difficult to trust even your closest friends when it comes to money
Oh shit I’m from Chicago too. Moving to Eastwood city in Quezon City early October. Let’s link bro.
No kidding, shoot me an email bro
Good advice about a safe home base. Thinking BGC or Cebu IT park, condos should be aafe enough. Figure I will just visit both and decide. Big dogs in the province might work like Tim K, but, foreigners are certainly a target for some bad people.
i have lived in cebu IT park for 5 years, i love it. Many places to eat and shop, the weather here is so much better than manila and the surrounding areas.
Good vid. Are you wearing a fleece sweater? In the Philippines?
And what are the laws for a foreigner to protect ourselves from muggers or snatchers?
Don't be greedy and lie. This is what the Bible says TOO.....
Great video
I will cover a drink, but I will only cover a meal if it's the friend's birthday.
Yes u r absolutely right, Iam not filippino Iam old the the reason many specially girls my mother, brother and other sick family have problems I been living in philippines since late 90s so I figured it out
Because you look filipino and you have relatives there, it's them and your closest friends will , what you think had taken advantage of you...but on their part, it's not like that.
But have you been invited on an event like a birthday party in a resto and you didn't pay anything?
Great 👍 content
Po you with be a millionaire before your 40 years of age. You can easily replace Kevin Hart with the JP Morgan Chase commercials for half the cost. Salamat
IT IS TRUE and alot of times not only close friends , but you'll find family being the biggest Moochers , my parent couldn't stop , my mothers family took the last drop of blood and still wanted more. even my ex she would try to due stupid financial experiments ala Ralph Cramdon then ask me to covers her tuition ( that she received from HER aunt in Cali but lost during her ridiculous venture)
Good advice. Where were you in Subic that you got robbed? I'm in the Freeport zone and it seems safe with lots of security guards. Our building has cameras and a guard too.
Great video, Evan. I could listen yo you for hours. 👏👌
@BNBSmartChainJackpot. 🖕🖕
How about the Muslim communities/areas in PH? Is it saver there/more comfortable/better organised/etc?
What is a BGC? Never been to the Philippines, so honestly, idk. Thanks!
Bgc is Bonifacio Global City in Manila. Arguably the best city in Manila.