5 Things I Wish I Knew Before Moving To The Philippines...

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  • Опубликовано: 2 июл 2024
  • Moving to the Philippines, you will inevitably encounter your own set of road bumps, obstacles, and culture shocks settling down here. I know I certainly did... That is why in this video delve into the five things I wish I knew before moving to the Philippines. So buckle up and enjoy the video!
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    0:00 5 Things I Wish I Knew Before Moving To The Philippines...
    0:25 I Wish I Knew #1: Moochers
    3:51 I Wish I Knew #2: Phenomenal Cost of Living
    5:35 I Wish I Knew #3: Set Up an International Bank Account
    6:25 I Wish I Knew #4: Choose a Safe Place to Setup Home Base
    8:12 I Wish I Knew #5: Heart Wrenching Poverty
    10:15 God Bless
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  • @TheSavvyExpat
    @TheSavvyExpat  11 месяцев назад +7

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    • @fkoff7649
      @fkoff7649 11 месяцев назад +1

      Just because you see poor people in the streets, doesn't mean the country itself is impoverished. It ranks 39th strongest economy out of the 195 countries in the world. Many countries have their fair share of poor people. Just because U.S. has many homeless people in LA, etc doesn't mean the U.S. is poor. DO YOU GET WHAT IM SAYING MR KNOW IT ALL? Just bec you see shanties doesn't mean PH can't afford to make decent houses for them, it's just that the PH govt is so corrupt and incompletent, brainless and heartless to know what should be done and have sufficient programs to work on those social issues. People are paying high taxes here compared to other SEA countries but we're not seeing that they're used efficiently. So stop being a know it all.

    • @user-kj7pm1yh5l
      @user-kj7pm1yh5l 11 месяцев назад

      Are you willing to expand your guides in other parts of the Philippines? The central islands perhaps? Not every expat wants to settle in big cities or even medium sized cities. There are just as many that would love to settle in small towns or rural areas. You're missing a large piece of potential clients by not catering to them. I was wondering if you can give savvy advice to Filipino-Americans who want to get in touch with their roots by relocating at said locations, particularly the central islands region of Philippines. Hope you are able to follow through with my suggestion.

    • @TheSavvyExpat
      @TheSavvyExpat  11 месяцев назад +2

      @@user-kj7pm1yh5l Most definitely willing to expand my guides to provincial areas once I've acquired more experience living there. For transparency and the sake of being genuine with my audience, I try to only speak on places I've extensively experienced for myself (especially if it's a product I believe in.) coming soon!

    • @DiamondSplendid-yy7dg
      @DiamondSplendid-yy7dg 6 месяцев назад

      That's why date someone who is also a foreigner like yourself who is established

    • @DiamondSplendid-yy7dg
      @DiamondSplendid-yy7dg 6 месяцев назад

      I mean if its for school its reasonable because you know they'll get your own money

  • @RLFrocco
    @RLFrocco 11 месяцев назад +38

    I can relate to that. Once they know you’re the “go to” person for borrowing money, it becomes a habit for them. I do help once or twice but only up to certain amount but on the 3rd time if they ask for $$$, no way!! They need to learn how to help themselves.

  • @garyburgmylifeandtimes6354
    @garyburgmylifeandtimes6354 11 месяцев назад +21

    Evan, you nailed it! I'm sure you stepped on toes but I couldn't agree with you more. Yes, the #1 on the list is SOOOOOO true. The worst problem is the "can I borrow" and you know dare well, they will NEVER pay you back and they will TOTALLY forget they owe you and if they ask you again and you mention that they still owe you from before they take it as an insult. UNREAL!

    • @Erg-tk2ln
      @Erg-tk2ln 11 месяцев назад +9

      You don't have to be a foreigner for this to happen though. I am a local and I am detached to so many relatives because I grew up seeing them do that exact shit to my parents. I have no interest in being part of that cycle.

  • @ethiehetherington5086
    @ethiehetherington5086 11 месяцев назад +18

    Mr. Evan, bad apples among Filipinos do it also in their own kind and not only Filipinos do that kind of thing but also other kinds of people. My husband and I host an exchange student from Vietnam and she told me about Vietnamese attitudes that makes their people shamed, and I told her that there are bad apples in every race. It is a human nature, so just be careful who you be friend with. stay safe and God bless.

  • @theadventuresofaplainjane2504
    @theadventuresofaplainjane2504 11 месяцев назад +9

    It’s a good list. Honest and to the point. Those who can get mad at this video are the individuals who can’t handle the truth.

  • @OHANA-Beach-Suites-CDO
    @OHANA-Beach-Suites-CDO 11 месяцев назад +22

    Been there 19 times I am ready for the big move next year. Philippines is amazing.

    • @Javasboi
      @Javasboi 8 месяцев назад +1

      I've been there once recently, visiting my girlfriend... I'm already looking to options to relocate there and spend my life there with her ❤️ best country ever

    • @OHANA-Beach-Suites-CDO
      @OHANA-Beach-Suites-CDO 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@Javasboi Awesome! What ideas do you have for business ideas or what? Best of luck!

    • @Javasboi
      @Javasboi 8 месяцев назад +1

      I want to do the relocation of the quick. So I'm planning a foreign speaking bpo at first. We're figuring out an import/export side gig at the same time. We'll also try some side gigs which will earn us euros instead of pesos.. But I'm not sure how that one will work out xD

    • @OHANA-Beach-Suites-CDO
      @OHANA-Beach-Suites-CDO 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@Javasboi Sounds really cool. Do your homework and good luck!

    • @Tito-sq1kb
      @Tito-sq1kb 5 месяцев назад +1

      I was there for a month in 2022. Finally made the decision to move this December if not earlier.. see ya out there

  • @doesntmatter3068
    @doesntmatter3068 9 месяцев назад +8

    From someone who been to the Philippines MANY times, married to a Filipina going on 16 years.
    Learn to say NO!!
    If you are an impatient person, you will not like being in the Philippines. NOTHING get done fast here.

  • @MyLifeThai371
    @MyLifeThai371 11 месяцев назад +27

    What I wish I would have known before coming to the Philippines was the bathroom situation. I had never left the U.S.A. before I find out that the toilet seat is missing off of every single toilet in the malls and that they don't have toilet paper in the stall (You are supposed to bring your own).

    • @dsrrellgriffith1161
      @dsrrellgriffith1161 11 месяцев назад +4

      i have been here in cebu for 7 years, i do not where u go to the bathroom there. But here in cebu they always have seats on the toilets, and at the mall most have toilet paper available. hahaha

    • @MyLifeThai371
      @MyLifeThai371 11 месяцев назад +5

      @@dsrrellgriffith1161 This was in 2016 in Las Pinas and Alabang, which are cities that connect right to Manila. These were big fancy malls too.

    • @yeyefab
      @yeyefab 11 месяцев назад

      I wonder where.

    • @littermelli
      @littermelli 6 месяцев назад

      Most malls here in Metro Manila have toilet paper available outside the cubicle that one can get before entering the cube. The bigger newer malls have toilet paper and bidet per compartment. But we Pinoys are used to having our own tissue paper inside our bags to come in handy anytime. I must admit just like in any country, there are some toilets that don't have toilet paper and clean toilet seats. It sucks especially when you're in a rush. 😂

  • @tedlasalvia9668
    @tedlasalvia9668 11 месяцев назад +8

    Well said Evan! This information is very helpful to expats who could easily be taken advantage of.

  • @manilamartin1001
    @manilamartin1001 11 месяцев назад +9

    Great list. I live in Makati and always have my bill separated when out with friends. I still see a lot of tables at restaurants where you see the foreigner picking up the entire bill for a table of mixed couples.

  • @jamesclaire115
    @jamesclaire115 11 месяцев назад +4

    We have come across several moochers in my time in The Philippines. I have seen ladies take advantage of men.
    I have seen relatives try to take advantage of my Filipina wife's generous nature.
    The price of meat and some other food stuff seems to be close to that of our home city. Other food is much cheaper.
    International bank accounts are not that difficult to set up.
    Homebase... I will reserve going there. Safety sjould always be a high priority.
    Poverty takes something to get used to. I have been able to deal with the poverty issue, but it took some getting used to.
    The people and the beauty of the islands outweigh the negatives and you video was very honest. Thank you for sharing a dose of reality.

  • @paulnebeling2068
    @paulnebeling2068 11 месяцев назад +4

    Evan, this video is why I follow your channel. You tell the truth and don't sugar coat anything while not being caustic unlike a certain FB group that describing it as toxic would be very generous.

  • @EsthersMedia
    @EsthersMedia 11 месяцев назад +7

    The issues that you talked about that I deeply understand and identify with .Do not asking where I came from to the US.haha .Your honesty will be respected by the vast majority of people.

  • @Stew357
    @Stew357 11 месяцев назад +7

    Outstanding advice and video, as always. Ty Savvy Expat!

  • @richardsteinbergmakingknives
    @richardsteinbergmakingknives 11 месяцев назад +6

    Great video, really well done!

  • @GruncleJohn
    @GruncleJohn 10 месяцев назад +3

    Thanks for the honesty. You’re doing great!

  • @raymondjackson70
    @raymondjackson70 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for the valuable and honest info!
    Much appreciated! 🙏🏼

  • @amarburmi3716
    @amarburmi3716 8 месяцев назад +1

    Amazing video thank you so much for this content 👌🏾

  • @marissadeguzman1984
    @marissadeguzman1984 11 месяцев назад +1

    Your content is on point, truly appreciate your honesty and credibility.

  • @mikefranks4528
    @mikefranks4528 11 месяцев назад +1

    Evan, glad to see you back presenting again.

  • @SilverLake401
    @SilverLake401 10 месяцев назад

    You’re the man! Going to look more into BCG thanks you so I really appreciate it!

  • @andrems
    @andrems 11 месяцев назад +5

    Although I have seen comments on these negative topics in other videos, none were as objective and cruel as this one. Great video. I believe topic 1 is the most disappointing because it reaches your confidence and hope for a better life.

    • @TheSavvyExpat
      @TheSavvyExpat  11 месяцев назад +2

      I appreciate that! Thanks for watching.

  • @checkthelogic
    @checkthelogic 11 месяцев назад

    Dude, I love your videos. This video is a little different, but Keep them coming!

  • @twsswt
    @twsswt 11 месяцев назад +2

    Great content, I especially love the knowledge about an international card. I had no ideal. Salamat. I’ve been living here for a little over a month now. I’m from San Diego, Ca.

  • @peteadams8507
    @peteadams8507 11 месяцев назад +1

    Great job and great info, especially about not being the human atm for all!

  • @miguelc.819
    @miguelc.819 11 месяцев назад

    Great video, Thank you 🙏

  • @ignaciobalais5394
    @ignaciobalais5394 11 месяцев назад +1

    My son never complained the traffic, humidity, beggars he just loves being there

  • @jeken291
    @jeken291 11 месяцев назад

    Nice Video Evan. Shout out on your next video. Love from Bulacan. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @tulbanemoore8405
    @tulbanemoore8405 11 месяцев назад

    Good job on this one, Evan. I will definitely look into living in BGC...thanks.

  • @spincube5734
    @spincube5734 11 месяцев назад

    Always good info from TSE, thanks!!

  • @jaybee1597
    @jaybee1597 11 месяцев назад

    Great wisdom and advice!

  • @MyLifeThai371
    @MyLifeThai371 11 месяцев назад +3

    From my time abroad is that you run in to moochers in most of the developing countries outside the U.S.A. It really sucks, because I would think I was making friends with the locals and then after 15 minutes of fun conversation, they ask if I can give them some money.

  • @radagast25a
    @radagast25a 11 месяцев назад +6

    You convince me that I was very lucky in having my beloved for years before I came there. He had set up the house I was renting for us in Sibonga. He was and is incredibly protective. I stayed for six months and while we helped with poverty stricken kids often (his family feeds many dozens at Christmas and gives out over a thousand kilos of rice divided into 10 kilo bags to the families and do other things as well), he never let me go anywhere alone, and even still, he left me looking at phones in the mall while he ran into a store to pick up something he needed, he wasn't gone 5 minutes and by the time he got back three people - two young women and a young man had tried hitting on me - and let me tell you, I am and always have been oblivious and I knew what they were doing - but, to their credit and the credit of the culture, the moment he came back and took my hand, they melted away. So I think you are giving out very good advice. It is also true that the poverty is grinding - you could see it in Cebu, if not as badly in the town we were or the town where his family is. Out in the country - the people at least have a place to live, there were homeless all over in Cebu, and I think they are trying there. I've been thinking of sending money to the big Roman Catholic orphanage there that is run by the Little Servants of Christ the King - and if we do not do it before we get him over here - we certainly will after he is here. I have to admit, no one from among his friends ever tried to take advantage of me - but to be fair, I love entertaining, so normally I cooked a meal and we invited them to come and share it, so that's somewhat different I guess. Thank you for what you do.

  • @jwahine4603
    @jwahine4603 8 месяцев назад +1

    It’s very helpful, thanks for sharing

  • @Sweet-T-Mama
    @Sweet-T-Mama 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Evan, I really appreciate this video 👍

  • @johngalt6708
    @johngalt6708 11 месяцев назад +5

    I would agree with all your observations. Seeing so many kids in poverty is very hard to get used to. BGC is very westernised, so as "nice" as it is, it's very different from the province. Ive lived in Cebu, a nice mix of developed and unspoilt, but if I was going back there I'd consider Batangas as its cooler and the beaches are near and somewhere like Santa Rosa has well developed green spaces but you can still get to MOA or the airport in an hour or so. Great video, I'll watch more. 👍

    • @TheSavvyExpat
      @TheSavvyExpat  11 месяцев назад +2

      Great points and great places to live. Thanks for sharing John, can’t go wrong with Batangas.

  • @marcellespiritu
    @marcellespiritu 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for being honest.

  • @stephendunn2860
    @stephendunn2860 11 месяцев назад +1

    My Filipino family protects me from scammers. I’m very grateful to them! Haven’t had any problem with moochers but I’m sure that’s an issue for most! Good vlog.

  • @mikecrook8434
    @mikecrook8434 11 месяцев назад

    Good content!

  • @kanyon_ni_mang_simeon
    @kanyon_ni_mang_simeon 11 месяцев назад +1

    Damn he's on winter clothing in the Philippines! haha nice bro

  • @Chaka2479
    @Chaka2479 11 месяцев назад +2

    Schwab and Fidelity have checking accounts with no foreign transaction and ATM fees worldwide.

  • @stevensantiago746
    @stevensantiago746 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks for the honesty

  • @JaNa-ge6rk
    @JaNa-ge6rk 11 месяцев назад

    Spot on! Harsh, rude, AND true. GB you dude.

  • @worldchanges10
    @worldchanges10 9 месяцев назад +1

    Like your truthfulness

  • @Cellus002
    @Cellus002 11 месяцев назад

    Great video

  • @jocunningham
    @jocunningham 11 месяцев назад +7

    I just visited my family in Illinois and I was surprised of the 9% sales tax and 1.25%state tax!!! With the inflation and taxes, it's truly expensive 😢 can't wait to retire to the Philippines 😅😅😅

    • @TheSavvyExpat
      @TheSavvyExpat  11 месяцев назад +4

      Right? It's unbelievably expensive out there!! Our dollar stretches much further out here

    • @MyLifeThai371
      @MyLifeThai371 11 месяцев назад +1

      California is even worse. In some cities it is like 14% state income tax.

    • @dsrrellgriffith1161
      @dsrrellgriffith1161 11 месяцев назад +1

      make sure u have money for health insurance, or u will get wiped out of your savings

    • @MyLifeThai371
      @MyLifeThai371 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@dsrrellgriffith1161 Yep. Gio in the Philippines recommends a $30,000 emergency fund that you need to build back up as soon as a bump in the road hits. Open heart surgery is $13,000.

  • @mikehunt5637
    @mikehunt5637 11 месяцев назад +3

    Its' been a while, but my agency sent me to Manila to observe and give training to the Filipino employees there. I arrived at the airport and a company driver took me to the Shangri-la Hotel in Makati where I was staying. The area around the Shangri-la was amazing, but when my driver picked me up to take me to work, I saw countless people literally living in cardboard houses and women would hold their babies up to the SUV window at every stop. I had never experienced such extremes in wealth. Unfortunately, I don't think it is better now.

  • @kennygopal
    @kennygopal 11 месяцев назад +3

    Great explanation video

  • @davidsiemer7578
    @davidsiemer7578 11 месяцев назад +2

    Good advice again Evan; my Filipina wife and I are considering Baguio for retirement- could you do a video on this? Thanks 😊

  • @cynthiafernandez5584
    @cynthiafernandez5584 11 месяцев назад +2

    Can personally relate !

  • @manchesterr85
    @manchesterr85 11 месяцев назад +3

    Phenomenal cost of living? Service, taxi and rent is cheaper. Actually alcohol too but that’s it. Meals are often half the size of US portions. Grocery stores are outrageous. Small rotisserie chicken 350 pesos. Same as NYC. Mango was a dollar each at Metro. Mango juice 120p a liter. The Philippines is the most expensive country in SEA. I still love it, and you can get good deals, nice resorts at a cheap price and SERVICE overall is cheap, but the prices of goods in the malls are often US prices. And don’t get me started with electronics… Malaysia, Vietnam and even Thailand is cheaper than the Philippines.

    • @user-pq6st8uq9d
      @user-pq6st8uq9d 11 месяцев назад +1

      Geez, living expenses in the Silicon Valley California is much more reasonable and not in bubble.

  • @thegoodlifejeremy
    @thegoodlifejeremy 6 месяцев назад

    Great 👍 content

  • @jameswetzel7406
    @jameswetzel7406 Месяц назад

    Great channel

  • @johnclark7973
    @johnclark7973 11 месяцев назад +1

    Requesting a video on "how to" have a Maid, Driver and Cook (house help) on the payroll in the NCR.

  • @ElmerAgcaoilietong
    @ElmerAgcaoilietong 11 месяцев назад +1

    Ok bro,let's go...

    • @TheSavvyExpat
      @TheSavvyExpat  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks for tuning in Elmer!

  • @CARTUNE.
    @CARTUNE. 4 месяца назад

    I make a good living as in the tech and research field. After the driver, cook and maid explanation…I’m thinking the Philippines may be my next destination for awhile. Lol

  • @innerboostaffirmations
    @innerboostaffirmations 11 месяцев назад +1

    I am glad you brought up the sensitive issue of moochers. Unfortunately, I have had two LDRs with Filipinos and both turned out to be moochers. This has resulted in me being very guarded with any new friendships and being cynical about intentions unless proven otherwise.

  • @mfrog8619
    @mfrog8619 11 месяцев назад

    Good vid. Are you wearing a fleece sweater? In the Philippines?

  • @edwardquin4464
    @edwardquin4464 10 месяцев назад +1

    In 1973 I was a sailor and the first city I saw in the Philippines was Olongapo. I had never seen poverty before. Listening to you tell of the little girl with the baby brought it all back.

    • @stevierayripple
      @stevierayripple 6 месяцев назад

      Ah yes, We were there at the same time. Had some great times !

  • @m33p0
    @m33p0 11 месяцев назад +1

    Moochers - this happens to everyone who are seen as "galante" or generous. just enforce the 'kkb' rule. that's 'kanya-kanyang bayad'.

  • @maclovioberumen1917
    @maclovioberumen1917 11 месяцев назад +2

    It's a hard knock life for us 🎶🎵It's a hard knock life for us 🎶🎵🎶 You give to who ever you think is honestly asking and those who you think are scamming you stay away from. I know its difficult to tell but just use your better judgement and know in your heart that you have helped someone. Now if you keep seeing the same people always asking for money then just say no and move on. 🚫

  • @MultiPasswordman
    @MultiPasswordman 11 месяцев назад +1

    FACTS regarding the moochers! You need to learn to pick your friends wisely! If my "friend" asked me to spot them while out to eat, I would've told them sorry 🤷‍♂️ but if you couldn't afford to go out to eat or pay for your lunch, you should've never gone out to eat in the first place!

  • @billharrisjazzbluesandmore7948
    @billharrisjazzbluesandmore7948 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you

  • @ethiehetherington5086
    @ethiehetherington5086 11 месяцев назад

    Mr. Evan, I just watched the "Hello,United Philippines" vlog about the Philippines in the year 1974. Just a thought to suggest it to you to watch it because it interesting and it is spoken in English by the narrative.

  • @joe-vl3nd
    @joe-vl3nd 9 месяцев назад

    Nice one 👍🇬🇧same in many countries asking for money I'm in Colombia

  • @ronaldcloud5859
    @ronaldcloud5859 11 месяцев назад +1

    ive been and i found out just like you did and yes some of them will use you foe there own self and yet i am going back i learn to just not give and only then you will fine the good one just say no i will not they know how to make there own money so let them make there own way i have found thats the best way just say no and walk on and dont look back its not being mean do what you got to do ....

  • @andyho3250
    @andyho3250 5 месяцев назад +1

    I hear you bro. My outlaws even charged me 1,000 pesos for picking me up at the airport. And their all time favorite quote when it come to pick up the bill is “next time bro”

    • @TheSavvyExpat
      @TheSavvyExpat  5 месяцев назад +1

      Stay away from your outlaws bro, what kind of family charges their son in law lol

  • @Tim_281
    @Tim_281 11 месяцев назад +1

    The one thing that got me when I 2st went to the Pelepens was the little kids begging for money was so sad and how dirty certain areas were. But like anything you kinda learn to adjust.

  • @OblioArrowgood
    @OblioArrowgood 3 месяца назад

    Not just a lot of moochers....all are liars and thieves. Thanks for doing what you've done. It's helpful!

  • @evelyndennis9199
    @evelyndennis9199 11 месяцев назад +1

    I was born in the Philippines. Your right don't let. Them borrow money . We been helping our family. They never appreciate they want more. 😢 that's the sad. We still the bad guys. 😢

  • @stuartgraham9357
    @stuartgraham9357 11 месяцев назад

    You mentioned surfing, I’m curious about the Cloud 9/General Luna area. I’d love a bungalow on the beach. Is that safe and doable in that area?😅

  • @damncars2618
    @damncars2618 10 месяцев назад

    Good advice. Where were you in Subic that you got robbed? I'm in the Freeport zone and it seems safe with lots of security guards. Our building has cameras and a guard too.

  • @earlgreco8636
    @earlgreco8636 11 месяцев назад +2

    The info you shared is invaluable. I feel much more confident about coming there now.

    • @TheSavvyExpat
      @TheSavvyExpat  11 месяцев назад +1

      I’m very glad to hear that. God bless.

  • @Chaka2479
    @Chaka2479 11 месяцев назад +1

    Filipinos think foreigners are rich but fail to realize that even though you make a lot more money overseas you also have very high expenses and taxes, leaving little disposable income.

  • @gilnebres3119
    @gilnebres3119 11 месяцев назад +2

    Wherever you go there are people taking advantage and poverty. Just have a look at the documentaries on poverty in the United States.

  • @dalebutt1509
    @dalebutt1509 11 месяцев назад +1

    hey Even....your previous video did not load into youtube

  • @carlsberjanegroux5575
    @carlsberjanegroux5575 2 месяца назад

    Im filipino but grew up in the US my whole life (Im 40 years old)... I look like a local filipino, but I dont speak tagalog, I dress differently, I obviously have an accent and carry myself liker a westerner... and same thing happens to me when I am in the philippines... they automatically think I am rich and treat me differently. Most local filipinos dont realize most people in the US are broke lol. Maybe a different type of broke, but we definitely dont have as much money as they do. We are planning on buying a house in the philippines pretty soon for retirement and dealing with local agents, contractors, etc, definitely will be handled by my wife, who is also dual citizenship, and im sure we'll be taken advantage of to some extent. Just have to be savvy and be firm and let people know from the start, we arent rich.

  • @jaime8318
    @jaime8318 8 месяцев назад

    This was one of your best videos. Do you have a video that goes in depth on the best strategies for banking? Transferring money from the States to the Philippines, How to avoid fees? Getting the best ex hange rate? Thanks.,

  • @ignaciobalais5394
    @ignaciobalais5394 11 месяцев назад

    My son never been to the Philippines & I took him there recently & he loves it there & he never mentioned culture shock

  • @petergregory5537
    @petergregory5537 11 месяцев назад

    People will take as long as you are willing to give

  • @samquinn6427
    @samquinn6427 11 месяцев назад +7

    Great information. The last time I came to the Philippines for a month with my wife, I had a budget but it did not count on her family. They all needed something and wanted to eat out at different restaurants. I am now working overtime to pay off the extra we spent. As far as moochers, they would be the non family members (family friends) which would show up at a restaurant or party and just expect for me to pay or feed them. Honest, not sure how to handle this but may retire to BGC and do not mind treating once in a while. But my wife has 7 brothers and sisters with many nieces, nephews and cousins. Any suggestions, please let me know for sure many foreign men married to a Filipino woman have had the same problem.

    • @meguillozebern8806
      @meguillozebern8806 11 месяцев назад +6

      I have seen foreigners who trade their resources for some job that need to be done. For example, you could them money after the mow the lawn or something. You could hire her brother/sister to occasionally clean the house. You could teach her younger siblings to buy something on the market in exchange for allowance. Trade and do not give anything for free. Giving something for free encourages mooching but trading does not. Trading encourages someone to work so..

    • @meguillozebern8806
      @meguillozebern8806 11 месяцев назад +4

      And for non- family members, hmm..draw the line early. Say that the party you are planning to do is for family only. And if you have extra then from time to time, you could invite them so that you would not be called tihik.

    • @vanessalifewithJ
      @vanessalifewithJ 11 месяцев назад +3

      Hello sir, maybe you can talk to your wife about it, she should be the one to handle it.. I hope relatives and friends would realized you're not Santa Claus☺️

    • @cindymendoza8279
      @cindymendoza8279 11 месяцев назад

      @@meguillozebern8806 right

    • @cindymendoza8279
      @cindymendoza8279 11 месяцев назад

      @@vanessalifewithJ agree

  • @iBarber504
    @iBarber504 8 месяцев назад

    My best friend growing up was from Philippines, I fell in love with his moms cooking and I loved his family. I wish I knew what happened to him as we got older.

  • @nickguzzer579
    @nickguzzer579 11 месяцев назад +1

    Used to go at Malongo Atelier Barista for a coffee time 🤙🏽 my Fav 💯 , used to live at Burgos circle, BGC and I feel you Bruh 🥺 about being used and abused ATM, sad but true story 💯 🇵🇭

  • @sincocuerdas
    @sincocuerdas 11 месяцев назад +3

    How about just say NO? Nobody's obligated to acquiesce to any one.

  • @kennygopal
    @kennygopal 11 месяцев назад

    Yes u r absolutely right, Iam not filippino Iam old the the reason many specially girls my mother, brother and other sick family have problems I been living in philippines since late 90s so I figured it out

  • @carmelaelliott227
    @carmelaelliott227 9 месяцев назад

    Good job Evan telling us the truth… yeah smoothers, everywhere even in Christian churches fellowship, I just recently wise up and managing my own money now since my American husband passed almost four years ago. Maybe if I wasn’t so giving to family and friends it would have been less stress for my husband, although I took good care of him in so many areas of our lives I could have done better in the area of finances, still learning at the age of 64, my husband and I was married 42 years. Live in Philippines for 26 years.

  • @johnmckenna3082
    @johnmckenna3082 11 месяцев назад

    Is it easy to set up a fourenor bank account to transfere money to

  • @temujinkhan6326
    @temujinkhan6326 6 месяцев назад

    This happens in every part of the world the only difference is that it may seem more prevalent in countries like philippines because they beleive all americans are rich

  • @michaeladams9250
    @michaeladams9250 11 месяцев назад +1

    To rent a motorbike what kinda license do you have to have. Or do you.

  • @adamcunningham6847
    @adamcunningham6847 11 месяцев назад

    IT IS TRUE and alot of times not only close friends , but you'll find family being the biggest Moochers , my parent couldn't stop , my mothers family took the last drop of blood and still wanted more. even my ex she would try to due stupid financial experiments ala Ralph Cramdon then ask me to covers her tuition ( that she received from HER aunt in Cali but lost during her ridiculous venture)

  • @johnclark7973
    @johnclark7973 11 месяцев назад

    Great video, Evan. I could listen yo you for hours. 👏👌

    • @johnclark7973
      @johnclark7973 11 месяцев назад

      @BNBSmartChainJackpot. 🖕🖕

  • @JamesClayton
    @JamesClayton 11 месяцев назад +2

    Good advice about a safe home base. Thinking BGC or Cebu IT park, condos should be aafe enough. Figure I will just visit both and decide. Big dogs in the province might work like Tim K, but, foreigners are certainly a target for some bad people.

    • @dsrrellgriffith1161
      @dsrrellgriffith1161 11 месяцев назад +1

      i have lived in cebu IT park for 5 years, i love it. Many places to eat and shop, the weather here is so much better than manila and the surrounding areas.

  • @michaelg4232
    @michaelg4232 11 месяцев назад

    Was the flight to siargao a special deal?? I've never seen any for 50$ please tell how

  • @drielim
    @drielim 11 месяцев назад +4

    Sorry but your #1 is not exclusive to the Philippines. That exists everywhere in the world. Its a matter of knowing how to choose your inner circle. Its something that you have control of and highly avoidable. If anything that is on you and not the Philippines per se.

  • @user-rv3hw5uu2n
    @user-rv3hw5uu2n 6 дней назад

    Big Dog is it cold over there what's up with the patagonia

  • @mistersquaresoft5307
    @mistersquaresoft5307 11 месяцев назад +1

    And what are the laws for a foreigner to protect ourselves from muggers or snatchers?

  • @cyber3834
    @cyber3834 11 месяцев назад +1

    it's difficult to trust even your closest friends when it comes to money

  • @527ctguy
    @527ctguy 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hot guy! Good video!

  • @chocolatecookie8571
    @chocolatecookie8571 8 месяцев назад

    How about the Muslim communities/areas in PH? Is it saver there/more comfortable/better organised/etc?

  • @LanceBell
    @LanceBell 9 месяцев назад +1

    Oh shit I’m from Chicago too. Moving to Eastwood city in Quezon City early October. Let’s link bro.

    • @TheSavvyExpat
      @TheSavvyExpat  9 месяцев назад +1

      No kidding, shoot me an email bro