and yet you say "people struggle way more than i do". bro watch your situation from an outside view, **you** should stop knocking yourself down. this vidoe is amazing, and thank you
dude this helped me so much you do not even know. I am struggling heavily with my own mental health and how I view the future. its just really nice to know so many others out there deal with this too :)
Thank you. Your advice really hit me where I'm vulnerable, because more and more I'm noticing that these things that I feel guilty when I'm doing them are actually just stuff that I enjoy and don't hurt me or anyone around me. I should be kinder to myself, everyone should!
Sound advice! I feel like what really helps me throughout my day is caring for my pets and flowers. Feels really peaceful and it allows me to not think so lowly of myself.
I agree. It’s the little things, the simplest things that make my life feel so worthwhile. I’ve started living for what I want, not what society wants, or what I think others want out of me. I love my friends, i love my family, i love my partner, and i have to remind myself just how much I have to be grateful for instead of beating myself up. When someone is feeling down, i joke with them and say, “It’s okay, you’re just on your training arc right now.” Helping friends too can get me out of my own funk, too. This video was helpful, so thanks!
Thank you so much for making this video and addressing this topic. I've been really hard on myself lately and struggling to get out of that mindset, but by sheer chance, I came across your video. Your words truly motivated me to take a step back and start enjoying life again. I really appreciate it.
thank you for your words, i try to write poetry every once in a while to vent my frustration and sadness but atleast find value in the experience and growth in the lines
I would recommend setting up a routine early in the morning. Makes things so much easier and you end up spending less time working/studying and also less time worrying because of it. Also don't stress about the failed college semester, it happens and it's almost expected at higher end universities or harder degrees, take it easy and see what you're not understanding and take a go and practice it, most blocks in college is you not understanding a particular topic that gets reused a lot.
It isn't always that simple unfortunately A lot of people in the modern day have the "I feel lost" problem and I think this is where that's coming from Not everyone has those sorts of problems though
Great vid! The mantra I've been going by lately is 'do or don't' I have the depressing habit of always pushing off things I want or need to do in favor of bedrotting lol. Btw people don't often realize but small sweet moments like making your sister breakfast makes life worth living! Definitely shows what a caring person you are.
I know you have “failed” to make your mark here on youtube. But you havent failed because youve made your mark on me. As corny as that sounds its true and ive watched every video youve made so far top to bottom some even a few times over. Even if your audience stays small know that you will have and even already are building an amazing community and helping both others and your self at the same time. I love these videos and your humble and personal way of telling them. It makes me feel like im right there experiencing all that you are saying with you and now just being told. Please keep going you are an amazing person and as silly as it sounds you have helped me a ton. Love your vids 🫶
I understand you dude, i've been thru something similar but when I got out my life changed and after watching this video I think about what you said and it looks like we did almost the same and it looks that a failure is not a reason to surrender and end it all, it's an experience to learn and avoid mistakes. Mankind has reached this level of technology using one tool "Mistake". (btw great music you used for this video)
THANK YOU i love using random instrumentals from songs ive been binge listening to tbh. You are right about mistakes lol its so funny how life works like that.
@SnowyApril honestly, after that one, I just had a good cry + a 1h nap and I was feeling so refreshed! Ready to take on the world. This video was just what I needed at that exact moment, thx again!
Thank you mr.webfishibg man Being hard on myself is something I've always done and always wanted to stop, i think after this video I'll actually try to change
i’ve recently been beating myself up over feeling like i’m not doing enough for people so this video came into my recommended at a really nice time! you talking about tcgs also really made me want to start going back to my pokémon locals tomorrow, so thank you :D
Raaah I’m pretty anxious a lotta the time and probably around the last 3 years I’ve got horrible trust in people. I’ve loved weed for a while but I’ve been abusing to the point of feeling nothing and just coughing to cough. I’m doing better each day with the hope I can make genuine meaningful connections in my future
Thanks for the reminder dude :] I've been on a similar journey recently, learning to be kind to myself. It's definitely hard, but it's like you said - when you do it little by little, eventually the little things start to make a visible difference and before you know it, you've come so much farther than if you didn't do anything at all. I can see that I'm doing better than I was even a month ago, not to mention half a year ago, and that it's slowly getting better. Great message, funnily enough it was exactly what I needed to hear right now. So thanks again! :]
In the rhetorical battle of “you vs. yourself,” victory becomes an impossibility-not because the struggle is fruitless, but because as you fight, you too grow stronger. This paradox mirrors humanity’s perpetual conflict with its worst tendencies. Despite centuries of effort, we have never truly vanquished them. This grim reality is crucial to accept, for within it lies the truth of human nature: the limitations inherent in our own design. However, recognizing the futility of striving for perfection need not lead to despair. Instead, it reveals the potential for alternative approaches. By embracing our flaws and working around them, we can engineer paths to surmount this barrier-not by defeating it directly, but by transcending the very framework that sustains it.
Is letting go of what makes us human truly a loss? Throughout history, in every account of nature and humanity’s impact, we find ourselves at the root of all evils. We alone act with a lucid awareness of our choices, capable of both great destruction and profound kindness. Yet, if we were to shed what binds us to our humanity, the world would undoubtedly be free of every mistake we’ve left in our wake. But in contemplating such a possibility, one must ask: If we alone give meaning to these evils-if we alone recognize, name, and accept them-does it not follow that these evils were meaningless to begin with? If the universe relies on us as its beholders, then perhaps our significance is an illusion. Perhaps we are not as essential as we imagine ourselves to be. Should we then strive to transcend our humanity, engineering a way beyond the pointless ambiguities born of free will? To shed the paradox of lucid action, of choices burdened by moral weight, might be to liberate ourselves from the flaws that define us-but also, perhaps, to abandon the very meaning we impose on existence itself.
FACTSSS the only person that will be with you from the very beginning to the end of your whole life is yourself so everyone should treat themselves with the same kindness we give to others!!! plus our bodies/organs do so much to keep us alive, the least we can do is provide what our body needs by being physically active, get as much sleep as we can, good nutrition + lots of water, etc :) also I grew up playing card games and watching anime as well thanks to my brother and childhood friends LMAO specifically yugioh + pokemon cards and the one piece anime :P
That was very sweet of you to cook for your sister. Sometimes in life, we find kindness for ourselves when we give it to others. Wear your shoes so you can't climb back into bed Eat sandwich ingredients individually when you're too tired to put them together Wake up at the same time every day, even if you go to bed late Don't carry anxiety and stress to bed with you; Breath and stretch before you lie down Talk to your doctor about depression and anxiety, they may help you more than you expect Take care on the longest road, friend
i think ive been repressing my emotions for such a long time and i dont know how to stop. i dont know where to start either with “loving” myself, but damn this way of life has been hurting me very deeply. I want to break free but at the same time part of me likes this, it hurts that everybody is so normal and happy when im suffering, wounded very deeply inside. I feel like Pink from The Wall, putting up a wall between myself and the world.
Lovin the videos :D I deal with this all the time and still have such a hard time beating my own mind. Even when I realize what I'm doing and that it's hurting me, I don't seem to want to stop feeling bad for myself. It can get even more confusing because I feel like I know what the problem is, but don't want to solve it, which just feeds more into the cycle. The tiniest bit of me still believes that I can figure this out and learn to live with/maybe even use it to my advantage, so it's nice to see these videos and remember to still keep trying. I don't think I've given up yet, but I want to listen to that tiny part of me and hope that I can understand it soon enough to let it grow and help me, rather than stay trapped in my swarm of negative thoughts. Keep up the talks and doin what you love, thanks for sharing your thoughts :)
Legs - numb, throat - dry Such blinding light for a sunless sky Searching for hope when hope has a price I am a failure in a paradise And I have been forgotten, I am the living dead And I have been forgotten - the world is in my head And I have been forgotten, I am the living dead And I have been forgot... - Nomad by Sanguinarius
To whoever needs to hear this. Even if life tries to push you down you should always try to keep moving. Sometimes you fall down, mistakes can happen and its normal (nobody is flawless). Mistakes are how we grow and learn. So try not to overthink it when you make mistakes. Even if you feel yourself spiraling down again, maybe try to distract yourself. Maybe all you needed to do is to just take a nice walk outside or perhaps even play a silly little animal crossing fishing game. Stop being so harsh on yourself and love yourself for who you are. Even if you dont consider yourself perfect, you are perfect in your own little way :) ps. I wish you all a wonderfull day.
if you worry so much about the past you'll never be able to enjoy your life now. It can be hard to get over bad stuff but you just have to try and have a healthier mindset
☆*A trans man has appeared!*☆ ☆I can’t stop thinking how everything is my fault, but recently I see the world as beautiful. I have to think this way, or I will be sad. I agree. You are your worst enemy. But if you think to yourself, “I can do it.” You’ll make through it. I believe in you.☆
@@SnowyApril i use zooro but i got the limited edition hoonda deck where piston honda is my leader card, because im the real piston honda anyways what do you usually use to play the card game for online stuff? the OPTCG sim or is it something else?
For me is all about small steps, little things you start to do that slowly compound to put yourself into improving your life, just like I remember reading in atomic habits "1% changes are better than 0%" Also don't concentrate in when are you going to get results by doing something but rather just try to make enjoyable the process of doing a thing, there's not reason to strain yourself into an habit if you're not enjoying the process in one way or another.
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Stop being so hard on yourself
and yet you say "people struggle way more than i do". bro watch your situation from an outside view, **you** should stop knocking yourself down.
this vidoe is amazing, and thank you
gallery of failure or museum of trying? it's all about perspective.
mmmmmm so true
That’s beautiful
"If you do a little step forward at least that's a small step and eventually you'll just start running" hits hard
MMMMM It’s true though keep going :D
so glad i found this actually omg thank you kind person on webfishing
No problem! Have a great day :D
dude this helped me so much you do not even know. I am struggling heavily with my own mental health and how I view the future. its just really nice to know so many others out there deal with this too :)
im glad you got something positive out of it
This comment section is so wholesome it genuinely made me smile. I needed this kind of positivity
yeah people are really kind :D
Thank you. Your advice really hit me where I'm vulnerable, because more and more I'm noticing that these things that I feel guilty when I'm doing them are actually just stuff that I enjoy and don't hurt me or anyone around me. I should be kinder to myself, everyone should!
I hope you start enjoying yourself and loving everything you enjoy :D. KEEP BEING KINDER
Sound advice! I feel like what really helps me throughout my day is caring for my pets and flowers. Feels really peaceful and it allows me to not think so lowly of myself.
Yeah pets are the best :D I love my cat. Thank you for the the suggestion. I lowkey might get a bonsai tree
@@SnowyApril oooohhhh bonzais are cool!!!
I agree. It’s the little things, the simplest things that make my life feel so worthwhile. I’ve started living for what I want, not what society wants, or what I think others want out of me. I love my friends, i love my family, i love my partner, and i have to remind myself just how much I have to be grateful for instead of beating myself up. When someone is feeling down, i joke with them and say, “It’s okay, you’re just on your training arc right now.” Helping friends too can get me out of my own funk, too. This video was helpful, so thanks!
Thank you so much for making this video and addressing this topic. I've been really hard on myself lately and struggling to get out of that mindset, but by sheer chance, I came across your video. Your words truly motivated me to take a step back and start enjoying life again. I really appreciate it.
Keep going start enjoying life again :D Its always better that way
thank you for your words, i try to write poetry every once in a while to vent my frustration and sadness but atleast find value in the experience and growth in the lines
Yes! Keep writing poetry is so cool. Enjoy the experience :D
I would recommend setting up a routine early in the morning. Makes things so much easier and you end up spending less time working/studying and also less time worrying because of it.
Also don't stress about the failed college semester, it happens and it's almost expected at higher end universities or harder degrees, take it easy and see what you're not understanding and take a go and practice it, most blocks in college is you not understanding a particular topic that gets reused a lot.
YEAH a morning routine is great. Thank you for the kind words, I will try not to think so hard about this semester
It isn't always that simple unfortunately
A lot of people in the modern day have the "I feel lost" problem and I think this is where that's coming from
Not everyone has those sorts of problems though
Yeah I agree but slowly but surely if you put in the effort you’ll get better :D
Maybe they would find what they want if they tried opening their eyes.
Sadly not many like doing that.
Honestly a good meal at the start of the day is what helps me not self sabotage with the bed rotting
for REAL. Its the best
Really good video, thank you lots!
hey thank you! The fish look cool FR thanks for listening :D
Great vid! The mantra I've been going by lately is 'do or don't' I have the depressing habit of always pushing off things I want or need to do in favor of bedrotting lol.
Btw people don't often realize but small sweet moments like making your sister breakfast makes life worth living! Definitely shows what a caring person you are.
Yeah :D its about the small things for real! Thank you for the kind words
I know you have “failed” to make your mark here on youtube. But you havent failed because youve made your mark on me. As corny as that sounds its true and ive watched every video youve made so far top to bottom some even a few times over. Even if your audience stays small know that you will have and even already are building an amazing community and helping both others and your self at the same time. I love these videos and your humble and personal way of telling them. It makes me feel like im right there experiencing all that you are saying with you and now just being told. Please keep going you are an amazing person and as silly as it sounds you have helped me a ton. Love your vids 🫶
Aw thanks for the nice words
@ tysm and you too!! (also happy thanksgiving!!)
I understand you dude, i've been thru something similar but when I got out my life changed and after watching this video I think about what you said and it looks like we did almost the same and it looks that a failure is not a reason to surrender and end it all, it's an experience to learn and avoid mistakes.
Mankind has reached this level of technology using one tool "Mistake". (btw great music you used for this video)
THANK YOU i love using random instrumentals from songs ive been binge listening to tbh. You are right about mistakes lol its so funny how life works like that.
-"Man, nothing good ever comes from me trying to succeed at something" And that's just a lie.
Thank you.
Your welcome :D keep pushing!
@SnowyApril honestly, after that one, I just had a good cry + a 1h nap and I was feeling so refreshed! Ready to take on the world.
This video was just what I needed at that exact moment, thx again!
Thank you mr.webfishibg man
Being hard on myself is something I've always done and always wanted to stop, i think after this video I'll actually try to change
KEEP GOING KING OR QUEEN. DONT STOP
i’ve recently been beating myself up over feeling like i’m not doing enough for people so this video came into my recommended at a really nice time!
you talking about tcgs also really made me want to start going back to my pokémon locals tomorrow, so thank you :D
YES GET BACK INTO IT. you are welcome thank you for listening to my ramble.
Raaah I’m pretty anxious a lotta the time and probably around the last 3 years I’ve got horrible trust in people. I’ve loved weed for a while but I’ve been abusing to the point of feeling nothing and just coughing to cough. I’m doing better each day with the hope I can make genuine meaningful connections in my future
As long as you keep trying eventually you'll find peace
they have conditioned us to seek a future self but we are able to go over our conditioning good luck on your journey
mmmmmmmmm
Thanks for the reminder dude :]
I've been on a similar journey recently, learning to be kind to myself. It's definitely hard, but it's like you said - when you do it little by little, eventually the little things start to make a visible difference and before you know it, you've come so much farther than if you didn't do anything at all.
I can see that I'm doing better than I was even a month ago, not to mention half a year ago, and that it's slowly getting better.
Great message, funnily enough it was exactly what I needed to hear right now. So thanks again! :]
No problem! IM glad it help in a way. Hopefully things get easier
In the rhetorical battle of “you vs. yourself,” victory becomes an impossibility-not because the struggle is fruitless, but because as you fight, you too grow stronger. This paradox mirrors humanity’s perpetual conflict with its worst tendencies. Despite centuries of effort, we have never truly vanquished them.
This grim reality is crucial to accept, for within it lies the truth of human nature: the limitations inherent in our own design. However, recognizing the futility of striving for perfection need not lead to despair. Instead, it reveals the potential for alternative approaches. By embracing our flaws and working around them, we can engineer paths to surmount this barrier-not by defeating it directly, but by transcending the very framework that sustains it.
Is letting go of what makes us human truly a loss? Throughout history, in every account of nature and humanity’s impact, we find ourselves at the root of all evils. We alone act with a lucid awareness of our choices, capable of both great destruction and profound kindness. Yet, if we were to shed what binds us to our humanity, the world would undoubtedly be free of every mistake we’ve left in our wake.
But in contemplating such a possibility, one must ask: If we alone give meaning to these evils-if we alone recognize, name, and accept them-does it not follow that these evils were meaningless to begin with? If the universe relies on us as its beholders, then perhaps our significance is an illusion. Perhaps we are not as essential as we imagine ourselves to be.
Should we then strive to transcend our humanity, engineering a way beyond the pointless ambiguities born of free will? To shed the paradox of lucid action, of choices burdened by moral weight, might be to liberate ourselves from the flaws that define us-but also, perhaps, to abandon the very meaning we impose on existence itself.
that was deep
FACTSSS the only person that will be with you from the very beginning to the end of your whole life is yourself so everyone should treat themselves with the same kindness we give to others!!! plus our bodies/organs do so much to keep us alive, the least we can do is provide what our body needs by being physically active, get as much sleep as we can, good nutrition + lots of water, etc :) also I grew up playing card games and watching anime as well thanks to my brother and childhood friends LMAO specifically yugioh + pokemon cards and the one piece anime :P
FOR REAL. thats how i've been the last few weeks. Just slowly picking myself back up and ONE PIECE IS AMAZING. Love that show/manga :D
@ u got this king im rooting for ya 😼
@@kilIua thank you champ 🐐
This was a beautifully timed video for my self esteem, thank you so much
NO THANK YOU FOR LISTENING :D
That was very sweet of you to cook for your sister.
Sometimes in life, we find kindness for ourselves when we give it to others.
Wear your shoes so you can't climb back into bed
Eat sandwich ingredients individually when you're too tired to put them together
Wake up at the same time every day, even if you go to bed late
Don't carry anxiety and stress to bed with you; Breath and stretch before you lie down
Talk to your doctor about depression and anxiety, they may help you more than you expect
Take care on the longest road, friend
I hope you take care as well. Thank you for the kind words and advice I appreciate it
I needed to hear the beginning of this video. Thank you! Sending you big hugs!
Glad it was helpful!
i think ive been repressing my emotions for such a long time and i dont know how to stop. i dont know where to start either with “loving” myself, but damn this way of life has been hurting me very deeply. I want to break free but at the same time part of me likes this, it hurts that everybody is so normal and happy when im suffering, wounded very deeply inside. I feel like Pink from The Wall, putting up a wall between myself and the world.
Lovin the videos :D I deal with this all the time and still have such a hard time beating my own mind. Even when I realize what I'm doing and that it's hurting me, I don't seem to want to stop feeling bad for myself. It can get even more confusing because I feel like I know what the problem is, but don't want to solve it, which just feeds more into the cycle.
The tiniest bit of me still believes that I can figure this out and learn to live with/maybe even use it to my advantage, so it's nice to see these videos and remember to still keep trying. I don't think I've given up yet, but I want to listen to that tiny part of me and hope that I can understand it soon enough to let it grow and help me, rather than stay trapped in my swarm of negative thoughts.
Keep up the talks and doin what you love, thanks for sharing your thoughts :)
YEAH you will understand in time. Just keep trying to break that self deprecating cycle TRUST. It gets easier
tldr just remember to be a good person to the people around you no matter what
yeah :D
Love your way of seeing life when you are racional and positive. Helps me relax too. ❤
Btw you’re doing amazing broski, keep going
Hey thank you! I hope all is well. Very kind of you
Legs - numb, throat - dry
Such blinding light for a sunless sky
Searching for hope when hope has a price
I am a failure in a paradise
And I have been forgotten, I am the living dead
And I have been forgotten - the world is in my head
And I have been forgotten, I am the living dead
And I have been forgot...
- Nomad by Sanguinarius
mmmmmmmmm
Extremely hard to do nowadays.
just keep trying trust
I love these therapy vids while webfishing
im glad its helpful :D
thank you for this video
To whoever needs to hear this.
Even if life tries to push you down you should always try to keep moving. Sometimes you fall down, mistakes can happen and its normal (nobody is flawless). Mistakes are how we grow and learn. So try not to overthink it when you make mistakes. Even if you feel yourself spiraling down again, maybe try to distract yourself. Maybe all you needed to do is to just take a nice walk outside or perhaps even play a silly little animal crossing fishing game. Stop being so harsh on yourself and love yourself for who you are. Even if you dont consider yourself perfect, you are perfect in your own little way :)
ps. I wish you all a wonderfull day.
FOR REAL. A walk changes everything or a fishing game LOL. very kind words have a great day
W video and channel
Keep up the good work!
hey thank you i will :D
Fire video dude
thank you for listening
This channel real as fuck
You’re a goat
@SnowyApril
No - I am a stoned macaw
But a great honor, gratitude
hey ur uploading more! Wish i could fish with ya
@@oneupadvanced yeah I am! Join the discord usually if I’m in a public lobby I’ll drop a code!
beautiful
Thanks :D
What if i did a bunch of really really awful things when i was a teen and it eats me constantly
if you worry so much about the past you'll never be able to enjoy your life now. It can be hard to get over bad stuff but you just have to try and have a healthier mindset
☆*A trans man has appeared!*☆
☆I can’t stop thinking how everything is my fault, but recently I see the world as beautiful. I have to think this way, or I will be sad. I agree. You are your worst enemy. But if you think to yourself, “I can do it.” You’ll make through it. I believe in you.☆
FOR REAL. Really well said. Always appreciate the comment
@@SnowyApril ☆ of course!☆
if you ever wanna 1v1 on the one piece card game, hmu, the real piston honda will clip you
okay! I use to use like a doffy deck
@@SnowyApril i use zooro but i got the limited edition hoonda deck where piston honda is my leader card, because im the real piston honda
anyways what do you usually use to play the card game for online stuff? the OPTCG sim or is it something else?
For me is all about small steps, little things you start to do that slowly compound to put yourself into improving your life, just like I remember reading in atomic habits "1% changes are better than 0%"
Also don't concentrate in when are you going to get results by doing something but rather just try to make enjoyable the process of doing a thing, there's not reason to strain yourself into an habit if you're not enjoying the process in one way or another.
YEAH exactly DONT strain yourself fr
Potato breakfast... 🤨🙃
YEAH with eggs and a bagel I just didnt take a picture of it 😭
Oh, i'm not my worst enemy; I'm my only ally.
My worst enemy is all of you, because humanity is against everything i stand for.
Hey nerd, so what sre you studying? 🤓📚
communications but I was studying graphic design
:3
:D