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  • Опубликовано: 15 окт 2024

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  • @Teresa-11
    @Teresa-11 4 месяца назад +7

    Margaret you are a treasure. You are doing so much ! Beautician, hair stylist, tour guide, handy woman, gardener, painter, photographer ,video editor,child carer , cooking show hostess, architect, sales, cat owner, comedian this and more …and you’re retired! ❤

  • @sherigeb
    @sherigeb 4 месяца назад +3

    It's hard to make new friends, at our age, Margaret. I'm in my 70's, a Grandma and I've been a widow going on 7 years this month. My Senior Center/COA is full of interesting people who enjoy social events, activities, a walking track, book clubs, film group, and just getting out of the house when you've been cooped up and alone for too long and it's free! You would make friends instantly. Your videos are a real treat!

  • @lindasmashnuk
    @lindasmashnuk 4 месяца назад +8

    I suggest looking for a used camper trailer, live in it in the yard and sell it again...still cheaper than renting somewhere else, and give both you and your family some private space. You will still be with Squish much of the time, so basically need the trailer for your down time. You can always find someone to move and park it for you, so you don't need a vehicle

  • @MarchandP
    @MarchandP 4 месяца назад +1

    Margaret you are a precious gem! I can see your angst, and understand how you are concerned. The lady that mentioned getting a small camper had a wonderful idea. I am an introverted extrovert, I am fine in social settings but definitely need lots of alone time. I am praying that you can find that needed sanctuary. ❤ you Margaret!

  • @susanbilawchuk1192
    @susanbilawchuk1192 3 месяца назад +1

    Margaret… watch a couple of great Netflix series and your time will fly by. Lots of educational programs you can find … just a thought so you’re not bored 👍. I walk the treadmill as I watch .. 😊

  • @carolynyoung8958
    @carolynyoung8958 4 месяца назад +6

    Margaret you do what you feel is best for you! You have this community to keep entertained with your projects and updates! Maybe buying an RV wouldn’t be such a bad idea! It’s very tough being in close quarters with family! Can you lease them? I know the winters get very cold but it may be worth thinking about! ❤️

  • @tamt5846
    @tamt5846 4 месяца назад +4

    I completely understand. Life does change. People change. I’m all alone. My friends have drifted apart, and my family live across the country. I’m in my 60’s, I can’t afford to move to be with them. I wish I had someone to do things with, like go to festivals, car shows, community events, or just to a park to walk. Exactly as you said, safety issues. Other than work I’m stuck in my house. Although, like you, I enjoy my own company. Once in a while I wish I had someone to call and say “Let’s go….” I agree with a previous comment “You do you.” Don’t stress because you put up a video once a week. I appreciate that video. I feel like I have a friend, am interested in what you’re up to.💕

  • @elizabethclark8374
    @elizabethclark8374 4 месяца назад +3

    Hi Margaret,
    I, too have no friends from high school or college. For me, it is mainly because for the previous 20 years I have moved around like a ping pong ball. Now ( for the previous 2 years) I am finally retired. I am living in the same wonderful rental home that I lived in 10 years ago. I moved back here and am achieving my retirement goals which are: forge on making strong female friendships. About 6 months ago, I joined a WONDERFUL church and am creating 5 female friendships. I am growing “roots”. I told my landlady ( same landlady as 10 years ago) that the ONLY way that I will move out of here is in a pine box!!! I continue to admire your energy and your work ethic! Elizabeth in Texas

  • @tammywilliams4958
    @tammywilliams4958 4 месяца назад +9

    You are the true definition of strength! ❤ 😊
    Continue building your path, you are an amazing force 😊❤ Never forget that. Determination always perseveres ❤🌻
    You are such a lovely soul. Take care and have a truly wonderful day today ❤❤🌻🌻

  • @ellen375
    @ellen375 4 месяца назад +4

    Having been the "in charge" person for your entire career, i can see the difficulty in giving that up.
    You're a projects person, always with a list of to-do's and getting things done, which is an asset. Oh, I make those lists, too, and then don't do what's on the list, procrastinator that I am.
    Remember that the only way to never make a mistake is to never do anything.
    You're a treasure, Margaret!

  • @joanpotanko6351
    @joanpotanko6351 4 месяца назад +2

    So glad to see you Margaret and look forward to your projects. It is so hard to wait for things like building your house but you will be so happy when it is done.Have a good rest of your week.

  • @birdiebee2594
    @birdiebee2594 4 месяца назад +6

    Soooooo true. I retired recently and the people I worked with in the "trenches" have moved on. I kept a couple friendships but to be honest I have moved on also and don't want to know anything about what goes on there. My job was not my identity so I suspect it was an easier transition for me than someone whose job defines them. I find staycations as relaxing as vacations. Some people don't get that ! Enjoy your time!

  • @JacquelynHerron
    @JacquelynHerron 4 месяца назад +1

    Yes look into renting an RV. Building takes longer than anyone anticipates. Looking at a long year, almost, stuck under one roof. One thing I learned which is not easy, keep your mouth shut, no matter how much you want to put in your two cents. Hopefully you can find a project that takes your interest away from the humdrum. Perhaps planning furniture, paint colors, garden around your new place. Joining the Y for exercise groups, water aerobics with seniors.

  • @jeannineenos2758
    @jeannineenos2758 4 месяца назад +2

    I had so many friends in my younger years . As you said, things change, we change, I hope for the better. I keep a very small circle and that’s fine with me. I like my company and I stay busy. It will all work out❤

  • @rita3604
    @rita3604 4 месяца назад +5

    I’m a project person too. Sometimes I will cook and freeze the soup if I have no projects. The work I did when younger was noisy classrooms. I enjoy the quiet. Do I miss those that I thought were friends. Sure I do. They want to use me. Vote for this person. Go to this or that meeting. No thanks. I’ll figure it out. And I slowly am. This is a good life. ☀️

  • @camilledugas3428
    @camilledugas3428 4 месяца назад +3

    My best at work we both retire at the same time and promised to meet for lunch once a week. But I knew in my heart that would never happen. Well her husband got cancer so she was going back and forth taking care of him. So I understood. But now he better and I have asked several times but nothing so I guess I will stop asking but I still would do anything for her if she asked. So yes things do change.

  • @ericamar1241
    @ericamar1241 4 месяца назад +1

    Looking forward to coming along for summer projects. Take care

  • @heymargarita9950
    @heymargarita9950 4 месяца назад +4

    I'm retired. The people i was such good friends with at work I seldom see anymore. It's always lets do lunch but we never do. And while i miss them I dont really care. Im a loner too. I'm more than fine seeing no one. My husband passed. I always say I want to live in the middle of the woods, not see anyone, not know what's going on. Except I'm a chicken after dark. So I understand you. I am so looking forward to your new home. Time flies. Before you know it it will be done. Hopefully!

  • @annedugan-odonnell3134
    @annedugan-odonnell3134 4 месяца назад +4

    I understand and you do you. You seem to enjoy your projects and we enjoy watching them get done!! Have a great day w the baby!

  • @tinasteer2507
    @tinasteer2507 4 месяца назад +2

    2:11 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Wait my husband wants to know what was so funny and has now volunteered to make me another cuppa. I can so relate to doing something like this…makes life interesting.

  • @A.L.I.S.O.N
    @A.L.I.S.O.N 4 месяца назад +3

    🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼
    Sniff the little Nugget's noggin...it's a happy, comforting place. An odd comparison is that I had that from my little pup Spencer's tummy. Plus when I'd smell his head it smelled like sweet tarts, lol.
    If I win a lottery, I could take us to the Finger Lakes ☺️ It would be fun.
    No matter what, you've got us. We love ya for who you are...crazy, clumsy or what have you, lol jk
    Have a good rest of the week. Looking forward to your next vid...no pressure, lol😉👌 😂
    🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼

  • @labnurse1
    @labnurse1 4 месяца назад +3

    Agree with you Margaret, left friends at the high school door and moved on

  • @andreagardner2335
    @andreagardner2335 4 месяца назад +4

    How about an organized trip? Try Roads Scholar. For mature folks. So many options.

  • @DebraHaskins-r7y
    @DebraHaskins-r7y 4 месяца назад +1

    Patience is a virtue.

  • @grammybear4226
    @grammybear4226 4 месяца назад +2

    🐼 Big Panda Bear Hugs from a 70 yr old grandma in Texas, USA and by the way l'm subscribed and l hit Like. 🐼 ❤ 🎀 👍

  • @ds7675
    @ds7675 4 месяца назад +3

    This video has resonated with me quite a lot. I admire your frankness regarding not having many close friends and I think that’s fine. Some of us do better with family members and like you visiting with your old neighbor. As we age, at least that’s what I found out, is one is perfectly content being mostly by yourself. I’m sure when Nikki is finished with school that there will be plenty of times she’ll need to get away with this or that and you’ll still see little Squish. 🤗
    I personally wouldn’t do any work at Michael’s old house, let the new buyers deal with that because you have no idea what’s down the line as far as length of time it takes building the new house out. You’re already upset about the timeline and one never knows what’s down the pike.
    Do you have old photos to organize or “stuff” to go through and declutter? Remember if you don’t do it someone else will have to. Winter months would be an excellent time to accomplish things one puts off over time. And maybe there are beautiful areas you can drive to that are close by that we’d love to see as well, especially the nature part of your area of the country.
    Anyway, I did enjoy this video very much. Sometimes just talking to us is nice to hear!

    • @MargaretbeingMargaret
      @MargaretbeingMargaret  4 месяца назад +2

      I agree with everything except working on Michael’s other house. He is not selling it, they will be renting it out. So I can get it ready to rent and they can focus on the renovations here. Thanks for your ideas!

    • @ds7675
      @ds7675 4 месяца назад +2

      @@MargaretbeingMargaret Well, then it makes sense to help with that house. Thanks for that info!

  • @maureenb7399
    @maureenb7399 4 месяца назад +3

    Just take it a day at a time Margaret! Don’t look too far into the future. It will all be ✅ OK. Just remember that you will have the best life ever once your home is built.

  • @carolynandreasen240
    @carolynandreasen240 4 месяца назад +1

    Cayuga Lake (a finger lake) is about an hour drive from where I live. You would love walking the many trails there. Taughannock Falls State Park has the waterfalls you mentioned. If you can at all swing the trip, you will enjoy it.

  • @therealnancycarol
    @therealnancycarol 4 месяца назад +5

    There are so many things about you that I admire. Just let Margaret be Margaret, because she's a wonderful person and she will make the right decisions without anyone's advice. 💕💕💕

  • @suesmith4325
    @suesmith4325 4 месяца назад +4

    Gosh, I wish you wouldn't say you are stupid when mistakes are made. Actually, we make mistakes in order to learn. We sorta need to be thankful for those mistakes because they allow us to grow. Amazing people who have invented wonderful things for us were successful only because they made a zillion mistakes that finally led to their success. It's not a punishment, it's a beneficial life tool. Bless your bones, you sweet, lovely lady!!

    • @MargaretbeingMargaret
      @MargaretbeingMargaret  4 месяца назад +1

      Tough habit to break. I’ll work on it. Thanks.

    • @lindasmashnuk
      @lindasmashnuk 4 месяца назад +1

      You are only stupid if you keep doing the same thing over and over

    • @MargaretbeingMargaret
      @MargaretbeingMargaret  4 месяца назад +1

      I think that’s part of these glorious senior years!

  • @sharonsunshine2532
    @sharonsunshine2532 4 месяца назад +3

    That one tree is so pretty. No, Margaret I am not fussing at you. I too have trees that I would love to cut down if I could but at this time I only have a small electric chainsaw. 😂 🙈😄
    At this point in my life I have no close friends other than my family members. I am so very close to them and that's all I need. ❤

  • @dloveofgod8269
    @dloveofgod8269 4 месяца назад +2

    Hello Margaret I love you being Margaret; it adds to my day ❤.
    Hindsight's 20/20 especially with the could've & if onlys. This is the kids (sorry adult children are always kids to me) journey & their lessons. You picked up on architect issues & signs a long time ago. You love them and get to watch their lives unfolding in front of you. You've got a great work ethic & decide to do something, you're let's get this done kind of person. A lot in your life led you to this point. Theyre way behind, fortunately or they'd be old. Most people it takes time in life to gain wisdom. They're probably kicking themselves a little or maybe not. You may need to take it essy on the projects to have something to do when you need it 😂.Vacation is much more fun when it's shared. I haven't traveled on my own in years and not able to now. Last trip was wonderful though. You'll all be ok. Keep looking up 💕.

  • @susanniesen9721
    @susanniesen9721 4 месяца назад +3

    Margaret, can you move into their current home in August? you are such a hard worker. enjoy yourself.

    • @MargaretbeingMargaret
      @MargaretbeingMargaret  4 месяца назад +1

      I can’t afford to cover the mortgage. Rent will be too high. Good question.

  • @deborahsalinas5907
    @deborahsalinas5907 4 месяца назад +1

    Go easy on yourself. You deserve it.😎😍 You will be ok in the long run. God bless you and your family.🙏😁

  • @jeannepotter3051
    @jeannepotter3051 4 месяца назад +15

    Margaret, I bet you're going to get a lot of feedback from this video, but my feeling is you should listen only to yourself. You've just said the summer and into winter will probably be a strain with all of you under one roof. Listen to yourself, and before all of you start living a nightmare, please find other affordable accommodations. I could so easily be wrong, but I think you might be telling yourself the same thing. No amount of saved money is worth lost or fractured relationships. That's what I'm hearing you say.

    • @MargaretbeingMargaret
      @MargaretbeingMargaret  4 месяца назад +6

      I would really love to. I don’t see that happening, there is no such thing as affordable accommodations. I may take time away in August. Not sure.

    • @MIMI-D
      @MIMI-D 3 месяца назад +2

      I 💯 agree. There are 55+ communities with rentals that also are income based. It’s not like welfare. It’s income based on your median income. Check it out that should keep you busy for a bit. Or let’s say You spend 2000/ month for the next 12 months. Those could be the most glorious 12 months of your life.

  • @jessicaroberts8180
    @jessicaroberts8180 4 месяца назад +1

    love your channel! what color do you use on your hair as it looks great!

  • @WillowNook
    @WillowNook 4 месяца назад +2

    Boy if that ain't the truth!! Preaching to the choir. I'm in same situation right now as well on the whole friends front thing.

  • @judyblakely7450
    @judyblakely7450 4 месяца назад +3

    Maybe you could rent an RV to use until your home is built. Please don’t waste your energy on being angry. Best wishes!❤😊

  • @vallang4832
    @vallang4832 4 месяца назад +2

    Are they selling there other house Margaret? You have to go with the flow. The finger lake are beautiful.

    • @MargaretbeingMargaret
      @MargaretbeingMargaret  4 месяца назад +1

      No, keeping it as a rental property. mortgage would be too expensive for me to cover by renting it.🤷‍♀️

  • @Mrs.Peachthriftyliving
    @Mrs.Peachthriftyliving 4 месяца назад +2

    ❤ As always, I enjoy your videos.❤ I was thinking of what you said about wanting to go somewhere and wanting someone to go with you to basically share the cost and that you wouldn't be able to sleep in the same room because you got up often in the night, I thought of my sister and I when she Comes to visit me or we go on trips.We always sleep and the Most always in the same bed.. She goes Too bed Earlier than me, So i'm a little noisy when I come come to bed, She gets up several times in the night To go to the bathroom and I don't hear Her. Or if I do I fall right back to sleep? In the morning she gets up earlier than I do and I hear her Rummaging around As she's getting ready And we're both okay with it.Be nice if you could find somebody like that... Blessings to you, my 🧡

  • @andreagardner2335
    @andreagardner2335 4 месяца назад +2

    That could have been my comment. If it was, I hope it was helpful to you.

  • @luvsabeach7952
    @luvsabeach7952 4 месяца назад +1

    Go on a tour of the Finger Lakes

  • @Mandy-q6c
    @Mandy-q6c 4 месяца назад +2

    Wondering about little tree next to big one you marked? Think it was second tree marked, you said bunny rabbit when painting it

    • @MargaretbeingMargaret
      @MargaretbeingMargaret  4 месяца назад +1

      lol. that tree goes when the big one goes, and a rabbit ran out and surprised me!.

    • @Mandy-q6c
      @Mandy-q6c 4 месяца назад +2

      @@MargaretbeingMargaret Hey I live in south, we have to mark twig tree or they won’t cut. Love my southern boys but take literally when say only cut trees marked. Guess to many southern lady’s getting on their cases. 😂

    • @MargaretbeingMargaret
      @MargaretbeingMargaret  4 месяца назад +1

      lol.

  • @kittierney8394
    @kittierney8394 4 месяца назад +1

    Knowing you from this ,you won't be a lady that will need anyone ,I love you Margaret stay calm 😅🎉❤

    • @MargaretbeingMargaret
      @MargaretbeingMargaret  4 месяца назад +1

      I’m not sure I can achieve “calm”. But I will work on it. lol

  • @sherrylinzer8649
    @sherrylinzer8649 4 месяца назад +2

    Why not join some groups..at church, senior center...look on the meet -up website..even a dating site to meet a man just for friendship..not everyone is looking for romance. I am giving you the same advise is give myself..I look for social things to, I go to thrift stores, movies....it is not easy but I do the best I can..Your doing fine being Margaret!

  • @m.skehen4093
    @m.skehen4093 4 месяца назад +1

    I’ll invite you to Florida.

  • @stephaniecossette7491
    @stephaniecossette7491 4 месяца назад +3

    Impressive as usual Margaret. You are a force. Thanks for your positive attitude, that is an inspiration for me to be and do better. Have a marvy, cuddly day.

  • @susanniesen9721
    @susanniesen9721 4 месяца назад +1

    Margaret, I do not mean disrespect, but they are saving several hundred $ a week on babysitting. looks like they could give you a break. just saying

  • @MIMI-D
    @MIMI-D 3 месяца назад

    Why don’t you go rent a small apt or go on a cruise.

    • @MargaretbeingMargaret
      @MargaretbeingMargaret  3 месяца назад

      lol. MONEY.

    • @MargaretbeingMargaret
      @MargaretbeingMargaret  3 месяца назад +1

      I am fine and don’t mind the questions. The salon sale netted very little after taxes etc. The house money was much better. Most of it is earmarked for my new in-law house and the rest is in a CD that I will keep for emergencies. I don’t want to waste it on a temporary situation. I am actually in the best financial shape of my life and am scared to screw it up. LOL. On a personal level, I am also about the happiest that I have ever been. I am just impatient and high energy by nature. 🤷‍♀️ Thanks for asking and don’t ever worry about being Curious!

    • @MIMI-D
      @MIMI-D 3 месяца назад

      Also there are 55+ communities that have reduced rent due to most being on a fixed income and there typically 60-80% of the median income for your area. Most seniors qualify and don’t realize. The communities are quite lovely with a very active lifestyle

    • @MargaretbeingMargaret
      @MargaretbeingMargaret  3 месяца назад

      I think the money in the CD would make me ineligible and again with this situation being temporary, it’s just not worth it. September will come so fast and once Nikki is back in school I will be needed here around 6:30 AM.

  • @chrislee1096
    @chrislee1096 4 месяца назад +1

    Thought you had a good friend who worked for you and recently had a bay.

    • @MargaretbeingMargaret
      @MargaretbeingMargaret  4 месяца назад +2

      Yes. Chelsea! I adore her. She has a very busy life, I am thrilled to be a tiny piece of it! Thanks for the reminder.

  • @ChrisS733
    @ChrisS733 4 месяца назад +3

    You should never have sold your house. They are treating you awful ! You need to go independent x

    • @MargaretbeingMargaret
      @MargaretbeingMargaret  4 месяца назад +1

      you are wrong and I will ask you one time to stop that line of comment. You have zero knowledge to make that judgement.

  • @ChrisS733
    @ChrisS733 4 месяца назад

    They’ve got your money! 😢

    • @LynsAlteredArts
      @LynsAlteredArts 4 месяца назад

      Whoa lady, they don’t have her money. She has her money in the bank. They’re not controlling her. Can you imagine Margaret being controlled? You’ve had to make three rude comments and one is now missing. I hope Margaret deleted it or you had the good sense to.

  • @ChrisS733
    @ChrisS733 4 месяца назад +1

    You should not be driving and doing a video as well as drinking a cup of coffee! Shame on you! You will have an accident or kill something. Shame on you!

    • @LynsAlteredArts
      @LynsAlteredArts 4 месяца назад +1

      Hey lady, why do you watch Margaret if all you have to do is give negative comment, after negative comment, after negative comment. Mike and Nikki aren’t controlling her money. They aren’t treating her terribly. I hope Margaret deletes all your comments. This is the fourth one now, you need to be blocked because you obviously don’t like it here.

    • @MargaretbeingMargaret
      @MargaretbeingMargaret  4 месяца назад +1

      love you! Did issue a warning. Hope she can be happier or I will block her. Thank you!