It took us 4 DAYS to do Mikko's hair!!!!
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- Опубликовано: 20 окт 2024
- Within the last year alone, Mikko's hair has grown so much! Though I AM happy about that, it has been a real challenge to maintain her hair at the length it is now; especially ever since she's been avoiding water. The first two days were a near mess, but we were able to find some products to help make things easier-going.
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Mikko has beautiful hair. I'm a stylist who has taken children and adults with disabilities into my shop. The first thing is, I didn't have the parent or guardian in with us. They will over act. Second, I use Mane and Tail detangling spray. Do wonders. Stop allowing her to control the situation. Sit her in a high chair. Detangle into separate braids loosely. Then shampoo her scalp. Once completed, spray more detangler. Job will be much easier 😊
Main and tail detangler is the life!!! It works wonders on my 4C hair.
I hope she sees this
THIS IS THE PERFECT CONTENT!!! I'M A STYLIST AS WELL FOR OVER 25 YEARS. I DO THE EXACT SAME THINGS. BUT THE BUGGED OF THOSE IS STOP LETTING THE CHILD CONTROL THE SITUATION, AS WELL AS SITTING HER IN A HIGH CHAIR. PRODUCT USAGE IS IMPORTANT BUT SO IS ESTABLISHING CONTROL OF THE SITUATION. GENTLE BUT FIRM !!
I think you two are fantastic parents and Mikko's hair is beautiful.
Mikko has the prettiest hair and she is ALL of us getting her hair dried. Bless her sweetness.
My son has long curly hair, that he insists he wants to stay on his head, and he acts like I'm killing him combing it. He's mixed so it's not that bad. All I have to do is spritz it, comb some leave in conditioner, and moisturizer, and dry it just a little if I have to wet it to work the conditioner in. The crown of his head does not like to receive moisture. But anyway, yeah, he acts like I'm killing him. Combing the hair on his head that he insists on keeping 😅
She is just a angel
@@franny5295 Even if he wasn't mixed it still shouldn't be "that bad" if one isn't yanking a comb through the hair.
Why not cut her hair short
? Is this long hair worth the suffering?
Who s obsession is it: Miko s or Mom s? Sorry just s thougt not to be nasty.
Imagine going through emotional trauma , then someone forcing more trauma on you - that’s what hair washing does to kids with autism or SPD it causes extreme pain in their brain - imagine your head pounding like it’s going to burst and I keep banging your head more saying just put up with it. So every parent with a child with autism to SPD or other difficulties - have no choice but to work differently at a slower pace and be gentle in these kids, yes it’s difficult, and time consuming and frustrating - but we don’t want our children damaged for life. Please understand that’s why we call them differently abled in the first place
Thank you so much from a mom...who also has an autistic daughter and struggles with a hair routine. I felt alone and hopeless..Thank you for sharing techniques you use. We all are truly in this together...you restored my hope for better days...thanks❤
Ive always said she has the prettiest hair I've ever seen. She's such a beautiful little girl❤
Mikko is Gorgeous💖
You should try washing her hair with the twists in. Wash 1 twist at a time. It will keep it stretched and from getting as tangled. Afterwards it will make detangling easier and quicker as its already sectioned.
I was gonna suggest this too❤
Washing your hair in twists is not something you should be doing on a regular basis as you are not getting the inner strands, thats unhygienic. Hair needs to be down and free when washing.
@@kleedasantos3236 Absolutely not true at all. Just as much soap and water can run through the hair in twists as if the hair was loose if you do it properly. This is common practice among naturals with way kinkier hair than hers. I guess you're one of those people who think locs are dirty.
@@catchyusername3083no, I don't think locs are dirty. Locs are locked all the time, the inside strands aren't getting dirty. Free hair on the other hand is constantly getting dust, debris, etc in it and so it needs to be Washed. If you twist the hair you're trapping all the dirty strands in the middle. Some hair types depending on porosity can get wet all the way through, but others can NOT. And even the hair that can is still not being cleansed 100%.
@@catchyusername3083I know because I have tried it on my own hair.
You have the patience of Job!!!! God bless you. Please give yourself GRACE!!!! I think you need to give yourself a break also. Peace and Blessings to you and your family!!!!🥰
Amazing parents, Chris and Precious with an equally amazing little girl, Mikko. God bless you.
Thank you Glenn ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You both deserve mother and father patience badges, this channel is named so appropriately 🥰
She's such a sweetheart with so much hair. I've seen a tip on several channels where they wash their little girls hair with the twists still in. That helps and prevents more tangles.
Yes that helps. I use to do that when my daughter was younger
Precious LOVES combing Mikkos hair. She uses many products and does back to back days handling it and puts in many braids.
The way she acts has less to do with her developmental issues and more to do with your inability to be strict with her.
She's allowed to make life difficult for you all unnecessarily.
Yep i agree with you. Because they should've had a routine with her from the time they brought her home from the hospital. And set boundaries for her from infancy. Then they wouldn't have such a difficult time with her now.
BINGO!!! Autistic or not, BOUNDARIES ARE NECESSARY!!! She acts out because she knows they're going to coddle her and give in to. All that body throwing and tantruming, and outright misbehaving is because there's no discipline. As long as she is controlling the situation and they're doing what she wants she's fine.... she had to learn there are things that have to be done and in not waiting months to do then.
Thats a very bright kid. I agree. She has learned "if I scream, i get hugs and cuddles. If I scream super super loud, i get all that plus candy. Yayy"
Mikko's hair is gorgeous! ❤
It really is! Her hair is so thick and pretty✨
She is so precious, she sucks both thumbs.❤❤I would have love to had these parenting skills. The patience, the care, the tenderness, the gentle touch of both parents. This little lady will do GREAT in this world. And even thou all kids are different, I think y’all can actually start a HOW TO PARENT book❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.
Thank you so much
Hi just a small tip. It's ok to wash the hair while the twist are still in. That way the 2nd detangling won't be so bad.
Wow, you haven't washed her hair in months, and it lathered up as if it wasn't even dirty. You guys are so awesome, and I thank God for your patience. I grew up like if I moved. I'm going to get popped with the comb.
Miklos is so so cute. She's beautiful. And, she's so blessed to have you as a mother. You're so patient and dedicated to Mikko. God bless you.
I admire the way you both work really well together, and how both understand and patiencely cater to her needs. ❤️
Hats off-big up to you guys for the love and patience you have with precious Mikko. I also really love the teamwork between both of you in getting hair washed. You guys are awesome! Keep it up!🙏🇯🇲❤
So many emotions as I watch this. I have 2 autistic children who are verbal and hair has always been a hard issue.
First of all, she is beautiful and her hair slays!!
Secondly, you and your husband are the most patient and loving parents I've ever seen. Just makes my heart so happy!
Third, her little laugh is amazing ♡
When my three girls were little they all had waist length hair very thick and they were tender headed. Part her hair in fourths and one fourth at a time use a large tooth comb starting at the bottom then work your way up to the scalp. Repeat each section. I never used a brush to detangle plastic or otherwise. It pulls. I used the large comb on the blower dryer parting smaller sections within the four sections. It straightens the hair while drying with amazing results. Wishing you both the best
Is she saying “I’m pretty” 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹 OMG!!!! Yup I just started crying!!!
That’s what I heard too 🥰
I heard it too! Twice right?! Awesome!
Mikko's face in the beginning! She knew something was about to go down.
Meiko is absolutely adorable, and you and Chris work beautifully together. You all are doing amazing.
I love the tag team action and she gets double the affection when it hurts. Miko you’re so blessed.
Your patience and kindness are such an inspiration. You have a beautiful family. Sending love from Illinois.
You have the patience and care of saints. I commend your teamwork 👏
Being disabled is not a ticket to doing anything that you please!!! Discipline is vital!!
okay but if something is triggering you or hurting you, won't you react? Trying to be respectful, all I am saying is that in this video something or might even be the water is triggering Miko, and also having autism makes her see or say things differently, remember she is also a toddler, so a lot of challenges are going on all at once! Which is also hard on Miko as she doesn't feel comfortable, the best thing to do in that situation is calm her down so in future she will think that whatever triggered her is nothing to be scared of the disciplining should get stricter when she is in skl because of the rules they have. I hope you understood!☺
The way you are so gentle and patient with her, is showing you care for her and love her unconditionally! You’re such a great mom. May many more blessing come to you and your family. God bless you! ❤❤❤
If you know the pain she goes through while getting her hair done, why on earth would you do practice cornrows in her head when you have no clue what you are doing? Literally went through an entire braid while she cried. And then record and post it on top of that. I feel so bad for Mikko😔
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Precious you and your husband did a great job. Little Miko also helped. Team work at its finest!!!!!❤
Chris and Precious, you both did such a good job with this new method of washing her hair. I really like the mild pressure back rubbing technique you used to calm her when she got worked up. I am so surprised that she even let you use that dryer. I would have thought that the sound would have been terrifying for her.
Thank you both for sharing. ❤❤❤
For natural home remedy detangler
Use honey, water 💦, olive oil or coconut oil, Avocado 🥑& your conditioner into a blender til the texture is smooth. Apply to hair. Let sit for 15,20mins rinse & you will see the difference in the softness! This mixture saved my life
I totally respect and appreciate that you keep her groomed so well😊even with the sensory issues
Mikko reminds me of myself growing up. I hated getting my hair combed too. I suffer from a type of sensory overload disorder and the SMALLEST kink is PAINFUL. Stay strong Mom! You’re an amazing woman ❤️❤️❤️
Does everyone suffer from something nowadays? Y'all just be making up new syndromes just to be a victim and gain some type of attention
You and your husband are the best parents to Mikko. The way you guys work together and are gentle and explain throughly to her is amazing!!!! Have you guys considered taking her to a salon or getting a salon chair? Also I’ve seen the mat that kids lay on and get their hair washed in the sink and you can attach your phone or iPad to keep her occupied
There are a lot youtube videos that can give ideas on how best to care for Mikko's hair. They have saved me a lot of time and frustration!
I feel so much love coming from you and Mikko's Dad as you all take care of her. God truly made each of you for each other. .. a most beautiful and inspiring family. Thank you for the love. 😍🥰🥰🖤💚❣️😇🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏!
Her hair is absolutely BEAUTIFUL!!!!
There are so many Corners that
can be cut. Like using a proper detangler brush. let it air dry instead of blow dry. Since you're going to straighten it maybe one of those brushes with the straightener attached to it, I hope you see all of the suggestions here and pick whats best for you to do on precious Mikko. You guys are doing great 💛💛💛
Such a beautiful child and family. I'm praying for you. You and your husband are doing a fantastic job!
Awww thank you so much ❤️🥰❤️❤️💋💋💋💋💋💋❤️❤️💋❤️💋
She is so pretty and smart! And you are a Great mum!! With a capital G!!
God knew her parents needed to be special and he chose the 2 of you 💖 I have a granddaughter who is 1/2 black and she has hair just like Mikko’s, she’s 10 now and it goes way down her back wet it’s absolutely beautiful. And no joke when my daughter had her 2nd daughter Kiyah said she would be a girl and have hair like hers and you know 😊 Zaylinn is Mexican and white but she has the curliest hair 😍😍
Mikko is so precious and Oh my Heart pretty 😊 so very pretty. Thank you for sharing her I know I feel privileged 💖
You guys are such amazing and patience parents ❤ I have friends with autistic kids and I know it’s not easy always to be patience!
I too go through this with my daughter. We struggle a lot. Thanks so much for the video
Amazing parents. Love how Chris is actually involved.
You do an amazing job. Patience is a virtue. God bless you all. I hope you get your "me time" as well.❤
You are so awesome. You work with her so well and you have so much patience with her. I applaud you cause I know it’s not easy. God bless you and your family ❤️❤️❤️❤️
She’s so beautiful
I love how you know how patient you have to be and how you redirect her "adverse" behaviors into something fun or cool. And the way yall work as a team to get through this stuff is amazing. You have my respect for real
Mikko is precious! ❤thanks for sharing here with us!! ❤
Mikko is So Beautiful!!! Mom & Dad I always See The Two of You Take the Best Care of Mikko Possible. The Both Of You Love Mikko Unconditionally. ❤❤❤❤
Man, this requires a lot of patience. God bless you all! ❤️
Mom and Dad make an amazing team! WOW… it’s a process but look at the progress she has made! She’s in the bath and with small steps, you’ve found a routine that works right now. Mikko is smart and yes “pretty” i heard her!!!! Great job!!!! ❤that ducky picture! Super cute
Great job Mikko, mommy and daddy! You're a wonderful team. Blessings 💛
Awww this was so beautiful to watch! Great job Mikko's mom🥺🤍
You are an amazing Mother!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
You both needed a break. You are the best!
I luv how patient mama and dad are with princess ❤❤❤
This is a whole lot of work! You guys are so patient ❤
What a beautiful angel. You are such a patient and gentle mommy. 🙏❤️
She loves that brush. I think because it smoothing the soft of it is nice💕💕💕
Hope you all continue to find a beautiful way and carve a bright path for her to live in.
Have you tried starting your detangling at the end of her hair and working your way up to the top. Sometimes just starting from the top will cause there to be more snags
Good to see her eating 😁
Her hair is truly very, very beautiful.
Glad to see she’s still trying to get in and enjoy her inflatable bath. I wanted to order the same tub that you linked but my son is 4 and I don’t know if it will be as roomy for him as it is for Mikko. If you have any possible suggestions for a 4 year old inflatable tub thank you. Love all your videos it’s comforting to help with my son
They make bigger ones- even big enough ones for a grown up! I saw some recently on wayfair💜
I love the team work 💪🏽. She has the most beautiful ,healthy hair.
I love that you all are working as a team. Yeah Team Mikko! 🥰🥰🥰
Thank you for sharing. It reminds us to be kind and merciful to others as we don't know the struggles that are dealing with ❤
I'm curious. What's the purpose of straightening her hair with the blow dryer? It seems like you're able to style it in its curly state just fine. Her hair is super cute in the twists.
Not sure but if the sensory issues are the sore spot for Mikki…the sound of the water etc, wouldn’t it just be adding to the stimulation by using a blow dryer for so long ?
You're such amazing attentive parents ❤ bless you both 💖
You guys are amazing and loving parents ❤️ I know when Mikko grows up she's going to be such and amazing person. Keep going you guys don't ever give up! God bless you all ❤🙏
Mikko is so adorable she will over come this milestone
Aloe vera is good for detailing, and Strands of Faith is good as well. Also, trimming or cutting her hair, too.
You both are doing an awesome job.😊
I am so impressed. I see the wide tooth comb, working in sections and all. You are doing well mama and Mikko has such beautiful hair
She’s just beautiful and has such gorgeous hair!
It is a beautiful sight to see mommy and daddy teaming up. You two are amazing parents. May God to continue to give you patience, inspiration, and hope. I pray that the love you two share will grow strong so the challenges ahead will only bring you closer.
I echo the comments of other subscribers.. .Mikko's hair is beautiful and wow, what awesome parents you both are. But (and I say this with the utmost respect), wouldn't it be easier to cut her hair to cute afro- and level it long enough for her to stim ? At this point, having her hair long, who is it for? Her hair will grow very quickly and I'm sure when she older and is less sensitive, might be a good time to restart working with her long locks. Much love. ❣❣
If you noticed in one of the prior videos, she PURPOSELY grew her hair out to this amount by putting and massaging what looks like black castor oil or something on her scalp daily....she wants it long. She may be obsessed with long hair like most of us African-American persons, based on how many videos exist about Mikko's hair.
Mikko, you did such a great job!!! ❤❤
You made it through. You’re outstanding know that! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
She has so much hair. She is probably tender headed as we say in the south, too. Try letting her wear 4 ponytails and brush it up a couple of time a week. I hope you do not get tired of our suggestions. You are doing a great job. ❤
She melts my heart ❤️ Beautiful Girl with beautiful parents ❤
Mikko has beautiful hair. You are so patient with her.
Mikkos hair is amazing. What wonderful parents she has, lovely family ❤❤❤
Oh my goodness!!!! Precious, she is precious!!!!
Mikko is such a lucky girl to have you both ❤
She did amazing.
Mikko has such pretty hair love it❤
Mikko is so precious and her hair is absolutely beautiful and healthy. Wow you have quite a wash process…excellent job mom & dad.
God’s continued blessings to your family.
We have some of the same issues with my granddaughter, her hair is thick and mid back lenght as well. To make life easier for all and especially my gd her ends are clipped often( less tangles n split ends) and it’s cut to about an inch below shoulder! It much more manageable and it blow dries quick and there’s a lot less crying, running away and most of all it takes less than 30 minutes as opposed to 3-4 hours! Hope this helps 🙏🏽💕
It’s totally gorgeous! You all did a great job! Mikko have wonderful parents. God Bless!
Mikko and her hair are stunning❤😊
At 18:34 it sounds like she says either "me pretty" or "pretty please" ❤
You should try the blow dryer that detangles and blow dry at the same time. It is very helpful to😮 me with my daughters hair
You mentioned before that Mikko has a high tolerance for pain but brushing her hair brings some sort of discomfort. Try to limit the number of times you pull at her hair and stroke it. Once it is detangle move to the next step and finish as quickly as possible. To wash her hair, make a pallet on the kitchen counter and put a pillow under her knees. Washing her hair this way is making her anxious with water splashing down her back. She is now cold and wet. Grabbing her is causing her even more stress when she is trying to escaped her discomfort. She needs to be made comfy and kept dry. Other kids might find that little tub fun, but if someone took me to the hair salon, and my hair was to be washed this way, I would not at all be happy. Knowing her anxiety I would not continue to pull and stretch her hair. Her hair looks beautiful but so long sitting and all the pulling and painful detangling is only making her more upset and anxious. I would say maybe you could limit the number of braids and the amount of time doing her hair.
Started watching your channel not long ago and I was concerned about my son possibly being on the spectrum. He was diagnosed on Monday, but this reminds me of when I have to cut my son's hair. It takes us 2-3 days.
My daughter has been using these products in my granddaughters hair from the beginning. She is now 10 yrs old and her hair is waist length. I thought it was inheritance, but maybe it's Carol's Daughters. Walgreens keeps it on sale and open 24/7. Great job parents. She is beautiful.
She’s so adorable ❤️❤️
Wow. 😯 This is A LOT of work! I always hear about how special and delicate black peoples hair is but this video really put it into perspective. It makes me thankful to have easy, thin, straight hair because I know doing all this to my hair would be too stressful for me.
You guys did a wonderful job! So much patience for so much hair! I know you already have so many steps, but watching you I couldn’t help but think it may be easier if you took smaller sections, that pretty hair is so thick and curly. It may be easier to detangle it if the sections were smaller that way the heat could get through it easier. Especially since she tends to favor the brush that doesn’t detangle as easily.
She looks like she loves it mama! My daughter has similar hair and I have to stop to give many hugs and you said it…. Take your time! You can’t rush this process… I also use a hair dryer paddle brush made by revlon that my daughter allows me to use to help dry her hair.