@@kevinhenderson647 It's not because of tiktok, Kevin. It got big after being featured on a Netflix TV show. It then became famous on lots of sites, including tiktok, but also RUclips and Spotify.
1:21 this explained my whole current situation.. i fell inlove with a guy online, i was so deeply inlove with that i couldn't let him go then he's slowly unloving me and moving on while leaving me still inlove with him then my mother found out then asked "where'd i find this guy"
My mother is angry at me for falling inlove with a guy online, but i just can't live without him i still love him, i'm still dreaming about him and we even made many promises that we'll last forever but promises are just words that cannot be fufilled. I really want him to be my last and forever.
But he's the first one that treated me so great the only one that made my smile came back and i did everything for him, i gave him all my time, my soul, my heart, my mind, he understood me and accepted me.
Now our communication is dying, then we always stayed up late 2-5am now our communication can't even last a minute or hour, i understand that he's busy but i know he's slowly getting tired because we are ldr.
@@nqtcatz I'm sorry for you but I think u must let him go I know it's hard and sounds impossible but when u start the journey to let him go and see other path in ur life u will feel way better, I'm trying this right now trying to move on from him so if u need any help I'm her
cybernully But loving someone requires you to go through Pain. But you shouldn’t be IN pain while thinking your in love 💁🏽♂️. VIBE WITH ME , SAD HOURS ARE COMING 👉🏽ruclips.net/video/arudaWoyXhY/видео.html
I want to tell you a story... I fell in love with a man that treated me like garbage, kept me on the very baited end of a fishing line, made me feel horrible yet validated, he made me feel hated yet loved. He played mind games like this with me for two years, after the first year I helped his first victim escape from his grasp, but I took the brunt of his hatred and anger. I was okay with that. I didn't want anyone else to get hurt. I had Stockholm syndrome for two years, helped a girl find her happiness, and found my own. You can do it with the love and support of others. If you ever feel alone, know that someone sees you, they know you're hurting and want to help. You just have to let them. You're loved, and valid. If not by them, then by me. I'll be here to love and support others. (He wasn't a boyfriend. He always threw slight hints of interest and then said that I wasn't his type, these people you fall in love with don't always have to be partners.)
For those of you who don’t understand why the video is a loop, it’s a representation of love. You enter a state of feeling like you find the right one until he/she crushes you and the cycle starts a new. The break in the cycle only happens at the end when she changes the lyrics “talking to my layer” to “talking to my mother” this also represents the start on a new chapter with a promising future and a fairytale ending.
@Luz Estrella Gonzalez she didn’t say it straight up in the interview, but in a genius interview she talked about how her and her ex-husband went through a loop of fighting and forgiving, and then the honeymoon phase and then fighting again
i was curious as to why the same clips were playing over and over again for the whole music video. then i realized that the entire scenario is something of an endless cycle of the same thing over and over again. very smart
Sometimes people dont do well with conventional therapy. I know I really didn't like it I just coped with stuff through art and getting new hobbies. Therapy is great and I recommend it to anyone genuinely needs a lot of help but no one really talks about how hard it can be that sometimes people keep getting therapists that arent good for them in particular.
m i n x jajajajahaj, i didn’t see it in the credits, i just search “moral of the story” cause i didn’t know 😂 or “i still love u song when Lara breaks up with Peter”
This song isn’t exactly sooo sad when you think about it. Like, there’s a good message. You get hurt in life but it only makes you stronger, or at least teaches you a lesson.
after i finished to all the boys 2 i thought "omg i really need to find that song" and this turned to be one of the best songs i've ever listened. thank you for this masterpiece!
I'm here from finding out my husband to be was caught with another woman.We had the wedding day set ,I got my dress and the wedding day planned out.I found out it was my sister that he was cheating on me with him since the proposal.We have been best friends since we were babies. I am devasted but this song really stands out to me. I cry everytime I hear it because I relate to it so much.I hope it gets better.
awe I read ur comment and I’m almost in tears 🥺 stay strong u deserve better and though it feels like crap right now, it will always get better. Though it might feel like u weren’t good enough just know that you are amazing and he just couldn’t see that, which is his fault, not yours 💖💖 -love from a stranger ❣️
As an abuse survivor this song hits hard. To everyone who reads this, you deserve better. No matter who you are, if youre being abused you can and should reach out to someone. Your experiences, no matter who has hurt you, what ways they have hurt you, or who you are, are real and valid. All abuse in every form hurts. No matter if you feel like its "not that bad" or "at least im not x" does not make it any less bad. You deserve love. You deserve compassion. You dont deserve to be abused.
🙏🙏❤❤....my problem is I never speak up because I'm scared of getting hurt ! ..my mind is my worst enemy and i suffer so much ...I get hurt so much mentally because I'm quite vulnerable so can not speak out ! ..i love too much..but is that a bad thing ! I give my all in friendships and partners but I constantly get hurt ...I feel so alone just now and yes I want to reach out but I'm scared too because not many people will listen ..so I suffer in silence ! ..I just feel so Incredibly lonely and I see everyone on fb etc loving their lives and yet I just feel like I can not reach out ...i have family issues with illness and that is just making me so sad ...and all I want is a hug yet there is no one to turn too ..so I just stay silent because I don't want to be a burden on any one! I just thank god for my dog because with out him I just could not see away forward! So sorry for what you have gone through! And actually your words have helped ..❤❤🙏🙏
I Am 11 years old and when i was younger my father raped me thank you for saying this. he is now dead he hung himself and my mom is in jail but its ok. i am in tears right now but anyways this song hits hard.
Okay but why is no one talking about how she changed “when you’re really just in pain” to “when you’re really just engaged”.... that was so subtle but so powerful like dang🤯🤯
@@EdwinJS I thought personal experience, but it could also be meaning how we treat marriage as a serious commitment and she's kind've mocking it in a way by saying that no matter what relationship you're in, you're still able to feel pain. It shows an escalation too by saying like life moves so fast and you can get into things that you may end up regretting later. Like how engagements and marriage are romanticized, and her confronting to the fact that there's a difference between feeling love and that romanticized label of being engaged or married. She's just trying to expose the truth about love and how it's not how you always expect it to be. Sadly, it doesn't sound like she went through a good time but I love where she said ''It's better for me, that's the moral of the story,'' because in the end you either gain an experience or learn a lesson and she learned what love exposes more about yourself, as well as your surroundings.
For anyone who wants them, here are the chords: Verse & Chorus: Bb, Dm7, Eb, Ebm, Prechorus: Cm, Eb, F, (hold), Bridge: Ab, Bb, Cm, Eb dim, Bb, D7, Gm, (F), E dim (M7)
hahaha aww sad self, but no more! Finallyyyy this music video just pops up now, tho i haven't search it, but i really do love this! So deep, personal & genuine 🥀✨
This came into my head when I was feeling sad and I searched it up and this made me have many memories of good memories and i love this song so much it really makes you think about yourself ❤
Hey. I see you. You’re not invisible. You’re an outstanding, amazing, extraordinary and great person. Don’t let someone tell you otherwise. That’s their opinion. We’ll make it out of this mess together. All of us. Hang on. For that extra second. For that extra day. For that extra week. And I guarantee, one day, someone will be able to change your life. Do not be afraid to let people in. Even after harsh situations. You have to learn and suffer the consequences, deal with it and move on. That’s just how life works. You can get hurt. You can have scars and bruises over your body. But your heart will never be broken. Your sweet smiles that everyone loves. Your amazing talents and kindness that spreads the world. I see it in you. I know it. You are important in this world. You can tell people anything but not everything. Be strong. Work hard. We’re in it together.
Veia Adeline when this song was first out everyone was saying that they were here from all the boys. Those comments have been over crowded by the new ones ig
I feel reassured when she says( Some mistakes get made ,That’s alright that’s okay) Sometimes I need to hear something like that from the people closest to me
Hey you Yes, you. You’re crying You’re fighting You’re not letting go “Some people fall in love with the wrong people sometimes” You were one of them No matter who it was A man A woman Someone that doesn’t specify Whoever Let them go There are people that love you I love you And I don’t even know you This pain isn’t the only one you’ll have You’ll succeed Let it go Just don’t let it take over Ever. I love you, all of you. ❤️
We all have different stories to tell about this song. Some people think of a toxic relationship, some people think of domestic abuse, some people think of a break up, but we all have different stories to tell. And we’re all watching this together, as one.
lots of people: *talking about their terrible experiences that this song connects them with* me: *with no love experience and just tryna listen to the song :/*
today is october 1 and ashe posted this on twitter: "I was getting married four years ago today Which led to a pretty messy divorce, which led me to write the song that changed my life forever. things don't always go according to plan, okay " Let's talk about how strong Ashe, a singer and wonderful person, I hope one day meet her. I love you very much and you are very strong. We will always support you ps: sorry my English, I speak Spanish.
I’m going through a lot right now . Much more than I want to say through here. This is such a relatable, amazing song. I love it and I breaks my heart too. It’s beautiful
I was just listening to it and acting like having a fight with my imaginary toxic bf lmaoo 😂😂😂 Edit: i forgot to tell I'm fighting cuz he cheated on me 😂
this song is so relatable to me because people in this world actually go through stuff like this. its really sad on the line, "you can think that you're in love, when your really just in pain" and thats a really strong line. its like you have feelings for someone that you've had on someone else and then you know they WOULD never like you back and its really hard..
Rahjae Marshall I started crushing on my English partner and during the first week I thought that he was just a distraction to forget about my ex and it turns out I acc do have feelings for my English partner
Hey you, yes you. Let it out, cry and let go of all the pain you've gone through. I know things are hard but I promise on my life that one day you will find true happiness, but you have to promise me that you wont give up, because if you give up all the people who love you so much will be so sad and hurt because you are loved, you are worth it, you are so much more than enough! I love you and I promise this pain won't last forever. Now keep your head up queen/king, here you dropped this👑
i think its sad that this song was released a year ago and its only now getting recognition. i wish i found this song earlier,shes so talented. just shows that u should never give up
My bisexual ass when my parents met my transgender girlfriend also felt that @sunshine. I'm so sorry. It really sucks when the people that you love can't except the people you are romantic with. I hope things get better for you 💓
To understand the pain of being engaged and married to someone like she was and to have what seemed like a loving marriage, turn into something so toxic and hostile from the get go is what really hits me. It’s not just a relationship with a boyfriend/girlfriend, rather this is someone who she was ready to spend forever with because she may have deeply loved this person. Then to have all of what you hoped and dreamed for come falling apart through a messy divorce is something this song portrays so well. Not too many other songs out there can convey this pure emotion like she does. Truly a great song
I can understand this completely, I was so ready to spend the rest of my life with this girl and give everything for her. But things just went to shit as soon as it started. That’s why this is one of my favorite songs, it expresses one of the most painful experiences I’ve ever had to go through so well.
_”some mistakes get made, that’s alright that’s okay”_ wish everyone thinks like that
stranger things ikr 😞
People are people and we can’t get all along if everyone thought the same
This music reminds me Noany (Noah 🇺🇸 and Any Gabrielly 🇧🇷) I shipp them so much
So true
Same
when she said "young people fall in love with the wrong people sometimes" hit me hard ,made me really consider my current situation
Me fucking too. Hit me like a wave
Same actually
yeah that's me right now:(
🥺😭
Hits different man, especially when it says, “You might think that your in love, but your really just in pain”
“some mistakes get made
that’s alright, that’s okay
in the end is better for me
that’s the moral of the story, babe”
really meaning of poetry
Ana what? Poesy?
Poesy??
Gregarious Gonzalez oh soooryy damn corrector is poetryyy lol
Ana ohhh that makes sense
"From"
You does not need to find songs ,songs find you at right time
yes it did😢
Wiser words never spoken 😊
Lara Jean just floating down the hallway though
Ha
Honestly tho
AHAHAHA
she do be floating doe 😳
That scene of her lip syncing was so cringe lorddd
2 years after , i came back completely over him :)
🤍🤍
❤️❤️
Omg same bestieee im so happy for you
omg, this song is two years old!!!
Been 5 years for me and I still can't but I want to so badly
crazy
Its trending not because if RUclips , because of Netflix
@@johannulloa5991 I blame TikTok for this madness.
Its cause of Tik tok
Nafisa Hussain bc this song used in to all boys i loved before 2
@@kevinhenderson647 It's not because of tiktok, Kevin. It got big after being featured on a Netflix TV show. It then became famous on lots of sites, including tiktok, but also RUclips and Spotify.
1:21 this explained my whole current situation.. i fell inlove with a guy online, i was so deeply inlove with that i couldn't let him go then he's slowly unloving me and moving on while leaving me still inlove with him then my mother found out then asked "where'd i find this guy"
My mother is angry at me for falling inlove with a guy online, but i just can't live without him i still love him, i'm still dreaming about him and we even made many promises that we'll last forever but promises are just words that cannot be fufilled. I really want him to be my last and forever.
But he's the first one that treated me so great the only one that made my smile came back and i did everything for him, i gave him all my time, my soul, my heart, my mind, he understood me and accepted me.
Now our communication is dying, then we always stayed up late 2-5am now our communication can't even last a minute or hour, i understand that he's busy but i know he's slowly getting tired because we are ldr.
@@nqtcatz That was the moral of your story
@@nqtcatz I'm sorry for you but I think u must let him go I know it's hard and sounds impossible but when u start the journey to let him go and see other path in ur life u will feel way better, I'm trying this right now trying to move on from him so if u need any help I'm her
I love all of the BRUTAL truths in this song.
"You can think that you're in love, when you're really just in pain."
@@Kim-dr9pt I think at the end she actually does say engaged instead of pain
@@Kim-dr9pt Haha there IS one part where it is "engaged," but in other parts it is "in pain," so we are both right! :) Take care!
I changed it to "You can think that I'm in love when I'm really just in pain..🤣"
Take care! All the best
And the "young people fall in love with the wrong people sometimes."
_“you can think that you're in love when you're really just in pain.”_
cybernully But loving someone requires you to go through Pain. But you shouldn’t be IN pain while thinking your in love 💁🏽♂️. VIBE WITH ME , SAD HOURS ARE COMING 👉🏽ruclips.net/video/arudaWoyXhY/видео.html
this comment hurt my feelings
My cover 🎶😍❤️🎶ruclips.net/video/7h2j38eBBtY/видео.html
ouchouchouchc
I'm in Spain the s is silent
"Some people fall in love, with the wrong people sometimes." " You can think that you're in love, but you're really just in pain." that hits *hard*
Ynnah Serana you kinda copied someone else’s comment :/
SAME
I didn't know ;-;
I just based my comment on what I felt hit hard.
I'm sorry if I accidentally copied someone's comment.
😓
It’s engaged
Those lines hit me on a SPIRITUAL level. I've been through the same and like jeez-
that *HIT* hard
"Some mistakes get made, that's alright that's okay"
Felt it❤
No you didn't
she sounds like a mum comforting me and thats the best bit.
She does..🥺♥️
I’m getting the vibes from Rapunzel’s Mom from Tangled
is true
fr
Yes ! ❤️
me: *Listens to this song*
also me, who hasn't been in a relationship since kindergarten, and have no crush: So relatable
mäxbox SAME LMFAO
are we LikE the same??
samee!!!!
sammee
Literally me
"It's funny how a memory turns into a bad dream"
Damn. I felt that.
True
Same my ex gf is dates my bff now and we where in love
yep😔
True
@@galaxysober3468 oh I'm sorry for you but I'm sure you'll find someone better soon 😊
I will never get over this song….
You will
@@Hardipie07🗿
This song hit hard when you wanna cry but the tears doesn't come out anymore.
The tears haven’t come out in almost weeks 😔 I just want them to come out 😩
word for word
Sim mm. .
NO BECAUSE I DIDNT CRY WHEN MY GRANDMOTHER WAS CREMATED, LIKE IT STOPPED
Excuse me what
"Young people fall in love With the wrong people sometimes" I really felt it.
Flavin Silva 🤙
yeah especially when older people be like your to young you dont even know what love is that hurts because they arent you it sucks
Me too
I really felt you
Me to
You know what’s the worst. Getting over someone who never liked you.
Omg going trough this rn. He'll never know how much I actually care so fuvkt
Yea it sucks
Chloe Angel I FELT THAT IN MY SOUL
I want to tell you a story... I fell in love with a man that treated me like garbage, kept me on the very baited end of a fishing line, made me feel horrible yet validated, he made me feel hated yet loved. He played mind games like this with me for two years, after the first year I helped his first victim escape from his grasp, but I took the brunt of his hatred and anger. I was okay with that. I didn't want anyone else to get hurt. I had Stockholm syndrome for two years, helped a girl find her happiness, and found my own. You can do it with the love and support of others. If you ever feel alone, know that someone sees you, they know you're hurting and want to help. You just have to let them. You're loved, and valid. If not by them, then by me. I'll be here to love and support others. (He wasn't a boyfriend. He always threw slight hints of interest and then said that I wasn't his type, these people you fall in love with don't always have to be partners.)
Chloe Angel well damn i didn’t ever wanna be like this but it just happened
Came back to this song after a break up😢 0:26
..
😂 that's so Funny 🤣
What as ahole😂
@@barnaliadhikary9421 that's rude
@@barnaliadhikary9421 that's rude
For those of you who don’t understand why the video is a loop, it’s a representation of love. You enter a state of feeling like you find the right one until he/she crushes you and the cycle starts a new. The break in the cycle only happens at the end when she changes the lyrics “talking to my layer” to “talking to my mother” this also represents the start on a new chapter with a promising future and a fairytale ending.
Umm okay
Ashe Wilson 💞🎶😍❤️🎶ruclips.net/video/7h2j38eBBtY/видео.html
@Luz Estrella Gonzalez she didn’t say it straight up in the interview, but in a genius interview she talked about how her and her ex-husband went through a loop of fighting and forgiving, and then the honeymoon phase and then fighting again
I have no braincells Left O-o so i didn't get it
I didn't even notice that this video is on the loop 😭
here after niall is singing this with ashe.
i’m now obsessed.
Same 🎶😇 btw here’s my cover ❤️ruclips.net/video/7h2j38eBBtY/видео.html
same! omg
Me too ÒwÓ
Hii i made a kalimba cover of this song
if youre looking for a new version you should check it out! ruclips.net/video/PMXKfEfr4iE/видео.html
PAPERRR HOUSEEE 😫😫😫🥰🥰😍that line when he sang it was sooo good
When she says " You can think you are in love " hits hard.
Ok
omg yeah
That just like lying to yourself
For me it’s “when your really just IN pain” that’s gets me
Ong
Beautiful af song, perfect for dark & cold december
i’ve never had a bf before but this hit hard for literally no reason
same
Elizabeth Mckay lemme change tht😎😎😎
yesss it does
Fr, it’s ok though we will be single together
Same
Is no one gonna talk about this being made A YEAR AGO???
Uh do you need glasses??
I cant believe it!! Jdjs
Raya Bella Who the Hell are you?
Let the person do their thing.
Josie Rosie :O
*So no one's gonna talk about how Ashe* , apart from being extremely talented , *is also drop dead gorgeous ?*
I know right!!
Like ikr... She is 🔥🔥🔥
Why all of us saying ikr XD
@@sunxdy Cause I know right is long😅
Can I just say yes and my like is the 969th
The line : “some mistakes can made, that’s all right, that’s okay, you can think that you are in love, when you’re really just in pain”.
"Young people fall in love with the wrong people sometimes" yup
okay
Hey hi My friend will be adding covers of Ashe here 🎶❤️ ruclips.net/p/PL_Tn2vTSwmc0bYisT5uTfulJLM8ZkLYgx
True
So do old people. 56 yo here.
@Sung Hyun-ae oh come on that can't be true 😅
i was curious as to why the same clips were playing over and over again for the whole music video. then i realized that the entire scenario is something of an endless cycle of the same thing over and over again. very smart
and somewhere in her “Genius” interview, she mentioned how the toxicity and arguements kept repeating
When I read this I thought of myself, I usually look for the metaphorical reasoning for things. You just found it
Or they didn't have enough budget to make a full video
@@aaditk6581 bruhh. Thats ruined it
@@aaditk6581 lmao what a plot twist
"Some mistakes are made, that's alright, that's ok"
Me doing literally everything:
Omg yes and when i saw that she was singing that
Some mistakes get made like me but that's ok 😂😂 jk jk
Yess 🌝
Hah 🙃
**me doing every mistake possible**
This is a song i didn't know i needed to hear...
I'm here after watching To all the boys... and i can't stop listening to this song now
Same
Her voice makes that scene more sad
... Anyway voice is so nice..👍
Me, too😭
ME TOO !
Me to
"CAmE hErE frOm nEtfLix"
"cAme hERe frOm tIkTok"
"cAn wE jUst eNjoY tHE sOng?!"
"i'M jUSt hEre"
Me: I heard this from the radio of our bus i-
Love that
Does it really matter, but I’m sorry you feel attacked by this
Hanica Mueco I came from tik tok. But i wanted to hear the full song cause it sounds nice
Hanica Mueco I came here from my recommendations :D
Patricia Kelly same
This song has done more for me than the last 5 years of therapy.
Hello here’s my cover 🎶❤️🎶ruclips.net/video/7h2j38eBBtY/видео.html
You should just use that money for a male prostitute
Ikr its rlly helped
I hope you okay 💓💓
Sometimes people dont do well with conventional therapy. I know I really didn't like it I just coped with stuff through art and getting new hobbies. Therapy is great and I recommend it to anyone genuinely needs a lot of help but no one really talks about how hard it can be that sometimes people keep getting therapists that arent good for them in particular.
I'm leaving my comment here, so whenever someone clicks thumbs up, I'll always be reminded of this masterpiece.❤️✌🏼
Ashe: makes music video
Chairs, mugs, and books: WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Renan Amorim #Bolsonaro2022 r/wooosh
#N I G H T C O R E xD do ya play roblox ?
́ ́ღ『Kaiyø』ღ ` actually I do :3
What about the books
Renan Amorim #Bolsonaro2022 are you serious
“It’s funny how a memory
Turns into a bad dream”
That hits hard cause I lost one of my best friends and started having dreams about her
Cely Clown same, but instead it’s about I boy I had or maybe still have feelings for 🥺😔
@@vaned5315 omg sameeee
Cely clown i lost my two best friends because of a big fight we had and that was like 4 years ago and sometimes i still dream about it
Aha felt this..
same i lost my best friend of 8 years after realising she's a pathological liar 😔
I heard this while I was watching “To All The Boys I’ve Loved 2” and I fell in love! I’m so glad they put it in the credits!! 💗💗
m i n x jajajajahaj, i didn’t see it in the credits, i just search “moral of the story” cause i didn’t know 😂 or “i still love u song when Lara breaks up with Peter”
Sameeeee
i had caption on, so i just searched up the lyrics into google and now here i am😂😂😂
Her music is overall really great. I’m glad you found it, it’s so amazing.
SAME!! Love that song. It is so accurate.
Anyone in 2024 November?
Meeee❤
Mee❤️
Yh
Yoo
Me
We ignoring the fact this was made on Valentine’s Day?
Omggg reallyy
I thought I was the only one who noticed and was looking for this comment
Lol i didn't know me:Some mistakes get made that's alright that's okay. And my bday is on Valentines day btw❤💫
Wait what-
Valentine’s Day is in the 14th, this was released on the 13th.
This song isn’t exactly sooo sad when you think about it. Like, there’s a good message. You get hurt in life but it only makes you stronger, or at least teaches you a lesson.
Exactly, I learned it...
It’s the moral of the song
Hi here’s my cover 🎶❤️💞ruclips.net/video/7h2j38eBBtY/видео.html
respect
@Alexander Salgado not always
after i finished to all the boys 2 i thought "omg i really need to find that song" and this turned to be one of the best songs i've ever listened. thank you for this masterpiece!
Same
Sameeee 🥴
Me tooooo
@@lucie7506 thank you ❤
@Hannah Megumi thank you ❤😊
December anyone who's heart of pieces 1:45 *
On the toilet crying to this song. That’s when you know your life is a mess.
Taehyungs is GOD me too honestly
felt that sm
pray, and it will get better. please just try❤️❤️we love you.
same.
On God tho
this song makes me feel like i’m dealing with a breakup when i haven’t even held hands with a boy in my life.
XD yuppp
If you’re sad like me too let’s be friends
Me with my crush that doesn’t even know me
Me with my crush that rejected me, but still seems so interested 😰
KnickssThePro my sad to hear🥺.
I'm here from finding out my husband to be was caught with another woman.We had the wedding day set ,I got my dress and the wedding day planned out.I found out it was my sister that he was cheating on me with him since the proposal.We have been best friends since we were babies. I am devasted but this song really stands out to me. I cry everytime I hear it because I relate to it so much.I hope it gets better.
Maggie Connolly I’m so, so sorry 💔 It does get better.
I hope you know it’s not your fault for his wrong doings.
awe I read ur comment and I’m almost in tears 🥺 stay strong u deserve better and though it feels like crap right now, it will always get better. Though it might feel like u weren’t good enough just know that you are amazing and he just couldn’t see that, which is his fault, not yours 💖💖 -love from a stranger ❣️
You deserve better
You’re so strong
@@yuck8889 Thank you so much for your support means so much to me and it's really helping
This song might make you think about heartbreak in a new way. Ashe’s voice is raw and emotional. It could help you reflect on your own experiences.
As an abuse survivor this song hits hard. To everyone who reads this, you deserve better. No matter who you are, if youre being abused you can and should reach out to someone. Your experiences, no matter who has hurt you, what ways they have hurt you, or who you are, are real and valid. All abuse in every form hurts. No matter if you feel like its "not that bad" or "at least im not x" does not make it any less bad. You deserve love. You deserve compassion. You dont deserve to be abused.
You're such strong person
Thank you!
🙏🙏❤❤....my problem is I never speak up because I'm scared of getting hurt ! ..my mind is my worst enemy and i suffer so much ...I get hurt so much mentally because I'm quite vulnerable so can not speak out ! ..i love too much..but is that a bad thing !
I give my all in friendships and partners but I constantly get hurt ...I feel so alone just now and yes I want to reach out but I'm scared too because not many people will listen ..so I suffer in silence ! ..I just feel so Incredibly lonely and I see everyone on fb etc loving their lives and yet I just feel like I can not reach out ...i have family issues with illness and that is just making me so sad ...and all I want is a hug yet there is no one to turn too ..so I just stay silent because I don't want to be a burden on any one!
I just thank god for my dog because with out him I just could not see away forward!
So sorry for what you have gone through! And actually your words have helped ..❤❤🙏🙏
@@samanthaobertelle4966 Tbh same and I’m sorry you went through that ..
Thank you I need this
I Am 11 years old and when i was younger my father raped me thank you for saying this. he is now dead he hung himself and my mom is in jail but its ok. i am in tears right now but anyways this song hits hard.
Okay but why is no one talking about how she changed “when you’re really just in pain” to “when you’re really just engaged”.... that was so subtle but so powerful like dang🤯🤯
Could someone explain why this change is significant? It feel powerful but I can't understand why there was reason to change the verse?
Edwin Jonathan S i think it’s because you don’t expect it to change, therefore you’re taken a bit aback, at least I feel like that
Edwin Jonathan S I also think it’s because it makes it seem more personal and it sounds like she’s singing about an actual experience
@@EdwinJS I thought personal experience, but it could also be meaning how we treat marriage as a serious commitment and she's kind've mocking it in a way by saying that no matter what relationship you're in, you're still able to feel pain. It shows an escalation too by saying like life moves so fast and you can get into things that you may end up regretting later. Like how engagements and marriage are romanticized, and her confronting to the fact that there's a difference between feeling love and that romanticized label of being engaged or married. She's just trying to expose the truth about love and how it's not how you always expect it to be. Sadly, it doesn't sound like she went through a good time but I love where she said ''It's better for me, that's the moral of the story,'' because in the end you either gain an experience or learn a lesson and she learned what love exposes more about yourself, as well as your surroundings.
Carlie Grice you’re right this was written after her divorce so the song is just a bit more better
"sometimes you have to kiss the wrong guy to know what's right"
- stormy
Sahara Pathak to the all boys I’ve loved before p.s I still love you
OMG yes
I cried hard
Sahara Pathak I was like ,,where did I hear that?” And then it clicked
R.I.P Stormy ⛈
This song deserves Grammy, or even better! Love this song!!!
For anyone who wants them, here are the chords:
Verse & Chorus: Bb, Dm7, Eb, Ebm,
Prechorus: Cm, Eb, F, (hold),
Bridge: Ab, Bb, Cm, Eb dim,
Bb, D7, Gm, (F), E dim (M7)
Zaki Hassan-Andoh Ooh thanks!
Omg thank you!!
OMG THANK YOU
Zaki Hassan-Andoh THANK YOU
Thankssssss
When your shopping at the grocery store and this song comes on the radio to make you cry in the middle of the cereal aisle:
mood 😔✋🏻
Not the cereal aisle
das sad...
MOOD LMFAO💀
lmaoo
“You can think that you’re in love when you’re really just in pain”
THIS HITS HOME SO BAD OMGG 🥺
"you can think that you're in love, when you really just engaged".
Wow that hit home 😔
Apparently she wrote this song as a way to cope with her divorce. I’ve never stanned harder
Ashe 🎶😍💞🎶ruclips.net/video/7h2j38eBBtY/видео.html
yup
she got dicorced on the day of recording a song apprenatly
who was she married AND divorced to
shes only 27
"Some mistakes get made"
*Looks in mirror*
"That's alright, That's okay"
Babe that's not nice luv. U r NOT a mistake. God doesn't make mistakes. So I r not and neither is anyone in this earth
i feel you :(
69
ruclips.net/video/2vRu-30cfvg/видео.html if you really like this song than you definitely like this
@@maligordhan8382 also this ruclips.net/video/dQw4w9WgXcQ/видео.html
One minute of silence for the people who cant find this song.
Hi here’s my cover 💞❤️🎶😍🎶ruclips.net/video/7h2j38eBBtY/видео.html
Yup
hahaha aww sad self, but no more! Finallyyyy this music video just pops up now, tho i haven't search it, but i really do love this! So deep, personal & genuine 🥀✨
Lol
@Nicholas Riordan lol
This came into my head when I was feeling sad and I searched it up and this made me have many memories of good memories and i love this song so much it really makes you think about yourself ❤
Hey.
I see you.
You’re not invisible.
You’re an outstanding, amazing, extraordinary and great person.
Don’t let someone tell you otherwise. That’s their opinion.
We’ll make it out of this mess together.
All of us.
Hang on.
For that extra second.
For that extra day.
For that extra week.
And I guarantee, one day, someone will be able to change your life.
Do not be afraid to let people in.
Even after harsh situations.
You have to learn and suffer the consequences, deal with it and move on.
That’s just how life works.
You can get hurt.
You can have scars and bruises over your body.
But your heart will never be broken.
Your sweet smiles that everyone loves.
Your amazing talents and kindness that spreads the world.
I see it in you.
I know it.
You are important in this world.
You can tell people anything but not everything.
Be strong.
Work hard.
We’re in it together.
I really needed this
#Nightcore 4 u thanks lol 💖
Thank you
Okay but why did this make me cry tho
Thank you so much
The comments: "we get it ur here from the netflix movie"
Me: *still trying to find the comments saying that*
Veia Adeline I’m here from the Netflix movie...now you don’t have to keep looking..your welcome
If ur profile pic is really you your really pretty
Veia Adeline when this song was first out everyone was saying that they were here from all the boys. Those comments have been over crowded by the new ones ig
You’re gorgeousssss😍
I saw your picture on google lol I
I feel reassured when she says( Some mistakes get made ,That’s alright that’s okay) Sometimes I need to hear something like that from the people closest to me
me too☹️
Same here
same 😔
The sadest thing is when BTS disband and who is here after that 😭😭
@@Rumaysa200 yes :(((
"Some mistakes get made" hits hard
Hey you
Yes, you.
You’re crying
You’re fighting
You’re not letting go
“Some people fall in love with the wrong people sometimes”
You were one of them
No matter who it was
A man
A woman
Someone that doesn’t specify
Whoever
Let them go
There are people that love you
I love you
And I don’t even know you
This pain isn’t the only one you’ll have
You’ll succeed
Let it go
Just don’t let it take over
Ever.
I love you, all of you.
❤️
Gaming Toast! I really needed that.
Thank you
thank you
Love you too dude/girl/whatever, thank you😭😭
@@hannialopez6055 me too
You should be a poet omg❤️❤️
To everyone that disliked:
Some mistakes get made, that's alright, that's okay.
In the end it's not better for them that's the moral of the story babe...
Omg i thoght it was Summer-stakes get made omg!! ty but i didnt dislike i love this song XD
LMAOOOO YASSSS
😂
PERFECT JUST PERFECT
Me born:
My mom: some mistakes get made that's alright that's ok
You can think that ur in love when ur really just in pain
Oof-
Usually the mistakes get aborted so YOU are not a mistake.
JAJAJAJJAA
why is this me tho?
ANYONE LISTEN IN ''OCT'' 2024 🖤♣️
We all have different stories to tell about this song. Some people think of a toxic relationship, some people think of domestic abuse, some people think of a break up, but we all have different stories to tell. And we’re all watching this together, as one.
Ashe 🎶❤️🎶ruclips.net/video/7h2j38eBBtY/видео.html
Deeeeeep
🥺🥺🥺 this is so true
Scarlett Morgan moral of the story everyone is in deep pain either way
Facts
lots of people: *talking about their terrible experiences that this song connects them with*
me: *with no love experience and just tryna listen to the song :/*
@Reid Mallon I do not recall anyone asked why NOT
Dude, litteraly same...but it'll get better
Ashe 👸💞🎶❤️🎶ruclips.net/video/7h2j38eBBtY/видео.html
its not fun..you get very hurt. Find the right one without putting yourself thru pain.
Same here🙋🏻♀️😂
today is october 1 and ashe posted this on twitter: "I was getting married four years ago today
Which led to a pretty messy divorce, which led me to write the song that changed my life forever. things don't always go according to plan, okay "
Let's talk about how strong Ashe, a singer and wonderful person, I hope one day meet her.
I love you very much and you are very strong.
We will always support you
ps: sorry my English, I speak Spanish.
@Carla Salva Mieres JAJSJSJSJA AMO
:)
:} always be happy
I'm speak Portuguese
ruclips.net/video/2vRu-30cfvg/видео.html if you really like this song than you definitely like this
I’m going through a lot right now
. Much more than I want to say through here. This is such a relatable, amazing song. I love it and I breaks my heart too. It’s beautiful
Hello dear.. you can share as i am stranger you don't feel embarrass.. you can share and feel heart lighter.. just feel free to say..🫶
2 years later, still not over him. Fuck.
2 years and four months later, finally over him. Fuck yeah.
3 years for me, you're not alone. It's not easy to get over someone
It’s hard, you’ve got this, you’ll get there. We’ll both get there. ♥️
Over who
same
it's gonna be okay hon ! you'll find a better man/woman and they'll treat you like the gem you are. good luck xx
No one:
Me with my non-existent love life:
*Yup* *relatable*
IKR so **deep**
Queen 🎶❤️🎶ruclips.net/video/7h2j38eBBtY/видео.html
Same 😂
I was just listening to it and acting like having a fight with my imaginary toxic bf lmaoo 😂😂😂
Edit: i forgot to tell I'm fighting cuz he cheated on me 😂
Hahah🤣
This song is an underrated one.
Ashe herself is underrated
The 42.M views : *Am I a joke to you?*
Hi here’s my cover 🎶❤️😍ruclips.net/video/7h2j38eBBtY/видео.html
@@Pancatcar lol
@@Pancatcar worse songs have more views, smarty.
Girl, you deserve better.
He is not special, it's your love that made him special.
حقيقي
needed to hear that thanks
Oo, yes, girl 💯
True 🌝
@@lilbearvaleria9256 yes she did dove just covered it
This song is a fucking masterpiece. I'm addicted to it
yes😈
Couldn’t agree with you more
AGREED 😃
Can Anyone Tell Me The Meaning Of Song It Was Posted By My Friend For Me Pls Tell Me The Meaning
@Chang'e Gaming It Was Posted By My Female Friend For Me in Her Story What Do You Think?
Disney (Word Diction/ Rhythm) + Billie Eilish (Visuals/Soft Tempo) + Lana Del Rey (Voice) = Ashe
Manny Vega Billie Eilish’s brother actually produced this song so that’s probably why it reminds you of her
I love you
Billie actually helped with the lyrics to this song. Ashe credits her with the line
"when your really just engaged"
Noo she kind of sounds like lana
@@SarahBogush it's her singing style that sounds like Billie Eilish. Not the voice.
2024 anyone 😢
me..
Always
this song is so relatable to me because people in this world actually go through stuff like this. its really sad on the line, "you can think that you're in love, when your really just in pain" and thats a really strong line. its like you have feelings for someone that you've had on someone else and then you know they WOULD never like you back and its really hard..
Rahjae Marshall I started crushing on my English partner and during the first week I thought that he was just a distraction to forget about my ex and it turns out I acc do have feelings for my English partner
When
@@ShmuelTheGoyim did i ask
FUN FACT: This song was produced by Finneas O'Connell, Billie Eilishs brother/producer
Sasuke Uchiha rlly?
That's why it looked so familiar
did i ask
Billie also inspired some of the lyrics
lala lala a person can comment whatever they want
Hey you, yes you. Let it out, cry and let go of all the pain you've gone through. I know things are hard but I promise on my life that one day you will find true happiness, but you have to promise me that you wont give up, because if you give up all the people who love you so much will be so sad and hurt because you are loved, you are worth it, you are so much more than enough! I love you and I promise this pain won't last forever. Now keep your head up queen/king, here you dropped this👑
Thank you
@@theactualshadow you are so so so welcome 😊
Try not to cry I've always been told it's bad luck just try to look for things to glad about in life not sad x
I feel like you probably need this too. What you just said to us.
🥺
1:21 this part hits hard💔
Everybody: I’m here bc of “to all the boys I loved before p.s I still love you”
Me: *i haven’t watched that... I’m just here*
YES all my friends were talking about the song
I'm here because of tiktok
@@alindaaliburrell I watched half if all the boys I've loved b4 but I also heard this song then heard it on tiktok now I want to finnish the movie
Best comment ever😂
I LOVED THAT MOVIE
Lmao watched it 2 hours after Netflix announced it
"So romantic, but we fought the whole time." Should have mind the sign.
Kdi
Jekduudjdj
@@lailafaila8120 y
i like how this song came out on valentine’s day in 2019
"some mistakes get made, that's alright that's okay" wish everyone think like that
that change at the end from “in pain” to “engaged”- oh my god. this song’s incredible. Ashe just earned a new fan.
Fun fact Billie Eilish 💚 told her to put that in bc Finneas listened to it and let Billie hear it also . 🙃
God*
What does engaged in the song means
Justin X. i want to say it means engaging like distracting
Abby Valdez Nava ah that makes sense
i love how it sounds like a friend giving some advice to me. makes me feel calmer, like she really understands what i went through and supports me.
Another song that she comes out in "Can't Hide" by her and Whethan give me the same vibes
" some mistakes get made"
Me and my sister: look at each other at the same time.
dude me and my sister did that too. I felt this in my soul
@@Adisikeeee lol 😂
this was funny loool
@@elvinchitan4001 😂
Wow😂😂
you know he is bad but you can't forget him and still love,miss him...
First off: beautiful song
Secondly: did anyone notice that the entire video is just the first 25 seconds on repeat?
YES, i was like wait wut
Oh, I could've sworn it was the end 25 seconds in repeat.
Auf lol good one
Bro how the FUCK did I not notice this
I think that’s to symbolise that we know we shouldn’t do it but yet we repeat many times without putting knowledge into place
i think its sad that this song was released a year ago and its only now getting recognition. i wish i found this song earlier,shes so talented. just shows that u should never give up
It isn’t that sad, she still gets the recognition regardless of when people see it
it’s RUclips’s fault for not putting it in my recommendation earlier
the worst feeling is when people hate you for who you love
my lesbian ass w extremely homophobic grandparents felt that
My bisexual ass when my parents met my transgender girlfriend also felt that @sunshine. I'm so sorry. It really sucks when the people that you love can't except the people you are romantic with. I hope things get better for you 💓
My gayass when my ex girlfriends mom hated me and blamed me for making her suicidal
True facts........
sunshine lesbian check ☹️✌🏽.
the line that made me love this song is "some mistakes get made, that's alright that's ok" this what i expect from every person the earth
People:"I came here from blah blah blah"
Me: *trying to find lyrics of this song in this comment section*
it's in discription box
a comment with the lyrics came up under this comment lmaooo
It’s in the description! :)
Hi..i came from spotify
Mai Nguyễn it's in description 😂👍🏻
This song hits different when you're after break-up with your toxic ex
cool
I hope your okay
Bedzie dobrzee😇
@@piesbedoesa2115 chcialabym zeby bylo
@@Alex-ht1jq zobaczysz zawsze jest lepiej. Jeśli faktycznie nazwanie go toxycznym jest prawidłowe, to taki dupek nie zasługiwał na ciebie
Trzymaj sie😘
Side note: her hair looks really soft
I’m here in 2024 almost 2025, this is still my favorite song
To understand the pain of being engaged and married to someone like she was and to have what seemed like a loving marriage, turn into something so toxic and hostile from the get go is what really hits me. It’s not just a relationship with a boyfriend/girlfriend, rather this is someone who she was ready to spend forever with because she may have deeply loved this person. Then to have all of what you hoped and dreamed for come falling apart through a messy divorce is something this song portrays so well. Not too many other songs out there can convey this pure emotion like she does. Truly a great song
I love melody and everything I love this song 😍 she's great
This song speaks volumes for me personally and I needed it
I can understand this completely, I was so ready to spend the rest of my life with this girl and give everything for her. But things just went to shit as soon as it started. That’s why this is one of my favorite songs, it expresses one of the most painful experiences I’ve ever had to go through so well.
Ashe Wilson 🎶❤️🎶ruclips.net/video/7h2j38eBBtY/видео.html
That's deep...