there are certain type of investment that you have to pull back on when you KNOW THAT THE COAST IS NOT CLEAR.................. chaiiiiiiii this one ENTER
I took some things home, but I never heard God's role in finding a partner. It's all "humanly" efforts, totally ignoring the One who knows you and what best fits. I want to believe this is not the end- there must be a part 2
So, its like the other way round here though, so I have once been in a relationship with someone who was not happy about me knowing what I wanted. More like I was too much for him because I was purpose driven and all that. My question is, is that really a problem?, even though I don't intend to back down voicing out what I want, is it okay to tune it down or just allow the guy fish it out himself?
@@olaoluwaomotolani9000it would seem like this is a result of girls being taught to be smart early more than boys are taught. It would seem women were more on the receiving end at some point, so parents and society knowingly or unknownly laid more emphasis on them, placed expectations on them and put largely the survival of the home front responsibility on them. While the boys or men freestyled largely or were raised to just be able to hustle outside and bring money home. It would seem this created a wide imbalance. We now have a lot of independent thinking and assertive women with a lot of men who are not so equipped to manage such women. The expectation is that the assertiveness or values of survival that the women have learnt over the years, to just fall off immediately a man shows interest in them. It is also expected that you quickly shove all those values away to adopt whatever values the man has or project. Of course he gets to keep his values regardless of whether it is good for him, her or both of them (in case of a union). Because he is the man. Society doesn't also believe men should learn some of these good values from the woman. So men find it difficult to want to learn. The very values that they say attracts them to you at first, they soon begin to attack it because it calls the man to perhaps higher accountability or humility to learn from a woman. I hear they say it is something about ego. So now it would seem some men chose to keep their ego while ladies too chose to keep their independence and assertiveness. If these values have served you, gotten you to progress in life and you have evolved to be a better version of yourself, I would say it is something to keep. But to also pray for wisdom on how to keep dispensing or showcasing these values, at what degree and to whom.
The guy on yellow acts like his a price the girls are going to win. Love is sacrifice and giving, if a girl trust that you love her she would tell you her dreams and you will know were you can come in to give. Not every woman is a career woman, go for career women since you are looking for driven women
Try to heal first. God is the most recommended one that can heal you. As you draw "genuinely" closer to God, He will mend your broken heart. If you even push to get into a relationship with that pain or that wound still in your heart, you will end up bleeding on your innocent partner. Build a genuine relationship with God and he will give you a heart to build relationship with others. I wish you fast healing 😊
The Pastor is really sound (Listens, Understands and then provides good answers). 👍
can we remove soundtrack in the next episode so distracting and loud ,but excellent conversation
The music made it impossible to concentrate! I enjoyed the interview though.
😀😗😂😂 how come I am seeing myself in the lady on orange 😂😂😂 thank you PGeee amazing round table with loads of wisdom from you sir🙏🏽
Quite enlightening.. Thank you Sir
Almost broke my legs while running from Twitter.
😂😂😂😂
35:40 till the end Great perspective and point PG. God bless you sir. REALITY
Background music so high, pls
there are certain type of investment that you have to pull back on when you KNOW THAT THE COAST IS NOT CLEAR.................. chaiiiiiiii this one ENTER
I can relate with Zelia
Really love this. I can relate to Zelia
With all your creativity 😮Pgee.
Lol😂😂
This is how cultured is being shaped. Thank you Daddy for creating this platform
PG is so full of wisdom 🙌🙌🙌
This is really funny and also enlightening 🙂🙂🙂😅
This topic really blesses me .....hank you sir!
Hmmm PGee thanks for this, I was able to identify where I am.
I took some things home, but I never heard God's role in finding a partner. It's all "humanly" efforts, totally ignoring the One who knows you and what best fits.
I want to believe this is not the end- there must be a part 2
please remove the music during the main discussions. It is distracting
I found it distractive too😢
Far from it... That sound creates a mood for the video. It's chill, relaxed, fun but informative. I'm really surprised you found it distracting.
I love the sound BG !! It gives a chill vibe.
Thank you for you sharing a topic as this.
Thank you PG
Thank you, PG, for this series, l really gained a lot.
Thank you PG ❤
Loved this❤
Mooore please
I have personally met Martins and Let me confess....he is my spec
Aunty Tayo weldone ma...
Gbam!!!
Very realistic and beautiful segment❤👌
Lovely to watch ❤❤
PGee is a good listener.
You can say that again
Thank you pgee
Thanks for this video..
Can we have a session on value exemplified..
The background music is too loud.
Mr Martin what do you mean humanly possible, Jesus upon all the English in the world. My oga oooh
It's the clean guy 😂 for me 😢😅
The background music is distracting and disturbing
I'm like Simi, no time for nonsense. Lol
Why add music to the background when the main discussion is ongoing. It's very distracting!
Uzo is like my sister 😂
Ms Zelia please!
Couldn't help but to click in immediately i saw the notification.
Wow!!!
Learnt a lot
So, its like the other way round here though, so I have once been in a relationship with someone who was not happy about me knowing what I wanted. More like I was too much for him because I was purpose driven and all that.
My question is, is that really a problem?, even though I don't intend to back down voicing out what I want, is it okay to tune it down or just allow the guy fish it out himself?
@@olaoluwaomotolani9000 i got this from a guy i once dated, he said i was too ambitious, and goal oriented. Omo i run!!!!
@@olaoluwaomotolani9000it would seem like this is a result of girls being taught to be smart early more than boys are taught. It would seem women were more on the receiving end at some point, so parents and society knowingly or unknownly laid more emphasis on them, placed expectations on them and put largely the survival of the home front responsibility on them. While the boys or men freestyled largely or were raised to just be able to hustle outside and bring money home. It would seem this created a wide imbalance. We now have a lot of independent thinking and assertive women with a lot of men who are not so equipped to manage such women.
The expectation is that the assertiveness or values of survival that the women have learnt over the years, to just fall off immediately a man shows interest in them. It is also expected that you quickly shove all those values away to adopt whatever values the man has or project. Of course he gets to keep his values regardless of whether it is good for him, her or both of them (in case of a union). Because he is the man.
Society doesn't also believe men should learn some of these good values from the woman. So men find it difficult to want to learn. The very values that they say attracts them to you at first, they soon begin to attack it because it calls the man to perhaps higher accountability or humility to learn from a woman. I hear they say it is something about ego.
So now it would seem some men chose to keep their ego while ladies too chose to keep their independence and assertiveness.
If these values have served you, gotten you to progress in life and you have evolved to be a better version of yourself, I would say it is something to keep. But to also pray for wisdom on how to keep dispensing or showcasing these values, at what degree and to whom.
feedback: please on the next episode can the music playing in the background be reduced to the bearest minimal or remove it
Interesting, but the sound is terrible
I think is the volume.
pls the IG address of the singles on the podcast be made available
I think simi is good 🎉
The guy on yellow acts like his a price the girls are going to win. Love is sacrifice and giving, if a girl trust that you love her she would tell you her dreams and you will know were you can come in to give. Not every woman is a career woman, go for career women since you are looking for driven women
This Martins have wuahalaaaaa😂😂😂
❤
Simi is soooo fine....but she is finer in real life.
Martins has mind🤣🤣
Why am I still single at 31????? No man is forthcoming....God when????
He will come just don't remove your eyes from Him
It's well
Most of the guests are speaking off the axis of the microphone. Just an observation.
what if a person is single because of past strong hurt that has not cleared...na wa oooo
Please clear them ❤
Prayer & therapy can help sometimes, especially for deep seated hurt
Try to heal first. God is the most recommended one that can heal you. As you draw "genuinely" closer to God, He will mend your broken heart.
If you even push to get into a relationship with that pain or that wound still in your heart, you will end up bleeding on your innocent partner.
Build a genuine relationship with God and he will give you a heart to build relationship with others.
I wish you fast healing 😊
This audio is distracting me 😢
Why are you still single with all your creativity.😅
😂😂
"Someone that loves God but most not be spirikoko." What's that ?
What's that ooo... It is well 😂😂😂😂😂
Pls the background music is distracting
There’s nothing wrong with being a house wife
Simi is composed and beautiful. Does she have an email address ? Asking for a friend :)
Why are you still single?
Why are you still single with all your creativity 😂
😂😂😂😂 oh no
😂😂
The major issue is the 'pastor' who himself doesn't understand the purpose of wedlock.
A communicator by profession doesn't know how to date, what a go on ?
This pastor should be be ashamed that a thirty-five-year-old woman in his congregation can boldly say she doesn't know what to do about relationship.