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Why ‘Being a Provider’ Is the Ultimate Scam for Men!

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  • Опубликовано: 12 июл 2024
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Комментарии • 489

  • @whatisantilogic138
    @whatisantilogic138 Месяц назад +111

    Her: If we're going 50/50 I might as well have a roommate.
    Me: If I'm paying all of the bills, I might as well live alone.

    • @talesofthedrip
      @talesofthedrip Месяц назад +9

      💯

    • @magmax76
      @magmax76 Месяц назад +10

      Exactly! and with the money you save you can retire early or get more stamps on your passport 😂

    • @Sc0rpi0226
      @Sc0rpi0226 29 дней назад +4

      This comment right here

    • @Callmecain23
      @Callmecain23 29 дней назад

      @@whatisantilogic138 🎯

  • @civildiscourse7626
    @civildiscourse7626 Месяц назад +85

    Being a stay at home mom? Once the child is in school she literally has 8 hours at home all to herself! 😂

    • @talesofthedrip
      @talesofthedrip Месяц назад +8

      💯🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ericsbando6240
      @ericsbando6240 Месяц назад +2

      Wow I never thought about this. I guess once all the kids reach 5yrs old its much better

    • @groovysoltv4788
      @groovysoltv4788 29 дней назад +5

      Nah apparently they spend that 8 hours cleaning everyday lol

    • @civildiscourse7626
      @civildiscourse7626 29 дней назад

      @@groovysoltv4788 😂

    • @ellisgill1337
      @ellisgill1337 29 дней назад +2

      I been screaming this since this conversation started a few years ago. Make it make sense.

  • @axxelfoley3304
    @axxelfoley3304 Месяц назад +96

    Strong Independent Educated women but want a man to pay for everything while outsourcing her duties and when she feels unhappy she's gone

    • @Mental_Alchemist
      @Mental_Alchemist Месяц назад +11

      That last part. Not only that, she gets half regardless if whether he did anything wrong or not.

  • @double00gigolo
    @double00gigolo Месяц назад +36

    On CNBC Make it: A married couple went 50/50, saving 19k a month, about have a net worth of 2.5 millions. We are steady playing games in this dating pool.

    • @SuperRedWaffle
      @SuperRedWaffle 28 дней назад +3

      She brought up how her brother and his wife bout to get a 2nd crib and it’s still not clicking to her 😂😂

    • @raisinbrand3663
      @raisinbrand3663 9 дней назад

      The brother hung around the Better folks she hung around birds

  • @dontaskme5526
    @dontaskme5526 Месяц назад +46

    The single mom says she’s traditional 😂😂😂😂

    • @manuchoozico609
      @manuchoozico609 Месяц назад +9

      Classic 😂😂😂😂

    • @gzdaboss443
      @gzdaboss443 28 дней назад +6

      Mfs be delusional 😂😂😂

    • @ladellmimms
      @ladellmimms 23 дня назад +1

      💀

    • @notreallyafamousartist695
      @notreallyafamousartist695 22 дня назад +1

      Like what bro🤣🤣 her big phataahhh ain’t traditional bro, traditional women didn’t eat 3 servings per meal

  • @Introverted_Extrovert99
    @Introverted_Extrovert99 Месяц назад +100

    This shit is comical. My wife and I do 50/50 and at times, I’ll pay the mortgage the first six months. Then she’ll cover the next six months. It allows us both to save money. Im grateful I don’t have to deal with these modern females.

    • @olayinkaakinnagbe832
      @olayinkaakinnagbe832 Месяц назад +12

      Your blessed congratulations brother.

    • @godlike3368
      @godlike3368 Месяц назад +4

      You Lady was sent from above 🙌🏿

    • @postmastersgt1670
      @postmastersgt1670 Месяц назад +9

      Thats teamwork. These modern women dont want that.

    • @StaticbeyfrmSemoran
      @StaticbeyfrmSemoran Месяц назад +3

      U fucking snapped

    • @Introverted_Extrovert99
      @Introverted_Extrovert99 Месяц назад +6

      @@godlike3368 Yes, not being superstitious but I believe this. What’s makes it even more sweeter, is she approached me. How often do you hear women approaching a man? Not many.

  • @kevingeorges1160
    @kevingeorges1160 Месяц назад +27

    Fellas…stay single, step your game up, and enjoy your freedom.

  • @nonyabiz12
    @nonyabiz12 Месяц назад +87

    While he's paying all the bills they're cooking, cleaning, sexing, asking his approval on clothing and respectfully submitting right???🤔🤔🤔

    • @LembeckIsStaying
      @LembeckIsStaying Месяц назад +8

      RIIIIIIIIIIIIGHT????

    • @SuperLongly
      @SuperLongly Месяц назад +7

      As she should if it's her husband.

    • @nonyabiz12
      @nonyabiz12 Месяц назад

      @@SuperLongly ...Yup.

    • @jesussinaloa9300
      @jesussinaloa9300 Месяц назад

      These modern day women are only "traditional" when it benefits them. They like men paying for dates, rent, and bills but they don't want go submit and claim that independent women is when they ready. Can't have it both ways.

    • @troywest1724
      @troywest1724 Месяц назад +8

      @@SuperLonglyYeap… so no husband duty before marriage.

  • @dominicdeshazo2285
    @dominicdeshazo2285 Месяц назад +61

    The lady on the right summed it up perfectly this economy Isn’t set up for single income

    • @UzitheSaint
      @UzitheSaint Месяц назад +6

      It’s not, but even before this climate most couples were and are 60/40, 70/30 where the man takes on most of the financial burden. The whole 50/50 talk isn’t real and just a social media talking point. The 50/50 talking point is mostly used by some vvomen who just want to earn a lot of money but then contribute nothing at all like a “princess”.
      And I love how “tradition” is brought up, there seems to be a consensus on what men are expected to do and be like but as soon as it’s for vvomen they double back. Like let’s be real by those standards, as a vvoman if u aren’t a virgin then u aren’t traditional🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @jesussinaloa9300
      @jesussinaloa9300 Месяц назад

      The funny part of it the income is femininity is part to blame. Yall women wanna go to work and get jobs? that doubles the potential work force and gives corporations more people to pick from which means they can pay less because there are more people to pick from

    • @williammcmillan8860
      @williammcmillan8860 Месяц назад +8

      I am gen x and 50/50 was normal. These modern women are different.

    • @Fabrizio7171
      @Fabrizio7171 Месяц назад +2

      ⁠@@UzitheSaintlmao it’s easy. She says you don’t love me if you don’t pay all the bills. So flip it on her head. She can pay all the bills if she really love me 🤷‍♂️.

    • @notreallyafamousartist695
      @notreallyafamousartist695 22 дня назад

      @@UzitheSaintwhat are you talking about 50/50 is absolutely real if you get a normal non insane woman who also isn’t a bum

  • @jonathanquinonez6718
    @jonathanquinonez6718 Месяц назад +60

    If a man spends his money on bills she gets to keep her money makes no sence anymore

    • @trombonefellow
      @trombonefellow Месяц назад +8

      Makes cents for her 😂

    • @kennethsmith6367
      @kennethsmith6367 Месяц назад

      It NEVER made sense and wasn’t even a thing in the past. That’s a NEW thing that women are trying to convince men was always a thing

    • @troywest1724
      @troywest1724 Месяц назад +12

      @@trombonefellowYeap… and she still broke living pay check to pay check

    • @tevinmoss12
      @tevinmoss12 28 дней назад

      "YOU CAN'T WIN!"

  • @NNight-uh3kt
    @NNight-uh3kt Месяц назад +171

    So if the dude pays 100 percent of the bills does he get 100 percent of the say? If he texts you and says he wants a key lime pie made from scratch with dinner, what happens?

    • @Lilart1981
      @Lilart1981 Месяц назад +24

      Amen to the 3rd power.

    • @nonyabiz12
      @nonyabiz12 Месяц назад +9

      Exactly.

    • @mathalinehunt4822
      @mathalinehunt4822 Месяц назад +22

      This day in time women will throw it in the MICROWAVE

    • @johncalhoun916
      @johncalhoun916 Месяц назад +17

      This gets to the heart of the matter so much so that none of these kinds of women will answer you.

    • @Demsky83
      @Demsky83 Месяц назад +14

      And head on every lunch break

  • @christopherbryant5012
    @christopherbryant5012 Месяц назад +35

    I done had this conversation with my mom, and i even told myself. I will not tell my children they have to leave my house at 18, no, for i know if i do that i am seeting them up to become broken, jaded and these streets dont love no one.

  • @elaynaaubreygonzo3744
    @elaynaaubreygonzo3744 Месяц назад +15

    Single father here w full custody raising an taking care of my kids is much easier than my job thats back breaking

  • @nonyabiz12
    @nonyabiz12 Месяц назад +56

    I recently saw a video of a Jewish man talking about how it's normal in his culture to help each other start businesses, support each other's businesses to keep their money amongst their people, to stay with their parents until their well established financially, to help their poor, amongst other things. He didn't say anything about his people being kicked out at 18 and having to grind and work hard on their own like it's something to be proud of. The people on top have a completely different way of viewing things than the people on the bottom when it comes to family.

    • @gregorylagrange
      @gregorylagrange Месяц назад +8

      Asian communities and Latino communities as well. And I'd add black african communities also. They also have a disdain for anybody in their community using being a part of the community as a tool to get over on other people in the community.
      Sadly, black people in general are hesitant to actively take the same approach or adopt the same mindset because of there own real life experiences of black people using being black as a way to take advantage of black people. Or have heard several stories about it and develop a vicarious apprehension.
      Tribalism can give a community strength and it can bring about xenophobia, racism, nationalism, and other things.
      In the context of this video and the frequent subject matter of this channel, what you said about what's considered normal would be highly frowned upon for black women to hear that about a black man that taking the same path. It would only be looked upon positively after beneficial results have come in and have added up.

    • @nonyabiz12
      @nonyabiz12 Месяц назад +1

      @@gregorylagrange ...That's true.

    • @NewkleusMarketingAgency
      @NewkleusMarketingAgency Месяц назад +6

      They also received reparations. Have not been through redlining or any discrimination

    • @nonyabiz12
      @nonyabiz12 Месяц назад

      @@NewkleusMarketingAgency ....True. They've never dealt with what we've been dealing with all throughout American history. There's no governments today set up to oppress them.

    • @dixbowman3452
      @dixbowman3452 Месяц назад +1

      Yup this is lacking in black community.

  • @Callmecain23
    @Callmecain23 Месяц назад +36

    It’s absolutely a scam. We’re not in the 60s anymore where a family can thrive on one modest salary. Unless the man is very well off you’d be a liability coming in and not contributing financially. Especially if the woman is working.
    I’m seeing a lot of women that still work but expect a man to pay all the bills.
    So you get to keep all of your money and the man pays everything? And if the relationship fails (which statistically it will) you can leave with a fat savings account? What kind of deal is that? The man might as well stay single. Mind you, women not built the same way they used to be. A lot are masculine, entitled, combative, promiscuous. Standards being delusionally high yet bringing less to the table is crazy

    • @Fabrizio7171
      @Fabrizio7171 Месяц назад +5

      Lmao now she’s a world traveler for a couple years after leaving.

    • @ohplease6865
      @ohplease6865 Месяц назад

      Just say you can’t afford a traditional woman

    • @Callmecain23
      @Callmecain23 Месяц назад

      @@ohplease6865 just say you lazy & wanna mooch off a man

  • @mrjagrown
    @mrjagrown Месяц назад +11

    It amazes me that women can say they didn't have rights or options in the past but still expect men to act the exact same way they did back when the women had no rights.

  • @chemccord
    @chemccord Месяц назад +12

    These 2 men articulated something a lot better than most of these shows. What’s the point of women having these degrees and incomes if it doesn’t contribute anything or bare minimum.

  • @CloudSephiroth
    @CloudSephiroth Месяц назад +12

    The biggest difference is that men have to work and provide for a lifetime. While women, when they take care of the kids- stop once the kids become grown. So they get a lifetime of provision for working only 18 years. And even then only the beginning requires work and as the kids get older, the less work it is.

  • @Davis_Jr
    @Davis_Jr Месяц назад +40

    This topic is so tired. I grew up in a household where both parents paid bills and they were perfectly happy. This some new generation shit

    • @tupactargaryen
      @tupactargaryen 29 дней назад

      💯 bw have always worked, now they think they’re ww living in the 1950’s.

  • @edgarjohnson347
    @edgarjohnson347 Месяц назад +8

    WE AS BLACK FOLKS NEED TO WORK TOGETHER IN RELATIONSHIPS. EVERYONE NEEDS TO CONTRIBUTE TO THE FAMILY GOALS, FINANCIALLY, CHORES, QUALITY TIME, IT'S THE ONLY WAY WE WILL GET AHEAD AND HAVE SOMETHING WORTH HAVING IN THIS LIFE.

  • @mr.dccomics9018
    @mr.dccomics9018 Месяц назад +16

    Keisha only wants Pookie.
    Good Men get Used.
    That's the truth.

  • @rarab22
    @rarab22 Месяц назад +24

    I agree with Eli I rather 50% off of everything than 100% by myself...I have married friends encouraging me to stay in my relationship and make it work but I have single friends (who don't pay the amount of bills I pay...) trying to convince me being single is better...lmao like not in this economy....we gonna figure out why we arguing and get to the bottom of this so we can build together tf...it's expensive out here

    • @jesussinaloa9300
      @jesussinaloa9300 Месяц назад +4

      It's a slippery slope though. It blurs the lines between if you are in a relationship because you love your spouse or in it because you can't afford to be single to maintain that lifestyle.

    • @rarab22
      @rarab22 Месяц назад +1

      @jesussinaloa9300 absolutely, but with discernment people can determine if they're not really loved and if they're being used for that purpose solely. Eli says it best in this vid...we need to come together and utilize each other's resources but also and if I may add, come together with love at the forefront. But you're right, there will be ppl that will pretend they love the person for the benefits.

  • @Mattniificent
    @Mattniificent 29 дней назад +5

    Women always turn into “traditional” when it comes to paying bills

  • @rodharper6112
    @rodharper6112 Месяц назад +6

    Bill Burr talked about being a stay at home moms. The men work to pay all of the bills but magically that's called 50/50. When both people work, conveniently it's roommates. When he pays all of the bills, she is not his dependent. These young ladies are moving the goalposts.

  • @adim00lah
    @adim00lah Месяц назад +33

    The dude that bussin her down every week ain't paying no bills, why you gotta pay more than him? She not traditional, if she was, she'd be a virgin waiting until marriage for sex. And being a virgin is easy you literally have to do nothing, making 6 figures a year to pay all the bills is a lot of work.

    • @BryanC-kw1py
      @BryanC-kw1py Месяц назад +9

      Damn bro. You could've put some sugar on that. Simps don't want to hear the truth.

    • @Itslewieo
      @Itslewieo Месяц назад +9

      Why are men still even paying attention to this stuff? These modern women have shown who they are, men just move accordingly

    • @thechosenone2786
      @thechosenone2786 Месяц назад

      Exactly!! 💯

    • @tevinmoss12
      @tevinmoss12 28 дней назад

      ​@@BryanC-kw1pythis not cream of wheat. this gritz 😂😂

    • @BryanC-kw1py
      @BryanC-kw1py 28 дней назад

      @@tevinmoss12 . Gruel

  • @Callmecain23
    @Callmecain23 Месяц назад +13

    Shoutout to curly haired shorty. She the only one on the panel using rationale & logic and not just going off feelings. If more women had her mindset and cut the entitled attitudes & unrealistic expectations I promise everyone would be happier

  • @alacy2
    @alacy2 Месяц назад +10

    Think about their logic. If you make responsible for covering half of our expenses like a responsible adult, were not considered partners but roommates. Who raised these women to have such entitlement? And what do you as a man get in return? They really believe our job is to make them our dependents. Insanity. Grow up!

  • @AllenBrown-xq8in
    @AllenBrown-xq8in Месяц назад +13

    But wanna call yourself a "partner" when dude Is doin 100% of the work.

  • @calvinblack9459
    @calvinblack9459 Месяц назад +8

    Once your kids in kindergarten or 1st grade, why do they need stay at home mom?

  • @tonymontez2358
    @tonymontez2358 Месяц назад +14

    2:29 women really try to play these mental gymnastics games when in that situation you don’t a home unless the man is working and paying for everything so who’s really more important in that scenario

    • @Fabrizio7171
      @Fabrizio7171 Месяц назад +4

      Lmao. It’s really funny so entitled and self centered. Listen long enough and anything they don’t wanna do is the hardest task ever.

  • @civildiscourse7626
    @civildiscourse7626 Месяц назад +7

    So a man should pay 100% of the bills even in 2024… yet a woman remaining a virgin until marriage is outdated and old fashioned…😂

  • @Scorpio313.
    @Scorpio313. Месяц назад +14

    I feel it always been a scam on men paying all the bills

    • @ugo1174
      @ugo1174 Месяц назад +3

      From the dawn of time

    • @Closedeyewilly
      @Closedeyewilly Месяц назад +1

      well not really. You used to get a girl that's as exclusively yours. Now you get a girl that 10+ multiple men have tried out and deemed not worthy

    • @ohplease6865
      @ohplease6865 Месяц назад

      Said every broke guy ever

    • @Closedeyewilly
      @Closedeyewilly Месяц назад

      @@ohplease6865 oh no. I'm broke because I don't want to pay for another grown ass adult way through life 😂 how will I move on with my life

    • @Closedeyewilly
      @Closedeyewilly Месяц назад +1

      @@ohplease6865 shit if that's what it takes takes, then I'm MC hammer broke 😂. Calling someone broke when you're coming from the position of a beggar is crazy work 😂😂 Once you learn about the shaming tactics, it really is hilarious to see in action

  • @johnserosanguineous1886
    @johnserosanguineous1886 Месяц назад +9

    For women, being a stay at home mom HAS to be the hardest job in the world or else their entire worldview falls apart. They're not going to switch places with a man, most definitely not, but they will maintain this narrative till the cows come home. Meanwhile stay at home fathers are content AF. Hell, women will make problems then complain about them later. "Rah rah rah i'm tired of cleaning up after these kids destroy this house!" Meanwhile dad sequesters the kids to one room, makes them clean up said room before moving onto another task. And get this, he actually PARTICIPATES in the play time! Give a woman that advice and she scoffs at you. I noticed these differing parenting styles watching my friends with their kids. Mom complaining the kids don't want to go to sleep whilst she's made them sit and be quiet the whole day.
    I've worked with women for too long to not notice a few things. 1. They're lazy and 2. It BURNS THEM UP that a man might be better than them and traditionally feminine things like cooking and cleaning. "I don't like the way you cook X... I don't like how you cleaned the Y." Now they resent you for it like a freaking child.

    • @dixbowman3452
      @dixbowman3452 Месяц назад

      Yup. Lazy. Just lazy and have all the machines to do it for them. They not in Africa where you have to take your clothes and wash them in the river. Those women can complain not western women.

  • @preppybusinessentrepreneur5164
    @preppybusinessentrepreneur5164 Месяц назад +5

    The girl in blue jacket needs props she speaking right

  • @therealhdshow2678
    @therealhdshow2678 Месяц назад +6

    Her quote is super telling for the backwards way women think, paying half the rent really indicates cooperation within a living environment, partner & roomate language indicates the subconscious temporal non-commitment mentality, 1 foot in, the other out the door, if a luxury lifestyle isnt acquired to their liking, For all that, they might give some box, a meal & or be feminine, at their pace, rotten term's

    • @Fabrizio7171
      @Fabrizio7171 Месяц назад +1

      It’s poison. I have to give what you’re asking and she decides when how and if she will reciprocate.

  • @harlemworldown
    @harlemworldown Месяц назад +6

    😂😂 you was raised by a struggling mother, you never seen A healthy relationship ever. Plus you’re asking the wrong women these Keshia’s are hood superstars

  • @MirLuciano464
    @MirLuciano464 Месяц назад +3

    I don't agree with 50/50 mentally, it being sounding like these girls nowadays be wanting a FATHER, not a boyfriend or husband💯

  • @brycebreezy7706
    @brycebreezy7706 Месяц назад +4

    In today's time, yes it is a scam. For instance, of the guy makes $70,000/yr and woman makes $50,000/yr, but guy pays 100% everything and the relationship last 4+ years, the woman saved up a nice amount while he has little to nothing compared.
    Honestly, the only thing I see women bring to the table is more responsibility for the man; kids, child support, alimony, portion of assets (if any) and drama.

  • @JamaicanToast
    @JamaicanToast Месяц назад +2

    Pay all the bills 😂😂😂

  • @blackpoptart4781
    @blackpoptart4781 Месяц назад +33

    If I pay all the bills, then you're a free loading bum simple as that.

    • @ohplease6865
      @ohplease6865 Месяц назад

      Just say you can’t afford a traditional woman

    • @Closedeyewilly
      @Closedeyewilly Месяц назад +1

      @@ohplease6865 these women who have premarital sex are traditional?

    • @ohplease6865
      @ohplease6865 Месяц назад +1

      @@Closedeyewilly traditional is not a monolith. You can be divorced with three kids, and still be traditional🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @Closedeyewilly
      @Closedeyewilly Месяц назад

      @@ohplease6865traditional with 3 kids and divorced 😂😂😂 thanks for the laugh . You gotta love how the definition of traditional is ever changing for women but for men it remains protector and provider 😂😂

    • @ohplease6865
      @ohplease6865 Месяц назад

      @@Closedeyewilly then I guess Muslim women who are divorced with children aren’t traditional anymore, right? A modest widow isn’t traditional anymore because she’s not a virgin anymore right?

  • @tonymontez2358
    @tonymontez2358 Месяц назад +8

    7:26 it’s interesting how women know this but still expect men to pay for everything knowing one income isn’t gonna get it done. Now a days realistically you have to go 50/50 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @AnthonyLee-dj1xo
      @AnthonyLee-dj1xo Месяц назад +4

      Also, if you read the bible God said women should work, LOTS of women in the bible had jobs as shop keepers, merchants, textile workers, cooks, maids, shepherds etc....
      Idk where women get work is not natural, God made you, and said you should work, I think he knows women's nature best since he created them. My grandmother worked, idk where these women get that they shouldn't work, it's unrealistic especially in our economy where the average house cost 400k+.
      If a woman expect a man to pay all that, then guess what 80% of women aren't getting married, because 80% of men won't be able to afford that.

    • @Jordanelev3n
      @Jordanelev3n Месяц назад +3

      @@AnthonyLee-dj1xo Just a excuse to not want to work, idk what in the hell they talkin bout like its specific to them to not wana work shidd everybody dont want to work but we gotta do what we gotta do but women feel that men just pose to do it off the strength of being a man

    • @Fabrizio7171
      @Fabrizio7171 Месяц назад

      In their eyes It separates the big boys and the little ones.

    • @AnthonyLee-dj1xo
      @AnthonyLee-dj1xo Месяц назад +1

      @@Fabrizio7171 They don't realize, that the dude that can pay for an entire family on just their income have A LOT of options. These dudes also often work a lot, so they are rarely home, so infidelity is pretty common.

  • @asjeje
    @asjeje Месяц назад +6

    Did the lady just say working isnt natural for a woman? They want to do everything but pay a bill lol

    • @aceshouse3389
      @aceshouse3389 Месяц назад +1

      They clearly don't know history

    • @bennybop5387
      @bennybop5387 Месяц назад +1

      Weren't they the ones fighting for "equality" and screaming how oppressed they are?

  • @dereklegendre5996
    @dereklegendre5996 Месяц назад +3

    Me and my fiancé do 50/50 in our relationship. We have 2 kids a mortgage. Car note. Utilities, kids extra curricular activities etc. We make $200k+/ year between the both of us and we are able to save $1500/month for our family savings account. We sit down every week and pull out our excel sheet to make sure we are on track with our expenses. Basically we are a team and a well oiled machine. We are happy and our kids need nothing. This generation is going against each other, instead of coming together and that’s sad. Other cultures come together as a family, so why can’t we?

  • @Callmecain23
    @Callmecain23 Месяц назад +4

    A stay at home mom is one thing. If both people in the relationship feel like it’s in the best interest of the family for the man to work and the mom to take care of the kids is then cool. The issue nowadays is women coming in and essentially wanting to be stay at home gf’s/wives with zero kids involved. You heard shorty say herself she’d rather have a roommate than split with a man. I’ve heard plenty of women say they’d rather pay 100% of everything than to split as well. To me, this just speaks to entitlement and pride

    • @ugo1174
      @ugo1174 Месяц назад

      So let them, they are grown ups and whatever decision they take is theirs to bare

    • @Callmecain23
      @Callmecain23 Месяц назад

      @@ugo1174 I don’t disagree w you. You can desire whatever you want in life, that’s your prerogative. But it’s also important that we check delusion at the door. Letting these mindsets go unchecked is why so many ppl are unhappy in the dating market, birth rates declining, etc.

  • @wapoj4220
    @wapoj4220 Месяц назад +5

    If I got to pay all the bills I might as well stay single & she can come over sometimes

    • @jas1565
      @jas1565 Месяц назад

      Lol but when women say they'd rather be single than split bills, work, cook and clean.. she's a problem 😂

    • @wapoj4220
      @wapoj4220 Месяц назад

      @@jas1565 problem is thats bs if you dealing with a man that don't clean up after himself or no how to cook basic meals that's on you..

    • @jas1565
      @jas1565 Месяц назад

      @@wapoj4220 lol no one said they don't know how.. those men think they don't need to because they believe it's a "woman's job".

    • @wapoj4220
      @wapoj4220 Месяц назад

      @@jas1565 that's all social media bs just like woman equating cooking to "slavery" I'm not paying all the bills for Abled body people & im more then happy to cook & cleaning is a priority whether you in a relationship or not

    • @meandepiphany
      @meandepiphany Месяц назад

      ​@@jas1565 It's different. One side is saying they'll do 50 rather than 100 and the other is saying they'd rather do 100 than 50.

  • @Stonecoldalston
    @Stonecoldalston Месяц назад +3

    2:30 the problem with what she’s saying is she’s acting like the man is just coming home and not also interacting with the kid
    If he’s not then he’s a dead beat but let’s assume he’s an active dad he’s also putting in work with the kid & who’s taking out the trash ? If something breaks who’s fixing it if someone breaks in who’s the protector

  • @A_JoshOfAllTrades
    @A_JoshOfAllTrades Месяц назад +1

    The lady in the blue jacket is the only one who is speaking from a mature and fair standpoint. A standpoint which is rarely seen. It's nice to see.

  • @ADFearlessPodcast
    @ADFearlessPodcast Месяц назад +4

    If I'm a man and me and my wife are making the same amount of money why am I paying the bulk of the bills are money should be combined and split the bills as we see fit

  • @Haz2288
    @Haz2288 Месяц назад +4

    Asking a man to fully provide is like his granddad asking a woman to be 115 lbs like her grandma

  • @RyanMerch
    @RyanMerch Месяц назад +1

    "If I pay 100% of everything, then I'm your Father"

  • @melohopkins5480
    @melohopkins5480 Месяц назад +1

    Sitting there non virgin and overweight talking about I’m very traditional . Crazy

  • @Flip495
    @Flip495 Месяц назад +1

    They make you not want to do anything for them at all these days for some reason

  • @Ohmlaws
    @Ohmlaws Месяц назад +6

    Traditional woman lol. With a baby father ?

  • @MrMakemusicmike
    @MrMakemusicmike 29 дней назад +1

    These are young ladies from the streets, they dont want relationships, they want money.

  • @aktob316
    @aktob316 Месяц назад +3

    They want men to pay everything, and at the same time help at home.
    How many women complain about men not helping at home?

  • @rickysauce393
    @rickysauce393 Месяц назад +2

    You’re living with me, you’re paying 50%.

  • @juniorthedon823
    @juniorthedon823 29 дней назад +1

    The first one said I’m a very traditional type of women 😂 it’s woman. That tells me everything I need to know

  • @AlSween
    @AlSween Месяц назад +3

    A couple splitting the bills or not are still roommates. For women to be considered nurturing they sure don't consider how it feels to be in a man's shoes.

    • @ugo1174
      @ugo1174 Месяц назад

      So much for the emotionally intelligent gender😂

  • @Silhouette_K
    @Silhouette_K Месяц назад +3

    Everytime i see a mouth open its always a battle instead of a conversation for understandment🤦🏾

  • @chasehlee7197
    @chasehlee7197 Месяц назад +6

    “I’m traditional so this is what I expect of you”.

    • @adim00lah
      @adim00lah Месяц назад +8

      They should have asked her if she was a virgin. If she said no, then she not traditional. A traditional man deserves a traditional wife, not a modern woman.

    • @A-Thomas
      @A-Thomas Месяц назад

      These women have no idea what traditional is while sitting on a couch with their breasts out and a dress so far up her 🐱 almost caught a cold.

    • @Fabrizio7171
      @Fabrizio7171 Месяц назад

      This is the root. Silly expectations.

    • @ohplease6865
      @ohplease6865 Месяц назад

      @@adim00lah men who expect 50/50 from their wives, aren’t traditional🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @adim00lah
      @adim00lah 29 дней назад

      @@ohplease6865 Most relationships are not 50/50 exactly unless both husband and wife make exactly the same amount of money. Most husbands out earn their wives, so most situations isn't 50/50.
      And women working to make money is traditional, read your bible many women in the bible worked.

  • @hashblack
    @hashblack Месяц назад +1

    She started off "I'm a very traditional type of women." It's the grammar for me.

  • @draya.7441
    @draya.7441 Месяц назад +1

    Want a man to have All the responsibility …
    With no authority

  • @matthew8661
    @matthew8661 Месяц назад +3

    Most women Cant Cook Let alone put 2 Pieces of Bread together to make a Sandwich LOL

  • @Speakinurmynd
    @Speakinurmynd Месяц назад

    They all claim to be "traditional" when bill paying and spending money is involved!

  • @simply_jaybe
    @simply_jaybe Месяц назад

    Shoutout to the young lady in the blue. Someone finally said the loud part louder. Everything is up except our pay. Even for the best of us blue collar brothers, one income just isn't feasible

  • @davionnebrantley6609
    @davionnebrantley6609 29 дней назад +1

    Come ask my wife who goes 50/50 with me if she’s happy or not…and then go ask the lady across the street who pays everything on her own if she is happy…I bet they both have the same answer. Meaning, to each us own

  • @TheRaichu13
    @TheRaichu13 29 дней назад

    Every scenario of "50/50" is free for them 😂

  • @FaithFallRepentGraceRepeat
    @FaithFallRepentGraceRepeat Месяц назад +1

    Most women want to be your DEPENDENT, not your PARTNER. A self respecting woman doesn’t want a free ride; she’ll freely contribute to the relationship. Choose wisely.

  • @pullupjeff
    @pullupjeff 29 дней назад +1

    Lmao she said she a traditional type of women 😂😂😂 well she is big

  • @traveler7117
    @traveler7117 Месяц назад +2

    They are all looking for a free ride in life

  • @north_c_fellow
    @north_c_fellow Месяц назад +1

    if a woman sees you as valuable enough she will have no problem spending money on you. Shout out to chris brown he showed the whole country that

  • @anthonyjackson7021
    @anthonyjackson7021 Месяц назад +2

    Females always say something about being a mother but as a man I still have to come home after work and be a father so she's not doing all the parenting stuff and that's not 50/50 💯 & I cook and clean up too 🤷🏿

  • @reginalraymonvil4410
    @reginalraymonvil4410 Месяц назад +1

    Protect the young lady in the blue jersey at ALL COST

  • @RJ-ph5zg
    @RJ-ph5zg 29 дней назад

    I have custody of both of my kids and it’s definitely not hard to manage the household especially when the kids reach a certain age to do things on their own. “Stay at home mom” is not a hard job 😒

  • @brianfreckles8542
    @brianfreckles8542 Месяц назад +2

    If you have more than 1 zex partner in your past, you are not a traditional woman- just stop with this ladies. There was a poll done - the average for wmn over 18 has 4

  • @yfnhansolo
    @yfnhansolo Месяц назад +1

    He spends all of his money on the house.. If something does happen to her.. What did he save????

  • @40III
    @40III Месяц назад +1

    Blue jacket seems to have an understanding of the reality of today. More women need to have her mindset.

  • @brianlouis2122
    @brianlouis2122 29 дней назад

    One account all money goes in. That eliminates the 50/50

  • @daquansteed4412
    @daquansteed4412 13 дней назад

    Shout out the lady in the blue and white. The first time I ever heard any woman talk about the reality of the economy today vs. the economy our grandparents lived in. That plays a huge role in this men pay for everything discussion (which is tiring btw).

  • @jarretttaylor1073
    @jarretttaylor1073 26 дней назад

    The thing is, the man that can go 100 percent has to even like them to want to do that. That type of man wouldn’t choose her. Why would he ?

  • @tylergoudeau
    @tylergoudeau Месяц назад +1

    Can someone explain to me, how man OR women get someone without showing wife/husband duties?

  • @hueyfreeman474
    @hueyfreeman474 Месяц назад +1

    Most things in life requires balance men and women should both contribute financially, to the household, to rearing the children.
    Men get burned out at work.. women get burned out taking care of the kids.. housework gets repetitive and tedious.. one income households collapse on themselves all the time thru separation, infidelity, death.. whatever.

  • @derrikgreen3264
    @derrikgreen3264 29 дней назад

    Im married and I would tell men do what you have to do to take care of the family.. Before I got married, my wife worked..Soon as she had my daughter she never went back to work.. Some relationships are different.

  • @biglee8832
    @biglee8832 Месяц назад +1

    It's never 50/50 because men will always do more!! We're gonna still pay for the dates and takeout food! We're paying for the vacations and furniture! Then women will ask for things or expect things for no reason! Plus we have to protect you from physical harm which means we're basically putting our lives and/or freedom on the line for YOU!!!!! And you can't pay a bill or two????

  • @sanietj7626
    @sanietj7626 28 дней назад

    😂😂 I'd rather be at home with my son than in the office anyday

  • @3ShadesBlack5
    @3ShadesBlack5 Месяц назад

    They can argue about this topic all they want. I pay 100% of MY BILLS and i don't need a woman to interfere with my program.

  • @Lifeofredo
    @Lifeofredo Месяц назад

    1:00 SHE BLEW TF OUTTA ME WITH THAT ANSWER😂😂😂

  • @TuerlingsTim
    @TuerlingsTim Месяц назад

    With that thought is when he pays all the bills what do you provide in the relationship? And provide only looks is no provide

  • @leobhrim9874
    @leobhrim9874 Месяц назад +6

    She said raising a kid is insane that's insane

    • @Fabrizio7171
      @Fabrizio7171 Месяц назад

      These women love putting on the overwhelmed show. Especially with children.

  • @mIKE.TURNup
    @mIKE.TURNup Месяц назад

    One of the reasons I’m single is I refuse to empty my wallet so I can be “in love”

  • @jemini_gaminig6901
    @jemini_gaminig6901 16 дней назад

    If a man had to pay all the bills then women should have no problem sharing him … I have always felt if a grown as adult as to financially take care of another grown capable adult the one who is being financially taken care of have no say in what that person does . Even if they have someone else on the side !!

  • @Stonecoldalston
    @Stonecoldalston Месяц назад +1

    I wouldn’t mind being the provider if she’s really a traditional women and going to take care of the home without complaining saying stuff like I’m not your mother or you want a maid etc

  • @caronblackwell925
    @caronblackwell925 Месяц назад

    Think smart! Both need to work in the financial situation we are in. If one makes enough to pay the bills, the other should be saving or investing. One person should not be looking to relax, life is work single or with someone! It takes work and teamwork makes it easier.

  • @jajangmyeon6914
    @jajangmyeon6914 Месяц назад

    If you want to be considered an adult you MUST PAY BILLS

  • @kdubb11
    @kdubb11 22 дня назад

    If the man pays 100% then she is literally his “child”

  • @talesofthedrip
    @talesofthedrip Месяц назад

    A man can pay 100% of bills but a woman wont submit 100% of the time "what if i dont feel like doing something that day".... What if the man dont feel like paying 100% of the bills sometimes?? But she wouldn't accept that 😭

  • @wingdragonzero
    @wingdragonzero Месяц назад +5

    Nun of the people on this panel know history. The only women that did have to work was women of royalty , high status in life other that that all people work . So I real don't know were you all got that from

    • @AnthonyLee-dj1xo
      @AnthonyLee-dj1xo Месяц назад +2

      Facts, my grandmother worked. The bible mentions women working in textiles, as merchants, shepherds, cooks, midwives, artisans, domestic servants etc.... These women need to get off tiktok and go read a bible. Proverbs 31: epilogue the wife of noble character says women should work and earn money.

    • @nonyabiz12
      @nonyabiz12 Месяц назад

      Exactly. It's crazy how we have so many Black women talking like they don't know Black women in America have worked all throughout American history.

  • @ericalmighty1535
    @ericalmighty1535 Месяц назад

    We not roommates. I’m just in control of all the finances, it’s a difference

  • @jopinscott1777
    @jopinscott1777 Месяц назад

    Women: "I'm strong and independent. I don't need a man!"
    Same women: "I'm not trying to go 50/50. If he ain't paying the bills, he ain't a real man!"
    Equality goes right out the window when it comes to paying, pursuing, and proposing.🤣

  • @SuperStealth99
    @SuperStealth99 Месяц назад

    Unfortunately I’m not looking to babysit any women, not looking to work my ass off while she at home chilling. Gotta be really realistic in who you choose to create a family with.