Loneliness: Why I Have No Friends

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  • Опубликовано: 7 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 93

  • @Jaylio
    @Jaylio 6 лет назад +31

    Being alone is one of the most emptiest feelings in the world, it’s been 4 years since I had a friend. It hurts at the start but I kinda got used to it. I still wish I had someone to talk to though :/

    • @Jaylio
      @Jaylio 6 лет назад

      marboni I don’t have WhatsApp, you can add me as a contact on RUclips though youtu.be/addme/SRLbQo1lolypz0EXDx895SsbJoD6qg

    • @impossibledreams6115
      @impossibledreams6115 6 лет назад +2

      I'll be you're friend. I want to know you, got snap chat?

  • @DJ-lu7ec
    @DJ-lu7ec 8 лет назад +16

    Every word hit me like a brick, at least you have family to talk to. They have all abandoned me as well as my "friends". It's funny how people can just walk out of your life when it's at it's worst. What a great world we live in. Well hope it gets better for you and I do mean that.

  • @OnlyTeardrops84
    @OnlyTeardrops84 8 лет назад +41

    32, still living with my parents. No friends. i just go to work, eat , sleep, repeat. Hurting more and more

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  8 лет назад +5

      I'm sorry for this :( Hope things get better for you

    • @michaelbuckle2181
      @michaelbuckle2181 7 лет назад +1

      Ano Nymous Ty for the kind words. Still the same. Im staying strong while my parents are alive

    • @YKIMPetje95
      @YKIMPetje95 6 лет назад

      same however I rent a house now... If you have a ps4 we can game someday

    • @nikmuhamadizzat9903
      @nikmuhamadizzat9903 6 лет назад

      Only Teardrops im 17 hopefully i can get job collect money and travel alone maybe i can find my partner while travel

    • @davidf2763
      @davidf2763 4 года назад +1

      How are things now?

  • @highfrequency1483
    @highfrequency1483 9 лет назад +8

    To all the people that feel alone or have similar situations you are not alone theres alot of ppl friendless

  • @xermita
    @xermita 3 года назад +2

    20 yo never been in a relationship,nobody's interested in me,never had true meaningful relationship,I had one childhoid friend and she left me too,keep failing at college and repeating boring classes over and over again,I tried to find a job but my anxiety is always blocking me,i get jealous of other people and comparing myself to them,i know how unhealthy this is but hey we can't stop negative thinking so easily...

  • @loganfinnell5271
    @loganfinnell5271 8 лет назад +7

    It takes guts to say these things. I hope everything gets better for you.

  • @michauxbours
    @michauxbours Год назад +1

    I live alone & am lonely. I have just one friend but he only visits when he knows I got paid from my job. We play video games for 30 minutes, then he gets up & takes money from my wallet & leaves.

  • @marboni1579
    @marboni1579 6 лет назад +4

    you remind me of a friend i had one day...

  • @JordanRichard
    @JordanRichard 9 лет назад +14

    My stories similar :/ never had many friends and can relate to most of what u said... Hope everythings better for u now man tho

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  9 лет назад +2

      Jordie Vuitton Hey, I'm both glad and sorry you find my story relatable.. Nothing had changed really except for graduating high school and right now I'm about to join the military as the service is mandatory.. Though I strongly wish you would see better. Take care buddy.

  • @paperstreet1042
    @paperstreet1042 9 лет назад +2

    @loneangel can totally relate, parents moved me to bad school, was torture. went to university became popular, left university and moved to new city - still friendless.
    life can be so cruel, because im pretty outgoing but have no social support.
    I hope things improve for you, especially since you seem like a genuine dude.

  • @depitesenate8247
    @depitesenate8247 7 лет назад +2

    I'm going to subscribe just because of your honesty and I want your chanel to grow so you can help ppl like you are doing. but . I get it, it's good to have friends. but it's not a most. you should tell you fans that bro. stay strong. and do not worry. everything will be ight

  • @V_For_Vigilante
    @V_For_Vigilante 5 лет назад +7

    i love being a loner and u should also embrace loneliness and solitude because it takes a brave person to be a loner

  • @onlyrvre
    @onlyrvre 5 лет назад +3

    I'm going through this right now and it hurts so much , I feel very empty

    • @V_For_Vigilante
      @V_For_Vigilante 5 лет назад +1

      U should be happy u have no friends because it's peaceful anyways I love being a loner

  • @JakeBayCity
    @JakeBayCity 4 года назад +2

    I have like two close friends however we rarely see each other but we talk often. I’m afraid of getting older and having no one. My family is very small.

  • @andrewf4623
    @andrewf4623 6 лет назад +2

    Sometimes (most of the time) day to day life gets in the way of making friends ... there’s always something more important going on :(

  • @paulcooper5748
    @paulcooper5748 8 лет назад +2

    im in the same position but im older i can relate it can bring you down.

  • @ando1135
    @ando1135 6 лет назад +1

    i used to hang out with these group of guys like in middle and part of high school but they never saw me as a friend....i was just a fly on the wall. i dont know why i sat with them....i just really dont. god, i can relate. One day i was just like....no, why do i sit with these people pretending to be friends with them...so i stopped hanging around them. i was alone in HS from sophmore to senior year and it didnt bother me. I liked being alone and in my own company...at least i felt genuine. I would sit in the library during lunch to read or do hw. It all changed when i went to college...i started having friends...for real...actual people that wanted to hang out with me. of course, im alone again but the loneliness is so much more apparent now. Its been a while since ive been in college but my god does the loneliness suck. i hope you have friends now! if not, dont worry...you are NOT alone in this.

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  6 лет назад +2

      ando1135 Thank you and I’m sorry you became lonely again after finally having friends. This world does this to people and everything is so sudden, hope you find your place again

  • @theero
    @theero 8 лет назад +2

    Hey i'm currently in the same boat now. I used to have many friends, but i was real good friends with a couple of people. I kinda isolated myself from the big group and only talk to the 2 but now, one is gone to university, and i barely see anybody now.
    Hope things turn around for you, i'm trying to turn it around for me

  • @kevindavis4709
    @kevindavis4709 7 лет назад +2

    what I do is make hobbys like working on electronics or build your own radio station like I did. or do videos reaching out to people or really helps allot I'm 31 I have no friends that's why I'm good at my hobbys trust me bro high school never ends no your not in school anymore butt people's actions are still the same.

    • @marboni1579
      @marboni1579 6 лет назад

      Kevin Davis , hey man, I'm a lot like you are. I moved to other city with my wife and I have no friends too and , I don't know I'd rather to keep this way than begging for attention. Well, I thought very interesting what you said about building your own radio station, how is it possible? .

  • @millicentevans9232
    @millicentevans9232 6 лет назад

    You are never alone be strong you are a lovely guy. Keep the faith and never give up. The devil is a liar its him tell the devil to get behind you. And be happy who you are peace be with you ♥️

  • @psb258
    @psb258 8 лет назад +15

    You are so beautiful...

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  8 лет назад +3

      Awh thank you :)

  • @HelloWorld-il2pn
    @HelloWorld-il2pn 9 лет назад

    You are a interesting person, love to see videos from you!

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  9 лет назад +2

      Snow Field Thank you! :) I should have some up as soon as I find a subject to talk about :P

  • @vickielynn273
    @vickielynn273 8 лет назад +1

    I tell you... there is a difference between being alone and being lonely. Being alone is sometimes good,but but lonely is another one. If you're lonely that means you have no friends or family members to talk to. You obvivhave no social life either. It's sad,but the truth is that you can make some friends and you can find someone to talk to.

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  8 лет назад +2

      Yeah well..

  • @MrAxendersp
    @MrAxendersp 4 года назад +1

    It's time to crash in a good little church group where you will have wonderful fellowship and belonging ...good luck...

  • @meatcurtains8138
    @meatcurtains8138 3 года назад

    If handsome guys like these are lonely then we are absolutely fucked

  • @impossibledreams6115
    @impossibledreams6115 6 лет назад +1

    Order teal swans book "the anatomy of loneliness"

  • @depitesenate8247
    @depitesenate8247 7 лет назад +4

    I like your video. loll. you are honest. the truth is. you don't really need friends. believe me. I had a couple friends in high school but now I don't. I dumped a couple of them and a couple of them dumped me. and I'm cool with that. I don’t have friends now but I'm happy. sometimes I do want friends because I feel like ppl are judging me for not having friends. but yeah. as long as you learn to live with yourself. fuck everyone else.

    • @marboni1579
      @marboni1579 6 лет назад

      i wonder if you have no reason

  • @reesecenter3595
    @reesecenter3595 4 года назад +1

    Dude all you need is self confidence, everyone you meet may not like you. Im pretty sure if you find a common interest you're good

  • @manojmaity5387
    @manojmaity5387 6 лет назад +6

    hey add some more videos to your channel. I feel you

    • @marboni1579
      @marboni1579 6 лет назад +1

      hey we can talk trough whatapp if you want...don't worry i'm not a freak...

    • @manojmaity5387
      @manojmaity5387 6 лет назад

      marboni sure share no.

    • @marboni1579
      @marboni1579 6 лет назад +1

      have some experience to share with me?

    • @manojmaitydm
      @manojmaitydm 6 лет назад +1

      i am introvert, so my friends misunderstood and make fun of me. So i slowly withdrawn myself. what about you?

    • @marboni1579
      @marboni1579 6 лет назад

      are you sure you have friends?

  • @klattalexis
    @klattalexis 6 лет назад +1

    Check out this video: ruclips.net/video/diLXXZrxgIk/видео.html

  • @footballer6558
    @footballer6558 4 года назад

    I have no friends to😔😔😔😢😢😢😭😭😭😭

  • @danakitty4031
    @danakitty4031 6 лет назад

    Awww so cute

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  6 лет назад

      I like your nickname

  • @infinitechoices1641
    @infinitechoices1641 6 лет назад +1

    You just gotta find a girlfriend and you wont need them.

    • @manojmaity5387
      @manojmaity5387 6 лет назад +1

      if you don't have friends no girl will show interest :P

    • @infinitechoices1641
      @infinitechoices1641 6 лет назад +1

      Find a girl that is not addicted to social media has an amazing job and she wil not care.

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  6 лет назад +1

      You are very correct buddy.

  • @manojmaity5387
    @manojmaity5387 7 лет назад +1

    Hey, how are you??

  • @Rusty511
    @Rusty511 7 лет назад +3

    I've been losing all my friends over the last 8 years. Finally, I've come to accept it and never looked back. Get yourself a girlfriend, it makes nothing else matter

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  7 лет назад +2

      I know exactly what you mean buddy. Sorry this happened to you.

    • @starhead9648
      @starhead9648 6 лет назад +1

      LoneAngel post more plz 💗

  • @shamimataslim8528
    @shamimataslim8528 6 лет назад +4

    Why'd I care about people not giving me attention, who I don't know? Is it necessary to make relationships with stranger. Can't loneliness be a normal thing?

  • @marboni1579
    @marboni1579 6 лет назад +1

    hey you should make more videos...

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  6 лет назад +1

      marboni I might just..

  • @highfrequency1483
    @highfrequency1483 9 лет назад +1

    What you say abt the future you are in control of what happns the future is you insanity is doing the same thing expecting different results be brave & talk to people

  • @princessmissy50
    @princessmissy50 5 лет назад +1

    I am very scared for you. You are showing flat affect on your face and little emotion in your voice. I'm thinking you are depressed, and I don't like the fact that you're shutting yourself off from everyone. That room looks bare and scary. Don't sit there alone in the dark! Go to the library and study. If you see a classmate there, ask them how to use the copier or how to find a book. At school, join as many clubs as you have interest in and time for. Drama class is a great way to meet others and overcome your shyness. Do volunteer work in your community - animal shelters, running to earn money for a charity, anything. You'll meet other people with interests like yours eventually and make friends. Be a friend to make a friend!

  • @Biglnene
    @Biglnene 8 лет назад

    im your friend.

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  8 лет назад +3

      Hey thank you :)

  • @fumarate1
    @fumarate1 7 лет назад +1

    why does your voice sound very monotone?

    • @L1nkn1vy
      @L1nkn1vy 6 лет назад

      @@AV-th7uy my thoughts as well