as a 20 y/o who struggles with already feeling old and confused and overwhelmed and all the other things lol, THANK YOU for this episode!! sending so much love
The thing Alisha said about friendship is SO true.. I just turned 27 and i feel so lucky that I had no friends in high school lol because I made my absolute besties at university and in different jobs I've had and am so glad I've gotten to have amazing moments with my people and we can keep making them throughout life even if I had to wait a little longer for them!
I was having a spiral about turning 30 and my mom said "you'll be fine, when I was 30 I had three young children and I was a widow, trust me, you'll be okay" Definitely shifted my views on turning 30. 😂😂
53:58 That is the sweetest thing ever. I have never thought about doing something every year on my birthday as thank you for my mom for the intensive labor she had went through. ♡ 💐
Happy birthday girl, welcome to the 30s! 🎉 having a mature relationship is such a great experience. You start realizing life isn't a rat race and everyone really can be truly happy for each other without jealousy. I am so happy for yous !!!! 💗 💓 JUNE 28th! I am a cancer ♋️
You gave me so much hope and happiness when you said that there’s friends out there that I haven’t met you I’m still searching for my once in a lifetime friendship like yours! 💗💗
Happy b-day Alisha can't believe your 30, but your still looking gorgeous and keep up the episodes its literally the only thing that gets me through the day
I am also turning 30 this year in May! Last year I decided I had to do something special for my special birthday. Me and my entire family are going on a week long beach vacation! I've never been on a trip like this in my life and I'm so excited. I'm so glad you had an amazing trip! Happy birthday Alisha! 🥳
Listen. You have no idea how much the part where Alisha was talking about finding your friends really got to me. I just recently got excluded from my friend group, so obviously they aren’t my forever friends. So, it IS lonely. I just want to find my forever friends. 😞
My fiancé brought my ring from New York to Arizona to propose to me in September. I had no idea either but he said he was pretty much shitting his pants the entire time🤣🤣🤣
this was such a SWEET episode🤍 i literally teared up when Remi was recapping when she was about to give the ring to Alisha and what she said to her in that moment🥹 your friendship is beyond special, love you guys🫶🏼
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ALISHA!!!🎉🎉I’m a Leo and my birthday is August 22. I’m 19 going on 20 this year and I love how you talked about friendships. I moved around a lot as a kid so making friends was really hard. Now that im in college a lot of my old habits when it comes to making friends arises and I can’t seem to connect with anyone. I just end up people pleasing and I get left feeling empty. I really hope that one day I can form a relationship with someone like what you guys have.
I just turned 30 too! My mom had me really young, so I actually remember celebrating her 30th birthday 🤯 If I was my mom, I'd have an 11 year old and 9 year old by now. I can't even imagine it.
YAY! i CANNOT wait for this episode. Alisha your bday looked so fun and i’m glad you could have a proper send off into your 30’s. #alishasdirtythirty #thirtyflirtyandthriving
I felt so seen on this episode. I'm 25 and I have a lot of amazing close friends but I still feel like I haven't found my best friend yet, someone that actually gets me, and I can't help but feel like I'm running out of time
Turbulence! Same happened to me recently one a trip. Came off of that plane with a full headache and nausea. However, super thankful for the pilot, plane and safe return. 🥰
The way that you described finding your people and your genuine friends was so real. I feel like I always felt in past friendships I was being pushed to the side or was second... but recently I have found such great friends and girls that I genuinely love so much. and it is just beautiful to just see how my friends uplift one another and how we can have deep and intentional conversations! but yea I love your guys friendship so much :) it is so beautiful to see as a follower of both since my childhood! :)
Everything remi says in this podcast screams Aquarius!! (From a fellow Aquarius sun). I turned 30 in February and I had such a big breakdown about feeling like I failed at life because I haven’t got the successful career or relationship but a couple of months in I feel so much more relaxed and accepting of my own journey. Happy birthday Alisha 💜💜💜
this episode made me so emotional !!! You are one of the first creators Ive followed when I made my RUclips channel !! so proud of how far you have come !! you are SO right on the friendships things !! and Remi is the bestest friend ever she deserves to be protected at all costs🥺🥺 birthday is jan 10th, lil Capricorn over here !!
Girllllll!! My fiancé travelled with my ring to propose and he was FREAKING OUT!! Even worse, he took it out of its case and carried it in a little baggy so it wouldn’t be noticeable LOL
16:00 I went to SDSU and always reminisced about Bring It On when walking through the courtyard and hallway they filmed the “you believed in me!” scene
Time stamp 2:00 girlllll alisha if you don't get the razzles reference that means its time for you to rewatch the movie with remi ❤❤❤❤❤🎉 and then you will understand.
I'm an Aries Rising, Libra Moon, and Aries Desending. The funniest thing tho is that most of my friends are either pices, aquarius, or libras. This was such a good episode I literally cleaned my whole house while listening thank you for getting be thgought it. Also Happy 30th Birthday Alisha I hope you get everything and more that you deserve in this life. 💞
This inspires me so much this year is going to be my last year as a “teenager” my teens going on 20 the journaling thing I want to start doing and accomplish what I could before entering my 20s
Happy birthday Alisha so glad you had an amazing birthday! I wanted to say I resonated with what you said about your word of the year and what you said about friendships. Thank you so much you don’t know how much I needed to hear that! Oh and I’m taurus ♉️ my 21st birthday is April 28🤍✨
I’m 30, i’m a Sagittarius. It makes me so sad that you don’t like Sag’s 😢 Especially when they’re a perfect bestie for an Aries! Happy Birthday Alisha! 🎉
I feel like with the friend thing I’ve had a hard time staying friends with people. I’m 23 and still have the same friends from high school . And I’m like the “ goodie goodie” of the group and I’m so different from everyone like I don’t like drinking, going to the bar or the club and the friends I do have always want to go do that and I am just not like that . Like I’d rather go to brunch or go to like a food festival or literally even stay in and watch Netflix. And I also feel like my anxiety gets to me too much when I go hangout with my friends bc I feel like I need to fit in or need to drink to be “cool” . My anxiety definitely gets the best of me and doesn’t allow me to go out and do things or make new friends and it scares me to make new friends as well.
The responsibility of traveling with the ring is insane, my husband proposed to me at Disneyland- definitely weird the whole day- got on one knee and opened the box and ring was gone! 😅 ring wasn’t in the little slot and fell out when he opened it lol. I’m June 23rd CANCER ♋️.
I have two sisters that have a April 5th birthday:) and yessss I never liked when people would say I’m young or a baby when I was 19 cause I felt like an adult 😅 only 23 and I already see 19 20 21 and 22 as so young! Even the age I am now I can put less pressure on myself since I can see how young I am Sag Sun here
I'm seventeen and have already done so much (I'm a heavy machine operator, tractor mechanic, rancher, and author) but a lot of people keep saying "oh your so young and naive" or "you'll understand when your older" I get so upset thinking that they are being condescending or judgey. But I can't wait to be older and see, oh, you knew what you wanted to be but you didn't know who you were.
OKAY this episode made me feel like a fly on the wall which we love. Also the road to Hana is such a rough drive no matter what, last time I went I was pretty nauseous on the way down 🥴
My thoughts on friendship, it’s easier I think for people in LA to find their besties and friend group because people don’t typically move OUT of LA and they’re slower to settle down and have kids, etc. The hardest part about finding friends when you’re an adult in other parts of the country is that people are constantly moving, so you’ll find a best friend and your person and then in a couple years they’ll move or be at a different place in their lives.
My birthday is June 2nd, I'm a Gemini and while my birthday this year is going to be simple, I'm manifesting in four years that i will have a thirty,flirty, unbothered and thriving ❤
This is our formal apology to Libras. Also, please note that Alisha has Libra in her chart and still forgot them.
Remi is the best friend ever. she went so above and beyond
5000000%
as a 20 y/o who struggles with already feeling old and confused and overwhelmed and all the other things lol, THANK YOU for this episode!! sending so much love
So much life to live dw girl
20 is such an exciting time!!! enjoy it
LMFAO at Remi learning that she bought you a ring already. OMG dying 😂 she’s definitely a keeper lol.
she's so thoughtful she thought of it twice
@@prettybasicpodcast THE WAY I FELL OFF MY BED LAUGHING 😂😂😂
Absolutely BEAUTIFUL EPISODE. I’m turning 20 this year and I felt like Alisha was speaking to my SOUL.
Everything she said I resonated with sooo much
The thing Alisha said about friendship is SO true.. I just turned 27 and i feel so lucky that I had no friends in high school lol because I made my absolute besties at university and in different jobs I've had and am so glad I've gotten to have amazing moments with my people and we can keep making them throughout life even if I had to wait a little longer for them!
🥹🫶🏻
@@AlishaMarie ilyyy hope you had the best birthday!
I was having a spiral about turning 30 and my mom said "you'll be fine, when I was 30 I had three young children and I was a widow, trust me, you'll be okay"
Definitely shifted my views on turning 30.
😂😂
Bless your heart
Happy birthday, Alisha. This Pisces is at work, trying not to ugly cry. You two are so sweet and special. Thank you for sharing your lives!
as a libra, i am personally offended to not be included at the end but still HAPPY BDAY ALISHA 🥳🥂
I was waiting to hear libra! 😂😂
lmao same. i was waiting for it 😅😅
i had to go back and relisten bc i was like did she really forget libras lmaooo
53:58 That is the sweetest thing ever. I have never thought about doing something every year on my birthday as thank you for my mom for the intensive labor she had went through. ♡ 💐
My Wednesday is complete now another Pretty Basic episode happy belated birthday to our girl Alisha I love ALISHA and REMI
The way that you two are still so responsible with money is refreshing to hear!
Happy birthday girl, welcome to the 30s! 🎉 having a mature relationship is such a great experience. You start realizing life isn't a rat race and everyone really can be truly happy for each other without jealousy.
I am so happy for yous !!!! 💗 💓
JUNE 28th! I am a cancer ♋️
You gave me so much hope and happiness when you said that there’s friends out there that I haven’t met you I’m still searching for my once in a lifetime friendship like yours! 💗💗
the conversation about friendships & finding ur people was very needed!! also feb. 11th, aquarius gang 🤪🫶🏾
im 27 and still waiting for a bestie, thank you for the speech lisha
Happy b-day Alisha can't believe your 30, but your still looking gorgeous and keep up the episodes its literally the only thing that gets me through the day
Remi your hair is giving 😍😍😍
Not Alisha forgetting Libras 😂❤
Remi needs this glam team more cause OMFG? too goof the girlies look so fucking good todayyy
Happy Birthday Alisha!!! So happy for you and it sounds like y’all had the best time in Maui. Cheers to you as you enter this new decade! 🎉❤
I am also turning 30 this year in May! Last year I decided I had to do something special for my special birthday. Me and my entire family are going on a week long beach vacation! I've never been on a trip like this in my life and I'm so excited. I'm so glad you had an amazing trip! Happy birthday Alisha! 🥳
Remi is so thoughtful wow she went above and beyond!!
Never been this fast
HAPPY BIRTHDAY QUEEN ❤❤ I’ve been watching you for 6years now and I’m so proud of the women you become. Love you 😘
Beat way to start my morning! Love you guys! Happy birthday!!
Listen. You have no idea how much the part where Alisha was talking about finding your friends really got to me. I just recently got excluded from my friend group, so obviously they aren’t my forever friends. So, it IS lonely. I just want to find my forever friends. 😞
all the recently 30 girlies are FEELING this one 🙋🏼♀️ loved the talk!!! happy birthday!!!
So glad Alisha had the best birthday!🥳💜 I am a Scorpio sun & moon and a Taurus rising!!!🦋🖤🌧️
My fiancé brought my ring from New York to Arizona to propose to me in September. I had no idea either but he said he was pretty much shitting his pants the entire time🤣🤣🤣
CONGRATS
Remi, the phenomenon you’re talking about at approximately 20:20 is called sonder. It happens to me most when I’m on vaca!
this was such a SWEET episode🤍 i literally teared up when Remi was recapping when she was about to give the ring to Alisha and what she said to her in that moment🥹 your friendship is beyond special, love you guys🫶🏼
So excited for this pod! Loved the vlogs 🌸🌺
You guys definitely have to talk about what happened with MissTiffanyma!! We need all the TEAAA
wait what happened?
Excuse me, but Remi's HAIR 🔥 absolutely stunning!!
Omg I needed this morning energy thank you 🎉
“I thought I hit my happy threshold, but there is so much more room to be happy” awwww
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ALISHA!!!🎉🎉I’m a Leo and my birthday is August 22. I’m 19 going on 20 this year and I love how you talked about friendships. I moved around a lot as a kid so making friends was really hard. Now that im in college a lot of my old habits when it comes to making friends arises and I can’t seem to connect with anyone. I just end up people pleasing and I get left feeling empty. I really hope that one day I can form a relationship with someone like what you guys have.
I paused the video to go check how much the suite is. *shocked* and continued video lol
I just turned 30 too! My mom had me really young, so I actually remember celebrating her 30th birthday 🤯 If I was my mom, I'd have an 11 year old and 9 year old by now. I can't even imagine it.
Y'all should have Dani from Cimorelli on the podcast! I feel like she would be a great guest
I wonder what they’d all have in common.
YAY! i CANNOT wait for this episode. Alisha your bday looked so fun and i’m glad you could have a proper send off into your 30’s. #alishasdirtythirty #thirtyflirtyandthriving
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊p😊ppppppp
I felt so seen on this episode. I'm 25 and I have a lot of amazing close friends but I still feel like I haven't found my best friend yet, someone that actually gets me, and I can't help but feel like I'm running out of time
I used to journal as a coping method, but after hearing Alisha I’m inspired to start doing it more so I can look back!
AHHHHH BEEN WAITING FOR THE TEAAAAA!
Turbulence! Same happened to me recently one a trip. Came off of that plane with a full headache and nausea. However, super thankful for the pilot, plane and safe return. 🥰
Happy Birthday Alisha !💖
The way that you described finding your people and your genuine friends was so real. I feel like I always felt in past friendships I was being pushed to the side or was second... but recently I have found such great friends and girls that I genuinely love so much. and it is just beautiful to just see how my friends uplift one another and how we can have deep and intentional conversations! but yea I love your guys friendship so much :) it is so beautiful to see as a follower of both since my childhood! :)
I stayed at the Four Seasons Maui like 10 years ago, that resort is insaneee
Everything remi says in this podcast screams Aquarius!! (From a fellow Aquarius sun). I turned 30 in February and I had such a big breakdown about feeling like I failed at life because I haven’t got the successful career or relationship but a couple of months in I feel so much more relaxed and accepting of my own journey. Happy birthday Alisha 💜💜💜
I thought I remembered a vlog with the remi getting alisha the before ring that’s so funny
April 27th Taurus 🥳
Happy Birthday April Babies 💞
Happy belated birthday Alisha!! I love waking up and starting my mornings with Pretty Basic. My birthday is February 24th, Pisces gannnnng 💘
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ALISHA 🌺💜
Alisha looks amazing! LOL
This is what I was waiting for patiently ❤❤ Love you both so much 🥰😍
Happy Birthday from one Aries to another. 🔥♈️🤍
Loved this episode! So glad you guys had the best time. ❤
listening to the part where Remi is giving Alisha the ring and it really sounded like you were about to propose LMAOOAOAO
I loved this episode so much! Your whole friend group is so amazing and I always love hearing about them 🥰
14th of April so happy birthday to me. I Love your podcast and your birthday trip looked amazing.
happy birthday alisha!!! thirty is going to be such a fun year and decade for you!! ❤❤❤🎉🎉
April 1st birthday here. Aries❤
I loved this episode! Loved hearing about your friendship. It’s so sweet. Happy Birthday Alisha!
I would of died if I saw Mindy, I love her so much
I Am A Leo. This is very entertaining to watch. Happy birthday Alisha. Sending lots of love from nz 🎉❤
this episode made me so emotional !!! You are one of the first creators Ive followed when I made my RUclips channel !! so proud of how far you have come !! you are SO right on the friendships things !! and Remi is the bestest friend ever she deserves to be protected at all costs🥺🥺 birthday is jan 10th, lil Capricorn over here !!
Girllllll!! My fiancé travelled with my ring to propose and he was FREAKING OUT!! Even worse, he took it out of its case and carried it in a little baggy so it wouldn’t be noticeable LOL
16:00 I went to SDSU and always reminisced about Bring It On when walking through the courtyard and hallway they filmed the “you believed in me!” scene
Can you do an episode with Mia and Lauren doing truth or drink ❤❤
Time stamp 2:00 girlllll alisha if you don't get the razzles reference that means its time for you to rewatch the movie with remi ❤❤❤❤❤🎉 and then you will understand.
I’m a cancer ♋️ I love yallllllll❤
Happy bday Alisha !!
I'm an Aries Rising, Libra Moon, and Aries Desending. The funniest thing tho is that most of my friends are either pices, aquarius, or libras. This was such a good episode I literally cleaned my whole house while listening thank you for getting be thgought it. Also Happy 30th Birthday Alisha I hope you get everything and more that you deserve in this life. 💞
This inspires me so much this year is going to be my last year as a “teenager” my teens going on 20 the journaling thing I want to start doing and accomplish what I could before entering my 20s
Remi! Your makeup looks gorgeous!
Wow Alisha what a beautiful story ✨♥️🥹 very inspirational happy 30th bday 🎂🐝🌺
Xoxo Virgo ♍️ girlie 🥰🫶🏼
Everyone always forgets the libras 😩 but happy birthday queen💓
Remi bff proposing is so sweet
i love turbulance too
Happy birthday Alisha! My husbands birthday is 4/5 too! Mine is 8/21 I’m a Leo. 🔥🔥 signs over here lol
Happy birthday Alisha I love you so much
What a good episode!!
APRIL 5th BABY HERE TOO 😘🥂🎉
Happy birthday Alisha so glad you had an amazing birthday! I wanted to say I resonated with what you said about your word of the year and what you said about friendships. Thank you so much you don’t know how much I needed to hear that! Oh and I’m taurus ♉️ my 21st birthday is April 28🤍✨
Can you do another episode with Lauren and Jeremy but doing Truth or Drink❤❤
I’m a very stereotypical aries 😂 Happy birthday, Alisha!!! my birthday is also April 5th so we’re bday twins 🥹🖤
Happy Birthday Alisha! 💕 I'm a pieces and my birthday was on March 17, St. Patty's day ☘️
I’m 30, i’m a Sagittarius. It makes me so sad that you don’t like Sag’s 😢 Especially when they’re a perfect bestie for an Aries! Happy Birthday Alisha! 🎉
I feel like with the friend thing I’ve had a hard time staying friends with people. I’m 23 and still have the same friends from high school . And I’m like the “ goodie goodie” of the group and I’m so different from everyone like I don’t like drinking, going to the bar or the club and the friends I do have always want to go do that and I am just not like that . Like I’d rather go to brunch or go to like a food festival or literally even stay in and watch Netflix. And I also feel like my anxiety gets to me too much when I go hangout with my friends bc I feel like I need to fit in or need to drink to be “cool” . My anxiety definitely gets the best of me and doesn’t allow me to go out and do things or make new friends and it scares me to make new friends as well.
The responsibility of traveling with the ring is insane, my husband proposed to me at Disneyland- definitely weird the whole day- got on one knee and opened the box and ring was gone! 😅 ring wasn’t in the little slot and fell out when he opened it lol. I’m June 23rd CANCER ♋️.
I have two sisters that have a April 5th birthday:) and yessss I never liked when people would say I’m young or a baby when I was 19 cause I felt like an adult 😅 only 23 and I already see 19 20 21 and 22 as so young! Even the age I am now I can put less pressure on myself since I can see how young I am
Sag Sun here
I'm seventeen and have already done so much (I'm a heavy machine operator, tractor mechanic, rancher, and author) but a lot of people keep saying "oh your so young and naive" or "you'll understand when your older" I get so upset thinking that they are being condescending or judgey. But I can't wait to be older and see, oh, you knew what you wanted to be but you didn't know who you were.
Aries over here ... Bday incoming in a weeks time 🥳 happy bday Alicia 🎉
Happy birthday miss Alisha Marie I’m living the hair
I GASPED WHEN YOU SAID MINDY! I cannot believe
Ooouf , felt this chat about friendships ❤️
OKAY this episode made me feel like a fly on the wall which we love. Also the road to Hana is such a rough drive no matter what, last time I went I was pretty nauseous on the way down 🥴
My thoughts on friendship, it’s easier I think for people in LA to find their besties and friend group because people don’t typically move OUT of LA and they’re slower to settle down and have kids, etc.
The hardest part about finding friends when you’re an adult in other parts of the country is that people are constantly moving, so you’ll find a best friend and your person and then in a couple years they’ll move or be at a different place in their lives.
My birthday is June 2nd, I'm a Gemini and while my birthday this year is going to be simple, I'm manifesting in four years that i will have a thirty,flirty, unbothered and thriving ❤
happy dirty 30!!!! 🎉💙
Not forgetting the libras dang! I feel left out 😂😂
I’m such a REMI!!! I cannot go somewhere without a plan! Lol