The "Millionaire Next Door" book tells us most great business people failed in the first business. They succeeded in something new like hamburgers (Wendys), books (Amazon), etc. Find a niche, like a food product, your cosmetic or Real Estate New Home sales, or whatever else you love, and you will succeed.
Agreed!!! You seemed so much happier and I really enjoyed watching your videos then. Things changed and you changed. We miss the cheerier you!!! Bigger isn't always better.
I tried a startup in 2022 and went through a ton of money. Working to pay off all of the debt I incurred. Entrepreneurs are the bravest people in the world. Never give up on your dreams. Wishing you all the best!
Lindey, I was crying through your whole video because we owned a restaurant (small) that my husband and I dreamed of all of our married life. But we chose to wait till our kids were older and then we could concentrate on just the business. ( this was just our choice) We finally got to that day where we opened up and I had so many ideas on how to make this place great. I loved having my own business. But as time went on it just wasn't working and we had to close. Listening and watching you today I felt your saddness right through to your heart, and know exactly how you feel. All of my feelings watching you came back. I kept thinking, did I do everything, did I try enough new things to bring them in. I used all of my pension and money. This happened 10 years ago and I still question myself. Your a very smart girl Lindey , and your future will be bright. God Bless you and your family!
I have a bachelor's degree in Hotel/Restaurant mgmt, and have worked everything from fine dining in L.A. to corp chains in the midwest, to mom & pop in Phx suburbs. By far, the hardest was the mom & pop. Brutal. You probably did everything right... sometimes it really is a crap shoot. Sorry to hear.
The hole in your heart comes when you keep asking your self "what else could I have done" but knowing your really did it all. So sorry Lindey and thanks Scott
I read your story and it wasn't working because something was wrong you were doing something right. Perhaps you were the wrong location perhaps you didn't have enough parking perhaps you didn't have the right advertiser there's a lot to consider. If your dream is to make a successful business work then you can do that! Have you ever tried to try it again and hiring somebody to help you? I love to help people with their businesses that are failing. If you ever need help look me up much love and luck to you
@@fifitis03we owned four so we know what you guys are feeling like and what you guys went through the key is persistence and not giving up I've learned a lot from my experiences of owning several businesses and yes it's not easy.
I'm 78 years old and went through a lot of things in my life. Just to let you know things will get much better in the future. Love you so don't give up Charlie
Actually we live in a world where things will not get better. If you can’t see the chaos this world is in I can’t fathom as to why. It’s not being negative, it’s being a realist.
@@carltonthepug you can be a realist all you want. That’s on you. Staying positive is always a good thing to always have . Keep the negative crap out where it belongs
Your honesty, vulnerability and transparency is admirable. Thank you sharing your real life journey...the incredible highs and the very painful lows. You are a warrior...you will rise from this journey a victor! All the best to you, Lindey. You and your family deserve all the success in the world!
I know how hard this has been, but I think now you'll be able to move on and put this chapter behind you. On to better things!!! One door closes, a new one opens.
I know how long you dreamed of having a store. You did it. You put your all into it. You didn’t fail. You learned. Now you can take a breather. I’m sure you be on to the next adventure in no time. Can’t wait to see what you do next. ❤
You definitely made the right decision. I have always thought of getting a store front but I have watched you and a few others struggle with them. Last year, I found that having a HUGE SALE once a month in my own garage and driveway works great. Don't let people get you down - MOST PEOPLE SUCK!!
I closed my Ebay, Posh store this year and got rid of all of my merchandise. I feel your pain. I felt like I was losing a piece of me. I felt so much disappointment and like a failure. I still think about going back but my rock of a husband keeps me sane. It is bittersweet. Now I work fulltime and try to not think about it but it will always be a part of me. Some things are just out of control and its no reflection on you or anything you did. We live in a very uncertain world right now. Everything will be OK!
People don’t have any money at the moment. I live in Western Australia and we have the same problems with businesses closing, slow sales and people whinging about the silliest stuff. I feel like anything we do is never good enough. Ever since Covid, the world has changed. Keep smiling and I’m sure you’ll find a way to move forward successfully. You’re a smart, competent lady and we all believe in you. Good luck 😊
I had to close my home and garden store 12 years ago. It was brutal. I empathize with your pain and sadness. It was hard to close but I made the right decision and recovered. I learned so much from the experience and it has helped me with everything I’ve done since, Wishing you peace.
I'm so sorry. Going through same thing...packing up our storefront we have had since 1974 as I listen to you. I've tried it all too. We are small town America here ..2020 destroyed us. I'm a senior, seen a lot of changes..but great things will come. Sending you hugs and love.
My parents lost everything selling Amway back in the 70's. Our home was flooded and all product ruined! They rebuilt themselves back up. You can do this! We are all here to support you.
Oh my girl. I started seeing you as a very confident strong woman. You now look like me when I was down the worse. I had a near death experience and realize what is important. You and your family are important. You need to recoup. Take time you need. You don’t owe anyone anything. You are so beautiful and special. You are great as you are. Be kind to yourself. We love you.
It’s a clear reflection of what’s going on in the economy. People are struggling. This is a problem all over America and a lot of stores have had to close. Even big stores like Target.. When the economy recovers, you can start again. Just a bump in the road. It’s not over.
Lindey - Do yourself a favor. Take a photo of the empty store and where your store sign used to be. Frame the photos and put them in your new workspace. It will inspire you to greater things. I had a few small collectibles stores years back that weren’t successful. It didn’t stop me from trying something else. When I looked at my photos, it reminds me of where I’ve been and what it took to get where I am. Like my dad used to say; “If it was easy, then you wouldn’t have remembered the journey.”
So sorry. I could never deal with the locals I absolutely hate dealing with people face to face and why I only sell online. At least you tried and learned most won’t even try.
You are the first person I ever watched on RUclips I learned so much and no matter what wins or losses... You have accomplished so much Take care of yourself I know whatever you decide to do you will do great. Rest and take care of yourself.
This is a blessing. Rest up, and when you’re ready, on to the next. This chapter is closing, yes, but see this as a weight being lifted. You got this!!
My sister has her own successful marketing business, BUT she basically has zero retirement money. Sometimes it’s just not worth it. You did it but now you can move on to something new. I wish you the best. You are the one who helped me get started. ❤️
Oh lindey, I remember the moment I walked out the door of my business. I share in your heartbreak. It will be a while before you feel some relief to have it all behind you. You are going to do great things, lindey!❤
Lindey, you made it big online. I think someone upstairs 🙏 is saying you need to go back to just online. Love watching your videos. You helped and motivated me to start selling. I can’t thank you enough. ❤️🙏
I sympathize. I'm in my 42nd year in the retail business and the last three years have been horrible. (I also had a better summer than winter last year! First time ever.) I think that (A) people don't have money to spend and (B) the last two generations just don't want to own stuff anymore. I'll be all right because my expenses are under control - But I'm working 12-14 hours a day to make much less than a minimum wage worker.
Word to the wise/word to anyone opening up any kind of retail store... to cut down on "blatant" shopliftng "always" put the checkout counter by the front door & always (always) set up a couple cameras by the front door as well & if you can't afford cameras, at the very least, install fake cameras!
Sorry to hear the store closed down but you are one of the best in the reselling community, one of the first I started watching on RUclips. I know you will bounce back better than ever. Enjoy a nice break and I look forward to how you pivot to future ventures.
Take a break and take care of yourself and your mental health. You also don’t owe it to anyone to come back. Come back when and if you are ready. Your mental health is the most important thing.
but imagine if that person lost her money too? everyone is trying to scam or dupe u even grocery stores are purposely mixing bad inedible sht with the edible stuff. they put crap on bottom and good stuff on top humans are a horrible species 🤣
Bless your heart girl! You’re smart! The smart thing is closing when you need to instead of waiting until it’s too late! Something bigger is coming to you guys! Much love and admiration! Keep going!
Time to explore a new direction!! I sell at an antique vintage store. It is the third store I have been in. It took me a while to find a good fit. First store bounced payout checks, second store limited me and I was not making money. The third store was well established friendly, well organized, and I had freedom to fill my booth with what ever I wanted.
Lindey, I think it’s also fair to say that customers and just people in general are ruder and more self- righteous than ever before. The behaviors and attitudes you encountered are way too common now, I’m not exactly sure why, but it is what it is and it sucks. It really does. I hope you take the time to find your peace and what you will do next. Your videos have helped me so much, and you have so much to offer! The sky is the limit!! ❤
My opinion that type of concept store is a fad/novelty, hard to compete with dollar stores. Around where I live Florida, all bin stores are also closing. You are a great business woman just keep ebay and whatnot... Less stress!!
You know I’m wondering how many one town can have. I’ve seen a dozen bin stores pop up around Tulsa in the past couple of years. But who can afford to buy random crap anymore ?
I have never had a store, or have taken as big of loss as you are going through. I can't even say that my situation is as bad as your is. However, you are a fighter and fighter's don't just quit. You will be back, you need time to regroup. Spend time with your family, sit in what sunshine you have, take deep breathes and enjoy yourself. Do not worry about your next step it will come to you. My husband and I are struggling right now financially and the one thing I know is we have each other's back. You and your family does also. Hang in there, that smile will come back, she just needs a rest.
You did more and took more chances than most resellers. You have learned and taught a lot. Mourn a little than get back to looking forward. Whatever you choose,be happy. You deserve it.
I’m sorry, Lindey You are still an inspiration to so many of us. Without you, I never would have known how to even begin to start our eBay store. My son and I run it together. He watched this video as well. We’re both sending you love and prayer’s. We hope you will take all the time you need to rest and recover. Do something you enjoy, or simply sleep in once in awhile. Rest up!!! Who knows… maybe one day, we will all be sitting at our table and (Listing with Lindey) again. Grabbing our beverages, chatting and enjoying the moment. Take care, sweet lady! “Every little thing is gonna be alright “. ❤️
You have worked sooo hard, Lindey. I'm so sorry this has happened. The pain you're feeling is palpable through the screen. You haven't failed..other people failed you. You definitely made the right decision. You're gonna come back stronger than ever, girl. You got this!!
Lindey, WE LOVE YOU! No matter what you're doing, we will support you! I hope you have a nice break from everything and we will be here when you come back. I and most of us, are ready to support whatever your next adventure is!!!
Wise decision. You're not the first store owner to close. This opens the door to your next great thing! Onward and upward! You've inspired many. Blessings!🎉
You rock and so does your husband and children. You all took the journey together and you're still together. We really appreciate your honesty concerning the business and allowing us on the journey with you. Please take all the time that you need to regroup because we know without any doubt that you'll come back much stronger. We love you and take care of yourself.
Take a step back, you will come back stronger and better than ever! This reselling thing is an ever-changing livelihood. I just went on a job interview today. I've been a full-time reseller since 2021 part-time since 2016. My sales since June have been the worst I have ever had. You do what you got to do to take care of the ones you love!
Sometimes you just have to cut your losses and move on. It amazes me what jerks people can be. You made the right choice. It’s always hard when a dream dies. You are a strong person. You have a wonderful family. You will go on and be even better. 🥰🇨🇦
We all love you Lindey, and we all know you'll rise from this. You should feel really proud of yourself, most of us only dream of having a store, You did it! I think many factors outside of your control, was what closed your store down. Your smart, very fricken smart, you'll figure your new path and adventure out. So rest up, dust yourself off, and I'm confident you'll come out swinging again being the entrepreneur that you are, and there's more successes your gonna have moving forwards. Hooah! 👊😎👊
Sending you love ❤ Your transparency and sharing your journey shows how AMAZING you are!!! This is not a failure it's a stepping stone!!! People like you can't lose!!! You are a WINNER!
One of the hardest decisions ever is to know when it’s time to close a business that was profitable but now is not. We feel you - very very hard! You previously said you learned a lot and still have more ideas so I think you will recover & land on your feet in the end ❤❤❤❤❤
You did everything, people are jerks!!! LOL Heads up you have so much wealth of knowledge now to take you into your next adventure. Never stop learning and never stop smiling, you are awesome and I wish you all the best!!! Cheers!
I’m saddened by your loss. You’re inspiring and based on all the years I’ve watched your channel; I know you will overcome this and I can’t wait to watch your future blossom after this chapter. God bless
Hey you gave it a go & you succeeded because you tried! You will rebound & cannot wait to see you back selling on Ebay & watching more of you on YT. We sure have missed all the content that you used to put on YT. Girl, you got this 💪🏻
So sorry, Lindsay. You did all you could. Take time to heal. You’ll regroup and hopefully you’ll feel tons lighter without this pressure on you and your family. The store is something you did; not who you are. We’ll be here to support you on your next adventure!
Dear Lindey, My husband and I went through loosing a store and it was so hard! I have been there and know how it feels. Hang in there sweetie! You will get through this. Sending you lots of love and hugs! 🤗
You are not the first person going through this, and you will not be the last. You can handle this, in your own way. Just subscribed to your channel, I want to see your new chapter. 😊
Love you Lindey! You're such an inspiration! I know exactly how you feel!! That heartache of closing a business that u worked so hard to build. And the bitter sweet feeling mixed with hurt yet relief! I had to shut my business of 16 years down after covid hit. But God doesnt close a door without opening a window! It'll get better I promise. The scare on your heart will always remain however the pain will eventually subside and happiness will return. This will only make u stronger and wiser! Goodluck and looking forward to following you into your next chapter girly! ❤
I’ve been with you since the beginning, when you first found out when you were renovating this place to open that the air-conditioning units didn’t work on the roof if I remember correctly. it’s been one thing after another which is very sad.
I have the most deepest respect of your experience at of thinking outside the box. Some people never even attempt to try. You were all in. I am so proud of you, This was a learning experience. Because I continue to learn from you Every time you post a video You are a your wife a wonderful Lady, and your husband a Wonderful Gentleman.
Things in the retail or brick and mortar store world have gone downhill so quickly these last few years. The theft alone is mind blowing. I had to close a small business I had opened last year this past week. It definitely stings so I feel your pain. You are so resilient, and I can’t wait to see what you do going forward! 💜💜💜
Shouldn’t be surprised with people walking out. They’re walking into Macy’s, Nordstrom’s, even Dollar General filling up carts and walking out loading them in their trunk and driving off.
@@lillyvgutierrez9685 these thieves are doing it everywhere from the streets of Manhattan to the shopping malls in California. they don’t care because the police are told not to arrest them by this administration. That thinks it’s OK to vandalize other peoples property. Next it will be your homes.
I had a fail biz before pandemic, i understand you feelings. Surround yourself by love ones, one thing that help me is that you only fail if you stop. Learn from this and move on to better things. I relaunch my biz as a side hustle and now i am making way more. Take a few weeks to reset
Hi Lindy, PGH pics here. you gave it a shot girl most people are too scared to do what you did. You should be proud of yourself. time to regroup and move onto the next. Wish you nothing but the best in your future endeavors. Family always comes first GURL.
I’m so so sorry! I feel your emotions through this video. I’m sending you the biggest hug possible! You are a good business woman. This was all things out of your control. You will bounce back even bigger and better. Have a good relaxing break and regroup Send love. ❤❤❤❤
Dear Lindey, Just want to say that it does not matter to me how many setbacks you have, have had, or will have; I will always look up to you because it shows that YOU HAVE GUTS! Period! Not many people will ever have this type of experience whether great or awful. Get up, Lindey! We look forward to your next adventure! Peace, Karli 🫶🏻💞🌟🎬
I'm sorry you are going through this, you don't deserve any of it, especially how your customers have been treating you. Here's to a brighter future doing something else you love ❤
You’re so honest ,genuine and sweet. Good things are coming your way, another window will open and you’ll be where you need to be. You’re amazing and just know that …nobody you care about has died so you are going to be 👍 I think you should just focus on RUclips once you are a bit more settled . You are more than the sum of all the bad you’ve experienced. I respect you.
I’ve been watching your videos since I started my eBay store back up in 2020 and I really feel like you’ve become a true friend. Getting your updates on what’s going on with you, etc. Even though you don’t know me, I watch and listen to you while I’m working and sometimes I even respond! 😅 I hate to see this whole situation bring you pain. Brick and mortar is no joke. There are so many factors that need to be just right and sometimes, even then it doesn’t work out. So many variables. I hope you take this time to simplify and self care. I know you probably can’t spend the money, but get yourself a spa treatment or massage or something. They have smash rooms in my area where you can rent a room full of breakable things and sledgehammer it all to death. Very gratifying. 😉 I hope you do something that makes you feel refreshed and new. Your channel peeps love you! ❤
I just need to say something. Dear, You are a fighter and always going to be. Put this experience as a learning and you going to be just fine. I went through this once and I am so glad that is over. Move on to the next chapter. God be with you.
I know what happened is verrrry painful!! I’ve watched you from when you worked from home with your coffee and when you opened your store and now your store closure. Take time to work through this pain, but in time it will pass and the lessons learned will strengthen you. Take this much needed time to rest, recapture your fire and enjoy time with your family. All any of us can do is to do our best….and you did!!!! I look forward to seeing you back online when you are ready.
Really sorry to see the closure of your business. I wish the general public understood how much heart and soul goes into creating a business, but judging by your final day's trading, your customers obviously don't. You deserve better. Good luck with your next venture.
I Wish you the Very Best! I too Started Over, and Now Im Getting Close to my Peak, and I should have my Best year Ever! Ive learned from my mistakes, and work hard Daily, STAY POSITIVE BEAUTIFUL! YOU GOT THIS!
You got a ton of guts. Good luck. I have four kids in their early twenties and every day when they went to school and every time I talk to them now, I tell them "do your best. And that's all you can do." You're going to do awesome you're smart hard-working .I've learned Lots from your videos thank you
I gotta tell you this is one of the most motivating videos I could have watched. It scares me, and will push me to work harder and smarter if I can…It’s reality. There are no easy decisions when you run your own small business. Only sacrifices…Sometimes letting go, no matter how painful, IS the only way forward…. Here’s to wishing you and your family the BEST going forward
I was so sad watching this video. I felt your tears through the screen. I hope that you find something new to do soon to get through this big bump in your family's life. *hugs*
I know it seems difficult now, but some day you will look back and laugh at it all. You have more guts than most of us opening a physical store. You should be proud of yourself. :) You are a class act Lindey!
When I tell you I understand I really do. This happened to me last year. I grieved the loss of my store. It broke my heart. My customers loved it but the problem is the blood suckers. The landlord, the city, the county, the state, the banks. I went fully back online and though it was hard I regained my peace and now I don't have to worry about giving all my money to those blood suckers and I can use what I make to invest in advertising and different products ones we know sell best. That's the thing I learned what works and what doesn't. What my customers will buy what they won't. I learned so much but with the way small retailers are treated where I am I will never open another physical store again.
You made the right choice, I had to do the same to sell my dad's store off. Honestly, I think it was your product, mainly. It appeared to be mostly things that take up space and make a mess. You'll be alright, just keep pushing ahead. Good luck
You tried something that most people are too frightened to even attempt, much respect to you.
i strongly doubt your supposed respect is going to even so much as make a dent
I agree! If I had the change to do what you did I wouldn't do it. I rather sell at home.
Good luck. It's hard doing retail.
The "Millionaire Next Door" book tells us most great business people failed in the first business. They succeeded in something new like hamburgers (Wendys), books (Amazon), etc. Find a niche, like a food product, your cosmetic or Real Estate New Home sales, or whatever else you love, and you will succeed.
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You have your health, your marriage, your family, and you walked away and paid off the lease. You won!!
Great 👍 go to your new business or enjoy your time off
Seriously !!! Dig wide, not deep.
We miss you so much, but enjoy your family. You are so amazing
How is this a win. The greedy landlord got away charging excessive rent. Best to walk away and not pay the rent.
Uh no it’s a loss not a win.
Don’t sugarcoat it.
It’s reality
You were happy shipping stuff in your basement at one time. Do what made you happy.
I was going to say the same thing..
I agree!
Agreed!
Agreed!!! You seemed so much happier and I really enjoyed watching your videos then. Things changed and you changed. We miss the cheerier you!!! Bigger isn't always better.
yep 100%!
I tried a startup in 2022 and went through a ton of money. Working to pay off all of the debt I incurred. Entrepreneurs are the bravest people in the world. Never give up on your dreams. Wishing you all the best!
Lindey, I was crying through your whole video because we owned a restaurant (small) that my husband and I dreamed of all of our married life. But we chose to wait till our kids were older and then we could concentrate on just the business. ( this was just our choice) We finally got to that day where we opened up and I had so many ideas on how to make this place great. I loved having my own business. But as time went on it just wasn't working and we had to close. Listening and watching you today I felt your saddness right through to your heart, and know exactly how you feel. All of my feelings watching you came back. I kept thinking, did I do everything, did I try enough new things to bring them in. I used all of my pension and money. This happened 10 years ago and I still question myself. Your a very smart girl Lindey , and your future will be bright. God Bless you and your family!
The same thing happened to my husband and I, the restaurant business is the hardest.
I have a bachelor's degree in Hotel/Restaurant mgmt, and have worked everything from fine dining in L.A. to corp chains in the midwest, to mom & pop in Phx suburbs. By far, the hardest was the mom & pop. Brutal. You probably did everything right... sometimes it really is a crap shoot. Sorry to hear.
The hole in your heart comes when you keep asking your self "what else could I have done" but knowing your really did it all. So sorry Lindey and thanks Scott
I read your story and it wasn't working because something was wrong you were doing something right. Perhaps you were the wrong location perhaps you didn't have enough parking perhaps you didn't have the right advertiser there's a lot to consider. If your dream is to make a successful business work then you can do that! Have you ever tried to try it again and hiring somebody to help you? I love to help people with their businesses that are failing. If you ever need help look me up much love and luck to you
@@fifitis03we owned four so we know what you guys are feeling like and what you guys went through the key is persistence and not giving up I've learned a lot from my experiences of owning several businesses and yes it's not easy.
That’s why malls are closing all over the country. No shame in recognizing brick and mortar owners have come to realize.
Yeah mostly because of looting. I live in Oakland California and I can testify why are stores closing city block by city block.
It's a wise business person that understands when to shut down a business. Don't consider an end; it's the beginning.
Amen!
Did u read that off a fortune cookie??
this is one of those I TOLD YOU SO moments from a conspiracy researcher of over 34 years . . . .. take it as it comes .
Persitance goes bad if you're losing money and can't turn it around.
I'm 78 years old and went through a lot of things in my life. Just to let you know things will get much better in the future. Love you so don't give up Charlie
Actually we live in a world where things will not get better. If you can’t see the chaos this world is in I can’t fathom as to why.
It’s not being negative, it’s being a realist.
@@carltonthepug you can be a realist all you want. That’s on you. Staying positive is always a good thing to always have . Keep the negative crap out where it belongs
@@carltonthepug Not true! ☝️World is going to be a better place! Blessings 🙏🕊️🌟
So many do a midnight dash. Taxes, all of them, forces you out.
Charlie is the man!
Your honesty, vulnerability and transparency is admirable. Thank you sharing your real life journey...the incredible highs and the very painful lows. You are a warrior...you will rise from this journey a victor! All the best to you, Lindey. You and your family deserve all the success in the world!
I know how hard this has been, but I think now you'll be able to move on and put this chapter behind you. On to better things!!! One door closes, a new one opens.
That woman that walked out without paying, what a complete loser.
I hope someone recognizes her.
She'll gets what She deserves
Looked like a Biden Supporter. Surprised she wasn't wearing a mask!
They needed a employee on the door
@@Drkbardockssj They are closing already.
I know how long you dreamed of having a store. You did it. You put your all into it. You didn’t fail. You learned. Now you can take a breather. I’m sure you be on to the next adventure in no time. Can’t wait to see what you do next. ❤
Amen, well said
Brick and mortar is officially dead.
Beautiful comment ❤
@@johndough23 brick and mortar isn’t dead. Selling used and untested trash to people is dead
You definitely made the right decision. I have always thought of getting a store front but I have watched you and a few others struggle with them. Last year, I found that having a HUGE SALE once a month in my own garage and driveway works great. Don't let people get you down - MOST PEOPLE SUCK!!
fLEA Markets work great too.....cheap spaces and you're usually packing up by 2:00PM. I"ve got rid of tons of stuff at the fleas.
I closed my Ebay, Posh store this year and got rid of all of my merchandise. I feel your pain. I felt like I was losing a piece of me. I felt so much disappointment and like a failure. I still think about going back but my rock of a husband keeps me sane. It is bittersweet. Now I work fulltime and try to not think about it but it will always be a part of me. Some things are just out of control and its no reflection on you or anything you did. We live in a very uncertain world right now. Everything will be OK!
Why did you decide to close?
That's where I am rn. Selling is oversaturated, and I don't have the time to focus on it anymore. 😢
Yeah I closed my eBay. I just wasn’t happy selling anymore. Glad it’s gone 😊
I’m in the same boat going thru a divorce currently and thinking about just ending my eBay store it’s not fun anymore.
@@oliviaroseQGTMmost resellers aren’t willing to admit how saturated reselling has gotten.
People don’t have any money at the moment. I live in Western Australia and we have the same problems with businesses closing, slow sales and people whinging about the silliest stuff. I feel like anything we do is never good enough. Ever since Covid, the world has changed. Keep smiling and I’m sure you’ll find a way to move forward successfully. You’re a smart, competent lady and we all believe in you. Good luck 😊
I had to close my home and garden store 12 years ago. It was brutal. I empathize with your pain and sadness. It was hard to close but I made the right decision and recovered. I learned so much from the experience and it has helped me with everything I’ve done since, Wishing you peace.
Lindey you went down swinging. Most people wouldn't have done what you did. You're a strong person. ❤
I'm so sorry. Going through same thing...packing up our storefront we have had since 1974 as I listen to you. I've tried it all too. We are small town America here ..2020 destroyed us. I'm a senior, seen a lot of changes..but great things will come. Sending you hugs and love.
Exactly. We lost several good stores and restaurants in our area due to the covid lockdowns. Such a waste....
More than lock downs,... property taxes, rent, property insurance, car insurance, electricity, gas, EVERYTHING !
@@kookietherapy9398 Exactly. Professional politicians don't know anything about how to help small businesses....
Most entrepreneurs fail several times before succeeding. You’ve got guts, keep the faith
Yeah, I've had some very successful businesses and some that failed. It's just a business... move on within 24 hours.
My parents lost everything selling Amway back in the 70's. Our home was flooded and all product ruined! They rebuilt themselves back up. You can do this! We are all here to support you.
Amway? I hope to hell they got OUT of that CULT.
Oh my girl. I started seeing you as a very confident strong woman. You now look like me when I was down the worse. I had a near death experience and realize what is important. You and your family are important. You need to recoup. Take time you need. You don’t owe anyone anything. You are so beautiful and special. You are great as you are. Be kind to yourself. We love you.
Those NDEs are hard to come back from, but when you do come back you never look at anything the same.
It’s a clear reflection of what’s going on in the economy. People are struggling. This is a problem all over America and a lot of stores have had to close. Even big stores like Target.. When the economy recovers, you can start again. Just a bump in the road. It’s not over.
The news tells me the economy is the best it’s ever been ever! Haven’t you seen the stock market lol
Lindey - Do yourself a favor. Take a photo of the empty store and where your store sign used to be. Frame the photos and put them in your new workspace. It will inspire you to greater things. I had a few small collectibles stores years back that weren’t successful. It didn’t stop me from trying something else.
When I looked at my photos, it reminds me of where I’ve been and what it took to get where I am. Like my dad used to say; “If it was easy, then you wouldn’t have remembered the journey.”
So sorry. I could never deal with the locals I absolutely hate dealing with people face to face and why I only sell online. At least you tried and learned most won’t even try.
You are the first person I ever watched on RUclips I learned so much and no matter what wins or losses... You have accomplished so much Take care of yourself I know whatever you decide to do you will do great. Rest and take care of yourself.
Same!
This is a blessing. Rest up, and when you’re ready, on to the next. This chapter is closing, yes, but see this as a weight being lifted. You got this!!
I feel the same way, I was just going to post something similar. Rest and mourn, heal and think of the next chapter.
My sister has her own successful marketing business, BUT she basically has zero retirement money. Sometimes it’s just not worth it. You did it but now you can move on to something new. I wish you the best. You are the one who helped me get started. ❤️
Oh lindey, I remember the moment I walked out the door of my business. I share in your heartbreak. It will be a while before you feel some relief to have it all behind you. You are going to do great things, lindey!❤
Lindey, you made it big online. I think someone upstairs 🙏 is saying you need to go back to just online. Love watching your videos. You helped and motivated me to start selling. I can’t thank you enough. ❤️🙏
Sounds like the location was impossible; competition, thieves, etc. you are smart and have a great work ethic. You will be successful. God bless you.
I sympathize. I'm in my 42nd year in the retail business and the last three years have been horrible. (I also had a better summer than winter last year! First time ever.) I think that (A) people don't have money to spend and (B) the last two generations just don't want to own stuff anymore. I'll be all right because my expenses are under control - But I'm working 12-14 hours a day to make much less than a minimum wage worker.
Word to the wise/word to anyone opening up any kind of retail store... to cut down on "blatant" shopliftng "always" put the checkout counter by the front door & always (always) set up a couple cameras by the front door as well & if you can't afford cameras, at the very least, install fake cameras!
People like you will ALWAYS bounce back better than ever. Keep your head up. Good luck!
Sorry to hear the store closed down but you are one of the best in the reselling community, one of the first I started watching on RUclips. I know you will bounce back better than ever. Enjoy a nice break and I look forward to how you pivot to future ventures.
Take a break and take care of yourself and your mental health. You also don’t owe it to anyone to come back. Come back when and if you are ready. Your mental health is the most important thing.
Despicable person walking out without paying and with a really full bag too...
but imagine if that person lost her money too? everyone is trying to scam or dupe u even grocery stores are purposely mixing bad inedible sht with the edible stuff. they put crap on bottom and good stuff on top humans are a horrible species 🤣
Her landlord is also greedy and despicable
She is such a loser that she can't even afford to pay $15.
Bless your heart girl! You’re smart! The smart thing is closing when you need to instead of waiting until it’s too late! Something bigger is coming to you guys! Much love and admiration! Keep going!
Time to explore a new direction!! I sell at an antique vintage store. It is the third store I have been in. It took me a while to find a good fit. First store bounced payout checks, second store limited me and I was not making money. The third store was well established friendly, well organized, and I had freedom to fill my booth with what ever I wanted.
Lindey, I think it’s also fair to say that customers and just people in general are ruder and more self- righteous than ever before. The behaviors and attitudes you encountered are way too common now, I’m not exactly sure why, but it is what it is and it sucks. It really does. I hope you take the time to find your peace and what you will do next. Your videos have helped me so much, and you have so much to offer! The sky is the limit!! ❤
My opinion that type of concept store is a fad/novelty, hard to compete with dollar stores. Around where I live Florida, all bin stores are also closing. You are a great business woman just keep ebay and whatnot... Less stress!!
You know I’m wondering how many one town can have. I’ve seen a dozen bin stores pop up around Tulsa in the past couple of years. But who can afford to buy random crap anymore ?
I have never had a store, or have taken as big of loss as you are going through. I can't even say that my situation is as bad as your is. However, you are a fighter and fighter's don't just quit. You will be back, you need time to regroup. Spend time with your family, sit in what sunshine you have, take deep breathes and enjoy yourself. Do not worry about your next step it will come to you. My husband and I are struggling right now financially and the one thing I know is we have each other's back. You and your family does also. Hang in there, that smile will come back, she just needs a rest.
Well said. 👏👏
You did more and took more chances than most resellers. You have learned and taught a lot. Mourn a little than get back to looking forward. Whatever you choose,be happy. You deserve it.
I’m sorry, Lindey You are still an inspiration to so many of us. Without you, I never would have known how to even begin to start our eBay store. My son and I run it together. He watched this video as well. We’re both sending you love and prayer’s. We hope you will take all the time you need to rest and recover. Do something you enjoy, or simply sleep in once in awhile. Rest up!!! Who knows… maybe one day, we will all be sitting at our table and (Listing with Lindey) again. Grabbing our beverages, chatting and enjoying the moment.
Take care, sweet lady! “Every little thing is gonna be alright “. ❤️
You have worked sooo hard, Lindey. I'm so sorry this has happened. The pain you're feeling is palpable through the screen. You haven't failed..other people failed you. You definitely made the right decision. You're gonna come back stronger than ever, girl. You got this!!
Lindey, WE LOVE YOU! No matter what you're doing, we will support you! I hope you have a nice break from everything and we will be here when you come back. I and most of us, are ready to support whatever your next adventure is!!!
Wise decision. You're not the first store owner to close. This opens the door to your next great thing! Onward and upward! You've inspired many. Blessings!🎉
You rock and so does your husband and children. You all took the journey together and you're still together. We really appreciate your honesty concerning the business and allowing us on the journey with you. Please take all the time that you need to regroup because we know without any doubt that you'll come back much stronger. We love you and take care of yourself.
😢😢😢 My heart is with you! ❤ Please keep your head up! I can’t wait to see you come up from this!!
Take a step back, you will come back stronger and better than ever! This reselling thing is an ever-changing livelihood. I just went on a job interview today. I've been a full-time reseller since 2021 part-time since 2016. My sales since June have been the worst I have ever had. You do what you got to do to take care of the ones you love!
So sorry Lindey, it's OK to give yourself a break and decide on a new path.
I'm sorry it ended this way. Take a moment and breathe. You will find your way again. Look forward to seeing where your new adventure takes you.
I'm sorry Lindey, I'm sending hugs❤
Sometimes you just have to cut your losses and move on.
It amazes me what jerks people can be.
You made the right choice.
It’s always hard when a dream dies.
You are a strong person. You have a wonderful family. You will go on and be even better. 🥰🇨🇦
you are one of the strongest people in the reselling space lindey! hugs
We all love you Lindey, and we all know you'll rise from this. You should feel really proud of yourself, most of us only dream of having a store, You did it! I think many factors outside of your control, was what closed your store down. Your smart, very fricken smart, you'll figure your new path and adventure out. So rest up, dust yourself off, and I'm confident you'll come out swinging again being the entrepreneur that you are, and there's more successes your gonna have moving forwards. Hooah! 👊😎👊
Sending you love ❤ Your transparency and sharing your journey shows how AMAZING you are!!! This is not a failure it's a stepping stone!!! People like you can't lose!!! You are a WINNER!
One of the hardest decisions ever is to know when it’s time to close a business that was profitable but now is not. We feel you - very very hard! You previously said you learned a lot and still have more ideas so I think you will recover & land on your feet in the end ❤❤❤❤❤
You did everything, people are jerks!!! LOL Heads up you have so much wealth of knowledge now to take you into your next adventure. Never stop learning and never stop smiling, you are awesome and I wish you all the best!!! Cheers!
I’m saddened by your loss. You’re inspiring and based on all the years I’ve watched your channel; I know you will overcome this and I can’t wait to watch your future blossom after this chapter. God bless
Hey you gave it a go & you succeeded because you tried! You will rebound & cannot wait to see you back selling on Ebay & watching more of you on YT. We sure have missed all the content that you used to put on YT. Girl, you got this 💪🏻
So sorry, Lindsay. You did all you could. Take time to heal. You’ll regroup and hopefully you’ll feel tons lighter without this pressure on you and your family. The store is something you did; not who you are. We’ll be here to support you on your next adventure!
Sending you positive thoughts love and hugs you are a smart intelligent business woman I enjoy your videos best of wishes to you
Dear Lindey,
My husband and I went through loosing a store and it was so hard! I have been there and know how it feels. Hang in there sweetie! You will get through this. Sending you lots of love and hugs! 🤗
I’m so sorry. Sending love & Prayers. Take your time and we’ll see you on the comeback ❤❤❤
You are not the first person going through this, and you will not be the last. You can handle this, in your own way. Just subscribed to your channel, I want to see your new chapter. 😊
Love you Lindey! You're such an inspiration! I know exactly how you feel!! That heartache of closing a business that u worked so hard to build. And the bitter sweet feeling mixed with hurt yet relief! I had to shut my business of 16 years down after covid hit. But God doesnt close a door without opening a window! It'll get better I promise. The scare on your heart will always remain however the pain will eventually subside and happiness will return. This will only make u stronger and wiser! Goodluck and looking forward to following you into your next chapter girly! ❤
I’ve been with you since the beginning, when you first found out when you were renovating this place to open that the air-conditioning units didn’t work on the roof if I remember correctly. it’s been one thing after another which is very sad.
I have the most deepest respect of your experience at of thinking outside the box. Some people never even attempt to try.
You were all in. I am so proud of you,
This was a learning experience.
Because I continue to learn from you
Every time you post a video
You are a your wife a wonderful Lady, and your husband a Wonderful Gentleman.
Things in the retail or brick and mortar store world have gone downhill so quickly these last few years. The theft alone is mind blowing. I had to close a small business I had opened last year this past week. It definitely stings so I feel your pain. You are so resilient, and I can’t wait to see what you do going forward! 💜💜💜
Shouldn’t be surprised with people walking out. They’re walking into Macy’s, Nordstrom’s, even Dollar General filling up carts and walking out loading them in their trunk and driving off.
Yup and then they wonder why part of the inflation of prices go up besides the current resident in office.
Her store is affordable if people r stealing from dollar store . I think her area maybe reason too
@@lillyvgutierrez9685 these thieves are doing it everywhere from the streets of Manhattan to the shopping malls in California. they don’t care because the police are told not to arrest them by this administration. That thinks it’s OK to vandalize other peoples property. Next it will be your homes.
I had a fail biz before pandemic, i understand you feelings. Surround yourself by love ones, one thing that help me is that you only fail if you stop. Learn from this and move on to better things. I relaunch my biz as a side hustle and now i am making way more. Take a few weeks to reset
Hi Lindy, PGH pics here. you gave it a shot girl most people are too scared to do what you did. You should be proud of yourself. time to regroup and move onto the next. Wish you nothing but the best in your future endeavors. Family always comes first GURL.
I’m so so sorry! I feel your emotions through this video. I’m sending you the biggest hug possible! You are a good business woman. This was all things out of your control. You will bounce back even bigger and better. Have a good relaxing break and regroup
Send love. ❤❤❤❤
The storms do pass, and I'm sure you'll be amazing once that gray clouds clears. Good luck to you.
I can't wait to see your next move. You are an awesome woman that freely shares her knowledge.
Thanks and good luck!
Dear Lindey,
Just want to say that it does not matter to me how many setbacks you have, have had, or will have; I will always look up to you because it shows that YOU HAVE GUTS! Period! Not many people will ever have this type of experience whether great or awful. Get up, Lindey! We look forward to your next adventure! Peace, Karli 🫶🏻💞🌟🎬
I'm sorry you are going through this, you don't deserve any of it, especially how your customers have been treating you. Here's to a brighter future doing something else you love ❤
You’re so honest ,genuine and sweet. Good things are coming your way, another window will open and you’ll be where you need to be. You’re amazing and just know that …nobody you care about has died so you are going to be 👍 I think you should just focus on RUclips once you are a bit more settled . You are more than the sum of all the bad you’ve experienced. I respect you.
I’ve been watching your videos since I started my eBay store back up in 2020 and I really feel like you’ve become a true friend. Getting your updates on what’s going on with you, etc. Even though you don’t know me, I watch and listen to you while I’m working and sometimes I even respond! 😅 I hate to see this whole situation bring you pain. Brick and mortar is no joke. There are so many factors that need to be just right and sometimes, even then it doesn’t work out. So many variables. I hope you take this time to simplify and self care. I know you probably can’t spend the money, but get yourself a spa treatment or massage or something. They have smash rooms in my area where you can rent a room full of breakable things and sledgehammer it all to death. Very gratifying. 😉 I hope you do something that makes you feel refreshed and new. Your channel peeps love you! ❤
Smash rooms? LOL ... NOW there's an interesting business model hahaha
I just need to say something.
Dear,
You are a fighter and always going to be. Put this experience as a learning and you going to be just fine.
I went through this once and I am so glad that is over.
Move on to the next chapter. God be with you.
I know what happened is verrrry painful!! I’ve watched you from when you worked from home with your coffee and when you opened your store and now your store closure.
Take time to work through this pain, but in time it will pass and the lessons learned will strengthen you. Take this much needed time to rest, recapture your fire and enjoy time with your family.
All any of us can do is to do our best….and you did!!!! I look forward to seeing you back online when you are ready.
Really sorry to see the closure of your business. I wish the general public understood how much heart and soul goes into creating a business, but judging by your final day's trading, your customers obviously don't. You deserve better. Good luck with your next venture.
Sorry to hear but you will find a way to get back on track. You definitely have the drive needed to do that!
I Wish you the Very Best! I too Started Over, and Now Im Getting Close to my Peak, and I should have my Best year Ever! Ive learned from my mistakes, and work hard Daily, STAY POSITIVE BEAUTIFUL! YOU GOT THIS!
You are so amazing! And people suck! So rude to just walk out with your merchandise!
You are an inspiration ❤
You got a ton of guts. Good luck. I have four kids in their early twenties and every day when they went to school and every time I talk to them now, I tell them "do your best. And that's all you can do." You're going to do awesome you're smart hard-working .I've learned Lots from your videos thank you
Been down this path myself and it's hard. Keep your spirits up and you'll survive and be even better.
I gotta tell you this is one of the most motivating videos I could have watched. It scares me, and will push me to work harder and smarter if I can…It’s reality. There are no easy decisions when you run your own small business. Only sacrifices…Sometimes letting go, no matter how painful, IS the only way forward…. Here’s to wishing you and your family the BEST going forward
I was so sad watching this video. I felt your tears through the screen. I hope that you find something new to do soon to get through this big bump in your family's life. *hugs*
I know it seems difficult now, but some day you will look back and laugh at it all. You have more guts than most of us opening a physical store. You should be proud of yourself. :) You are a class act Lindey!
I have been there Lindy. There is life, and more importantly, happiness on the other side. Good luck to you!
When I tell you I understand I really do. This happened to me last year. I grieved the loss of my store. It broke my heart. My customers loved it but the problem is the blood suckers. The landlord, the city, the county, the state, the banks. I went fully back online and though it was hard I regained my peace and now I don't have to worry about giving all my money to those blood suckers and I can use what I make to invest in advertising and different products ones we know sell best. That's the thing I learned what works and what doesn't. What my customers will buy what they won't. I learned so much but with the way small retailers are treated where I am I will never open another physical store again.
really the future is online, digital, we are seeing how shopping centers close across the country so why should we head towards that?
You made the right choice, I had to do the same to sell my dad's store off. Honestly, I think it was your product, mainly. It appeared to be mostly things that take up space and make a mess. You'll be alright, just keep pushing ahead. Good luck
So sorry,however many are or have faced financial struggles
You’ll be back and better than ever. There’s no holding down people like you, you are incredible! Can’t wait to see what you do next! ❤
We all love you Lindy and can"t wait to see your comeback bigger and better!!!
Sending lots of positive thoughts your way. I will keep you in my thoughts while you are away from RUclips. Please take care!
I usually have quite a few sales every year during Christmas season. My sales were down like way down as well.
Your open and honest communication is appreciated. Looking forward to seeing you excited about a new adventure.
You’re sad but you do look so relieved.