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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @michaelfischer-xp4cw
    @michaelfischer-xp4cw 6 часов назад +259

    Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldn't say it didn't go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other

    • @wangcheng3940
      @wangcheng3940 6 часов назад

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have her back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.

    • @michaelfischer-xp4cw
      @michaelfischer-xp4cw 6 часов назад

      I feel your pain brother, after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thouht it was, but it worked wonders for me.

    • @wangcheng3940
      @wangcheng3940 6 часов назад

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?

    • @michaelfischer-xp4cw
      @michaelfischer-xp4cw 6 часов назад +1

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @wangcheng3940
      @wangcheng3940 6 часов назад

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

  • @AdeptChemist
    @AdeptChemist 13 дней назад +110

    “Whatever you need runs away from you, whatever you don’t need us attracted to you” magnetism 1on1, but fr though beyond all that. You got to turn yourself ON, fall in love with yourself, that’s the true holy matrimony when you merge both energies within. That’s the true unconditionally orgasmic love within. As within so without, you will start to implode yourself instead of just losing y’all vital essence. Iykyk SR gang

    • @bigd_selectersmg
      @bigd_selectersmg 13 дней назад +2

      What?

    • @n8dawgg77
      @n8dawgg77 12 дней назад +6

      @@bigd_selectersmgwhat is this man talking about 😂

    • @juheard3015
      @juheard3015 11 дней назад +8

      @@n8dawgg77say bruh I’m a break it down for you. Most men look for love outside of ourselves because after a hards day work long nights following our purpose we do long for that other person to share some time with which is why God created eve. What happens is instead of being happy alone we tend to sabotage that with a big butt and a smile. Once you start loving yourself truly I’m not talking about looks and or money I’m saying spiritually. You will attract the woman that will not leave because your energy and or spirit attracted her not materialistic things. Love is the ultimate say so we are men and women only want our ENERGY WHICH IS OUR SEED! Men must practice semen retention and be disciplined on that journey. After awhile the succubus and the witches you will no longer be attracted to and only bring in good ppl and thinks your discernment will be top notch

    • @NC-xt7ie
      @NC-xt7ie 9 дней назад

      @@juheard3015real spill

    • @davidcuadros4215
      @davidcuadros4215 7 дней назад

      @@juheard3015🎯

  • @shadeenah8791
    @shadeenah8791 День назад +11

    People who jump from relationship to relationship and have never been single for an extended period of time is a red flag.

  • @TheRealRichKurosaki
    @TheRealRichKurosaki 13 дней назад +128

    Everything Goldie be talkin bout when it comes to women is already how my program is set up! Been knew I was one of dem ones but listening to bro always sharpens da knife a lil more, be having me geeked just like Mccqueen! I love hearing it ⛪️🗣️

    • @ApalachBodeine
      @ApalachBodeine 13 дней назад +17

      Facts p. It be refreshing to hear it from someone else like damn I ain’t the only one who thinks this way

    • @mrkatana9233
      @mrkatana9233 6 дней назад

      Facts

    • @scutifr
      @scutifr 5 дней назад

      Congratulatory kudoses 👏

    • @HighPowerOptionsTrades
      @HighPowerOptionsTrades 5 дней назад

      Man you a rest haven, stop it 🙄😒🙄😒🙄😒🙄😒🙄😒😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

    • @JohnDoeTheFlow
      @JohnDoeTheFlow День назад

      Facts. Was thinkin the same shit

  • @davidthep
    @davidthep 13 дней назад +68

    Giving the real game ......plz men take notes...don't let women determine your value..🔥🔥🔥

    • @adana4670
      @adana4670 11 дней назад

      Let me correct u , MAN not MEN

    • @j.staxxx3890
      @j.staxxx3890 6 дней назад +1

      Woman vice versa

  • @russneeley5
    @russneeley5 8 дней назад +35

    "I could go on vacation by myself" Damn i really felt that shit on God.

  • @Nel5751one
    @Nel5751one 12 дней назад +35

    I rather leave and keep my self respect and save both of us the time!

  • @cedrickshelton3674
    @cedrickshelton3674 13 дней назад +75

    The First Person willing to walk away from a Deal, a Relationship, or Contract, always wins the Art of Negotiation! This is exactly why Women file for Divorce 80% of the time and they win the house, the kids, and half of your money! Marriage has become a game of Chess not Checkers, you better walk into with a plan, a prenup, or paying a lawyer for at least an hour consultation of how to protect yourself, before you say I do!

    • @blackgold4291
      @blackgold4291 10 дней назад +1

      IN THE END THEY WILL SUFFER.
      ROMANS 12:19

    • @DoubleDIKK
      @DoubleDIKK День назад

      Why get married if u already had sex w/ her

    • @blackgold4291
      @blackgold4291 День назад

      @@DoubleDIKK WITHOUT MODERN DAY BELIEFS ON MARRIAGE. ONCE YOU BOTH AGREE TO BEING EXCLUSIVE, SEX IS MARRIAGE.
      ALSO CONSIDERING YOU BOTH HAVE THE INTENT TO PROCREATE.
      YOU THINK TMH DOESN'T KNOW YOUR INTENTIONS?
      IMAGINE THE WORLD COLLAPSES, YOU DON'T HAVE ACCESS TO A PREACHER... YOU CAN'T GET MARRIED? LOL
      PREACHERS ARE GOING TO HAVE SOME EXPLAINING TO DO...
      1 Corinthians 6:16-19 King James Version (KJV)
      know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh. But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit. Flee fornication.
      YOU MESS WITH A HARLOT YOU'RE JOINED WITH THEM. THERE'S CLEARLY A BINDING THAT OCCURS DURING INTERCOURSE.
      MATTHEW 19:6 MENTIONS YOU BECOME ONE FLESH.
      THE AWAKENING IS COMING.
      🗡️

  • @Thabang_G
    @Thabang_G 4 дня назад +8

    In short, it’s called boundaries. Know what you want and compromise very little, earn respect.

  • @MartyMar-yk1ik
    @MartyMar-yk1ik 9 дней назад +9

    I’m a woman and I’m like this 😩

  • @Nakedwittypod
    @Nakedwittypod 12 дней назад +13

    Whatever you don’t need is attracted to you. Facts

  • @NetSkillNavigator
    @NetSkillNavigator 3 дня назад +5

    With control, power and ego.. you can never LOVE. This is just relationshit! This all about power and control

  • @ryangarnett6577
    @ryangarnett6577 5 дней назад +8

    I don’t chase any woman that’s runs away from me

  • @rayholt4643
    @rayholt4643 13 дней назад +7

    Amen Brother, speak that truth!

  • @SychoMedia
    @SychoMedia 13 дней назад +22

    U waking up that beast in Mcqueen. As well as myself. Keep goin 🔥

  • @kingsweetz82
    @kingsweetz82 13 дней назад +22

    I love to see a man who has the same game view points as I do. Goldie good for the game right now

  • @GMacII
    @GMacII 11 дней назад +8

    In life, business, and relationships-especially with women-ATTENTION is currency. As men, we possess one of the most powerful “infinity stones” of all: the ability to walk away. Walk away from anything that doesn’t serve you. True strength in negotiation, whether in business or personal matters, comes from the willingness to walk away-and _mean it._
    When it comes to relationships, the best way to capture someone’s attention? Remove yours.
    Mastering this means you’ve unlocked the ‘Abundance Mindset’-a state where you no longer cling out of fear or scarcity. You act from a place of strength, not need.
    #AbundanceMindset #AttentionIsCurrency

  • @KidK27
    @KidK27 6 дней назад +3

    Everything behind this is what turn us into successful men, rejection and failure evolves you

  • @richhylton
    @richhylton 8 дней назад +7

    Cooperative, soft spoken, well mannered woman

  • @BabyLeeek
    @BabyLeeek 13 дней назад +14

    The young brother Goldie is sharp and on point

  • @JoeyiOi
    @JoeyiOi 8 дней назад +6

    Yk you’re respecting yourself and boundaries when they call you sassy, when you know you’re not being sassy but assertive.

  • @PolishBehemoth
    @PolishBehemoth 10 дней назад +9

    1:30 😂lol! He said go down a youtube rabbit hole. Damn i felt called out. I go on those almost everyday.

  • @JohnDoeTheFlow
    @JohnDoeTheFlow День назад +1

    2:36-2:51
    Exactly. And exactly how I move and my females always be in line.
    Words of a real playa

  • @jugghousetv23
    @jugghousetv23 10 дней назад +3

    That’s how I am sad but true I be ready to start over cause I’m that much of a good man imma prosper no matter where I’m at

  • @Jus_Me232
    @Jus_Me232 13 дней назад +17

    This is how I feel. men dont need women

    • @royaldee400
      @royaldee400 День назад

      If it wasn't for sex I wouldn't care to be around them

  • @boskey10200
    @boskey10200 12 дней назад +16

    My 13 year old son says he wants too be a doctor I bought him a medical book we need more black doctors

    • @HamzaTheAlchemist
      @HamzaTheAlchemist 11 дней назад

      Young king

    • @whymillie
      @whymillie 10 дней назад +2

      And get him books from black medical entrepreneurs so he can dream of owning his own practice.

    • @crownjohnson8153
      @crownjohnson8153 23 часа назад

      Plenty of them on Houston, but mostly immigrants.

  • @Beauutyy1
    @Beauutyy1 3 дня назад +4

    All this works until you come across a woman who’s already up on game and has mastered emotional control and plays it back hard by simply detaching back once you do. At the end of the day it’s all a psychological war for power.

  • @sinethembawathani3802
    @sinethembawathani3802 10 дней назад +3

    What he said is how I am with everybody.

  • @Mindurz
    @Mindurz 8 дней назад +3

    This man told no lies.

  • @Jus_Me232
    @Jus_Me232 13 дней назад +37

    i dislike aggressive women

    • @SammyPoliski
      @SammyPoliski 10 дней назад +3

      Me too. Especially the physical type

    • @TheBlackCeliac91
      @TheBlackCeliac91 8 дней назад

      And how do you think women feel about overt masculine men?
      But it's OK for a man to constantly degrade women by calling them b****. Lol. Delusion a it's finest. 🤣🤡

  • @GodDid-b3j
    @GodDid-b3j 13 дней назад +6

    This is so me because I don’t need anyone but God❤. The first time you do something I’m out💨. I have met Men who thought I needed them but learned really quick. I love me and I enjoy my own company like he said I know myself period

    • @FollowerofJudah144
      @FollowerofJudah144 11 дней назад +4

      It’s not about you ma’m this is for the men

    • @infamousaries1095
      @infamousaries1095 11 дней назад +3

      @@FollowerofJudah144exactly women seem not to understand this

    • @TheBlackCeliac91
      @TheBlackCeliac91 8 дней назад +1

      This video is for ANYONE!! Which is why we watched it as women.
      Do you think I looked this video up? No, it popped up in my feed just like every other desperate video for attention. 😂😂🤡🤡
      I also love the fact that you edited your comment and still can't form a basic sentence. 😂😂

    • @j.staxxx3890
      @j.staxxx3890 6 дней назад +2

      @GodDid-b3j This is for woman too, knowing the tip that men are on can definitely help us navigate in relationships better. Definitely continue to the woman you are.

  • @kristamonae
    @kristamonae 2 дня назад +1

    This is the mindset of men that were raised my only there mother.

    • @LonnieJolly-z6n
      @LonnieJolly-z6n 2 дня назад

      Marriage is a scam and you know it

    • @TonytRambo
      @TonytRambo День назад +2

      ​@@LonnieJolly-z6n Basically atp, and this girl is basically saying we're supposed to put up w their BS, like "nah son" you can go.

    • @crownjohnson8153
      @crownjohnson8153 23 часа назад

      We gone give it to y'all multiple times. Walk awayyyyy 🏃

  • @StanleyParrishJr
    @StanleyParrishJr 2 часа назад +1

    This is evil and ungodly. Men are responsible for building and leading families. He disrespects women and doesn't deserve a good woman

  • @user-qx1dd6oy8e
    @user-qx1dd6oy8e 2 дня назад +1

    I never needed game in my whole existence of life. Aint nobody playing games out here. Its either u go my way or go away. Im good either way.

  • @Favouropadarah
    @Favouropadarah 9 дней назад +3

    Real talk. I'm smarter right now

  • @adrianlm72
    @adrianlm72 12 дней назад +7

    Facts, but you never let a chick no how much you like them.

  • @BallingBroEnt
    @BallingBroEnt 2 дня назад +1

    Damn that’s facts.
    I learned that about myself too

  • @Yachel25
    @Yachel25 10 дней назад +7

    I used to think my solitude became my prison but he reminded me that I’m free

  • @Dro_Toolive
    @Dro_Toolive 12 дней назад +4

    Let him cook!💯

  • @romarocovington4765
    @romarocovington4765 9 дней назад +1

    Whatever you need run from you whatever you don’t need attract to you u caught that sapphire crystal homie you spit 🔥

  • @MannySweef
    @MannySweef 5 дней назад +2

    ChhhhhhhhURRRRRCH‼️⛪️😂😂😂

  • @Lexotic01
    @Lexotic01 3 дня назад +1

    Not sure if hes talking about toxic women… but thinking you dont need ppl when we are social beings can cause you to become isolated and weird, also insanely emotional and delicate

    • @commenter888
      @commenter888 День назад

      I agree ! I get the same thought when I hear women go on and on about not needing a man.

    • @TonytRambo
      @TonytRambo День назад +1

      Women.. my women, y'all didn't hear him. He's saying he doesn't need ppl as in he doesn't need other ppl to make him happy, when he's happy with himself. Also, ppl who you give power to make you happy, can make you unhappy as well. That's what he's getting at

    • @commenter888
      @commenter888 19 часов назад

      @@TonytRambo women say this a lot as well. They swear bc they’re happy with self they don’t need a man . Sounds essentially the same to me 🤷🏾‍♀️
      But I get where you’re coming from . Although I do feel no one but ourselves ultimately hold that power . Even when ppl find their other half there’s no way to ensure ANYONE can remain in the space of always keeping you happy . I feel you only lose your power when a person becomes your SOURCE of happiness .
      Thanks for sharing your perspective though!! Food for thought! 🙂

  • @Blueflamelotus17
    @Blueflamelotus17 5 дней назад

    I respect this guy for his right hand having a karma mark from boruto 🔥

  • @yourtakenetwork4974
    @yourtakenetwork4974 13 дней назад +4

    Damn big bro Thank You !!

  • @rohanrohzen
    @rohanrohzen 8 дней назад +2

    6:47🔥🔥🔥Truth

  • @Manhertzz
    @Manhertzz 10 дней назад +3

    Need the full vid unc

  • @joedeadwildin7730
    @joedeadwildin7730 5 дней назад +1

    I fucks with 95 percent of what has been said… but I think another conversation can be held about how most if not all women have a natural instinct to debase a man… and also how and why that has mutated in our society as black, brown, American African, indigenous folk etc

  • @boskey10200
    @boskey10200 12 дней назад +19

    The white man doesn't talk like that about white women the black family culture is destroyed 😔

  • @ashajaylaclerk4145
    @ashajaylaclerk4145 6 часов назад

    This is the same for women too…

  • @Alex-m3l4g
    @Alex-m3l4g 15 часов назад

    Over all Good advice 💯.

  • @lonestar2024
    @lonestar2024 8 дней назад +3

    I had a woman try to do me dirty bcuz she thought i needed her. Then when she found out how stable i was then she switched up quick 😭

  • @jsstapia4
    @jsstapia4 12 дней назад +3

    This real fam

  • @scaleshenry
    @scaleshenry 11 дней назад +1

    Power DYNAMICS! Can you walk away from a women or situation? How you answer this will let you know who has the power simple and plain. BTW, those dynamics can change

  • @Macarone328
    @Macarone328 5 дней назад

    _2:45__ - __2:55__..._
    *_The real know this to be true!_*

  • @cattyhatty7574
    @cattyhatty7574 9 дней назад +1

    Lol nah if she know me & she crossed that line yup ima assume she was ready to go too 💯

  • @SpiritoftheDivine
    @SpiritoftheDivine 10 дней назад +1

    Respect!

  • @wedouard1956
    @wedouard1956 12 дней назад +1

    Where can I find thé full podcast ?

  • @lokizzle2578
    @lokizzle2578 13 дней назад +2

    💯🗣️🗣️talk to em 🅿️

  • @sunrise7236
    @sunrise7236 День назад

    Where did you get the cap from? Black /white cap

  • @pentcovechronicles5271
    @pentcovechronicles5271 12 дней назад +2

    So money runs away from you because you need money? What?

  • @deziurz
    @deziurz 7 дней назад +1

    I miss the days when being "respectful" & integral was the norm ..derogatory language & communication are the epitome of negativity... This ego based mentality is very hard to hear & watch ...it's toxic "feminine " energy being so hostile & emotional...

  • @ApalachBodeine
    @ApalachBodeine 13 дней назад +2

    Keep goin p.

  • @joemommapapapete4824
    @joemommapapapete4824 5 дней назад

    Facts

  • @hiramWillem-o5d
    @hiramWillem-o5d 13 дней назад

    Some Guys Love "Combative Attitudes" OF Women (positive Energy And positive vibe's Ok) mna Masculine Negative Attitude's A Waiste 👏🏼

  • @BELUECEFA
    @BELUECEFA 4 дня назад

    dude in orange intelligence high in IQ & EQ.

  • @TonytRambo
    @TonytRambo День назад

    To the ppl who are opposing Goldie is this video: Your logic is basically "If he sets boundaries and she doesn't follow them, he can't tell her to get out and he needs therapy." That's BS
    To my women(Blaq women): When Goldie was saying "I want a soft-spoken woman" , that just means he doesn't want a woman who uses all of her energy to get tf on mandem's nerves, INSTEAD use that SAME energy to DEFEND YOUR MEN, it will be GREATLY APPRECIATED, Thx.
    Lamont 2024

  • @fijiunlimited4503
    @fijiunlimited4503 13 дней назад

    Yo, you need to hook da fit coach up with Game on women

  • @QINGBRYTTANI
    @QINGBRYTTANI День назад

    What’s crazy is praising him for being a fool these boundaries should be in place for men and women not relationships then always trying to paint the picture of their experience onto the image of every woman!!! I’m so sick of these men getting hurt by gold diggers that they knew had an agenda then do these podcast like they talking about every woman!! Well GUESS WHAT IM EMITIONALLY AND FINANCIALLY BALANCED TOO BUT IM STILL HUMAN AND DESIRE LOVE AFFECTION AND I THINK ITS POINTLESS TRYING TO PROVE TO THE WORLD I DONT NEED A MAN CAUSE I GOT SOME MONEY AND GOT OVER MY PAST HURT ON MY OWN
    🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ THE BLACK LOVE SCENE NEED SO MUCH TLC 😢

  • @BELUECEFA
    @BELUECEFA 4 дня назад

    FIRE

  • @KingCalb
    @KingCalb 6 дней назад

    💯

  • @jermainemclemorejr3555
    @jermainemclemorejr3555 13 дней назад +1

    I owe payment

  • @timshaq520
    @timshaq520 7 дней назад

    Great video.

  • @LaNeaheartz
    @LaNeaheartz 3 дня назад

    What is “ out of pocket “

  • @boskey10200
    @boskey10200 12 дней назад +2

    Is it life about finding a beautiful black wife having kids and building a empire too past down too your babies black people Don't think like that or putting your kids through medical school too be black doctors 🤔

  • @CDJCBMWOGJRIOGUFHDFLM
    @CDJCBMWOGJRIOGUFHDFLM 13 дней назад +1

    Hey what’s up bro how are you much love

  • @popeyedanavigator57
    @popeyedanavigator57 13 дней назад +1

    Real Moorish conversion

  • @dlrowadkcuf
    @dlrowadkcuf 13 дней назад +1

    🎯🎯🎯

  • @ogsemi-automusic813
    @ogsemi-automusic813 11 дней назад

    Real Game

  • @LhgLlhtf
    @LhgLlhtf 12 дней назад

    Real $hit🤣🤙🏾

  • @adriontate
    @adriontate 6 дней назад

    💪🏾😈

  • @djjettube
    @djjettube 11 дней назад

    He's got a few points but it sounds like that brohter needs therapy .

    • @rasulsamad5860
      @rasulsamad5860 10 дней назад +1

      Female talking point

    • @DCorigin
      @DCorigin 10 дней назад

      He is saying that he knows himself. So he's gonna spare both parties the future heartache and end things the moment he finds out that he's incompatible with the woman.
      Isn't that ultimately what therapy should be teaching?: to place yourself in environments where one can positively thrive and maintain peace and sanity? 🤔🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @djjettube
      @djjettube 10 дней назад

      @@DCorigin that point I got. for sure. but where he lost me was him talking about all of the traumas in his life that made him this way. wouldn't be the worst thing ever to talk to someone professionally

    • @djjettube
      @djjettube 10 дней назад

      @@rasulsamad5860 I guess, nigga.

  • @ANLTGold
    @ANLTGold День назад +1

    Hurt men talkin again lmao

  • @iamlilbll
    @iamlilbll 9 дней назад

    McQueen?

  • @icyblue8
    @icyblue8 2 дня назад

    Men who speak like this are so scared. We were created to need each other.
    This man is dangerous and foolish.

  • @ThriveNation20
    @ThriveNation20 39 минут назад

    And not have kids with these woman! It’s check mate if they get pregnant.

  • @brittanygray3930
    @brittanygray3930 13 дней назад

    ❤️‍🔥

  • @williammitchell1368
    @williammitchell1368 13 дней назад +2

    This some 🗣️GOOD GAME

  • @JoyBoy-s9v
    @JoyBoy-s9v 4 дня назад

    Listen what hes saying for the most part i agree with. Dont need a woman. Rely on yourself and be comfortable with who you are. See when he got into the end bit talking about trauma. Ya lost me deh dog 😂. Deal with your issues! The man said 30 years!? Come on man. And when yall talking about soft spoken women... like uhh. To me it sounds like they want control. But when u be you and dont take no shit those hot tempers cool down real fast! To each their own though.

  • @Beautyqueen_111
    @Beautyqueen_111 2 дня назад

    Zesty males

  • @thepielife
    @thepielife 5 дней назад +1

    this guy will never have a relationship. he just wants a maid, servant

  • @Madara2010X
    @Madara2010X 5 дней назад +1

    🤌🤌🤌🔥

  • @christiewilliams1704
    @christiewilliams1704 16 часов назад

    What type of women are y'all dealing with? If a woman is ready to go Why do she have to trigger you to be dismissed? Like I say, quietly walk out or quietly stay. Immature women and men trigger each other cause of lack of understanding.
    I think there are 2 types of people in your life. Those who are there for a SEASON and those who are there for a REASON which is a lifetime. Since, life is short, more so SEASONAL. The one who will spend more time with you the MOST is YOU.

  • @EASTOAKLANDSS
    @EASTOAKLANDSS День назад +1

    The person who cares the most always loses . 🫡

  • @AnyyAndd
    @AnyyAndd День назад

    Facts