For everyone saying Laura wanted to keep the "bean dip" joke between her and Jeramey... Watch the scene again. He only mentions the term "bean dip" to AD, and then LAURA laughs and says that she told him to bean dip AD, before he repeats it (to be fair, it didn't seem like AD and Clay heard her say it first, but she absolutely did). So for her to turn around and blame it on him just because they didn't appreciate her weird joke doesn't make sense, she's the one who outed what was supposedly meant to be a "private" joke in the first place. I still think Jeramey sucks though lol, and realize that it wasn't meant to be racist after looking it up on Urban Dictionary. But AD is still the one that they chose to target with that, along with everyone else sexualizing her... It was still really weird and had racist undertones.
There is a history of black womens bodies being sexualised and fetished by others, and in addition to Jimmy’s comments on her body being ‘stacked’, it is arguable that all comments and suggestions by these men can have a racist undertone. Or even overtone.
Clay's Father showed him that women are not to be respected. Clay genuinely has no idea how to meet the needs of a partner. He was taught to be self absorbed.
THIS RIGHT HERE! I had already called it as soon as I heard him talk about certain things in the pod! I was thinking, AD honey, you're wasting your time! Don't get me wrong, I didnt want to pick either one, both him & Matt are a hot mess! But unfortunately, she didn't connect with someone else! Smdh
And AD doesn't look happy at all. Clay's momma was basically letting AD know, "baby my son ain't gonna treat you right, he's a cheater like his daddy ( I bet momma knew) he didn't even stand when I came in, he wouldn't even give you his jacket, baby move on"
Clay wasn’t even holding AD’s umbrella or the flowers for his mama when they walked up to meet his mama nem! He’s definitely giving “I’m the Prize sis” 😂😂😂
@@_bellezanah like hold the umbrella while she walks. Not hold the umbrella once I’m finished bc I asked you to. Go back to ep.9 when they first walk up, she’s holding the umbrella for them & he just skating along w/ it. Anddddd she had flowers in her hands & his hands were on his pockets 😒 a real man would’ve been holding if not both of those for her, at least one.
I think Laura was upset this man's house was super clean bc it didn't give her a reason to complain or criticize him. She misses no opportunities to criticize him.
@@copiouscatat first I was annoyed by her reacting to his house that way but it does make sense. Either he had a professional organizer, the house is staged to sell which is why it was “too clean”, or he had a partner who picked out the kitchen ware
They are definitely watching her reviews too the way they adjust the show according to the things she says. They definitely pulled the cast from a higher tax bracket this season.
AD pisses me off bc she is very discerning. She literally sees it all. But she, like, TOO many Black women like to "see red flags and paint their nails red to match."
lowkey I feel like that could be it too now. At first nah but the more I rewatch scenes I think deep down she won’t go for it this go round bc if so she knows she’ll look crazy as hell on National tv even more than she already does 😅 but in the 1:10:22 scene on the couch I think I’m her head she wasn’t hearing a damn thing & just was telling herself “all you gotta do is last til the wedding sis” 😅
Also another thing about Ken his young af, We let his career and his voice confuse us, but his young and the way he dealt with Brittany shows his immaturity
Yes, I have learned that younger men can be mature in some aspects but eventually the immaturity shows in certain ways they handle things or inexperienced at. 🤦🏾♀️
Yeah, he's one of those guys that can easily be mistaken for 30 and has been spoon fed enough church speak to 'sound' mature. Gay or not, that man is just immature. He says 'I hear you' but all he's hearing is a way to build up his uno reverse card to make it not his fault. Clay is immature as well, but at least it's on the surface. AD is walking into the red flag swinging in her face like 'aww, I can fix him'. Kenneth is worse cause the red flags are hidden under calm speech, ten dollar words, and a guy who 'looks older' than he is. And you can tell Brittany was actually trying to have a mature conversation while Ken was playing at one while internally acting like a two year old yelling 'not my fault, it's your fault'.
I think of my brother who was extremely kind and thoughtful as a teen so refuse to let age be an excuse for how cold some dude is in his twenties to someone just cause they're not attracted to them
I have never felt this bad for yt womens...smh. Kenneth was absolutely horrendous to that girl, and she was actually innocent. What a cold-hearted piece of work. It's ok girl you dodged a bullet.
The birth control conversation between Amy and Johnny threw me off because…can’t he just use condoms?? He kept saying that he didn’t wanna put all the responsibility on her but that’s exactly what he was doing. And then him being in the airport with Jess…chile 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
It’s givin he had one too many pregnancy scares, but he most def’ly is pressuring her. He even gave the gurl an ultimatum talm bout they wouldn’t be able to get married down at the alter. I would’ve been like, “Oh ok ✌🏿 “
I hate how some unpigmented people online think that AD isn't getting "dragged" enough for potentially planting the race issues in Kenneth's mind and ruining the relationship with Brittany. Like, Kenneth isn't a grown ass man with his own thoughts and opinions? Somehow, AD is solely to blame for his switch up? Stop it! 😒
I’m stealing that. And No. Kenneth is just gay and went on this show for no reason. That’s all. AD needs to get dragged for other reasons. She had that conversation out of love
Ugh! Chelsea is insufferable!!!! She needs to heal those insecurities. Her needy expectations are based off what will make her feel secure that he loves her yet she’s not even secure with/loving herself. GIRL!
No no he needs to be honest with her and tell her he's not really attracted to her and stop lying to her she knows he really doesn't love her and that's why she's acting out. Just tell her the truth you don't want anything to do with her
@@thyjohnson123 Absolutely, I agree that he should be honest with her. Forcing a situation is not healthy. He’s trying to avoid being the bad guy but it’s too late. Unfortunately the clips make her look unstable and him just being a guy, but we all can read between the lines. Chelsea displayed her insecurities long before the engagement. She admittedly said she didn’t expect to be treated the way she was treated by the men in the pods and shared her past hurt with men not being nice to her. She’s not healed from that hurt and still acts as if she’s unworthy. Women (some) know when a man is not into them even when a man is acting like he is. She shouldn’t have to force desired behaviors. As the saying goes, “If he wanted to, he would.” She needs to just call him out and let it go. They’re both forcing it.
Ugly though? "Shaped like a cereal box, and then you got that brick forehead"...harsh. The reason I say, only go on this show if you are a 10. Body, face, everything. Or else the Internet will tear you apart. Sad.
Kenneth completely gaslit Brittany. I want to see what he has to say at the reunion. He said “you better not question the status of our relationship every time something you don’t like happens” only to abruptly change the status of the relationship by the end of the convo. And waking her up at 1:30 in the morning and blaming her for not being affectionate at that hour? You’re delusional. No sir. 🙅🏾♀️
Right? Just focusing on my life. Every guy that comes in ends up being a nuisance, and I will waste no more than 3 months. I know by then if it is worth my time.
@@mevolutionarybylizexactly, I’ve never had a man come into my life and improve anything so why stress myself out? It’s not worth it just to say that I have a man.
Kenneth is a definite example of how majority of black men act in a relationship from the start of this process with Brittany to the end seeing their whole relationship start out so well and then how he gaslight her and gave her the cold shoulder out of nowhere def triggered me 😭
A man who tells you to look to God rather than him for satisfaction is a whole mess cause you know he won't take responsibility for any of his own actions or what he can do differently
Chelsea takes zero responsibility for her actions, feelings or thoughts. She crosses Jimmy's fragile boundaries all the time and this guy WOW like seriously where do you draw the line? The phrase ''she weaponizes her sadness and insecurity'' (paraphrasing) is exactly what I noticed, too. That is manipulation and that is extreme toxic femininity. I hope this man RUNS far and fast.
I also think in a way she could be boasting about these things she desires in a partner so bad that it could come around & bite her in the butt like it did Raven unfortunately. Raven from s3 got a new Beau last year I believe & he checked off alllllll her boxes. When I say all of them I mean literally the way she stated she wanted love (due to her being on the show/interviews) - he love bombed her & did it; legit the day they met he approached her & word for word stated how she said she wanted someone to do it. So Chelsea needs to stop trying to make Jimmy love her the way she expects it bc it will never be authentic going forward the way she’s trying to ‘build’ him to be (or anyone in the future).
@kimmyw010 I don't know...I've always understood it, and knew how to speak it fluently ever since I was a child. As an adult, I downloaded the Saint Lucian Kwéyòl Dictionary app, just so that I could learn to write it properly, and that was very helpful, but easy for me, since I already knew how to speak it. I couldn't tell you whether it would be easy or not if starting from scratch tho.
@salutemimi81 I scream at the tv like gurl tell that man to shut up. Always gotta story. Could've said the sky is blue, he would've turned it around like my dad took me sky diving with one of his gfs and I never felt love from the wind on the way down. Like bruh go see someone😂plzzz
Didn’t they just film the reunion in LA over the weekend? If yes, Johnny and Jess being in the same airport at the same time isn’t as strange as people are making it out to be. They could’ve been on the same flight and we saw 0 PDA.
With Clay what really killed me was he kept saying I don’t wanna disappoint you or cheat on you to AD I was like okay so don’t??? Like don’t you have control of yourself and your actions? If this is something you’re questioning why are you tryna marry anyone????
The minute Clay said his dad was Guyanese and a cheater I feel like i understood another layer of Clay. I still need AD to run though. I recognize a chaotic Caribbean man that will never commit to you when I see one.
I feel like this show turned into watching people who kinda maybe like each other pretending to love each other so much that they want to marry each other. There seems to be so much of them trying to convince themselves, and us as the audience, that they actually like/ love/ wanna marry each other.
This season of love is blind has been an example of what men will do when they don’t want to have the real conversation that they are just not that into you.
To be completely honest I think Ken is part of the Lbgtq community too. At first i thought it was about her being white, because he was happier bout clay and Ad's relationship but nah he likes man, i feel strongly bout this lol. But however he treated that girl like dirt. That gaslighting was epic...
I agree with this message!!! I was literally the same way I thought at first like oooo he wanted black love but tthhheennn the way he was talking at times it was giving a little suga in his tank… and the moment I accepted that he is gay his actions started to make complete sense to me
She was also on camera and probably treading carefully so she didn’t get cancelled. But really, her man just needs to identify as gay man. Lol but let’s be clear, it was 2nd hand embarrassment that she described herself that way. But let’s be even clearrerererrrr, she woulda loved that man through the rest of their lives because she fn loved him. Broke our hearts. 💕
Idk why most people don’t see it but AD don’t like Clay either lol! She is mentally checked out from the man & I truly think she’s just hanging on to the end but she’ll say no.
Agreed. She was over it. Probably came on the show for the same reason as the others - fame/followers. You see how she was desperately clinging to Matt and then switched up and easily forgave Clay. She wants the Lauren Speed treatment, but when you think about it most of the contestants from this show won't have the same level of fame as S1's Cameron and Lauren.
@@leahg1424 I think she was clinging on to Matt because he seemed closed off and he appeared to only open up to her. She didn’t realize he was actually manipulative. But I think this show has run its course damn near all of the men have been exposed in some way it’s all for TV now they don’t actually care for the experiment.
Just here to shout out the musical selections for this video: We got a little country with Carrie. We got the African hymnal, a Jessie original. We got Free Willy with some MJ shoulder bops. 😂
That whole Clay section round 50 mins there had me screaminggggggg cause tell me why I remember that “Period, right” moment and felt something inside me and Jess has articulated the words for me perfectly. Like sirrrrrr, do you like womens?? Lol and AD? Are you in the room with us? Girlllll, are you there??
I feel like the only time I’ve really seen a straight-up straight dude say that is if they’re joking/playing around w/ their gf like being silly or making fun of (in a joking way) things we say as Women. Or doing a skit or sumn. Bc baby I don’t even hear Todd Chrisley talk like that & he is _very_ metro sexual 😅.
Jessie, I’ve been following your commentary and breakdowns on these Netflix dumpster fire shows for a while, and I find your takes so entertaining and accurate. I also love your voice and spontaneous bursting into song! Your read on Chelsea and her disturbing antics was on point! I’m not a licensed psychiatrist, psychologist, behavior analyst, or relationship guru, but her behavior looks/sounds like BPD to the letter. The pedestal she repeatedly puts Jimmy on to then tear him down when he doesn’t follow the script she has in her head, the black and white thinking, the emotional instability and rollercoaster she’s making him ride - he needs to run, not walk. Run. I won’t be surprised when he breaks those eggshells and she resorts to physical aggression.
Thank you for acknowledging how Hispanics are 🤣 Everyone is giving Amy a hard time for saying she can’t get married without her fathers approval but tbh that’s our culture.
My husband is melanin deficient, I had to teach him to not wear shoes in the house, not to place luggage on the bed, and to not jump in our bed with outside clothes on. I didn’t know how common this was… Also you are looking amazingly gorgeous!!
Sooooo accurate about clay. I was trying to tell my friends he doesn’t find AD attractive. He only likes her body and he wants to date a motherly figure. Clay is the type to weaponize therapy discourse
Jimmy's girlfriends said he's clingy. So is not that Chelsea is, but that he doesn't like her. Which is very clear. And would make anyone insecure. He will reject her and they say "oh, no.. I do want you." Chelsea is cringe and clingy. But it isn't like her insecurities have no reason
I feel like Clay is using his dad's infidelity as an excuse. Just cause your parents were one way doesn't mean you have to end up the same way. It's a cop out! Take yo a** to therapy and do better!
I truly hope AD is still here on some 'Im just here so I dont get fined' type of ish while taking mental notes and waiting to dip on the wedding day. I have faith in her and she better not let me down
I just want to say this was worth the wait! Jess your discernment and insight is off the charts. I love hearing your view on EVERYTHING! Please make sure to unplug when necessary cos you are doing so much that sometimes I worry for your well being. Be sure to replenish your beautiful self. We're not going anywhere cos again you ARE WORTH THE WAIT!!! ❤❤❤
i’m the same way with birth control, i haven’t taken it in like 10 years. it can have so many adverse effects, and my cycle is very healthy and consistent and i do not wanna mess with that and my natural state of hormones and what not if i do not have to. and thankfully i’m in a relationship where i don’t have to worry about that!
Seester the reason why Jeremy got all the silverware is because HE WAS IN A WHOLE RELATIONSHIP & ENGAGED TO A SINGLE MOM before the show 🥴 I would raise my eyebrows too as a woman
As a single lesbian, I confirm that you can be a mother without being with a man. It's 2024. Everything is possible girl. You don't need a relationship or a partner. If being a mother is your calling, you can make it happen.
Yikes Kind of selfish How do you know your child doesn’t want a father? I know someone in this situation and the daughter is always asking why she doesn’t have a dad like everyone else.
@@WistleWhileYouTwerkyeah I hate this mentality too. 2 parent homes are such a key foundation, but, hey men are trash these days. I choose to just bypass motherhood cause I’m not putting myself through the stress of a two person job in today’s world where I gotta teach or protect my child from sooooo much shit just cause these men (who were probably raised by single mothers) admire and aspire to be Diddy (of all ppl). FOH, I’ll be a mom in another life.
I'm crying from laughing so hard. Your Love Is Blind recaps keep getting better and better. The "There's Nothing Left to Say" musical interlude just killed me. 😂
Love is Blind Brazil is where it’s at, even Sweden was cool.. Check it out please Jessie, it has me wondering if it’s the U.S, these men don’t want marriage, it’s hard to find what’s not out there..
Same!!!! I’ve stopped watching U.S. LIB and have opted to watch the foreign installments starting with Japan. So much better!!! Then I watched Sweden then finally Brazil lol. I like them way better. I stopped watching the U.S. version after what happened with that girl that accused the goofy young dude of saying stuff to her that he never said. It became too much smh.
I’m just so glad your reviews be on the right side. I’ve heard people coddle clay and Kenneth and blame AD, and I’m just like ‘???’ It’s clear as day, clay and ken were coming on here to find beards. Nothing more nothing less.
you are the ONLY other person who picked up on what I picked up on with Clay. I got that vibe as I listened to him talk and watched his mannerism. I feel it!
As soon as you said Chelsea seems like the kind of person that would stab you then cry I immediately realised who she actually looks like….the actress that plays Love Quinn in‘You’
For everyone saying Laura wanted to keep the "bean dip" joke between her and Jeramey... Watch the scene again. He only mentions the term "bean dip" to AD, and then LAURA laughs and says that she told him to bean dip AD, before he repeats it (to be fair, it didn't seem like AD and Clay heard her say it first, but she absolutely did). So for her to turn around and blame it on him just because they didn't appreciate her weird joke doesn't make sense, she's the one who outed what was supposedly meant to be a "private" joke in the first place.
I still think Jeramey sucks though lol, and realize that it wasn't meant to be racist after looking it up on Urban Dictionary. But AD is still the one that they chose to target with that, along with everyone else sexualizing her... It was still really weird and had racist undertones.
THANK YOU!!!!!! Laura thought it was all fun and games UNTIL she saw AD's reaction.
@@TheeJessieWoo exactly!!!
Lol it did NOT have racist undertones....it's a silly pop the tittle joke they do among the white people, so yall taking it way too far
There is a history of black womens bodies being sexualised and fetished by others, and in addition to Jimmy’s comments on her body being ‘stacked’, it is arguable that all comments and suggestions by these men can have a racist undertone. Or even overtone.
Laura is from the south after all. Her southern ways are showing up.
Someone in the RUclips comments said it best: Kenneth is the type of man who goes to therapy and only learns how to weaponize therapy speak
All I can think of is how he’s a principal in charge of kids, facultyand talking to parents. Does he talk down to people the same way with no emotion?
Bruh!!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
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That part@@mirandaalfaro4339
Listen! Women to do it too. I’ve experienced a little of it within a friendship relationship 🫠
We went from "Love is Blind" to "Love is Clout" in 6 business seasons.
Not six business seasons😂😂😂
😂😂😂chile!!!! i hollered
Lmaooooo
First of all, you are serving black Barbie realness with this look!!! 💖💖💖
Flawlessly!!!
Her look is giving ultra femmine❤❤❤❤❤
thanks you it was for a pink dinner
@@TheeJessieWooyou’re welcome!
came to say the same thing! Jessie a bae!
Clay's Father showed him that women are not to be respected. Clay genuinely has no idea how to meet the needs of a partner. He was taught to be self absorbed.
THIS RIGHT HERE! I had already called it as soon as I heard him talk about certain things in the pod! I was thinking, AD honey, you're wasting your time! Don't get me wrong, I didnt want to pick either one, both him & Matt are a hot mess! But unfortunately, she didn't connect with someone else! Smdh
The way Kenneth let her cry alone and he was on the phone setting up where he was sleeping for the night, insane and insensitive. He's full of it
Omg that triggered my childhood trauma of crying in front of my dad and my dad deadass telling me to shut up
that was ice cold. gave her a bro hug and dipped smh.,.
He was talking to his man ❤
Online folks are saying Kenneth openly identifies as gay. This season is trash.
😢sorry to hear that love @@Waters..
It’s Clay preparing her to get cheated on🤣🤣🤣 he’s unhinged
He and another man
And AD doesn't look happy at all. Clay's momma was basically letting AD know, "baby my son ain't gonna treat you right, he's a cheater like his daddy ( I bet momma knew) he didn't even stand when I came in, he wouldn't even give you his jacket, baby move on"
Right 😂 he's like u might probably most likely for sure get cheated on 🥴😂
🤣 🤣 grooming you now hun
@@kayrup3712I peek that as well . She knows her son very well .
Clay wasn’t even holding AD’s umbrella or the flowers for his mama when they walked up to meet his mama nem! He’s definitely giving “I’m the Prize sis” 😂😂😂
She asked him to hold her umbrella
Exactly!!!
I can't stop thinking that Clay likes men.
@@_bellezanah like hold the umbrella while she walks. Not hold the umbrella once I’m finished bc I asked you to.
Go back to ep.9 when they first walk up, she’s holding the umbrella for them & he just skating along w/ it. Anddddd she had flowers in her hands & his hands were on his pockets 😒 a real man would’ve been holding if not both of those for her, at least one.
Let’s pray he can find a man to treat him like a princess 😔💅
I think Laura was upset this man's house was super clean bc it didn't give her a reason to complain or criticize him. She misses no opportunities to criticize him.
This is so accurate
Nah I think she had a hunch that there used to be or a woman was there recently
She is one bossy woman
I think she knew that apartment was staged
@@copiouscatat first I was annoyed by her reacting to his house that way but it does make sense. Either he had a professional organizer, the house is staged to sell which is why it was “too clean”, or he had a partner who picked out the kitchen ware
Chelsea definitely the type to wake up mad at you bc you were mean to her in her dream and now she wants you to apologize 🙄
😂😂😂
No he liked his ex. But wanted to bang it to the end. He said your needy but please keep initiated sex
😂😂😂
And Jimmy being the coward guy that he already is would still apologize even though it was a dream 😂
I’m going to need someone to pay Jess her worth for these recaps. They are real and introspective. We don’t deserve sis.
They are definitely watching her reviews too the way they adjust the show according to the things she says. They definitely pulled the cast from a higher tax bracket this season.
Trevor and Kenneth are an example of when it's too good to be true, it probably is.
It's just pathetic at this point that when a dude seems like a good catch, he's most likely not 🙄
With the turnaround of these two , nobody can "choose better"😊
!!!!!
I truly hate to see it!
Facts sis
Nobody:
Me: “all these diamonds on my body and they crystal clear”
💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
🎵🎶Big ol raindrops in my ear
🎵🎶Woop🎵
Woop🎶
😂😂
Same!!
If u gone name drop lets get it clear 🎉
JESSIE 🎶 WOO 🗣️
I make magic wit these hunnids watch em disappear 🪄
Jessie imitating Chelsea crying about jimmy not kissing her has me in tears 😂😂😂😂
Cause it was on point. Lol! I hate to say it. I hope he is going to be ok.
I died 😂😂😂😂😂
Bahahah so funny shes so whiny and annoying
Absolutely in tears 😂😂😂
Same lol
AD pisses me off bc she is very discerning. She literally sees it all. But she, like, TOO many Black women like to "see red flags and paint their nails red to match."
She is trying to secure her bag and her TV time. She is doing what she gotta do
@@Roma-SRyan you're probably right. I just wish she could also keep her dignity.
I hope I don’t eat crow but I think AD is going to say no
@@vanydakhiev3910she seems like she has low self regard
lowkey I feel like that could be it too now. At first nah but the more I rewatch scenes I think deep down she won’t go for it this go round bc if so she knows she’ll look crazy as hell on National tv even more than she already does 😅 but in the 1:10:22 scene on the couch I think I’m her head she wasn’t hearing a damn thing & just was telling herself “all you gotta do is last til the wedding sis” 😅
the reunion for this season finna be willlllddddd😮💨🤌🏽
They probably won't ask questions about deceiving the producers of their😊 true intentions coming to the show.
@@Tee-Star so true. guess I’ll prepare myself for them to be dodging questions 🙄they need new hosts fr
I agree. That is IF they all show up. 😒 and if they do show up , they gotta actually ask the right questions that we all wanna ask !
No it’s not. They NEVER ask the real questions
@@OhLookYouFoundCristalinatook the words right out of my mouth!
Brittany should’ve just dressed up as a dolphin. Love is Dolphins 😂😂😂😂😂
Aahhhhhh 😭🤣💀
😂😂😂
You should have your own check mark!!
😅😅😅
🤣😂🤣😆
Kenneth pulled an uno reverse and had us SHOOK SHEK SHOCKED🤦🏾♀️
I was confused and shocked 😭
No fr, the gaslighting threw me for a loop👀
Something about that union never felt right for me from the beginning.
Got whiplash…still got my neck brace on over his shenanigans 😩
He got outted by his cousin… he ain’t straight yall 😂
If a man breaks up an engagement with me and tells me to hug me cause there’s “no beef” I’m flipping the table, I’m flipping the entire table!!!.
Don't give him the satisfaction. Narcs want your hurt reaction. They relish in it.
That in itself is what's starting the beef for me 😂
For real tho! Like tf is that!
Jessie you're so fine 😍😍😍😍. This dress on you. The colour, the fit of it... Your skin, your makeup. Omg. You ate this look. Stunning.
I feel like Clay has never been in a serious relationship and it shows.
I feel the same way, he thinks cheating is hereditary
@@cynthiawallace7108 FACTS.
Chelsea is INSUFFERABLE!!! Her scenes are actually painful to watch 😂
Jimmy better run for his life! She makes my stomach hurt not in a good way.
INSUFFERABLE!!!!
Insufferable you hear me!
Chelsea’s whining is = to Micah’s ‘Like’ every 5 seconds for me. It’s unbearable. 🫠
I literally skip through her moments 😭
Also another thing about Ken his young af, We let his career and his voice confuse us, but his young and the way he dealt with Brittany shows his immaturity
Yes, I have learned that younger men can be mature in some aspects but eventually the immaturity shows in certain ways they handle things or inexperienced at. 🤦🏾♀️
@@dianarochelleAgree!!!
Yeah, he's one of those guys that can easily be mistaken for 30 and has been spoon fed enough church speak to 'sound' mature. Gay or not, that man is just immature. He says 'I hear you' but all he's hearing is a way to build up his uno reverse card to make it not his fault. Clay is immature as well, but at least it's on the surface. AD is walking into the red flag swinging in her face like 'aww, I can fix him'. Kenneth is worse cause the red flags are hidden under calm speech, ten dollar words, and a guy who 'looks older' than he is. And you can tell Brittany was actually trying to have a mature conversation while Ken was playing at one while internally acting like a two year old yelling 'not my fault, it's your fault'.
We did not. He was giving Tyler Perry from the time he spoke to Nick & Jessica. Y’all not listening 😂
I think of my brother who was extremely kind and thoughtful as a teen so refuse to let age be an excuse for how cold some dude is in his twenties to someone just cause they're not attracted to them
I have never felt this bad for yt womens...smh. Kenneth was absolutely horrendous to that girl, and she was actually innocent. What a cold-hearted piece of work. It's ok girl you dodged a bullet.
Jimmy saying he needs a breather from their sex too 😮😮😮😮 😂😂😂 i had to pause the show for a good minute to recover
Jimmy was never attracted to Chelsea 🤷🏾♀️
😂😂😂 yesss
Him wanting a breather from sex made me laugh too 😂😂
When Jess says “as soon as my d.ck sees you it goes 😴” I was dying.
It had me CRYING how this girl is in shambles, and he’s like “well since we’re on the topic, i might as well top it off”😭😭😭
You would too if it was desperate needy sex too 🤮🤢
😂😂😂I screamed
This show proves that for the most part love is NOT blind. Once they see each other and once they engage in each other lives it’s a wrap
The birth control conversation between Amy and Johnny threw me off because…can’t he just use condoms?? He kept saying that he didn’t wanna put all the responsibility on her but that’s exactly what he was doing. And then him being in the airport with Jess…chile 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
I guess he was saying it’s not 100% effective but honestly nothing really is…🤷🏾♀️🙃
They were there bc of the reunion. Kinetic Content picks their flights. They're not romantically together
Forget what the father thinks. They aren't going to work over birth control. They have turned the whole topic into a physics problem.
@@MsMojo014yeah it just seemed like it was an excuse for them to not be intimate. Smh no one is serious this season
It’s givin he had one too many pregnancy scares, but he most def’ly is pressuring her. He even gave the gurl an ultimatum talm bout they wouldn’t be able to get married down at the alter. I would’ve been like, “Oh ok ✌🏿 “
I hate how some unpigmented people online think that AD isn't getting "dragged" enough for potentially planting the race issues in Kenneth's mind and ruining the relationship with Brittany. Like, Kenneth isn't a grown ass man with his own thoughts and opinions? Somehow, AD is solely to blame for his switch up? Stop it! 😒
UNPIGMENTED 😂😂😂😂😂
“Unpigmented”
I’m stealing that. And No. Kenneth is just gay and went on this show for no reason. That’s all. AD needs to get dragged for other reasons. She had that conversation out of love
Unfortunately I saw more blk women being annoyed with it. Like huh? Let’s not coddle these grown ass men PLEASE!
Kenneth used that as an escape lol
Jessica, you did say something was off from day one with Kenneth but you weren’t sure yet! Your instinct is on point 😩🤣😂
I sure did!!!
Omg and I was not getting gay vibes from clay but after this episode I see it I really was here for them as a couple 😫😫
I hear you girl.. life without men is peace and FREEDOM. It’s probably the best time to date yet still.. I love my life ❤
Ugh! Chelsea is insufferable!!!! She needs to heal those insecurities. Her needy expectations are based off what will make her feel secure that he loves her yet she’s not even secure with/loving herself. GIRL!
No no he needs to be honest with her and tell her he's not really attracted to her and stop lying to her she knows he really doesn't love her and that's why she's acting out. Just tell her the truth you don't want anything to do with her
@@thyjohnson123 Absolutely, I agree that he should be honest with her. Forcing a situation is not healthy. He’s trying to avoid being the bad guy but it’s too late. Unfortunately the clips make her look unstable and him just being a guy, but we all can read between the lines.
Chelsea displayed her insecurities long before the engagement. She admittedly said she didn’t expect to be treated the way she was treated by the men in the pods and shared her past hurt with men not being nice to her. She’s not healed from that hurt and still acts as if she’s unworthy. Women (some) know when a man is not into them even when a man is acting like he is. She shouldn’t have to force desired behaviors. As the saying goes, “If he wanted to, he would.” She needs to just call him out and let it go. They’re both forcing it.
She reminds me of myself as a teenager but 10 times worse. She needs serious help and should not be on this show. Or dating in general.
Ugly though? "Shaped like a cereal box, and then you got that brick forehead"...harsh. The reason I say, only go on this show if you are a 10. Body, face, everything. Or else the Internet will tear you apart. Sad.
@@thyjohnson123yes I don’t know why people are acting like Chelsea doesn’t actually have a reason to be insecure
Kenneth completely gaslit Brittany. I want to see what he has to say at the reunion. He said “you better not question the status of our relationship every time something you don’t like happens” only to abruptly change the status of the relationship by the end of the convo. And waking her up at 1:30 in the morning and blaming her for not being affectionate at that hour? You’re delusional. No sir. 🙅🏾♀️
The switch up with him gave me whiplash
Yeah it was disgusting, I was even more disgusted people were ok with his bs behavior
I want to see his take on seeing himself gaslighting her. Their whole connection was cringing for me.
🖐
On a different video, I wrote on Jessie's page that Kenneth was not what he appeared to be. His feelings for Brittany felt forced.
Trevor really had us in the first half. He really had the nice guy persona to a T! 😂
This helps me understand why many women are just fine being alone and depending on themselves. 😞😒
Right? Just focusing on my life. Every guy that comes in ends up being a nuisance, and I will waste no more than 3 months. I know by then if it is worth my time.
@@mevolutionarybylizexactly, I’ve never had a man come into my life and improve anything so why stress myself out? It’s not worth it just to say that I have a man.
@@Electra9797emphasis on never had a man come into MY life and do that….always us Women doing it. Smh.
That’s what I’ve come to! Sometimes it I think about it sadly… but overall I’m much happier and content with ME
Kenneth's antics was definitely a plot twist and I think I'm done with LIB after this season...I can't anymore
Girl!!! You know you will be back next season.
I said the same thing after that horrendous Houston season 5.😂😂( I live in Houston)
Girrlll I say that every season but that FOMO pulls me back into this toxic show 😅😩😂😂😂😭😭
If you can't stand lib you'll definitely not last 5mins watching the new season of ready to love🤣🤣🤣
His switch up gave me whiplash. This has happened to me before and gave me PTSD.
I’m walking after reunion, sis. I’m done too
Kenneth is a definite example of how majority of black men act in a relationship from the start of this process with Brittany to the end seeing their whole relationship start out so well and then how he gaslight her and gave her the cold shoulder out of nowhere def triggered me 😭
My first husband did that too and he’s white.
A man who tells you to look to God rather than him for satisfaction is a whole mess cause you know he won't take responsibility for any of his own actions or what he can do differently
46:17 😅😅😅
@@nickoletcampbell4657 he’s trying to hard…he doesn’t know what he wants.
💯
Chelsea takes zero responsibility for her actions, feelings or thoughts. She crosses Jimmy's fragile boundaries all the time and this guy WOW like seriously where do you draw the line?
The phrase ''she weaponizes her sadness and insecurity'' (paraphrasing) is exactly what I noticed, too. That is manipulation and that is extreme toxic femininity. I hope this man RUNS far and fast.
I peeped that from her too. The way she explodes when Jimmy says something that triggers her insecurity 😬. They are not going to last
I also think in a way she could be boasting about these things she desires in a partner so bad that it could come around & bite her in the butt like it did Raven unfortunately.
Raven from s3 got a new Beau last year I believe & he checked off alllllll her boxes. When I say all of them I mean literally the way she stated she wanted love (due to her being on the show/interviews) - he love bombed her & did it; legit the day they met he approached her & word for word stated how she said she wanted someone to do it.
So Chelsea needs to stop trying to make Jimmy love her the way she expects it bc it will never be authentic going forward the way she’s trying to ‘build’ him to be (or anyone in the future).
Side note: The way I beam with pride every time Jessie breaks out the Kwéyòl (creole) and I can understand every word!!! 🇱🇨🇭🇹❤❤❤
Is it hard to learn without Duolingo though?
@kimmyw010 I don't know...I've always understood it, and knew how to speak it fluently ever since I was a child. As an adult, I downloaded the Saint Lucian Kwéyòl Dictionary app, just so that I could learn to write it properly, and that was very helpful, but easy for me, since I already knew how to speak it. I couldn't tell you whether it would be easy or not if starting from scratch tho.
@kimmyw010 on the flip side, it is AWESOME that you are making the effort to learn it. Being bilingual is so cool lol
@@kimmyw010chile I gave up on Haitian Duolingo. I’m tired of fish eatin bread.
@@Okra_winfrey WHAT??? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
AD and her mums relationship beautiful probably highlight of this show at the moment she is a wonderful Mum ❤❤❤
AD's adlibs is giving😂😂😂
She is here for the screen time😂😂
She's playing the game 😂😂
Exactly! She does not like that man lol she got the ick a long time ago & is just sticking around.
@shylandethomas7381 I be cracking up
All I hear is yah
Mmhmm
Right
Yah😂😂😂
She ain't as dumb as she plays
@salutemimi81 I scream at the tv like gurl tell that man to shut up. Always gotta story. Could've said the sky is blue, he would've turned it around like my dad took me sky diving with one of his gfs and I never felt love from the wind on the way down. Like bruh go see someone😂plzzz
@@empressleesa2252😂😂😂😂😂
@@empressleesa2252 😂😂
Didn’t they just film the reunion in LA over the weekend? If yes, Johnny and Jess being in the same airport at the same time isn’t as strange as people are making it out to be. They could’ve been on the same flight and we saw 0 PDA.
Agreed.
@@mayabasquinyou nean Jimmy?
@@angelmushahfIt was Johnny, actually
Not the ‘blood transformation’ Jessie! You are hilarious 😂 😂
I screamed 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
lmaooo
I’m crying 😂😂😂😂😂
With Clay what really killed me was he kept saying I don’t wanna disappoint you or cheat on you to AD I was like okay so don’t??? Like don’t you have control of yourself and your actions? If this is something you’re questioning why are you tryna marry anyone????
The minute Clay said his dad was Guyanese and a cheater I feel like i understood another layer of Clay. I still need AD to run though. I recognize a chaotic Caribbean man that will never commit to you when I see one.
Off script,... but Clay's father looks good 🙂
@@chikFromMTLyou and me both that old gent is Fine❤
Been waiting for this review cause Kenneth is a MENACE 😅
That he is
You killed that Carrie Underwood song 🔥 This season is mess upon mess
She definitely did. I would love an album of covers from her cause she kills it when she sings Celine Dion ❤️
@@chloeg7353I literally said the same when Jess broke out into more songs I’m like hold on we should’ve been asked for a album full of covers. 😅
Glad to see we’re all here on time ❤
AMEN
I feel like this show turned into watching people who kinda maybe like each other pretending to love each other so much that they want to marry each other. There seems to be so much of them trying to convince themselves, and us as the audience, that they actually like/ love/ wanna marry each other.
yesss! now everyone out here just for their 15 minutes! none of these relationships are authentic.
This season of love is blind has been an example of what men will do when they don’t want to have the real conversation that they are just not that into you.
AD couldn't even get his jacket when she was cold or him to carry the flowers. Y'all better pay attention
To be completely honest I think Ken is part of the Lbgtq community too. At first i thought it was about her being white, because he was happier bout clay and Ad's relationship but nah he likes man, i feel strongly bout this lol. But however he treated that girl like dirt. That gaslighting was epic...
You and me both .. I said hmm sir is definitely teetering
@@yaasupreme8080 bruh that man is sweeter than sugar
Yea I agree. I think he's part of the lgbtq that gaslighting was cold blooded
I agree with this message!!! I was literally the same way I thought at first like oooo he wanted black love but tthhheennn the way he was talking at times it was giving a little suga in his tank… and the moment I accepted that he is gay his actions started to make complete sense to me
Apparently his cousin outed him. Not sure if it's true or not😂
Everything about Clay reminds me of Lil Nas X. From the first time I saw him, and then the fact that Jessie brings it up too just has me CTFU😂😂😂
Exactly
I definitely thought he was wearing eyeliner. I was like , “okay then”. I know some men are into that rock star look. 😂
@@jv_25_4eva IKR?!?! Just a damn shame smh
Brittany was trying to be politically correct with all that identify business.😆
Yeah I just took it as she was uncomfortable and tried to throw in some extra PC words to show she understood the gravity of the conversation
She was also on camera and probably treading carefully so she didn’t get cancelled. But really, her man just needs to identify as gay man. Lol but let’s be clear, it was 2nd hand embarrassment that she described herself that way. But let’s be even clearrerererrrr, she woulda loved that man through the rest of their lives because she fn loved him. Broke our hearts. 💕
Idk why most people don’t see it but AD don’t like Clay either lol! She is mentally checked out from the man & I truly think she’s just hanging on to the end but she’ll say no.
Agreed. She was over it. Probably came on the show for the same reason as the others - fame/followers. You see how she was desperately clinging to Matt and then switched up and easily forgave Clay. She wants the Lauren Speed treatment, but when you think about it most of the contestants from this show won't have the same level of fame as S1's Cameron and Lauren.
Wrong. She says yes at the altar and he says no
@@leahg1424 I think she was clinging on to Matt because he seemed closed off and he appeared to only open up to her. She didn’t realize he was actually manipulative. But I think this show has run its course damn near all of the men have been exposed in some way it’s all for TV now they don’t actually care for the experiment.
@@Victoriousvibes222 Oop! Where you hear that?
Agreed
Just here to shout out the musical selections for this video:
We got a little country with Carrie.
We got the African hymnal, a Jessie original.
We got Free Willy with some MJ shoulder bops. 😂
& don’t forget the Netflix original , “Nothing Left To Say” 🤣
@@wanderingromancelmaoooo 1:46:12 I literally was on this part when reading this comment 😭😭🤭
Time stamp for free Willy please 😂
@@plumpnfit it’s at around 1:31:30 🤣
*IGBO HYMNAL love 😅
Honestly, Kenneth disturbs me so bad of all the men. IRRITATING MY SOUL. He better not come to the reunion.
😂😂😂😂😂
ISTGGG !!!
Nah he needs to come to the reunion I’m tired of the worst offenders trying to get off easy by ghosting the reunion
@@zt7961Same! Show up like an adult
That whole Clay section round 50 mins there had me screaminggggggg cause tell me why I remember that “Period, right” moment and felt something inside me and Jess has articulated the words for me perfectly. Like sirrrrrr, do you like womens?? Lol and AD? Are you in the room with us? Girlllll, are you there??
Sis I dont even watch the show. I seen a few clips of the show from tiktok after Jess's first review of the show and I clocked him
I feel like the only time I’ve really seen a straight-up straight dude say that is if they’re joking/playing around w/ their gf like being silly or making fun of (in a joking way) things we say as Women. Or doing a skit or sumn. Bc baby I don’t even hear Todd Chrisley talk like that & he is _very_ metro sexual 😅.
Jessie, I’ve been following your commentary and breakdowns on these Netflix dumpster fire shows for a while, and I find your takes so entertaining and accurate. I also love your voice and spontaneous bursting into song!
Your read on Chelsea and her disturbing antics was on point! I’m not a licensed psychiatrist, psychologist, behavior analyst, or relationship guru, but her behavior looks/sounds like BPD to the letter. The pedestal she repeatedly puts Jimmy on to then tear him down when he doesn’t follow the script she has in her head, the black and white thinking, the emotional instability and rollercoaster she’s making him ride - he needs to run, not walk. Run. I won’t be surprised when he breaks those eggshells and she resorts to physical aggression.
Jess you make this world better. Salt of the earth. I go through horrific depression and watching you makes me happy and inspires me.
Thank you for acknowledging how Hispanics are 🤣
Everyone is giving Amy a hard time for saying she can’t get married without her fathers approval but tbh that’s our culture.
Also I’m 31 and have never once been on birth control lol
When Jessie said Brittany should have dressed up like a dolphin 😂😂😂
My husband is melanin deficient, I had to teach him to not wear shoes in the house, not to place luggage on the bed, and to not jump in our bed with outside clothes on. I didn’t know how common this was…
Also you are looking amazingly gorgeous!!
That's insane 😢. You're a good wife. I'd have been screaming 😱 😂🤣🤣🤣
Melanin what???
I BAWLLLLL@@olaidesemiat
This finna be me and my future husband 😂😂😂
@@olaidesemiatlol man of no color
Sooooo accurate about clay. I was trying to tell my friends he doesn’t find AD attractive. He only likes her body and he wants to date a motherly figure. Clay is the type to weaponize therapy discourse
Jimmy's girlfriends said he's clingy. So is not that Chelsea is, but that he doesn't like her. Which is very clear. And would make anyone insecure. He will reject her and they say "oh, no.. I do want you." Chelsea is cringe and clingy. But it isn't like her insecurities have no reason
I feel like Clay is using his dad's infidelity as an excuse. Just cause your parents were one way doesn't mean you have to end up the same way. It's a cop out! Take yo a** to therapy and do better!
The way I watch Jessie Woo I swear this is an addiction. Is there crack up on this channel!?
Chelsea is unhinged especially when she says it made me sad!! I’m like girl, get lost!
HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHA!!!!
My husband Bahamian and he would definitely order soup at the beach. Soup his favorite food 😂😂😂 Caribbeans love them some soup
This is comment I was looking for, because I definitely seen people eating soup at the beach growing up 😂
That’s North Carolina for you. The whites are like that in Raleigh too.
Clay was trying to give AD so many outs but she’s a red flag collector.
Love is Dolphins has me CACKLING! NOOOO 😂😂😂😂😂
Yes I thought I was the only one who noticed Laura talking “black” lol😂
Kenneth said “now gimme a hug so you know it’s no beef”
💁🏿♂️🤳🏿🫳🏿👨🏿🦯✌🏿🤣😭
P😂
It’s the wrist for me 😂
It was the walk off for me 👀🤭
I swear when he did that I was like Wth is wrong with this man, and she literally was breaking down while he walked off was crazy
You harmonizing with that song TOOK ME TF OUT😂😂😂 I can’t
I truly hope AD is still here on some 'Im just here so I dont get fined' type of ish while taking mental notes and waiting to dip on the wedding day. I have faith in her and she better not let me down
Or we bout to be like ANTM Tyra mode “we were all rooting for you!!!” 🤭
I thought that might be the case. But then the episode when she spoke with her mom had me seriously concerned 😟
I wasn't mad at brittany saying she "identifies as a white woman". I feel like she was just trying to be culturally sensitive.
SAME 😌
I just want to say this was worth the wait! Jess your discernment and insight is off the charts. I love hearing your view on EVERYTHING! Please make sure to unplug when necessary cos you are doing so much that sometimes I worry for your well being. Be sure to replenish your beautiful self. We're not going anywhere cos again you ARE WORTH THE WAIT!!! ❤❤❤
The day Jessie says she is done reviewing Love is Blind, I will be done too
Ok you ATE that before he cheats cover!!!
Right country is her thing
i’m the same way with birth control, i haven’t taken it in like 10 years. it can have so many adverse effects, and my cycle is very healthy and consistent and i do not wanna mess with that and my natural state of hormones and what not if i do not have to. and thankfully i’m in a relationship where i don’t have to worry about that!
Seester the reason why Jeremy got all the silverware is because HE WAS IN A WHOLE RELATIONSHIP & ENGAGED TO A SINGLE MOM before the show 🥴 I would raise my eyebrows too as a woman
As a single lesbian, I confirm that you can be a mother without being with a man. It's 2024. Everything is possible girl. You don't need a relationship or a partner. If being a mother is your calling, you can make it happen.
Yikes
Kind of selfish
How do you know your child doesn’t want a father?
I know someone in this situation and the daughter is always asking why she doesn’t have a dad like everyone else.
I absolutely agree!
@@WistleWhileYouTwerkyeah I hate this mentality too. 2 parent homes are such a key foundation, but, hey men are trash these days. I choose to just bypass motherhood cause I’m not putting myself through the stress of a two person job in today’s world where I gotta teach or protect my child from sooooo much shit just cause these men (who were probably raised by single mothers) admire and aspire to be Diddy (of all ppl). FOH, I’ll be a mom in another life.
Naa these reviews are funny af and sooo real! I appreciate them so much 😩
Your voice child is so beautiful I love when you sing Jessie 🔥🔥🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥 the harmonies! At the end! 🎶 “.there nothing left to say….”
I'm crying from laughing so hard. Your Love Is Blind recaps keep getting better and better. The "There's Nothing Left to Say" musical interlude just killed me. 😂
Girl, drop your makeup routine! Like, please fr!
Was I the only one cringing at Kenneth and Brittney using the word “crave”? Am I trippin😂😂
😂
😂😂no because why do wanna crave??
I don't watch these shows, but Jessie is the ultimate storyteller!!!!!😄😄💕💕💃🏽
52:31 someone on IG said Chelsea looks like Natalie Nunn and I can’t unsee it. Chile choose your friends wisely 😂
Love is Blind Brazil is where it’s at, even Sweden was cool.. Check it out please Jessie, it has me wondering if it’s the U.S, these men don’t want marriage, it’s hard to find what’s not out there..
Same!!!! I’ve stopped watching U.S. LIB and have opted to watch the foreign installments starting with Japan. So much better!!! Then I watched Sweden then finally Brazil lol. I like them way better. I stopped watching the U.S. version after what happened with that girl that accused the goofy young dude of saying stuff to her that he never said. It became too much smh.
Yup I watch LIB Brazil, done with USA LIB
I’m just so glad your reviews be on the right side. I’ve heard people coddle clay and Kenneth and blame AD, and I’m just like ‘???’ It’s clear as day, clay and ken were coming on here to find beards. Nothing more nothing less.
😂😂😂
Everyone been talking about Kenneth being gay but Clay makes so much sense now that you broke it down 😂
I ran that “there’s nothing left to say” back so many times - as PHENOMENAL as this review is, I love when you hit us with the vocals!
you are the ONLY other person who picked up on what I picked up on with Clay. I got that vibe as I listened to him talk and watched his mannerism. I feel it!
This is your best reaction so far, I laughed so hard, and I don't even like dating shows. I watched this for you and you did not disappoint.
As soon as you said Chelsea seems like the kind of person that would stab you then cry I immediately realised who she actually looks like….the actress that plays Love Quinn in‘You’
Yesssss
I see it but chelsea big forehead and nunn chin keep screwing her over mann
Yessss! Now THAT is more accurate!!
How dare you… Love Quinn was fine.. how dare you compare off brand Megan Fox to LOVE???
@@DaintyAbby Chelsea is not ugly. She’s a good looking girl. Not Megan fox but she definitely has those crazy eyes
Chelsea is the type that will smother you, emotionally manipulate you, and then call you a gas-lighting narcissist. 🙄
AD wanted to be on TV too yall. She knew what Clay was about lol
Kenneth triggered me so bad .. he didn't have to embarrass us on black history month
Every time I see Chelsea and Jimmy, I shout at the screen, "Run Jimmy run" 😂😂