Yeah Im an Enfp, I've always noticed like I couldn't get any good info on sensing types. Its like these description were made from people who didn't have friends. Like dang, everyone go something interesting / worthwhile about them. I always found ISTPs to be really fascinating but really slept on.
Hell yeah bro 💯 appreciate the feedback. and you right infj is frequently talked about in the community and I get it’s always a relevant topic to discuss , especially with the stuff that make others don’t feel as special , we all equal and unique , God made it that way. Its rare to be a “healthy” type in general. I’d say majority of ppl who even consider themselves to know a lot , are still unlearning a lot of toxic shit , we all are to some degree , unless any of us is perfect. There’s always room for growth , if we open to it 💯 Blessings man
Hello sir ☺️. I just recently discovered your channel and I am glad I did. I honestly agree with everything you have said so far. I have taken the test and checking my functions, I am an INFJ. I hope you don't mind reading about my experience (this will be quite long). Thank you ☺️. I discovered MBTI through RUclips and decided to take the test after realising that I related to a lot of the qualities I saw about my type ( like feeling other people's feelings, having this gut feeling that someone or something is off, being called weird, being too emotional for logical people and too logical for emotional people, being the therapist friend lol, etc.) then took the test. I felt happy that I wasn't the only one who felt like that.I watched a lot of videos about my type and felt nice being told there was nothing wrong with me but I began to notice something. Nearly EVERY video seems to be about INFJs and nearly always, we were being praised. I'm just a 17 year old girl and may not know much but I do know that there is something off about always being praised and almost never hearing criticism. I also noticed how there weren't many stuff about other types, mainly sensors. I regularly watch MBTI meme videos from channels like XUANNY and MBTIMeme and some memes are highly stereotypical. It looks like if you aren't an analyst or INFJ, you're dumb, especially sensors. And so many INFJs agreed on that. After a while, I decided to start checking out other types and my oh my! INFJs are literally EVERYWHERE and a lot of them trash on the other types (mainly ISTPs, ENTJs, ESTPs, ESTJs, ESFJs, ENFJs and INTJs), calling them toxic and narcissistic and cold and dumb and other mean stuff but hate on people who give constructive criticism about our type (and we claim we're open-minded). Some also say that an INFJ should never be in a relationship with certain types because of their personal experiences, which I find wrong and saddening. A lot brag about certain stuff that are apparently "INFJ qualities". Like door slamming people knowing people's intentions before they speak or the death stare and being the rarest type. I can door slam but it's not something I brag about. I am not a telepathic goddess sent from heaven but rather a 17 year old girl trying to learn about life. The death stare is useful at times but I do my best to look gentle because I want the person to feel safe. And what is so special about being rare? Rarity isn't always a good thing. This even increases the chances of being misunderstood. So many videos and "life coaches" tell us what we like to hear, not what we need to hear so it makes us feel special and that feeling of being understood can turn into wanting and needing more external validation than needed. We truly have a higher chance of exhibiting symptoms of narcissism ( I don't want to throw the term around because I've researched Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and realised people just throw the term around without fully knowing about it). Plus, we are sensitive to criticism which is why many get offended even though it is said we like the truth and therefore like thinking types. Also, whenever someone talks about their bad experiences with INFJs, it's always either the person's fault or the supposedly INFJ is a mistype ( either INFP or ISFJ), reinforcing this ideology that INFJs are always good and the victims of other types. It could obviously be true in certain circumstances but the way many seem to speak says otherwise. I decided to watch videos on other types and they are so fascinating. I also try seeing the experiences some had with INFJs and they are interesting. I like them because I want to know how everyone thinks so that I won't cause trouble ( like knowing how some prefer acts of service and some prefer words of affirmation). I just feel so bad for the other types being looked down upon, especially sensors. Just because none of you complain doesn't mean it has to be so. I think people shouldn't base feelings for someone off personality types. I think everyone can get along as there is mutual understanding, respect and maturity. We are all capable of great good or great evil, regardless of personality. We can all learn from one another and grow to become better. At least, that's what I want. I love every type but I am directing this at ISTPs. You may not be quite liked by others but I love your honesty and way of thinking. There are some rude ones that call rudeness being "blunt" but I know genuinely good ones that mean no harm and are actually trying to help. That's really sweet of you all. I admire how you're calm and keep it real. Also, I know it's not always you're calm, you have feelings too and can feel burnt out but keep pushing. I have faith in you all! 🤗 I sincerely apologise for all the negativity and bad image placed on all the types and any wrong ideologies about you all. You're all amazing. Words of affirmation may not be some of y'all thing, but that's what I can give. Again, thank you for reading this essay. I'll be sure to subscribe. Have a nice day everyone 👋🏾 -INFJ(T)
Thanks for your input. Also I’m glad you brought up how people overuse the word narcissistic without truly knowing what it means because I say the same thing often. Like what happened to people just being assholes? Now everyone who does something someone doesn’t like they’re a narcissist. I also find the people who call everyone a narcissist tend to be more narcissistic than most of the people they claim are narcissists. But really npd isn’t common. But thanks for understanding
Thank you for actually reading all of what I said. I really appreciate it ☺️ and I'm glad you agree with what I said about NPD. Please make more videos about the types. I subscribed by the way 😁
I've always considered myself to be the least interesting type when I discovered that i was INFJ. It was never even my intention to gain self- esteem through this typological system, i was just trying to find out what I was most suitable for as a career. It was also used as a tool for my own personal growth and evolution. I will say this, though : INFPs can be just as susceptible to being narcissistic ; they are just more covert . I attempted to correct a couple of them on an NF group, concerning the cognitive functions , and received emotional backlash. You would think that i was assassinating their characters. One the members blocked me 😂 . The internet age has made narcissist out of many people. I
Interesting take. I bet they can be narcissistic. And yea man you can try to tell some of them about functions too and they don’t wanna hear it. They don’t want to put in real time and work to understand it it’s just a trend to them. And yea I mean all of the types are interesting you’re not supposed to look at it like that anyway. Supposed to remain somewhat detached.
People call infjs snowflakes but honestly, we take criticism well imo. We do have a myriad of other problems that noone talks about or even straight up lie about. A lot of these stereotypes of Infjs being sensitive (in terms of their self worth ) and being way too nice, I genuinely think these are mistyped NP types. Infjs I've noticed can be very rude and also...not smart or able to plan and figure out their future. A lot of their premonitions are just paranoias, which hey, works for us. No we aren't super patient we are actually extremely impatient. Organized? maybe...it depends on your MENTAL HEALTH. The somber and poetic vibe with saint-like lack of movement and "stillness" that's associated with Infjs BELONGS TO INFPs. We are Se users, Se last at that...it makes you frantically move around a bit, sitting still is difficult, even with our eyes...the movements are gonna be rapid and ones indicating wanting to escape the current situation. I hate how Si/Ne dull eyes of zoning out or disinterest are told as "inxj stare"...nah.
Interesting. Yea I’ve definitely criticized a few INFJs in real life before more like as a tough love thing and I was surprised at how well they took it. Kind of like before when I talked about how criticism hurts an INFJs feelings but at the same time they seem to kind of like being criticized or something. lol like when I did it it seemed like they liked me more. Maybe I was the first to tell them
Hello sir, Would you consider making a video on ISTP's morality from your experience. I have an unclear picture about ISTP's morality. I've heard that they can adopt the morality of whatever group they're with. Is this a phase when they're young? What about ISTP'S rebellion? Is it real for all ISTPs?
If an ISTP adopts the morality of the group it’s probably temporary. Like if we value the group we are in and it feels like family we’ll use a little of that Fe to do what we need to do to stay in the group but it’s genuinely because none of the groups morals conflict with our own. And yea ISTPs rebellion usually as a direct way to rebel against Fe. And not all ISTPs are rebellious but all ISTPs do become rebellious in some way at some point. Like me for example I didn’t get into a lot of trouble at school really but it was only because I liked most of my teachers and sports kept me sane. I had an ISTP friend who on the other hand didn’t play sports so he was constantly getting suspended and expelled for dumb stuff. I could make a video on this though. Been busy lately
What i have seen is a lot of the type videos are people taking the info others put out and claim it as their own. Many i can go to the original video and see exactly who it came from. Original thought is rare these days…
Why he so mad and hangry? Ha! Just kidding, cause you said you tired, needed food : ) I pop in from time to time, I think I get where you're coming from, a good place. Pretty easy to see that. I appreciate your insights. I cannot! find any fresh infj videos anymore, this platform has gone to hell(not your channel) Three years ago I could find real infjs all day long, speaking my language. now it's all phony empty calories, commercialized McCrap, if you don't mind me saying. Just candid sharing is so hard to find, they're burying all the content. Anyway, I like your vibe, no sharp corners, and no posing . . . And It's always reassuring to feel understood by other types, so thanks for your contributions. Guess my type, ha not even gonna say : ) Have a good one buddy.
Thanks man. Yea like there definitely isn’t as much variety in general. Just harder to find the real deep stuff. Either it’s not pushed on the yt algorithm or the people who made them end up deleting their channels
From my understanding real INFJs and INTJs have Se in their 4th slot which means that they aspire to power and influence. Se is your tool function so influence and power would happen seamlessly for you and since it is your tool function you can effectively teach others using it because you had to develop it and you use it more responsibly than an Se dom. Could that be a reason for some resentment. Also, many people have mistyped themselves as INFJs so people who might respond negatively to your INFJ content might not be INFJs in the first place so it's best to ignore them. I don't know if as an Se user It might be hard for you to ignore it since I know Se is about action. As an Infp ignoring dumb stuff that is not relevant is my go to approach since I have Se polr. Btw, I don't know any ISTPs in real life but the high level of intelligence that ISTPs have fascinates me especially with your Ti function which goes in depth and your ability to figure out how physical stuff works-- which is difficult for me. It's pretty cool because you are what we need in emergency situations.
Yep you’re correct. Low Se makes them go about acquiring that power in corrupt ways at times. And yea some of those false INFJs are crazy too. Like they got something mentally wrong. I sometimes get annoyed when people say things that lack so much common sense and logic. I think it’s my Ti because I’m aware of how idiotic it is and people try to make it seem like it makes perfect sense.
Bro, the best advice I can give you. Speak on other personalities for a bit. Cool off. I say this as an INFJ that just came across this video. I understand the point of the what’s is happening on RUclips and personality types. Too much crap. But let me say this much and hope you understand- In a weird way, INFJ have become the face or representation of MBTI on this platform. Because of the quirkiness and also positives of the personality. Many fans of MBTI have becomes defacto INFJ fans. So if it seems you are being surrounded by it, this is why. I doubt most INFJs are spending their time worrying about what you have to say. They are probably like me, observing the world and subjects around them and are trying to figure out what’s it all means. Occasionally jumping on here and searching this stuff. If all they do is watch INFJ is unhealthy as hell to begin with. 🤷♂️ But like anything in life- this too shall pass. Take care. Don’t let this bump take too much of your time and energy. You can tell you are thinking about it too much. Is nothing. Forget a few and move on. Take care man.
Yea I get it. It’s really just hard to get views on anything else too. I’ll experiment with some. And I did have plans for other ones. The INFJ vids do help my channel quite a bit. In general I just need to upload more often really though
You're not a hater, you seem like one of the nicest guys 👌Nice and smart 😊 Spill the tea my Ti-Fe Se-Ni brother!
Thanks.
Yeah Im an Enfp, I've always noticed like I couldn't get any good info on sensing types. Its like these description were made from people who didn't have friends. Like dang, everyone go something interesting / worthwhile about them. I always found ISTPs to be really fascinating but really slept on.
It’s like they’re trying to make people forget about sensing types and their true strengths
Hell yeah bro 💯 appreciate the feedback. and you right infj is frequently talked about in the community and I get it’s always a relevant topic to discuss , especially with the stuff that make others don’t feel as special , we all equal and unique , God made it that way.
Its rare to be a “healthy” type in general. I’d say majority of ppl who even consider themselves to know a lot , are still unlearning a lot of toxic shit , we all are to some degree , unless any of us is perfect. There’s always room for growth , if we open to it 💯
Blessings man
Definitely. More stuff coming soon And thanks
Hello sir ☺️. I just recently discovered your channel and I am glad I did. I honestly agree with everything you have said so far. I have taken the test and checking my functions, I am an INFJ. I hope you don't mind reading about my experience (this will be quite long). Thank you ☺️.
I discovered MBTI through RUclips and decided to take the test after realising that I related to a lot of the qualities I saw about my type ( like feeling other people's feelings, having this gut feeling that someone or something is off, being called weird, being too emotional for logical people and too logical for emotional people, being the therapist friend lol, etc.) then took the test. I felt happy that I wasn't the only one who felt like that.I watched a lot of videos about my type and felt nice being told there was nothing wrong with me but I began to notice something.
Nearly EVERY video seems to be about INFJs and nearly always, we were being praised. I'm just a 17 year old girl and may not know much but I do know that there is something off about always being praised and almost never hearing criticism. I also noticed how there weren't many stuff about other types, mainly sensors. I regularly watch MBTI meme videos from channels like XUANNY and MBTIMeme and some memes are highly stereotypical. It looks like if you aren't an analyst or INFJ, you're dumb, especially sensors. And so many INFJs agreed on that. After a while, I decided to start checking out other types and my oh my!
INFJs are literally EVERYWHERE and a lot of them trash on the other types (mainly ISTPs, ENTJs, ESTPs, ESTJs, ESFJs, ENFJs and INTJs), calling them toxic and narcissistic and cold and dumb and other mean stuff but hate on people who give constructive criticism about our type (and we claim we're open-minded). Some also say that an INFJ should never be in a relationship with certain types because of their personal experiences, which I find wrong and saddening.
A lot brag about certain stuff that are apparently "INFJ qualities". Like door slamming people knowing people's intentions before they speak or the death stare and being the rarest type. I can door slam but it's not something I brag about. I am not a telepathic goddess sent from heaven but rather a 17 year old girl trying to learn about life. The death stare is useful at times but I do my best to look gentle because I want the person to feel safe. And what is so special about being rare? Rarity isn't always a good thing. This even increases the chances of being misunderstood.
So many videos and "life coaches" tell us what we like to hear, not what we need to hear so it makes us feel special and that feeling of being understood can turn into wanting and needing more external validation than needed. We truly have a higher chance of exhibiting symptoms of narcissism ( I don't want to throw the term around because I've researched Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and realised people just throw the term around without fully knowing about it). Plus, we are sensitive to criticism which is why many get offended even though it is said we like the truth and therefore like thinking types. Also, whenever someone talks about their bad experiences with INFJs, it's always either the person's fault or the supposedly INFJ is a mistype ( either INFP or ISFJ), reinforcing this ideology that INFJs are always good and the victims of other types. It could obviously be true in certain circumstances but the way many seem to speak says otherwise.
I decided to watch videos on other types and they are so fascinating. I also try seeing the experiences some had with INFJs and they are interesting. I like them because I want to know how everyone thinks so that I won't cause trouble ( like knowing how some prefer acts of service and some prefer words of affirmation). I just feel so bad for the other types being looked down upon, especially sensors. Just because none of you complain doesn't mean it has to be so.
I think people shouldn't base feelings for someone off personality types. I think everyone can get along as there is mutual understanding, respect and maturity. We are all capable of great good or great evil, regardless of personality. We can all learn from one another and grow to become better. At least, that's what I want.
I love every type but I am directing this at ISTPs. You may not be quite liked by others but I love your honesty and way of thinking. There are some rude ones that call rudeness being "blunt" but I know genuinely good ones that mean no harm and are actually trying to help. That's really sweet of you all. I admire how you're calm and keep it real. Also, I know it's not always you're calm, you have feelings too and can feel burnt out but keep pushing. I have faith in you all! 🤗
I sincerely apologise for all the negativity and bad image placed on all the types and any wrong ideologies about you all. You're all amazing. Words of affirmation may not be some of y'all thing, but that's what I can give. Again, thank you for reading this essay. I'll be sure to subscribe. Have a nice day everyone 👋🏾
-INFJ(T)
Thanks for your input. Also I’m glad you brought up how people overuse the word narcissistic without truly knowing what it means because I say the same thing often. Like what happened to people just being assholes? Now everyone who does something someone doesn’t like they’re a narcissist. I also find the people who call everyone a narcissist tend to be more narcissistic than most of the people they claim are narcissists. But really npd isn’t common. But thanks for understanding
Thank you for actually reading all of what I said. I really appreciate it ☺️ and I'm glad you agree with what I said about NPD. Please make more videos about the types. I subscribed by the way 😁
I've always considered myself to be the least interesting type when I discovered that i was INFJ. It was never even my intention to gain self- esteem through this typological system, i was just trying to find out what I was most suitable for as a career. It was also used as a tool for my own personal growth and evolution.
I will say this, though : INFPs can be just as susceptible to being narcissistic ; they are just more covert . I attempted to correct a couple of them on an NF group, concerning the cognitive functions , and received emotional backlash.
You would think that i was assassinating their characters.
One the members blocked me 😂 .
The internet age has made narcissist out of many people.
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Interesting take. I bet they can be narcissistic. And yea man you can try to tell some of them about functions too and they don’t wanna hear it. They don’t want to put in real time and work to understand it it’s just a trend to them. And yea I mean all of the types are interesting you’re not supposed to look at it like that anyway. Supposed to remain somewhat detached.
People call infjs snowflakes but honestly, we take criticism well imo. We do have a myriad of other problems that noone talks about or even straight up lie about. A lot of these stereotypes of Infjs being sensitive (in terms of their self worth ) and being way too nice, I genuinely think these are mistyped NP types. Infjs I've noticed can be very rude and also...not smart or able to plan and figure out their future. A lot of their premonitions are just paranoias, which hey, works for us. No we aren't super patient we are actually extremely impatient. Organized? maybe...it depends on your MENTAL HEALTH.
The somber and poetic vibe with saint-like lack of movement and "stillness" that's associated with Infjs BELONGS TO INFPs. We are Se users, Se last at that...it makes you frantically move around a bit, sitting still is difficult, even with our eyes...the movements are gonna be rapid and ones indicating wanting to escape the current situation. I hate how Si/Ne dull eyes of zoning out or disinterest are told as "inxj stare"...nah.
Interesting. Yea I’ve definitely criticized a few INFJs in real life before more like as a tough love thing and I was surprised at how well they took it. Kind of like before when I talked about how criticism hurts an INFJs feelings but at the same time they seem to kind of like being criticized or something. lol like when I did it it seemed like they liked me more. Maybe I was the first to tell them
Hello sir,
Would you consider making a video on ISTP's morality from your experience.
I have an unclear picture about ISTP's morality. I've heard that they can adopt the morality of whatever group they're with. Is this a phase when they're young?
What about ISTP'S rebellion? Is it real for all ISTPs?
If an ISTP adopts the morality of the group it’s probably temporary. Like if we value the group we are in and it feels like family we’ll use a little of that Fe to do what we need to do to stay in the group but it’s genuinely because none of the groups morals conflict with our own. And yea ISTPs rebellion usually as a direct way to rebel against Fe. And not all ISTPs are rebellious but all ISTPs do become rebellious in some way at some point. Like me for example I didn’t get into a lot of trouble at school really but it was only because I liked most of my teachers and sports kept me sane. I had an ISTP friend who on the other hand didn’t play sports so he was constantly getting suspended and expelled for dumb stuff. I could make a video on this though. Been busy lately
What i have seen is a lot of the type videos are people taking the info others put out and claim it as their own. Many i can go to the original video and see exactly who it came from. Original thought is rare these days…
Yep. It’s a sign they don’t understand it as well as it seems too. Not hard to repeat information you heard somewhere else
Why he so mad and hangry?
Ha! Just kidding, cause you said you tired, needed food : )
I pop in from time to time, I think I get where you're coming from, a good place. Pretty easy to see that. I appreciate your insights. I cannot! find any fresh infj videos anymore, this platform has gone to hell(not your channel) Three years ago I could find real infjs all day long, speaking my language. now it's all phony empty calories, commercialized McCrap, if you don't mind me saying.
Just candid sharing is so hard to find, they're burying all the content. Anyway, I like your vibe, no sharp corners, and no posing . . . And It's always reassuring to feel understood by other types, so thanks for your contributions.
Guess my type, ha not even gonna say : )
Have a good one buddy.
Thanks man. Yea like there definitely isn’t as much variety in general. Just harder to find the real deep stuff. Either it’s not pushed on the yt algorithm or the people who made them end up deleting their channels
From my understanding real INFJs and INTJs have Se in their 4th slot which means that they aspire to power and influence. Se is your tool function so influence and power would happen seamlessly for you and since it is your tool function you can effectively teach others using it because you had to develop it and you use it more responsibly than an Se dom. Could that be a reason for some resentment. Also, many people have mistyped themselves as INFJs so people who might respond negatively to your INFJ content might not be INFJs in the first place so it's best to ignore them. I don't know if as an Se user It might be hard for you to ignore it since I know Se is about action. As an Infp ignoring dumb stuff that is not relevant is my go to approach since I have Se polr. Btw, I don't know any ISTPs in real life but the high level of intelligence that ISTPs have fascinates me especially with your Ti function which goes in depth and your ability to figure out how physical stuff works-- which is difficult for me. It's pretty cool because you are what we need in emergency situations.
Yep you’re correct. Low Se makes them go about acquiring that power in corrupt ways at times. And yea some of those false INFJs are crazy too. Like they got something mentally wrong. I sometimes get annoyed when people say things that lack so much common sense and logic. I think it’s my Ti because I’m aware of how idiotic it is and people try to make it seem like it makes perfect sense.
I’m an infj keep up the good work great content that’s what mbti is for want know more about esfp or esfj
I made one on ESFP actually a week or 2 ago. Gonna probably upload soon
Bro, the best advice I can give you. Speak on other personalities for a bit. Cool off.
I say this as an INFJ that just came across this video. I understand the point of the what’s is happening on RUclips and personality types. Too much crap.
But let me say this much and hope you understand-
In a weird way, INFJ have become the face or representation of MBTI on this platform. Because of the quirkiness and also positives of the personality. Many fans of MBTI have becomes defacto INFJ fans. So if it seems you are being surrounded by it, this is why.
I doubt most INFJs are spending their time worrying about what you have to say. They are probably like me, observing the world and subjects around them and are trying to figure out what’s it all means. Occasionally jumping on here and searching this stuff. If all they do is watch INFJ is unhealthy as hell to begin with. 🤷♂️
But like anything in life- this too shall pass. Take care. Don’t let this bump take too much of your time and energy. You can tell you are thinking about it too much. Is nothing. Forget a few and move on.
Take care man.
Yea I get it. It’s really just hard to get views on anything else too. I’ll experiment with some. And I did have plans for other ones. The INFJ vids do help my channel quite a bit. In general I just need to upload more often really though
@@mkingISTP yep.
Wishing you success. 👍